Aquix Archive

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1	Dumped. Need some short advice. Oh no fucking wonder 😂 not sure why you even bothered commenting 🤦🏻 but it also explains the delusional PoV. As for "sex is sex", that isn't the case. Access to sex differs significantly between the genders. Enough of me "mansplaining" though. Have a nice day milady.	/r/TheRedPill	19/01/24 03:05 AM
1	Dumped. Need some short advice. PS: go look up the word kino. I just noticed I've responded to you before. Get off reddit and go learn some shit. It's embarrassing to be this clueless.	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/24 12:00 AM
1	Dumped. Need some short advice. If it's delusional to not treat offers for sex as merely "politeness", then you're right. Even a thirsty twat like you could distinguish the two. Your response carried zero value, as you tried to argue with an assumption that you pulled out of your ass. Carry on with your journey little kid. You might one day have some women throw themselves at you too.	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/24 11:57 PM
1	Dumped. Need some short advice. There's no part of any of our comments that suggest that our definition of "throwing themselves at us" is them being nice/polite. Maybe you're projecting or simply stupid, but regardless, you might learn a thing or two if you approached wisdom differently. Thank you for this morning's entertainment.	/r/TheRedPill	21/12/23 01:38 PM
2	Dumped. Need some short advice. Well said! That is how I view alpha/beta energy in general. Traits from both parts of the spectrum are valuable and sought after by women (they want the tough guy who can also take care of their kids). But as you said, maintaining an alpha frame is key to her not losing respect for you. That includes always being willing to walk away (not when she's pregnant, but if she ever crosses boundaries you've set).	/r/TheRedPill	26/11/23 12:39 PM
1	Dumped. Need some short advice. opens the door to her future advances. It's the long game Yes, but why should he care about this? Wouldn't you say she's a complete waste of OP's time and energy? Why qualify a disrespectful woman? He shouldn't need her validation.	/r/TheRedPill	26/11/23 12:33 PM
1	Dumped. Need some short advice. Bro what are you even talking about? That's the opposite of common sense. RP is common sense, just without the beta programming.	/r/TheRedPill	25/11/23 12:03 AM
2	Dumped. Need some short advice. Clean, solid advice. No second chances.	/r/TheRedPill	25/11/23 12:02 AM
4	Dumped. Need some short advice. If you ever see her again, don't cower and act all beta. Treat her politely like a brand new prospect, but a low priority one. Stand tall, smile politely, flirt but don't pursue. Don't get deep and bring up anything that implies you remember her as your dear ex-girlfriend, keep it surface level and brief. You seem to know your shit, u/npdthrow! What actions/words would you consider as "biting"? Just general indicators of interest, or some things in particular? Also, even if he doesn't bring anyt…	/r/TheRedPill	24/11/23 11:52 PM
1	Dumped. Need some short advice. any long term relationship with hopes of satisfying the woman involved is contingent upon a man leaning into his beta side. Are you suggesting that you can't sustain a LTR without leaning into beta energy?	/r/TheRedPill	24/11/23 11:43 PM
1	Dread Game is so effective that women don’t even know why they are aroused His point about virginity was about a girl's character traits. Although the fact that she was a virgin is nice, it doesn't bode well if she's displaying the traits of a hoe already (hence, "every hoe was a virgin at one point").	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/23 05:00 PM
1	Intimidation Why would you want a chick to approach you?	/r/TheRedPill	20/09/23 02:26 AM
5	Probably the most genuine advice you will ever hear from anyone: Young guys, listen, LEARN to validate your own masculinity cause at the end of the day the only person who can help you retain self-respect is not the women or even other men validating you, IS YOU as a man knowing that you could get it if you felt like it is still very important for confidence and self esteem It can boost your confidence/self-esteem only if you tie your self-worth to that validation. Think about it. Imagine the most "alpha"/successful/chad guys you've been acquainted with: do you really believe that the women came before the confidence? Or was the confidence there to begin with? If you say, "well, they would be drawn to them anyway because of x,y,z", then you'd be missing…	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/23 08:50 AM
3	Am I over reacting? Mostly true. The missing piece of this logic is assuming that calling a woman out on mate-seeking behavior is equivalent to "fearing the competition". It's not. Men will chase your woman, sure. That's unimportant. What's important is how she handles those men. Does she entertain them and allow them to orbit her on Facebook/whatever? Regardless of whether she actually escalates things further, it's disrespectful. He clearly doesn't feel "lesser" than the guy, but does give a shit about how she di…	/r/TheRedPill	30/07/23 06:59 PM
2	Am I over reacting? Forget the idea of insecurity. It's irrelevant. I understand how you feel. You're reacting this way because: of your understanding of human psychology/behavior. you are attached to her (this is something you can do inner work on - since attachment isn't healthy). Give yourself grace here. There's no need to feel guilt about mistrusting her. The signs she showed would concern any intelligent man, especially one who understands how these things work. She seems genuine but she's subconsciously test…	/r/TheRedPill	30/07/23 06:47 PM
3	Never fucking show your weaknesses. Did you get these ideas from the Quran/Hadeeths, or from any particular book? Curious because I would like to read more about this!	/r/TheRedPill	04/06/23 10:15 PM
2	QFM: If your GF/Wife said you had to go through a birth pain simulator in order to have kids (for anywhere between 2-30 hours randomly picked) would you do it? No, as it is an inconsiderate, inane demand. Men have an important role to play in relationships, especially while their women are pregnant or in labor. It doesn't benefit anyone in the relationship for a man to also be suffering in pain alongside their woman; how would he be able to assist or care for her if he is also in pain? Does the pain make her feel better somehow? It's absurd. If a woman shared that she felt it was unreasonable for her to be the only one experiencing pain due to carrying…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 02:44 AM
1	What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”? there's always more to learn.	/r/seduction	28/08/22 09:49 PM
5	I still live at home, does that turn girls off? No. I got laid regularly living at home in my late 20's. Bring her to your bedroom and fuck her. Stop being a self-conscious pussy about it. Your status or value as a man has no relation to the way the lower 99% is being exploited for labor. You live at home because that's how life is right now in a capitalist society, not because there's anything to be shameful about. Capeesh?	/r/seduction	16/07/22 02:51 AM
2	Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interested The "game" is the process of seduction/courtship. Displaying confidence, asking a girl on a date, making strong eye contact, etc is all part of the the same "game". Lying is one form of manipulation that is optional and comes with certain consequences. But playing the game itself is a prerequisite to any intimacy. Just as manipulation (subconscious or not) is a part of every interaction. It's a given. It might be an indication of desperation or scarcity if someone feels the need to lie in order …	/r/seduction	10/07/22 05:32 AM
4	Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interested The reason why I dislike bursting bubbles is because they often yield the nonsensical responses like the one you've provided. Semantics though.	/r/seduction	08/07/22 06:20 PM
-1	Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interested read: drunk girls in bars, girls with low self-esteem, girls with daddy issues, mental health issues, attachment issues, etc. You mean....most girls on the planet? Yeh, it would indeed work on them. That's the idea.	/r/seduction	08/07/22 06:31 AM
0	Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interested She is indeed being disingenuous. But she's also a woman - do you expect anything more? You're right about everything you've expressed but take your own advice and don't debate women, at least not about these topics. It’s doing everyone a disservice by encouraging female participation in this subreddit. This isn't true. While it does indeed disservice men, it's actually benefitting women. That's why they do it. Men being generally less masculine and being less emotionally intelligent means it's …	/r/seduction	08/07/22 06:29 AM
1	Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interested she likely not going to be sitting around on pins and needles waiting for your response. and? OP would be successful if it made her think about him for even 1 hour, let alone the entire evening. OP can simply continue the conversation later. It's low effort, high reward. The only con is that it has low repeatability.	/r/seduction	08/07/22 06:23 AM
46	Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interested He's a game player either way. Hate to burst your bubble but everyone plays the game. And women don't respect and are less attracted to men that don't know how to play it. Smiling in a charismatic way at the right moment is also "playing the game." It's not the technique that's of value in OP's post. It's the understanding that scenarios, where a girl is thinking about you even when you are not interacting with her, are effective in seduction. One "non-fake" way of doing this is by ending an int…	/r/seduction	08/07/22 06:14 AM
0	Do women you’re not attracted to you mean anything to you at all? Do you look up to or admire any women? Mostly not, but there are a handful that have traits and skills that I find impressive. Coincidentally (or not), many of those traits are what I'd consider masculine, so it probably adds to why I don't find them attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/22 08:14 PM
0	Men always being expected to make the first move and approach women, how did that tradition or status-quo originate? i doubt i'm in the only guy in the world who has always hated and resented that Leaders initiate. Men lead. But of course, you don't have to hold up to basic masculine standards or maintain that gender role. Do as you wish, guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 06:43 PM
1	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage The reason subs like this exist and how they can continue to thrive, is because of the sheer amount of evidence that goes against mainstream teachings. If you're a man that meet dozens of women and notice a trend, at one point it would occur to you that, "hey maybe it doesn't work the way I've seen in Disney movies and Rom-coms. going into a new relationship can help deaden the pain of a break It's less about deadening pain and more about being able to start something with a new person when th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 07:39 AM
2	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage I think you meant to reply to the redditor above me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 01:50 AM
2	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage I'll let you do your reading on hypergamy to learn more about how it helps to put the pieces together. I will say that the number of single men & women doesn't preclude the 80/20 rule though, since it's about desire/sex, not about monogamous relationships. Besides, why would one expect there to be more monogamous relationships when a few guys are fucking multiple women? I.E. the people that may report that they're "single" doesn't imply that they are sexually inactive. I'm single but I have sex …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 11:34 PM
4	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage Those other 60% of women are average and are going to date average men. Your logic is missing hypergamy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 08:12 PM
4	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage Only about 15-20% of men can actually “spin plates” Less than that ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 08:10 PM
3	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage Do you have a better source to counter? He shouldn't even need to provide a source for something that's common knowledge. You should be the one bringing evidence to contradict the status quo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 08:09 PM
1	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage Better to grieve through the pain and heal. Is it though? You think most women grieve like that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 07:56 PM
1	paying for the first date A man’s role is both. I’m a traditional woman looking for a provider. What are your thoughts on exclusivity (if your man wanted to have sex with other women) and sex within the relationship (does he get to fuck you whenever he'd like)?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/22 04:43 AM
2	is it not possible to pick up women if i don't drink alcohol? I'd rather not have to deal with that (they can pay for their own ubers), but yes perhaps OP's friends have a use for him in that regard.	/r/seduction	27/04/22 01:35 AM
1	is it not possible to pick up women if i don't drink alcohol? There is nothing to do at night Is daytime not an option? If you work, then....weekends? Right after work?	/r/seduction	27/04/22 01:27 AM
2	is it not possible to pick up women if i don't drink alcohol? Because thats where a lot of young single people go? Young, single people are everywhere: grocery stores, parks, the beach, college, malls, and bars too. Why choose the one location where you don't have an interest? (i.e. OP doesn't have an interest in drinking).	/r/seduction	27/04/22 01:24 AM
18	is it not possible to pick up women if i don't drink alcohol? asking for the virgin drink in the bartender’s ears so the girl doesn’t hear it This is never a good idea. Own your shit.	/r/seduction	26/04/22 08:17 AM
30	is it not possible to pick up women if i don't drink alcohol? I don't drink alcohol. Get laid regularly. Girls don't care about shit like this man. It's weird only if you think it's weird. If I take a girl out and she wants to drink, then she does. I order a virgin mojito or whatever other drink I'm feeling for. Any comment related to this is merely a shit test that's pretty easy to handle. Usually the girl is more self-conscious about herself and whether she should be drinking if I'm not (because I honestly don't give a fuck). it seems like getting a dr…	/r/seduction	26/04/22 08:15 AM
1	How are you supposed to apply any of this if there are 0 women interested in you? What have you tried specifically? Give me some examples.	/r/seduction	23/04/22 11:25 AM
1	How are you supposed to apply any of this if there are 0 women interested in you? Why not?	/r/seduction	23/04/22 06:06 AM
1	How are you supposed to apply any of this if there are 0 women interested in you? Yo. Try daygame. I know you have little to no experience in this realm from your posts, so take my word when I say you'll be pleasantly surprised. Project GO (Simple Pickup) is my favorite for this, if you don't like RSD. There's quite a lot of content out there so I won't bother listing them all - just find something you like and get out there man. I guarantee you that the major (possibly only) thing holding you back is your mindset and knowledge about game.	/r/seduction	23/04/22 03:42 AM
2	How are you supposed to apply any of this if there are 0 women interested in you? Hey hey hey. I work with computers and like gaming in my spare time too. I also get laid as much as I'd like. I show girls my PC and whatever other cool gadgets I have around my place and they're typically impressed. It's less about the hobby and more about his passion for them and his ability to express himself. On my last date, I talked passionately about a game I enjoyed playing and a project I was working on, and she loved it. His main issue, aside from his attitude, is that he needs to find…	/r/seduction	23/04/22 03:34 AM
1	How are you supposed to apply any of this if there are 0 women interested in you? But I cant just approach with no sign of interest You can. That's part of learning game. Study "how to approach" using whatever seduction resources you have. I'm 5'8 so definitely on the short side. That's good enough to get with tons of women.	/r/seduction	23/04/22 03:28 AM
1	paying for the first date FDS?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 07:32 PM
3	Q4M who believe that women having tattoos is a “red flag” for promiscuity: do you have tattoos? Indicator for promiscuity? Yes. Do I see it as a "red flag"? No, not necessarily. It's intuitive. If she's comfortable with letting a stranger ink her body, especially in places like her abdomen, thighs, or chest, then there's a higher chance that she'd be comfortable with strange men escalating with her. No, I do not have tattoos. Reason: I don't believe it's worth risking infections, cancer, or spirit attachment just for some supposed extra aesthetic (I also believe my skin looks amazing as it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 11:33 AM
4	If a woman has a boyfriend should you like her pics on ig? Bf or not, what do you think liking a girl's IG pics is gonna do for you exactly? Don't waste your time doing pointless things. respect the relationship and shit Don't ask reddit to dictate your morality. As a man, it's up to you to decide what your morals are and where you stand. There is nothing inherently wrong with fucking married women. It comes with the risks it comes with. Do you see it as "wrong" though? If you do, then don't take the first steps. It's not about respecting the relation…	/r/seduction	13/04/22 12:56 AM
1	(Q4M) How important is it to you that a partner shaves armpits, legs, etc.? How important? Very - for me at least. It's connected with beauty and I'll certainly see a lady as less attractive if she had hairy legs and armpits than if she hadn't. Sex is also more enjoyable for me with trimmed/shaved/waxed pubic hair (feels better, smells better, and less/no hair in my mouth while eating her out). As a guy, I groom my body hair and don't find it difficult at all, just like it's not an issue to brush my teeth in the morning or before bed. I'd cringe to hear any lady complai…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 03:01 AM
1	Going on dates with women has made me realize how invisible I am. Is this a woman thing or do I just look uninteresting? When I go out, literally no one will attempt to make conversation with me. Why would they talk to you? Remember that men approach women; not the other way around. because I think it's kind of just because of how I look. Nah. The majority of men experience life like you. Don't overthink it. It's a good thing because it means you get to pick your interactions and don't have to constantly devote energy to handling people.	/r/seduction	08/04/22 12:57 PM
1	An honest question or I’d say a concern. You seem to have taken offense to something I've said. I wrote plainly, without a hint of malice. Women know their roles better than the men of this time. Although women may feign confusion in the face of most, they will instinctively submit when they meet a man that they deem is worthy to breed them. Of course, I acknowledge that you (one woman of billions) may very well be an exception, but I'd wager you are not. Heal, look within, let go of the social programming, and it will be clear as day.	/r/TheRedPill	06/04/22 11:37 AM
1	An honest question or I’d say a concern. Wait, why don’t men need us? Alpha men can survive without women (they can survive without other men too, but it's convenient to hunt in groups). Women cannot survive without men (they'll die from predators). Though in 2022 this is not literally factual, it is still how our brains function (and it is still quite true when looking at it from a "roles perspective"). What if you want a family? The question itself is flawed. Maybe you meant, "what if you want kids?" (to which, the answer would sim…	/r/TheRedPill	06/04/22 08:03 AM
1	An honest question or I’d say a concern. A monogamous relationship might make it more likely for the first to happen, but isn't necessary. As /u/strikethrough123 mentioned, you can simply draw your boundary and fuck other women. From there, it depends on how she views you. This might be strange to you because of the beta programming you've been injected with over the years, but many women will share if it means they get to keep receiving alpha's cock and affection. unsolvable problem Nothing about relationships is unsolvable. Nothing…	/r/TheRedPill	06/04/22 07:41 AM
5	An honest question or I’d say a concern. plus im kinda scared she’ll hookup outta anger You have two sensible options here. Set a boundary and stand by it. I.e. tell her if she fucks other guys, you're out. Accept that you're fwb and that she's going to fuck other guys. If you can't sustain this emotionally even while fucking other women, cut her off because it will exhaust you and drive you to be a needy little bitch.	/r/TheRedPill	02/04/22 09:58 PM
3	Losing myself due to performance anxiety Great post man, I'm interested in hearing more of your thoughts on 5 (arguing with a woman).	/r/TheRedPill	30/03/22 05:14 PM
47	How to truly dm a girl? after a few months of doing the above Wow. That's some real dedication my guy. I removed that kind of patience a long time ago. Girls who are interested will respond. The ones that "eventually come around and notice you" tend to be weaker connections and have a lower chance of retention (in my experience at least). Then again, social media is rare for me as I find most of my plates through daygame, so YMMV.	/r/seduction	30/03/22 10:38 AM
18	What is it with girls when they see other women are interested in you, they become super interested? Men and women want different things and thus have different value systems. Promiscuity in women isn't a particularly attractive feature for men (because that introduces competition with sperm and not knowing whether it's actually their offspring). Promiscuity (success with women) in men is an indication of high social value and good genes, which is are both highly valuable in the eyes of women. Remember that a woman's position in the tribe depends on men granting her permission to be there. Wome…	/r/seduction	02/03/22 09:48 AM
3	/r/AskMen asks "Men that opened up to the girlfriend/wife when they asked you to open up and be more vulnerable, how did it work out for you?" and gets the wrong answer... I completely agree with the reasoning for why women shit test - it's a great way to screen men. If not, you get butthurt about it because you haven't the strength to meet your problems head-on yet. If it keeps up it's because you haven't learned that lesson. This is interesting! Could you elaborate with an example or two?	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/22 02:06 AM
21	/r/AskMen asks "Men that opened up to the girlfriend/wife when they asked you to open up and be more vulnerable, how did it work out for you?" and gets the wrong answer... I've had experiences on both sides. I think women are more likely to be supportive if they see you as alpha otherwise (so the few "chinks in alpha-ness" don't necessarily destroy their attraction for you). So yeah, opening up emotionally to your lady probably lowers their attraction for you, but if you're much more confident around them as a result of being able to share, then it can work out fine. It's important to be somewhat cautious though because I can imagine some guys going overboard with…	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/22 01:48 AM
5	Her body count is a strong predictor of infidelity Because no amount of investigation will guarantee you an accurate answer. It's not an effective way to screen for LTR's.	/r/TheRedPill	10/02/22 01:30 PM
1	Her body count is a strong predictor of infidelity Nothing's "wrong" with either. But they convey very different things.	/r/TheRedPill	10/02/22 01:26 PM
0	Why Mate Guarding is a subconscious turn off What matters is what works best for him. Yeah, true that. This applies to both alpha and beta mating strategies. I also agree that it isn't the case that one is superior to the other. I wanted to point out though, that the situation (and behavior exhibited - whether they care or not) for alpha males tends to be different than for beta males. There isn't much energy being exerted by alphas into keeping women around or even seeking them out. Remember, women are drawn to alphas - they want him to i…	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/22 01:48 AM
2	You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sex Relationships are simply friendship with added element of sex and sexual attraction. I know most people view it that way, especially women. But I've long since separated the idea of a "friendship" from "intimate relationship". If you take the sexual component out, there's nothing, because I wouldn't want them as my "friend" anyway. Sure, some of the qualities I look for in a mate might overlap with qualities I look for in a friend, but it's an overlap and not simply an additional sexual componen…	/r/seduction	08/02/22 07:16 AM
1	Why Mate Guarding is a subconscious turn off by handling it well. By this, do you mean allowing it to continue without caring?	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/22 07:05 AM
4	Why Mate Guarding is a subconscious turn off Why do you think that? Do you think alpha males invest energy into trying to ensure women are theirs? It seems to me like they'd instead invest that energy into fucking other women (and otherwise living their lives).	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/22 06:58 AM
25	Why Mate Guarding is a subconscious turn off if you let other men make a mess of your family Are you letting other men do anything? Or is it more about what you're letting your woman do? Men are always gonna try fuck. I think it's important to pay attention to how your woman interacts with other men. You can verbally draw a line (wherever you want), and if they cross it then hell yes you walk out. Are you telling me if you saw your wife/gf/w.e. up close and personal flirting with some guy at work, you'd try to "explain to her why it wasn't…	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/22 09:31 PM
1	Why Mate Guarding is a subconscious turn off Alphas aren't afraid of betas. Your confidence in being able to physically destroy competition was attractive. non-needy way Key. You weren't guarding because of a lack of abundance or fear that you couldn't find another girl. You were marking your territory and she liked that feeling (it's a lot of validation). But all of that doesn't mean there weren't parts of her that viewed you as less attractive. Subconsciously, she still might have viewed the guarding itself as beta.	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/22 08:47 PM
4	Why Mate Guarding is a subconscious turn off Do elaborate, please. Or link Adam's video if he has one up on this topic.	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/22 08:41 PM
12	Why Mate Guarding is a subconscious turn off Because that's just what women do. There are girls I've dated that have been so into me that other guys appear completely unattractive to them (and there's practically zero flirting when interacting with other men). It depends on the girl and how she sees you, probably.	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/22 08:38 PM
7	Why Mate Guarding is a subconscious turn off Can the expectation of (or desire for) monogamy be considered a form of mate-guarding?	/r/TheRedPill	07/02/22 08:33 PM
6	Chasing Stacy When do you typically broach this topic (before fucking, after the first few times, etc)? Also, do you not cut girls loose if you find them fucking other dudes, or is it only when those other dudes seem to take priority over you?	/r/TheRedPill	31/01/22 01:30 AM
3	Do anyone else see being a male cockblocking friend a dick move? what will you do if shes getting hit on by chad and tyrone around you in public What would you do?	/r/seduction	27/01/22 07:43 PM
7	Today I made conversation with a random stunning girl I approached on the street She was waiting for her friend. She had nothing better to do so had a friendly chat. And what? Whether the conversation lasts for 3 min or 20min has nothing to do with what I was pointing out. would rather not tell a creep What makes OP a creep? You're making an assumption here. Which is better - to assume that if you talk to a girl then you're a creep, or that if you talk to a girl and she engages in conversation, that she likes you? Which assumption makes more sense to hold in one's mind? …	/r/seduction	26/01/22 01:47 PM
6	Today I made conversation with a random stunning girl I approached on the street Don't let that stuff get to you man. It's fine to approach, at all of those locations (and more). So long as you aren't doing either of the following things, then it's safe to assume that she isn't being cornered: Obstructing a woman's path if you've met her on the street (leave room for her to leave by standing adjacent to the direction she was travelling). Trying to have a conversation for more than a few minutes after placing a very large amount of social pressure on her to continue talking w…	/r/seduction	26/01/22 10:59 AM
3	Today I made conversation with a random stunning girl I approached on the street she didn't engage Huh? He said they talked for 15-20min until she had to go with her friend. This is absolutely engagement. Engagement doesn't always equal "significant" interest, but while interacting with women, it's best to assume that engagement = interest. Anything beyond that has nothing to do with the guy. Don't blame u/iBasit for a woman's failure to reject. In fact, she might have simply enjoyed the validation and conversation for what it was, while knowing that she wouldn't give him a …	/r/seduction	26/01/22 10:45 AM
-1	Women can be extremely fickle with their emotions when you first get to know them. They can be attracted to you one day, and then lose interest the next. Understand and accept this before you develop feelings for someone you barely know So how do we keep them interested? Assess your behavior. Experiment. Try shit you haven't done before (when was the last time you approached a woman and looked her straight in the eyes and told her you thought her ass looked sexy af and held that frame till the end of the interaction?) When do girls stick around? Start analyzing your game (consider recording if you're really serious about it). Ngl this shit is really starting to get to me. Detach from outcome (or work towards doing so). Having…	/r/seduction	14/01/22 08:22 AM
1	Women can be extremely fickle with their emotions when you first get to know them. They can be attracted to you one day, and then lose interest the next. Understand and accept this before you develop feelings for someone you barely know It probably is. But changing that takes time, so in the interim, it's not a bad idea to try to overcome it with quantity (he'll learn more about himself and develop confidence this way too).	/r/seduction	14/01/22 08:13 AM
0	Women can be extremely fickle with their emotions when you first get to know them. They can be attracted to you one day, and then lose interest the next. Understand and accept this before you develop feelings for someone you barely know You make several good points about emotions and convey truly common scenarios, such as talking all night with a woman and though they seem interested, don't text back. However, this type of stuff rarely happens with guys with more experience (not because they're "better men" but because they understand that it's useless to put oneself in that scenario anyway). They'll never waste their time talking all night with a girl they just met. It's not a complicated formula. Approach -> Gauge interest ->…	/r/seduction	14/01/22 08:09 AM
1	Is it really bad if, after a woman asks me what my height is, I ask her what her weight is? If it’s not listed, it’s a way to visualize how that person would look in real life. It gives you a frame of reference. This is the same thing one would do with weight (using it as a way to visualize).	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 08:15 AM
0	Girl with holding sex? Her behavior screams like you are her beta-male provider (in which case the rules for sex are set differently for you). However, it could also very well be because of past trauma or how she was cultured (her not being a virgin doesn't mean she's easy to bed, and you said it's long-distance so how many actual sexual encounters have you attempted?) I truly just want some input on what I need to do here Think. You have chemistry and everything seems fine to you, including her telling you she want…	/r/seduction	04/01/22 12:16 PM
12	A man hit on me in a coffee shop, and although I’m taken, it was really adorable. If we're comparing this with breaking out in a sweat and being too nervous to move a muscle, then sure this guy was more confident than the super shy person. But you make it sound like it's some huge display of confidence to do what he did. He was literally following the advice given by this subreddit yet everyone is hating on him. False. I can understand the OP being clueless about this (she's the stereotypical woman), but as a guy that's using terms like "abundance", you should know better. …	/r/seduction	31/12/21 02:23 PM
60	A man hit on me in a coffee shop, and although I’m taken, it was really adorable. Most women do this. They don't even realize it unless their partner has drawn explicit lines (and even then it might not stop them from engaging). Just accept it as the default behavior for women. Whether it's okay or not is a debate about ethics (but this conversation is about sexual selection - and it benefits women to engage with potential mates that seem valuable to her).	/r/seduction	31/12/21 01:38 PM
-2	The concept of alpha/beta/sigma males is bullshit. Independent, self-assured, centered men don’t care about labels those type of men didn’t refer to themselves as ‘alphas’ And? How does this invalidate anything? putting on a false front is the behavior of a truly weak man Debatable. I see it as one option among a sea of other dating techniques. Not a technique I'd use, but I can see how it might benefit certain individuals. They also aren’t afraid to be kind (not nice) It's not that alphas are "mean" or "evil", they just don't give a fuck. Because they don't need to. The tribe mostly depends on them, not…	/r/seduction	30/12/21 12:04 AM
1	Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings. Which part about anything I've said sounds "bitter" to you? Regardless, you should be able to argue with what I'm saying, instead of with how you think I feel. I'll do you a solid and elaborate a bit on these concepts. You shouldn't be surprised that so many guys in this thread are repulsed by the girl's reaction. Let go of the illogical programming such as, "female promiscuity is no different than male promiscuity" or "if a girl is still in a relationship with a guy, it must mean that she respe…	/r/seduction	27/12/21 08:53 AM
2	Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings. Idk I wasn’t there. That's fair, but we're going off of OP's description. I do think you’d have to be an insane individual to date someone long term that you aren’t attracted to and don’t respect. Not at all. Women do this all the time for resources. It's an effective strategy. That doesn't mean she won't cheat on him or leave him the moment she sees a reliable opportunity to date up.	/r/seduction	27/12/21 03:48 AM
2	[deleted by user] How do you normally initiate it? When I feel like it. Remember that you're supposed to lead - whether it's taking her hand in yours, stroking her cheek before a kiss, or lifting her up. It's worth considering the "vibe" too: it fits in best with a playful, higher-energy vibe (you can create this yourself). Obviously, if the girl is ultra shy then you use common sense and don't risk taking her too far past her estimated comfort zone. But if she's receptive to being touched (say she's perfectly fi…	/r/seduction	27/12/21 03:00 AM
5	Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings. It sounds like you're telling him to be grateful that she's not fucking other guys. she’s still in a relationship with you. For now. OP's completely in the dark about things (hardly even understands his own feelings) and seems to be deeply programmed by the feminist movement. Do you really think a woman who respects and is attracted to her man, would behave as OP described? It doesn't matter if she's fucked 300 men, she'll "come correct" when she's with a guy that she considers an ideal mate.	/r/seduction	26/12/21 09:05 AM
1	Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings. Are you seeking to understand female psychology? Or trying to understand why you feel the way you do? (your intention wasn't clear in your post). This was from a discussion which originated from us talking about how good her BJ was that night, and I felt uncomfortable with why would she bring that up so casually. I see (at least) these 2 possibilities: She has poor social intelligence. She doesn't respect you as a male. It's likely the 2nd. It's completely okay to be proud of our hoe phases Wher…	/r/seduction	26/12/21 08:57 AM
2	[deleted by user] Yeah.. do you do any martial arts? Think of a double leg takedown. But really you just squat down, both arms wrap around her thighs (right underneath her butt) with your head on either side of her (such that your shoulder acts as a fulcrum if she leans forward), then stand up. I could search for some prank or pickup videos where guys demonstrate this (if you really can't picture it). It's easier than it sounds and is really fun. Try it on a friend (guy or girl doesn't matter) and you'll figure i…	/r/seduction	26/12/21 03:51 AM
2	[deleted by user] These 2 statements imply that you have the same ultimate desire: That allegory is strictly based in a desire to have a sexual connection/action. I have played that for a month to a year before the connection escalated But you're trying to justify that waiting for excessive periods and spending energy to "stay on the sexual radar" can lead to a desirable result (sex). I'd say that a majority of cases won't lead to sex (because of the previously mentioned "boxes"), but even if it hypothetically le…	/r/seduction	25/12/21 03:34 AM
1	Please help me understand the situation: Flat mate light switched on me and I dont understand why we started drinkin and watchin shit online as any other evening You rejected her, what do you expect? That was an obvious invitation for sex. By not making a move, she likely feels unworthy of you (as you suspect) because she couldn't get you to try to fuck her. Girls don't make the moves man - inviting you to her room with alcohol involved is already doing A LOT. I dont really care But you do, and you know she can affect you. just go on with my life Find another place? Even if you fucked her, t…	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/21 05:40 AM
9	My little bro has had more sexual experience than me… Never even had a girl call me handsome. What if only 1 woman called you handsome? Would that eliminate the issue you have? No? What about 5 women? At what point would you be fully convinced that you're handsome? Let's say you have certified evidence that you are NOT handsome, what's your next move? Give up? Fuck no. Because you can be with amazing women regardless. The thing is, women aren't programmed to compliment men. They have no need to. As a guy that's been called handsome several times, I…	/r/seduction	23/12/21 05:17 AM
32	My little bro has had more sexual experience than me… Herpes, emotional immaturity, a low-end career You mean like most people in the country? You probably know this intuitively but I'll say it anyway: it's not healthy to try to elevate yourself by lowering others. Are you free from issues in this world? I don't think so. Everybody's got their own things to manage. Live and love~	/r/seduction	23/12/21 04:39 AM
5	[deleted by user] Simple.. They see you as a good mate (they want your genes), but a bad provider (they don't trust that you can care for their kids). There might be many things that you're doing, that turn them away from the desire for a long-term relationship. Sex ≠ relationship.	/r/seduction	21/12/21 06:46 PM
2	[deleted by user] Females always complain about how guys only want sex. Why do you care what they complain about? That particular complaint is just a layer of deception used to spread beta culture so that women have higher chances of acquiring resources. But your understanding of this doesn't change much. Instead, simply avoid listening to what women complain about or what they suggest (when it comes to the realm of dating/seduction at least).	/r/seduction	21/12/21 06:43 PM
18	[deleted by user] Ir its too late then attraction fades from their side.. You don't have control of this. Attraction may fade or grow depending on so many factors. The point of "striking while the iron is hot" is that you usually only have one chance to make an impression AND it's an allegory about sexual momentum. People have a tendency to put others in boxes (they categorize). "This guy is a friend", "this is a potential mate", "this guy can teach me about keto diets and physics", etc. It takes energy (and ther…	/r/seduction	21/12/21 06:37 PM
6	[deleted by user] It's not really a misconception. It's more about patience and valuing time. You're describing what's called "social circle game". I have enjoyed success from it when I tried it and know a lot of guys that swear by it, but I think it's less efficient than cold approach. No because if I wanted to I could escalate with any one of them. It's not about being friendzoned. The limitation is you have to abide by social standards to avoid disintegrating the circle. If you tried to escalate with 5 friends…	/r/seduction	21/12/21 06:25 PM
7	[deleted by user] If a first date doesn't go to a second date, the most common reason is a lack of sexual/physical attraction. Have you ever had a pleasant first date with good convo and laughs to just be ghosted? Just wanted to add that another common reason for this is a lack of kino on the date (I think there's already inherent attraction if she's on a date with you to begin with). Some questions and things to consider: - Did you try to touch her hands? - Did you take opportunities to hold her arm in yours or …	/r/seduction	21/12/21 05:58 PM
2	Why is there this new trend among red pillers and guys in the manosphere to just "give up" on dating and women? Why are so many red pillers and guys in the manosphere just giving up with women and dating? Why has this become the overriding message now? They've recognized that the eventual fate of the large majority (I don't know the current stats but think upwards of 80-90%) of men is to wind up alone (and possibly broke because their resources were taken). That world will quickly form as women continue to exercise their hypergamy. Dating apps, social media, and ease of travel have sped up this process ex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/21 03:23 PM
-1	A female friend told me that I have no sexual vibe. What to do? Would you like me to put that in bold next time to save your time? I mean, you know where the downvote button is. For the beta males and blue pill subscribers that might wonder why I'm not recanting my advice: surely this isn't the first time you've seen a "rule of thumb". I don't feel the need to cover the exceptions and potential benefits that you might gain from listening to a woman when you have far more chances of being burnt than not. Besides, the unique details and experiences that a woma…	/r/seduction	16/12/21 10:29 AM
6	A female friend told me that I have no sexual vibe. What to do? I've said it multiple times before on this sub, and I'll say it again: Avoid taking advice from females. There might be some truth to the advice you'll get from them, but there's more salt than value. The only words you want to consider from a female are those that help you calibrate while you're trying to fuck them - and usually, their body language will be sufficient feedback anyway. Trusting her opinion because she's hot? Really man? Julien Blanc has some good content that you'd find really h…	/r/seduction	16/12/21 02:31 AM
2	Smoothest rejection I’ve ever had, we both got a laugh outta it therapy indeed	/r/seduction	03/12/21 02:28 AM
1	To those who have successfully shot their shot to famous actresses or models, how did you do it? social interactions are not like math where you can use strict logic. This isn't true. Just because you don't understand it to a degree where you can make a list of suggestions that don't contradict each other, does not mean social interactions are illogical.	/r/seduction	02/12/21 06:32 AM
15	[India] my therapist just told me that cold approaches don't work in this society Don't take dating advice from women. Cold approach and the principles of attraction work everywhere, including places like India. Most therapists don't know shit about pickup, seduction, and mating strategies used by humans. Do you think material like what you might find in RSD is taught in any of their undergrad courses? Therapy is important, and you should keep doing that, but understand the limitations of the person you are getting advice from. I'm speaking from experience, as I did cold appr…	/r/seduction	29/11/21 01:53 PM
5	POINTERS for things that men should not do if they want to get laid She will feel amazed and surprised by this, and want to make it your first priority. So why do you think it's a problem if it's already the first thing on their mind? You want sex, he wants sex, yet it's an issue if he straight up asks to fuck, right? And for some reason, women still think that guys will just randomly try to befriend them for platonic reasons. Of course he wants to have sex with you - doesn't matter if it's at the roller skating park or in a bookstore. Him NOT wanting this would…	/r/seduction	11/11/21 11:06 PM
2	Can I ask for casual sex? Having a female friend makes you more attractive in the eyes of other women. Even if sex is his only interest, that’s something to lose. No it isn't, unless he determines his self-worth by the number of female friends he has. And even if that friend were to add some social value to how he is perceived, it's certainly not worth the negative consequences associated with keeping somebody like that around. Learn to cut them off instead of hoping for the day you'll be able to use the person as levera…	/r/seduction	07/11/21 01:09 AM
1	What a lot of guys don't understand about Social Circle Game is that there are 3 parts to it. 1) Meeting new people. 2) Getting to know them. 3) Then they introduce you to their friends. Most guys want to be at Step 3 without doing Steps 1 and 2. This is why social circle game doesn't work for them. Getting laid is not the part that's "dirty". That's totally fine imo, so long as it's not hidden beneath some friendship scheme.	/r/seduction	12/08/21 01:33 PM
1	What a lot of guys don't understand about Social Circle Game is that there are 3 parts to it. 1) Meeting new people. 2) Getting to know them. 3) Then they introduce you to their friends. Most guys want to be at Step 3 without doing Steps 1 and 2. This is why social circle game doesn't work for them. Oh quite the contrary, I find it easy to connect with people and have a healthy social circle. I just don't try to grow the circle with the intention of getting laid, when cold approach is already effective enough for that. I have "enough" friends. if you see making friends as a goal in itself That's not what the OP is about. OP's intent is still to get laid, but his brilliant idea is to just "not think about it that way! Just make more friends and sporadically you can hit on some of them in a…	/r/seduction	12/08/21 09:02 AM
1	What a lot of guys don't understand about Social Circle Game is that there are 3 parts to it. 1) Meeting new people. 2) Getting to know them. 3) Then they introduce you to their friends. Most guys want to be at Step 3 without doing Steps 1 and 2. This is why social circle game doesn't work for them. In reality, this is just advice on how to make friends as a socially healthy person. To get laid. Don't forget that there's an ulterior motive (as with pyramid schemes). It's "social circle game", not "how to make friends", even if there is a natural overlap.	/r/seduction	12/08/21 08:42 AM
-2	What a lot of guys don't understand about Social Circle Game is that there are 3 parts to it. 1) Meeting new people. 2) Getting to know them. 3) Then they introduce you to their friends. Most guys want to be at Step 3 without doing Steps 1 and 2. This is why social circle game doesn't work for them. Feels just as dirty too :)	/r/seduction	11/08/21 08:28 PM
2	What a lot of guys don't understand about Social Circle Game is that there are 3 parts to it. 1) Meeting new people. 2) Getting to know them. 3) Then they introduce you to their friends. Most guys want to be at Step 3 without doing Steps 1 and 2. This is why social circle game doesn't work for them. I've done this before and yeah no ty, will stick to cold approach. This is an inefficient use of my emotional energy.	/r/seduction	11/08/21 08:26 PM
0	Where to meet women if don’t drink and no online apps? I've gotten a few instant dates at Target. My issue with such places is there's just so few people at any one point in time, and there's typically nowhere to go if the area is "dry". So one might do 1-2 approaches and then it's like, "well I guess I gotta drive elsewhere".	/r/seduction	11/08/21 09:32 AM
0	Where to meet women if don’t drink and no online apps? run the risk of spending too much time together There's no such thing if they're a "match". Also, having no friends doesn't mean he can't decide to spend time alone as he has been doing all this while. makes it seem like there’s something wrong with them Touché. This will make things harder for him, yes.	/r/seduction	11/08/21 09:29 AM
2	Want Her to Come Over? Have More to Offer Than just Sex Are you a woman? Sounds like the kind of advice a woman who didn't understand basic facts about seduction would give. dick itself is plentiful As is pussy, so this point is moot. if he puts some effort into it and makes it an enjoyable experience for her This goes both ways. I typically find the situation is the other way around - that the guys are trying way too hard to make the experience enjoyable for her. They don't value themselves and don't see themselves as "the prize" or even equals,…	/r/seduction	31/05/21 02:10 AM
42	Pro tip I learned from a natural I prefer to assume every girl is single. Working from this frame automatically gives me permission to engage and escalate. Many times, using this frame has opened doors even with women that did have partners.	/r/seduction	21/04/21 01:50 AM
3	1 girl is a anomaly. 10 girls is a trend. 100 girls is your reality. woman #66 says if the previous 65 haven't indicated that I talk too much The flaw in this logic is that the premise assumes there is only one "correct" way to be. That so-called "sweet spot" that you supposedly need to calibrate to, doesn't really exist. People are different and desire different things. Learning to calibrate and understanding what YOU want in a woman is what is important. Just because most women think you "talk too much" doesn't mean you need to adjust that at all. Part of NOT h…	/r/seduction	22/02/21 05:54 AM
-3	[Vital Lesson] Don't let your Friends know, ESPECIALLY your Female Friends, that You are learning Game and how to Approach. Good advice. I'm perfectly fine with having little to no female friends though. Truly platonic friendships with the opposite sex are rare anyway. Avoids messy situations with the women I'm actually dating or in a relationship with.	/r/seduction	26/01/21 11:35 PM
3	Rule: if she flakes, she's out for these types of women, I keep a mental note to not trust her or get into any relationship with her That's what I was wondering. It's how I would see it too, but since I avoid fwb's and try to date "with purpose", I just cut them off permanently. I've found that most girls that seem to be "okay with fwb" anyway, really aren't.	/r/seduction	16/01/21 04:13 AM
4	Rule: if she flakes, she's out What's the point of leaving that avenue open though? Once she's shown you that she's not really interested and has no issues with being flakey (which is disrespectful), why would you give her a chance? She'd have to bring some reallyyyyyy solid reasons to have any chance at coming back after "a couple months later".	/r/seduction	16/01/21 01:43 AM
1	My ex broke up with me saying that I texted him too much. I decided to write a program to analyze our text and using hard data to show him wrong Brilliant, this app will come in handy one day! Thank you for creating it and for sharing it open-source. I text/communicate a lot too, and I'll still say that it's unlikely that "texting too much" was the (primary) reason that things ended. It may indeed have been something that bothered him, but unlikely that it was the core reason. Regardless, your conclusion shows growth, and it's nice that you could leave this having accomplished something. Cheers.	/r/seduction	08/12/20 06:52 AM
1	The fool-proof way of making more connections, meeting more women, and meeting likeminded people. This is impossible to mess up. Salsa dancing.	/r/seduction	16/10/19 02:23 PM
1	My first experience ever getting laid from a cold approach in a nightclub Malls, clubs, parks, dance class, campus grounds if you're in uni, everywhere?	/r/seduction	12/07/19 10:08 PM
1	My first experience ever getting laid from a cold approach in a nightclub How the fuck do all of these men... Your question is "How do they do it?" The answer to your question lies within the study of seduction, so get some books, watch youtube videos, and/or perhaps even pay for mentorship. The point is that there is a lot to learn, and it's not some magical, unattainable thing. If you have no idea where to start, try looking up Simple Pickup or HonestSignalz on Youtube. From there, you could try reading the book Magic Bullets by Savoy. That should give you a decen…	/r/seduction	12/07/19 07:59 AM
1	My first experience ever getting laid from a cold approach in a nightclub It's a difficult process for most. Learn game, for starters, and then go out there and try it.	/r/seduction	12/07/19 07:31 AM
1	My first experience ever getting laid from a cold approach in a nightclub Versus social game where you meet women via mutual friends, or women whom you have already been acquainted with in some way (for example a girl in your class or a girl from work).	/r/seduction	12/07/19 07:29 AM
2	How NOT to Text a Girl - Don’t let Your Match get Banged by Another Guy! Wholesome thread :)	/r/seduction	20/05/19 02:02 PM
1	I [28M] got a good paying job and suddenly have women show interest in me Hey bro, I understand exactly how you feel. And it's why I actually don't talk about my profession unless it explicitly is requested in conversation (not as common as you might think, especially if you're good at leading). Find women who clearly like you for you, but at the same time... Do acknowledge the fact that you being a doctor is a part of you. You don't need to identify as one, but there's no need to completely detach from it. Also, learn to screen effectively for gold diggers. Some girl…	/r/seduction	12/05/19 05:10 AM
9	[FR] Met her online, dated, got married Thank you for that well worded reply. You highlighted many of the fallacies and explained why. Real tips in the comment section eh :)	/r/seduction	18/04/19 03:20 AM
4	[FR] Met her online, dated, got married To warn the noobs that visit this thread to take his advice with a grain of salt. He's putting OP's credibility into question, for good reason.	/r/seduction	18/04/19 03:13 AM
23	Girl Only Texts You If You Text First (Here's Why) Have you heard of putting someone on a pedestal? That's the equivalent of the 2nd point.	/r/seduction	26/03/19 05:07 AM
5	Girl Only Texts You If You Text First (Here's Why) I mean, you're in this subreddit so I'm sure you're familiar with pickup right? Please learn more about it, and try to understand: It works. Once you can acknowledge that it works, you can then open your mind to why it works. I know you mean well (that's clear from your writing), but right now it seems like you're oblivious to basic principles of attraction.	/r/seduction	26/03/19 05:05 AM
1	A Rant from a girl: Why it isn’t working for you… I suppose you do mean well, but yeah sorry no. This is mostly poor advice.	/r/seduction	03/04/18 10:28 PM
1	A Snapchat Guide to Game: How to create captivating stories Now do one for Tinder and Twitter :3	/r/seduction	19/12/16 02:01 PM
2	How To Keep A Woman Attracted To You. Not sure how I twisted your words, but okay. I'm sorry that you feel that way about women, and that you think it's just something I need to "get". I hope you find a way to trust that they are not all as sleazy as you make it seem. Goodluck.	/r/seduction	11/11/16 05:05 AM
2	How To Keep A Woman Attracted To You. Her getting approached is fine - how she handles the approach is what matters. It's silly for you to proclaim that my gf is engaging other men because she's attractive. I can assure you that she rejects them outright. I agree about the space thing to an extent. The key thing is at times. Honestly, I wouldn't mind spending all my time with my gf, but I just have other things I need to do, like work or study. If I really wanna spend more time with her though, there's no "attraction thing" that I n…	/r/seduction	11/11/16 04:02 AM
2	How To Keep A Woman Attracted To You. Number 3 works in terms of keeping skills sharp. However, that would be disrespectful to my girl. I wouldn't want her to engage other men either. Especially because I understand attraction to the extent that I do. Other points are good, I suppose. This part nagged me a little: "give her the gift of missing you". At a point in your relationship, both of you will have invested such that you don't really have to ensure you stay away from her to build (or maintain) attraction. If you want to spend t…	/r/seduction	10/11/16 11:55 PM
29	How much does (good) first sex affect a woman's attraction for you? Only works if the girl is enthusiastic and willing to learn and get better. Super hot girls sometimes come with ego issues.	/r/seduction	10/11/16 11:38 PM
1	Asked out a 10 Discussions? dude just talk to her like before... But he did have conversations/discussions with her before How did she not bring him up in all our conversations! I was just pointing out a possible perspective the girl may have. I agree that it's beneficial for him to continue, but the girl might not let that happen because she now knows (for sure) that OP is romantically interested in her. Perhaps you're different, but if I were in an exclusive relationship with my gf, I know she wouldn't be ok…	/r/seduction	10/07/16 10:47 PM
1	Asked out a 10 I presumed this was a rare case - where he approached someone he'd probably be able to see regularly (since she's the receptionist at his gym). Most of our approaches are ideally cold approaches with strangers, to avoid shitting where we eat. Though I have done the exact same thing as OP in the past.. With the exception that I did maintain a friendly relationship with said girl. It was pleasant but didn't extend to anything beneficial beyond a friendly smile/conversation when I entered/left the …	/r/seduction	10/07/16 07:41 AM
1	Asked out a 10 He doesn't feel it's worth exerting energy towards a girl he doesn't see an opportunity with. He gave it a shot and now he wants to try for other chicks instead. At least, that's where I hope he's coming from. It'd be silly to avoid her out of the desire to avoid awkwardness.	/r/seduction	10/07/16 06:22 AM
5	Asked out a 10 upgrade Not really. Don't mix up high quality with plain sluttiness. She'd just break up with the guy if she saw things weren't up to her standard and be confident that she could find another guy. A high value girl wouldn't leave her bf for another guy.	/r/seduction	10/07/16 06:17 AM
2	Asked out a 10 There's a chance she wouldn't entertain further discussions out of loyalty to her bf, though it's worth a shot I suppose.	/r/seduction	10/07/16 06:13 AM
3	A real guide to seduction That's my 5 key tips You posted 6.	/r/seduction	12/12/15 04:55 AM
2	Leave your comfort zone. It's amazing what will happen. "But all the valuable things I learned here had to do solely with self improvement." "I like to think that all the failures, rejections, and positive changes in my life were preparing me for this. Almost like nothing else could work out because this girl was waiting for me to be ready for her." Those lines hit home for me. Great post man. All the best with winning her over (again and again)!	/r/seduction	09/03/15 01:34 AM
2	18m new to the seduction world. Any advice really helps. I've asked out 7 other women before but every time I've been rejected, and I'm just afraid now. If it makes you feel any better bro, the majority of us started out with less than a 10% success rate for dating. Go ask out another 93 girls at least, then come back and tell me you didn't get one date.	/r/seduction	04/03/15 08:26 PM
1	How to approach a group of girls? This is the most logical and likely-to-succeed response ITT. What are your "pickup influences"?	/r/seduction	02/03/15 01:45 PM
1	How to respond to "I have a boyfriend" when she likely actually does and it isn't just a random girl who you will never see again? Oh, that's a good question actually. I have a motto that goes something like "run with an interaction until the girl tells you to fuck off" It's because I still consider myself a beginner (or intermediate if I was being generous), and know that I have a ton more to learn about this art. Playing out different scenarios gives me more reference experience that I can use to my advantage. Also, I have gotten dates with girls who've responded like that. I get the response often enough (I'm sure a lot …	/r/seduction	28/02/15 12:38 AM
1	How to respond to "I have a boyfriend" when she likely actually does and it isn't just a random girl who you will never see again? Doesn't take a ton of in-field experience to figure out which is which. You'd have to play it off as a shit-test though (not a rejection), and continue, to see if she's genuinely not interested or managing your expectations.	/r/seduction	27/02/15 09:35 PM
6	Gaming with Roommates? Ok. I've had a flatmate (separate bedrooms in the same apartment) for the past 3 years straight, and it has never been an issue with pulling girls home and making them feel comfortable. Here are the steps I've followed over the years: Design and implement a routine/set of rules which everyone has to adhere to. This is key to all the other steps, and you have to follow the rules yourself too, or else it just falls apart. I'll outline the rules I set with respect to girls and visitors, because the…	/r/seduction	27/02/15 09:26 PM
1	My experiences and some tips I gathered Yeah I understood you correctly. I have done that, and used to do that all the time when I first started out because this felt way more comfortable to me. I had to train/force myself to be able to maintain eye contact while neither of us were speaking, and did so because I knew it would benefit my interactions. Looking away when there's a pause in the conversation isn't particularly bad or anything, but it would be easier to develop a stronger connection with her if you did look into her eyes. E…	/r/seduction	27/02/15 02:35 PM
1	My experiences and some tips I gathered I can't argue or have a discussion with that dogmatic way of thinking. Perhaps you could tell me why you think that way? How many times have you tried making eye contact without speaking? Have they always turned out terribly?	/r/seduction	27/02/15 01:12 PM
1	My experiences and some tips I gathered Really? The girl likely asked you that because of the sexual tension you've built up. She just doesn't know how to handle it. This ofc assumes you weren't being a creep about it. There's no reason not to maintain strong eye contact while not speaking. It is a powerful tool. Consider any questions made on your looking into her eyes as a shit test or her seeking validation. You could just tell her she has beautiful eyes, or that you find her irresistibly attractive. You could agree and amplify by …	/r/seduction	27/02/15 03:42 AM
1	I am short (5'5"), bald, look a whole decade older, and my game sucks. Now what? That was brilliant. It didn't come across as dickish at all. Post more stuff like this.	/r/seduction	27/02/15 03:33 AM
1	I am short (5'5"), bald, look a whole decade older, and my game sucks. Now what? I think I'm falling in love with you bro.	/r/seduction	27/02/15 03:28 AM
1	ALWAYS assume attraction. Don't stick to that mindset then. See my other comment. If you can't feel it naturally or find it easy to at least wrap your head around it, then think about it very carefully before you try to reprogram your mind to consider it normal and habitual. You may dig yourself into a huge hole by doing so.	/r/seduction	27/02/15 03:08 AM
1	ALWAYS assume attraction. I'd use this as a challenge but I wouldn't program it into my mind. Doing that would be outwardly lying to myself. It's different from being optimistic (see optimism bias), which is good. Essentially I'd rather think "there's a good chance she'd be attracted to me when I charm the fuck our of her". Notice how I'm basing it on the condition that I game well, as opposed to outright her being attracted to me, just like that? Also note that I don't think "if I can charm", which would be more realist…	/r/seduction	27/02/15 02:59 AM
2	I think I just found a way to by-pass Tinder limit of right swipes/likes per day. Does anyone else know about it? Tips tinder	/r/seduction	27/02/15 02:46 AM
9	How to be a bad motherfucker Am I the only one who feels it's not a very good idea to handle rejection in this way? I mean, I'm someone who's a huge proponent of self-improvement, and have improved my life greatly in many aspects, but whenever I've been rejected, I've kinda just taken the bullet head-on and just feel the sting. This sting used to be painful, but I eventually become somewhat numb to it. I don't feel any disgust or a sudden urge to want to improve myself in order to avoid that guy who just got rejected. My jo…	/r/seduction	27/02/15 02:26 AM
1	I've been out of the game a couple of years now and the only thing I really miss is the game itself Why did you "fuck up" over the years, and was pickup responsible? If so, what advice would you give to budding legends like myself /s to be able to get into a healthy relationship and stay committed. I ask this because this is one of the things I fear the most about pickup. A group of friends and I started around the same time. Both of them were not the "type" of guys to cheat on girls or be polygamous, but recently they've gotten gfs and still have the urge (and do occasionally) to go out, game…	/r/seduction	26/02/15 11:57 PM
2	I Don't Care Where did you learn about this term/way of thinking? I'd like to read more about this aspect of inner game, and I'm curious if you could give me a better source than what I'd arrive at by googling.	/r/seduction	26/02/15 11:27 PM
1	Alcohol: A crutch or a tool? Alcohol hampers your decision making abilities and speed. This is typically not what you'd want as a "tool" when picking up girls. As for approach anxiety, you're reinforcing bad programming by using alcohol to cover up, and you'll never actually get over AA in this way (your drunk self might have gotten over it, but that doesn't count because, as another user said, you're not always going to have that buzz to carry you). I feel that as long as you understand this, it's fine to consume alcohol a…	/r/seduction	26/02/15 11:18 PM
3	Tips on escalating. Where did you learn that? Try it bro. Like, literally, go out for 20 interactions, just by opening with such a compliment, and see how many turn out bad. It kinda sounds like you're afraid of direct game.	/r/seduction	06/02/15 11:25 PM
4	Tips on escalating. Not sure about your point about compliments though, a small compliment goes a long way imo. Yup! I agree with everything he said except the compliment part. If you like something about her, tell her! Girls appreciate this, and it usually helps the interaction because you can use it as a way to verbally escalate and flirt with her. It's also a good way to show you're observant (eg. "those ear rings really bring out your green eyes; God, I can't help but stare" while you make some intense eye cont…	/r/seduction	06/02/15 11:22 PM
7	I live with my 2 girlfriends. Tomorrow I'm going to make a video where I discuss how I set it up, manage it, and answer any questions you may have. Please feel free to write some below and I'll pick the best for the video. Yup, I recognized his face too. That's definitely Adam Lyons :/	/r/seduction	21/11/14 08:23 PM
3	[FR] Single dad at the mall with my daughter: # close I believe it puts you right in line with every other guy that's came up to her and told her that. That's where you're wrong. Every other guy doesn't go up to a girl and tell her they think she looks cute/gorgeous/etc. It's easier for a typical guy to bend around it and develop some sort of connection with her first, and once he feels comfortable with her, that's when he'll drop in the compliment or start showing some form of direct intent. For someone experienced with talking to girls though, it…	/r/seduction	20/11/14 05:10 PM