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DISCUSSIONAquariusBear/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 04:57 PM
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Find a new man. Sprinkle sprinkle
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/24 07:58 AM
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I’m so sorry this is happening! I have experienced porn addiction in my own life. It can be so difficult to quit. From my experience, you cannot control his behavior so you will just tire yourself out by trying. Since he’s into porn have you guys tried making your own porn together? Perhaps your own sexy videos that he can watch later. The next solution is setting boundaries. He’s getting all his sexual desires Met and you are not. That’s not fair. Maybe suggest that you be allowed to get your d…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/23 04:56 PM
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I like hinge! I was on it for a while. Higher quality men in my opinion
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/23 07:38 PM
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It is ok that he is friends with her. But if it crosses a personal boundary of yours then it’s your responsibility to remove yourself from the relationship. It’s not his responsibility to change for you. Especially not in the dating phase. This phase is for weeding out men who are not a good fit for you. Despite your emotional connection he is not a good fit. So how do you communicate this? “I feel uncomfortable/hurt/jealous/ whatever you feel when you communicate with your ex girlfriends. If th…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/23 06:09 PM
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No birth control in this body
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 05:24 PM
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You’re awesome!!!! I appreciate this. Sounds like you’ve really dove into what it takes to be a healthy man in your relationship. I want to tell him it turns me on when he goes to the gym and prioritizes his fitness. Because it’s true! I’ll check out the book
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 09:09 PM
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Okay I will definitely keep this in mind and start a dialogue with him about what works for both of us :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 09:05 PM
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Aw this is a really great metaphor. I super appreciate your comments girl. They make sense to me
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 06:31 PM
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Do you have sex when you don’t feel like it?
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 06:14 PM
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This helps a lot thank you 😍
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 06:14 PM
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Yes I have! About 10 pounds. I was smaller when we first met.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 06:10 PM
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Thanks for acknowledging that. I definitely used to feel high sex drive in the beginning. He gained some weight and so did I, I think we’re both struggling with body image issues. Prior to him I’ve never had a long term relationship. He is my first. I’ve had a lot of short term dumb relationships that didn’t work out. There was one other man I was very very turned on by but that’s about it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 06:07 PM
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To be honest, he gained some weight and has not been practicing healthy eating habits. He eats out a lot. He doesn’t go to the gym very often. When I met him he was in really good shape. I wonder sometimes if this has something to do with it. What inspired you to become more physically attractive and how did you realize this was the issue?
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 06:02 PM
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What is the correct perspective?
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 05:49 PM
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No he hasn’t. This is the story I’m telling myself. I only see him 1-2 times a week, we are very physical, touching and kissing a lot. But when it becomes sexual I get afraid and start overthinking.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 05:41 PM
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I’m not on medication anymore. I got off about a month ago. So that’s not an issue anymore. I do still struggle with depression though.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 05:23 PM
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You need to have a rotation of 3-5 men that you date
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/23 05:09 AM
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Baccarat rouge 540
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/23 12:17 AM
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Femininity is more than just looking and dressing girly. It’s about feeling your emotions in body, expressing your emotions, resting enough, letting yourself feel pleasure, trusting and surrendering and letting go of control
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/23 06:36 AM
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What about companionship? Cuddling? Sharing life together?
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 05:38 PM
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Some people are asexual
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 05:35 PM
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You have to be honest with each man you date about where you are at. There’s no “right way” to tell the truth. There’s only one way- and it’s scary because lots of men might reject you. I also imagine some men might pretend to be ok with it and then try to coerce you, and see you as a challenge. But there’s plenty of men who are also asexual. It’s not super common, but I believe you can find your perfect match. You cannot go through life without healing from your past, otherwise you will bleed o…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 05:34 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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