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Geçmiş olsun birader.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/21 11:10 AM
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Goodluck.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/20 11:00 AM
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OYS #17 Stats: 6'2, 85,0 16%? Fat Married. 1 Daughter of 5 years. I'm 29, wife 29. Married for 6 years. DL: 110 kg / BP: 100 kg / SQ: 110 kg / OHP: 50 kg?? Lifting program : Buff dude's workout plan. Just dumbbells and a bench (bought it due to covid). Reading:Mindful Attraction plan (Chapt. 4).NMMNGMMSLPWISNIFG Short recap of the week This week was a bit hectic with handling the little on (they have holiday) and trying to do everything in the house and work. My wife has cystitis ( inflammation …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/20 02:54 PM
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Like i said, its more to get the routine. But if it does take me a month, i wouldn’t care either.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/20 04:08 PM
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OYS #16 Stats: 6'1, 84,0 18%? Fat Married. 1 Daughter of 5 years. I'm 29, wife 29. Married for 6 years. DL: 110 kg / BP: 100 kg / SQ: 110 kg / OHP: 50 kg?? Lifting program : Buff dude's workout plan. Just dumbells and a bench (bought it due to covid). Reading: Mindful Attraction plan (chapt. 3). NMMNG MMSLP WISNIFG First of all I am glad I am back at it after 4 months being a total dipshit and getting what I deserved. To give you guys a short recap this is what happened the last few months: Sinc…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/20 11:06 AM
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Think of it this way.. women are social animals. When you do this they will think that they are higher than their friend because you ignore the friend which makes her the female ‘amog’ lol. If that makes sense.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 05:49 PM
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Like my dad said and as I say.. a real man can’t even say social media and be taken seriously. We should either be working on ourselves, our job/work or working out. It even surprises so called instagram models if you dont have and dont care about her social media. Time comsuming trash.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 04:37 PM
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OYS #15 Stats: 6'1, 86,0 18%? Fat Married. 1 Daughter of 4 years. I'm 29, wife 29. Married for 5 years. DL: 110 kg / BP: 100 kg / SQ: 110 kg / OHP: 50 kg Lifting program : Calisthenics since all gyms are closed.. Reading: NMMNG MMSLP Chapter 3 Alpha Male Traits (page 1) | Chapter 5 Sex Rank (page 4) How To win friends and influence people | Chapter 2 The big secret of dealing with people (page 20) Started this book out of pleasure. I'm just keeping it at 1 book since I'm too undisciplined to rea…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/20 01:08 PM
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Hmm like andy frisella said. If you are going to be a janitor be the best motherfucking janitor there is. I do cut corners a lot. Thanks again man!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/20 04:58 PM
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I never sorted out my toughts and feelings and why I am or react like I do. I just try hard for a while and then it dumbs down and im dissapointed with myself. Its like I know I have more potential but only give my max when I really have to(procrastination thing). I took this part in my MAP and am giving it some toughts and trying to understand it and recognize it. For everytime I cheat myself I loose respect for myself. So I try not to. Thanks for your time to reply and your advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/20 10:13 AM
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OYS #14 Stats: 6'1, 84,0 18% Fat Married. 1 Daughter of 4 years. Im 29, wife 28. Married for 5 years.DL: 110 kg / BP: 100 kg / SQ: 110 kg / OHP: 50 kg Lifting program : Calisthenics since all gyms are closed..stil.. Reading: NMMNG done MMSLP Chapter 2 Alpha Beta balance (page 6) | Chapter 3 Alpha Male Traits (page 1) How To win friends and influence people | Chapter 2 The big secret of dealing with people (page 20) Started this book out of pleasure. Health and Fitness: I slacked for 2 evenings b…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/20 12:02 PM
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OYS #13 Stats: 6'1, 84,8**(gained 0,2)**. 18% Fat Married. 1 Daughter of 4 years. Im 29, wife 28. Married for 5 years.DL: 110 kg / BP: 100 kg / SQ: 110 kg / OHP: 50 kg Lifting program : Calisthenics since all gyms are closed..stil.. Reading: NMMNG done MMSLP chapter 1 body agenda (page 27) | Chapter 2 Alpha Beta balance (page 6) How To win friends and influence people | Chapter 2 The big secret of dealing with people (page 9) Started this book out of pleasure. Health and Fitness: Diet is good. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 10:46 AM
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OYS #12 Stats: 6'1, 84,6**(lost 0,1)**. 18% Fat Married. 1 Daughter of 4 years. Im 29, wife 28. Married for 5 years.DL: 110 kg / BP: 100 kg / SQ: 110 kg / OHP: 50 kg Lifting program : Calisthenics since all gyms are closed..stil.. Reading: NMMNG done MMSLP chapter body agenda (page 27) Health and Fitness: Diet is good. Im on the strict regim of being under 2300 calories. TDEE is about 2600. The hard thing for me is to eat enough. But so far im just trying to eat for fuel not for pleasure. Im fin…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/20 02:00 PM
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Exactly. Don’t worry i’ll get there.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/20 04:27 PM
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Totally right. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/20 06:22 AM
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You are exactly right. But I refuse to give up. So MRP has to be for me. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/20 06:20 AM
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Good advice. Main focus here is getting my sleep. I noticed that thats where i fuck things up. I don’t mind to slip up sometimes. With my lack of discipline and procrastination this would already be an accomplishment. The journal is a good one. Im already sorta doing it(writing at least 5-10 daily tasks i want to do that day) but maybe i should look more into this. Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/20 03:13 PM
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OYS #12 Stats: 6'1, 85,5 (Gained 0.8 kg). 18% Fat Married. 1 Daughter of 4 years. Im 29, wife 29. Married for 5 years. DL: 110 kg / BP: 100 kg / SQ: 110 kg / OHP: 50 kg Lifting program : Calisthenics since all gyms are closed.. But haven't done anything this week. **Reading:**NMMNG at page 173 175. Literally only read 2 pages.. Health and Fitness: This whole week was shit. I let myself go. All snacks in the evening this week. I have no discipline whatsoever this week. During the day its easy to …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/20 12:28 PM
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OYS #11 Stats: 6'1, 84,7**(remained the same)**. 18% Fat Married. 1 Daughter of 4 years. Im 29, wife 28. Married for 5 years.DL: 110 kg / BP: 100 kg / SQ: 110 kg / OHP: 50 kg Lifting program : Calisthenics since all gyms are closed..stil.. **Reading:**NMMNG at page 163 173. Health and Fitness: Diet is ok. Could be better ( a lot of bbq but I try to keep the carbs out). I didnt gain or lose weight but i notice clothes are getting a lot looser so thats good. Still doing my 3 times a week jog and a…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/20 01:34 PM
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OYS #10 Stats: 6'1, 84,7**(Lost 0.1kg)**. 18% Fat Married. 1 Daughter of 4 years. Im 29, wife 28. Married for 5 years.DL: 110 kg / BP: 100 kg / SQ: 110 kg / OHP: 50 kg Lifting program : Calisthenics since all gyms are closed.. **Reading:**NMMNG at page 159 163. Health and Fitness: Diet is good these days. I lost 0,1kg (loosing weight is getting slower and slower. I picked up with my workouts. Instead of 3 times a week I do this every morning before showering and work finished with a cold shower …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/20 08:41 AM
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OYS #9 Stats: 6'1, 84,8**(gained 0.7kg)**. 19% Fat? Married. 1 Daughter of 4 years. Im 29, wife 28. Married for 5 years.DL: 110 kg / BP: 100 kg / SQ: 110 kg / OHP: 50 kg Lifting program : Calisthenics since all gyms are closed.. Reading:NMMNG at page 144 159. Health and Fitness: Diet is slacking these days. This is noticable on the scale. I gained 0.7kg by doing so. Goal is to get back on track and not slack. Not even for the sole purpose of losing weight. But I hate to see that I didnt overcome…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/20 02:36 PM
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Its funny how illogical women are.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/20 06:04 PM
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OYS #8 Stats: 6'1, 84,1**(lost 0,5kg)**. 19% Fat? Married. 1 Daughter of 4 years. Im 29, wife 28. Married for 5 years.DL: 110 kg / BP: 100 kg / SQ: 110 kg / OHP: 50 kg Lifting program : PPL. Calisthenics since all gyms are closed.. Reading: NMMNG at page 130 144. Health and Fitness: Diet is going ok. Sometimes I eat something that I shouldnt be eating but im slowly still losing weight. Goal is to get to about 80kg then build back up. Career/financial: Work is going good. Im now involved with an …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/20 10:52 AM
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Yep.. i know.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 06:08 PM
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Lol. Lost it in the edits😭😂
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 06:07 PM
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Exactly what I said. I deleted snapchat just now and am fully aware of the little bitch I am.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 12:05 PM
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OYS #7 Stats: 6'1, 84,7(gained 0,1kg). 19% Fat? (still need to measure.. due to corona the center is closed). Married. 1 Daughter of 4 years. Im 29, wife 28. Married for 5 years.DL: 110 kg / BP: 100 kg / SQ: 110 kg / OHP: 50 kg Lifting program : PPL. Calisthenics since all gyms are closed.. Reading: NMMNG at page 130 130. Didn't read a single letter this week... I know. I have no excuses. Health and Fitness: Diet is going ok. Since the corona virus it has been annoying to work out (dont like new…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 10:37 AM
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Thats honest of you and thanks still!
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/20 10:08 PM
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The question is how to kill that need for validation? And how does one internalize abundance? Guess it will come in time as I read the sidebar. But sure as hell would want to know what helped other people internalizing this abundance mentality. To answer your question, no. I would only fuck the 10’s and 9’s.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/20 09:33 PM
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At this time.. anyone who is open to flirt.. i flirt with. Its like i want the validation. It dies after I receive a couple of nudes. I lose interest. Dont get me wrong.. i dont like to say it but im a good looking guy (latin, tal, got my shit sorta kinda together) so i could (and had the opportunity to cheat with hot babes and ugly ones) but i will never do that. But i notice that it breaks my confidence because when i look in the mirrror i cant respect myself for being dishonest. Does that mak…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/20 06:57 PM
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OYS #6 Stats: 6'1, 84,6(lost 0,5kg). 19% Fat? (still need to measure again). Married. 1 Daughter of 4 years. Im 29, wife 28. Married for 5 years.DL: 110 kg / BP: 100 kg / SQ: 110 kg / OHP: 50 kg Lifting program : PPL. Reading: NMMNG at page 122 130. 2/3 Breaking free activities a week. Health and Fitness: Diet went/is going good. I feel a bit of a stall with the weight loss (maybe because the cheat meal and the less gym). I lost 0.5kgs and condition got better due to the fact that the gyms are c…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/20 11:55 AM
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OYS #5 Stats: 6'1, 85,1kg (lost 1.5kg). 19% Fat? (need to measure again). Married. 1 Daughter of 4 years. Im 29, wife 28. Married for 5 years.DL: 110 kg / BP: 100 kg / SQ: 110 kg / OHP: 50 kg Lifting program : PPL. Reading: NMMNG at page 83 122. 2/3 Breaking free activities. Health and Fitness: Diet went/is going good. Friday I will have my cheatmeal with datenight. I lost 1.5 kgs and went up in power. Went 3 times a week this week with cardio during all days. Career/financial: Work is going gre…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/20 10:33 AM
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Thanks. Thats some good solid advice. I will keep that in mind next time. Most of the time we talk about ‘datenight’ because we have a daughter. But its way better if i take care of the babysitter/parents sleepover alltogether and own my shit. Thanks again!
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/20 04:02 PM
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Good advice. Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/20 03:58 PM
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OYS #4 Stats: 6'1, 86,6kg (gained0.2ks). 19% Fat. Married. 1 Daughter of 4 years. Im 29, wife 28. Married for 5 years.DL: 105 kg / BP: 85 kg / SQ: 95 kg / OHP: 45 kg Lifting program : PPL. Reading: NMMNG at page 83. Didn't read much. Health and Fitness: Didnt really keep the diet this week due to the fact that I got sick. Lost 1 kg. But after I got better i gained it again. Was 86.4 now 86.6kg. Now back to the diet and working out 3 times a week. Didn't lose "strength" thank god. Career/financia…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/20 03:34 PM
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OYS #3 Stats: 6'1, 86,4kg. 19% Fat. Married. 1 Daughter of 4 years. Im 29, wife 28. Married for 5 years.DL: 105 kg / BP: 85 kg / SQ: 95 kg / OHP: 45 kg Lifting program : PPL Reading: NMMNG at page 76. Applying the "Breaking Free Activities" Health and Fitness: Still on the dietplan. Losing fat slowly. Weight not so much but I can see my belly shrinking. Going 3 times a week still. Last sessions wasn't that good. Think I'm going to be sick. Feeling a little under the weather. Career/financial: Wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/20 07:16 AM
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He doesn’t understand that lifting IS meditation. The iron gods will listen if you put in the work.
/r/askMRP23/02/20 08:36 PM
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My wife did and still does the finances. She doesnt work. I just put money in the shared account. She pays everything. And i save on the business account and she saves from whatever is left on the shared account. I dont even want to do the finances. Fuck what everyone thinks. Whats important to me is that she sees me as a leader and a provider. If you reach that, then it isnt important who does the finances. I make more than enough to quadriple the expenses but i just transfer enough money for t…
/r/askMRP23/02/20 02:03 PM
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Lift. Sidebar. STFU.... even here.
/r/askMRP23/02/20 08:54 AM
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Don’t care
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/20 08:04 PM
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Watch garyvee on youtube or whatever. Try a lot of shit.
/r/askMRP20/02/20 06:28 AM
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ave to choose between cooking and chopping firewood: instead, grow your frame until you can do both with This whas exactly my point. Nothing wrong with taking care of my family.. You misunderstood me. I Agree.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/20 01:41 PM
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OYS #2 Previous OYS: #1 Stats: 6'1, 86,7kg. 19,5% Fat. Married. 1 Daughter of 4 years. Im 29, wife 28. Married for 5 years.DL: 105 kg / BP: 85 kg / SQ: 95 kg / OHP: 45 kg Lifting program : Full Body Reading: Like I posted on my #1 OYS, im back at reading NMMNG at page 47. Trying to read slow and internalize what I read. Health and Fitness: Went from 5x5 to PPL. And now I'm doing Full Body. Planning to stay at this for a good couple of months. I went to a bodybuilding advice center (here in the n…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/20 08:21 AM
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nds who think they are red pulled are mostly blue pill. So, yes, in red pill matters , it’s usually be OP: But think of this as something good. You are a man who makes his own decisions. Take all the information you need and be your own judge. If you fuck up.. its on you. Learn. If you win.. Celebrate. Go harder. Don't even look for approval even here. Half of the guys here are fools.
/r/askMRP19/02/20 07:46 AM
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I have learned that we redpill guys carry this on our own. You are lucky to find a likeminded redpill friend. I accepted that the friends I have are either bluepilled or trash. So i rather be alone.
/r/askMRP18/02/20 09:12 PM
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Dont get your hopes up son. . My wife is turkish (not muslim but raised with those standards). She cooks, cleans, stays at home to take care of my child all the works. She is a good wife. Sweet and loving. But she is still a woman. Once that honeymoon period is gone she will turn. This is simple because she sees you as hers. Now... she still has to "conquer" you so ofcourse she will be "perfect". I am far from being where i want to be. But what I have learnt is that a woman is a reflection of yo…
/r/askMRP18/02/20 07:44 AM
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Skittles..
/r/askMRP12/02/20 07:39 PM
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mehow missed the fact that the Thanks for taking the time to read. I will absolutely do that.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/20 07:38 PM
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OYS #1 Stats: 6'1, 87,7kg. 19,5% Fat. Married. 1 Daughter of 4 years. Im 28, wife also. Married for 5 years.DL: 105 kg / BP: 85 kg / SQ: 95 kg / OHP: 45 kgLifting program : PPL. Workout 3 times a week. Long time lurker. But never taking action. This is my failure as a man in life. Always hesitant. Never taking action. Being afraid to actually take risks and say/do what I want to do. I was just doing the bare minimum. Go to work. Get home. Eat dinner. Watch netflix and go to bed. I just did what …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/20 03:18 PM
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Lol. Well at least hes not gonna get used to his hands anymore.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 09:30 PM
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Had the same issue. Its a mental thing. Stop cold turkey with the porn. Itll go up. You will be a horndog and finish even if its the lamest starfish. Just pound that shit like a beast. When i stopped i even found ugly bitches attractive enough to fuck. Its crazy how messed up porn can be.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 09:16 PM
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Yes, go marry and find out for yourself if you dont want advice. Ask yourself tho... why the fuck am i asking this question? And what am i doing here? Try to look past the ’harsh’ comments and look for the good in it for gods sake.
/r/askMRP10/05/18 12:57 PM
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Boss makes a dollar i make a dime.. thats why i shit in company time 😂😂
/r/askMRP23/03/18 07:07 PM
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When you accepted the threesome you should have known it was going to be her “turn”. Thats when you fucked up. She probably already fucked him. Next her.
/r/askMRP26/02/18 08:16 PM
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Becoming a vmware architect. Parallel to that, building my business to make a million a year. Become ripped as fuck.
/r/askMRP23/02/18 07:40 AM
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Slow claps this was me. Spot on. Nice comment.
/r/askMRP22/02/18 01:28 PM
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Same boat. No real friends and the friends i have are extremely blue pilled. Altho a lot of people here will say that you should fuck off with your emotions, i think it is good to stop and think about them. Why do you feel this way? Where do i want to go? What are my passions/mission? Its good to talk about it with a red pilled person. Ideally someone you dont really know so they can slap you the fuck awake when needed. Wish i had someone in my pussy phase then the anger phase and finally swallo…
/r/askMRP22/02/18 01:25 PM
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How married red pill see women http://cdn.skim.gs/image/upload/c_fill,dpr_1.0,f_auto,fl_lossy,q_auto,w_940/v1456337714/msi/little-girl-sticking-out-toungue_ynffhj.jpg
/r/MGTOW14/02/18 03:13 PM
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Perfect. This is what people need to hear. A class response. slow claps
/r/askMRP12/02/18 04:42 PM
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I know dude. What i have learned is that you can only trust yourself. Not even your mom or dad. Not your wife. Nobody. Just become the oak that nobody can bring down. Work on you.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 09:37 PM
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Theres so much more wrong. Read the sidebar. Lift. Stfu. And dont surround yourself with stupid.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 03:12 PM
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Who the fuck cares? Talk about life. What does she want in life. What does she do? Where does she work? Talk about her siblings or parent or youth or whatever. Bitches love to talk about themselves. Let her know you dont fuck with stupid shit. Let her be interested in how different you are from the rest. Mystery attracts.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 03:09 PM
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1 tip. Talk more slowly. Stand up straight. And dont be ashamed of nothing.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 03:02 PM
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Read sidebar. When reading those books you will know wt you are missing. I had fits like this in the past. The way you react to her fights shows her if you are in her frame or not.. building frame is fucking important.
/r/askMRP01/02/18 10:41 PM
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Pussy is everywhere. But your question alone makes me cringe. Go to /askmrp and work on your shit. Bitches will come. P.s. you can be goodlooking but still be a bitch.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 10:37 PM
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Sidebar. Lift. Eat right. Get to know yourself. Find a hobby and start a business. And stop fapping. You know what to do. Dont bullshit yourself.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 10:35 PM
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This.
/r/askMRP01/02/18 10:26 PM
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Fck facebook. Just dont get on it. And delete your pics and just say you dont to be on social media anymore. Then ignore that shit and work on yourself.
/r/askMRP01/02/18 10:19 PM
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Do breathing exercises. And talk slowly. Look people straight into their eyes. And stand straight. Lift and your stance will correct itself.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 09:56 AM
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Wts dicey?
/r/RedPillWorkplace29/01/18 09:35 PM
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Everything went as foretold. They promoted me and "demoted" 2 other guys that werent doing their jobs. They dont work 24/7 like i said. Im still negotiating the payments of the months i worked before the promotion. It will take a month or two they said. Guess being patient and aggressive works.
/r/RedPillWorkplace29/01/18 09:15 PM
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Dgaf. Just like her, put on your headphones.
/r/MGTOW28/01/18 08:57 PM
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Dont be a pussy and just put her shit on the ground... sit your ass down. And just look at her. People are way too kind..
/r/MGTOW28/01/18 08:10 PM
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Lift. Read tbe mrp sidebar. And read the comments on the stories over there. Dont whine and bitch. You know what you need to do. Now go and do that. And dont you wait till fucking january first either.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 06:40 PM
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Do whatever the fuck you want to do hot shot. Want to save the marriage? Don't be butthurt. Read the sidebar again. You want to leave? Do it. Only you can decide..
/r/askMRP26/12/17 04:24 AM
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Do what you have to do but dont stop.
/r/askMRP23/12/17 11:17 AM
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Do squats with no weights and watch your form. This is crucial. Start 5x5 and start light. If the pain continues go see a doctor but dont stop or use it as an excuse to not work out.
/r/askMRP23/12/17 10:48 AM
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It wasnt dread it was just u being a fckup. And btw.. my wife can see my phone whenever she likes but im a ninja with mrp... no talking about fightclub. Use incognito mode to do ur stuff. I would tell her u can watch my phone just once and then its over. Its trust me or leave me. And ACT LIKE A MAN. Do the shit u need to do. Improve. Stfu. Read. Lift. And become better every day. Eventually things will change. Its a marathon. Not a sprint. Keep up.
/r/askMRP18/12/17 11:32 PM
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You have the answer yourself... What do you want? If i wasnt married i would still go to mrp instead of theredpill just because it focusses more on the man. Becoming a real man Fixing ur mind and body and becoming the man you want to be. Imo the mrp focusses too much on just women and the injustice.. fck that i control my own life. Ofcourse there will be gems here and there.. But mrp gives u the tough love u need.
/r/askMRP18/12/17 08:30 PM
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Dont talk.. just roar when u hit it hard.
/r/askMRP17/12/17 08:38 PM
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This exactly... thank you sir. I posted this in the hope someone would read it and would benefit from it. I know you guys can be harsh and sometimes for no reason. And iv learned to grow a pair. Mrp has a lot of value and the internet will be the internet. I will just take the good and ignore the bad. Mrp has helped me a lot of discovering myself and I aknowledge i need a lot of work. I hope i can help someone else in his journey.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/17 10:45 PM
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There will always be 1 salty guy on mrp lol. I dont expect nothing from her. I dont want a pat on the back. I dont want people to say good job.. I want to improve myself. If i were single i still needed to get rid of this fear. I really need to be a leader and dare to take choices and be able to dare do new things. So no.. this is not a covert contract. There is no exchange here. I am only bettering myself and her reaction is just a plus.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/17 04:36 PM
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Keep going on. Even tho you have setbacks or incredible fights or shittests. Because i stopped for a while but it only makes it harder. Keep on going. Like the family alpha says. Its the constant battle what we live for. Btw look him up
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/17 03:39 PM
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In arguments or fights she says it a lot. " i need you to man up " " i need you to take charge of things in the house " " im not ur mom ". And I know this is true and Im trying to get better at owning my shit. And getting out of my nerdy comfort zone where i dont take charge.. But the mistake I made in the past was to trying to "handle everything" at once. So i just take things 1 step at a time. As for your question. Mrp will be a secret that i will take to the grave. I dont want mommy permissio…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/17 03:36 PM
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This hits me right in "that place". I want to leave so bad but i love my job, the assignments, the liberty and the pay is good as it is for my age/experience. I know i wont get that good of a job. But the feeling of being taken advantage of is just sickening... Im stuck. On top of that I would easily take another job to hurt em and get payed less but I have responsibilities. A wife and kids so i cant take that risk. I actually want to stay so i decided to just work hard and let things be.. of ot…
/r/RedPillWorkplace29/11/17 10:06 PM
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She looks like it's sister damn
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 10:49 PM
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Thanks for the interest. I talked to my manager about it and how i was feeling about it. He totally agreed. He and the management are extremely happy with me and dont want to lose me. But it is taking so long because there will be a change in the department that will hurt other people that will stay in the position of 1st line support. The idea here is that 1st line support will now only work during the day(mo-fri 9-5) so they wont get 30% on top of their salary instead of 24/7. And they will pr…
/r/RedPillWorkplace21/11/17 05:15 AM
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The thing is. I work in shifts. There has to be a head it engineer(more rights/acces to fix things) and then there is a junior engineer(me). But sometimes i work alone. And do things only a head it engineer can do(because i have the rights). I was planning on asking for them to pay me since I got those extra rights(about 10 months or so). Or at least the days that i was alone(we have an hr program so i can check all those days). Or did head it engineer work. Am i being rude/not reasonable?
/r/RedPillWorkplace09/11/17 06:41 PM
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I saved some emails. So he cant say i just made it up. And many people at work are already congratulating me so its no secret.
/r/RedPillWorkplace09/11/17 06:39 PM
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I know its not bullshit because i(as an it sysadmin) can see everything and i know HR is really busy with the new extra function(had to be approved by the mothercompany etc etc). But my question is if i should ask money for all of those months of extra work.
/r/RedPillWorkplace09/11/17 06:27 AM
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OYS Weekly 4th week. 10-10-2017 / 17-10-2017 Stats: Unplugged/Lurker: Feb 2017 Age: 26 Married: 3 years Children: 1 (2 y/o girl) Height: 1.88 M Weight: 81 KG / 178.57 BF%: 15% SL 5x5 stats: Squat:65KG/143,3LBS Bench:45KG/99,2LBS Barbell row:40KG/88,2LBS Overhead Press: 37,5KG/82,67LBS Deadlift:65KG/143,3LBS Previous goals: Body/Health: Drink only water FAILED Hit the gym 3 times this week FAILED Mind: MMSLP 80% FAILED Take cold showers. FAILED Spiritual: Meditate daily FAILED ~Read the bible dai…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/17 06:00 PM
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Thanks for the message. I will.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/17 06:19 PM
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OYS Weekly 3nd week. 3-10-2017 / 10-10-2017 Stats: Unplugged/Lurker: Feb 2017 Age: 26 Married: 3 years Children: 1 (2 y/o girl) Height: 1.88 M / 6’1 Weight: 81 KG / 178.57 (Gained 2 KG/4,4 LBS) BF%: 15% SL 5x5 stats: Squat:65KG/143,3LBS Bench:45KG/99,2LBS Barbell row:40KG/88,2LBS Overhead Press: 37,5KG/82,67LBS Deadlift:65KG/143,3LBS Overview Last oys week: Weight: 79 KG / 174.16 (Gained 1 KG/2,2 LBS) BF%: 15% SL 5x5 stats: Squat:65KG/143,3LBS Bench:45KG/99,2LBS Barbell row:40KG/88,2LBS Overhead…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/17 05:59 PM
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OYS Weekly 2nd week. 29-08-2017 / 05-09-2017 Stats: Unplugged/Lurker: Feb 2017 Age: 26 Married: 3 years Children: 1 (2 y/o girl) Height: 1.88 M / 6’1 Weight: 79 KG / 174.16 (Gained 1 KG/2,2 LBS) BF%: 15% SL 5x5 stats: Squat:65KG/143,3LBS Bench:45KG/99,2LBS Barbell row:40KG/88,2LBS Overhead Press: 37,5KG/82,67LBS Deadlift:65KG/143,3LBS Overview Last week: Age: 26 Married: 3 Years Children: 1 (2 y/o girl) Height: 1.88 M / 6’1 Weight: 78 KG / 171.96 LBS BF%: 15% SL 5x5 stats (just started 5x5): Squ…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/17 05:43 AM
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I live in holland so there are not many 24 hour gyms open here. Or they are expensive or just far from my home. But I need to stop whining and just going to the gym more often. The fact that I dont have time is because im just not that organized/not prioritizing the gym(side business/sick child/work etc). Ill get there. Thanks for the awesome replies!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/17 11:09 PM
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True.. time to man up.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/17 07:54 PM
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I know. But these 2 weeks will be so hectic (i have a side and my daughter is sick). I will bump it up go 3 times after this week. I just wont make it. Especially because i work weird shifts(2 days from 7 till 3. 2 days from 3 till 11 and 2 days from 11 pm till 7 am). I have learned to embrace being exhausted all the time but i know my limits. And this weeks is just gonna cut it.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/17 10:28 AM
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Preach
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/17 09:57 AM
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1st week. Reason I started posting: Im sick and tired of not being in control of my life. Im not happy with my marriage. Sex is good but just not too much. It feels like Im being lived instead of taking control of my life and living. My wife is almost stating the obvious. Me being a drunk captain and not taking charge.. She actually said that with her own words. “Be a man and take charge”. Those words hit me hard and ever since i stopped being a damn lurker and start making a change. So here goe…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/17 11:13 PM
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the writing guide what specific guideline? So i know for the next time?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 11:48 AM
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Your(posessive) and you're(from you are);) Altho english is not my native language, I still know my shit. Just a bad habit of lazyness.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 09:12 AM
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Its so funny how i felt that way for a second too a while ago. then it hit me.. "they" are just like my wife.. bitching and nagging. Just laugh it off and smack em on the butt (nohomo). This shit makes u hard.
/r/askMRP17/08/17 08:13 AM
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I needed this..
/r/askMRP01/08/17 10:43 PM
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No the sex is good and frequent. Just the arguements and fights annoy me..
/r/askMRP01/08/17 10:41 PM
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If shes used to it.. what do i say?nothing? I dont even bring it up?
/r/askMRP01/08/17 10:40 PM
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Whats the idea behind the skittles?
/r/askMRP01/08/17 06:30 PM
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Please pick up your glasses professor: "I know its silly. And * i havent given her anything for the last 2 months* but the feeling remains.." Im struggling with the feeling..
/r/askMRP01/08/17 06:29 PM
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Exactly. Thanks brother. Those were my toughts exactly. I need to keep my focus.
/r/askMRP27/07/17 08:21 PM
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Started about 2 weeks ago. But started the 5x5 just today. I wanna build some strength, confidence and spike my testostorone before i do a good 3 days split.
/r/askMRP27/07/17 07:03 PM
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I have a history with training/working out but as you mentioned.. being a dad can take up a lot of time. And i can only go to the gym like 2times a week. Will this be a good start?or should i just begin with a normal split?
/r/askMRP22/07/17 04:42 PM
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Shes exactly like that. And yea i work weird shifts so we can do things like that and since the weather always suck here rxcept for today ofcourse. I thought it would be a good idea. And to get her mind off that we cant do expensive shit for the time being. But thats my problem indeed. I have my peaks when im taking care of my shit and other times i doze off and procrastinate everything. Damn i need a lot of work. Only thing im wondering is. This needs time.. will she hold on till then?:$ i dont…
/r/askMRP19/06/17 06:10 PM
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If i think about it i can link it but when the moment is there i just argue as if she ws a normal man.. Im not agressive at all. Im passive. And i wont yell at her that easily. Iv always been the silent type but once i read no more mr nice guy i know wr it comes from..
/r/askMRP19/06/17 06:05 PM
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I really dont know. But she has been thru some shit (doesnt know her dad/moved out early/always beenn pushed around). It think it fucks her that she tought she found stability with me and now she finds out i dont own my shit. Many times when we fight i hear her say: i tought you would nrvrr hurt me. I dont know my dad. My mom doesnt givr a shit but you... i tiught you were different.. When i hear that.. it breaks me.
/r/askMRP19/06/17 03:34 PM
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What does bleak mean(english is not my nativr language)
/r/askMRP19/06/17 03:15 PM
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This... so much truth. Man i love you guys for being there for me at whatever time of the day.
/r/askMRP19/06/17 03:12 PM
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Its so weird to do that. I have been so used to being the fix insteas of fixing myself.. great mindshift needs to be made. But i am working hard to do so. I got my lifting on point again and im about to make a promotion at work. Still need to work on doing house things(the yard etc)
/r/askMRP19/06/17 03:04 PM
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I am at the moment. Almost halfway. Thanks
/r/askMRP19/06/17 03:02 PM
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It makes so much sense to me if you say it like that but when im in the heat of the moment.. it eats me inside. Like now we are both home. And we are completely ignoring eachother. I know if i dont try to cheer her up or say at least something she will say that behaviour shows that i dont care about her.. How long will it take before she forgets my mistakes? Will she ever? Or will she keep throwing the past in my face?
/r/askMRP19/06/17 02:44 PM
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I didnt understand the cocain part..?
/r/askMRP19/06/17 02:24 PM
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She wont check out(religious) But i think she is checking out emotionally. I get the 'i dont care what you do anymore' a lot..
/r/askMRP19/06/17 02:00 PM
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It feels like that.. it feels like surviving in this marriage. Sometimes we have our ups.. but too many downs..
/r/askMRP19/06/17 01:59 PM
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That would go something like this: • Her - "I can't fuckin believe you fell asleep tucking our daughter in! You are a monster Aquitas! I wanted to cuddle and watch Greys Anatomy" • You - "I was tired. I no longer am tired" • Her - i am tired too. We are all tired. Be a fucking man and grow a pair. You just dont care about us. Yesterday when we were going to have sex you wasnt tired huh? You only think with your cock. Go do whatever the fuck you want to do. Im finished. Ill stay with you for the …
/r/askMRP16/06/17 03:24 AM
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This is exactly what im experiencing. And sometimes i do want to react like that (wambulance). But i question myself.. is that too rambo if i do that now? How do i know if im going too rambo?
/r/askMRP16/06/17 03:18 AM
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Read this.... it helped me a lot... a lot.. A conversation between a father and son At some point, every father should have this conversation with his boy(s): Son, As you are coming of age, your desire to be loved by a woman is growing. To feel the daily warmth of a woman by your side. To have and to hold. This is a natural instinct and one of the strongest ones you have. With that said, it's my responsibility to make sure you enter these interactions with a knowledge that I and very few other m…
/r/askMRP07/06/17 06:17 PM
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O..k.
/r/askMRP05/06/17 10:46 PM
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Lol well arent you a badass?:p It made me laugh. And yes you are right about it. Thanks. I needed that lol.
/r/askMRP05/06/17 09:37 PM
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Well before we got married i went to the gym 2-3 times a week. I am a hardgainer so i kept my diet strictly. Or else i would lose too much weight. But after marriage and fulltime job and a kid i just lost track. Often we are "too busy" so we eat crap like mcdonalds or dominos. But since i can eat whatever i like and hardly gain any kilos.. you get it.. she blames me. And shes right. I should be on top of everything. She told me she wanted to lose some weight so i told her i was going to help her…
/r/askMRP05/06/17 07:06 PM
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I remember this one time i was sick and tired of her yelling and cursing at me. I just snapped and told her i dont fcking care what i did or did not do.. you dont talk to me like that. And i could see in her eyes she was shocked and didnt expect me to react like that... afterwards she said it was kind of sexy... i didnt expect that. This other time i tried(in a wrong way i guess) to ngaf but she kept saying i clearly dont care about her feelings and dont even bother to comfort her etc. Etc. How …
/r/askMRP05/06/17 09:49 AM
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That is gonna be the hardest thing to do for me. In every action i take i question... is this not too much rambo? How do i know if i go full rambo? Sometimes im still butthurt at such a degree that when all calmes down and she wants to fck.. i dont even want to. Because i can still hear her yell at me.. i hate that. How can i overcome the butthurt?
/r/askMRP05/06/17 08:55 AM
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Fck I love you guys #nohomo. As i lay in bed next to my wife (shes asleep). Just thinking how to be the leader of my family. These tips/advice mean so much to me. You guys just gave me that extra push I needed. Thanks.
/r/askMRP04/06/17 11:13 PM
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The funny thing is... this is exactly what she says sometimes... she feels like she is the mommy of me ans my daughter.. that all she does is take care of shit. She wants me to be the leader. Im Beta as fckk tho. Im that average type joe working in the IT timid as fck.. since mrp i have been a little more out of my shell. And im lucky i dont gain a lot of weight easily (athletic genes?) But damn... beta cuck
/r/askMRP04/06/17 10:54 PM
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Fck. Thanks for that comment. Indeed i tried it a couple times(doing shit for me as if she doesnt exist) she does like it sometimes but sometimes i forget stuff and she then says that i dont take her and my daughter into consideration.. I guess i need to hold on. I need to beat it out of my system not to expect anything for my accomplishments but just for the sake of doing it for me. I admit this is hard to do...
/r/askMRP04/06/17 10:51 PM
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The 2nd point is hard for me to do. Everytime i try my very best i still seem to fuckup something (for example: forgetting to clean the breadcrums after making breakfast for her) in my eyes its a little thing. But for her its the whole thing(she has a little company sewing wigwams). And that little fault can make her explode because she cant handle the pressure of being a housewife and taking care of the kid and doing her business on the side. Altho i help as much as i can(cook sometimes clean s…
/r/askMRP04/06/17 09:39 PM
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I know right. That was my exact same thought.. i have tried to aa/am but it seems to get worse.. she says that i dont give a fck and it only show more that shes not the one. It resulted to a near deas bedroom. But sometimes i try to act like a douchebag and she likes it and we fck intensly.. then the next day she blows up again and she claims im using her as a whore for not giving a shit... it fckes me up i feel so much for her. I really love her but this shit is fcking me up...
/r/askMRP04/06/17 08:24 PM
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Love it..
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/17 08:35 PM
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Dude. Its amazing how a guys mind can fck up the insecurity. I had something like that half year ago. I came too quick once and that pressure stayed.. "what if i fail?" "What if im the new 2 min man?" "She will never respect me.." and so on... these poisoness thoughts kept going through my head. Then I read "no more mr nice guy" and "way of the superior man" I now know its my self confidence.. my broken manliness.. my insecurity and the way i saw my wife.. I recommend doing the "man of march"(go…
/r/askTRP26/03/17 09:53 PM
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