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| – | How do women know what about personality turns them on?do you never experience a surge of attraction for a person who does something that represents their character? No. That's dumb | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 12:25 AM |
| 0 | Having women as friend makes your dating life significantly easier as a manI am under 6 foot tall and make less than 90k a year, also I have a pretty average face. You make it seem like thats a death sentence . Most people make 40k a year. As long as you aren't like fucking under 5'6 you aren't in women's unlovable zone. Beyond that having an average face is whatever. You dont need to be the hottest guy in the world. You need to be facially aesthetically pleasing in relationship to those in your immediate sphere. So all this in mind, you were fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Women care about personality but only if they know you for some timeI'll say it again. If you find the majority of women more attractive than men, you are a closeted lesbian lol. The logic you used above applies in reverse. Okay? Use your brain next time. Don't make me repeat myself 😮💨 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Women care about personality but only if they know you for some timeHave some self awareness lol. The logic applies to you in reverse you closet case. Jeez I know the people on this subreddit aren't the brightest creatures but cmon 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 06:07 PM |
| 5 | Having women as friend makes your dating life significantly easier as a manPutting the cart before the horse big dawg. You were already a decent enough looking guy (in comparison to the women who orbit you). This in turn allowed you to cultivate a following that snowballed from there. If you were an uggo, they'd avoid you like the plague and only talk to you out of pity or mandate. Women are human and humans don't like looking at ugly things longer than necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/26 05:42 PM |
| 5 | "Some men aren't given the opportunity to show off their personality" is a victim narrative myth and a red flag.You say this until some ugly bitch gets on her soap box and starts whining how "men don't even want to talk to/hear from us ugly women". Then its suddenly a real pressing matter. Cmon get real lol. Its obvious nobody wants to talk to ugly people male or female. You don't have to hide it. We don't have to play this game of "the vibes weren't right". They were just an eyesore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 11:09 PM |
| 1 | The reason why a lot of men are struggling is because they do not want to date at their level. Below average men should date below average women. If you want better be better. Why are you asking another person to lower their standards for you, when you wont lower your standards?A fat woman, regardless of face, is below average. You're doing the exact thing the other guy is criticizing. You're hyping up a badly built woman to be on the same level as the average man.When in actuality she is below him by a wide margin. Being a fat ass supersedes anything else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 09:55 PM |
| 3 | why aren’t men happier about the fact that they can improve themselves to be more likeable to women?Can it though? Sorry to say most men are natural born bottom-feeders who are desperate for anything. Do you not see them every day in this sub or in real life? Saying stupidity like they'll take anything? Then proceeding to chase any and all women? They're like dogs. They'll go so far as to hump the leg of any fat and or ugly woman. I guess in their depraved minds its better to be loved than not at all. Regardless they can't be helped. So the ball will forever more be in womankind's court. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 09:31 PM |
| 5 | why aren’t men happier about the fact that they can improve themselves to be more likeable to women?The reasoning why is of no concern, the fact remains. Romantically speaking, women can do nothing and succeed just fine. Just sit on your hands as always. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 08:50 PM |
| 1 | It’s not that women having inflated egos. It’s just a lot of guys underestimate a woman’s worth in the dating market.Nah their egos are massive especially the mediocre women. The 4, 5, and light 6s of the world really dont know their place in it all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 07:49 PM |
| 2 | how interest are you about what men like?I mean you right about most women being too fat to be considered attractive and wanting a provider being a turn off. The financially independent is a plus even if some idiot men dont know it. Along with only nonces caring about whether she's over 26. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 09:57 PM |
| 0 | how interest are you about what men like?Well ok, for one thing let's not act like you or any woman were gonna change yourself for a man lol. No harm no foul here. Beyond that don't take what I said as a slight. I respect the game. If I had the romantic ability to, I'd also sit on my hands and do nothing like women do. Just letting things happen and it working out? That's cool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 05:28 AM |
| -1 | how interest are you about what men like?What a silly question. Women dont do anything in relationships much less change themselves lol. They have too many options for them to cater to men or self reflect on what they do wrong in their strategy. Those are foreign concepts to them. Why do you think women's main dating advice is "it'll happen when you least expect it"? Well it ain't because its theyre thinking about pleasing and trying for men that's for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 03:10 AM |
| 5 | Men not wanting to pay for the date indicates lack of interest and low aggreeablenessTranslation: "I need men to be suckers and just do as I say." You didn't need 3 paragraphs for this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Social media represents how people feel insindeHmm you're half way right. Yes social media can be like a diary with all of people's stupid thoughts. However the majority of the time social media is just a bot circlejerk. Bots engagement farming off outrages and other bots boosting them. Twitter/X Facebook/Meta and Reddit are the biggest examples of this. The internet has been dead since 2016. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 12:54 PM |
| 3 | If you haven’t dated in the last 10-15 yrs you shouldn’t be giving dating adviceI agree. Why are these 35+ year old women on this sub talking? These dinos dont know its not the stone age anymore. It explains why all their advice is basically some variation of sit around and do nothing. Thats how they got into all their relationships. As for the old fart men their advice is always some pathetic variation of doing tricks and flips to impress some woman with middling looks. They are in fact grateful of any modicum of pussy that comes their way. Both group are annoying and both… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/26 08:08 PM |
| – | Most men are homoromantic heterosexuals, and most women are heteroromantic homosexuals.Noticing a significant number of women going, "men being homoromantic makes sense but I disagree about women being sexual lesbians". Jfc all women do on this sub is lick their own pussy to make themselves feel superior 😭. How do you guys converse with them daily? I would've got bored of their naval gazing. Anyway my thoughts are this is probably true but I think its not the majority of people. I believe these mindsets occur most in people who either hate the opposite sex and or idolize their own… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 03:52 PM |
| 26 | People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affectionI mean prime is once again relative. His prime just might be a consistent plateau of sexlessness 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 01:22 AM |
| 24 | People are frustrated because they're essentially wasting their prime years without intimacy and romantic affectionI mean that's categorically not true. Everyone has a "prime" aka a peak in their development. Some are just higher than others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 01:15 AM |
| 0 | The best way to lose your virginity is to drop all your standards entirely and move up the scale from the bottom.Facts. People see a pair of big titties and a mid face then start acting goofy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 08:19 PM |
| -1 | The best way to lose your virginity is to drop all your standards entirely and move up the scale from the bottom.I feel like you not being able to have sex is already damaging your ego. Let's pretend it did, you're missing out a small detail. Its not having sex with hot women that hurts your ego. Not just women in general. I don't care about women in general sleeping with me. You said it yourself any man can sleep with the undesirables. They're as numerous as grains of sand and desperate for some type of affection inspite of their physique. Putting yourself through the trouble of fucking them is a one way … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 07:09 PM |
| 5 | The best way to lose your virginity is to drop all your standards entirely and move up the scale from the bottom.Nah Im good big dawg 😂 Truth be told my pride and vanity is more important than any woman on the planet. Like I genuinely think I have a pretty healthy outlook on life but the idea of me sleeping with a fat or ugly woman puts me in a depressive episode. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 06:51 PM |
| 10 | Women don't love you, they love what you can do for them.Well yeah because she thinks your ugly. Like this particular scenario comes from one of the worst type of women. Those wenches who say "I grew to be attracted to him". See if she found you attractive in the first place you'd need no more than your presence to please her. However since she doesn't, she needs you to run through so many hoops and barriers. Dance monkey dance, you know the spheel. Then she'll love you or more accurately love your deeds. Anyone could've done what you did. You're just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 04:58 AM |
| – | Womens' actions have repeatedly revealed their claim of living in constant fear of danger at the hands of men is likely just another smokescreen and deception/manipulation tacticWell thats because you think these reddit women who say they fear men are "normal". I assure you they are anything but. They are weirdos and outcasts. Why else would they be on reddit daily? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 01:36 AM |
| 4 | Why do u claim sëx or datìng doesn't matter when u all are themselves not celibatê ?Why do promiscuous people always assume people are jealous of them? Nobody wants your life style. This is a cope 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 08:22 PM |
| 3 | An average young woman *isn't average*Yeah and what theyre attracted to is not him. His prospects are attractive, he's more like an unnecessary tag along. What I said is consistent with what I've been saying. Theres only one type of attraction that matters as I said and its based on your looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 07:55 PM |
| 2 | An average young woman *isn't average*you could be ugly and the starting quarterback and have lots of choices. Those hoes do not want him 💀. They want his prospects. Like I said if she's not turned on by how you look youre doing it wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 05:11 PM |
| 6 | An average young woman *isn't average*Nah a man's beauty is a factor if you want a woman who actually likes you. If you're dating a woman who doesn't prioritize a man's looks, youre dating the wrong type of woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Don't give up: Mature women appreciate kind menHm my bad you right. I keep thinking the avg dude is better than that. Nah its just me projecting my own standards 😮💨. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 01:14 AM |
| 6 | Don't give up: Mature women appreciate kind menI mean duh. Yall acting like anyone wants anyone ugly for relationships. Not even other uggos like uggos. This just a truth across gender lines. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 12:05 AM |
| 9 | Reddit women are a minority the basic "normie" girl is pretty darn patriarchalTruth nuke. You gotta realize the average redditor man or woman is a neurotic social pariah. They dont reflect average humans in the slightest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 07:01 PM |
| 18 | Is the women’s equivalent to a man’s “I can fix her” a thing?Bros putting the chicken before the egg. Women are the originators of the "I can fix them" mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What have you learned that you didn’t know before since being subscribed to PPD?Men consider financially providing for a family to be simping or beta and view homemakers/ SAHM’s as gold diggers Thats valid tho. Its 2025, the provider man and SAHM are relics from a bygone and frankly stupid era. We've outgrown that norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 05:58 AM |
| 6 | I think there is something that needs to be said about how many men approach dating: the “be as appealing to as many women as possible” approachDefinitely would not like it. I dont know about lesbian or high maintenance but it does give 5 year old assuming the way she dresses is how I imagine hyper feminine princess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 12:27 AM |
| 0 | 4B movement after Trump's victory did not last long lastNobody cares about the social pariahs you commune with dawg. Those people dont matter. Normal people have sex as they always have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 08:45 PM |
| 1 | 4B movement after Trump's victory did not last long lastThats not real either. Its as much of a meme as 4B lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Nice guys naturally gravitate towards queen bee types. No, it's not a case of the girl leading them on. They CHOSE to like girls like that.If multiple hot woman want you as a friend, then I would confidently say you can also attract relatively hot women (in your physical league... goes without saying) as lovers/dating interests. You know ball. This is something I call the law of exponential bitches. You see women lead to more women. And more women mean more dating prospects. Men should befriend hot women just for that reason alone if anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Men must radically change to counter the current epidemic of women having inflated egosmaybe, just maybe, what you call "his ability to provide" IS attractive and IS hot/sexy to women Those hoes who are attracted to providers are disgusting above all else lmao. No man should associate with their mindset. They're parasites. I respect women who chase men they have a physical attraction much more lol. Those women got the right mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 02:49 AM |
| – | Nowadays women usually have the upper hand in relationshipsYou don’t see women obsessing over their feminine role and who has the upper hand Yes you do, don't be obtuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 06:38 PM |
| – | A woman’s friend group generally avoids telling a woman she may be wrong or might be the primary cause of an issueGirls support girls even if they're dumbasses- | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 05:49 PM |
| 3 | Not placing unrealistically high standards on women is causing the dating crisisMen on average do have high standards for women but only for relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Not placing unrealistically high standards on women is causing the dating crisisThat doesn't contradicts what he says. It's still "hoeflation" as he puts it and even how you put it with this desirability match concept. As you said the opposite gender determines your value. So due to the low standards of a lot of men (or I guess in dating apps the low amount of women) they'll outrageously boost some meek and mundane woman to a position she has no right being in. You both agree with each other, you just don't like the conclusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 07:19 PM |
| 3 | It doesn't make sense that men complain about promiscuous women but also complain that women's standards are too highFalse dichotomy. You can be a hoe with high standards. Jeez it's like the people on this sub are only capable of thinking in binary. Especially the women on here acting stupid is especially irritating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Does the average guy have low standards?Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 12:44 AM |
| 3 | Attractive men don't have better skills when talking to women, they often never had to develop themMaybe. I mean hey it'd make sense as to why people hate their wives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 11:14 PM |
| 3 | Attractive men don't have better skills when talking to women, they often never had to develop themDefinitely along the lines of that. I never got to the dating phase with them like I said but they definitely see their potential lovers as a project. I used to always hear from them "you have a lot of potential". Bitch potential for what?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 10:57 PM |
| 11 | Attractive men don't have better skills when talking to women, they often never had to develop themOnce they catch feelings the fantasy can last a very long time. Sounds cool until you start attracting annoying bitches into your life. The most frequent type of woman who is initially interested then backs off of me is the "insecure girl who wants a pet for a man". Safe to say me talking back definitely ruins their mental image. It's better to be your real self and filter the undesirables out lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 05:01 PM |
| 12 | Attractive men don't have better skills when talking to women, they often never had to develop themActually relatable. I feel like when I speak I ruin their fantasy of me. Like the me they built up in their head shatters once the me in reality appears. Which is fine but it does make me think sometimes what did you think I was about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Why are there such different responses from telling men to have realistic standards vs women?Lol no. Miss me with the captain save a ho mindset. That's squarely a you thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/24 09:01 PM |
| – | The dating market does not suck for womenall women are terrible and men are normal. Don't be purposely obtuse 😮💨. I even said women have a range of options going from good, mid, and bad. Nowhere did I say all men are normal. Beyond that I never said all women are terrible. I said the few outlier options men have on the regular are dog piss. Any man can get a girlfriend if they're okay with being a dumpster diver and go swimming for the lowest common denominator. However the real trouble comes from getting attention from mid or good wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 12:36 AM |
| – | The dating market does not suck for womenThe analogy isn't accurate to the male experience. It's more accurate to say men have virtually no options, but for the few outliers those choices are terrible. As opposed to women who have a whole host of options ranging from good, mid, and bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 12:24 AM |
| – | The dating market does not suck for womenIt's more like men are dying of thirst in a desert and the only liquid around is piss. You're assuming that most women are worth a damn. Couldn't be further from the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 12:14 AM |
| 24 | CMV: when dating, the burden should be on males to prove themselvesProve myself? Bitch pls 😂. You get what you see. This whole "dance monkey dance" nonsense women want is just another way women show off their covert narcissism. This post is for the boys with no self esteem lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)As a man men are uglier then women, we smell worse, we take less care of our skin, our bodies are big and blocky Why are you projecting your own ugliness and unhygienicness on the rest of us? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)Do you like women? Why assume I don't? When I'm saying both men and women look about the same objectively. I phrased it aggressively sure but that's only to drive my point home. even some of the bigger girls still have pretty faces. I never said that some fat women weren't pretty under the layers. That's not an argument I'm making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 01:21 AM |
| – | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)Men are on average uglier than women. Stop denying basic reality. Touch grass. The average woman is shaped like humpty dumpty wearing cheap yoga pants with noses that take up 60% of their face. Just because they brush their hair and put make up on, doesn't change this obvious truth. Lipstick on a pig is still a pig. Anyone who goes outside knows both women and men are unsightly as each other. You introverted ppd users are so clueless and pathetic to the world beyond your phones. I wouldn't have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 12:44 AM |
| -1 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)This only works for women who are already attractive enough. Trying it on a subpar women well- Let's just say lipstick on a pig is still a pig. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Why do straight women like other women so much more than they like men?This is so childish and why'd you even comment lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Why do straight women like other women so much more than they like men?Doesn't your tongue get tired? Men do not prefer women as companions at all Again I'm not even on the glazing men train. I just think it's a little cute to be so self absorbed and proud about something so basic as gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do straight women like other women so much more than they like men?This is a worthless question. I could easily say the female gender role is based on passive aggression, emotional manipulation, spite and covert narcissism. Then say some shit glazing men as the Honorable, protector and truly kind gender role. Then you'll say something about how great the female gender role is then admonish the male gender because we've established your woman who loves engaging in auto cunniligus. We'll be here all day. Ask a smarter question that's worth discussing for the next… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Why do straight women like other women so much more than they like men?Not really. This is just you licking your own clit on this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 08:10 PM |
| 3 | CMV - these are reasonable requirements for dating a single momPay for the babysitter 💀 Please stay home dawg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 08:35 PM |
| 4 | Do you think formerly promiscuous women are mostly disadvantaged in the dating market at least when it comes to getting commitment /marriage?Well not having a problem is different than liking the fact you have a near triple digits body count. Beyond that can't speak on your situation. However I am true believers that promiscuity is a part of compatibility. How you view sex will influence your relationship, I think we can agree on that much correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 05:13 PM |
| – | Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's lifeI’ve never once met a man who was a joy to be around. Garbage hangs with garbage my friend. If you haven't met a man that's fun to be around well- | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 04:21 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women prefer (Benevolent) Sexism over Equality in DatingMen still expect women to shave and wear makeup You don't have to do this. This is a self imposed limitation of which you are asking others to feel pity for you. To that I say, nobody cares. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Do you think formerly promiscuous women are mostly disadvantaged in the dating market at least when it comes to getting commitment /marriage?it is very unlikely that man will break up with the woman he gets along with for such an arbitrarily weird reason as "she's had sex before". Being promiscuous is a part of that compatibility. The hoes and the prudes have nothing in common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 02:28 PM |
| – | Vogue dating columnist casually admits that women have it hard in dating because they need to compete for a minority of menman how can we be mad at women , when we don't give em much to work with. Bro you're talking that bullshit. The average woman is shaped like humpty dumpty wears cheap yoga pants from Marshall's every day. Like let's be for real, the 80/20 is universal for both genders (who have any semblance of self worth and isn't just pity dating/fucking anyone). Because both are equally grotesque | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 06:36 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Villification of men is toxicDating market theory? Aren't you too old to believe in the invisible hand of God? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 02:46 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Villification of men is toxicYeah you know this is stupid. You only doubled down because you didn't want to admit being wrong lol. You blue pillers are just as dumb as red pillers only less funny to laugh at and more annoying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 02:42 AM |
| – | It’s 2024. “Go to the gym” and “be confident and maintain frame” is the new “buy her flowers and hold open doors”I love the pain of the gym. I think I got an abusive relationship with it lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 09:02 PM |
| 11 | A Woman with ''No Kids and Not Fat'' is actually a high standard compared to the average man😮💨 Here we go trying to humble me. If you must know though, I'm 5'9, I actually have an incredibly straight hairline I get complemented often on it, 21 years old. Telling you my bmi is pointless since it doesn't include muscle in the average but I am 187 pounds lean and muscular. Income is actually my weak spot though, it's capped at $20,000 a year since I am a student worker at my university. I'm contractually not allowed to make more than that :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 04:38 AM |
| 0 | A Woman with ''No Kids and Not Fat'' is actually a high standard compared to the average manYeah but I'm not concerned with men. Not attracted to em so who cares? Not my prerogative lol. If I was gay or a straight woman I'd complain about men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 04:26 AM |
| 31 | A Woman with ''No Kids and Not Fat'' is actually a high standard compared to the average manAll you've done is confirm what I already knew. Most women are undateable- duh. The sky is blue, what comes up must come down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 04:20 AM |
| 4 | Women with promiscuous pasts who are sexually reserved/borderline asexual with their LTRsWell I'm glad you're at least planning on breaking up or at least thinking about it. I'm a fair believer that "the hoes should be with the hoes and prudes with prudes". As you said being in a relationship with a more prudish man is holding you back sexually and he probably isn't down for somebody so sensual. You know? It's like that one tiktok song, you gotta find someone who matches your freak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 12:45 AM |
| 18 | Women with promiscuous pasts who are sexually reserved/borderline asexual with their LTRsI tend to hide some kinks of mine earlier on if it's not a hook up because I've been dumped for revealing them too soon before Stop doing this. You're caging incompatible men with you. Be honest and let these men be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 12:38 AM |
| -1 | Men desire primarily the top 20% of women, they are just more willing to settle.Nah dawg. Most of these women are busted or unremarkable, miss me with that "most women are attractive" nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 12:26 AM |
| – | What drives women to settle for guys they're not attracted to in the modern era?My husband isn’t the best looking guy I have ever dated. Dawg called him ugly. Pls find a partner you actually find attractive and leave that man alone lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:39 PM |
| 2 | CMV: women get dressed up and wear makeup ourselves - not for malesThe male benefits from our self expression on the date... Which costs money Nobody asked you to though. It's like being grateful for a gift you didn't ask for. It's illogical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 04:27 AM |
| 1 | CMV Dating only becomes easier for men in their 30s because women at that age become more desperate.Ngl you and the other person just generally seem like messes as people. Like to have as little foresight as you guys are implying is well- not the brightest thing and is unrelatable to anyone who does think ahead just a little. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 03:19 AM |
| 2 | As much blame as women get for the current situation, a big part of the problem is the desperation of men. I regularly see dudes calling the most average or even below average women “hot” or “beautiful.”Only the most desperate of men sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 05:40 AM |
| – | Most relationships end because men take advantage of their partner and stop putting in effort.It's not unrealistic. Stage 3 is him at his normal. The guy you liked in step 1 never existed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Are many guys here not interested in casual sex?That's fine, still would not be interested in those women. I don't engage in casual sex with women at all, so why would I be interested in women who semi regularly engage in it? It's a mix match in lifestyle lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Are many guys here not interested in casual sex?With those type of women? Hopefully, I don't have the patience to fix messes of their scale. In general? Eh that's also okay. I think being alone for your young years gives people an ultimatum. Either A become a mess that longs for any opposite gender validation (like the incels, red pill guys, and the slutty girls) or B become self reliant and gain self love. Most people choose option A though so eh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 04:24 PM |
| 14 | Are many guys here not interested in casual sex?Not interested, the women most interested in casual sex are broken messes of human beings. And realistically I ain't trying to entangle myself or fix these women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 02:26 PM |
| 1 | MEN: Would you rather a woman with feminine presentation but masculine temperament, or masculine presentation but feminine temperament. Vice versa for women?Woman A is preferable and sounds more interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Gender misconceptionsHmm nah not at all true. If you mean physical harm I think men and women are equally adverse to harm. Mostly in fear of retaliation but still equally adverse. Although I can see why you'd think this physically. If your mean emotional harm then come on. We both know men and women love engaging in vitriol. It's just one is more aggressive and the other is more passive aggressive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Gender misconceptionsMorality is entirely dependent on each individual. So you'd have to explain the metric for morality for this to be true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 12:49 AM |
| – | Do wommen even truly like men at all?I've got lots of interest in sex with men that I know and trust. That's straight. Not at all. There are plenty of gay men and lesbians who engage in heterosexual activity due to either internalized homophobia or compulsory heterosexuality. Genuinely dawg, I would actually take a step back and really ask yourself if you are straight. From the way you describe women as a work of art (you're literally quoting a man, your uncle, who's attracted to women lol. You have to see the irony in that), to ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 04:45 AM |
| 2 | Do wommen even truly like men at all?Gonna be frank with you dawg, you, your mom, and sister are the furthest thing from straight. Yall are either closeted lesbian or closeted bi women with a strong preference for women. Like not even to be disrespectful, but frankly to anyone who reads this, this sounds like a closeted lesbian's manifesto. Like you're repressing your innate love and sexual desire for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 12:33 AM |
| 4 | If women are attracted to the more party animal type of guys, can guys be like that to attract women?Most people who are into nerdy hobbies etc, also like to go out occasionally. Yeah but he's talking about becoming a party animal specifically. Not vague get out of the house type of shit. I know I'm generalizing but you know that's this sub and all dating and gender based subs. So who cares? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 03:07 AM |
| 18 | If women are attracted to the more party animal type of guys, can guys be like that to attract women?Sure you could do this. However that sounds annoying for two reasons. It's more than likely these women wouldn't jive well with these men and vice versa. The girl getting plastered on every Friday at parties has nothing to say to the dnd nerd. She probably couldn't keep the nerds attention anyway beyond what her body provides. It's all about staying in your lane. Like minded people attract like minded people. Pretending to be someone else is chore and will inevitably create resentment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 02:25 AM |
| 3 | are women doing okay?Hello based department? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 10:34 PM |
| 4 | Not all psychopathic men are master manipulators. Lots of women date guys who are walking red flags.Tbh it doesn't matter if it also happens to men. When women are the ones screeching about so called master manipulators (they never actually are that clever or intelligent btw) the most then the message should be directed towards them. It's important to call these women what they are, fucking stupid. It's the same thing as when men claim their ex was crazy and hysterical. Yes women might do the same thing but the message should be directed at men since they bring it up more. Like these men are g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women on reddit are a good perception of what women in real life are?I think the way people behave online is an honest snapshot of what part of them is like in real life. I disagree fundamentally. Online behavioral is more like a fun house mirror of a person's actual personality. It's a distortion that shouldn't be taken seriously most of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Men over-estimate their attractiveness?What's hot and what's not is mostly decided by culture. Whether you like or not people are conditioned by cultural and external factors. It's 99% nurture and 1% nature since human beings are the few animals who don't come into this world with no instructions. Women with no teeth aren't in the popular culture as hot. So no I don't think I will because I wasn't conditioned to see that as attractive. My culture's ideal woman have all their teeth, wide hips, big butts, tiny frames and full lips. If … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Men over-estimate their attractiveness?The average is static. It’s not contextual. It’s measured on a scale of how ugly to how beautiful a human can get, not how below average - above average a person is in this place/time/situation. With this statement you kinda prove you're as dumb as the doomer incel men on here. Beauty standards do ebb and flow based with time and place. Nobody should have to explain this to you. The standard in Ghana is different than Finland. Back in the 80s in america, skinny women with big boobs were the way.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Men over-estimate their attractiveness?Yeah, the average man is just as unspeakably plain and invisible looking as the average woman. Both genders like to gas themselves up and with PPD being the least nuanced place in the world, filled with men and women exhibiting anti social character traits, that problem is magnified by the third power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Has a woman ever helped you get laid?I don't really like commenting, but I think having a sister doesn't mean she's a wingwoman. For me and my siblings, we have a more we're coworkers/roommates type of relationship. We aren't invested in each other's lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 04:41 PM |
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