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I stopped caring too much about four months ago. A few LSD and mushroom trios made me realize that my life is satisfying with or without women. But I'm still a bit angry that I don't get to experience what others get to experience.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 05:50 PM
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So have a sloppy look? That could be the problem. I guess with the way I dress and cut my hair I market myself as boyfriend material.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 11:34 PM
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Well as I said I'm a powerlifter so I can't avoid my lower body. I compete at 145 lbs, though I'm bulking atm to 160 lbs and training there to get strength.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 06:18 PM
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My face is average, not nearly good enough to compensate for my height.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 01:36 PM
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I tried Tinder and got no matches for a month. So either I'm also ugly or there's something else wrong.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 01:33 PM
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Where I live there are mostly tall white girls. Average girl here is 5'6". It's actually rare to find a 5'1" girl here. Also most girls are looking for a country dude and I'm not white.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 01:32 PM
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I only went for shorter girls. And why would a shrter girl not also go for a "real man" herself?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 01:28 PM
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I'll give it a try next semester.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 04:43 AM
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What you're asking me to do is risky. The last time a guy did that on campus he was arrested and told never to come near the campus.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 04:26 AM
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Currently zero since I'm on break in a typical semester I talk to maybe two or three that I want to fuck.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 04:17 AM
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I always hear about these magical short guys who for some reason defy all odds and sleep with many girls. I know a lot of other short dudes. Many of them are either virgins like I am, some have only been in one relationship their whole lives and a few do sleep around if they only target fat girls. I've never met a man who is my height or shorter sleep around with decent women. The minimum height to do that is 5'8" and you better be built like a truck and have a top tier face.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 01:51 AM
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Alpha is about being seen as traditionally masculine, a leader of men. My being the same height as your average woman makes it really hard to be seen as traditionally masculine, by both women and men. Very few people take short people seriously. Even after demonstrating strength or winning a kickboxing match, I get the good old, "You're pretty strong/you're a good fighter, for a little guy." The end statement is always there to remind me of my place in society. People don't like others who are s…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 01:49 AM
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Without a shit ton of wealth and social status, a man who is barely the same size if your average woman is not going to be seen as alpha by anyone.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 01:46 AM
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If he's tall he doesn't need to lift to become top 80%
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 01:44 AM
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Any higher than 160 lbs and I'm just fat at my height. Of course girls would like you more if you're 6 ft and heavy.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 01:38 AM
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Have you tried beta game after your transformation? What is beta game? Is that just befriending a girl and hoping it transitions into a relationship? Are you talking to women plenty? I mostly talk with women I meet from friends, from kickboxing or from class. Haven't asked out too many women because I don't get much IoIs, and I can't really flirt with someone who isn't at least willing to accept some of it.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 10:12 PM
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How tall are you? The thing with lifting is that it helps tall guys the most. The women who are into muscular guys are likely to just be into masculine guys in general. Height is a masculine trait. If you tower over men you're going to be masculine and wanted by those women. The problem is that there aren't a lot of tall, actually muscular guys so the muscular and tall guys get their pick. Until I can change my height, my feet will never get in the door to most women. On my campus, the average w…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 10:00 PM
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Yeah I'm a kissless virgin. You can't be alpha and 5'5".
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 09:56 PM
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Exactly how much does lifting weights improve your chances with women? I've been doing it for two years now at 5'5", 140 lbs 11% bodyfat. My lifts are currently: Squat: 335 lbs. Bench (paused): 245 lbs. Deadlift: 415 lbs. I mean those are alright for someone my size, but then again women aren't really lining up to sleep with a jacked midget.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 09:48 PM
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Doesn't matter, as long as you're 6ft and white you have 80% of the dating pool at your disposal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 11:34 PM
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Are you a tall white guy? That's probably why.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 11:31 PM
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Not sure if you go to a gym or not, but if you do then pay attention to one of those thicc girls. They will routinely get approach by a non-white dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 11:26 PM
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too bad several are illegal. That's why you don't tell a soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 11:11 PM
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I'm a lower middle class ethnic male, I think she is the perfect weight and has great proportions. Make of that what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 10:17 PM
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I have a couple of white girl friends who not only have an hourglass shape but are pretty thick there as well. I meet them at the gym. They just do strength training and stay at a heavier weight. One of those friends is 5'7", 150 lbs, but she wears it really well since she's at around 20% bodyfat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 10:11 PM
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I've seen plenty of white women with very decent hips.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 10:03 PM
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Fat maybe to white guys but for ethnic and black guys her body is a thing of perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 09:54 PM
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You're telling me these women have a disadvantage in the SMP?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 09:36 PM
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I've only ever been attracted to girls that were either really slutty or looked really slutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 08:35 PM
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Well for me it's my last year to experience life as a student before I'm thrown away to the real world, so it's significant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 04:24 PM
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Let's recap 2017... January and February: Major depression. March: My first LSD trip, didn't drastically affect things but opened my mind up to psychedelics. April: Finally became stronger than 80% of men in my weight class, so the gym work paid off. May-July: Spring and Summer classes, major depression, and some hiking trips here and there. August: Started work at a liquor store that I promptly quit, but this introduced me to drinking. September to mid-October: My first powerlifting meet happen…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 04:23 PM
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Arabic Chad: Shahid Zib al-Majeed. Literally translates to Witness, (Owner of) the Cock of Magnificence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 10:22 AM
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People are uncomfortable with the idea that their fates are not directly tied to their own actions, especially here in the West where fatalism is frowned upon and freewill is seen as a law of nature. Many outcomes in life are outside of one's control. Had Bill Gates been born even one state away, he wouldn't have become the billionaire he was today. Had many football players or basketball players never been born with the proper genetics to play, they would have never had the chance to become pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 04:46 AM
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Hey dude, how's it going?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 04:25 AM
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It seems to be half and half. For every girl that sticks to her religious belief, there's another one facing and identity crisis or abandoning it. You just don't see her because she knows she has to keep it secret. I'm part of the Muslim immigrant community in the West so I know a lot about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 11:04 PM
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Because they don't know any better, the majority of them. I was also happier before I realized how unattractive my height made me to women. Ignorance is bliss.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 10:46 PM
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I knew girls who were raised in the Middle East who came to the West once they matured, and they still chose to forgo traditional relationships in favour of what Western women get to experience. It's not a guarantee.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 10:42 PM
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Being your average white woman living in the West is life on easy mode. Why would they want that to be taken away from them?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 10:38 PM
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Only if she were also raised in an isolated Amish community. No girl can evade the lure of freedom, attention, validation, beta orbiters and hot Chads that you can find in the West without strong willpower.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 10:32 PM
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Womem don't need beta bucks anymore since they can earn their own money nowadays. Even if they want to whore out for money, women can earn a decent living through nude Web cam shows, selling panties or doing porn. I don't think any woman would be willing to marry a man solely because of his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 10:01 PM
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Whats UMC?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 08:55 PM
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Hey I go in there from time to time. Where else do you think I get my weed?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 08:51 PM
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No woman will ever say this, but if I feel like a woman resents my company with her, then I wouldn't want to date her. Happened before. A girl friend of mine used to never imagine being in a relationship with me. She then blew up 30 lbs and suddenly she wants to take our friendship further (she has been single for a while after blowing up). I rejected her, because I knew that I wouldn't even be on her radar if she were more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 08:43 PM
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It makes me think of the slutty girls that life in townhouses in that sketchy part of my neighborhood
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 08:19 PM
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Usually 16 year old girls will date 18-22 year old guys because they tend to have drivers licenses, a car and access to alcohol and cigarettes. But we're talking about gutter trash women here. I've never known a normal woman that dated a guy outside of highschool when she is 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 07:17 PM
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Fucking lol, not even close. Most tall women get enough suitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 04:38 AM
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Who cares about discussing sexual strategy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 05:06 AM
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I can see how not developing good coping mechanisms or a proper personality can hurt in the long run. In my experience though, I find that attractive women often realize that they have this advantage and are insecure about losing it, so they double down and work on other aspects of their life so that they have something to hold on to once their looks are gone. The smart ones at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 04:52 AM
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Thanks for sharing your experiences. Man, criteria have changed so much in the past 10-15 years. What was it like a couple years ago? I'm 20 so I don't know what the trend was at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 04:44 AM
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She also has low self-esteem for some reason. She believes people don't like being around her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 04:43 AM
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I'm talking about a specific subset of women, not just two specific ones. I want to know if their experiences mirror the experiences of other women like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 04:41 AM
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I think the main divide is the attention one gets just from being born the way they are, versus the attention one gets for having resources. That's different. I mean don't get me wrong, there are a lot of downsides to having unwanted guy attention and superficial friendships. I guess I'm coming from a position where attractive women can easily get the one thing I can't get, which is a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 11:55 PM
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If they are actually smart though, does it even matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 11:50 PM
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It only counts if the attention comes from my being sexually attractive, not from the resources I provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 11:47 PM
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based on the situations you described... men only want a piece of you, women hate you or want nothing to do with you. Well yeah for the first girl I mentioned her life is pretty lonely like that. Her only girl friends are my sister (who didn't treat her like a bitch) and some other girls in highschool. Guys will often try flirting with her. Even her boyfriend just likes her because she's hot (honestly though, she doesn't have much else going for her). She prefers spending time with her cats. not…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 11:46 PM
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Diet, exercise and hygiene can leave you at the same attractiveness rating that you had in your 20s. But if you weren't attractive to begin with, it means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 11:37 PM
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How many guys hit on you (or used to hit on you when you were younger)? These two girls get guys hitting on them daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 11:36 PM
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Explain the lonely, empty and annoying part.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 11:34 PM
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You mean guys who aren't attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 11:34 PM
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Yeah all in all, being an attractive man is better than being an attractive woman, because attractive men are even rarer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 11:29 PM
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Everybody assumes you always get everything you want and resent you for it. Has that affected your standing with some friends or relationships in any way? And do you find you actually get everything you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 11:29 PM
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I think attractive individuals have a greater chance of living an easy and carefree life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 11:28 PM
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Came to this thread expecting to have my hopes raised. Saw that most women are around 5ft-5'4 and have only slept with men who were 6 ft +. Left disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 10:37 PM
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