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“Target men more please.”
/r/AntiFeminists04/11/22 05:40 AM
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The show overall is Simpsons amped up - the father / man portrayed as a dumb, drunk jerk which is contrast to the mother.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 07:31 AM
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What does it matter who consented ? Most people vote and default for things that are pleasurable, comfortable and convenient but those things are potentially very destructive - we are in an obesity epidemic because people don’t want to exercise and want to eat delicious foods. It could be a good thing to limit some of the harmful foods who the hell cares if the obese diabetics “consent” which is a very modern concept. Ancient culture where mortality rates were low and it was all about survival d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:43 AM
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What does it matter who consented ? Most people vote and default for things that are pleasurable, comfortable and convenient but those things are potentially very destructive - we are in an obesity epidemic because people don’t want to exercise and want to eat delicious foods. It could be a good thing to limit some of the harmful foods who the hell cares if the obese diabetics “consent” which is a very modern concept. Ancient culture where mortality rates were low and it was all about survival d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:42 AM
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What does it matter who consented ? Most people vote and default for things that are pleasurable, comfortable and convenient but those things are potentially very destructive - we are in an obesity epidemic because people don’t want to exercise and want to eat delicious foods. It could be a good thing to limit some of the harmful foods who the hell cares if the obese diabetics “consent” which is a very modern concept. Ancient culture where mortality rates were low and it was all about survival d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:42 AM
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I would say mainly the evolutionary instinct and risk of pregnancy and particularly pregnancy with a man with bad genes / character who could leave her - which was as good as death to her offspring in earlier epochs. Women know they have to very carefully select men and it’s linked to childbirth / rearing which is near sacred - you just don’t give it out to everyone and anyone - after a certain threshold and i can’t quite say what that is it messes women up. I have met a few of these and maybe y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:10 AM
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Out of interest why do you think men tend to far less selective about what women they sleep with than women are ? Risk of pregnancy maybe ? Of course I’m disgusted by rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:56 PM
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It’s a disgust that goes deeper than what you describe - even in prison populations sadistic murderers are not seen as low as rapists - it clearly is much more than a bad assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:47 PM
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Particularly promiscuous women tend to be quite messed up - I don’t think they are promiscuous just because they are messed up to begin with but they do become more messed up the more promiscuous they are - to a woman sex is something near sacred / intimate - this is why there is vitriolic disgust about rape. I had a girlfriend who said she only slept with 2 men before me yet she had every type of kinky underwear you could think of and was great in bed - men can usually tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:30 PM
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One of the RP observations is that female hypergamy combined with the illusion of endless options via social media has isolated a growing all the time number of below average, average and above average men - RP market has just grown.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:19 AM
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The delusion of average women is still real - top guys pass them around occasionally that is all - they won’t settle down with them or have children with them - so these women waste their fertile years holding out in hope and turning their noses up at their equivalents 🙏🏻- average women don’t really have “options” in the sense they understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:01 PM
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Men who want a family for instance don’t want to deal with the delusion of women (as I encountered recently) aged 41 and “open to children” or “have not decided” - women are 90% less fertile in mid thirties versus early twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:49 AM
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Even though it was not an IRish news network I can report as an Irishman that we host European Headquarters of Google, Facebook / Instagram, Tik tok etc. These allied with other issues has resulted in IReland being the most sole country in Europe particularly on gender issues. The worst of feminist lies are not even debated and myths like the pay gap are just pushed by Government (political parties who were once socially conservative are now full on woke), media and Corporations. Debate is not e…
/r/AntiFeminists10/10/22 07:58 PM
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Men on average are only slightly more aggressive than women but the top 1% of most violent people is almost all men. Women for evolutionary reasons often defer to quite aggressive men as romantic partners in lieu of quiet / compliant / nice guys who they are generally repulsed by. So they incentivise male aggression and then try to shame over 90% for the behaviour of less than 1%. Their choice of dark triad type men, narcissistic and aggressive, is also never discussed when considering domestic …
/r/MensRights08/10/22 12:06 PM
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And 50 Shades is the second highest selling novel ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:45 PM
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For a start women who are single it’s because they rejected men, with men the reason they are single is often that they have been rejected by women so that impacts self esteem in the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:37 PM
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A Chad has drive and money as well as looks but if he is cute and a loser / gold digger ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:08 AM
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Well yea because a gold digging man is a very weak man, is very unattractive to women even if he is “cute” - men go more for looks in women, women go for drive and social status in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:50 AM
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An extreme rarity compared to visa versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:48 AM
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It’s not really self assured Alpha’s who flex like this - they don’t need to. It’s often a low lying Beta seeking social status. Early in the pandemic when gyms re open and there was a sense of nervousness I saw a beta type approach a guy lifting dumbbells three times the weight of the Beta guy and they beta guy tried to play moral stewart and berate him for not disinfecting the equipment. It did not end well for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:25 PM
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He’s probably the most misrepresented public intellectual ever. He was at peak when he debunked the pay gap finally for all to see but he has lost his gloss - I don’t think he was honest about his benzo addition and withdrawal. There is a lot in his personal life that men should not emulate - his wife seems to completely rule him and his daughter seems to be a shameless grifter and he worships two of them overly.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 07:41 AM
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“Nice guys” are basically setting themselves up to become extremely nihilistic. They go to extra effort and being a doormat repeatedly without any female affection makes them bitter incel mass shooter types. Women are never honest about what they are actually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:50 PM
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They did studies on this. A woman picks out some pictures of guys she really finds attractive but put her in a room where other women are asked same question about the same guy, after they all say he’s unattractive she changes her mind that he is unattractive afterall. Many women’s lack of critical thinking and fickleness in the face of societal “norms” or peer pressure is frankly pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:23 AM
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I would say the major cognitive dissonance is women play egalitarian ( and most supports to female / minorities/ “disadvantaged” groups comes from money earned by men) but they are ruthlessly hierarchical in dating and put men into a hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:18 AM
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It’s extremely rare men don’t want to have sexual with almost any woman - it is not so rare for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:15 AM
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This generation of Beta’s are not becoming husbands. They are barely having sex - that’s a better question.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:05 AM
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I think women don’t capitalise on most sexual options but they also understate the options they have availed of. The last chick I hooked up with said I was only her fourth at 32 yet she had every type of kinky underwear you can imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:37 PM
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Even femininity / housewifery has become a major grift now.
/r/AntiFeminists23/08/22 06:56 AM
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Women are very good at reading men - a newly tattooed, semi buffed guy will likely wilt if she insults him to his face and they tend to walk at the first flinch. Men who are conditioned or are genetically a certain way can’t just pretend to have enormous mental strength. I was always a gentlemanly type but whilst I could get with women and sleep with them, I couldn’t always hang onto them. After a series of crushing heartbreaks I became somewhat nihilistic but I started to lift and from there ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:30 AM
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I think relationship material is more a mans ability to provide material stability rather than emotional needs. I think women seek a certain status in different men : a hookup can be a notorious tattoo’d MMA fighter that she wouldn’t introduce to her parents or girlfriends. A relationship is the smart lawyer about to make partner - women are extremely conscious of trends, fads etc as much as they complain about societal brainwashing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:17 AM
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Feminism is as you say : it never stops. If one issue is resolved, another is amplified. I think we have considerably crossed the line of equality. We still discuss a minute and non existent wage gap without ever mentioning that a good majority of money earned is actually spent by or on women.
/r/AntiFeminists23/08/22 06:06 AM
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Mens standards are also lower - I call BS on 80% of women being attractive but in the right circumstances an attractive man will spend the night with an average or below average woman- hence female high expectations then. The reverse would never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:46 PM
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To the extent that governments and states do subsidise children and this has occurred in countries ravaged by war - it is to prevent the type of population collapse we are headed for where tax payers / service providers coming through are dwarfed by a massive and entitled elderly population who can’t work anymore and opted not to have kids. This is completely incomparably with the “reproductive rights” mantra and widespread free abortions these women also lobby for.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 09:57 AM
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A few things I noticed in that self indulgent drivel (said “I” so many times) is her daughter doesn’t want a brother and wants nothing to do with boys - clearly she is learning Misandry from somewhere. Didn’t like how the kid was made pose holding the hem of mommy’s dress like she is hired help. I noticed also that the decision to expand a family doesn’t seem to involve her husband who she only referenced twice in a tone I took to be contemptuous - the family stuff is “taboo” to talk to him on a…
/r/MensRights15/08/22 07:04 PM
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The influx of women into the labour force is effectively what halved wages and the average couple can’t afford a home and family anymore even if the woman keeps working.
/r/MensRights15/08/22 06:11 PM
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Some outrageous, courageous and charismatic bulwark against feminism is needed in the mainstream. The last one got so much hate he had a breakdown - at the moment Tate is it.
/r/AntiFeminists15/08/22 01:14 PM
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The question is about career focus not money per se. Women seem to be attracted to men who are driven and ambitious, this very often comes with resources and this is an advantage since women’s capacity to provide is impeded during pregnancy and childcare. A man may respect a woman who achieves social status but we are just not attracted to it the way a woman is. Even if there are some gold digging men, it’s proven women just don’t desire their wealth with men they way men with status and resourc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:12 PM
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Women like to play egalitarian these days but most men know there is nothing more ruthlessly hierarchical and discriminatory than their mate selection - I don’t think they should be judged on this but they should shut up with the virtue signalling and demands for subsidy - men subsidise them enough and there are no safety nets for men. For every man a beautiful women selects there are hundreds rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:49 AM
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Thank you for pointing this out - basic medical science now has to be tailored and or denied so as to not offend peoples feeling even if it kills them. “Geriatric Pregnancy” is a term I only heard in the last few years but it’s just as you point out. What is spoken even less off is the huge percentage of women / couples over mid thirties who can’t conceive at all. Good Luck.
/r/AntiFeminists12/08/22 09:20 PM
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She played well over her prime and put off having just one kid until 36 which is dangerous - her husband is worth 70 million and she is worth 260 million. No one is doing hard labour in that equation. Women now either want to scream about making other people pay for their abortions or if they have one token kid and have a nanny take care of it they want to play martyr even though earlier generations of women had multiple children with no help.
/r/AntiFeminists12/08/22 01:49 PM
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Hypergamy is rooted in women’s evolutionary hardware - If women reproduced with weak, sickly men with no resources as against fit, strong men (good genes) who were industrious and resourceful we would not have even survived as a species. A relatively small number of men throughout history got to pass on their genes. What irks men nowadays is so many women are just not honest about what they look for in men and even when they snag a man who is very driven that comes with downsides that they are n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:06 PM
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Women increasingly only want to marry men who are ambitious / industrious ie good careers. Since men compete with each other rather than do the care bear communitarian thing they raise the standard to where most men and women can’t compete. Women want to complain there are not enough female CEO’s and board members and then complain after quotas there are not enough “economically viable” men to marry.
/r/AntiFeminists10/08/22 12:52 PM
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Men are naturally competitive and don’t have the communitarianism like women which is why MRA’s will always be microscopic compared to feminism but competition raises the bar and it’s not often acknowledged in the degree to which women and children are the primary beneficiaries of male competition and endeavour. Men are also stoic and tend not to complain on their own behalf or certainly not on behalf of other men they are in competition with again women expect this from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:29 PM
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I’ve often pondered how if women are so beaten down and underprivileged do so many men want to transition to them. The vast majority of trans is male to female. There is a burden to becoming a man which most guys now opt out of.
/r/AntiFeminists09/08/22 09:00 PM
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They don’t really have the will power to change abusive men - what they will never admit to is that they know they are dangerous and it turns them on - this is something never raised in discussing gender violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:18 PM
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I admire that women seem genuinely communitarian and like to take care of people but their egalitarian rantings recently seems rank hypocrisy when you look at their hypergamous mate selection which is ruthlessly hierarchical.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:16 PM
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I think the difficult most men and anti feminists have with abortion or not abortion - the soundbytes that drive the pro choice movement is that they recognise an inherent hypocrisy is that it has to maintain an insane double standard - men don’t have any reproduction rights, in actual fact their lives are hugely at the mercy of women who either want to abort his child (and have him pay for it) or if he is not ready to be a father to have him forfeit 18 years of his life to emotionally and finan…
/r/AntiFeminists08/08/22 04:12 PM
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Doubling the supply of labour also halved wages back in the 50’s in the West a single moderate income household could support a wife and multiple children in decent sized house. Now two high earners have to slave for 40 years to get the same thing and they will probably only be able to afford one child who will grow up to be lonely and dysfunctional.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 05:54 PM
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Women select men as romantic partners. Men cast a broad net because the rejection rate is high for most men. There is nothing more ruthlessly hierarchical than the hierarchy women put men into at sexual selection so men have to compete fiercely to better themselves where they can and bear the burden of approach and rejection. Then women play victim because they don’t want to uphold any element of the bargain at their end. Attraction can’t be negotiated - we don’t tell women they should get with …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:39 PM
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Yes I think that “harassment” for me is an issue where it is repetitive after it’s made clear she does not want it and is uninterested but there are some complications and grey areas to this. I have often found women are quite subliminal in how they communicate even what they want sexually and a lot of men don’t pick this up (that they don’t want it) until it’s too late. I think there are examples of women who have a moment of weakness and have a fling and retrospectively decide because it didn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:37 AM
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I have seen very definite exceptions to this outlook.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:34 AM
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From a criminal justice perspective this is what gravely concerns me about sexual harassment which seems to be confined to unattractive guys - when an attractive man does it well - it’s exactly what they want him to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 07:06 PM
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Not on you but a very important metric on this is women have 70-80 percent spending power. Evidently men have to be a lot more generous with their money for women in children which means they need more. The courtesy / favour is not returned.
/r/AntiFeminists05/08/22 08:08 AM
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I am on an employee-management liaison committee in my company. 100 percent of the questions relating to more holidays, more yoga days, more mental health initiatives, better ideas for company barbecue, work work life balance, more cup cakes in the canteen come from women. Men ask about products, profits, legislations affecting us, the competition etc.
/r/AntiFeminists05/08/22 08:06 AM
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Can’t agree - right into their 20’s men could be just skinny teenage boys - they fill out and look more manly in their 30’s and 40’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:24 AM
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If it was until marriage I would worry but until the relationship is formal seems reasonable - the religious sacrifice on sex does show integrity - women know that casual non emotional sex messes them up and most don’t like being used in that way. You have vetted long enough ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:21 PM
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She is a single mother - been there twice before and not again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 11:11 AM
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That’s just a prelude to “I’m about to say some extremely hateful / discriminatory generalisations about white men and I don’t want anyone to claim my victim mantle”
/r/MensRights01/08/22 07:58 AM
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Virginia Wolfe, Camille Paglia and others. I think we can’t escape that what is now considered feminism is very focused on career and ironically careers which are extremely niche and rare but which they want to be abundant amongst women. An awful lot of modernist feminist musings are firstly very weak because they try to either conflate modern women’s predicament with those of the 19th century or make out a debt is owed to a selection of a demographic who have not proven themselves but who are o…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:00 PM
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Women have this perception that they were excluded from the workforce - this feminist narrative really doesn’t see that the workforce of the 19th century and earlier was what would be considered torture by today’s standards and mainly manual labour (more suited to men) there were virtually no high status / paying jobs which women still fail to see are rare even now that’s what gives them prestige. That women had to give up work upon marriage may also have been an egalitarian attempt to limit the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:20 PM
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My bad - France and Paris in particular is ultra liberal where a lot of black Jazz musicians fled to and flourished. I am sure it’s the same in continental Europe. I am IRish where there is a colonial history, generally the IRish will always side with an underdog or perceived underdog and for the most part are quite friendly and take interest in anyone who takes interest in us. A black man will encounter significantly less discrimination than an arrogant Brit. We do have a lot of Nigerian immigr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:27 AM
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The problem is most women despite their preaching and especially high achieving women don’t want men who are not massively ambitious out of the house and don’t have status - they really don’t want to reproduce with men like that. Women have been pressing for some time for increased pay and status even via quota which does not have the same value for them as it does for men (because romantically men don’t really care about a woman’s status) - this decreases the pool of potential mates who are on …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:25 AM
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I consider myself a Red Pill guy but so much of what Tate says by his own admission is clearly just designed just to shock and up ratings and he has succeeded in that as you point out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:15 AM
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This “non white” thing doesn’t seem to be such an issue in my country - I think a lot of black men can be very charismatic and have no problem getting dates though either generally lower socio economic women they are often very attractive. It sounds like there are an awful cabal of entitled Princesses in USA who preach egalitarianism but are ruthless and discriminatory in their mate selection. I am late 30’s. It’s hard to refine the type of women who go for me. I did not do well in my twenties s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:36 PM
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When outsiders point to the Manosphere as being incel / nihilistic / MGTOW I point out RP is actually the antidote to misogyny. Understanding female nature is not the same as hating it - the opportunistic nature of hypergamy is one of the reasons we survived as a species. Having said that modern women are insufferable owing to a lot of undeserved social adulation but it’s no reason to hate so much as pity them - they have cats and wine crates in their futures and God knows who is going to pay ta…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/22 07:46 AM
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Thank you for your honesty -sex is quite primitive and I’ve slowly grown to understand why women like to be dominated a bit - it’s the same reason they like taller men, muscular men. Psychopaths are actually v magnetic in terms of attraction and whilst that is learned charisma I heard an evolutionary psychologist say that women’s hind brain tells them that a man that will circumvent the rules can acquire more resources. Some of the key words women look up in porn shock most of them men I know. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:43 PM
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Not broken dude - I’m my experience of that a lot of the time - not the psychopaths and narcissists who come in sheep’s clothing and love bomb - but in the hookup end of it they know they are a bit bad and that’s what attracts them. Of course they will never admit it, the same way they are not going to bring the tattooed biker home to meet their folks or girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:31 PM
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I hear with some of these BDSM things when they want to go extreme there are legally binding contracts - have you heard of that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:29 PM
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Psychopaths and bad boys seem to be hugely attractive to women and I understand to a degree and I’m not into judging on sexual preference but women don’t seem to understand that there are risks - and yes danger and spontaneity can be a big part of sex - but in the end they never take any responsibility for their choices - you can’t just turn these types of guys off and put them in a drawer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:27 PM
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You sound significantly above average in all areas
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:54 PM
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Much of that is extreme examples rather than ones that women universally experience. You have, rather like a woman, focused on their feelings which are often very far removed from the actual situation. I agree that sifting through myriad of options and trying to rule out men just after sex and trying to manage their time which is particularly tough and comes with pressure id they want children (this is the case for most women, you’ve gone with the minority of modern women’s perspective that preg…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:10 PM
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Female problems in dating are the the polar opposite to men but it is hard. Women have such abundant options it’s a struggle re time management (very hard of she wants children and has hit 30’s) to try to read those who are serious versus those who just want sex (not easy) and that feeling of being used for sex and to make decisions, exclude based on criteria and to optimise hypergamy. The problem for most men is getting any dating / sexual options at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:57 PM
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Modern women virtue signal a lot about empathy and egalitarianism- there is nothing more ruthlessly hierarchical than female sexual selection and rejection - no equality there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:56 AM
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Men getting murdered at multiples the rate of women is a straw man ? Get real - men are also over 90 percent workplace fatalities because they have to do the dangerous jobs that cater to the comfort and conveniences of women. The only reason I have to tell you this is because governments, corporations and media are only interested in women’s issues because women do most of the spending and voting so let’s make out an imaginary pay gap is more immediate than men dying…and no rape is not the worst…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:58 PM
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You are denying that men are murdered at multiples the rate of women are you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:52 PM
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Yes hypergamy is a term that came out of social science and evolutionary psychology- Jordan Peterson has talked about it but it’s a little irritating how the likes of Rollo Tomassi (Godfather of the RP) will glibly claim that he has done more than anyone to expand our understanding of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:19 PM
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No I meant the much observed “bad boy” phenomenon though I do take your point some psychopaths and narcissists come as wolves in sheep’s clothing and women are duped but that’s not really what I am talking about - there are impulsive overtly bad boy types that in the sexual sphere women find magnetic - they know they are not socially acceptable so they just hook up and don’t bring around to their parents. I saw an evolutionary psychologist recently say this is biological because women saw more a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:49 PM
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Most contraceptives and safe methods of abortion were invented by men -white men since they bring that up - so much for controlling women’s bodies in the way they suggest. An abortion i would argue is more an instance of controlling a woman’s body than a natural pregnancy taking its course.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 11:49 AM
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Dark triad men ie dangerous / impulsive psychopaths / narcissists are extremely magnetic to women. Women need to start taking some responsibility for their sexual choices when shit goes wrong. They are not always unwitting victims they are attracted to these guys precisely because they are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:19 AM
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Even in the animal kingdom and from mammals we evolve from the most desirable females gravitate to the strongest healthiest higher status alpha male.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:18 AM
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I love when people think their few friends experience debunks something so prevalent that even the term “hypergamy” was coined and is accepted in clinical and social scientific communities to describe the phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:17 AM
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Actually it is because men who murder women or other men are the smallest grain of sand in the largest desert - it’s not at all reflective of half the globes population but when this comes up it’s “well he was murdered by someone he had nothing in common with other than gender but still a man so he’s not a real victim” - the tone and tenor of these debates and the attention given to females victims proves women have privilege- people and society really don’t care when men are killed - that’s jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:34 PM
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It’s probably more common than a woman getting murdered by a man - women will complain about the frequency of that but it happens men 8 times more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:26 PM
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I don’t quite agree - I think there are hoards of bitter women intent upon destroying men they just don’t do it physically but they also ruin women who want to settle down so good men,
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:23 PM
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Bisexual women and lesbians almost always understand in the same way that I think gay men are more honest about being hugely attracted to danger / excitement / spontaneity in men that women just don’t take any responsibility for when it goes wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:32 AM
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Women have money / social status standards for men whereas men don’t care if she is a waitress. A lot of ugly fat chicks seem to score occasionally with above average men - the opposite does not occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:19 PM
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To me it appears that the most toxic feminists act out qualities they describe in toxic men but I am not always convinced their drive and aggression is as organic as with men it’s testosterone fuelled.
/r/MensRights24/07/22 07:28 PM
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Clearly because of the patriarchy 😅😅😅
/r/MensRights24/07/22 07:10 AM
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There are a lot of really beautiful and feminine UKrainian women coming into Europe now - somehow these 5’10 / 50K a year average guys seem to have a lot of appeal - something I’ve noticed. What’s deemed average is sometimes more the entitlement of the market more than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:12 AM
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An awful lot of what you describe is clearly below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:02 AM
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Well I learned a hard lesson on that front which goes to the theme of the post - if you start to care and what’s more if you showcase that you care women tend to walk away - men who “care” early tend to be clingy, it just screams lack of options and is repulsive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:08 AM
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What’s more if the majority of men who find themselves rejected, lonely and humiliated because of these impossible standards turn to porn then it’s it’s objectionable and demeaning to….the women who reserve the right to reject them but deny them any alternatives /relief ? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:43 AM
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There are different tiers to MGTOW - some live off grid in a cabin in the woods far away from the gynocentric society and some live in the real world, date and have casual sex - what unites MGTOW is they will never enter a formal relationship with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:08 PM
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Men have much lower sexual disgust than women and the demand for women is much higher - fat and ugly women will still have some simps - fat / ugly men never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:22 AM
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That is attraction or rapport not necessarily emotional at all. Actually I can tell you you are a woman and the post is from a female lens - it’s really not that emotional for men in the way it is with women and as soon as men get very emotional about it God help him. Even average women have much more options than above average men and despite emotional connection they initiate significant majority of break ups and divorces and men who get very emotionally invested end up very badly off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:09 AM
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The studies show with single fathers the results are slightly better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:28 AM
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You are not going to be “emotional invested” from day one are you ? It grows over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:36 AM
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I’m confused that you are confused that swathes of young women are being deprived of happiness and fulfilment on the basis of a lie ? I think any moral person should feel a little angry on behalf of women ? The ‘shame’ thing is brought in and again it’s a way to relieve women of a difficult decision they have to make - most women DO actually want children but they are not really told despite obvious science to they have a finite time to do this. The settling down with men they aren’t interested …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:39 PM
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I should have qualified by saying single women without children. Those with children have other priorities and ‘the wall’ isn’t such a big thing. I am aware there is a huge trend of women ‘waiting’ to have children and unfortunately and this isn’t controversial the risks of dangerous pregnancies and complications go up massively after mid thirties and because they are basically over 80 percent less fertile than in their early 20’s, financially crippling IVF and multiple miscarriages or more comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:30 PM
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I’ve always thought “the wall” is much further off than many will admit. Women seem to be at almost peak in their thirties but somewhere around late thirties to forty I think the level and quality of male attention they took for granted for two decades drops off significantly and because they are competing with 20 somethings and because it’s the time they most want to settle down before it’s too late - the combination can be crushing - the wall does exist, it’s undefeated and it sneaks up on you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:21 PM
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I don’t think it’s complete bullshit because women still incur more risk in the sexual exchange than men but this has become a cop out - most women even under average age besieged with options and because of social media and online simpery male attention is very cheap to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:05 PM
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A simple rationale is that those who don’t follow the very simple and compelling logic that explains pay differences without deferring to discrimination probably deserve to be paid less. I have up trying to by rational in these debates - it is lost on people who are just emotional.
/r/MensRights20/07/22 05:41 PM
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Tik Tok doesn’t Red Pill men - only entitled feminist victims do that.
/r/AntiFeminists20/07/22 08:25 AM
2

Ever heard of Johnny Depp ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:21 PM
1

The first rule of redpill basically is stop simping - don’t Simp in any of the subtle formats by even subbing to IG thots but red pill is the smallest grain in the largest desert and most men will default to simpery and it’s why male attention has very little currency anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:07 PM
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A feminist on my team also decried the Mike Pence rule which I abide by - it’s like they want to catch you.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 09:11 PM
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In a strange sort of way women do want a certain type of man to break conventions and rules because it showcases courage and commitment and dominance - women will never admit to these being attractive the same way they will never admit to being turned on by “bad boys” even though the badness is very much inherent in the attraction. Similarly men with dark triad traits continue to be magnetic to women but it is nothing they will take any responsibility for when the inevitable fallout / abuse happ…
/r/MensRights19/07/22 04:36 PM
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You’ve just done what I said the other poster has done because of your personal circumstances you assume you that’s the norm and debunks hundreds of studies and frankly common sense. You must be extremely ego centric - it’s not all about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:54 PM
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Western Governments have bypassed marriage as the only institution that extends these rights and the Courts are all too willing to step in on behalf of women - in my country and others a one year cohabitant relationship is effectively recognised with many of the same rights extended to civil marriages - there was a Canadian billionaire recently who had to pay massive alimony to a ex girlfriend who he just occasionally went on vacation with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:29 PM
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You are applying your own anecdotal experience to the world - you and your husband are not millions of couples. Women do this all the time, assume nothing is proven if someone in their circle is the contradiction - it’s not all about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:11 AM
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And when you get a degree or wealth or assets you must show case it as you do - it’s very low class - men don’t care about your education or money ok because men share their wealth with women and the reverse does not occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:06 AM
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Women have always dated up socio / economically and even high earning women want men with significant resources, so the pool is smaller and career women are increasingly now not getting married. Look up what “hypergamy” is. It seems even in the thick of claiming they are strong and independent women still at w National level demand significant state subsidy with men being the majority taxpayer, they want college debt written off (70 percent worsen) even if they were dumb enough to pay massively …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:54 AM
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Well look at the stats on marriage failure for instance, why would men put themselves through that in an era of social media where there are more and more incentives for women to leave them and take everything. Most men I knew threw themselves into the super expensive sentimental gesture just to have kids - that’s not really on offer anymore. Women have removed all of the allure they had for men in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 08:51 AM
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One of the saddest and most damaging things about feminism is they seek validation from the achievements of other women they have nothing in common with other than gender. An extremely low bar and you can see how they always consider themselves a collective - men compete with one another which raises the standard.
/r/AntiFeminists17/07/22 03:40 AM
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Women have high sexual disgust and often view lots of options as wading through shit to find a diamond. They can never extend their mind to the loneliness and humiliation of men that don’t have any options.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:20 AM
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It’s impairs social skills not IQ in fact many are extremely high functioning and can process maths at the speed of a computer not unalike Musk - basically everything you have said in this exchange has been wrong.
/r/MensRights15/07/22 05:12 PM
2

It was fun for a while but then I used to feel sleazy and now I actually have a lot of trouble climaxing, at least with a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:41 AM
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He’s not an idiot - he has Aspergers with a genius level IQ.
/r/MensRights14/07/22 07:11 PM
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No even millions doesn’t get the first non state rocket company, Tesla and dozens of other companies profitable - he works 100 a week and has a genius level IQ. When he started out he coded and slept on office floor.
/r/MensRights14/07/22 06:41 PM
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He has a genius level IQ and probably one of the best innovators of our age - yes he has Aspergers evidently very high functioning - are you showing a bias against disability ? You don’t get to be a self made billionaire by being an idiot.
/r/MensRights14/07/22 03:44 PM
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Is Elon Musk an incel ? He has like what 6 kids -you know he’s drawn attention to population collapse and AI limitations in dealing with it ?
/r/MensRights14/07/22 03:09 PM
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It’s funny how people who have 0 clue about how the world runs seem to know it’s coming to an end. If you are male then you are also part of a cohort who have completely surrendered to the feminine imperative which has also meant there are people coming through weighed down with debt from university degrees that have no market value - no more tradesmen or people who will drill for oil / water or farm food ie things our species need to survive because this change is all female driven either thems…
/r/MensRights14/07/22 02:56 PM
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No - the third world they have massive surplus populations given unavailability of abortion etc but in the developed world - read what I said again - there have to be future taxpayers, pension payers and suppliers of goods and services essential to our survival coming through so the older generation can retire. I’m shocked that you wokeists only seek to think of comforts and conveniences and all of these complex problems like the survival of the species and prevention of civilization collapse do…
/r/MensRights14/07/22 02:39 PM
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The third world has the surplus population (women in Chad have on average 8 kids) - the West is headed for population collapse which is frightening - look around, millennials are from families of 3 or 4 and they are not having kids and if that trend continues it goes off a cliff - lots of Gen X and Millennials too old and sick and very few coming through to farm the food, generate heat and energy and water and taxes.
/r/MensRights14/07/22 02:29 PM
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Well it’s a societal issue because it’s linked to reproduction and future taxpayers being productive and not criminals which is increasingly the case with single parent households. Inter gender dynamics should concern everyone who wants to retire in peace one day.
/r/MensRights14/07/22 02:25 PM
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This isn’t new news - look up what “hypergamy” is - a clinically recognised term in psychology and social science - women date across and UP - you say this is because women have only got into high status positions the last number of years ? (there have actually been female doctors and lawyers for a century) well even taking the last few years into account: high status women are the least like to marry. Even if a man was opportunistic as to marry a wealthy woman how would that benefit him ? Men s…
/r/MensRights14/07/22 02:22 PM
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For their own identity / confidence to a degree but women have An actual romantic / sexual attraction to men and we see this across the animal kingdom and from primates we have evolved from. Men may respect a woman’s attainment of status under the rules but it’s just not attractive to him in the romantic sense - some of the worst emotional reactions I have seen is when a 30 plus disagreeable female lawyer or millionaire realises that a high status man would reject her in favour of a woman who “h…
/r/MensRights14/07/22 02:11 PM
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What is threatening is the normal grind, drive, study and endeavour to succeed is replaced with quotas, tokenism and women really just being gifted power positions based on gender. If women succeeded in the same terms it would be perfectly ok but when they change the rules so that it benefits only them it is at the expense of everyone. People who are gifted power end up abusing it and I have encountered a lot of women given token power positions who end up bullying other women. In addition power…
/r/MensRights14/07/22 07:28 AM
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What is remarkable about Musk who I do admire because of his innovation and genius level IQ is that he can quite rightly draw attention to the scary population collapse and the terrifying potential outcomes of AI which can be the cure for less people but then through Tesla he gives subsidies to chicks travelling to abortion states when they need one and every woman he has been with especially the last two train wrecks (Amber Heard and Grimes) ruled his ass when he could get any woman he wanted.
/r/AntiFeminists13/07/22 07:49 AM
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The irony is that the high social status that they strive for in association with these positions doesn’t serve them in the way that they think that it does. Despite massive attempts by social conditioning to reverse biology, men are not attracted to women of high social status in the way that women are, attracted to men of high social status, apart from anything else women don’t share their wealth with men the way men share it with them and with children and even women of high status still want…
/r/MensRights12/07/22 08:01 AM
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It’s more because it’s a smelly / disgusting job than about weight. This is one of many dangerous / heavy and smelly domestic chores left to men which women don’t mention when they moan about domestic chores they have to do
/r/AntiFeminists11/07/22 10:40 PM
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What’s remarkable is when these chicks are too old to work they won’t get pensions or goods or basic services easily because multi generational dip in birth rates means no future farmers to farm food, no engineers to generate heat, electricity and water and the basics comforts snd conveniences they feel entitled to. This problem can be offset to some small degree from immigration where women have a huge number children but men who come from those countries…let’s just say they are going to have t…
/r/AntiFeminists11/07/22 11:29 AM
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Women do the vast majority of the spending and voting that’s why.
/r/MensRights07/07/22 05:12 AM
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I am onto a lot of red pill content which is the most sensible corner of the Manosphere but there are some MGTOW’s who are very insightful. Feminists tend to mention black pill incels and school shooters to describe the Manosphere whereas anyone in the space knows incels hate red pillers and red pill content and teaching men female nature as well as confidence and competence is the stuff that prevents young men turning to nihilism and suicide. As with any corner of the Internet especially femini…
/r/AntiFeminists06/07/22 09:14 PM
1

If she was hot you would still say it’s a joke….she’s not even hot.
/r/AntiFeminists06/07/22 09:07 PM
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She is the type who will play the race and gender card “oh the black aggressive woman you can’t accuse me of that it’s just a racial stereotype”
/r/AntiFeminists06/07/22 09:05 PM
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India did have a misogyny / gang rape problem ten years ago. After a few very notorious incidents they have waaaaaay over corrected the problem.
/r/AntiFeminists06/07/22 08:54 PM
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Everyone is entitled to an opinion or a counter opinion. What irks me about feminists is they have a double standard in trying to impose upon men what they should be attracted to and screaming blue murder / misogyny when men voice a preference. Some of the loudest voices in the pro choice throng seem to be infertile lesbians who will say men who could be fathers shouldn’t have a say since they can’t give birth.
/r/AntiFeminists03/07/22 06:25 AM
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The lady at the end says they are IRish - just to correct they are Scottish. A strong enough Scottish accent is one where not even another English speaking Northern European can understand.
/r/AntiFeminists03/07/22 04:35 AM
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Women have dozens of contraceptive options for men it’s just condoms and vasectomys and the risk of vasectomys being irreversible is like one third which is extremely high. Yes it’s too much to ask. Even a woman who didn’t want kids would be expected to incur that level of risk. The ratio of women versus men who managed to pass on their genes (survival in evolutionary terms) is extremely high - men should not abandon their biological imperative and what we have evolved to do just for women’s com…
/r/AntiFeminists03/07/22 04:25 AM
1

The trouble with the rape thing is…for actual rape absolutely yes but have you considered that false rape allegations are going to go into orbit and they are going to want to expand the definition. If she consents to sex without a condom and he fails to pull out properly it’s going to be considered rape.
/r/AntiFeminists03/07/22 04:17 AM
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Yes the classical liberal is basically deemed a Nazis today.
/r/AntiFeminists01/07/22 07:31 AM
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I have encountered lesbians who for reasons that should be obvious have sympathy with the plight of men. The most annoying and loudest in the “reproductive rights” contingent seems to be aged lesbians who will say without irony men (who can be fathers) shouldn’t get a say in the debate.
/r/AntiFeminists01/07/22 07:30 AM
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“No one discusses or is allowed discuss….”- got to you didn’t it so you root out a year old post - pathetic.
/r/MensRights30/06/22 02:57 PM
1

Well I said I get some traction but I would like more so I guess I screwed up the Incel argument you probably default to when you hear facts you don’t like? Why don’t you move on - you are clearly here to troll.
/r/MensRights30/06/22 02:52 PM
2

I never said I had trouble on Tinder - I did say I had at least two women practically tear my clothes off when I stood up to them.
/r/MensRights30/06/22 02:44 PM
2

A nagging woman is extremely grating on the nerves and there are just so many women now who can’t take the last word when you give it to them and have to rub it in. I just walk away these days. Strangely a few times when I lost my temper (shouting / assertive) two women in particular were turned on. NO ONE discusses or is allowed discuss a common phenomenon in domestic violence - women are very often hopelessly attracted to dark triad / dangerous / psychopathic men - again I feel it is insisted …
/r/MensRights30/06/22 01:42 PM
1

Can’t stand her - the egalitarian, modern feminist who thought she could marry into the most traditional and hierarchical families in the world and they would just let her turn it into the Kardashians with her as Queen - when the real Queen stopped her patenting and pimping out the Title that was gifted to her she left and blamed racism. She is the best representative of the moral cowardice and insane double standards of modern feminism.
/r/MensRights29/06/22 11:17 PM
1

Same reason they are not funny - they don’t have to be to get male attention.
/r/seduction29/06/22 10:36 PM
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Putin did not invade during the tenure of that Toxic male Donald Trump because Trump told him he’d bomb the Kremlin. Putin has seen the increasingly emotional and feminised state of Western manhood and said “who is going to stop me” - Thatcher bombed the Falklands and there are numerous other examples of female leaders starting wars that only men have to participate in. Women do routinely benefit from male aggression either in provisioning of resources for them or in paying the ultimate price in…
/r/MensRights29/06/22 06:21 PM
1

Abortion is the “doing something” which is a State intervention in a natural process funded by taxpayers who very often don’t agree with it. We have to stop embellishing this this culture that people don’t take any responsibility or bear any burden or inconvenience even when it harms society at large. Women a generation ago didn’t scream and stamp their feet like this even though the risks were probably greater. A lot of this is just pure entitlement.
/r/MensRights29/06/22 02:20 PM
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Women utilise sex or the promise of it to get what they want - this whole thing is a fractional minority of women who feel entitled to a hoe phase where others (mainly male taxpayers) have to bail them out if it comes to it. It’s like women who exclusively date bad boys and then bemoan domestic violence levels or scream harassment at a chump who can barely get a date looks at her cleavage that is to illicit others. I’m starting to think that it’s like dealing with a bunch of 7 year olds who can’…
/r/MensRights28/06/22 06:13 PM
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Apologies : I forget sometimes as a man I have a lower bar in terms of my “rights” being things I am entitled to pay for and use - the “rights” in this reproductive discussion are clearly demands for full subsidy and that the taxpayer will bear the burden of payment.
/r/MensRights28/06/22 04:16 PM
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You have the right to condoms and a vasectomy which places you at huge risk (30%) of infertility. There are probably instances where you could be ordered by a judge to support children that are not yours because you got involved with a woman who was trustworthy enough to allow a loser ejaculate into her, carry his children to terms and he then ran off / couldn’t / wouldn’t support them or you were cuckolded into believing they were yours when they were not - the State doesn’t care that men were …
/r/MensRights28/06/22 11:30 AM
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Because it’s a moral issue not a gender one and taxpayers are expected to fund it even if they disagree - why does not one raise that they want free (someone else pays) abortions ?
/r/MensRights27/06/22 03:20 PM
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No one can criticise a woman for what she is attracted to. It’s not a subjective thing subject to social conditioning - it happens to be a deeply ingrained biological thing and the reason we evolved a a species is - and they will never admit it - women were attracted to more dominant / alpha men sexually. All I ask is women taken responsibility for their choices. Psychopaths and dangerous deviant, irresponsible men are quite attractive to young women in particular yet all the domestic violence s…
/r/MensRights27/06/22 01:04 PM
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No one has full bodily autonomy and even if they did it wouldn’t necessarily mean it is a good thing. I am not legally entitled to inject heroin into myself. What is missed in this debate is the pro choice lobby expect full subsidy for something women could easily have taken numerous steps to prevent : they have over 50 man made contraceptive options versus the two men have. Biology / nature is to blame. What is concerning is that in a much wider sense there is a growing populace of people who e…
/r/MensRights27/06/22 09:28 AM
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I’m amused how women overwhelmingly elect male legislators.
/r/MensRights26/06/22 03:59 PM
2

There are varying levels of MGTOW some men will sleep with or casually date women they just won’t have a formal relationship with them.
/r/MensRights26/06/22 03:56 PM
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Precisely - women feel any imposition of responsibility is a withholding of “rights” - their comfort and convenience and choice is literally more important than the survival of the species. They want power and authority without responsibility.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 08:27 AM
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I don’t engage in the rape debate thing - it’s clearly dishonest emotional blackmail when they cite an extremely remote fractional minority when they want abortion on demand on all cases which are elective. “Healthcare” is another manipulation - something that has occurred safely (thanks to man made scientific advancements) countless times isn’t a medical catastrophe just because a woman decides it is.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 08:12 AM
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Nothing proves abortion is elective more than women aborting some men’s babies and keeping and even raising others. Women for the most party are the best judge of whose genetics to pass on and men who pathetically pander to them and their “issues” are actually figures of revulsion - I’ve seen the type of men who attend these marches. They are not fucking anyone but if they are going to “fight” for women to make it easier for them to end their genetic legacy then it’s proof humans as a species wo…
/r/MensRights25/06/22 07:06 AM
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Some of the loudest voices in the pro choice camp are infertile lesbian feminists. When we are feeling the effects of population collapse in the West women who can’t retire and have no family will look back and regret that they allowed themselves to be influenced by people who hate children, motherhood, fatherhood, intact families ie the bedrocks of a functioning society.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 06:58 AM
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I don’t believe in patriarchy or toxic masculinity as it is framed by feminists. They seem to say on the one hand that patriarchy has lumbered men with burdens that make them toxic. This nonsense is supported by weak men in Mens/Lib - on the other hand what feminists don’t admit is what they say are undue burdens on men are actually what they see as privileges and they have a seething envy of and believe they should get without earning - they want to be the CEO without the 80 hour work week. The…
/r/MensRights24/06/22 10:26 PM
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Men who who simp and scream in support of women as “allies” are the very type of men who women have so little respect for they don’t sleep with them.
/r/MensRights24/06/22 08:30 PM
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Not only is female life prioritised over those of men but men have always been called upon to sacrifice themselves for female comfort and convenience. Men had to stay on the titanic, lifeboats were given to women and children, men had to make themselves disposable in war for the protection of women and children. This is doubly true today since women do most of the spending and voting - what irks me is they still trade off this myth that they are oppressed in a patriarchy.
/r/MensRights22/06/22 08:38 AM
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He talks about lots of sexual techniques. He suggests if you are in bed and even kissing put your palm kind of on her collarbone with the tip of your thumb just touching her neck - if she moves it over into a a choke position it’s on - it doesn’t quite do it for me but it’s a sure sign she wants to be dominated.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/22 02:15 PM
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I concur - I came to believe that feminism is mourning for very masculine men. They are bitter because likely they are alpha widowed. I was with three feminists and it was the same. One in particular was quite the boss babe and was always complaining about the “reproductive rights” stuff and “if men could get pregnant there would be an abortion clinic on every corner” - she would never come right out and say what she wanted but it’s more obvious now - she loved to be slapped in the ass when I wa…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/22 08:53 AM
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A better example is what you imply - when friends convince other women retrospectively that remember that thing in college 20 years ago…you were raped. I don’t understand how something can be traumatising as is claimed when someone has to be told by someone else how traumatising it was. Leaving aside disassociation which is a real thing, I believe and I’ve seen that because of their communitarianism women seem to be heavily influenced by one another either in wanting to be part of what all the o…
/r/MensRights20/06/22 07:02 PM
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I believe a woman can rape a man at least in the lower tier of what now classed as “rape” - it happened to me because by the standards women apply today, I said no more than once and made clear I wasn’t up for it and she climbed aboard and went for it quite aggressively and I didn’t stop her. I didn’t finish but she did at which point she stopped because she knew I wasn’t into it. It was mildly violating but I can’t claim any trauma. I got an insight into a dangerous personality she had which tu…
/r/MensRights20/06/22 05:52 PM
1

Womens problems in the sexual marketplace are the opposite of but stem directly from men’s problems in the marketplace. Women are bombarded with abundant options and because a main driver for men is sex and that they have very limited options to women it’s the opposite - they need to find a man who is compatible and who won’t run off after getting sex and it’s a maze to look through and yes it probably hurts for some of them knowing they are duped and used just for sex. Too many options poses a …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:22 PM
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I had to work very hard to become someway competent and I realised that dominant single mothers raise weak sons. Women seem to piss in the same pool that they drink from.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:23 PM
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It’s the same as when they demand male subsidy and then claim to be “independent” or when they complain about a non existent gender pay gap but omit to mention women spend 80% of the money.
/r/MensRights19/06/22 03:03 PM
2

I’m at an age where the same women who rejected me in my early twenties are flocking to me. I avail of these options without shame but I won’t be pushed into commitment nor rushed into anything and I control the contraception situation : they should have had babies when they were at fertility peak over a decade ago but they were not prepared to forego the fun nor the male subsidy and attention. For every 30 something career woman “looking for love” there are legions of dejected used up but well …
/r/MensRights19/06/22 02:56 PM
1

Women really can’t complain about this stuff - rejecting a male is in effect subtly telling him there is no reason his genetics should survive another generation, it’s harsh but we don’t complain, the burden of approach / rejection / humiliation is on men. The ratio of men versus women who managed to reproduce is like 5:9. Even the reproductive act indicates that we evolved in such a way as men had to scatter as many seeds as possible and women had to be careful to choose the best seed - million…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:14 PM
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I agree men aren’t owed a relationship but things like this are usually said with pride by the most entitled women with significantly more sexual options than even above average men and who demand more and more and more male subsidy so that they can pretend they are strong and independent. Monogamy was introduced to stabilise society as female nature tends to seek top tier men who are happy to bang them on occasion that’s it, it means neither men nor women get proper relationships, children aren…
/r/MensRights03/06/22 08:38 AM
2

Amber has been believed and Johnny disbelieved to the institutions that matter - Courts and mainstream media - in the UK the Judge believed her claim that she could not have been a gold digger since she had donated the divorce money to charity ! This was something that appeared to have coloured the case.
/r/MensRights23/05/22 07:51 AM
1

Fraud investigator- private / financial sector not cop.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:23 AM
2

I don’t know it’s that necessarily but not attracted to them in some aspect of relationship value (not sex appeal) for instance a lot of guys who are good looking but don’t make a lot of money can be FWB
/r/seduction09/05/22 05:17 PM
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If a woman knows she has niche taste then it is ok but they have done experiments on this and what women say and do can be very different. Women are communitarian and quite influenced by peers. They tend to want men that other women want and men want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:08 PM
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If they can’t care for a kid the obvious solution is adoption ? I’m not saying women shouldn’t be motivated to have a child or not due to economic status of the father but the problem is society is then blackmailed emotionally with images of impoverished rape victims in red habits and white bonnets in dirty backstreet clinics which really just means the father isn’t much of a catch - if Daddy is a billionaire you will find the emergency health concerns are resolved with yoga and pre natal vitami…
/r/MensRights09/05/22 01:56 PM
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There are all sorts of reasons but mainly it’s a lifestyle choice as opposed to one where it is health and even lesser again when it is life or death for the mother. I’m liberal with it on genuine health grounds but they then tend to scew the science to bend to their convenient lifestyle choice.
/r/MensRights08/05/22 11:48 PM
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Likely he was a stepping stone or it was a few nice meals and a movie when she was between jobs.
/r/MensRights08/05/22 04:16 PM
2

You said they didn’t escalate or act interested. “Playing it cool” is for teenagers. High Value men don’t do that but it probably amounted to hurt ego that you ended it rather than they were genuinely interested so good for you for taking power back. “Oneitiss” (attachment and commitment to one woman) is a dreaded fear of red pill men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:29 AM
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Three types of lies : lies damn lies and statistics. One of the posts was compiled in response to a interpretation he didn’t like but at a glance of the raw data suggests far more women answered the survey and the thread concludes women are “sharing Chads” - it’s like making the argument that marriage is going well because divorce rates are way down whilst also concealing that’s because marriage rates are also dramatically down. Let’s broaden the battlefield and rather than focus on a particular…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:38 AM
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You possibly dated red pill men and these wealthy attractive guys did as red pill men do : explore their options whilst they have leverage and not invest - you were an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:16 AM
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The difference between an average guy being the father is a catastrophe of health, a false rape allegation and an horrific backstreet scene with a bottle of gin and a rusty clothes hanger and a poor wretch in a red habit and a white bonnet….now imagine if Daddy is a billionaire: pre natal vitamins, yoga, she will probably glow with the happy hormones whilst she ponders the latest hippy bath birthing process the celebrities are doing.
/r/MensRights08/05/22 06:02 AM
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It’s like Rollo Tomassi always says. Abortion is not about healthcare it’s a fail safe against bad reproductive choices. It’s not necessarily that she does not want a kid it’s that she doesn’t want HIS kid.
/r/MensRights08/05/22 04:50 AM
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Women will always make rules for some men and break them for others but once you become a subservient bending to her will and rules she’s just not going to be attracted to you.
/r/seduction08/05/22 04:26 AM
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The dogs on the street know what has happened to marriage since the sexual revolution and according to this declined at readily through to the 80’s remained stagnant and had fallen again to the lowest since 1867 (I stand corrected) population collapse is v serious if you want to look it up. https://www.usnews.com/news/healthiest-communities/articles/2020-04-29/us-marriage-rate-drops-to-record-low?context=amp
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:49 AM
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That may get you laid a few times it won’t equate to marriage and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:56 AM
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You are familiar with the concept of hypergamy? We are entering an era where upward of 40 % of women hitting 40 are childless and unmarried. This is the highest ever since records commenced. I know there are societal variables - don’t say it’s all work because women have been in professions over one hundred years but if they are not so picky what is happening ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 09:27 AM
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But it’s a great way to measure something that otherwise is difficult to accurately measure. There was also a study that indicated a majority of women deemed upward of 80 % of men unattractive according to their profiles. This is not unusual in fact it’s replicated very widely across the animal kingdom and from mammal species that we have evolved from. Multiple females gravitate towards the highest status alpha male and basically share him. Monogamy and marriage were introduced to stabilise soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:27 AM
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The 40 percent under 30 stat is from USA though. Dating app data also indicates that a top tier of 20 percent of men are having the meaningful matches / interactions with 80 percent of the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:04 AM
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It’s USA and Western Europe - you will note in Ukraine the men are ennobled with everything that is admirable about men : courageous, strength and willing to endure extreme harshness to defend their women (who unsurprisingly adore them) and their children. There are one order values however.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:04 AM
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Upward of 40% of men under thirty are completely sexless. I hadn’t heard too many women are that, they could be but virtually all women will have sexual options because men are so horny and a vast gulf of men have no options thereby increasing the demand. Leaving aside basement dwelling, incels who have always been around to some degree I think the isolation of increasing numbers of average and above average or under average willing to work to become above average men from the sexual marketplace…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:46 AM
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It’s closer to mid thirties in my experience - just at the time biology and science screams at them is the worst possible time to try to have kids…they try to have kids and yes that’s assuming they have already defeated massive odds by finding a high value man who wants kids but who’ll opt for a high risk, unpleasant boss babe in mid thirties instead of a friendly, fertile beautifuland nurturing 20 something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:05 PM
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Men are having a lot of sexual dysfunction earlier and earlier now because porn is rampant and the price of the real world sexual exchange has gone up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:59 AM
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Cost of living / inflation has rendered above average men average to below average quite quickly. Additionally because college degrees are really abundant now there is nothing to set them apart from everyone else. I got my Masters Degree at a time when even undergraduate degrees were relatively rare. Now I am in amongst people who think it gives them prestige but they just got tricked by the worst capitalist ploy by paying top price for something that is so abundant it has no value and the irony…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:15 AM
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Men don’t have any reproductive rights.
/r/MensRights05/05/22 06:56 AM
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Take note : one of the early leaders of the #Metoo movement Asia Argento had to pay off an underage male she was sleeping with. Her boyfriend Anthony Bourdaine later committed suicide because of her rampant cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 05:54 AM
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I was in a relationship with a very sadistic narcissist woman for 2 years. Like all Cluster B personalities they always always always have to be victim. One time my ex who was always screening my phone threw punches at me when I stopped her and I had to hold her wrists to fend off blows. She photographed the bruises and blackmailed me for months. She was in a woman’s group and posted incessantly about metoo, believe all women etc. It’s sick how sadistic women are just emboldened without question…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 05:46 AM
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Too many judges just want to flex their supposed morality when faced with a small child and repeatedly get it all wrong.
/r/MensRights02/05/22 09:58 AM
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Fine wine you are - I get a lot of dates but maybe a handful of hookups a year at 36.
/r/seduction27/04/22 03:54 PM
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I dated at least two feminists who were into that without even saying it upfront - it’s a strange transition for a man supposedly raised in a patriarchy to make - it’s also potentially a dangerous one if she changes her mind.
/r/MensRights25/04/22 11:06 AM
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Women aren’t attracted to this man.
/r/MensRights25/04/22 06:52 AM
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Women say this and there is often a difference between what women say and what they do. Women may want their equal to be more emotional because this actually inhibits workplace advancement but in a romantic / sexual context women virtue signal about liking of accepting emotional men but are repulsed at the type of man who would cry in her lap. There is nothing wrong with being attracted to emotional strength and stability it’s how we survived - women stop lying to yourselves and society - men ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:01 PM
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Most of the feminist subs only want feminists posting.
/r/MensRights21/04/22 07:05 AM
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Women have all the options / leverage so men will deploy whatever means they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:22 AM
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I don’t know that it’s even the tattoo’d, criminal, socially deviant biker but there is plenty to suggest that women are massively attracted to dangerous / dark triad personalities. This phenomenon I have encountered where even ugly guys who were complete assholes but had lots of confidence were with stunners who they were assholes to but they obeyed every whim. Confidence and a type of uncompromising personality seems to loom very large for women who could have their pick of men and they get ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 04:49 PM
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Originally marriage was never really about the Disneyesque romance we have self indulgently made it to be : it was primarily about procreation and stability for raising children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 08:40 PM
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I did date a girl with JJ - it was fun but I felt guilty she paid the price in having to specially order and she had permanent grooves embedded in her shoulders from the straps. Solidarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 09:26 PM
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RP men do arrive in from trauma but I would say that MGTOW maybe more misogynistic in the way you are implying. This occurs from romantic relationships - nothing to do with their mothers. My mother abandoned me as a child and I was raised by my grandmother who I adored. My mother was not suited to raising small children by her own admission. Today I would say my mother and I have a relationship based on mutual respect and shared humour but like my sisters it’s not the same as usual parent / chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 04:35 AM
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I am 38 - there is no competition between the man I am today and at any stage in my twenties. What skews it a little is a Lot of epiphany phase women between later twenties and early thirties go for more secure men at economic peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:31 AM
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The attraction rate to dark triad men (ahem psychopaths and narcissists) is huge and this is something feminists never want to consider when meting out solutions to domestic violence ie restrictions and sanctions on gentlemen. I saw an interview with an evolutionary psychologist recently : he said like most attraction it is tied to evolution and survival because men who are willing to flaunt and break social norms and laws to get what they want have an advantage in gaining resources that women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 06:23 PM
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Sometimes I used to notice it took longer and longer to respond even if she was online, so she was dealing with other options / messages - in the end you are too far down the pile.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:28 PM
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I had it yes - sex was just sore at times so I got the snip in my early twenties. I could do with more sensitivity but it’s all good - v common problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:28 PM
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A eurologist told me phimosis is very common in Irish and Northern European men. If foreskin can’t retract past the head it should come off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 06:55 PM
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It’s called phimosis and it’s incredibly common.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 06:54 PM
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It’s worth pointing out that men have pushed the civilisation forward and that has lead to the technological advancements that have liberated both men and women from manual labour though this was primarily undertaken be men. How women attained (and retain) “independence” is largely thanks to men freeing them from the consequences of biology and oxymoronically feminists lobby for more “independence” which is really more government/ male subsidy. Feminism can only flourish in Western societies and…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 10:24 AM
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The statistics on female promiscuity and inability to pair bond and divorce are shocking enough that Ya any smart man would have to know before putting a ring on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:45 AM
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There are men in their nineties included in that. What happens when you reduce the percentage to those men of under an age where there was online dating or social media in their formative years and those of prospective partners - say south of 45? 29 % of under 30’s are practically virgins. No one who spouts the 80/20 rule says it was around over 20 Years ago in fact they tend to mourn for more traditional simpler times one man for one woman that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:29 PM
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Women are hypergamous - there is no getting around it. They can’t be blamed because it’s in their nature and we would not have survived as a species if they were not very opportunistic in mate selection. Men have to approach relationships being aware of these risks because as much as 50% of marriages breakdown, the vast majority of these are initiated by women and men tend to fare a lot worse. Almost no woman I met is ever honest about what she is truly attracted to and body count. I dated a chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 10:30 PM
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For a long time I was not what anyone could consider dominant - I’m good looking so I did occasionally get women into bed but I noticed slowly over time they just enjoyed it more when I was more assertive. I used to love how they would all claw at my hairy chest - a few times early I tried to spank they would shout at me to do it harder - one called me a pussy ! - what was v obvious that when I slept with at least 4 devout feminists they were the most sexually aggressive but that was to induce m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 05:55 PM
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Women go along with societal and feminist conditioning a lot so pretend to desire emotional men so they end up with a pent up desire for powerful masculine men who will dominate them. There is a reason they bang bad boys in secret without introducing him to her friends. I haven’t experienced them being degraded but they love being dominated and the feeling of a powerful masculine partner - sex is very primitive and unleashes all sorts of subconscious desires - feminists in particular love gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 05:36 PM
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In the longer term women lose - they don’t realise that the pickier they become the pool of options they choose from also gets smaller and most within that pool have options to go much younger. No women in her 30’s is going to lockdown the high value man she thinks she can get. They will still have fun with her which feeds her illusion. These women are really just passed around until all they fit for is wine vats and cats and the awful realisation that they were lied to and they bought it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:02 PM
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Women’s “liberation” is not that in the sexual sphere - men don’t care about your college degree or your career. Since when have men slept with women just because they are rich and funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:31 AM
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If you want to stereotype MRA’s it’s more bitter divorced Dads ie not virgins which is what incels mainly are. In one of the school shootings they tried to blame MRA’s who rather than point to the unique group of black pill incels decided to blame red pill.
/r/MensRights04/04/22 01:16 PM
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What is interesting is those elements of feminism who see all porn as objectification and demeaning to women. This is only really understood from the perspective of a political Lesbians who see almost all heterosexual sex as some form of oppression or surrender to patriarchy but even then a majority of people don’t like their jobs. There is a huge pay disparity in porn in favour of females. The growth of porn (and as I understand the genre re cuckoldry and humiliation of men is the fastest growi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:34 AM
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Pretty much everything you mentioned applies to women much more than to men - high end clothing and jewellery in particular - that market is multiples more for women than for men. Any guy I know whose biggest purchase (house) always ended up spending at least a couple of hundred thousand more than he intended because she wanted the open plan kitchen, the atrium and the big garden with decking. Men tend to be very practical and simple - opulence, luxury and shiny things and brands are women. Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:15 PM
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Because every study bears that out, I worked in Marketing for a time where all the research is consistent on this point- women are the main drivers of spending - consummate consumers. Feminists don’t even dispute this but they will try to say it’s mainly domestic spending and this is labour but again look at luxury items like fashion and jewellery - mainly for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:54 PM
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Men need to earn more money to get married because women - even high earning women / discriminate in this way and men do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:26 PM
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You were on the right track - women spend more than men even if men earn more. This means in couples women have the advantage of not working as hard to earn but deriving more benefit from his labour. Reverse this and feminist would say it’s slavery. Men are more generous with women than visa versa. If men own more money that is not to say they did not earn it - the real metric is who benefits from the money and that is who is spending it - over 80% women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:24 PM
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Just what is happening now - a huge trend of people just opting out of paid employment altogether. Even working two jobs used to have the prospect of home ownership somewhere in the distance but now it’s a pipe dream. The rewards or the basics that came with working even middle class jobs are just not there anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:15 PM
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Good point - his trans son and his polyamorous daughter also took to cutting him off and dissing him publicly along with their mother and I suspect at her bidding. She is in control here. The whole set up suggests a terrible assault on any sense of his old fashioned male dignity that he has and consequently an erosion of his identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:10 PM
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On average, the average man does not want to do that so in the current market you often have to raise wages to attract people to a low status, uncomfortable and hard job - that’s the market. It so happens having done this, practically all the volunteers happen to be men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:02 AM
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Since this started it was never an objective exercise to diagnose a problem or answer if there even was a problem. It was presented as a problem in order to just to push a political agenda. One side switched from median to mean and amped up any disparity even in an isolated area that did not influence the trend overall and continued to heap lie on-top of lie. As much as it was about pay it was also about prestige and power so high status and comfortable jobs were looked at and low status / dange…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:55 AM
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The whole reason behind monogamy is group cohesion. Given the option the vast majority of women will gravitate towards an extreme minority of top tier men. This means the most productive men are fucking all day instead of producing and their women and children are not getting enough male attention and there is a lot of warfare amongst bitter excluded beta males and coalitions against Alpha males. All told it’s a shit show of a society that is bound to collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:10 AM
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In other words most men never got to do the one thing they were / are hardwired to do. We are all to feel outraged by the “reproductive rights” of women which is mainly that they want to mess around with some men for short term gain but want the option to end his bloodline.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:05 AM
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It seemed from the thud sound that he used the hard / lower part of the hand also - at the wrist joint.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 05:24 AM
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I’ve heard a lot of female double speak “violence is wrong but…” if women were honest they would say they are actually turned on by men fighting over them. Female validation and their perception of their safety (no matter how hysteric /misguided) is always more important than men’s actual lives, actual physical safety and their Liberty. This is why abortion which can be a health care choice but it’s mainly a lifestyle / convenience is framed as being about women’s “lives” ie that every pregnancy…
/r/MensRights31/03/22 05:07 AM
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Or the subsequent one with Gwyneth Paltrow where she humiliated him by basically saying he was sexually inadequate. He is the A lister and she is his plus one that’s what she can’t stand and yes she put him up to this.
/r/MensRights28/03/22 02:54 PM
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He said it was open at her beckoning because she knew it was a terrible look for her. She also went on her show and basically humiliated him by saying he was sexually inadequate and should read her mind about what she wants - this relationship is about open cuckoldry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:32 PM
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Correct his first reaction was to laugh but then she was really gonna make him pay for that unless he ‘defended her honour’ only she doesn’t have any honour and clearly has contempt for him since he is the A lister and she is the plus one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:30 PM
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I’m tired of telling women men don’t need an “emotional bond” to fuck a woman, a perfect stranger, almost any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:33 PM
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Men need to be feminine and take up housework because we can’t really compete with them in large sections of the employment market and we want positions of high pay and status so that we can then complain their are no men who are “ambitious” and “financially viable” as partners.
/r/MensRights27/03/22 04:25 PM
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Your post is 100 percent correct - one of the main motivators of male innovation, drive, ambition is sexual choices. Strange then some women come along and bemoan so many male CEO’s - women really dictate these things through mate selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:27 PM
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Male ambition especially where it is intense now is often called “toxic” - women are attracted to high status men whilst oxymornically taught that men with status has nothing to do with ambition and drive but patriarchy and privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:17 PM
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It’s not a dating specific app no matter what anyone says so men in particular run the risk of getting accused of harassment just because a woman (who may use it as a dating app) is not interested in him. iG is typically used to check someone’s lifestyle separate to a bond on a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:18 AM
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There are a few different spheres of hierarchy but I’ve never heard any RP guy talk in terms of “inferiority” especially of women wholesale. Women tend do confuse their economic utility and value with their relationship value. Women should optimise their potential but if a woman is a six figure earning Corporate CEO it doesn’t mean that that value correlates to her relationship value. This probably makes her more unattractive to higher earning / status men and no it’s not because they are “intim…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:35 AM
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Thank you for being pragmatic and also following your heart - women are really oversold a bill of goods these days to how super duper special etc they are - this is an alien concept to a man. If I thought I was so special and entitled, I would expect someone else to give me my rights so that I wouldn’t need to get up every morning and produce and fight off the fear of failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 09:32 PM
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Even in countries that are at peace, feminism seems to think the only careers are high end, high salary, high social status (which they still haven’t figured out is counterproductive to them on dating scene) in air conditioned offices which they are being deprived of. They completely miss that the low social status, back breaking and dangerous jobs are all done by men and resemble a gender at war.
/r/MensRights23/03/22 06:39 AM
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Don’t forget when women got the vote it was far more advantageous than the universal right of all men to vote granted just a short term before - women were not liable for war. I notice in the Ukrainian situation they are happy to have men used as cannon fodder whilst women want in on the heroics : there have been a few instances of women “volunteer soldiers” posing with what turned out to be fake guns.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 09:29 PM
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Becoming a CEO and getting to the top isn’t compatible with someone complaining that people are mean to them. The type of drive and commitment and self belief and endurance is what CEO’s are made of. I sit on an employee lobbying committee in Big Corporate - whenever there are requests for more “well being days” “yoga days” “cupcakes in the canteen” ie more balance and more subsidy and comfort it’s ALWAYS from women. Men can talk tough to each other in business and politics it’s a proxy for war,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:26 AM
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Women want high earning AND high status AND comfortable jobs. They don’t realise that men don’t really care what a woman’s status is - that’s what women admire in men and assume men will admire it in them also. I have a high paying job and anytime I’ve been to a luxurious and well known hotel for example it’s because some woman dragged me and put it all over IG for her friends to see - for that matter why do we never discuss that women do or control 85% of the spending.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:20 AM
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Yes - social media has fed the illusion that they can have a HVM because they have had such a wide network of contacts with such men who probably passed them around when they were in their 20’s. Pre internet average women married average men from their immediate social group because they didn’t know any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:44 AM
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We haven’t yet concluded the social experiment as to whether women will truly be happy and fulfilled l with careers and cats instead of the HVM they could not lock down or remaining childless and continuing to forego average men. We are only entering the first wave of a very sizeable percentage of infertile, childless and single women and whilst it strikes me some support each other with ladies holidays and consuming “living their best lives” and still holding out in hope the 6’4 Chad will show …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:38 AM
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It’s evolutionary psychology 101 and it’s known amongst any honest or serious social scientist.These dynamics play out to make sex in particular more rare amongst women so it increases the demand from the competitive market of men and like any market those that are not competing set the terms. Society and not to mention social media has also very heavily influenced these trends with government programs basically incentivising single motherhood, demonising and endangering most casual public sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:57 PM
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Women carry much more risk in the sexual exchange - obviously. This is always the way it’s been. Because this is the case women rightly are more selective in who they partner up with and pick from a broader range of criteria in what men can bring with looks (and there is attraction is passing on those genes) being only part of the equation but capacity to provide security and parental investment (he’s not unstable and will not run off) being others. A slight majority of men throughout history ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:21 PM
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You really aren’t red pilled until you have read the Rational Male book series by Rollo Tomassi. The bedrock of RP thinking is women have a dualistic mating strategy that is the best genetics for procreation and then security and provisioning capability (alpha fucks and beta bucks)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:03 AM
2

Millennials are the first generation in history who are not doing as well their parents - from when records began it was always up and up and Boomers really squandered it - these are not the same but Boomers routinely say some dumb stuff like kids have iPhones even though they can barely afford the rent we charge so they are better off.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:46 PM
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There are very severe long term consequences to this that people aren’t told about but will suffer the consequences for like population collapse in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:54 AM
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I said baby boomers were coddled very largely from all of the hard times. Millennials only had that degree of comfort in their upbringing. Millennials and Gen Z, Gen Alpha are going to have had to bail out and carry the debt incurred by Baby Boomers who actually invented the concept of debt. So you tell me who is more coddled.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:52 AM
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Baby boomers are the most coddled and protected generation not millennials. Millennials grew up in an era of comfort and convenience afforded to them by their baby boomers parents but this left them completely annoying and ill equipped for the trials of adulthood specifically the Great Recession and a housing crisis largely foisted on them by their parents real estate splurges.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:13 AM
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Baby boomers are the most coddled and protected generation. The only reason millennials are annoying is they complain, they complain because they weren’t afforded the level of comfort, convenience and protection they grew up with that their parents retain. They left college right into a depression and their first burden apart from rent was multiple bank bailouts to protect their parents real estate and pension splurges. What’s coming after millennials like a bunch of social media crazed but soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:04 AM
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I think society sucks because we have over emphasised the individual and his and her comfort and convenience in the short term.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:57 AM
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True to a point but it is a cost of living thing - it takes two very substantial incomes to afford a decent home in Europe now something that was completely accessible to a single income working class family of the 1960’s and the housing crisis is rampant throughout the West. We are paid more sure means we have to pay more. Who wants to start a family without a home ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:56 AM
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Most of the people I know who want to rally against Capitalism are also mass consumers who want the latest iPhone. This whole struggle is against those that produce and the infinitely larger number of people who whilst unproductive are consumers and feel they are entitled to the money and status of the producers. Boiled down just jealousy on how the fruits of capitalism is produced.
/r/MensRights13/03/22 12:24 PM
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It’s the most expensive sentimental gesture ever but it’s also for status.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 03:45 PM
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A very original and worthy topic of study - I mean all we are in asking about is the survival of the human race - that’s all. Is Rollo Tomassi in your bibliography?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:11 PM
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Yes women complain about an alleged pay gap but don’t realise part of this is driven by the hierarchy they themselves select when choosing mates and how fiercely men compete in the work place and business to get the best women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:05 AM
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Karen Straughan and Erin Pizzey are two of the most insightful and courageous MRA’s I have encountered.
/r/MensRights04/03/22 10:41 PM
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What is central to RP answers this - women’s mating strategy is dualistic and they want a combination of alpha seed but beta need - they are more likely to hook up with or get with tough / bad guys but for long term settling down more stable / secure beta guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:36 PM
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Victimhood is a culture now - it garners sympathy, attention / publicity and money and immunity from criticism and it’s why umpteen minor celebrities are coming out with sad stories supposedly in an effort to encourage mere mortals to “speak out” - the only thing noble about victimhood is truly overcoming it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:36 PM
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It’s not only that they say they are victims - they want in on the moral courage exposure by filming the dozen or so women who volunteered for the army.
/r/MensRights02/03/22 10:34 PM
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I’m even more confused why he wants to preserve Ukranian sovereignty in the EU. They will find out how the woke west hates men - their noble moral courage will be dismissed as toxic
/r/MensRights02/03/22 10:31 PM
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No one is harsher than me on girls in the dating scene and it’s an offshoot from the fact that all the rules are in their favour. I think your reading is right this girl is not typical she is getting a sadistic kick out of upsetting you and that’s very validating for her. I’m in my thirties. I got talking to a chick a year ago and it got hot between us. We arranged another date and that night she said she was getting ready for a date with another guy - she video calls me when she is going her ma…
/r/seduction02/03/22 08:34 AM
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Financially stable guys pay alimony and child support when wifey leaves them for a more attractive / exciting man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:20 AM
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I think all of the women who don’t want to be approached as you say just don’t want to be approached by below average, average or above average men - they want top tier.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:14 AM
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That’s why I said the most depressed demographic according to prescription. The suicide rate speaks volumes but no one has ever really taken an interest in it beyond trying to say men have privilege - the truth is it reflects and it is partly driven by the fact that society really doesn’t care about men’s problems. Your don’t get to say there is male privilege when they suicide rate is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:29 PM
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I really don’t think they are but I noticed there are such amounts of them that they support each other so it appears as though they are wine drinking, holidaying wealthy aunts and dog moms. This is a scam. The most depressed demographic according to prescriptions are career women 40 plus without partners and children. Men almost being like children do descend into often terrible unstructured lives - I see so many widowers take to drink after the wives die.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:32 AM
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If you can bang her first then finish with a shoot - win win. Don’t get used - you make the rules 💪
/r/TheRedPill27/02/22 07:28 PM
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I was referring to the Ukranian men’s willingness to sacrifice and defend in the face of aggression. Any yes what puts the West at risk is the clear weakness and cowardice of people who are so coddled that being made feel slightly uncomfortable is comparable to what is happening in the world. Get some perspective ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:17 PM
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Cowardice has been instilled in men but most western men remain pragmatic and why would any man fight or sacrifice anything for countries that hate them and don’t even know it’s own identity that has no bedrock, rules but is non binary and just appeased the feelings of some feminists and blue hairs. In a way I see a lot of Ukrainian naivety here. They think EU is this shining hope and they would lose more sovereignty under EU than Russia.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:54 PM
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Male sexuality is largely seen as deviant now. A certain type of man - most men - will be accused of harassment for doing exactly what most women want a the top small percentage of men to do. For those increasing number of men getting frozen out of the sexual marketplace opt to demean themselves by giving enormous amounts of money to women to show some of their flesh. Seeing the situation in UKraine has reminded me of the strength and moral courage that is the real stuff of manhood - attraction …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:09 PM
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All sex is transactional - hookers are very honest about it and it’s a set price with a guaranteed outcome. I can see why men do it to save time and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:03 AM
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To be considered top 5 percent he is - I would still say there is a huge gap between the top 5 and top 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:23 AM
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TRP specifically doesn’t teach men to hate women. It reveals elements of female nature that are unflattering and opportunistic but we wouldn’t have survived as a species if women mated with guys who were weak with limited resources. TRP specifically teaches not to hate women for what they can never be and guys can have a tendency to idealise women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:49 AM
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In red pill forums I have often heard it described thus: at least six foot tall, six pack abs, six figure salary and at least a six inch dick but all that is in the top 5 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:42 AM
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A lot of hookup guys are classic ‘bad boys’ and they wear that so whilst women are turned on by the danger but would they be comfortable bringing him home to upscale mom and dad, siblings and the golden retriever, introduce him to the girls or the boss and colleagues ? Hell no. One of the lessons I learned about women was a guy I lived next door to who had a steady stream of beautiful women (including married women) in and out to him mainly under cover of darkness. He was jacked and tattoo’d but…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:37 AM
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He said it over ten years ago but there is a red pill YouTuber claiming it as his own https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ctU7P14dS98
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:34 PM
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Much of this explains why men work more and attain the top tier positions in every field - because they compete fiercely with each other to have the choice of the best females. Females can’t really compete with that so they introduce quotas and social programmes and they still complain men are not on their level enough. A frightening amount of young men are opting out of dating altogether very early. The rewards are just not there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:19 PM
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Me too I’m 5’10 but I live in Europe and seem to be taller than most men and a lot taller than practically all women. I don’t really understand how that is considered average height but most of the stuff I listen to is USA but they insist even women who are 5 foot nothing demand well over 6 foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:19 AM
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The posts are directed most likely at a top 20 percent men - the rest women don’t even notice much less hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 07:59 AM
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I used to feel vengeful also and was always second guessing their motives but in the end I just take a rational / scientific approach. We wouldn’t have survived as a species if women were not opportunistic in how they mate select. I do feel some sympathy because they are Sold a bill of goods and they can prolong party and career and snap their fingers at 35 and Prince Charming and babies arrive. In Europe we are entering the first phase of near majority infertile spinsters who’ve been had. I jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:05 PM
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I can see that - I’ve always thought weak “nice” men are the most dangerous. The type of man who defers to women and wants to be whatever they say they desire is going to end up rejected and nihilistic and bitter. Conversely women are extremely susceptible to what others think or what they think they might think and they’ll generally lie about what they are attracted to to avoid shame. For instance men with dark triad traits ie straight up psychopaths score extremely high in attraction. Often ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:37 PM
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Great read - men don’t resent women for liking buff guys they resent women who say they like kind and honest guys and then jump in the sack with jacked bikers. I can’t blame their taste because someone who looks like you aside from the aesthetic is indicative of someone very disciplined, healthy and hard working and consequently stable / resourceful and ya good genes. It’s all biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:03 PM
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I’m good looking and tall and educated and have a interesting career where I’m at peak. Before that I grew up in a foster home where I experienced horrific physical abuse, humiliation and neglect (at the hands of a very damaged and violent woman btw) and went onto develop a serious alcohol addiction problem that I was well into into my twenties to kick. I was mostly celibate for my twenties. After that I struggled a bit with depression and as you can imagine the energy Of defeat I carried around…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:19 PM
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It makes a change from chicks claiming they like even skinny guys “as long as he’s kind” - I spent a long time listening to chicks but then watching what they were really attracted to - they are almost never honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:56 AM
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Women need to bear in mind when they rage with entitlement with pink hats that men have no reproductive rights and their lives are altered and they are plunged into poverty often to support children who are not their own. Women need to shut up about elective abortion and how hard they have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:24 PM
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Governments don’t care about confusion or paternity - they can limit the draw on taxes by non biological but financially viable guys taking up that burden by pretence or force. Women do the majority of the voting and spending - men are disposable so governments you find don’t care about men but societies are going to pay a huge price for deliberately weakening men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:30 PM
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Since I’m 38 I can’t object 😜 men are in their prime in their mid thirties and that can plateau into the 40’s and it’s the same with women when they are early to mid 20’s so these things would happen more were it not for societal pressure / guilt etc. I concur a lot of middle age feminists hop up and down on this feigning concern for young women when it’s often because their are getting frozen out of the sexual marketplace in the same way as young men often are. One observation I would make as I…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:03 AM
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Dating does feel like your are just one option on a long list of options and relationships are extremely transactional now. I can always get dates but tend to keep them going a few months at a time only. There is always criteria you have to fulfill before women jump in sack with you - when I get older I would consider hiring hookers but not the doll route but both would be cheaper - sex across the board is transactional.
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:28 AM
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Feminine or make attributes should be organic not a matter of being rejected and going shopping for attributes suit you best. What is most annoying is the whole “boss babe” dynamic is it feels fake: loud opportunists acting out the worst of toxic behaviour they complain about - it’s like a small yappy dog nipping at your ankles. These women invariably resort to bullying other women. It never stands up to the power and charisma of a 6’4 man wielding power. There is a reason powerful men are so mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:56 PM
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The only ones that deserve the label misogynistic are black pill and Possibly MGTOW. The RP quite deliberately teaches not to hate women for their nature - humans only survived as a species because women were opportunistic in their mate selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:05 AM
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Men compete with one another to get the things women most desire in men. Having done so the majority of women who haven’t snagged him as a man say he’s toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:54 AM
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Part of red pill truth is women will believe something that is false but palatable over a harsh truth - this is also true of the things they say - they will easily lie especially on sex if they think the truth makes them look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:26 AM
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Not a promiscuous woman but a man tricked into financially and emotionally investing in a child that is not his.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:23 PM
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Privacy or modesty or career or lack of narcissism or shallowness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:56 PM
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Higher the notch count higher chance she will cheat / leave - that is nothing to invest in. Biologically a promiscuous woman is a threat to a mans paternity and he could end up raising and investing in another mans kid thinking it is his - to a man that’s the equivalent of woman’s version of gang rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:37 AM
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Again it’s not what I believe it’s what the objective evidence points to. Too many people nowadays want to believe only the things that make them feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:43 AM
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I don’t think women are more shallow than men in terms of looks but they do insist upon a wider variety of qualities on top of looks like status / career / money. Women conceal their hypergamy routinely and don’t answer “rich muscly guy” 90 plus percent of the time their just say kind and honest etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:55 AM
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The rewards of relationships for men just are not on offer any more and they come at a much higher price. Even when a woman choose a beta bucks guy it’s after she had kids with someone else and she is looking for a “life partner” ie someone to go on holidays with. Women seem to be intent upon forging careers not out of fulfilment but in the misguided belief that it makes them more attractive to the higher ranking men they desire. She ends up just turning into the the man she wants to date / marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:55 PM
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Men will routinely reach down - women don’t - because in certain circumstances even high value men reach down feeds the ego of average / below average women and they find it impossible to “settle” (very much a female term) and become alpha widowed. I don’t quite believe the 80/20 rule but it’s definitely a minority of men with a majority women. Women have all the leverage against men who are under the top 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:48 AM
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As with straight up sociopaths but RP and plenty of academic studies prove that men with dark triad traits score very highly in terms of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:36 PM
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Men in my Western European country are 9 times more likely to be murdered - yes there are much worse things that can happen to someone than rape which incidentally is a relatively rare crime nowadays. Female anxst and media fuelled hysteria doesn’t mean they are less safe it just means that’s that they are are afraid for their safety when there is no need to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:00 PM
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And D cup as a minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:26 PM
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And even in USA over 6 foot is like less than 10 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:58 PM
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Women will never ‘excel past men’ it literally could never happen not least to the point of master serf relationship as you seem to want. Women’s “success” as you measure it is often artificial like corporate quotas etc. Much is made of the numbers of women in college but it’s not serving you well because over 80 percent of college debt that whiners want written off are women. Over 80 percent of majors that pay really well are men and these produce and generate things essential for our survival.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:41 AM
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They can afford to be shallower they have more options than most men. I honestly believe what annoys men about women is not that they have options or are attracted to shallow things but t that they are usually dishonest about what they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:15 AM
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Concerning the ridiculously good looking gangster - criminality is notoriety and that can often be a status of sorts leaving aside looks. Ted Bundt got bags of female fan male in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:19 PM
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Another anomaly is women cover themselves in glory about how independent, strong and powerful they are but then weaponise vulnerability and seek more and more power to be gifted by forced quota or male subsidy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:35 PM
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Simps can destabilise things but no one wins from simpery: the simp demeans himself in the simpery which women have contempt for but his complimenting does inflate her perceived value eventually leading her to maximise hypergamy and shun even above average guys to where no one wants her - everyone ends up alone. Men like women should be encouraged to optimise their talent, value and potential and have respect for themselves - simpery is a form of desperate grovelling and they should take the pow…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:30 PM
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It’s a massive issue because of the generation gap that’s coming mainly. I agree cost of living issues etc contributes to delay or decision not to have children but that’s also because women are not encouraged to have the support of a long term partner and other supports that make it easier to raise a child are sneered at now. Middle aged, Childless women with careers but without partners are the most depressed demographic but that and the money you set aside there will be very few left to gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:16 PM
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They won’t retire at all and this is key - we are headed for a population collapse where retirements age people are multiples of working age people who can run businesses / generate taxes to subsidise every female comfort and demand. The irony is that women who are middle aged or young now who encouraged other women not to have children will not be able to retire anywhere near as early as they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:45 PM
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No fat chicks don’t date average guys anymore. Women have all the leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:12 AM
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There is no “body positivity” movement for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:57 PM
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You initiate and she goes along with it that’s always how it’s been - I just don’t enjoy it if I know she’s not into it and a huge part of what makes sex exciting for both is an element of mystery and spontaneity. The only ones policing enthusiastic consent within heterosexual sex are women who never get hit on or man hating lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:55 PM
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You initiate and she goes along with it that’s always how it’s been - I just don’t enjoy it if I know she’s not into it and a huge part of what makes sex exciting for both is an element of mystery and spontaneity. The only ones policing enthusiastic consent within heterosexual sex are women who never get hit on or man hating lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:54 PM
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You initiate and she goes along with it that’s always how it’s been - I just don’t enjoy it if I know she’s not into it and a huge part of what makes sex exciting for both is an element of mystery and spontaneity. The only ones policing enthusiastic consent within heterosexual sex are women who never get hit on or man hating lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:54 PM
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I’ve heard that some actually consider a couple drunk to be raping each other ! Alcohol doesn’t remove consent, it removes responsibility for irresponsible choices made.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:51 PM
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Yes women want men that other women want - communitarian and incapable of independent thinking even on intimate choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:54 PM
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Me too most of my relationships fizzle out after several months because I’ll admit whilst quite successful and attractive I can be neurotic and unstable at times. The female driven hype that men should be more emotional is a massive shot test or a way of women getting ahead (high negative emotion is a predictor for lack is success in career / business) women are almost never honest about what they are really actually attracted to in men either because of social stigma (black triad / sociopathic …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:26 PM
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I don’t think it’s a matter of “rewarding” anyone - there is an attraction / chemistry with certain men but it’s spontaneous/ short term and women instinctively know these guys are not good in stable long term relationships especially as they get older. Women can satisfy their lust without worrying about that she may be perceived as a slut to such a man because he is gone the next day. By contrast other men may not be as exciting but they are nice / friendly and generally have shit together in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:34 PM
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I am assuming that is per gender ? ie black women still probably get more attention or matches than most categories of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:22 PM
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There are too many blue pillers to choose from - blue pillers are outside the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:40 AM
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NB : Society does forget that the whole reason for marriage originally was for and for the purpose of children and procreating future tax payers and societal continuity that is why there were tax incentives. Now people (mainly women) think it’s about their piece of Disneyland
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:17 AM
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It’s wrong but it’s called alpha fucks and beta bucks - good genes and attraction and then security and provisioning is hard to combine in one man. If the guy they roll around with runs off she will find some stable guy not necessarily to dupe him into thinking the kid is his though that happens - looked at another way the type of man she wants to bang desperately would never in a million years invest in another mans kid and that’s sort of what attracts her as he is uncompromising like that. I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:24 PM
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The types of men women very very often like to hook up with and pass genes on are not always as stable and reliable and likely to pass seed on elsewhere- I’ve seen it a thousand times where single mothers have kids with bad boy / wild types and then shack up with a beta type stable provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:40 PM
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The state / governments don’t care about men’s rights - they like mothers need some fool to invest in a child so that the tax pool is not disturbed by single mothers looking for uncle Sam to chip in. It’s all about money “rights” never come into it - they jail men nowadays for falling behind on child support for non biological children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:10 PM
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Peterson says a certain type of rejection is basically a woman deciding there is no point in a mans genetic material surviving another generation which cuts to the bone and is deeply personal. It’s not all bad what makes us men is we can stand that type of overt judgement, it’s simply not true to say that women only reproduce with the best genetic specimens. Most of the women who rejected or accepted and latterly dumped me failed to lock form the type of man they felt entitled to and since a few…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:42 PM
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I see a lot of men get behind feminism and as Bill Burr says it’s the most underhand way “to get some pussy” it’s a sort of a shit test for men also. Women are not attracted to men who cry but feminism does encourage a sort of emotional weakness in men basically so the power positions tilt in favour or women. High negative emotion is a predictor for flatlining / non promotion in the workplace.
/r/MensRights19/01/22 02:11 PM
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I went on two dates with a chick years ago who gave the cheek which was my cue to go because I had other offers who would kiss me on first date. She contacted me a few weeks later and was even sending me sexy pics and wanted another chance - sometimes there just ain’t no telling and they do want to take their time, don’t like kissing anywhere too public - it may not always mean she is not attracted to you but usually it is that or she doesn’t feel chemistry.
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:54 PM
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I agree the cost of living is a huge factor driving this but I have encountered a lot of women whose hypergamy insisted she could do better in terms of a potential mate / father and ended up pricing themselves out of the market and the it was just too late for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 07:53 PM
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I know it’s unbearably painful for women especially their late thirties plus but it ABSOLUTELY happens and the proof is the reaction. The most toxic behaviour I ever encountered is a woman rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:35 PM
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So many women this age “want children” on their dating app profiles. The main dangers and I have seen this a lot are multiple miscarriages or infertility / expensive IVF - when it doesn’t happen they say dumb stuff like they decided not to have kids for the environment not I was greedy and just left it too late and other older women were saying hold off develop career I just didn’t want them it would hurt the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:46 PM
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Women are at sexual peak in their their 20’s and avail of their options without settling for one. Men are at sexual peak in their 30’s and have avail of their options without settling for one. Women still spend their 30’s looking for the “one” and testing men for stability - men sort of know women in their 30’s are the ones that had “fun” in their thirties and in other words are looking to them to work and prove themselves for something they gave other guys for free in their twenties. I was reje…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:42 PM
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But strangely the outcry includes a significant percentage of overweight, frumpy middle aged women hysterical about sexual harassment etc - a lot of this is about validation.
/r/MensRights16/01/22 09:35 AM
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I would still say her murder is a big thing and particularly tragic given it was daylight and she was very young and seemed like a lovely young woman just starting her life. I can separate that from Also understanding her murder is only part of a very subtle pattern of occasional (though very highly publicised) female murders in Ireland with intervals filled lots of men being murdered. This is not “endemic” “cultural” or a “pandemic” as is being claimed - men account for over 80% of murder victi…
/r/MensRights16/01/22 09:29 AM
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What annoys me is that notwithstanding feminism is so ingrained in the mainstream they will still insist it’s an oppressed marginal group and society is brainwashing us to conform to patriarchy etc. Perpetually dishonest. It’s like the gender pay gap debate evaded the whole time that women spend over 80 % of the money.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/22 07:14 AM
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Instant replies suggest neediness and scarcity - ever see a chick online but she has not read your message yet and you suspect she is working her way through other admirers DM’s ? Do the same thing but try not to leave longer than an hour or two.
/r/seduction06/01/22 10:59 PM
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Step up or step out - back when I was low in confidence I thought i was in the friend zone until one of her other friends told me she really wanted to get with me but I wouldn’t make a move - she was stunning - huge regret - worse than any type of rejection.
/r/seduction05/01/22 12:40 PM
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Unfortunately any woman I was with who worshipped the ground I walked on the feeling was not quite reciprocal but I do recall feeling very secure - the exit is not pleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:38 PM
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Passing on your own genes is the same as fighting for your own survival - none of us would be here and it would be eternal oblivion if there was no such instinct throughout millennia. The manosphere teaches that taking on and investing in another mans child is a form of cuckoldry that was highly stigmatised in most cultures for good reason - it is the male equivalent of a gang rape. It basically means you abandon everything central to being a man and building your own legacy. It also bows to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:05 PM
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I was in a relationship with a sex worker from a second world country a few years ago. Up close they render ridiculous some claims of it being like slavery - my ex totally looked down her nose on work undertaken by most immigrants and she could easily make five figures over a weekend but she could also blow it in a week. High brands, holidays and she used to buy for the whole club when I met her. She needed big fast money. We were in love and she wanted the happy ever after (but without kids) bu…
/r/seduction03/01/22 01:41 PM
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I don’t think they can quite fuck Chad - Chad can in a moment of drunken weakness in a way a female hottie would never do with an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:13 AM
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I prefer men have to make their value and women have to preserve their value. In the sexual marketplace there is much more demand for females so they can pick from men who have to prove themselves and make their worth through self care, innovation / education, wealth creation etc. A woman who is born beautiful or average of below average is always going to get lots of offers without her doing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:57 PM
2

Single mothers raise weak sons - weak men are repulsive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:22 AM
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You’ll also have more success as a obese woman than a lot of fit guys.
/r/seduction28/12/21 08:48 AM
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Be confused all you want - every modern young woman has this phase and for many it lasts most of their twenties.
/r/seduction26/12/21 04:41 AM
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It’s strange how the women and the mindset who deplore a man with a harem of women tend to be the women who have 2 / 3 boyfriends as a poly set up and describe it as freedom / liberation and breaking traditional norms etc. These relationships are absolutely female led.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:40 PM
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Men who like sex like promiscuous women and I do too but men who are serious about passing on their genetics (as most men eventually are) are repulsed by promiscuous women because they pose a threat to paternity. To a man being cuckolded is akin to a woman being raped - it is removing their biological imperative. Rape is rightly seen as outrageous but society and the courts are happy to enforce men to invest in children that are not theirs and guilt them into settling down with single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 02:16 PM
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Women tend not check out guys overtly - sometimes I will see they blush and smile when i make eye contact. I couldn’t read the signals for years and I missed out.
/r/seduction06/12/21 11:49 AM
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Whilst women are not interested in simps for anything meaningful or casual, simps are useful for the short term attention and validation that women crave. I think that simps have served to inflate women’s perception of themselves and their true sexual market value into orbit - it’s part of the reason women get into their 40’s now and it only dawns on them the party is over, the casino is closing and they have played their last hand and should have left with their small fortune much earlier. Medi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:49 PM
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Because they know a lot of men will just pretend to be that and could trick them - also they don’t want to sound shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 10:55 PM
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Women tend to do useless degrees that are expensive and yet have no market value - over 80 percent of the college debt they want written off was incurred by women. Education these days does not designate being smart or a breadwinner depending on what discipline is chosen. If women insist on doing useless degrees they need to stop boasting about how educated they are whilst complaining about pay disparity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:40 PM
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Women tend to do useless degrees that are expensive and yet have no market value - over 80 percent of the college debt they want written off was incurred by women. Education these days does not designate being smart or a breadwinner depending on what discipline is chosen. If women insist on doing useless degrees they need to stop boasting about how educated they are whilst complaining about pay disparity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:40 PM
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Intelligence is a good thing but it is only one of a few traits that predict success in career and consequently social status. Women’s hypergamy means they seek out men who are on or above their socio economic status. Men and I will continue to hammer this home don’t care about women’s success in career or social status - a high value man will marry a waitress If she is attractive enough and friendly. No it’s not that men are intimidated - it’s that they don’t really care. The other elements tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:14 PM
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I am not saying women are wrong to partner up with or marry men of high status - we wouldn’t have survived as a species if they reproduced with weak sickly dudes who couldn’t provide. I admire that women look for the type of drive and ambition and innovation that informs social status / wealth - the problem is that now that women are advancing in their careers they need to aim even higher so they are working off a smaller and smaller selection of an already very limited pool of men. High value /…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:44 AM
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Sorry women tend to say one thing for optics and act another way - no doubt there are exceptions but look at the stats - women marry across and up. Men compete fiercely for top tier positions for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:53 AM
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Average provider don’t cut it anymore. I would say a lot of women seek high social status in men more than the money. All the marriage stats indicate women marry up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:37 AM
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Professional men’s income peaks into their 40’s there are virtually no CEO or boardroom level men in their 20’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:05 AM
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It’s mainly that men have virtually no floor of attraction and will routinely reach down. A top tier guy in the right circumstances sleep with very low grade women now you combine that with all the simping that goes on it makes even ugly women think they are 8/9.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:05 PM
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Then again novella DM’s turn off women. Short and punchy keeps them intrigued.
/r/seduction05/11/21 08:01 AM
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Yes 30’s women it’s almost always date 3 though I broke my rule once because a 32 was particularly hot and bedded down on date 5
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 08:00 AM
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It’s not like the short bald dude trying to compensate by buying big cars - he’s over 6 foot and a former world kick boxing champ I think he’s done proving his masculinity - now that you mention he has that classically “pretty” look - he is quite feminine in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:39 PM
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Masculinity is what’s in the head not on it or not on it - he is most masculine from neck down ! definitely not the type of guy who looks to the internet to assess what makes him attractive or not he sets his own standards - plainly put he don’t care - that is what they find attractive !
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:28 PM
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There is no toxicity comparable to women who have been repeatedly rejected or who consistently got with “bad boys” and surprise surprise things just didn’t work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:02 PM
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If you posted men with nicely groomed hair, dreadlocks, every conceivable hair style and colour there would still be hate. These women are not a barometer for anything and I pity any man who listens to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:00 PM
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One of the Tate brothers - he bedded half the supermodels on the planet pre shaving his head but is one of few who looks better with a shaved head rather than full head of hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:58 PM
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This is not a new phenomenon- it’s always been known in the scientific community that women marry across and up social hierarchies and men marry down : the concept even has its own name “hypergamy” - whilst women are defensive about this they can’t be blamed - we wouldn’t have survived as a species if women mated with the weakest, sickliest instead of strongest healthiest providers and as with many of these debates biology rather than socialisation is a factor. It’s become parlance now for women…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 09:21 AM
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Yes it’s odd how the worst type of toxic feminists act out and encourage what they would brand “toxic masculinity” - I dated two feminist chicks in particular a number of years ago and for all their complaining about patriarchy they wanted to be completely dominated in bed - one to the point where I was uncomfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 11:53 AM
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On the other hand and it’s a bizarre occurrence…the more there is a rise in a kind of toxic and entitled feminism the more - at least in looks - many of those same toxic feminists are attracted to a very masculine look caveman style - big muscles, big beard, tattoos. Feminism seems to be a form of projection and yearning for masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 11:23 AM
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As a University educated guy I regret in a lot of ways I did not do a trade. Most women are attracted to masculine roles but a growing cohort of university educated women prefer prestige and white collar and rather look down their noses or think they are in a position to look down their noses on blue collar me - these women will usually die alone as most of the even white collars are never good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 07:07 AM
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Feminists want what they perceive to be the best things about the male gender role but it’s less clear that they want or are even aware of the responsibility and sacrifice that goes with that. In my company there was a huge push for more female upper managers but as soon as they got there didn’t want the 80 hour work weeks but instead talked ‘balance’ ‘yoga days’ etc. Women think male roles are nothing but privilege until they get there. They are inherently dishonest about relieving men of this …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 07:57 AM
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Most straight women don’t like most straight men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:24 PM
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Yes insecure - and I would accept many of these insecurities are irrational and such women deserve to be encouraged - women still won’t settle and insist upon top shelf men. The reality is that male attention is everywhere and so men have cheapened themselves considerable. Even average women have lots of options and can score well out of her league - the reverse is never the same for average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:35 AM
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Yes insecure - and I would accept many of these insecurities are irrational and such women deserve to be encouraged - women still won’t settle and insist upon top shelf men. The reality is that male attention is everywhere and so men have cheapened themselves considerably. Even average women has lots of options and can score well out of her league - the reverse is never the same for average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:35 AM
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If they are brutally honest with themselves women know what their real attraction level is but because it’s more comforting they default to all of the positive affirmation society, simps and other women sell them. Most women seem to delude themselves that they are at least 3 points higher on the attraction scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:39 AM
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An awful lot of lesbian couples take on a kind of butch / Dom and feminine submissive dynamic. I know a couple of women who were with weak dudes who found solace in butch lesbians. I’ve never understood why avowed lesbians feel the need to consistently weigh in v heavily on heterosexual dynamics like pregnancy / abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 02:46 PM
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It goes further than good and bad treatment I’m talking about being treated well in response to and being accused of a near life ending crime in response to the same behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 06:27 AM
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Inter sexual dynamics is a one way conversation- women are allowed to have standards men who assert theirs are misogynists. The “who hurt you” is another way to undermine - I mean most men are rejected a lot more and in much more overt ways than women and most relationship breakdowns are initiated by women and women move on quicker - of course men are hurt but having learned female nature and these dynamics they try to shame men who act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:34 PM
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If you mean curves rather than stick thin then hell ya it’s a better body type and even scientists say it’s the healthiest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 11:14 AM
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I have an advantage in that I have had a few relationships with women and I am reasonably tall and good looking, well read and funny with a interesting career. I have a daughter also. “Finding love” is very much a female narrative but men like the idea of having a family. Most women are very hostile to that idea now and the price gets higher and higher. I value the degree of independence I have and being able to indulge in hobbies and holidays. I can get sex reasonably regularly with effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 09:08 PM
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Generally it’s because it’s an extremely rare type of woman that has no sexual options so the market for prostitution is clearly for men. Men’s libido is multiples of women’s also
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 08:15 PM
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This is why the witch hunt against harassers is so unsafe legally - i have literally seen women swoon in response to a confident Chad saying something and cry harassment when it’s some guy much less attractive with expected nervous / creepy vibes saying the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:49 PM
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There are a decent number of “groupies” who trickle in - women want to be with men who are masculine and decisive and powerful - that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 07:39 AM
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You will find most of the money is spent on women by men. The market is mainly men which is why most women have lots of options but men are held to certain standards to have any options.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:39 AM
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The problem with it is from a policy maker perspective, as much as can be raised in tax from it, too much is to be lost in the money spent by men on self improvement and in women in the pursuit of them sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:56 PM
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AI will never be sentient - even shallow psychopaths can’t “learn emotions” the way you are talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 04:58 PM
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I’m talking about a study encompassing tens of thousands of subjects but sure your own “lived experience” must reflect across the globe right? The peer review studies from Ivy League University’s are wrong based on your experience ? 🧐 incredible! If you are doing well great - it doesn’t mean it reflects in wider society so why are you using personal anecdotes - I was talking about women’s mental health which has nothing to do with their material success, the whole outcome was the more they sacri…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:18 PM
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Do me a favour - get onto tik tok and watch legions of pathetic simps declare love and beg for a date as conventionally very unattractive women spew feminism or bake cakes with their chests hanging out - yes women are v able to objectify themselves for the right price and if they can maintain moral high ground. There is a massive disparity in sexual relations in favour of women - most women have lots of options and most men have to work hard to get a mediocre option (remember most young women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:48 PM
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Men aren’t entitled to sex from women, women aren’t entitled to tall men. The difference is women feel pretty entitled. You are right this guy should move on and so will this woman but she will keep looking for bigger and better until she runs out of chips at the casino. These young women are probably going to die alone with their cats. That’s where social media and feminism is taking us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:28 PM
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For the umpteenth time men don’t complain - women do - do you see screaming men’s marches demanding subsidy ?- you didn’t even know the victims of violence until I told you. Men do it to men it’s men’s problem but when they do it to women it’s societies problem ? Only women do the dumb self centred thing you just did - take a complex study reflective of society trends and says “well I am a single mother and my kids function fine…” etc - we are talking societal patterns as they relate to people o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:18 PM
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Criminal / deviant behaviour is always a small sub section of general populations otherwise we would be in anarchy. I am sure you have found studies that include a hand on the knee is ranked as sexual assault. The only reason society (and even criminal populations) have such contempt for violence against women is they know they are much weaker than men but we are not allowed admit that either. You thought men’s lives were all privilege but you are starting to find out it’s tough, jobs market ext…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:48 PM
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I’m not complaining, men don’t complain, that’s what it is to be a man but that’s not to say that, if for instance, men and women were to trade problems suicide, workplace fatalities, economic exploration and demands by romantic partners would be top of the feminist agenda - I mean women spend 85 percent of the worlds wealth annually (ie men forfeit a huge percent of their money / labour to women) and you still complain about a non existent wage gap. Take your feminism to the Middle East where i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:19 PM
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We are talking victims here. Females claims the mantle of victimhood and men killing men doesn’t enhance their reputation here. It’s just society doesn’t care about men’s problems even when they are losing their lives - female comfort / convenience and perceived security is always deemed more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:55 PM
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You realise that the vast majority of victims of murder, violence and workplace fatality are men right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:27 AM
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Any time modern women discuss sex it’s almost as if it’s either an act of submission to patriarchy or outright rape - they will very rarely admit they enjoy it but the issue they are most vocal about is “reproductive freedom” so they are victims as well as heroes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:00 PM
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It’s my main gripe with women nowadays - sub zero accountability for anything - men succeed solely and only because of privilege and with women it’s boo boo we were socialised to play with dolls not be engineers - you know Elon Musk has genius level IQ, works 100 hours a week right ? His start up story is shocking, living in a cramped office, coding all day all with 5 hours sleep and showering in a YMCA. Name the female equivalent please? We agreed at the ultimate extremes men are better but thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:39 AM
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Facebook, Amazon, Tesla, Twitter female innovation and drive ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:28 AM
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Women are propped up artificially quite a lot in society and sold a lot of “you can do anything” - there are a lot of token made up management jobs now to fulfil quotas and They seem dumb enough to still moan about a pay gap and still overwhelmingly pay huge amounts for degrees with no market value and then ask male tax payers to bail them out - we don’t care about what grade you got ok no one should. The problem is women have this hunt for prestige and think that comes with a useless degree and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:26 AM
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Fair enough but when women bitch about men typically it’s because all the see is the “privilege” (not hard work, talent and drive) of the top men who run things. Don’t ask why more women do not run Fortune 500 companies ask why practically none of them were started from scratch and built by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:10 AM
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So ninety plus percent of the tangible products / inventions in the world that contribute to a consumer economy and improve lives who invents them men or women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:06 AM
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I think husband material can be attractive but they are stable and responsible which can equal boring. Fuckboys have a danger / edge / impulsivity to them which women find exciting but invariably label “assholes”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:19 AM
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Purple pill isn’t really manosphere - red pill is - to them a woman “taking the lead” is the worst thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:35 PM
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I’ve never heard any man in the manosphere complain about women not taking lead - the opposite - they feel women are too entitled / demanding. Women look at men as options more because more women have more options.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 04:17 PM
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Sure it’s a sacrifice but it’s also her child and her legacy - these things are always framed as though it’s just his. Society invests heavily now in subsidising single motherhood and floods then with positive affirmation regarding what heroes they are, children are the reason women do so well and men do so badly in divorce, and there is increasing pressure on men to abandon their natural biological imperative to pass on their genes and instead men are guilted a little into investing in kids of …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:31 AM
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The former feminist Erin Pizey (she set up the first battered woman’s shelter in the world) revised her views on gender and the feminists came after her with pitch forks because in her research of the hundreds of women and children who passed through her care she did 3 generational studies and her research concluded : a/ a majority, albeit slight 60 Something percent of the women were themselves violent towards their partners and children and b/ had grown up in a abusive homes and went onto marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:03 AM
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Maybe not to begin with but abusers definitely erode a victims not only self esteem but sense of identity and indeed of reality though gaslighting. This has the effect that the victim becomes dependent upon the abuser and they are easier to control.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:14 PM
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Think of the incel’s pent up rage and how that manifested in mass shootings etc - mainly shy introverts no ? - many years of rejection leave them bitter, passive aggressive and nihilistic that is still abuse and that is how they are even if their don’t blow. The “nice guy” thing is often just an act and temporary. Think of the difference between Overt narcissist and covert (often called shy) narcissists - both are abusers and coverts probably more dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 11:00 PM
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It is important to focus on the two sub components of NPD - overt narcissist : think Trump, loud, brash, Alpha in behaviour. Covert narcissist : quiet, neurotic, jealous, paranoid. As the name suggests coverts are far more abundant than anyone can measure but I believe they are more dangerous and are mainly female.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:53 PM
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Think being a good man not a nice guy - there is no counterbalance these days and it’s all extremes - being kind nowadays is just simping which is a turn off for women and abuse can be offset with just being strong and assertive which is what they really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:42 PM
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Yes it’s called love bombing and idealisation and it’s very deliberate and absolutely ecstatically addictive to the recipient. Even with black eyes they beg these creeps not to leave them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:39 PM
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It’s not about being a nice guy it’s about being a good man. STOP pedestalising women - they are happy to keep us around for attention even when they know - and she probably knew and you definitely knew - your interest in her was sexual not “friends” - if your interest is sexual make your move, if you are rejected remember all men are rejected but move on as though she’s one of a number of options you have because believe me she has plenty of options and she has rejected men before. Read the “Ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:35 PM
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I would emphasise firstly that abusers typically draw from dark triad traits and personality disorders like narcissism and anti social personality disorder (psychopathy) - these dangerous personalities will very deliberately “love bomb” and bombard a woman with attention / affection early on in a way that makes her ecstatic and addicted to him - so addicted that she stays even when there is abuse. Psychopaths in particular are very good at reading peoples emotions and will use sinister tactics l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 10:14 PM
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There are a lot of reasons why men can end up without a partner and I don’t think shortage of women is one of them. They say 85 percent of the spending is done by women and you only have to look at marketing to know they are the consummate consumers. Men tend to be the ones that invent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:46 AM
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The type of underlying insight, innovation and drive that is needed to create wealth is often the attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 01:55 PM
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A somewhat even balance helps - I was at a Stem university and the smartest people tended to be stereotypical and on a spectrum - introspective to the point of very poor social skills, greasy hair, rimmed glasses. People with a very high IQ have difficulty connecting with most people in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 01:35 PM
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Ok I stand corrected on that. Every source I looked at says late teens to late twenties. I know so many couples in their thirties - soooo many with problems conceiving and I know it’s anecdotal but after separation at least two of the men in that mix dipped their dicks in 24 - 26 years olds and hey presto pregnant. I know that’s anecdotal. A commonality appears to be first time pregnancy’s ie a woman who has had prior pregnancies appears to be able to get pregnant quite easily in 30’s. When I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 12:16 PM
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From mid forties on it’s a slow descent - women’s fertility descends from age 23
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:06 AM
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He was 1 and a half inches shorter before the surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:15 AM
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Tom Cruise had it done didn’t he ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:50 AM
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Sperm really doesn’t diminish until mid 40’s - women and male fertility is not the same at all - women have increased difficulties conceiving or not miss carrying in their thirties and are done at 40. Feminists dragged the sperm in because they can’t stand men having any advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:42 AM
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Their challenge is eliminating out many options and time management and getting to the highest quality guy who will actually stay with her after he has banged her. This is more difficult when women want to have children though many are very slow to face up to the fact that time is the enemy. It’s challenging but it’s just not as challenging as most men who struggle to get any options at all and have to withstand constant overt rejection that women just couldn’t cope with. It’s like a feminist lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:35 AM
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Dating app data is one of the very few ways these things are tracked and the data is consistent does reflect what is happening in wider society and it’s particular prevalent amongst young people and it’s all female driven - another way of tracking it is marriage rates and birth rates - more women than every before - far far far more than ever before are not getting married and are not having children. This is partly because a very low bar of expectation is set for their success in careers with s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:45 PM
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I was referring more to younger people. Male virginity under 30 is pretty remarkable now and rising considerable - dating app data suggests only meaningful interaction between top 20 percent of men and 80 percent women. It’s going this way. Red pillers insist it’s top 10 percent men but I don’t consider myself top 20 and I can always get laid but I’m 38. Also I think a woman in the lower 20 percentile it’s pretty - get a top tier dude drunk and he may mess with her for the night but that’s it so…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:41 PM
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What has happened is the majority of women are sleeping with the top 10-20 percent of top tier men leaving 80 percent of men fighting for scraps or watching porn and opting out of society altogether and sometimes become anti social. So feminist sexual liberation is actually ensuring alpha men have harems of multiple women and incels are on the rise. Monogamy was introduced to avoid this level of societal destabilisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:31 PM
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Some of the more extreme feminists exhibit what they talk about when they talk “toxic masculinity” - male aggression comes from more testosterone so it’s organic - female aggression because feminists told them by being “a bad bitch” gets them more pay is annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:15 PM
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Ghosting Is quite common now so it is confusing when you get along quite well with someone and then are ignored - the plausible explanation is that you are on a menu of options and did not make the final list. It is sad when in today’s age to be formally dumped is an honour.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 06:36 AM
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But this is further complicated by the fact that women seem to feel they are entitled to be gifted well paid power positions so the pool of prospective male candidates has shrunk and complicated again considering top tier men don’t want aggressive and entitled women - so they are more bitter than they have ever been.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 08:35 AM
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Men reach their attraction peak in mid thirties and it can plateau on into 40’s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 07:01 PM
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I scrolled for several minutes and only she was doing a loooooot of tweeting and it just got me to early September and I didn’t see any screen shots validating what she was alleging Again and again - I know how professional victims and attention seekers behave - in the absence of any evidence I’m inclined not to believe. It was clear she was getting into it with some people but I’m not going to waste my time to filter through all her noise to get to wherever the screenshots are
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:23 PM
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I looked : she has one screenshot where she is accusing people and they are not saying a whole lot at all. She is clearly a misandrist and an eternal racial and every other type of victim- this is occasionally aggravating people. Like one Man asks that she not tar all men or men of colour with the same brush, she shows some people’s suspended accounts. Sorry not prepared to take this persons word on anything - a clear chronic attention seeker and professional victim - stop feeding her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:01 PM
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I didn’t say exclusively women or comment on the nature of the bitterness - I’ve never heard of men issuing death / rape threats at couples if you could share examples I’ll consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 05:44 PM
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Even the title suggests that women look at men as economic objects and they found an alternative - why are they demeaned when men look at them as sex objects ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:33 PM
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I think I’ve mainly seen single women get bitter at happy dappy couples. Men understand a huge percentage of social media is just female performance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 10:46 AM
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It is going to get to a stage where most degrees will lose all value in the work market place considering how abundant they are and that universities are lowering standards, adopting quotas and indoctrinating victimhood / entitlement. Universities whilst playing leftist games apply the worst model of capitalism by lowering the quality of the product whilst upping the price. Anyone who buys into this won’t afford to be picky when they enter the big bad world and are subject to market forces. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 10:43 AM
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That is typical of a lot of teenage boys - they weren’t angered by female rejection specifically - there are not reports of romantic blunders and they seemed relatively uninterested in girls - they were with a gang called trench coat mafia - a loose affiliation of video game playing gun nuts - rejects for sure but not incel - you have to be “involuntary” and it just wasn’t a priority for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 07:09 AM
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Modern Women have made sex and relationships transactional where they have all the power - keep it transactional but take the negotiating power off them - that’s all.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 12:58 PM
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It started when I was 32 and she was 26. After the first time I saw her I messaged thanks and a not too Simpy complement and she texted back something along the lines of it was great to meet such a “good looking friendly man” - she was stunning especially around the eyes, a Lithuanian with the type of “built” body I like - I saw her regularly and she she seemed legit delighted when the second time was like 2 days after the first. She betrayed a lot of personal information about herself, she had …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 07:43 AM
7

Partly but society has heavily incentivised redundant fathers to the point of paying mothers to keep fathers out of children’s upbringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:09 PM
7

Single mother could also include many intact marriages where the father is as present, exerts as much influence or his as much parental power as a piece of furniture. https://edition.cnn.com/2014/05/27/justice/california-elliot-rodger-wealth/index.html
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:07 PM
9

I should have refined it : that really wasn’t an incel thing just two thrill seeking sadistic psychopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:01 PM
1

It’s an extremely sorry state of humanity when robots have to replace those sentient qualities that humans should have.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 06:37 PM
35

Every mass shooter seems to be a beta single mothers mess not a confident man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 06:30 PM
13

Same big city - lots of escorts - all outcalls. I even ended up dating (as in actual boyfriend / girlfriend)one for two years.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 05:59 PM
45

I banged a lot of escorts throughout my 30’s - I would have been horrified at this in my blue pill teens but women red pulled me really - I learned I saved a lot of money and TIME and there were guaranteed outcomes and the money bought off risks - for me risks of shame and rejection mainly - I have had brief relationships and no problem getting girls numbers / dates but in the digital age you are pitted against other men and you are on option - I generally bed them 3 dates in - I’ve only ever ha…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 05:11 PM
1

I have so much stamina now I can go forever and don’t always have the will to keep going esp after my lady has cum multiple times - I wish I was a two minute merchant again 😵🤣🤣
/r/seduction30/08/21 05:02 PM
1

I don’t condone his cheating but that is the reason she divorced him - she sought and found the high moral ground by claiming it was because he was meeting Epstein (who he was only meeting to raise huge money for her foundation)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 05:34 PM
11

Melinda Gates started as an employee of Gates who had mega millions - she hit the jackpot of all jackpots given that, let’s be honest, she’s not attractive at all yet he promoted her to the boardroom and then the bedroom and rather than realise how lucky she was she insisted she was “equal” to the guy who made hundreds of billions and divorce raped him and then slaughtered him in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 04:25 AM
2

A worrying pattern is Bill Gates, Jeff Bezos both married feminists who seemed to want “equality” when it was their husbands who brought home the billions and then divorce rapes them not being able to accept they were doing what millions of other women would be happy to do in their place but their husbands were truly unique. I see a divorce rape on the horizon now for Elon Musks partner who is a piss artist who thinks she can berate him on Twitter. Strange how very high value men devalue themsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 04:19 AM
1

Typically even disagreeable women take these positions for prestige or perceived prestige - someone who has a huge craving to have power over people almost for its own sake, history teaches us that is not good. Anyone who is gifted power rather than organically working up through every rank of the people they have power over ends up abusing that power. I have encountered untold examples of female middle managers in particular bullying other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 12:46 PM
0

I agree men should do better and it’s correct they are held to standards and should endure and overcome to some degree but what they largely don’t like is the hypocrisy of average and below average women demanding monogamous high value men, placing embargo’s on unattractive men advancing by insisting on “equality” and female quotas on corporate power positions for instance and encouraging such men to “recognise their privilege” and stand aside, destroying unattractive men’s lives for branding th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:28 AM
1

I put my hands on her hips and look at her so she knows what’s coming.
/r/seduction21/08/21 08:53 AM
0

Hypergamy : the more women that have elevated into the professional classes the more likely they will marry across and up. In one glaring paragraph it failed to mention that wages have stagnated because of the increased surplus labour (ie more professional women and in my experience more women likely to take made up middle managerial positions because if perceived prestige at the expense of a better salary - I think inflation and particularly of housing is because we have lionised professions an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:44 AM
1

When they say they want it all I mean modern women really want it aaaaaall without knowing that there are inherent trade offs / sacrifices as you point out. No CEO can take the time off to live it up in far flung exotic places sipping cocktails on yachts like these women would want and showcase that lifestyle on Insta as it’s undignified and not befitting a Chief Executive Officer. Not only do these women want to be CEO’s they want to marry men of higher rank than them. Men’s fierce competition …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:13 AM
1

She thought she could change you - I have the same issue right now with a chick who does stick around but I have to remind her when she talks introductory me to her friends and she loses her shit.
/r/seduction20/08/21 06:04 PM
2

I don’t think the drop in testosterone is anything to do with evolution but rather lifestyle and specifically and ironically the amount of oestrogen that is in the water supply because of female birth control. I agree the red pill overplays the whole ‘Alpha’ concept without properly defining what that is. I have found women find masculine men more attractive but the masculine behaviours have to be balanced with a dose of civilisation and culture - a guy who is well read for instance. There are n…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:22 PM
2

It’s sort of not thanks to things like Facebook and we can track this data on dating apps now - 80 percent of the women are matching with the top 20 percent of men - upward or 40 percent of men under 30 are celibate / virgins. The rise in Sheryl Sandbergs aggressive and entitled feminism is also seeing the rise in a hitherto unknown phenomenon on nihilistic inceldom.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:26 AM
1

When she innovates and invents a product with global appeal and works tirelessly and takes insane risks to bring it to market she will have my respect until then she is a hire complaining about prejudice in corporate hirings, she should shut up about how the world works and who should run it and she needs to recognise if she needs validation by an increased number of people running things who have nothing in common with her other than they are the same gender - that’s the weakest thing I have ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:35 AM
10

Sandberg is truly blessed to have been hired by a man into a company founded by men still in college and which generates billions from male innovation, endless work and global appeal. She is now a billionaire talking about how the world run by men ‘is not going that well’ but insists women should have fun all through their twenties but get top tier corporate positions when they decide they are ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:56 AM
8

Good move and I will do the same now - I only noticed the other day my toothpaste is P & G and they have recently done a sponsorship / partnership with that toxic feminist and ruthless Opportunist Meghan Markle.
/r/MGTOW01/08/21 08:57 AM
7

Use Wilkinson Sword now who are cheaper and better.
/r/MGTOW01/08/21 08:55 AM
1

Agreed it was interesting in the first few weeks but they are doing the same thing over and over now and recycling the same girls and Myron ends up making the same points - they really just hijacked Kevin Samuels idea only he does not work in groups and he is quicker witted and more insightful and does not work off the same script. It’s a little pathetic where their highlights and paid content has become about who they kicked off the show.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:53 PM
7

Point well made - the true test of “greatness” even in terms of wealth is organic growth from zero necessitating innovation and manic hard work and insane risk - there are no female equivalents of Elon Musk, Bill Gates, Jeff Bezos - what there are are corporations built by such men who have to pander to a market who have 85 percent spending power - I am tired of watching inept and lazy but mouthy females getting hoisted up the corporate ladder in companies that practically run themsleves only to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:41 PM
3

Like Hally Berry, and others who flirted with feminism and made to cough up…,they can’t take it - feminism is only supposed to work one way.
/r/MGTOW29/07/21 10:34 PM
1

Electricity is also generated by burning fuel.
/r/seduction28/07/21 07:52 AM
2

The scary thing is that women want more options and wants the “right” to get validation of a MGTOW back on the market only to reject him but she likes the attention. Ever hear feminists shriek and howl how a man “has no right to a woman’s body” when it’s pointed out the near pandemic levels of loneliness amongst young men, well again they feel they have the right to even a mans short term attention.
/r/MGTOW228/07/21 07:12 AM
1

“Strong independent” women are almost never strong and always get some state or male subsidy or have it in reserve - even high earning women want men who earn more than them, why is that ? Women have a considerable focus on perceived safety and comfort whereas with men it’s just survival. Women are repulsed by men who are inherently weak and not providers.
/r/MGTOW226/07/21 06:52 AM
9

Actually the most common transition is from male to female - what does that say ? There is a burden to being a man most don’t want to take up now it’s much more comfortable being a professional victim that way you are handed things rather than having to work for them.
/r/MGTOW224/07/21 03:46 PM
4

Can a man instruct a woman to have a child if she wants to abort or have an abortion if she wants to keep the child at the point of pregnancy ? Women who have papers drawn up and allow men sign away paternal rights are such a rarity Its why I said “PRACTICALLY zero reproduction rights…” most of the time if a woman chooses the state will assist her in enforcing paternal support to the point of imprisonment for non compliance. Children is an excellent example of the type of double standard schizop…
/r/MGTOW224/07/21 03:21 PM
10

Sorry again these things that women look at and see as “benefits” are actually things they only a tiny microscopic percentage of men held - like power positions, CEO’s etc which are very often worked for gruellingly for years - the average CEO in USA works 90 hours a week - zero work life balance and has quarterly medically because of the stress - what have women “fought for” Exactly ? It sounds life you have nagged society to the point of simpery and the benefits are because you have over 80 pe…
/r/MGTOW224/07/21 01:30 PM
20

At least it’s honest - the feminists who say it’s about equality are underhand and seek to hide the ugly face of feminism particularly when they have had their asses kicked in a debate and when they have been caught out on their definition of “equality” - what feminism wants is all the goodies and benefits of being a man without the responsibility and drawbacks.
/r/MGTOW224/07/21 12:17 PM
1

Men have to work hard to achieve any kind of value recognisable to women. Because in the right set of circumstances a high value male will sleep with any female, females have an exaggerated sense of their SMV which further disadvantages even above average men. I personally like very very curvy but I know I’m a rarity and most men go after fat chicks as a low hanging fruit (and tell them how beautiful they are etc) because again men will go to great lengths for sex. women are lied to all the time…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:25 AM
3

The thing you have to remember is when feminists say they want equality what they mean is they want MORE equality than men ie to solidify a supremacy - women have for a long time been treated as a prize and since traditional cold approach has become practically illegal it has seen a surge in online simping to the point where most women think they are at least 3 points more than they are in SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 07:34 PM
1

Self evident - abortion is one of two options for unwanted pregnancies along with adoptions - the more of one the lesser of the other - it’s really very simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:34 PM
1

There is a correlation between the decrease in live unwanted births due to abortion and the diminishing opportunities for infertile couples for instance to adopt - is there something about this self evident fact that you can’t handle ? As I said women typically go much of their lives being shielded from consequences and uncomfortable truths to the point of not being able to handle it much less articulate a contrary point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:04 PM
1

Adoption has become extremely rare now and the reserve of the super wealthy now that unwanted pregnancies are generally just aborted. The consequences of one “right” come back to bite women who exerted their “rights” In another area. Actions carry consequences and “rights” are often very expensive - men learn this the hard way early in their lives but society shields it from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:35 PM
1

That decision is much more urgent for women particularly into their thirties for biological reasons i shouldn’t have to explain - men can father a child when they are double the age of a menopausal woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:23 PM
1

SJW stuff is all rooted in emotion - it’s nothing to do with applying reason or rationality - it’s actually the opposite- Chappelle is becoming more like the delicate easily triggered and entitled women Burr jokes about.
/r/MGTOW209/07/21 12:17 PM
1

Burr or Chappelle ?
/r/MGTOW209/07/21 12:06 PM
0

Bill Burr is a far better red pill / gender relations comic. Chappelle has become quite the SJW since Netflix gave him 100 million.
/r/MGTOW209/07/21 06:24 AM
1

Women scream blue murder if men try to tell them how to be why then do they persist in lecturing men on how they should be. Young men should firstly realise women are so rarely honest about what they are actually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 09:53 PM
1

It’s practically illegal now to ask a girl on a date, social media and the disempowerment and disenfranchisement and feminisation of men. Literally it’s a recipe for the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:45 AM
2

It’s MGTOW related Chris Rock said something along the lines of only women, children and puppies are loved unconditionally - with men there are conditions. On another note through dogs do love their masters unconditionally, I don’t know why the name is used as an insult to women, a lot of women I met are an insult to dogs and they could learn about love and loyalty from my labrador and German Shepherd
/r/MGTOW203/07/21 09:42 AM
8

Correct and right - hypergamy / monkey branching is a female move.
/r/MGTOW203/07/21 09:02 AM
0

Whaman always argue against something and when the overwhelming pattern is laid before them they argue they are the exception to that rule even if it’s 1 in 1,000,000,000 - they are always that one because women know how bad their nature sounds when said out loud so they deny it and sell purity - there is a reason why there is an overwhelming percentage of women over 35 who have careers and no children, partner, husband and are on dating aps waiting for Chad who is nailing 23 year olds. I still …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:05 PM
2

You are using reason whereas I rely on men who pander to me to reinforce my feelings even if especially if based upon untruths.
/r/MGTOW227/06/21 11:20 AM
-1

Chicks still feed off and survive on beta thirst and attention - chads only come along very rarely that are drunk enough to pump and dump them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 07:14 PM
2

I had a similar experience in my first job - even against a beta male women are cowards and bullying females hunt in packs usually of 3 - there is usually a leader, I won over won of the three through someone else and slowly the second one and the leader was left very lonely and then tried to be friendly with me again - as I said cowards.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 08:13 PM
1

Turkey
/r/seduction08/06/21 06:49 AM
2

Virgin - he got laid.
/r/seduction07/06/21 11:38 AM
6

Dublin a place called HRBR which is usually quite expensive but I got a discount and they make much better use of the less number of grafts usually recommended - I am inclined to think though that there is a lot of credible competition in cheaper countries that the scandalous prices are not really going to last. I was given scary stories in numerous consultations - I never knew that U2’s the Edge wears a beanie all the time because of a bad hair transplant.
/r/seduction02/06/21 11:53 AM
22

Hair receding was one of the worst things that happened me - my hair was one of the things chicks really admired and I had a long thin face - no hairline just didn’t suit me -I isolated, took to heavy drinking and experimenting with pricey quack cures - it makes me angry how many out there are willing to profit from other men’s misery - I lost most of my twenties. It seems a huge overreaction now but at 31 I spent just 8k on a hair transplant up front and it lasted me up until now at 38 along wi…
/r/seduction02/06/21 08:06 AM
2

Yes it has become trendy and part of the “mental illness” woke awareness craze without recognizing that BPD, NPD, ASP et al are personality disorders not mental illnesses and they feed off the type of attention that comes with these campaigns. Want to see how acceptable, funky and trendy BPD has become watch “My Crazy ex Girlfriend” show which ran for four seasons to low ratings but completely rave media reviews and completely glamourises BPD.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 07:54 AM
2

I dipped into hookers because I had a lot of confidence issues with approach at your age - it got complicated - like a super simp i fell in love with one and actually actually dated (no paying) her for two years - the danger is hookers are very experienced / kinky and it can be very hard to settle and or climax with regular or even very attractive women who are not professional in that way.
/r/seduction31/05/21 08:52 PM
4

I am dating this chick along with a couple of others but it’s 4 months now with her - often it feels bland and to and fro / going through motions when we exchange messages except when I introduce humour but it’s all left to me to initiate and it can go several hours before each of us return the others message - I fucked her on the 4th date which is a wait suggesting lack of attraction but I know she was well into it - it all feels lacking in chemistry but the thing is she never turns down an inv…
/r/seduction31/05/21 06:54 PM
2

Modern egalitarian fem centric society completely encourages this - Only Fans is hypergamy post very aggressive removal of any social stigma concerning female promiscuity, slut shaming etc. It’s funny how feminists used to say prostitution exploited and objectified women - Onlyfans clearly exploits lonely sexless simps for the considerable benefit of young women.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 08:52 PM
1

I’m in my mid thirties and having a lot of success with women the last few years. It was a slow journey. Sometimes I feel a bit guilty but that is drowned out by the weight of regret I feel for not doing more of this - or rather getting it out of my system when I had that early twenties sex drive but unfortunately for me my confidence for most of my twenties was pretty barren. Men actually peak in sexual attractiveness well into their thirties and can plateau into forties but the sex drive isn’t…
/r/seduction07/05/21 08:51 PM
2

That is true - narcs are basically stuck somewhere in the toddler stage so they are actually very easy to manipulate and fool ironically enough. My NPD was relatively low level, I found I could feign being all upset and boo hoo as soon as she started shit she would get her sadistic kick and go away rather than have to endure a full 30 minutes of it. Also they are like junkies for that supply - will do anything for the narcissistic supply so instead of the master that they want to be they can bec…
/r/askTRP26/04/21 09:06 AM
2

I think that was a fair few years before he started RP or researching inter sexual dynamics - what really started him was his brother in law committed suicide after his wife left him and he sensed an indifference about it in the family and I think he became a counselor or sorts to older divorced men.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 06:53 AM
1

Narcissists and their variants like psychopaths have cognitive empathy that is to say on an intellectual level they can understand that someone else is in distress for instance but they lack what is called interpersonal emotional empathy which is I think what you are talking about which is basically ability to share someone elses feelings. That is very low or turned off in narcissists. I have heard what you are referring to as a “super empath” but I don’t really think you can be a super empath a…
/r/askTRP25/04/21 11:43 PM
5

Same with onlyfans - massive money can mean sub zero in social prestige - they are working on making it more respectable and pretty soon they will push it as a rewarding and stimulating “career” - strange how less than a generation ago feminists said porn was “objectifying” women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 04:13 AM
2

JBP is insightful on this. When I got my MA degrees were still somewhat of a rarity so had value - now Universities are run like businesses - amp up the price and the numbers and lower the quality of the output to maximize profit - strange how they are run by lefties - there is no real achievement / uniqueness in many university degrees anymore - too many people have them and pretty soon college graduates are going to be seen as fools who lost 4 years of earnings and head start in working world …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 04:09 AM
6

They are the first to go with AI
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 03:57 AM
3

Very important distinction : NPD, BPD, ASPD, HIstrionic are PERSONALITY DISORDERS not mental illnesses. I wouldn’t want society getting to a stage where for instance it’s charity and empathy and arms across the world for the psychopaths - that’s very dangerous. They are not psychotic it is just patterns of behaviors.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 03:35 AM
2

Sam Vatkin says that covert Narcs are like children they are so gullible. iRonically quite easily manipulated themselves if you have treats and supply - I used to pretend I was going through a harder time than I was with a covert narcissist ex knowing she was sadistic, she would get her high and go away.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 03:32 AM
2

I’ve had BPD and NPD and you’ve pin pointed the important difference. It annoyed me how many in the sphere use “BPD” as an umbrella term. The NPD I had was sweet and portrayed a “little lady” type persona but it’s all an act and they can be very scheming as your suggest and are 10 steps ahead of you. They would be declaring endless love to your face and calculating your downfall in a year. They are sadistic and enjoy hurting / exploiting you.Once I caught her staring at me when I was asleep - sp…
/r/askTRP25/04/21 03:29 AM
2

Are you confident the diagnosis is accurate ?- you could be on the spectrum somewhere but I have never encountered an NPD in particular being able to reach you level of objective insight and self reflection - for a split split second maybe but then they run and project and it seems to impossible for them not to indulge in the need to exploit others and illicit supply.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 03:14 AM
3

Mine was the reverse I had an intense whirlwind year long thing with a NPD which red pilled me and last year I had a plate who was much more BPD so I ran. Lots of overlap : they can go from worshipping you to hating your guts in the blink of an eye and yes both gaslight and triangulate. Actually I walked on the BPD because she was trying to triangulate me with some simp (just letting you know how much some men want to be with me) and she stalked me for a few months. I think overall the covert wa…
/r/askTRP25/04/21 03:06 AM
3

I dated both but was in a LTR with a covert narcissist which red pulled me. Yes a covert narcissist is closer to the psychopath in that corner of the cluster B - their affect is cold / steely especially compared to the complete emotional disregulation of the BPD. It annoyed me a little in the manosphere how BPD became an umbrella term for almost any personality disorder in women but BPD’s who are obviously very damaging to be around....personally I would consider it a true disorder relating to a…
/r/askTRP25/04/21 02:41 AM
3

I lived with one of these sadistic / covert narcissists for a year. One of the major red flags is how much they constantly have to be play the role of victim / hero and insist their victims are abusive bullies and of course they are very exploitative and entitled and demand endless goodies on someone else’s buck. One of the ways. When I hear the major new sub components of liberalism : feminism, socialism, black lives - all obsessed with their own perceived victimhood even when they are doing ok…
/r/askTRP25/04/21 02:18 AM
2

True and untrue - back when I was a hopeless beta I had one of these chicks - anytime I enforced a boundary she would lose the shit - it depends on what level NPD they are and what level Beta / Alpha you are. In real terms Red Pill / Alpha behavior is the best defence against any Cluster B disorder. They are prone to chronic boredom / depression when they don’t get a lot of attention / praise (narcissistic supply) but having said that yes they are probably not attracted to any old simp but they …
/r/askTRP25/04/21 02:06 AM
1

Worry about how they are picking you - think how many chicks either charge or know others who might be a 4’s charging to shake their ass on Onlyfans - how much do you think she is going to want for carrying and raising a child for half her life ? In the Internet age everything remotely related to sex and procreation is seen as burdensome to women that deserves huge compensation from the right man.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 06:51 AM
1

He’s really only taking out the competition to increase his own corner of the dating coach market.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/21 06:36 AM
1

You are higher rank if you are porking her raw. I generally don’t have a good feeling about any chick who has condoms in her bag for anyone under any circumstance pre you post you whatever
/r/askTRP15/04/21 12:10 AM
2

Condoms have a long shelf life
/r/askTRP15/04/21 12:05 AM
1

Men peak at mid late thirties and can plateau into 40’s - I think men look their best in these years but from female perspective it is when men have most resources. The wall can vary with women but generally they go down by mid twenties but by early thirties they are done - online dating is infested with 30 something overweight single mothers who are super entitled. This is why they say the ideal age is for a woman in early mid twenties should marry man in mid thirties.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 05:45 PM
1

I never go down on her first before she sucks me off and most of them get wet / turned on by sucking dick....don’t know what happened here. Only one time I was turned down for a BJ in bed when I told her to do it and it was because she was the sadistic narcissist who red pilled me - they are all about having power not doing what someone else tells them to do even if they want to - usually she loved sucking dick.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 09:29 AM
2

Dude taking red pill is understanding female nature - I took it not because I was a virgin but because I had my heart broken and wallet emptied too many times - red pill is the best defence to heartbreak - women are hypergamous and pretty much always on the look out for a better deal - if you think in an abundant mindset it avoids oneitis and heartbreak - women have always treated men as just disposable - I treat them the same and now can’t keep them off. You still have some blue pill thinking.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:42 AM
11

Well this is taken to an extreme now - I have seen even 2’s and 3’s make a decent living from Only Fans so their “liberation” will mean most men will have to actually pay to be with them
/r/TheRedPill04/03/21 08:17 AM
1

Rollo has said he has spoken to his daughter about timelines if she wants to be a mother and he hopes she gets with a virtuous alpha man - you prefer she is lied to that she can have it all: get to 300 pounds and still be beautiful, get the CEO job because as a woman she is entitled to it under quota rules and just because she has the ambition and that equals entitlement - he is steering her away from 40 something Catland and alcoholism
/r/ExRedPill03/02/21 01:33 AM
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