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| 2 | A letter my Fiance wrote me after I began implementing the red pill threating to leave?So what are you going to do about it? | /r/askMRP | 07/10/20 02:21 PM |
| 5 | A letter my Fiance wrote me after I began implementing the red pill threating to leave?She gives the ring back but wants to feed you bullshit someone else says? OK then... Forget all that for a moment: What do YOU want? Do you want to negotiate some deal with her or do you want a woman on your terms? | /r/askMRP | 06/10/20 10:32 PM |
| 6 | r/MGTOW just got removed. Is Reddit's Moderators biased towards blue-pilled ideas?I’m not against the spread of ideologies, just unfounded ones. And who sits upon the throne of judgment deciding which ideologies and communities are founded or unfounded, legitimate or illegitimate? GTFO with this Gestapo nonsense; let people discuss whatever nonsense they want to discuss in peace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 06:54 PM |
| 6 | How to maintain your alpha status with a woman? (in a LTR to in a marriage)DM me, for only $79/month (a bargain tbh) I'll coach you 1:1 over skype to maintain your alphaness so your gf/wife will always be entertained by your presence. We can work out a discount if you refer your friends. | /r/askMRP | 31/01/20 02:24 PM |
| 3 | Women aren't as much into "buffed" men as some guys defend, it's just that already-attractive men are immediately considered "buffed" as soon as they put a little muscle on.I'm not like that nor is anyone else i know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Women aren't as much into "buffed" men as some guys defend, it's just that already-attractive men are immediately considered "buffed" as soon as they put a little muscle on.And people say terpers are delusional... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 09:05 PM |
| 8 | Malicious blue-pilling is a thingMen who don't listen to what women say about how they want to be treated win the most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Women aren't as much into "buffed" men as some guys defend, it's just that already-attractive men are immediately considered "buffed" as soon as they put a little muscle on.lol its always dark? Afraid of actually seeing eachother? LMAO Muscular guys look better in clothes than skinny guys CMV Idk my wife put her arms around me the other day and was like "damn ur back got jacked". I guess you don't touch the guy either :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 08:10 PM |
| 5 | Women aren't as much into "buffed" men as some guys defend, it's just that already-attractive men are immediately considered "buffed" as soon as they put a little muscle on.Insurance against disgust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 07:41 PM |
| 7 | Women aren't as much into "buffed" men as some guys defend, it's just that already-attractive men are immediately considered "buffed" as soon as they put a little muscle on.Right, women don't like muscular men. https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/speaking-of-science/wp/2017/12/12/women-rate-the-strongest-men-as-the-most-attractive-study-finds/ Idk where the thread is but gaggles of women (like you) here decided this was completely invalid and argued to the death it wasn't true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 07:08 PM |
| 5 | Malicious blue-pilling is a thingI guess so...assuming i understand your question. It's all "playing the game". A successful ladder climbing corporate employee who wants to be CEO needs to know when to play by the rules, when to break them, and when to bend them just enough to get results. I suppose that's an illustration of your point, as would any IRL illustration of working within and around rules to get to a desired result. Back to women- It's perfect valid IMO to complain about a societal expectation telling men to "listen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Where do your views on women’s behavior come from?Studies are not a false authority. Is the study i posted legitimate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 03:58 PM |
| 4 | Wife is approaching the wall and wants freedom to do whatever she wants with zero consequences.My ex wife offered an open marriage, said she wouldn't be mad if i fucked some other girl, etc all while becoming highly secretive with her phone and ghosting me during work travel. Started acting and sounding like your wife- wanting to live the young party life while a 30something married woman. In my case she used to party and whore around and thought she would settle down with me...she missed it. Yours never experienced it and now wants to...two sides to the same coin. Sorry dude, but I think… | /r/askMRP | 30/01/20 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Where do your views on women’s behavior come from?https://www.msn.com/en-us/health/health-news/dad-bods-are-more-attractive-than-six-packs-study-says/ar-AAD3K0P Not a false authority | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 03:31 PM |
| 25 | Malicious blue-pilling is a thingWomen want men to just "get it". Dead on correct its a shit test. https://therationalmale.com/2012/08/22/just-get-it/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Where do your views on women’s behavior come from?And you stop appealing to authority. Deal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Where do your views on women’s behavior come from?OP: Where do your views on womens behavior come from. You: What do all of the responses have in common? They are anecdotal, take them with a grain of salt op. So yes, you're "saying that" in that the men responding to how they view womens behavior are somehow misguided and invalid given they're not using "studies" to guide THEIR OWN VIEWS of how women operate IRL. That's certainly implied in your response, is it not? If it isn't, then why the screed on Muh Studies! for a woman asking for men's o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 08:35 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Where do your views on women’s behavior come from?Experience. Men find RP and such after having shit experiences with women which fly directly in the face of how women and others tell them women actually behave. Say one thing, act another. Common af. I, as a woman, don’t behave that way, and neither do the vast majority of women I know. Every. Single. Time. RP concepts comes up a woman will show up and say "BUT I"M NOT LIKE THAT (therefore the experience of anyone else--especially a man's-- is invalid)". No, we don't care if you think you act t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Where do your views on women’s behavior come from?Imagine trying to live your individual life by all that- Oh no my experience is bullshit because there aren't studies to back them up! My interpretation of things happening to me IRL are invalid! Where is the data telling me what I should be experiencing???? I'd rather trust a collection of anecdotes that line up with my own experience regarding IRL interactions with women than some pencil necked deweeb's shitty study drawing some retarded conclusion. That's how we get such garbage as "women pre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Deny sex for a year? what dread level? *StarfishHis youngest is 1.8 years old. 1.8, do you understand? 1.8 is very important to this story. His $200k supports his 1.8YO. | /r/askMRP | 27/01/20 02:57 PM |
| 2 | My insecurity is killing my marriageIdk dude you're missing the entire point of this. Wouldn't want to break a family for nothing. Do you actually think her fucking some other guy is "for nothing"? FFS you followed her to this dude's house and confronted them (allegedly), now you're on some "oh i'll dread her" bullshit. You either decide whether you're willing to retain your dignity and next this woman or stick around and let her walk all over you. There is no middle ground here and you need to get that through your head. If she s… | /r/askMRP | 24/01/20 08:33 PM |
| 3 | My insecurity is killing my marriageWhat do you make of all that? What are you going to do about it? | /r/askMRP | 22/01/20 03:52 PM |
| 3 | My insecurity is killing my marriageLast sunday I found out that she has been secretly seeing a mutual friend since I've been gone. Um...how about telling us more about this minor detail? Your spidey sense started telling you something, you misinterpreted it as paranoia, then you drop this nugget and start going on about frame for some reason. This is how most of these things play out in here btw: Men start picking up on cues their woman has another man in the picture and then rationalize it away for some time before it sinks in. … | /r/askMRP | 22/01/20 01:52 PM |
| 6 | Need an exit plan [24 y/o, married 1.5 yrs]Forget the "you raped me" thing for a second. "I want an open marriage" or any iteration thereof is 99% of the time her already fucking someone else and looking for permission after the fact. Too late, already done. I'm thinking about telling her she's clear to fuck whoever she wants, essentially ending the marriage. There is no "essentially", there is ending it for good or being a cuck. Lawyer, papers, etc. You're too young for this shit. | /r/askMRP | 17/01/20 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 14, 2020But if my wife were 10 years younger, I’d have waited to see how our relationship evolved… So why do it now? Why was it important to give her a 4th? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/01/20 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 14, 2020I weighed my options. Deny her and live with the regret of knowing that I took that opportunity from her…or take a gamble on my marriage/ability to unfuck shit. Speaking of living in your wife's frame... Why would you regret not giving her another kid? Did you actually want kid #4 or was it simply to placate your wife? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/01/20 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Throw in the towel, or a life raft?You read at least one book | /r/askMRP | 13/01/20 06:37 PM |
| 2 | The social narrative around "he took advantage of her""he took advantage of her" also underlies a lack of agency on the woman's part; she's the hapless victim of an aggressor and had no control over the situation. Absolving herself of responsibility and revising history to suit the victimhood narrative. Maybe this is buffered by some sort of naivete on her part and not knowing better, but still 100% the man's responsibility. Someone else said it too- the woman concocted her own version of reality re: the man's intentions and acted under those assum… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Debunking some of the half-truths that TRP/the manosphere promoteSome of the biggest manipulators I know are men. AWALT is trash, but AMALT! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/20 03:21 PM |
| 3 | Moving out during a divorceMaybe worse guys here, sure, yet half the shit he says is contradictory, he has no self control, and refuses to take any advice. Do you seriously believe the shit he writes is actually real for a rational human being? At least you think he's as awesome as he thinks he is; the rest of us wrote him off as loony tunes, a troll, or both. | /r/askMRP | 30/12/19 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 24, 2019Do you read what you write or do you make all of this up as you go? You contradict yourself week to week, and within posts constantly: "I have no one else to fuck" vs. "i'm anal training my work plate" and "babysitter/thot mom/fit chick/STBX friend, etc." And every week you come back with some new batshit story whether it's about another woman you're trying to fuck or some wild shit your wife allegedly does with bullshit contradictions: "she's running upstairs to take pictures of my glock...weap… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/12/19 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 24, 2019You're going to burn yourself out and completely undo any progress you make in the short term. Want to fast for a few days or do a 16:8 or OMAD or some other semi-sustainable IF for the longer term but still get calories in then sure, do it, otherwise you're going to completely fuck up your metabolism and end up gaining weight after. And the yohimbine can be mildly psychoactive and you have enough mental problems, drop it immediately. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/12/19 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 17, 2019The girl I was trying to plate (broke because I am married and a "sleeze") told me she was going to bring her son to the same place I bring mine. Instead, she sent her babysitter.... I'm now convinced you're making this shit up for lulz. That, or you're that one guy who has all this whacky shit happen to him that is real but nobody believes. Idk dude. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/12/19 03:45 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: Do you think it's still a good idea for men to be married in today's modern world?Marriage #1 terminated because I 1. chose wrong and 2. had near zero chance of having kids despite upfront planning otherwise and 3. I was a little bitch, torpedoing the whole situation with stereotypical weak male behavior. I did Marriage #2 after my son was born and a decent prenup; at that point there isn't much to lose and I had no use for the social stigma & legal tedium that would result from a cohabitating perma-gf/baby mamma. My mindset is totally different in #2 than #1 also, which make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/19 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Why are Unattractive People Attracted to Polyamory?Are the people in your orgies hot or not? That is the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 07:04 PM |
| 4 | Why are Unattractive People Attracted to Polyamory?Every modern epithet applies to each of the men in some sort: soy, neckbeard, skinnyfat, dweeb, etc. There is nothing "average" about any one of those guys, and she's flat out ugly. Can you imagine one of those guys paired with a reasonably cute 6? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Do MRP members advocate for decades long monogamous LTRs/Marriages or it just the case that everyone on here found TRP too late and were already trapped?I can see married life laid out before me. As can anyone if they just let the momentum of "what you're supposed to do" keep them going in that direction. The question then becomes: do YOU want married life? Never discount the power of the momentum of all these major life events GF-->engagement-->marriage-->house-->kids. You need to do serious soul searching to decide if you want any of those, in any order. And marriage is an accessory; if you don't want kids it's 100% unnecessary and useless. If… | /r/askMRP | 13/12/19 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 10, 2019Am I not allowed to drink any alcohol during the divorce? She smokes weed and drinks occasionally. Can't I counter and say she does drugs at home? Red-Curious literally just wrote the following for you: just went through this with another client. He was furious that the mom was drinking and using meth while breastfeeding. He couldn't wrap his head around why it wasn't okay for him to be using coke and ecstacy. "But I'm not breastfeeding, so it doesn't get in the baby's system, and I don't do it … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/12/19 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 10, 2019Your problem is you either 1. take what you're told as gospel or 2. make assumptions thinking you've got it figured out while ignoring downside or anything else that may come into play which may run contrary to your assumptions. You're so sure of yourself yet you're at your most vulnerable and don't know it; it's an odd juxtaposition. You're going out of your way to convince yourself you're right while ignoring any information to the contrary. You have a very autistic, linear "if-then" approach … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/19 07:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP is not for relationships. Stop trying to force fit it.how is it a rhetorical question? Is that your cheap "out" to a debate on the subject? "oh it's a rhetorical question you're stupid lol I win". How is base level attraction different in casual pickup sex and a LTR+? Why are you arguing it doesn't matter in a marriage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 07:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP is not for relationships. Stop trying to force fit it.MRP tries to take TRP's obssession with attraction and apply it to marriage. Fail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 07:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP is not for relationships. Stop trying to force fit it.I understand perfectly well, perhaps better than you given my experience in both matters. You discount the importance of attraction in a marriage, ESPECIALLY from the man's perspective. Period. Your quote illustrates that perfectly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 10, 2019She is recording how much I drink and when I get home at night. I don't drink at home Read that three times out loud and then tell us why its stupid. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/19 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 10, 2019I have read it multiple times and intend to be billy beta in the court room. I will probably cry and shit. Once again, there will be no fight. It's a non contested divorce, we just need to figure out a schedule for the kids. How do you know its non-contested? Has she agreed (in a week or 2's time since you've filed) to have it be non-contested and all happy and settle with a few minor meditations and a quick judgement? Dude, you are project a LOT of assumptions of what she'll do or not do, what … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/19 06:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP is not for relationships. Stop trying to force fit it.MRP tries to take TRP's obssession with attraction and apply it to marriage. Fail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: How would you feel if your partner told you they had plastic surgery done?My first wife had her boobs done prior to us meeting. They looked good and not pornstar balloon cartoonish so i didn't mind. Had we been together and she wanted to do it i would have told her no. idk tits are one thing...face and all that is a diff level imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 06:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP is not for relationships. Stop trying to force fit it.Why does base level attraction suddenly not matter in an LTR or marriage? This is some "Once I get married I don't have to fuck him anymore lol" meme type shit. Either the woman has tingles for her husband or she doesn't; and if she doesn't there's nothing more to the marriage than a domestic partnership to raise children. No romance without attraction, definitely no sex without attraction...just a glorified business/economic relationship to which normies attach much more esoteric value than the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 06:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV: TRP is not for relationships. Stop trying to force fit it.Since you're only going to strawman MRP, sure, why not. You're completely discounting how "Be attractive; don't be unattractive" actually works out for the man in a LTR+. Stop pretending base level attraction no longer matters once a guy puts a ring on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: what’s your mother like?KHV? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/19 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Guys, if a woman told you that you’re “husband material”, would you take it as a compliment?Not a compliment at all, means you're a safe backup choice for some girl to settle down with eventually that has good provider potential. Maybe you're also good looking and kind of fuckable so not a total loss there but certainly not at the top of the "I want to fuck him" list. Nearly 100% comfort and long term family beta traits. "You're a catch!" and "Some girl will be lucky to have you" = $$$$$. Same thing. Source: Am married; been told this my entire adult life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/19 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: what’s your mother like?I was a quintessential mamma's boy and I was her "baby"; was bonded with her much moreso than my father for reasons I never understood until recently. She was a SAHM by necessity; I had most of my time with her growing up. She was an extremely intelligent, wonderful, loving, and strong mamma bear to me and my brother. Over a decade later still grappling with the fallout of her death. Her and my father had a seemingly good relationship; very traditional roles out of necessity but always seemed de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/19 03:53 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: what’s your mother like?Q4M: what’s your mother like? He was perfectly clear explaining what his mother was like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/19 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Meeting the fiancée who destroyed my life tomorrow, how can i be in the best frame !!..?None of this matters, the "why" doesn't matter. Grow some balls and move on; making yourself look more weak and stupid accomplishes nothing. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/12/19 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Meeting the fiancée who destroyed my life tomorrow, how can i be in the best frame !!..?Why are you even bothering to meet her? If she's as big of a cunt as you're saying then just say no. Or if it's to collect something from her do what 2ndal said- get your shit and leave immediately. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/12/19 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: What is blue pill?Srs tho, I'm not too far off in age from you, I have a kid, I'm (re)married much to my and my wife's delight. Why do you feel compelled to tell me my worldview on how to manage my marriage like i'm some sort of 20something never-gets-laid sperg? Are my experiences and lessons learned invalid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: What is blue pill?I've never seen a post asking what appeared to be a good faith question then lecture the respondents of how they're wrong, but you do you sister. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 01:42 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 03, 2019I do expect her not to weaponize the kids and try to ruin shit because I am willing to help her even after we divorce. If she chooses to fight me it will end bad for her and the kids will suffer as a result, there is no point in her fighting me. I'm sure once you explain that to her with your high value self she'll fall right in line, willing to play nice because you're so high value and a generous god. There's no way she could interpret anything differently from how you frame it, right? No way … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/19 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: What is blue pill?IDK why you posted twice, i'll consolidate here. Can you give me an example? The entire post was an example. You asked for "what is the blue pill" and a functional example for me IRL. Would you deny that good communication is important in a LTR? It's said as an absolute that communication is what makes a LTR+ work fundamentally. It's wrong. Happy Wife, Happy Life! When said to men the clear implication is for the man to constantly try to keep her happy, same as a woman saying "You should make me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 03, 2019She REFUSES to allow me to divorce her. She will drag it out as long as she can. I told her that all of her words mean nothing, and show me with her actions what kind of person she is. If I divorce her and she goes evil cunt I was right. Oh good, you can stand up and say "I was right!" and revel in your own self-fulfilling prophesy. Do you seriously expect her to just smile and go along with it? To not weaponize the kids and her lack of income to try and ruin the shit out of you? Do you seriousl… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/19 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Why does it matter who initiates the breakup?We're not talking about that, we're talking about 70% divorce initiation. Why does the default argument assume it's always the man's treachery for a woman to initiate 70% of the time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Why does it matter who initiates the breakup?Right, why then is it always "women divorce more because the husband is shit" the absolute (unsubstantiated) argument for why women initiate 70%? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Why does it matter who initiates the breakup?But never the woman's fault for wanting a divorce and acting on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Why does it matter who initiates the breakup?Always the man's fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 07:48 PM |
| 4 | Why does it matter who initiates the breakup?How dare a woman have agency over her own decision to divorce! Always the man's fault! Women never divorce men who aren't cheating, abusive losers! LOL at pretending women can never blow up a marriage for their own selfish reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Why does it matter who initiates the breakup?Briffault's Law, confirmed. Never the woman's own selfish prerogative to divorce, always the man's fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Why does it matter who initiates the breakup?Are people supposed to stay with their significant other regardless of the awful things that person does?! That is the typical strawman women throw out when faced with the 30/70 statistic on divorce. There can be no other reason other than the man is horrible/abusive/a loser/on meth/gay, thus the women is completely a victim to some manner of male toxicity. No agency on owning the outcome whatsoever. tldr: it's always the guy's fault | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: What is blue pill?What is being blue pilled? Accepting the commonly held cultural narratives around the nature of women, dating, sex, attraction, the SMP as a whole, et al and living one's life by them When you say, "I used to be blue pilled," what do you mean by that? Used to live my dating life, et al by those cultural narratives. When you say, "blue pill doesn't work," what do you mean by that? living my life by said commonly accepted cultural narratives led to repeated failure either dating or in LTRs, all fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 06:45 PM |
| 1 | On being a better manNo, we do not have to consider anything. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/11/19 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Good advice comes from happy people: Vet the relevant subs for happinessHappy people who never solved a problem or don't have the experience with your particular issue are the worst people to get advice from. Experience matters, especially if that experience was hard fought or hard learned; anger or unhappiness is a byproduct of problems which then motivated one to find a solution. Do you really expect viable answers from those subs? I'm assuming this is about RP, which many men here will attest gave them viable answers and helped solve their problems. inb4 "no it d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/19 02:28 PM |
| 2 | CMV: TRP is a MGTOW factory due to its refusal to address LTRsI get paid in sex, her attention, and commitment. She voluntarily gives me all of that; and she can voluntarily change her mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/19 02:23 PM |
| 1 | The Lonely Burden of Today’s Teenage Girlsre: #2- weren't most of them on some sort of perscription drug for depression or something of the sort? I remember hearing that a few times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/19 03:22 PM |
| 4 | CMV: TRP is a MGTOW factory due to its refusal to address LTRsI can get laid off by my employer tomorrow, that doesn't stop me from doing my job and being relatively content about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/19 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.That’s not what the study was about. The study (and OP) focused on the body only and for OP why women lie about such things like “dad bod”. You and many others are arguing about what the study did not measure nor never claimed to measure. Pls point out where the study claimed to measure tota attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/19 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.No shit. Then what on earth are you arguing about? But how can you tell if her body is hot if you don't know what her hips,ass,thighs,or tits look? You can definitely see the hourglass shape and/or bodyfat and/or abs. This is not complicated. Not all guys like the same body types. Who gives a shit, you asked me if I could judge attractiveness from a torso and I certainly can for my purposes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/19 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.The study was never about his face or rest of his body as too many people on this thread seem to project. It was simply which body type to women like, period. The results were not surprising. Why is everyone projecting the totality of female attraction on something that was never meant to be that? ffs Can you judge a woman's attractiveness by looking at her stomach? I can certainly tell if her body is attractive or not. If it's a hot body maybe she has a butterface but still a hot body, which is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/19 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.A “survey” vs actual visual rankings conclusively stating the opposite and you pick the survey as more credible. Amazing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.You just strawmanned a widespread cultural meme to make a nonsensical point. The mental gymnastics needed to rationalize dad bod vs aesthetic in favor of dad bod preference in spite of actual study data claiming otherwise **is gold medal worthy. Bravo. Straw man some more pls thx | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them."I am the exception therefore any broad study of women's preferences saying something that i don't prefer is clearly wrong" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.Women don't say they like Dad Bods MORE than fit bodies; they just say that they like Dad Bods, period. WRONG https://www.shape.com/lifestyle/mind-and-body/new-survey-shows-women-prefer-dadbod-six-pack | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 07:05 PM |
| 8 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.only which body type yes that's the entire point of the OP, nobody is arguing otherwise other than women projecting something that isn't even there. I'll never understand how women can see a study that states unequivocally "women found muscular bodies attractive" and lose their shit saying that it's wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 07:03 PM |
| 4 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.I'm listening to women, specifically, tell me and everyone else the study and OP is wrong for its findings because it didn't consider every.single.other.possible.factor in female attraction. Did the study show women liking muscular physiques or not? Yes or no? Every women i'm arguing with refuses to answer that simple question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.If women didn't lie about such garbage like "dad bods being hot" and other tomfoolery there would be no reason for this study or thread to exist. Women find fit physiques attractive above all others. There is no possible counterargument to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 06:46 PM |
| 17 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.Nobody is making that argument. Only women on this thread are adding in factors beyond the OP and study, strawmanning both. What is true is OP's point that women routinely lie about the aesthetic they find most attractive, i.e. the Dad Bod garbage. It's demonstrably false, backed by science. Women like fit bodies better than anything else cmv | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 06:45 PM |
| 13 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.Do you not see the retardation of "dad bods are sexy" and "oh looks don't matter its everything else" men hear constantly? This study blows that out of the water, to nobody's surprise yet every woman here wants to argue the study is wrong for its simple findings. Women like fit bodies better than anythign else CMV | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 06:08 PM |
| 4 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.Teh study is not a referendum on the totality of female attraction. It was about which male physiques are the most attractive to women, which it showed quite clearly and as a surprise to nobody. You women here are going well out of your way to say the study is wrong, or not the totality of attraction, or other such things the OP nor the study ever claimed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 06:05 PM |
| 0 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.So the women who were in the study are lying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.Don't deflect. You wrote It says nothing about which man women would most want to fuck after a first date. Support it or admit your statement was stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 06:00 PM |
| -1 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.the claim is women prefer fit, muscular bodies on men. Women are going out of their way to argue that's not the case and I don't know why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.Neither of those support your assertion of: It says nothing about which man women would most want to fuck after a first date. Again, point out where OP or the article/study talk about which men women want to fuck after a first date. Support what you write. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 05:56 PM |
| 16 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.The study specifically set out to rank order male body types in terms of female attraction. It found the obvious result that muscular, aesthetic male bodies did well, which is surprise to nobody. Please point out where the purpose of the study was a convoluted referendum on female sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 05:50 PM |
| 3 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.Who cares? Women found muscular fit bodies attractive. This isn't some referendum on muh female sexuality, it's a simple study ffs. Why are you women so worked up for the simple observation that women find muscular fit bodies attractive per this study? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.t says nothing about which man women would most want to fuck after a first date. Please copy/paste where that assertion is being made in the OP or the study. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 05:44 PM |
| 6 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.Yes, and some statues are hotter than others. TIL attraction =/= sexual attraction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 05:22 PM |
| 6 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.You're arguing with your own strawman. This study in isolation says nothing about which men women are most attracted to Yes it does. AGAIN, from the study which you're deliberately not reading: According to the new research, if you rated the less well-muscled body you are in a tiny minority. In fact, of the 160 women surveyed, not one found the unmuscled bodies more attractive. “We weren’t surprised that women found physically strong men attractive... what did surprise us was just how powerful t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 05:20 PM |
| 9 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.I quoted that from teh article, just liek this: The study was aimed at testing how important physical strength is to men's bodily attractiveness. Photographs of headless male torsos were shown to groups of women, who were asked to rate either their attractiveness or their physical strength. Why does there need to be some grand understanding of women when showing them photos of physiques to rate? "Here's a photo of a man's body. How do you rate it?...OK thank you, here's another, how to do you ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.aaaaand the predictable influx of PPD women with their "bUt I'm Not LiKe ThAt Ewww!!!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 05:14 PM |
| 76 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.I can TELL when I'm in shape because no matter what they say, women treat me differently when I've got a nice amount of mass going. Same, I'm treated much differently when I look bigger. I even have other men comment on how I look...everyone treats me better tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 05:12 PM |
| 7 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.The study was aimed at testing how important physical strength is to men's bodily attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.10-4 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 05:08 PM |
| 11 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.Read teh ARTICLE HEADLINE AGAIN: Researchers Tested Which Male Body Shapes Women Find The Most Attractive. It's Not Good News, Men Quibble on OP's title all you want, the underlying article and study are not up for some subjective debate about faces. I am NOT allow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.Thin women are also attractive, what's the issue here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 04:52 PM |
| 17 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.You had to go all the way to "face like a caveman with acne" to prove teh point? geesh Again, a hot fit body is a hot fit body. The study was conducted SPECIFICALLY on body type. The face is completely irrelevant to this discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.I thought the ban was just on the singular post of c*pe, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 04:48 PM |
| 29 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.A hot fit body is a hot fit body, what's so complicated here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.Water is wet, All Hail Zyzz! Dad bod "studies" are garbage just as everyone already knew; they're just a cope for disgusting fatasses to feel better about themselves and for women to outrightly lie about their true preferences to--again--cope with how they paired with lazy slobs. Researchers Tested Which Male Body Shapes Women Find The Most Attractive. It's Not Good News, Men As well as that, the researchers provided one more silver lining: “Even if you’re a bit overweight, looking strong can bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 12, 2019https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3qm961/verbal_intercourse_is_optional/ that was linked in another thread, appropriate for you. WISNIFG as audio book may help in letting it sink in hearing everything verbally. Maybe she's impressed with your backbone, maybe she's not...doesn't matter really. She could be a child acting out just to get attention and drama, or maybe she's deliberately trying to see if you'll step up and check her, who knows, still doesn't matter. You have to fix yo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/11/19 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Red/Blue/Black/Pink pills are all unhealthy, addictive drugs CMVi feel like our usernames are aligned lol Perhaps you were too far on the "blue" side prior and TRP helped balance you out? I'm old and lost my rabid tribalism a long time ago hence the balance you speak of; I also had some very severe and pragmatic issues to fix a la RP so my ability to spend time fuming in anger would have been a waste of time. I also believe the older, married RP types have a much different frame than the i-can't-get-laid spergs; it's called "hard mode" for a reason and there… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Red/Blue/Black/Pink pills are all unhealthy, addictive drugs CMVidk bro a lot of the women I've known in my life had shared traits- from gen z thottish broads to my immigrant grandmother. Same with men; a lot act similarly, even within their own unique personalities. Idk why people argue every other creature on teh planet is the product of millions of years of evolution yet humans are the one solitary exception and we have zero behavioral traits baked into the firmware. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Red/Blue/Black/Pink pills are all unhealthy, addictive drugs CMVThat's a very admirable take, kudos. Why, though, do you think the pill people need saving, or a reversion to some moderate position, as you call it? For me and other RP types, the RP did much more for our life satisfaction than anything else out there. Are our experiences and viewpoints invalid? Speaking for myself, I'm a lot better off post RP than before...am I wrong in this? Btw- I've had bloops tell me specifically I'm not happier and my life experience is invalid and wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Red/Blue/Black/Pink pills are all unhealthy, addictive drugs CMVMen and women don't have traits that are consistent across the genders? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you wish someone would have Red Pilled you when you were younger, or would you rather go in blind?I wish my father wasn't a meek beta constantly kowtowing to my mother. No More Mr Nice Guy could have been written directly for him. I ended up modeling his behavior in adulthood. I was told by mother/grandmother/aunts/cousins/other girls that "You're a catch and someone will appreciate you someday" and "you're great husband material" while i was struggling mightily dating and with keeping steady girlfriends. Cue my Nice Guy behavior from prior comment. I looked good "on paper" but women weren't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Red/Blue/Black/Pink pills are all unhealthy, addictive drugs CMVWhy do you feel the need to guide random internet strangers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Men (mainly bluepills) are socially expected to always accept a women and all her emotional baggage, mental illness and learn to cope, lick her wounds and tend to her damage soul.I'm copy/pasting your text, emphasis mine As a mentally ill person, we have our own in house rule that if you need treatment you're not allowed to not seek it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Red/Blue/Black/Pink pills are all unhealthy, addictive drugs CMVSo why are you arguing about sexual strategy pills on the internet? Can you not get laid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Red/Blue/Black/Pink pills are all unhealthy, addictive drugs CMVA lot of girls are taught "men only want one thing" and so on from very young ages. Girls are taught to generalize men all the time. For some reason, generalizing women negatively is the unacceptable part of generalizing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Red/Blue/Black/Pink pills are all unhealthy, addictive drugs CMVPeople like to take bad things that happened and look for trends because they feel like it will help them find patterns to look for in the future, but that's just our brains tricking us. But then you say: I have gotten better and better at understanding how to be happy with someone because I learn from past experiences. My first two girlfriends were crash courses on what not to look for. The next three were classes on what I liked. Um, you took bad things (and good FWIW) and looked for and found… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Men (mainly bluepills) are socially expected to always accept a women and all her emotional baggage, mental illness and learn to cope, lick her wounds and tend to her damage soul.we have our own in house rule that if you need treatment you're not allowed to not seek it. typo? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Men (mainly bluepills) are socially expected to always accept a women and all her emotional baggage, mental illness and learn to cope, lick her wounds and tend to her damage soul.Moreover good healthy stable men are put in a precarious position where are just expected to accept women who have been used as cum dumpsters while pandering to their poor decisions. This is simple: Don't be Captain Save-A-Ho. Have standards, don't accept broken women. You have zero responsibility to deal with some washed up thot who 1. got herself into unhealthy situations 2. has not learned to cope with whatever "damage" has been done to her nor 3. expects you to accept her bullshit without qu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Male depression has very little to do with relationships/dating.My thesis continues intact: a man's contribution of money and/or hours worked is NOT considered in his total contribution to a family unit by women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Guys, how would you live your life if you were an ugly woman?she'll get thuder thighs I fail to see the problem here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Male depression has very little to do with relationships/dating.Here we go again: IF HE DOESN'T DO HIS HALF OF THE HOUSEWORK HE'S A MANCHILD LOSER REEEEEEEEE regardless of how much he makes or how much he works or fucking yard work doesn't matter A man's share of indoor housework is the only viable metric for his contribution to the family unit, to be argued to the death on PPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 04:57 PM |
| 1 | TRP boys are delusional collectivists arguably worse than SJWsAnd every young girl wasn't told "men only want one thing" ad nauseam growing up, thus getting the primer on male nature? Most men seem to have missed the same about women... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 04:52 PM |
| 0 | TRP boys are delusional collectivists arguably worse than SJWsOP def on the spectrum IMO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 04:48 PM |
| 1 | TRP boys are delusional collectivists arguably worse than SJWsI think guys basically have to just get enough experience to the point where they've proven TRP principles wrong With enough experience TRP principles are proven right, as a great many and growing amount of men are finding. The current narratives around men/women/dating are slowing crumbling at their foundations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Guys, how would you live your life if you were an ugly woman?An oddly shaped girl with one or two fit-aesthetic features will go very far. Think meaty thighs or thicc ass...even a muscular upper body can help with making the best of shitty situation. Even today, fat, short, round powerlifter girl at the gym had some seriously muscular legs. Make do with what u got. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/19 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Guys, how would you live your life if you were an ugly woman?nothing--NOTHING--stops a flat assed woman from deadlifting, KB swinging, glute bridging, et al to at least get a little bit of curvature. Hip thrusts build ass and have one of the best glute activations of any exercise. IT CAN BE DONE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/19 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Guys, how would you live your life if you were an ugly woman?This is easy because i can think of 2-3 women i know this applies to oddly well: get as fit as possible despite the body (fuck your edit). Run, swim, lift, triathlons...anything that gets me fit and has a social component even if i'm still nowhere near fitness chick aesthetics. work on muh curves as much as possible from #1- nothing stopping me from having a thicc ass and trying to at least have some shape to me despite my limitations Get really good at blowjobs, sex, be a kinky little thing. De… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/19 09:12 PM |
| 3 | To a lot of people marriage still means complete and total commitment, and anyone who thinks it’s worthless is the outlier.Declining marriage rates. Children born out of wedlock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/19 09:01 PM |
| 1 | To a lot of people marriage still means complete and total commitment, and anyone who thinks it’s worthless is the outlier.No. People say all those things about marriage, but act much differently. Marriage virtue signalling, if you will. What people say it means and what they do and feel in their private life are two very different things. Who is going to publicly and in polite company say their marriage is miserable and shitty and they're fucking someone on the side, or seriously thinking about stepping out on their spouse, or who wish they could step out on their spouse? Given our oft cited marriage failure/divorc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/19 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 12, 2019When she starts letting me have it, must it always be STFU? Should I never fight back in a calm and directed manner? When she recites (again) the litany of all my past sins, I can’t respond in kind? STFU is a good idea; fogging and negative inquiry work too. WISNIFG is your friend here. What does engaging in a fight accomplish? What does "responding in kind" accomplish? We already talked about your ego and your revenge fantasy...ask yourself what getting your hits in actually does for your situa… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/11/19 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 12, 2019This reeks of "I'm GoInG tO ShoW hEr!", plotting your revenge fantasy like the pissy little beta you continue to be. Your insufferable writing doesn't impress anyone here either; despite your flowery bullshit and attempts to posture otherwise we can see your seething anger and ego screeching out. Jesus H. Christ it would feel great to Rambo the shit out of her. doesn't jive with I think I have on occasion actually reached the fabled zen state of DNGAF. and despite this: Time to suck it up, butte… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/11/19 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Crazy new "Consent" law proposal in Australia?And you're line of thinking is why we have the current surveillance state in the west and beyond..."just another half inch lol no biggie". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Crazy new "Consent" law proposal in Australia?Makeup, hair styling, and pushup bras are now fraud, you can bring charges against the plain jane who cleans up good because her unenhanced state was well below what she represented when you went on that first date. Just as retarded as your argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/19 08:12 PM |
| 10 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 05, 2019Congrats on finding the bored lesbo bed death'd women who craves attention so bad she'll fuck a dude. She's no different than you going out and looking for something new because you're unhappy at home; two sides of the same coin. Validation and attention seeking, indeed. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/11/19 03:22 PM |
| 5 | Took my girl of 6 years on a date. Ended with her slamming the door in my face. I'm trying to soft next for at least a day. She is sitting in front of my house now.You have your own house. You're going to sleep in your car and not in your own house. All this because of a minor spat with your gf, who does not(?) live at your house. And even if she did, no matter, it's your house allegedly. What the fuck is wrong with you? | /r/askMRP | 04/11/19 06:53 PM |
| 2 | My Lack of Ambition: Can I make this attractive?No, you're just lazy. | /r/askMRP | 04/11/19 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 29, 2019I lived something similar to you; believe 100% you're better off and on the ascent. Pedal to the metal, be aggressive with life, and slow down for nothing. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/11/19 02:03 PM |
| 8 | You know how women say they don't want to be a "mother" to their husbandYes. Every single time. A man's excess financial contribution counts for nothing unless he's not earning as much, then it becomes "he needs to make more". Muh Housework is the only relevant metric otherwise. Every woman here will argue this to the death. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 09:12 PM |
| 1 | You know how women say they don't want to be a "mother" to their husbandTo your point, women will oftentimes complain, not accept a solution and get mad about it, do nothing to change their own situation for the better, then continue to complain. The man can't win. Nail In The Head is typical womanese. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 09:06 PM |
| 5 | You know how women say they don't want to be a "mother" to their husbandPerceptively more than her husband Not "objectively more". She perceives she does more (despite potential evidence to the contrary) therefore in her mind she absolutely does more and will have her perceived grievance accordingly. I've heard SAHMs complain their sole breadwinner, lifestyle funding husbands don't "do enough". Trying to convince such creatures of the idiocy of their arguments is futile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 22, 2019Think of it this way- are your goals and motivations for being here for you to become a high value man who chases his own goals or is it for you to save your marriage and manage the drudgery of day to day interactions with your wife? Fixing the marriage for the sake of fixing a marriage is futile as most men here have realized; fixing you so you get what you want out of life and women is the ultimate goal. To that end, you need to ask yourself "What do I want?" and have that as all encompassing,… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/10/19 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - October 22, 2019Wtf is your ultimate purpose here? You're a self admitted faggot and get into pointless fights with your wife, fine, but are you two fucking? 3 years married and no kids- do you two even like eachother? What, exactly, are you fixing and bottom line why are you here? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/10/19 05:25 PM |
| 2 | My “First MRP Moment”, I believe. It will never be the same.I’m open to reference articles and/or additional reading disputing this. OP could have employed STFU then WISNIFG tools, for starters. If that's beneath you A&A or AM would work well since it was a simple shit test. The sidebar covers all this thoroughly. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/10/19 05:59 PM |
| 10 | My “First MRP Moment”, I believe. It will never be the same.Wrong, he was a butthurt little bitch who felt the need to be a chest thumping gorilla and show force for a simple shit test when he could have just stfu and LOL'd it off with fogging at worst. Faux alpha shit, he really showed her who's boss! Tell us, what part of that entire exchange between them was necessary for his engaging in a pointless argument? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/10/19 05:51 PM |
| 7 | My “First MRP Moment”, I believe. It will never be the same.I stopped her mid bitching and called her out that she was just trying to deflect and argue to ensure sex was off the table. Then I asked for a strait answer, "sex tonight, yes or no". While we are arguing I expressed to her that I am talking and that it's bullshit to just walk away. I told her since she can't give an answer, then I am making the call, no sex Or how about 1. STFU (you missed it in MRP101) 2. don't engage in a pointless argument, refer back to #1 3. Find her tantrum amusing becau… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/10/19 05:46 PM |
| 1 | State your REALLY controversial opinions hereMany unfortunate boating accidents just before boogaloo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/19 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Nobody talks about how...Business Class Chad at a minimum | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/19 07:30 PM |
| 1 | AFBBEven better. More people who don't know nor never met me to tell me what actually happened to me didn't actually happen to me. I'm glad you and others know my life better than I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/19 05:57 PM |
| 1 | AFBBI know better than most, including you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/19 05:54 PM |
| 1 | AFBBwhy are you on PPD? you're the female reeeeeeing about some obscure corner of the man internet that has nothing to do with you IRL or elsewhere? Silly question. PPD is more interesting to me than TRP tbh. I enjoy the exchange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/19 05:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for menhttps://www.google.com/search?q=femopowerment&rlz=1C1GCEA_enUS768US768&oq=femopowerment&aqs=chrome..69i57j0l5.1573j1j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8 Feast on teh alt-right treasure trove of sources from googling "fempowerment" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/19 05:51 PM |
| 1 | AFBBThe men who were fucking young sexy women at 20 are stable husband material at 30 Wrong. Not even close. Maybe a few were chads, but overwhelmingly not the case for a lot of those men. There are dudes here on PPD who actually lived this, why do all of you women think we were having sorority girl orgies when we were 20? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 08:45 PM |
| 2 | AFBBif you see directives on how you, a woman, should act by default you, a woman, thinks its written for you. Feminist magazine daily: OMG THIS ISN’T FOR YOU. THERE ARE NO DIRECTIONS FOR MEN IN OUR ZINE. THATS WHAT I'M SAYING!!!!!!!!! Men who have outrage porn over such things are as silly as you thinking it's directing them to do something. Both are equally in error. what behaviors men should demand or select for etc. the behaviors MEN SHOULD LOOK FOR because its telling the MEN how to act, not th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 08:41 PM |
| 2 | AFBBIt sounds like you're making an argument that these men are apparently better off being ignored forever, instead of only before they "bloomed". Wrong, i am making no such argument, to allege is silly. That was in response to pennylane's erroneous and absurd presumption every dude can go get laid whenever. Why wasn’t he fucking young, sexy, fertile women before he met her? Silly female solipsism, just because most women can get laid within the hour with little effort she thinks men can do the sam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 08:37 PM |
| 2 | AFBBIt's not relevant because you're not at all in the SMP nor trying to navigate it in any way, shape, or form. AFBB is for men tryign to do exactly that, STR vs. LTR and how women view both which academic studies have shown women have vastly different mating preferences between teh two btw...this is not controversial. Everything being discussed in TRP is aimed directly at men trying to get laid, it's not for happily paired off people with awesome sex lives and it's especially not for women to lect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 08:34 PM |
| 2 | AFBBYet you yourself see magical directives to women in RP writing. make up your mind, either Nobody thinks RP is written for women or TRP writing directs women to behave in a certain way. Both cannot be true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 08:30 PM |
| 2 | AFBBDon't deflect, women and bloops here invalidate actual individual men's experiences all the time but try to use the same "but I don't..." as some sort of infallible argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 08:29 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for menwhat in teh fuck was alt-rightish about what I said? I'm not sure i even know what that means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 08:26 PM |
| 2 | AFBBIt's like 10% true. Neither gender is going to end up with people they'd have ONS with 99% of the time. How would you know if its true or not if you're not a dude who is AF or BB and has experienced it firsthand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 08:25 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for menIn our world of fempowerment and Women Are Wonderful a horseshoe counterargument of outlining AWALT's dark side isn't inappropriate. Too many thirsty men have pussy on a pedestal; soft pedaling to a woman's sensibilities doesn't take the pussy off the pedestal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 07:52 PM |
| 2 | AFBBHave an opinion on it all you want, but the fact you think it's written for you is completely in error. BB is usually used to referred to regular guys What do you think regular guys are? Have you seen a middle aged white collar fatass IRL, or better yet your obese type-2 diabetic MC guy? "regular guys" are not chad and don't elicit Alpha Fucks responses from women. I have no interest in discussing your specific, personal issues. Not discuss, acknowledge that your attempt at discrediting "her bes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 07:43 PM |
| 2 | AFBBOP shows the lack of experience yes, OP's glaring lack of experience as a whole. OP has zero experience in teh SMP given she paired off in HS, good for her. Yet somehow that's a basis for lecturing men who date through their 20s and 30s about their own experience in the SMP and something that actually happened to someone like me and other guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 07:39 PM |
| 1 | A Good Man is Getting Even Harder to FindLast paragraph killed me lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 07:30 PM |
| 2 | AFBBbecause that doesn’t matter. I don't understand why you don't want men to have their own sphere (lol) to discuss sex and such without the moralizing outrage of women trying to invalidate it constantly. Who said anything about loser, pathetic or fat? Me, because that's who AFBB is directed at in the first place! shitty not-sexy loser husbands don't get laid by their wives lmao how do you not understand this to be a scientific fact that would drive a man to figure out how to get out of that situat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 07:25 PM |
| 2 | AFBBBeta males paying money for 20 yo to fuck them. Literally the definition of BB taken to its extreme but valid end. AFBB is real and not made up CMV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 07:20 PM |
| 2 | AFBBYou read somethign directed at men thinking it's for you. You give a fuck. Show me verbatim where anything written by TRP directs women to have chad sex with their loser, pathetic, fat husbands? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 07:18 PM |
| 2 | AFBBWomen and bloops here are quick to tell a guy "That's not what actually happened to you" while dismissing everything else as "But I'm not like that therefore your argument is invalid..." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 07:12 PM |
| 2 | AFBBLet’s be honest, AFBB is a made up concept made by beta males upset they cant convince a 20 year old to fuck him. www.seekingarrangements.com | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 07:09 PM |
| 2 | AFBBYou really haven’t heard “I want her best” I lived this with my ex wife, btw. Humiliating to say teh least. The insistence that all wives have with their husbands exact kind of sex RPers imagine she had with Chad? Again, show me where TRP is directed at women as their intended audience to have chad sex with their pathetic husbands? Please stop reading Rollo thinking it's for you. Secondly, TRP is about becoming the guy she has bathroom chad anal with in teh first place and eliciting that desire.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 07:09 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for menThat every woman who is over 25 and wants a serious relationship isn't actually attracted to you and just wants your money while she bangs the pool boy. Idk, a female coworker pushing 40 is about to throw her turning-40 husband a giant party and loves him very much, yet she really wants to bang her actual pool boy. She and hubby "don't have time" for sex either, somehow. To think women aren't capable of such treachery is laughable, as is thinking it can't happen to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 07:01 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Redpill is a coping mechanism for menAlso thinking that all of your problems is your fault does not solve them instantly, of course not, but it allows a mindset shift to allow a dude to better control his behavior and outcomes. This is the same as Extreme Ownership...a failure can allow one to reassess how he can manage a situation. Flailing around and crying the world isn't fair isn't going to motivate someone to excel at anything, less take responsibility for themselves in teh first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 06:58 PM |
| 3 | AFBBNot in the slightest for either of your assumptions. The first is laughable. For the second, every single piece of actionable advice through TRP puts the onus on THE MAN to get the sex life he deserves wants. Sure, some can blame AWALT all they want but they're still losing and not putting in the work if they're not getting the result. putting the onus on women to make up for what a 35 year old man missed in his youth is weird. Why do you think TRP or any iteration thereof is at all directed to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 06:55 PM |
| 6 | AFBBFirst of all, AFBB doesn't apply to you or your husband in the slightest. While we appreciate your attempt at its deconstruction neither of you have actually experienced anything close to that dynamic, especially your husband who--as a man--the whole concept is directed towards in the first place. He never lived it, but plenty of men do and their experience is not even close to what you and your husband have. She doesn't care what his history looks like, all that matters is that they're compatib… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 06:48 PM |
| 2 | AFBBWhy wasn’t he fucking young, sexy, fertile women before he met her? Because he couldn't and probably still can't. You wrote that entire comment like every guy 17-25 can go lay some wild coed at a frat party at will every weekend. Do late bloomers not exist? Or guys who struggle with dating in their teens and 20s but "look good on paper" at 30 with a career and good income? AFBB was developed as a concept to explain those men, not for women to navel gaze on as an intellectual exercise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/19 06:23 PM |
| 2 | What are you going to do about it?“Why you using so many towels?!” You: <look her dead in teh eye and helicopter your dick around> | /r/askMRP | 10/10/19 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Wife Moved OutAt this point she wants space and doesn't want to give an answer on if or when she'll be back. She doesn't want to lose me and asked me not to see other people and she is doing the same. Well, OP, what are you going to do about this? | /r/askMRP | 09/10/19 05:39 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Truth? You’re not average.Right, if we only gave into the feminist utopia and put more prissy white women in the C-Suite more men would get laid and everyone would be happy. Ok... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/19 01:14 PM |
| 0 | [Q4All] Why are some of the men on PPD obsessed with single moms?Not if you see any random woman's insta or facebook feed "OMG with my loves <3<3<3" completely violating their kids privacy since birth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/19 12:50 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why are some of the men on PPD obsessed with single moms?Lol ur mad because I called out your moving the goal post from the US to your shithole country? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 06:18 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why are some of the men on PPD obsessed with single moms?I understand perfectly fine and nothing I said has some policy implication for single mothers/children and single men, don't deflect. The argument is single mothers are bad mate choices for single, childless men and the reasons therein, policy has little to nothing to do with it. Want to talk about policy? There's plenty of public assistance for single mothers thus creating a perverse incentive...but what about for marriage and intact family units? Little to none in teh US at lease. Follow the i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 05:16 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why are some of the men on PPD obsessed with single moms?Excuse your words. No. You sound like your 17. If you are, good because you have time to mature. Ad hom, cheap shaming because you can't debate my points. And what makes you think women aren’t providing for their children already? Because a lot of them are getting public assistance and/or earnings close to or not far from the poverty line, therefore they're not "providing" in a traditional sense. Why else would a single mother look so intently for a man if not somewhat for the resources he can b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 05:11 PM |
| 0 | [Q4All] Why are some of the men on PPD obsessed with single moms?If women didn't advertise their children like they were some game show prize we wouldn't call them fuck trophies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 03:53 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why are some of the men on PPD obsessed with single moms?That's why I brought up socio-economics because you didn't. Dont take credit for something I brought up that YOU FORGOT. lmao you don't need to overtly bring up economics because it's completely and utterly obvious to this entire discussion the poors have teh highest rates of single mommyhood of any demographic, look at u acting like you solved a mystery. It's completely implied, lol at you thinking you typing it out makes it some grand revelation nobody ever knew before. Who do you think the si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 03:51 PM |
| 0 | Q4ALL: good strategy to find a middle class 6/10 husband at 25?Gym: get fit AF and have ample ass. None of this BMI garbage, become a certified fitness chick and have the hottest body of any girl you know. You'll attract plenty of men thus giving you a lot of choice; pick the best one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 03:36 PM |
| 6 | Have you ever dated a passive man, or one who turned out to be way too weak/soft/needy for your tastes?There's an entire MC-UMC mommy culture on slobbing out and blaming their shitty habits and frumpy body comp on their non-existent thyroid condition. My money is on the wife letting herself go without consequence moreso than the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 03:31 PM |
| 3 | [Q4All] Why are some of the men on PPD obsessed with single moms?Also, you're forgetting socio-economics No, I'm not. The poors outbreed the non-poors by multiples, mostly out of wedlock. The poors self-reincforce their own poorness and shitty outcomes by having multiple children they can't afford and can't raise properly out of wedlock, sometimes with multiple men. Ever been to the hood? This is completely obvious to anyone who has been to the hood. Do accidental pregnancies not exist in your world? Her Body Her Choice. She can 1. not let a guy nut in her 2.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Would you trade all the struggles of your sex with the struggles of the opposite sex?Who do you think controls the access to sex in a marriage? Control the sex control the marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 03:22 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why are some of the men on PPD obsessed with single moms?I’d assume once you generally care about the woman, wouldn’t you want to build a life together with her kid? tl;dr: "Man up and marry those sluts. Sacrifice yourself for someone else's kids with no benefit to you" Completely the POV of a single mother who wants to get some new guy to raise her kid. Why should some guy bail her out and provide for a child that's 1. not his 2. may not accept him and 3. may not have legal rights to 4. have to compete with baby daddy and the baggage therein? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 03:08 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why are some of the men on PPD obsessed with single moms?lol Don't pretend baby rabies aren't a thing with women beyond all rationality or practical circumstance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 03:02 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why are some of the men on PPD obsessed with single moms?Infants. Murder INFANTS. Post-term abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 02:48 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why are some of the men on PPD obsessed with single moms?If they were strong for the kid the kid(s) wouldn't suck so bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 02:05 PM |
| 4 | [Q4All] Why are some of the men on PPD obsessed with single moms?It's certainly not, but let's continue heap praise upon them and celebrate their virtue across society while their bastard children fail across every known metric. One would think the child's poor outcomes become a disincentive at some point, but clearly not since the phenomenon continues to grow unabated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Wife Moving Out: An UpdateDude, she checked the fuck out and did it in a way that's abundantly clear...if you have any self respect you'll kill the puppy, take your lumps, and move on happier than ever before. Ignore her manipulative bullshit, keep your boundary like you're fighting to the death. Half the guys here telling you to terminate this shitshow have been in your shoes to some extent and have gotten over the whole "do i stay or go" bullshit, me included. Your future self will thank you. | /r/askMRP | 01/10/19 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Swoleshaming is Beta Male Behavior, not Female BehaviorCome on, considering the amount of time most people spend fingerfucking their phones, scrolling social media, watching mindless tv, etc etc etc you'd be annoyed by someone taking their health seriously for 4-6 hours a week? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Swoleshaming is Beta Male Behavior, not Female BehaviorWomen can be responsible for their own unfounded fears and concerns, no need for constant babying. And most of the time it's not about their concern for your own health and orthopedic well being, as most men who start to make gainz knows very well. Nice shaming language, btw. Throw out the "fragile" when it's about a man not kowtowing to a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/19 03:25 PM |
| 2 | What’s it come down to?She gave you a gift, congrats! Instead of typical woman-speak, she communicated rather directly about her intentions; rarely are women as overt about such things as she was. Plenty of men here had their SO texting "coworkers" and being cagey with their phones, nearly all of them ended up the same with her getting dicked down. You already know it's not right, and you'll soon realize it's worse than you think as you dig far enough. Kill the puppy and get into the sidebar. | /r/askMRP | 28/08/19 03:48 PM |
| 2 | men are in denialWhy would you hear of them lol are you that entrenched in MGTOW that you'd actually know anyone at all? TIL Poppy is a black mgtow man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 01:25 PM |
| 1 | men are in denialFreeport. Greg Adams. Warren Lance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 06:04 PM |
| 1 | How does the blue pill help men?there is a certain freedom to giving absolutely zero fucks about having to conform to a gender role. TRP misses how great a feeling that can be. Sure, if one doesn't care about maximizing his sexual success over the long term. The impasse comes when that freedom stops working to the individual's desired ends...and guys start going to google to figure it out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Wife Sending Selfies to Orbiter / ChadYou took a toy away from a child as punishment; meanwhile the child is still sitting next to a full toybox reaching in for the next toy to play with. You're so confused and retarded with the whole situation you punished yourself more so than her with locking up the ring. For all of your wailing and gnashing of teeth over the symbolism of the ring(restricted to your own head, mind you) she's over there worried about her image to her social circle. She sends here tits to some old fart, so you tell… | /r/askMRP | 20/08/19 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - August 13, 2019I like rougher sex, she's not interested in it at all. Are you asking her for permission ahead of time and/or does she object when you get too rough? An active objection to something you're doing is one thing, although I get the sense you're too timid in the moment to take what you want and actively defer to her needs, as evidenced in: Still not enough focused on my own pleasure. What would happen if you become 100% selfish during sex? All of it: rough/caveman, eye contact, intensity...what woul… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/08/19 07:50 PM |
| 5 | Online beta providerswithout even hopes of getting anything in return. They have plenty of hope she'll pick him from the crowd of thousands of other thirsty betas paying her for risque pics or whatever she's doing for money. Any random girl's insta comments have plenty of guys complimenting, asking questions, proposing...they damn well have a glimmer of hope she'll find them special. Do you think it's something that will continue for a long time? Yes, for as long as the legions of thirsty men have the hope some onli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Will manosphereans admit that toxic masculinity exists if we accept that it's partially caused by male biology?Lol you don't even get the argument right. Man up and raise that other guy's kids! You're fucking pathetic if you don't! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/19 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Gender War Part 1: Why Men Are LosingGood point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 08:46 PM |
| 0 | Gender War Part 1: Why Men Are LosingIt's not that surprising when "masculinity" and anything concerning "being a man" have become so diluted and left to interpretation the terms are essentially meaningless. Without a template for how boys can function within their biology it's no wonder some go haywire and think they're a girl or genderfluid or whatever since there's near zero actual masculine presence anywhere anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Gender War Part 1: Why Men Are LosingThere isn't a gender war. Just a relatively insignificant number of people who like to debate on the internet. Non-stop blathering about the "pay gap" made more annoying by the women's world cup, the Gillette commercial, initiatives in every single industry on the planet to recruit more women, oppressive air conditioning, non stop op-ed's and puff pieces re: man bad, woman good in the media, male privilege, toxic masculinity ...hardly a bunch of weirdos arguing on the internet. You don't even ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 08:29 PM |
| 5 | Gender War Part 1: Why Men Are LosingEven worse are those that blame baby boomers for everything. lol who do you think birthed and raised us? Millennials didn't give themselves participation trophies ffs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Gender War Part 1: Why Men Are LosingThe book Tribe by Sebastian Junger goes into detail about how men bond with eachother under hardship and duress, building community and camaraderie. Maybe they don't need a common enemy, per se, but a shared task/goal that is mildly difficult to achieve is extremely helpful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 08:14 PM |
| 9 | Are chores really such a huge fucking deal to couples?I have a hypothesis, 2 actually, beyond the very true attraction theory: Some women select for manchildren for some inexplicable reason, and then get angry the manchildren act like children. These women probably want to baby something prior to having an actual baby so they pick a man they need to treat like a baby, the novelty of which wears off quickly for obvious reasons. These same women are the ones screeching the loudest about housework and the husband not doing "enough". In our modern era … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 06:28 PM |
| 4 | Are men actually more obsessed with kids than women?I terminated a marriage over the issue of children; my ex wife thought it was a good idea in theory early on and that slowly devolved into excuse after excuse for inevitable delay along with a contrite, guilt fueled admission of getting semi-permanent birth control weeks after the fact while we were married. In short, she didn't want to be a mother, despite being fantastic with kids. That's ok for her, but not for me. We had other underlying issues to be addressed but it was useless trying to do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 04:48 PM |
| 1 | If men don't want to be dominated by their wife, they should help with the household chores moreBasic is a very fluid concept, with women's definition being well in excess of a man's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 04:24 PM |
| 1 | If men don't want to be dominated by their wife, they should help with the household chores moreThose women did a great job selecting men to marry, eh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 04:18 PM |
| 1 | If men don't want to be dominated by their wife, they should help with the household chores morewhy is it bad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 04:08 PM |
| 3 | If men don't want to be dominated by their wife, they should help with the household chores moreFunny, the men you're complaining about managed to stay alive and make themselves useful long enough for you women to show up and marry them. Not like women are all out there saving men from themselves by forcing him to put a ring on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 04:07 PM |
| 2 | If men don't want to be dominated by their wife, they should help with the household chores moreSo who's going to do the chores the women imposed on herself and the household for arbitrary reasons that add little practicality or value that nobody but her cares about fixed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Can women feel genuine attraction towards the safe bb?Men don't care if they're your best friend, they care if they are your lover. I have a best friend I don't care to fuck, as do most men. He's not my wife. I want to fuck my wife and be her lover. This is simple. And I posit women who have a self-proclaimed and widely advertised "best friend" husband also have a husband who wished they fucked more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Can women feel genuine attraction towards the safe bb?We're on a forum discussing sexual strategy and how people manage to fuck eachother, specifically on how men go about fucking women considering that's pretty much what the red pill actually is. Women on PPD or whatever seem to miss this very simple point, as are you, considering the men here are evaluating what you women say as indicators of desire and attraction. Since you nor most other women here can't fathom seeing the world through a man's eyes, we now are at an impasse in how to explain ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 03:54 PM |
| 4 | Can women feel genuine attraction towards the safe bb?And “he’s my best friend” communicates zero arousal. If I was describing my SO in these contexts I’d say “she’s hot” or something more charged than “I’m very much attracted” which sounds clinical and devoid of passion whatsoever. And what *is *that saying about me? Do tell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 08:53 PM |
| 2 | What do you think would happen if a group of women went on to live on a remote island?You don’t have sympathy for a man on deployment whose wife leaves him? Am I reading that correctly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 08:49 PM |
| 7 | Can women feel genuine attraction towards the safe bb?Endearment vs. arousal. They are not the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 07:52 PM |
| 5 | Discussion: The Reality of the Beta Bucks Sexr/marriageisbliss would entertain you. Consider: if a woman settled for said dutiful beta because he was the stable, safe bet then he's starting from less than zero. Everything he does needs to be an uphill climb to arouse his woman to the degree some hot chad fling would, and there is an extremely high likelihood he has no clue what to do or how to be sexy. Not to mention, this woman made a practical investment decision vs. one based on tingles and wetness along with probably having tried to lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 06:18 PM |
| 2 | On the topic of younger women, older men, and revenge fantasiesI'm assuming it's about dudes actually dating younger women, not merely talking about dating younger women. In the case of the latter, yes I agree with you lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 05:45 PM |
| 2 | What do you think would happen if a group of women went on to live on a remote island?That's the general purpose of the letter lol do you not know what it is? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dear_John_letter A writer in the Democrat and Chronicle of Rochester, New York, summed it up in August 1945: "Dear John," the letter began. "I have found someone else whom I think the world of. I think the only way out is for us to get a divorce," it said. They usually began like that, those letters that told of infidelity on the part of the wives of servicemen... The men called them "Dear John… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 05:37 PM |
| 2 | What do you think would happen if a group of women went on to live on a remote island?That doesn't even make sense. A guy, at war, in combat, somewhere across the world is going to go running off to bang some random broad and then FILE FOR DIVORCE BACK HOME while he's in combat???? Am i reading you right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Would you be OK being the "BB" choice? Why or why not?Trickle truths come out over time. You overhear little snippets from her talking to friends, or she'll share seemingly innocuous things that have an undercurrent of her sexual behavior, things like that. Also if her life revolves around alcohol it's likely she's a party girl and would go out crusing for dick regularly. You can tell if she's into you or not sexually when u bang if ur aware enough. Enthusiasm vs. starfish, whether she wants to actively please you, do things you like, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 05:22 PM |
| 2 | What do you think would happen if a group of women went on to live on a remote island?Irrelevant to my comment; we're discussing women left behind while the men went off to war. Was it not a common occurrence for men to get Dear John letters while deployed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 05:12 PM |
| 2 | What do you think would happen if a group of women went on to live on a remote island?Misogynistic as fuck Oh noes! Muh misogony! You got me good! Look at all male prisons vs all female prisons. You're seriously going to draw a parallel between a self governing island of individuals vs. locking people in cages with minimal autonomy while being overlorded and controlled by CO's under threat of force & violence? Try again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 05:10 PM |
| 4 | On the topic of younger women, older men, and revenge fantasiesI mostly see women looking out for the younger women in their lives, women who have been harassed by older men when they were kids, women poking fun at sugar daddies. I don't seem much jealousy. What women is trying to save the purity of the girl who her ex just ran off with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 02:48 PM |
| 11 | On the topic of younger women, older men, and revenge fantasiesIs jealousy really the main reason most of these women call older men creeps? What else could it possibly be? Reddit periodically has those "I divorced my husband of 15 years and now he's dating some 22 year old wtf" posts written by some angry broad who thought she could do better and he couldn't. The vitriol for the nubile young thing quickly follows: "rah rah daddy issues, broken abused woman! Why else would she be with an older man! UGH!" If that's not jealousy idk what is. By now I'm convin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 02:29 PM |
| 15 | Would you be OK being the "BB" choice? Why or why not?For those of us who actually lived being the safe, less risky choice...fuck no. Never again. 100% will end in a dead bedroom. Going forward: either she's crawling across broken glass to get to your dick or gtfo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 02:21 PM |
| 1 | What do you think would happen if a group of women went on to live on a remote island?since women are naturally more inclined to avoid conflict. lmao women aren't known for avoiding conflict; who do you think engages in more gossip, catty backstabbing, passive aggression, and so forth? Mean Girls was a docudrama, not fiction. The smartest women would design processes to resolve disputes and incentivize those below them to work collaboratively. 24 hours max before the bitchiness and subversion begins as the underlings band together to overthrow the queen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 02:14 PM |
| 1 | What do you think would happen if a group of women went on to live on a remote island?Getting on with things, ya, and sending your deployed man a Dear John letter since you got bored and started fucking the men who remained behind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 02:01 PM |
| 4 | Looking for advice for 'nice guy' kidsWhat are you doing to raise your son? | /r/askMRP | 07/08/19 02:27 PM |
| 1 | I hear a lot of people say that good stuff from Red Pill can be found elsewhere without all the bad. Where are people supposed to find these spread out resources?A relevant post for your question: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/27dzrm/men_are_not_happy/ Short answer to your question--which has been asked here repeatedly--is there isn't. Any time this question comes up folks trot out the oh gee well it's obvious and common sense hurr durr or the "Just read Mens Health bro", without the understanding the Red Pill advice isn't just some loosely glued together puzzle of random advice. A man's entire mental framework and narrative about women, r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?As smoogs said, you used the most uncharitable translations possible; much to the point of resembling nothing of the original text. You're projecting your own warped worldview on someone else's text. You have no rational basis for what you wrote above other than "I FEEL it isn't as written". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: WTF do BluePill women actually believe?Holy projection, batman! You couldn't strawman harder if you tried. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Trying to progress with sleep issuesHad the same problem for years and have it mostly fixed now. Try: Highly bioavailable magnesium chelate: glycinate or asparate. Also Natural Calm which is widely available. CBD oil was a gamechanger. Find a quality one and work it in slowly. Fix the underlying issues you have...the rumination is all mental and indicates something else in your life is way off. This is obvious, but identifying and fixing that problem is the key. Switch out your lightbulbs in your room to a no-blue light emitting b… | /r/askMRP | 29/07/19 01:48 PM |
| 1 | What's the reddest and bluest thing you believe?it appears he increases his own value for a lower value woman FOR her...that's the wrong framework. My example was a dramatic example of a man operating under his wife's frame...he adjusts himself to her expectations or permissions instead of doing things for himself for no other reason than he wants to. A man should--should--increase his own value for his own sake whether his wife wants him to or not, nor whether she follows suit or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 08:34 PM |
| 1 | What's the reddest and bluest thing you believe?Why should he let his own health and well being be dictated by her? His self worth should--SHOULD-- be internally generated. Most men are not thus your point would generally true. If my wife would let me be a 300lb diabetic lardass, should I do it because I can? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | What's the reddest and bluest thing you believe?if the man has significantly dropped in quality since the beginning of the relationships, that can be te cause of the dead bedroom. bingo. I don't know why a man should fix himself for a wife that does not fix herself His own pride and self worth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 06:11 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Update- on main events and how far I have yet to goIf I analyze it I think where I miss the mark is I'm still a drunk captain when it comes to overall vision. It could be that simple. If you're having your epiphany and taking your life in a different direction she may be feeling lost and not know her place. You're in effect blowing up her entire worldview. I forget where I read it recently here but it was something about providing a narrative for her to buy into which replaces the old narrative she operated under. You provide the vision/narrativ… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/07/19 06:01 PM |
| 1 | What's the reddest and bluest thing you believe?Get lean, put on some muscle, dress better, learn how to game his wife, stop being spineless, establish healthy boundaries. What is risky about that? If only there was somewhere on the internet that told men to do that...hmmmm... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 05:52 PM |
| 1 | What's the reddest and bluest thing you believe?We're not talking about cheating, we're talking about her respect for him as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 05:48 PM |
| 2 | What's the reddest and bluest thing you believe?He can wordsmith all he wants, effective communication takes two to be honest with eachother and I highly doubt the wife knows specifically why she's dry nor can articulate it. Wake me up when any wife's answer to #2 is "lose weight, get jacked, and stop being a spineless manchild". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 05:47 PM |
| 1 | What's the reddest and bluest thing you believe?It's entire possible for a wife to have respect for her husband beyond sex, and that respect can be eroded by his groveling about sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 05:45 PM |
| 1 | What's the reddest and bluest thing you believe?TIL respect = "nothing" It's possible for someone to continue losing respect for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 05:32 PM |
| 1 | What's the reddest and bluest thing you believe?I agree with you re: communication effectiveness. Although, I can't think of how a conversation around "we aren't fucking" doesn't come off as whiny or complaining somehow. rus9384 thinks its "common sense" communication fixes a dead bedroom. Well, no, being more attractive does...which is what all the "communicate more" people completely miss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 05:30 PM |
| 1 | What's the reddest and bluest thing you believe?It's possible for one to keep digging the hole deeper; you can always look like more of a pathetic, whiny loser to one's wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Leftists and the male sex.also who gives a shit. Women who want to date economically successful men and not unsuccessful ones, and men who want to date at all, that's who gives a shit. As the argument goes: Women want to absolve themselves of traditional gender roles (feminism) while they concurrently hold men to their traditional gender roles in terms of dating and mate selection. If nobody wanted to date or bang or have kids, nobody would give a shit...but both men and women want to date, bang, and have kids. But overa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 04:13 PM |
| 6 | What's the reddest and bluest thing you believe?Blue: we can choose to not be shitty Considering the levels of vitriol, invalidation, and overall shittiness of "blue pill" people here and elsewhere I'd disagree they choose at all to not be shitty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 03:47 PM |
| 2 | What's the reddest and bluest thing you believe?I like to think many people would try communication first really, and decide what to do from there. Everyone tries communication first since it's the default advice given everywhere. If it's something external like general life stress yea maybe that can recalibrate sexytime. If it's something deeper (which is almost always is) then talking about either 1. has a temporary bump then reverting back to the mean 2. does nothing and/or 3. makes it worse. Talking about not fucking is not arousing no ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 03:45 PM |
| 4 | What's the reddest and bluest thing you believe?Because many red men tried it, tried it over a long period of time, and failed miserably. Communication doesn't change deep rooted unattractive behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Rollo Was Right...Yawn. You found the ragebait and it fulfilled its purpose, you raged. The better venue would be the main TRP or MGTOW sub where they can bite on the ragebait and screech endlessly over the culture war. Pick any lefty commentary outlet- Vox, Slate, The Atlantic, The Guardian, all the way to NYT/WaPo, et al and you'll be inundated with this garbage beyond some one-off batshit broad complaining. Play TRP/Rollo Bingo all day long on the content: solipsism, AFC/white knight apologists, open hypergamy… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/07/19 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Why do people despise MGTOW?Do you apply that exact standard to other so-called victimized populations? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/19 02:26 PM |
| 5 | Confirmed my LTR has been cheatingDo you really think you need steps to start putting yourself first? Are you an autonomous human being or can you not function without input from others? Read the last sentence of your post ffs. | /r/askMRP | 02/07/19 02:12 PM |
| 5 | Could you help me?Stop letting a woman define you as a man. | /r/askMRP | 01/07/19 02:33 PM |
| 19 | Q4M: Why do you worry about all of the TRP stuff? If you follow the basic rules of getting lean, getting a career, and getting your shit together, you will be fine --- almost regardless of your personality."Hope" is not a successful strategy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/19 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Unmarried 35-year-old woman reflects on her adventurous life of fun & travel : "This woman’s .. life plan is that she chose whatever made her feel good from age 18-35+, and now wants to enter into a marriage..."I noticed that she had no interest in letting a man lead her Hate to break it to you, but most men can't lead. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/19 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Unmarried 35-year-old woman reflects on her adventurous life of fun & travel : "This woman’s .. life plan is that she chose whatever made her feel good from age 18-35+, and now wants to enter into a marriage..."So, who are the men in this group of marriage-minded men? How do you recognize them? Marriage-minded men are interested in marriage because they want to lead a home. They will have invested a lot of time learning how to protect others, how to provide, and how to debate and lead on moral and spiritual issues. Marriage-minded men see the marriage enterprise as a way of advancing the causes that they care about most. Dare I say this is typical tradcon delusion. The "marriage minded men" are the sam… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/19 04:22 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill can cause anxiety, fear, and paranoiait created a wedge between myself and women lol words on a screen on an obscure subreddit forced itself between you and women, OK. Same as when people say "you manipulated me!"...no, you allowed yourself to be manipulated. You couldn't handle having your pedestrianized worldview of women challenged; it made you uncomfortable so you shut down. I started seeing the lead guys do conventions and walk around with shirts saying “Make Women Great Again.” Congrats, you can't tell the difference between … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/19 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Question about Christian womenSo called "christian" women are all about staying true to the faith until it become inconvenient and the rules don't work for their intended behavior. Not hard to find devout christians who are complete and utter assholes and degenerates. Living a marriage by some externally imposed moral framework only works if both the man and women stay true to the framework; and if your woman is not as devout as you or conveniently changes her mind on a whim you're fucked. The ultimate covert contract, if yo… | /r/askMRP | 21/06/19 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Strategic Thinking Help Needed – Boundary Violation ConsequencesIncrease my value to her.... This is the right answer in my heart. Obligatory "ur in her frame faggot!" Bla bla bla Mental Point of Origin bla bla bla. In this entire thread you keep missing the underlying point of self respect and self validation being of primary importance above EVERYTHING ELSE, and the "-for her" is instructive you're solely focused on getting precious horse princess to give you some sliver attention and approval so you can feel worthwhile. You have a near zero sense of self,… | /r/askMRP | 17/06/19 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Bumps in the roadBasic WISNIFG would probably help you on all fronts; her meltdown about the HELOC is telegraphing something more, whether it be financial insecurity or just not feeling included as others mentioned. Use the damn tools, ffs, negative inquiry and fogging would have worked nicely in . Yea, STFU is good for stopping yourself from engaging like a retard but you're coming off as dismissive and autistic. I don't understand, what's wrong with using the HELOC? You're right, it is late and the kids will p… | /r/askMRP | 07/06/19 01:49 PM |
| 3 | FR: Losing My ReligionA social club that centers around money...He was very unlike many of the people you encounter in church, today. That was a particularly hard pill for me to swallow; as with everything else reality doesn't align with high minded ideals delivered as infallible truth and once you see it you can't unsee it. And people wonder why church attendance is dropping and young folks in particular are refusing to participate. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/06/19 08:36 PM |
| 2 | FR: Losing My ReligionThat's value added information. No, it's your own moralizing so you can feel better about yourself. Signal your virtue elsewhere. Guess what, the LDS or the Catholics or whomever can continue to dupe their men into following the one true way and those men will still end up here because their wives won't fuck them. Now, if you have a nice Christ Church approved template to make panties wet again...that's value add. Since you certainly don't, we're not interested. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/06/19 08:03 PM |
| 3 | FR: Losing My ReligionMind the plank in your own eye before concerning yourself with the speck in ours. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/06/19 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Why You Should Never Get MarriedSure, encourage her to go to the gym...get that midsection flatand ass nice and perky. She might ask for fake tits...go ahead and buy her those, supportive husband you. You'll quickly find how that all works. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/19 01:04 PM |
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