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1	Thoughts on why divorce rates are so high now IDK what your sentence means tbh. Your original comment said how men aren't the solution, and what I wrote is about why it looks like that, but really it's not because men are worse, it's because the expectations of women are skyrocketing to unrealistic ideals. So because of that, when they do get into a relationship, the realities of a relationship not being able to keep up with their idealism is extremely crushing, and so they report being happier while single because a) they can continue exis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 02:18 PM
1	Would you be happier with women making the first shot at this point? Adding to others here, women are also completely emotionally unequipped to handle rejection, so I don't see this lasting very long even if there was some sort of mass societal union-esque strike of men not approaching women anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 12:49 PM
3	What is Creepiness? The inherent interaction between a man and a woman will always be creepy to some degree when looking at the man's side of things. Men are physically larger, stronger, usually have more societal, financial, etc pull. In terms of pure animal-brain, the ultimate goal of the interactions is to have sex (and maybe a relationship), and everything in between seeing the woman for the first time to having sex with her is just noise needed to get to the end point. As we've become more civilised, we've int…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 12:31 PM
4	Is MGTOW the solution then? I don't know why this sentiment is being bandied about that women are better at being single than men. Maybe when young? But men are definitely more capable of lifelong singlehood than women - this is part of our base bio psychology. Men are interested in things, and Women are interested in people. Lifelong singlehood is going to spike female suicide rates in the next few decades when the reality of not having a family, not being able to get one anymore, and not receiving any interest from men a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 12:14 PM
3	Is MGTOW the solution then? MGTOW is just removing men from the supply pool that were failing to get any anyway, so this is just benefiting women really long-term at least in pure get-togethers. If any of you caught the recent meme of the gym-girls trying to shame guys around them, I think that's a microcosm of what's to come at least to some degree and growing MGTOW will help this get here sooner. If you follow that attitude they have to it's conclusion, in the far future women will be the dominant class and men will be s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 12:11 PM
1	Thoughts on why divorce rates are so high now Let's also not forget, women are at an extreme advantage when divorcing thanks to alimony and child support. It's not a surprise that 80%+ divorces are initiated by women. They come away with the kids 90% of the time, CS if they do have kids, and alimony to support them, and then they can even find a 3rd income in a new partner and hang on to all of this. And if you think that this is a problem that should be fixed, good Fing luck getting that through in our modern world where in 2023, women are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 12:06 PM
1	Thoughts on why divorce rates are so high now This is 100% how things are. People think marriage works because of fairytales and Disney, but unless you are a universe-match made by heaven, humans are aboslutely dogwater at being able to stick together for more than X something years, depending on how well you are together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 12:04 PM
2	Thoughts on why divorce rates are so high now 85%/90%+ of the population easily want kids in the end. Oh many think they don't now while they are 25 or pretend 25 (35)? Yeah see how they feel about that in 20 years when alone at 55 with no hope of fixing that now, staring down the barrel of the void by themselves. We're also not slowing down 'a bit', it's looking like we're headed for apocalyptic population reduction. You may think it's ok because muh environment or whatever, but as misanthropic as Reddit can be I actually do care about the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 12:01 PM
1	Thoughts on why divorce rates are so high now It's because of insane expectations. We've spent 20+ years and continue to tell women the modern equivalent of the american dream but this time it's just for them because they're very special. So they marry someone and it's not this perfect Didney lifestyle, instead they now have responsibilities like being a good wife, helping take card of kids, and having to make certain relationship concessions which they've never had to before because as a society woman can do whatever, so best just to dip a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/23 11:56 AM