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Arakkkka/r/askTRP20/04/20 02:55 PM
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Read your comment history. You’re suffering a lot at the moment, sadly it’s all self inflicted at this point. You have two choices and only two. Either you accept that you allowed this to happen to you, take responsibility on your end for not instilling proper boundaries and having self respect. Identify why you are making someone such a bigger priority than yourself and work on it. You continue to wallow in your own self pity, and feel bad because one girl did not want you. The second option wi…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 12:04 AM
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First rule of fight club don’t talk about fight club Second rule of fight club do not talk about fight club. Red pill is the same.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 11:55 AM
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I tried with other girls of course. Just never panned out. Most of my encounters are all tinder hookups. The dating world is fucked.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 02:49 PM
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What exactly is the big picture?
/r/askTRP21/04/20 04:13 AM
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I’ve been with 16 women. She was my first serious girlfriend.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 01:55 AM
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You have all given me such invaluable advice and support. I really do feel the love from y’all. Thank you guys so much.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 01:54 AM
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I love your username. I wish I came up with it. I’m starting to realize that the “shitty” men that are out there are a byproduct of the mistreatment by women. We have to hold ourselves to higher morals and values and pride ourselves for who we are. We work hard, we take pride in what we do, we have passions hopes and dreams. We cannot sacrifice these for a woman. As much as I want to share my love and my life with someone they have to be in my life and not the other way around... Once again than…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 01:51 AM
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Thanks. How do I build self love?
/r/askTRP20/04/20 10:11 PM
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This whole thread is providing me with so much clarity.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 10:10 PM
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So because they’re pretty I let them get away with shit?
/r/askTRP20/04/20 10:00 PM
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So where do I fit into this. Where do I go from here. I don’t want to manipulated, I don’t want to be an asshole. I just want to be myself.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 09:57 PM
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Initially it was about how beautiful she was. I really did fall for who she was.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 09:52 PM
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I still don’t understand how she could give me up like that. I will definitely buy all those books
/r/askTRP20/04/20 09:28 PM
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Feel free to send me a message
/r/askTRP20/04/20 09:17 PM
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So what should I do then?
/r/askTRP20/04/20 09:14 PM
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What qualifies as blue pilled music?
/r/askTRP20/04/20 07:42 PM
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I will definitely pm you if you don’t mind.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 07:37 PM
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Thanks my friend. I appreciate your kind words. In your humble opinion what are the best steps for me to take going forward?
/r/askTRP20/04/20 07:30 PM
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You’re right. I’ve never saw the point in “plates” even prior to this. I think it’s nice to have the option to have a girl when you want. It just isn’t the end all be all. At the end of the day I was betrayed by someone I thought was going to be the mother of my children. It hurts a lot knowing she didn’t want me in the end. I’m trying my best to be occupied and improve. It really is debilitating but no excuses. We will get there. I’m not sure if she will ever come back and at the moment I don’t…
/r/askTRP20/04/20 07:28 PM
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If you don’t mind me asking what are the pros and cons of both? I find myself thinking that my bluepilled train of thought has brought me here. That it has not benefitted me in the slightest. If not for me being a beta in my situation I would have been happier right now.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 06:37 PM
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You are right. She won’t ever be the same to me. I will always see her with a different view.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 06:31 PM
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You’re right. I’ll keep that in mind. I’m just scared of getting hurt to be honest. Thanks
/r/askTRP20/04/20 04:54 PM
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Do you have any other book recommendations?
/r/askTRP20/04/20 04:49 PM
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That is the hardest part. Thinking about what could’ve been, and the dreams and hopes you had for a relationship. She had spoken to me about the possibility of children with me, what they would look like, etc. I was so wrapped up in the idea of a lifetime with her. It hurts to know it won’t happen. I realized that I cannot base my worth on someone else. In due time I will heal. It feels unbearable now at times, and in others it feels amazing. All men who are working towards something are worthy …
/r/askTRP20/04/20 04:43 PM
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My friend, thank you. This has devastated me. I know despite how much I care for her, I cannot turn back. I have hope that one day I will be stronger than what I once was. I think a lot of it has to do with having a strong frame of mind. I’m still learning and I probably will never stop, but I like to think that having a strong frame of mind comes from self love and confidence. So I’m working on building those up.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 04:35 PM
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Well I’ve done it somehow or someway in every relationship. In this case with this girl she had been abused her whole life. I sympathized with her, and showed my heart to early. I was too open to the idea of a relationship. I loved far to early. I validated her, and told her everything she wanted to hear. As far as the second I allowed her to walk all over me, actively disrespect me and I validated her to the point where she saw no value in me. In turn she hurt me.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 04:27 PM
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I’ve been reading TRP for a while now, but I definitely had to come to a point where I’ve accepted it. It took a while and I was in denial of this truth. Unfortunately society is built upon such menial values and morals. I have no choice but to accept this as human nature and work towards building myself as a strong man.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 04:22 PM
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Thanks, this has definitely messed with my head. I’ve losses about 25lbs since the breakup. I’ve been monitoring my eating habits and definitely trying to find a sense of control. Ideally I’d like to weigh at least 200lbs. It’s a hard road, but we cannot make excuse for ourselves. I will get there. Self discipline > motivation Taking responsibility > victims mindset
/r/askTRP20/04/20 04:15 PM
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See that boggles my mind, this girl is objectively hot. Great body, great face. I would have never considered myself to be punching down. The path is definitely forward my friend. I have to stop myself looking back, and wishing for a different outcome. I will be better and different.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 03:24 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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