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Hardly.
/r/MensRights30/12/14 06:10 PM
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You're compromising on things you really don't want to... that's what's making you unhappy. Either leave or make it clear how you feel.
/r/MensRights30/12/14 05:52 PM
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If it's not your seat, it isn't free to offer up.
/r/MensRights30/12/14 05:49 PM
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I commute daily. I would prefer no one sitting next to me, touching me and jostling me while they fidget / play on their phone. This includes male celebrities or anyone gifted with a pleasant appearance. If someone has their bag or leg in the seat that I want to sit it, I say "excuse me" or "can I sit there?" and 9 times of out of 10 they make room for me.
/r/MensRights30/12/14 05:31 PM
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The whole 'trigger' thing just pisses me off. Sensitive issues need to be discussed, as do controversial ones. In my opinion, if you've got personal experience with something, you should use that to your advantage and contribute meaningfully, not halt the conversation by being offended or triggered. I'm not saying you have to out yourself as a rape victim or anything, either. If you want to, that's cool, but don't use it to shut down things. Walk away if it really bothers you and disengage. You …
/r/MensRights30/12/14 04:53 PM
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I mostly lurk. It's not so much that I'm an official MRA redditer, but that I think unexamined feminism can affect the rights of men in some cases. I have a variety of subs I check out, as limiting your exposure to only groups supporting your existing views can get pretty dull.
/r/MensRights30/12/14 04:35 PM
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If it's that many people, the whole 'ladies first' thing seems redundant. The only time I expect that is if I'm in a group of 3-4 people.. and even then, don't really care. It's easier to just go clockwise (or counter-clockwise) around the table and take orders, for everyone, including the server. For him to correct you like that was... out of line. He risked his tip and lost it.
/r/MensRights02/07/14 07:51 PM
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For me, it's following through with what you say you're going to do. If you don't plan on doing it, don't bombast everyone with how amazing it's going to be and how awesome you are... just do it and the results will speak for themselves. Also, the results are usually for me and my own sense of accomplishment, so why would I care about sharing them in the first place, really? I'm pretty impermeable to other people's opinons, as a result... which I think blends introversion with alpha.
/r/askTRP04/04/14 04:39 PM
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Maybe she's not 'lying', she just didn't think it would be a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/14 07:17 PM
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It's such a minor thing, that if someone cared that much, I'd worry about their views on women. It's hair, ffs. Would you care if the woman you were dating for a bit did the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/14 03:49 PM
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-Good example. A lot of my friends love going shopping with one another and asking each other if certain outfits look good or not.- That just opens the door to - "is this friend honest / genuine enough to REALLY tell me how she thinks I look?" and some such rot. I know what looks good on me and get it. I can accept minor deviations in my haircut without crying. I solve most of my problems on my own. My bf is often the one to ask for help with stuff and vent. I was raised very much as a girl, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/14 08:35 PM
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For me, "venting" is just letting out emotion and having someone listen and maybe offer some sounds of sympathy. I think everyone needs this to some degree. I'm not a good person to vent to, because I just want to offer solutions. If you vent for longer than 10 minutes and your voice is raised and your arms start flailing, I will no longer be your ventee... especially if it's something pretty minor. Like, "omg I hate that bitch Sharlene at work SOO much".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/14 08:27 PM
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What if it was no glasses in profile pic, glasses in person? Lets say the glasses are now permanent due to medication not working with contacts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/14 08:14 PM
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This is interesting. So the equivalent of a man's career and money is equivalent to a woman's hair? This is why I hate dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/14 08:12 PM
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Heh. Yeah, it's a dealbreaker for her if you have an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/14 07:53 PM
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I agree. I think this explains the ratio of women who dump men vs men who dump women. Men are happy with sex of any kind for the most part, women have higher standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/14 07:18 PM
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It depends on what peer group you're talking about - amoung fellow men, I'm sure a playa dude is considered high-status. Amoung women? Not so much. For women - it's much more complicated. Sex = risk of pregnancy, pregnancy = vulnerability in society, especially without a partner. Sex, therefore, should be treated with caution. Really, a "slut" can just be translated into plain ol' stupidity.. and women recognize this. Men view promiscuous women as opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/14 07:15 PM
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-Finally, girls do everything "for attention."- Call crap on this so bad. Second, I'm interested in how you separated "achievement-based" interests and "socially-based" interests. I don't think that's quite it and I don't think it's gendered. I think it's "commericially-based" and "self-based". Like, seeing the Avengers movie because it's popular vs seeing it because you enjoy superhero comics and have for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/14 07:10 PM
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This is like saying women's interests don't exist unless men see them.. but when they are seen, they're discounted as "attention-seeking". You still didn't answer my question about a male gaming. If a male games in front of a woman, it's attention-seeking? Or is it more to do with how he plays?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/14 07:01 PM
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I think if you persue goals and hobbies you enjoy, not for the sake of maximizing your chances with the opposite sex, you'll attract the right person and the facade you used to get them in the first place will never drop.. because the facade never existed. I really get tired of men pretending to be interested in my hobbies and then 6 months in, they either outright confess to not liking them or their behaviour gives it away. If you're going to fake being a certain way, at least choose something …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/14 06:46 PM
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My rent is over 40% of my monthly income. I'm not a swinging bachelorette or anything, I have a bf of 3 years who has his own place, but independence is important to me. Over the age of 20, the backseat of your car or a quickie before the parents get home, starts to get old. I mean, if you're young and your hook ups are young, then it won't matter as much.. but it does over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/14 06:30 PM
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I'm female and I have more opposite-sex friends than same-sex friends. I do not speak to my mother very much, my father and brother not at all. Long story short, extremely messy divorce - parents played us against each other - father was an abusive drunk and mother has now chosen abusive drunk 2.0 as a bf and had two kids with him. Brother is sadly brain-washed by father to hate and mistrust the rest of the family, including myself. I find I have more typically male interests. I also find their …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/14 06:21 PM
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No, I think it can give you insights into their character. It's not a firm predictor of the future, but it can give you hints. I think ignoring that completely is just being naive, though you have to assess in the present and let them start fresh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/14 06:02 PM
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Barney? While I do not really think you're Neil Patrick Harris, I do think that this is a list of women who have hurt you or did not work out. I'm sorry about that.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 05:50 PM
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First, there's a huge difference between 'withholding sex' and 'not being in the mood for sex'. I think men are often confusing the two. If I'm upset about something, specifically if it involves my bf, the last thing on the planet I want is sex. If my bf wants sex, it would be nice to see him try to understand why and not just assume I'm being a bitch. Actual withholding of sex, where you want sex yourself but are denying it and using it as a tool, is manipulative and wrong. You're also screwing…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/14 05:25 PM
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How would you know if she was using games to get attention? I'm really struggling with seeing this clearly. Would you ever assume a male was gaming for attention? I'm sure they do, but it's rarely considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/14 05:19 PM
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I think this links up to the idea that being "a nerd" is now more mainstream and acceptable. I hear many people say things like, "so I was watching Doctor Who last night... I know, I'm such a nerd!...." The nerds who were nerds when it was not such cool thing to be then get a bit resentful and territorial. I don't mean to say that being a nerd exclusively must contain that gaming, but it seems to be a strong association.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/14 05:11 PM
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Many people, male and female, are guilty of pretending to be into a genre or an interest they really aren't if they want attention - usually it's romantic attention, sometimes it's "I want to fit in" attention. Personally, I can't stand elitism of any kind. I once had a guy tell me one of the guys he works with "wasn't a real gamer". I asked what this meant. He said, "Tony hasn't logged into his GamerGuy account for a MONTH, so I removed him". I kind of found this snobby, but I was curious. I as…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/14 05:07 PM
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