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Man I'm sure a little neck stubble is totally fine. As long as it's not long and gross. Even so, looks are secondary to confidence and strong action to women so I wouldn't worry too much
/r/seduction04/01/19 05:34 AM
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I mean Starbucks works. Try experimenting with what places you try in your city. Your city may be too small too, and you may consider moving
/r/seduction04/01/19 04:50 AM
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Memphis, TN. I prefer daygame on the streets, but I can't do that here cause this city is so dangerous and everyone is guarded. Also, I don't feel safe going downtown alone at night so that's why I started focusing on coffee shops.
/r/seduction04/01/19 04:48 AM
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I'm sure that works. Especially if you're already sitting near her and you are direct with your body language, like you said. I think direct is better if you're walking up to her from the other side of the shop which is probably more likely
/r/seduction04/01/19 04:15 AM
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That's awesome feedback :) thanks
/r/seduction03/01/19 11:12 PM
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Move fast. Spend as little time talking before making your moves. It's fine to wanna make her your lover that date, but if she stops you, then you need to stop as well. Girls will respect you for moving fast and bold, but will respect you even more if you are able to stop when she stops you without whining or begging about it.
/r/seduction21/12/18 07:40 PM
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Try coffee shops. Girls are usually bored with their studying there and receptive to a guy approaching and saving them from their boring schoolwork. Plus it's a cool and sexy environment
/r/seduction21/12/18 07:26 PM
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While I think it's good to practice outside of school, you shouldn't be afraid to try in school. If you're scared of messing up with this golden opportunity you have to meet girls called high school, then you probably wont be good with random girls either. Random girls are tougher because they will reject you faster because no social ties. Girls wanna meet guys in their social circle.
/r/seduction21/12/18 07:22 PM
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Hey 😉 (totally not a guy)
/r/seduction06/12/18 05:32 AM
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Dont throw away your money on them. If it ain't working normally, it wont help you to much to lose money too
/r/seduction06/12/18 05:31 AM
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TELL HER YOU LIKE HER!!! A fair warning, you will likely get rejected because you have waited a really long time....but it feels so much better to express your feelings. Furthermore, she might actually say she likes you back!
/r/seduction06/12/18 01:52 AM
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Lol girls don't care that much about looks. It's amazing how many tall, handsome men sit around orbiting women and never get anything besides friendzoned. While the short, ugly aggressive guys gets the sex and relationships because they just go for it
/r/seduction06/12/18 01:49 AM
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The best way to learn is to be yourself. Example: if you are too nice to her and she gets turned off and leaves you for it, I promise you you will not feel as nice the next time you are in a similar situation. It's important to trust your own instincts and your intuition's ability to grow in response to feedback. Let yourself fail in order to grow
/r/seduction06/12/18 01:46 AM
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Imagine the difference of a guy DMing a girl on her IG after liking a few of her posts vs. a random guy who cold approaches her on the streets. The guy in real life is 100x cooler
/r/seduction30/11/18 04:27 AM
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It does if you're truly willing to do tons and tons of approaches and accept brutal feedback from them
/r/seduction27/11/18 11:53 PM
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No. Never return unless you want a swiping headache and less attractive girls
/r/seduction27/11/18 04:06 AM
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Act soon. Figure out the details later. If you're honest with her about your situation you may be able to find ways to make it work. No car and money is an obstacle but not one that can't be overcome with creativity
/r/seduction27/11/18 02:58 AM
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Replace Tinder with cold approaches! There will be a lonely learning curve for a little bit, but with persistence you can overcome it and meet awesome girls and feel like a badass at the same time
/r/seduction27/11/18 02:45 AM
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You're doing it right. Direct is good and many guys aren't man enough to do it. She should feel a little uncomfortable because sexual tension is a little uncomfortable by nature
/r/seduction27/11/18 02:36 AM
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Sasha Daygame. But honestly The Natural Lifestyles is the best imo. Hard to beat what they offer
/r/seduction27/11/18 12:37 AM
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Practice daygame at your university. Tons of hot girls walking around on campus in a great open minded environment.
/r/seduction26/11/18 05:46 PM
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Honesty and vulnerability are way sexier than whatever games you are trying to play with her
/r/seduction26/11/18 06:41 AM
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Your fear is pretty understandable. But just go for it man. The reality is that if she rejects a kiss or your grab her tits and she's not cool with it, she'll just brush you off. She wont call the cops or anything. That'll only happen if it's a random girl on the streets in an ally or something
/r/seduction26/11/18 06:31 AM
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yes
/r/seduction26/11/18 06:28 AM
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Make it happen Romeo
/r/seduction26/11/18 06:26 AM
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Yes tell her your feelings or risk living the rest of your life with the regret of never knowing what could have happened. Fair warning though, you sound friend zoned. My bet is that she will reject you, but rejection is 10× better than hiding your feelings and your own manhood. I had a friend tell a girl his feelings and then she shot him down. Then a month later they were out and she started making out with him because he was man enough to show his feelings.
/r/seduction26/11/18 06:24 AM
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Stop calling it a set. Are you trying to pickup all of the girls at the same time or are you trying to entertain all of them? You should focus on exactly 1 girl at a time if you approach a group, and every girl in the group should know it. Only talk to the other girls so the girl you are talking to will feel comfortable that you are cool with her friends.
/r/seduction26/11/18 06:11 AM
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Coffee shops for days man! Stay inside and just meet them there. They tend to be pretty receptive inside at coffee shops
/r/seduction26/11/18 06:05 AM
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I've found it takes about 15 - 20 cold approaches to get a date for me. I'm not terrible at it either. Obviously that number varies, but I think that's a good expectation of the work volume here.
/r/seduction26/11/18 05:57 AM
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Sounds like you've got decent fundamentals, but you need to push a little harder. I know it sucks. Maybe try daygame. Meet girls in coffee shops, they're actually usually pretty receptive to it. You probably just need more approach volume. Also, try studying. YouTube channels like The Natural Lifestyles and Simple Pickup are enlightening. Books like The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene help too
/r/seduction26/11/18 05:45 AM
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Dont do that man. Get coffee instead. $10
/r/seduction26/11/18 05:33 AM
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Escalate on your first dates! Did you try to take any of them back to your place? Did you try to have sex with any of them on the first date? If not, then you're probably moving too slow and they probably got bored with you
/r/seduction26/11/18 05:32 AM
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I'm very introverted myself and have started relationships by approaching random women in coffee shops. It's a good environment for an introvert and women are surprisingly receptive to it. It takes balls, but that's what it requires to leave online dating
/r/seduction26/11/18 05:17 AM
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The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene Models by Mark Manson Reading will help steer you in the right direction and build confidence, but real power with women will only come from hard work approaching and tons of failures. It will take time to build yourself up to that. Goodluck on your journey!
/r/seduction26/11/18 05:09 AM
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The questions and okay to a point, HOWEVER, once you've built enough rapport with questions you need to pull her. And you need to pull her fast - usually less than an hour. Ask her to go for a walk and hold her hand or to go back to your place. The excitement died because you didn't escalate.
/r/seduction26/11/18 04:55 AM
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Hey man, I watched one of your videos on going out solo, and it seems like you're the real deal. I've been practicing daygame for awhile which I find much easier and more controllable, but I'm not quite getting the results I'm looking for. Good video on nightgame. I will have to find the courage to start working as hard as you have.
/r/seduction20/10/18 12:26 AM
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Double agree with this guy. You should have had sex with her if you spent 4 hours together!!
/r/seduction13/10/18 02:53 PM
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Maybe I'm in the wrong place for this, but can we maybe admit it's easier to be an attractive guy than a fat girl?
/r/MGTOW27/07/18 04:55 PM
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Act like it was totally cool, and that it didn't affect you. Then, try again later after you've built more sexual tension. How cool you react when she rejects you will be a gauge for her on what kind of man you are.
/r/seduction26/07/18 12:30 AM
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Really appreciate the advice and understanding as a Memphian. Yea. I really hate online dating, but results are results. What are the 2 rules for online dating?
/r/seduction25/07/18 10:06 PM
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coffee shops
/r/seduction25/07/18 06:20 PM
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One daily cold approach. Go up to a girl every day and say "Hey, I'm not selling you anything, I just think you're beautiful and thought I should come talk to you."
/r/seduction25/07/18 06:13 PM
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My advice would be to not get wrapped up in the technical side of this sub until you really start feeling it for yourself. It took me hundreds of approaches and failures to have a decent understanding of women's nature. No, they're actually not all horrible people, but you're very likely to get left, hurt, or used if you're a little beta bitch nice guy. Approach, experiment, and just be around as many girls as possible. You'll probably get to the point where you're just tired of their shit - bec…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 08:40 PM
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You're right that I'm not getting the results that I want. But how much improving do I really need to do to find a good girlfriend? I'm really not trying to bang a bunch of girls. I think I have solid fundamentals so don't you think it's more a function of approach volume and patience rather than super improving my game?
/r/seduction10/07/18 03:07 AM
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Man, you are SO YOUNG. Way too young to give up. You can literally change your body into Hulk Hogan, become a master seducer and have a 2 year old child before you're even 40. If you were 55, I'd be like yea okay maybe focus on science or something. But you're 26. Men like you have designed nuclear bombs, led revolutions, and become Olympic athletes. YOU CAN BECOME A MAN WHO CAN GET A DATE, SIR
/r/seduction09/07/18 05:40 PM
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There's probably some truth in what you're saying, but it's not like I'm giving up on the game. I get results, but my goal is to be in a relationship with an awesome girl which takes patience. One approach every day is a pretty tough task that I'm committed to keeping. I'm trying to look at dating as more of a marathon than a daily sprint. I have to keep myself happy in the process and not rely on girls to provide that happiness for me because they often don't.
/r/seduction09/07/18 02:18 PM
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I don't want you to misinterpret my post as giving up on girls or living a life without women. I don't think think men can truly live a full life without regular interaction with women. My post is more about finding balance in myself in relating to women. Very few things will energize you and make you feel awesome about yourself like approaching a beautiful girl and have her give you the time of day even for a minute or two. Women will inspire you to seek self improvement because we evolved toge…
/r/seduction09/07/18 02:07 PM
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I went on a few dates with a beautiful and really cool girl from church. Things ended because I told her that I believed in God but didn't literally believe Jesus was also God. Yea you can get dates, but it's more important that you're a serious Christian rather than having "game".
/r/seduction06/07/18 05:29 PM
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Also, try going to a big church with young adult programs. I went to one with some beautiful young women looking for Christian men to start a life with. You dont have to be a master seducer to make that scenario work, just be a serious Christian and have the balls to ask her out. (Might have to wait to marriage for sex if you go that route which is fine for some guys).
/r/seduction06/07/18 05:18 PM
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You should've responded with "I'm hitting on you..what's your name?" If she leaves , then you never had a chance anyway. If she stays, you control a really dominant and sexy frame. If you're hitting on a girl, own it. If you're not, then it doesn't really matter then does it?
/r/seduction25/06/18 08:46 PM
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