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Ara854/r/MensRights12/11/13 10:24 PM
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You must know some pretty crazy feminists then. O.O
/r/MensRights28/02/14 08:06 PM
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But how often does this happen? Not disagreeing with you exactly but the guys I've spoken to don't ever say they didn't teach because they feared accusations, they almost always say something like, "You can't support a family with that pay," or something else about the low salary.
/r/MensRights28/02/14 08:04 PM
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I'm glad this turned out the way it did!
/r/MensRights27/02/14 04:55 PM
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You have studies to back up that claim?
/r/MensRights27/02/14 04:54 PM
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I think this is terrible. I mean I get what they're trying to do, but offering a token or money rather than actually trying to get their attention, it just seems like a bribe. That said, I have to disagree with some of the comments here. I hate when people claim that girls "just aren't interested" in computer science. (Though for that matter many boys aren't either). I know when I was younger, I gravitated toward fields where I saw people who were "like me," and I never even considered programmi…
/r/MensRights27/02/14 04:52 PM
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Thanks for the translation. This is terrible, but I'm glad the study was done. Hopefully this will help people become more aware of their biases.
/r/MensRights27/02/14 04:45 PM
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has a large bias against men Saying I might be someone like that? I love men! xD Thanks for explaining though. Didn't realize how much power she had in GMP...and how she misused/ruined it.
/r/MensRights26/02/14 09:39 PM
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Great post. I'm sorry about what happened to you.
/r/MensRights26/02/14 04:06 PM
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Ha, upvoted.
/r/MensRights26/02/14 04:04 PM
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Once again, we're coming from two different points here. Feminism isn't all all bad no matter how much you say it is, it has a place and so does mens rights activism. I came in here because I hate that even when I'm on the MRA side (in theory-even if you think feminism completely is man hating, I (and the original poster) want to help men) I get attacked. I also hate that feminists get generalized all the time. Feminists are not all the same and would be more likely to help, would you not attack…
/r/MensRights26/02/14 01:38 AM
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So that was an insult then? What about her stuff makes it not worth reading? Like I said I know little about her stuff.
/r/MensRights26/02/14 01:09 AM
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as you're doing here Where did I do that? Yeah, like I said Farrell's a good guy and didn't deserve any of what he got. Edit: Maybe you're suggesting Elam isn't really a misogynistic asshole? I may have gone a bit far there, but he comes off in his articles as incredibly angry, whereas Farrell is very polite. I think Farrell's approach lends more credence is all I'm saying.
/r/MensRights26/02/14 01:06 AM
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I had to google her! I've only read a few of her articles.
/r/MensRights26/02/14 01:05 AM
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Christ, you're aggressive. Are you intentionally ignoring my argument, are you compartmentalizing this that much, or are you just retarded? I ignored it because it's not a good one. You think it is-I think the logic is terrible and I've explained why. I don't know what else to say. AND practiced goals What are these? What action has the movement taken collectively? I honestly didn't realize how many misandric articles there were on Feministe. To be fair...there are many different bloggers and I …
/r/MensRights26/02/14 01:03 AM
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Sure. I'd say "gladly" but..ugh. I've included "bitch" since it's being used as a gendered slur. http://www.avoiceformen.com/feminism/dont-rape-a-slut-day/ (It could be argued whether this is misogynistic or not. "Slutwalk" is meant to be empowering but the author does indeed appear to be using the term in its original intent.) http://www.avoiceformen.com/feminism/michael-flood-is-a-cheap-lying-whore-sos-tory-shepherd/ (This one's "whore," but..same idea, yeah?) http://www.avoiceformen.com/mens-…
/r/MensRights26/02/14 12:54 AM
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Writers of influential feminist magazines, feminists in positions of authority at major learning institutions, feminists who changed the law of the land, presidential advisors, journalists...none of them matter...weird. Mary Koss is big, I'll give you that. Though I think it's terrible how she marginalizes male rape. I said there were plenty of bad people remember? But there are lots of good people as well. Of course the radicals are most well known, that again doesn't make them the majority. I'…
/r/MensRights25/02/14 09:57 PM
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Perhaps that's what'll have to happen then.
/r/MensRights25/02/14 09:32 PM
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Goddamn dude. You are so angry. You accuse me of throwing fits, call me a cunt and a spoiled child, just because I disagree with you? Christ. (And "german-esque"? Is than an insult? wat.) Those women you listed, yeah they were feminists and yeah what they said was bullshit. But you know what? Not every feminist is like that. Nor is the average feminist. You can not accept it all you want ("NAWALT!!") but it's true. Radfems exist. You're not imagining that. What you are imagining is that these wo…
/r/MensRights25/02/14 09:24 PM
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The MRM has grown a bit recently, I wouldn't completely mark off more "positive" activism. But I do see your point. Farrell has been treated incredibly unfairly.
/r/MensRights25/02/14 09:17 PM
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That's very true. I would just say, blog, try to get the word out, let people know that most MRAs are good people. Let people know there are legitimate issues. Write letters, post them on facebook, ask people to sign. We have the internet now, when we didn't in the past, so I think that's simply the best way to start. Heck, maybe throw in a little pathos-I know I get especially concerned when hearing about a father who can't see his kids, or that our young boys are falling behind in school.
/r/MensRights25/02/14 09:04 PM
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I actually found MRAs through feminism--a discussion about birth control, when the idea of more male contraceptive options came up. So I googled, eventually found the movement, and my god was I turned off. There is so much misogyny. Lots of awesome people and good arguments, too. But still. and the misogynist circle jerk thing, that's largely to do with feminists circulating false accusations to turn people off Nope. When I search men's rights on google the first thing that comes up is a website…
/r/MensRights25/02/14 08:54 PM
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Um, I know she's a girl cause I've talked to her before. Nonnova is a cunt You are so mature I can't even. a feminist Yep, said she was. Not an insult. man hating Because thinking involved fathers are "awesome"=man-hating intellectually hypocritical If she thought women deserved all rights and men deserved none, yeah. But that's not what she's said at all. She hasn't been once. disingenuous cunt You said that already. just like you Dude. I've posted what, a few sentences and you're hurling accus…
/r/MensRights25/02/14 08:48 PM
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I don't necessarily agree with that. Because of the overly aggressive comments that some MRAs make, you have people (like I used to be) who think the entire movement is a misogynistic circlejerk. There really need to be positive voices along with the rage-y ones. Otherwise people will get so disgusted they won't give MRA ideas any weight.
/r/MensRights25/02/14 08:34 PM
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I think that interviewer was rude and I agree that whole 20/20 was a mess. That doesn't mean Elam doesn't write inflammatory garbage that makes the whole movement look bad. I don't think "any publicity's good publicity" applies here. it looks like we are getting a legitimate spot. That would be cool. It would be awesome so long as they picked rational, reasonable people to talk with (not Elam). I for one would love to see an episode that at least focused on men's issues, if not the movement itse…
/r/MensRights25/02/14 08:18 PM
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Ha, I never knew that! Well, you know what I meant. xD
/r/MensRights25/02/14 08:01 PM
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I'm really looking forward to this. It's about time male victims get some attention too.
/r/MensRights25/02/14 07:42 PM
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Paul Elam is an asshole.
/r/MensRights25/02/14 07:42 PM
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This is the right idea. You attract more flies with honey than vinegar.
/r/MensRights25/02/14 07:34 PM
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Because all feminists are idiots and all MRAs possess superior intellect-right?
/r/MensRights25/02/14 07:30 PM
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Oh don't tell me, they're not true feminists, are they. Feminism is a large movement with tons of people. Some of those people really suck. Do you seriously think the average feminist thinks 'gendercide' should be a thing? Because if you do you are incredibly out of touch. Cunt Name calling seriously makes your case. It makes you seem so much more mature and credible. Dude, this girl is saying she wants in on your movement, wants to advance men's rights and you call her a cunt? Wth?
/r/MensRights25/02/14 07:27 PM
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Good for you, man. Although to be fair, those older ladies were probably too old to know better. My grandmother's that way. Still, good for telling that woman what you did.
/r/MensRights11/01/14 12:35 AM
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You should make the exact same poster, just replace "feminist" with "MRA". I bet if nothing else you'd get people to look up the movement, and that's a start.
/r/MensRights09/01/14 05:22 PM
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Thanks. Unfortunate, but not totally unexpected. Such a large difference between data-entry callbacks though-I wasn't expecting that! Thanks again.
/r/MensRights08/01/14 10:18 PM
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I love that!
/r/MensRights08/01/14 08:40 PM
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Thanks for the links. Those look like great organizations and I'll be sure to donate to them in the future.
/r/MensRights08/01/14 08:28 PM
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Do you have the link to that study? I'd be real interested in reading it!
/r/MensRights08/01/14 08:26 PM
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So you're accepting a conclusion based upon 3 studies, two of which are by the same author, rather than one based upon the myriad of studies that feminists accept. (If you have more that show these claims, please do post them!)
/r/MensRights08/01/14 08:26 PM
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Thanks for posting. This is very interesting. I would love to see results if it was conducted again, in other areas, especially the US. They'd probably be similar though. The only thing I don't like about the study is they don't actually give the number of applications sent-they just say "thousands" (unless I'm wrong, I haven't read it word-for-word yet.)
/r/MensRights08/01/14 08:22 PM
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I don't think women are helpless victims either. Now what does that actually have to do with feminism?
/r/MensRights06/01/14 10:59 PM
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Sir, your insults aren’t working. You stated “women work less than men”. That’s true. But what you don’t explain is how that’s related to women’s status as “little princesses” who, by implication, are taken care of. For the record, since it wasn’t implicitly stated, I’m not arguing that women work more than men in their careers. I’m arguing that, in life, women work as hard as men, and that life is hard for both genders. Just because women work in their jobs less than men doesn’t mean everything…
/r/MensRights15/11/13 09:57 PM
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Grow up. If you would actually like a response to your "points" without hurling insults every few sentences like a child, I'd be happy to PM them to you.
/r/MensRights15/11/13 09:27 PM
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Why so hostile? It doesn't make you look particularly good. In fact it's quite hurting your credibility. I won't respond to your points because clearly your mind is made and it's clear we can't have a nice conversation. Hope you deal with your anger problems sir. Peace out.
/r/MensRights15/11/13 08:12 PM
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I see the bias in the legal system but apart from that I just don't see this huge advantage/favor that women have. How can you speak about people you've never met? You seem very quick to generalize.
/r/MensRights15/11/13 05:41 PM
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Nice polemic. I never said part time workers make more than full time workers-the point is that most people of both genders work and are not just sitting on their butt all day, like you seem to have implied. Maybe there was a miscommunication somewhere. Can you explain to me perhaps without all the insults how women as a whole benefit from this system? Because apart from dating all the women I know have had to work just as hard as the men.
/r/MensRights15/11/13 05:23 PM
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You sir appear to be the unintelligent one. Just because one person makes more than the other doesn't mean the other wasn't working. You seem to be rather disconnected from how things actually are. Just because a very small subset of women abuse the "system" does not mean that most women are "princesses". Just because men work more than women does not mean women do not work. You seem very out of touch with how many women and men are working hard these days.
/r/MensRights15/11/13 05:00 PM
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"Men fund the hours women spend at home," really? What about the women who work part time (the vast majority of them). What about all the population's single mothers? They just sit twiddling their thumbs, waiting for that child support check that's going to sustain them for the month? Right. For the record I know guys who expect their wives to keep the house straight or that refuse to cook or clean or whatever. Is that the norm? I dunno, but women are generally expected to have food on the table…
/r/MensRights15/11/13 11:15 AM
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Sure, but to imply that guys like it because of that is messed up.
/r/MensRights15/11/13 11:05 AM
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Statistically those things you said are true. Women work shorter hours (but work longer at home) and women's education is funded more than men's (I read this before so I'm assuming this was a controlled study and not just a result of more women actually going to college). But this doesn't apply to ALL women (or even a large portion). Still, to paint all women with such a broad brush is not cool, dude. Men are more likely to go to war than women, but I don't say "Men are violent". Men are less li…
/r/MensRights15/11/13 02:48 AM
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That's Sarah effing Palin. She doesn't exactly have a track record of saying brilliant things. What she's saying in the article's just plain stupid.
/r/MensRights14/11/13 11:15 PM
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That stinks that she's in charge. I can get how some girls would assume that men think they're better suited for war. There are quite a few men who argue it. They're not the majority of course, but they're vocal. Still, to say that men have a biological reason to fight is not only dumb but just wrong.
/r/MensRights14/11/13 10:29 PM
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Uh, what? Most women aren't on welfare and are making their own money, going to work and working hard. How are women "little princesses"? I get calling a few that, but the entire gender? Men's socially prescribed "role" seems not to have changed, which is annoying, I know it places so many demands on lots of guys (guys who think it's bad to cry or think their worth is measured by how much they make).
/r/MensRights14/11/13 10:24 PM
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I unfortunately don't have the time to start one, but your knowledge would be quite useful I'm sure, and I'd love to give money to the cause. Anyone willing to start it?
/r/MensRights14/11/13 10:18 PM
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That circumcisions are so common they had to be banned in the first place. I hope the US will follow suit.
/r/MensRights14/11/13 11:17 AM
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I see your point.
/r/MensRights14/11/13 11:17 AM
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Thanks for the explanation. :P
/r/MensRights13/11/13 11:36 PM
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Correct assumption, sir. What I have trouble understanding is why a campaign that (as far as I can see but perhaps I'm missing something) only targets one small section of the male population is read to encompass all men.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 11:12 PM
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Good point.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 10:31 PM
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I don't want to be obtuse. If you could explain to me what's offensive about it I'd like to know. Edit: You know what, I've thought about it, and I'm seeing some of what might be offensive (that it singles males out). Please disregard my other comments.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 10:31 PM
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That was an inconsistency. My apologies. I guess I was assuming that the man enjoyed the physical contact with the woman more than the woman did with the man, but that might not always be the case, so that was wrong of me. In that case why seek out sex in the first place?
/r/MensRights13/11/13 10:23 PM
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That's tragic.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 10:17 PM
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Where's the fun in not making sculptures? I guess there's not any! Although it seems tacky to do it on a college campus-that's just my opinion though. You have a point, I guess some people do enjoy making penis sculptures. :P
/r/MensRights13/11/13 10:16 PM
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That's terrible. I can't believe there are people out there who'd do something like that.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 10:02 PM
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The same. Plus, didn't somebody make a "Don't be that girl" campaign? And I'm not denying males get raped or have drunk sex, but it's a lot more common for men to be the ones taking advantage of drunk women. That's why it says "guy". I'm pretty sure most men know not to take advantage of drunk women. That's why it says "that guy" and targets "that guy". If you're not "that guy", you won't pay any attention to it, right? I'm open to changing my view if you can explain to me how it targets all men…
/r/MensRights13/11/13 09:55 PM
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Where's the fun in making them?
/r/MensRights13/11/13 09:21 PM
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No. Like, if I see an ad that says "Don't drink and drive" I'm not offended because I know it's not targeted at me.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 09:17 PM
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One could argue sex and body image are different issues, but yep, still feel bad for people who use TV as a judge for reality.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 04:25 PM
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Good.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 04:24 PM
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How about we just don't make snow sculptures of genitalia?
/r/MensRights13/11/13 04:23 PM
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If people get their ideas from only TV I feel bad for them.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 04:19 PM
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I feel a bit bad for the ladies now. You're free to do what you want though.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 04:17 PM
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Wow thanks for that, it's very helpful. I guess one of my questions is, if I think "male privilege" and "female privilege" exist to some degree and that it's bad for both genders, what camp would I be in? I didn't realize just how biased some feminist sites were. But are they all that bad? I had no idea that some were campaigning against sending women to prison/denying the favor of women in court. But do all think that way? Most of the feminists I actually know (in college and elsewhere) just wa…
/r/MensRights13/11/13 11:34 AM
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I meant the dude always orgasms. I know it's not "spectacular" for dudes either. It just seems "unfair" at its most basic sense, that the guy almost always gets something out of it and the girl might not, so what's the point of the woman participating with someone who's not gonna consider what she wants too? I totally think girls should be responsible for their own orgasms, but at the same time, if the guy isn't even willing to help her out what's the point of her having sex? Why not just mastur…
/r/MensRights13/11/13 11:17 AM
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I'm very sorry to hear that. Wish there was something I could do, I can't even imagine how awful that must be.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 11:12 AM
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Blogging. Internet. I mean women who actually care. I'd wager those girls are just trying to show bravado, like those guys who claim they only date girls with DDs. In reality most don't care.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 11:11 AM
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Oh, derp.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 11:09 AM
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I'll certainly look it up, thanks!
/r/MensRights13/11/13 02:22 AM
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That's so sad. I really hope male teachers aren't accused so often, and if they are I hope that stops. :/
/r/MensRights13/11/13 02:06 AM
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Huh. I'm sorry to hear that.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 02:04 AM
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But why not?
/r/MensRights13/11/13 02:03 AM
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Cool, thanks!
/r/MensRights13/11/13 12:09 AM
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But the thing is, P-in-V isn't always spectacular for a woman, so with an attitude like that, why even bother? I get what you mean though. I wouldn't give oral to a stranger either.
/r/MensRights13/11/13 12:08 AM
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Fair enough, I agree.
/r/MensRights12/11/13 11:09 PM
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This was really eye opening and has given me a lot to think about. Thanks for taking the time to reply! Do you know of any way to help fathers in situations like that?
/r/MensRights12/11/13 11:08 PM
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I agree completely with what you're saying and that fathers are equal to mothers. And I hate how fathers are portrayed in the media. But I mean, I don't know any feminists who think mothers are superior to fathers. I know there's probably some branch that does, but I don't think that's what most think. It really does pain me though to see Dads pushed off to the sidelines. I don't know that single mothers are respected..in my area they're common but pretty looked down upon nonetheless. I've heard…
/r/MensRights12/11/13 10:33 PM
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Ouch. If that's the attitude you have, perhaps start with oral? I'd hate to sleep with a guy who only considers his own pleasure. Ideally you should care about each other's.
/r/MensRights12/11/13 09:33 PM
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Feminist chiming in here, I think Whedon is a cool guy and I admire what he's done. This article seems blind to all that.
/r/MensRights12/11/13 09:22 PM
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Feminism desired to create a single mom culture? Can you explain that in more detail?
/r/MensRights12/11/13 09:19 PM
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Agreed, but it is true that it's much more likely that a man will be satisfied than a woman (orgasm is pretty much guaranteed for men), so why should she put in 99% of the work? (I'm just playing devil's advocate here). Actually no, most women don't obsess over penis size. It's not the size of the waves but the motion of the ocean-that's true in most girls' minds I think (of all the women I know, only one actually cares).
/r/MensRights12/11/13 08:10 PM
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Why is she not charged with statutory rape?
/r/MensRights12/11/13 08:00 PM
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Not all do.
/r/MensRights12/11/13 05:54 PM
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Sounds a bit too traditionalist+anti-feminism for my tastes. Why isn't there a women-for-men's-rights site that's feminist and MRA?
/r/MensRights12/11/13 05:42 PM
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I agree with you. There are some bad feminists and some bad MRAs-doesn't make them all bad. That said, the message OP recieved was certainly offensive and it sucks. I blame extremists for putting the idea into that girl's head.
/r/MensRights12/11/13 05:36 PM
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Where can I sign?
/r/MensRights12/11/13 05:21 PM
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