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ArcheryDude101/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 12:15 AM
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ArcheryDude101/r/askTRP28/08/19 03:24 PM
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You made the right call dude. The ball is in her court now. Just sit back and keep it online(maybe move it to texting or insta or something). If she's interested for more, she'll ask for an actual date or will keep on chatting with you until a time when it's actually possible. If not, then she'll move on and that's not an issue.
/r/seduction30/07/20 09:13 PM
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It is what it is. The laws may be dated and may be giving women favor in courts, but that's what you signed up for when you got married.
/r/MensRights15/03/20 04:46 PM
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Women typically stay home because taking care of a kid requires active parenting. Now, there is a stigma against dads from staying home, but if you don't care about what society says about you, then why should you care? If you base every action on what people think of you, you won't accomplish anything. You have to take risks sometimes in order to find a way to move forward.
/r/MensRights15/03/20 04:29 PM
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Hahaha. If you are being sarcastic, I think I might be gay for you. The path to a downward spiral starts with behavior like this. If you get kicked in the teeth, you pick yourself up, and try again. Life is unfair, so you need to play your cards right to make it as fair as possible for yourself. That's what these gentlemen don't understand.
/r/MensRights15/03/20 04:02 PM
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He is complaining that jobs typically held by women are made to look unsuitable for men and that men are conditioned to choose riskier jobs. If he feels that way, why he can't just take one of the jobs that is typically held by women? Nobody is forcing his hand to choose a risky job. He made that decision by himself. And don't tell me that it's because of peer pressure. Some of the toughest men I know are teachers. If society tells you to fuck off, you tell it to fuck off right back. That's the …
/r/MensRights15/03/20 03:59 PM
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In that case, why don't you take up one of the jobs that women traditionally held if it bothers you so much?
/r/MensRights14/03/20 11:46 PM
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Your friend has problems. What you have, my friend, is an incorrect explanation for the result of the situation. Women up till now were not allowed in professions like that, which is why it is misogynistic. It's not as simple as an evaluation based on switching genders.
/r/MensRights14/03/20 11:43 PM
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What kind of victim mentality is this? Set your boundaries and enforce them. Stop justifying yourself by creating blanket statements that aren't even true.
/r/MensRights14/03/20 11:40 PM
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For added effect, walk away and talk to a random guy.
/r/MensRights14/03/20 11:35 PM
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Or if you have a girlfriend, say that you have a girl friend instead, but still look at her like she's a weirdo.
/r/MensRights14/03/20 11:33 PM
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If she says that, say ok and look at her like she's a weirdo. Easy uno reverse card.
/r/MensRights14/03/20 11:33 PM
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Well, I don't know about that. I think if you want to get married, you should. You just have to make sure the person you are marrying is a decent person.
/r/MensRights31/12/19 06:53 PM
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True. I hope that guy is ok
/r/MensRights31/12/19 04:23 AM
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Good riddance. That's just a toxic mindset.
/r/MensRights31/12/19 02:53 AM
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Fair enough. You have a point.
/r/MensRights13/12/19 12:16 PM
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Ah. Gotcha.
/r/MensRights09/12/19 07:35 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/MensRights09/12/19 07:34 PM
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We use fingerprints already and legal identification to identify people. How is this any worse? It will help children reconnect with their parents.
/r/MensRights09/12/19 07:32 PM
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What's not wrong with not trying to get a way for kids to be reconnected with their parents?
/r/MensRights09/12/19 04:53 AM
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Whats wrong with that?
/r/MensRights09/12/19 04:01 AM
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I have this one friend. She is drop-dead gorgeous, but she doesn't ever want to admit it. She doesn't believe it when I tell her she is pretty. I think it's pretty sad to be honest because I know what her situation is, but I can't help her until she helps herself. You are in her situation right now. Perfect skin and a full head can help present yourself initially, ultimately, the kind of person you are will be the deciding factor. I know you weren't asking me the question, but I would rather be …
/r/askTRP21/10/19 05:01 AM
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I hate going to do new things in groups because its less about what I want to do in comparison to what the group wants to do. It's annoying when you have to drag yourself along to events.
/r/seduction18/10/19 12:56 AM
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Sure, but you're looking at it through a guy's POV. She can have sex whenever, but getting a decent, alpha, guy to commit to her is far more difficult. I befriend a lot of women who are quite attractive, and a decent amount of them have issues with this. A real relationship to her is what sex is to us. She can't have that if she's fucking anything that moves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 06:58 PM
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First date, sure. However, you have to remember that the guy has the privilege of choosing the location as well. If anything, this is a bit of a plus, since it lets you set yourself up for a successful night. After that, it can be split 50/50. It's becoming more normal to do that anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 06:52 PM
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There is a reason why they say seduction is a slow game. Expecting women to have sex immediately with a random guy is like expecting a man to pay the way for women he doesn't know. Everyone looks out for their own interests. Tell me, what does she get out of screwing random men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 01:59 PM
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It's the man's fault for not showing alpha behavior that makes her want to fuck him. Sex is a 2 person deed after all. This is a core truth that TRP advocates.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 01:20 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 01:19 PM
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I'm going to guess that guys attempt to flirt with you didn't work?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 07:33 AM
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Hm. That's an interesting point that you brought up. You aren't wrong. I suppose if anything, a more specifically defined version of the mission objective is what could solve this issue and proper education on behaviors that show that the woman isn't receptive to advances is in order. The age of the person in question should also be taken into consideration. It's already a disgrace that even kindergarteners will have their motives questioned if they cross the line a little, even if it wasn't sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 07:09 AM
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I just searched that up. Their mission objective: Catcalls, sexually explicit comments, sexist remarks, homophobic slurs, groping, leering, stalking, flashing, and assault. Most women and some men will face gender-based street harassment by strangers in their life. Street harassment limits people's mobility and access to public spaces. It is a form of gender violence and it's a human rights violation. It needs to stop. sounds just like a call against creeps who don't know game. If you open in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 06:33 AM
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Wait, how have women attempted to outlaw PUA?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 06:13 AM
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I mean, I feel like having an open mind is necessary when debating. I'm ok with the idea that my views may not be necessarily correct. I hope you are the same as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 03:52 PM
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I see. Your points are valid. Thank you for taking the time to do proper research on this topic so that we could have a proper discussion. Hm. I wonder if there are more factors that play into which gender is more likely to cheat. I read up about how being dependent on your spouse may increase the odds that you may want to cheat, especially for men since the breadwinner role/identity is taken away from them. I suppose this means that changing societal perceptions of men must take place. Of cours…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 11:01 PM
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You are assuming, which is the issue here. There has to be stats that back up/reject your point. Why not use those?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 06:22 PM
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Not at all. All I asked for was an unbiased source. If men are cheating more, and you can prove that with facts and figures, then I'm more inclined to believe you. Hell, if anyone still disagrees with you, I'll argue with them as well. Regardless, I just can't trust what you say just because you said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 04:28 PM
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Lets say the rich guy claim was true(which it may not be considering you didn't provide evidence). That would mean that you are assuming that the lives of a small part of a population is the same as the lives of all men. That alone disqualifies your blanket statement that men cheat more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 04:25 PM
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Give me one then(make sure its unbiased please). I'm open to having my mind changed, but I need evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 04:19 PM
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You don't have proof that men cheat more than women either to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 04:08 PM
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I feel like this is womansplaining. You are trying to tell guys who know how they feel on the matter what you think they feel and refuse to accept the alternative. A decent amount of guys feel shitty even if they watch porn. Trust me, no one is running to hookers if they can help it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 04:07 PM
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To be fair, there were problems regarding gender inequality for the women who are protesting. They should be getting pension to account for that because they might not have made as much money for retirement even if they worked the same amount of hours. However, the women of today didn't do anything or have any social impediments that prevent them from working to an age that is equivalent to that of the age of men.
/r/MensRights04/10/19 01:51 AM
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No, no, no, no. Don't. Escalate, then smack. Jesus Christ, you are a walking #MeToo waiting to happen.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 02:51 AM
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From what I'm reading, the issue is that you are getting too involved with the girl way too fast. Read this reddit post: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/d8aqd0/how_can_i_pursue_a_girl_without_showing_direct/ While some people say that it's impossible to get without having dating options in the first place, I personally don't believe that to be the case. Try to adopt this mindset in life in general, and it will trickle into dating as well.
/r/seduction23/09/19 11:56 PM
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What did you do to fix the situation?
/r/askTRP18/09/19 02:51 AM
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Damn, alright
/r/MensRights15/09/19 04:59 PM
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So the solution is just telling men not to have sex? That's comparable to schools telling teenagers to be abstinent during Sex Ed in order to prevent them from having sex. It's ineffective and ultimately, it harms more people than it helps.
/r/MensRights15/09/19 04:44 AM
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How do you dispose of condoms properly? Take them home with you? Spermicide you carry around?
/r/MensRights15/09/19 04:38 AM
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What arguments did they make against you?
/r/MensRights15/09/19 04:31 AM
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I feel like they are. It's just that society pampers them so it's very hard not to be influenced in that direction. If they were thrown into the fray just like guys are, then they probably would be more appreciative of other people.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/19 04:36 AM
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You shouldn't have to own people to expect human decency. If all was well, you could just trust them to not be promiscuous.
/r/MGTOW12/09/19 03:21 AM
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Where is this subreddit? I can't find it.
/r/MGTOW12/09/19 03:08 AM
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That's a small pool of people to make such a widely sweeping claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 03:56 AM
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Good luck dude!
/r/seduction08/09/19 07:18 PM
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It's so friggin weird when you realize that. You can't see a porn video the same after that.
/r/seduction08/09/19 07:17 PM
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Owned
/r/FeminismStopsWhen07/09/19 04:06 PM
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If that's your point, then we are on the same page. I was debating with you because you specifically mentioned men's preferences in a way that made me assume that you were deriding men for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 06:15 PM
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Sure. That is a fact. However, 1 time of unprotected sex =/= a lifetime of unprotected sex. They could literally have unprotected sex once(or a few times if they are having trouble conceiving) and then go back to condom sex. Therefore, your point doesn't have any legs to stand on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 06:12 PM
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If they didn't like condom sex, they could have chosen to marry a woman who does. They are at fault if they pressure her for unprotected sex if she has issues with it. However, it is the woman's responsibility to make it clear to the man in no uncertain terms that she doesn't want sex unless a condom is involved. No one should put their body autonomy in the hands of others and then blame them for it when things don't go their way. It's extremely counterproductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 05:30 PM
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Most married men don't enjoy a lifetime of condom sex This casts the blame for this issue solely on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 05:24 PM
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Condoms actually reduce the chance of yeast infections. It's up to her to stand up for her own body autonomy/health. If she has an issue with unprotected sex, she should make it known, and the guy should acknowledge and move forward with that in mind. It's not rocket science. ​ https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/yeast-infection-after-sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 05:23 PM
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So it's the man's fault for a woman choosing not to use a condom? Her body, her rules. If she doesn't like the negative effects of sex, she doesn't have to have sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 05:16 PM
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If the woman didn't want a yeast infection, she could have chosen not to have sex unprotected.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 04:43 PM
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Fair enough. Thanks for the advice.
/r/MGTOW04/09/19 02:30 PM
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I wonder how much MGTOW could flip the script if enough young guys decided to not get into relationships.
/r/MGTOW03/09/19 08:05 PM
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It's actually kind of depressing.
/r/MGTOW03/09/19 03:20 PM
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I see.
/r/MGTOW03/09/19 02:30 PM
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Damn dude. You got the whole shit sandwich. You have my sympathy(even though it probably doesn't mean much at this point to you).
/r/MGTOW03/09/19 07:17 AM
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Wait, wdym?
/r/MGTOW03/09/19 06:58 AM
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Is MGTOW similar to Red Pill?
/r/MGTOW03/09/19 06:35 AM
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So something like this wouldn't turn up in a background check?
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 07:46 PM
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If you can't take it. Don't dish it out.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 07:18 PM
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While the law may find you innocent, you will have to go through the rest of your life explaining that you aren't a rapist. I don't want to have to sit through interviews for jobs and be interrogated on something that didn't even happen. This even applies to other parts of my life, like relationships. Judge me if you want. I don't really care.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 07:17 PM
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I'm a pretty careful guy. I got even more careful when someone I knew got MeToo'd. I'm pretty good with women, so it wasn't that big of a loss.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 05:25 PM
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I had to make a point since you took that mocking tone.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 05:17 PM
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Laugh at me if you want. I'm not about to go to some girls place and assume the risk just to talk about random shit. I gave her the option to meet me in public. She said no. I nexted her. I don't regret the choice one bit.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 05:14 PM
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Not often, but when I am, I am pretty careful though. This one girl in my class wanted to "hang out". I offered to take her on a date, but she wasn't interested. Big red flags there.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 06:43 AM
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I still don't want to risk being the minority who is jailed unfairly. I don't owe anyone anything. Why would I potentially put myself in a compromising position by not considering this and acting accordingly?
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 05:59 AM
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. . .
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 05:10 AM
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Not a bad reply my dude. Out of curiosity, what branch did you serve/are you serving in? Thank you for your service btw.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 05:01 AM
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They are to a decent amount of men who think the way that I do because we see other guys go down in flames. A guy I used to know got falsely accused and it made a huge impact on his life. He was set for college with a scholarship. In the course of months, his current prospects were ruined to the point that he had to be homeschooled and needed therapy. You really expect me to believe you when you say that men shouldn't be careful? I care more about myself than some random woman somewhere who migh…
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 04:59 AM
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Lol. I actually know someone who got falsely MeToo'd. Why should I trust some salty women online over my real experiences?
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 04:37 AM
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Could you tell the story to prove the point to our friend here? Please try to use words that paint the story in a neutral tone if you can so as to not create bias.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 04:36 AM
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Lol, do you not have guys talk to you? Is that why you are being so pissy? No one here is saying that men shouldn't hang out with women. All they are saying is that you should watch out because your life will go down the drain if you get falsely accused. Even if you are cleared in court, people will still treat you like your guilty. Boys pretty much know this from the moment they started being penalized for their gender. If you feel like you getting your 10 minutes of socialization with guys in …
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 04:35 AM
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Haha. Did they also teach you to build your own router for a wifi signal out there to respond to my comment? /s
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 04:25 AM
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We can hang out with women, but only women we trust. If you don't like that men are more apathetic towards women, then either prove that you are not a threat to the ones who you want to be friends with, or change the social climate. The ball is in your court.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 04:22 AM
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The results of this interrogation are still TBD.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 04:18 AM
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Men aren't entitled to sex from women and women aren't entitled to a man's friendship. Women treat men who they don't know well with caution. Why can't men do the same? Is it wrong to not want to potentially live on the street even though you did nothing wrong? An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. We don't owe women anything. Women complained that men were approaching them and men decided to stop as a result. If they didn't want the consequences, then they shouldn't have done the act…
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 04:16 AM
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Eh. Even then, it's a hit or miss. I would do my research first. You know, it's kind of ironic. The sexual scene has completely flipped around, except the standard of men approaching women still remains(kind of curious if that will change too). I have no problem approaching women. I just don't want to be punished for it.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 04:01 AM
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His life/career don't even have to start. A former classmate of mine got a false rape accusation when he was in the high school of the Seneca Valley School District. This shit is everywhere, and I am lowkey dreading the day when I will have to talk to my son(if I have one) about this.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 03:56 AM
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I see. If you were, I was about to call you out for that.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 03:52 AM
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Did you get in trouble for it? She sounds like the type to report it.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 03:48 AM
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Wtf. Dude. You ok?
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 03:43 AM
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I'm going to guess you aren't from the US?
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 03:30 AM
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Does the military teach you any other way of protecting yourself?
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 03:10 AM
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I actually knew that dude back in elementary school. He was a pretty good guy, but we never talked much on a daily basis per se. I'm not sure how he is doing now since I haven't kept in contact since moving after middle school, but I hope he is ok. I also knew E.S as well. I would have never once thought she was capable of something like that. She was really nice, and I was blown away by the fact that she did it when I heard about it.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/19 02:40 AM
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I don't really think it can be beneficial outside high school/college(maybe this might change) unless you are selling stuff over it. It's better to be known, then to not be known. As Robert Greene said in "48 Laws of Power", you should never build a fortress around yourself, as isolation is dangerous. Not having a social media presence as a teen/young adult is a way to isolate yourself from what is happening around you. It isn't an egregious form of isolation(people do survive if they choose to …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 06:01 PM
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Social media isn't just about attracting women, it's about asserting your presence in your friend group and secondary friend groups. If you do it right, people who you don't even know you will know your name, which can be hugely beneficial for a teen who is trying to network with a lot of people(which can raise SMV due to pre-selection). It's useful if you use it in that way. Otherwise, it's practically useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 05:46 PM
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I see. Thank you.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 04:00 PM
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Whenever I do that though, the girl always looks away. How effective is this tactic for you?
/r/askTRP28/08/19 03:43 PM
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Walk up. Grab it out of her hands. Walk away(which is what you did). Don't let people walk over you. Did you take what the other girl took from you as well? If it's an issue talk to your instructors. Stealing was a big no-no in JROTC, so I would assume it's the same in ROTC.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 06:21 PM
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Ikr. I still enjoy seeing the moment of truth on the woman's face though, no matter how much it pisses me off.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/08/19 04:14 PM
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Ugh. Guys should be able to defend themselves against bodily harm without fearing social repercussions. I lowkey hate this.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/08/19 03:01 PM
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Do these guys suffer any consequences in their jobs? I would want to do the same, but I don't want to get fired for this shit.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/08/19 10:53 PM
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If you're not into it, then I suppose there really isn't any point. Ima just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:53 PM
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No, I get that. I think TRP is great in that respect. It's just that I want to try my way before I try TRP suggested methods. I don't see anything wrong with that personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:19 PM
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I mean sure, but you still stated a viewpoint on that issue. Considering that this is a debate subreddit, I chose to throw down that gauntlet by challenging those viewpoints.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:11 PM
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I don't particularly spin plates, nor do I flirt needlessly. It gets boring after you do it enough(at least for me). I do think the red pill has a decent amount of flirting advice and whatnot, but it doesn't 100% align with my values. I respect your choice to go 100% TRP, but unless I see a reason to abandon my values in the future, I don't think I will go down that road.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:08 PM
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All industries exist because people are desperate for money. That's how the world works. If there is an issue, greater regulation and stricter adherence to contracts should be enforced. If women consent still consent to do porn after that, then that's fine. I agree with you that porn addiction is a real addiction, however, most guys aren't addicted to porn. It's just something we use to get off. Subreddits aren't exactly the best place to judge large groups of people. The reason subreddits exist…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 05:54 PM
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Just because you are jacking off to porn doesn't necessarily mean you don't have sex with an actual woman. They are mutually exclusive things. Also, what is the issue with not hitting on women who just want your dick? Keeping yourself satiated sexually will help you choose better people to be with for relationships. After all, sex is only one part of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 05:38 PM
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Other people's personal choices regarding porn and how they live their life as a whole is their choice, and not yours. What may look like the "degradation of humanity" to you may be the complete opposite for them, and that's fine. If you don't like porn, don't watch it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 05:24 PM
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If it's misandrist, why aren't a majority of men complaining about it? Men can decide for themselves if something is harmful to their own gender. Why should we give up the quality of our nut just because of the fact that women don't like it? Men are very visual by nature, and while there are exceptions to this, porn is extremely arousing to them. If the women who star in it consent to have sex for the masses, what is the issue with men enjoying the benefits?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 05:20 PM
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How is it industrialized rape? The women consent to have sex on video. It's their body, so it should be their choice. What is your issue with men having something to jerk off too? Men are visual in nature, and if porn helps them get their rocks off better, what is the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 05:13 PM
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The issue with this is that guys who don't behave like by being milder in respect to their peers don't get laid as often. I'm not talking about nice guys(guys who are nice only to get laid), I'm talking about guys who genuinely do respect women. Ironically, this respect doesn't really turn women on. It actually makes them more suspicious of guys who claim to be nice, because they aren't used to guys who don't expect sex immediately just because they were nice. Women want guys who will push the l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 11:23 PM
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If a guy didn't back down, would you fight him?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 11:10 PM
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Yes! This needs to happen.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 01:29 AM
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I mean. If the girl is a dog, then there might be a slight issue. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 12:06 AM
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Do you have a link to the thread? I sorta wanna read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 10:56 PM
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Do you have any specific stories?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 10:56 PM
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Lol, I think you underestimate how often guys get boners, especially if they are younger. We can still think rationally. You just have a lot of experience with the creeps who choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 04:37 PM
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If that's your point of view, we are on the same page. It's just those women who say that all men have bad intentions that irk me. Men can't complain without being looked down upon either by their peers, so there is literally nothing we can do to defend our reputation, which is everything to a guy. A teacher I had once said something along those lines in class, and I could just see the mental conflict on the faces whether they should say something. Everyone ended up saying nothing, but crap like…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 08:10 PM
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You can be cautious about the guys, and be wary when interacting with them. That's perfectly fine. I don't disagree with that since you are looking out for yourself. However, my point is that while it might be factual that there may be 10 guys per woman, there could be 20 guys per women who don't do this sort of thing. I don't disagree with you at all that those 10 guys are menaces to society with their persistence, groping, raping, and threats of violence. However, why do the other 20 have to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 06:53 PM
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Sure. That only warrants a negative reaction towards NiceGuys though. Why do all men have to be beaten over the head for something they didn't do? I personally don't like being generalized as a creep just because I'm a guy. I honestly doubt any other guy who is like me does either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 06:32 PM
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No. I think I used to though. I felt empty inside a lot, and a lot of my emotions, other than the ones you described were just not there. I managed to pull myself out though. Sorry if I overstepped my boundaries. I guess I should have asked if you would have been ok answering that question first.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 06:28 PM
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It could be that you are suppressing your emotions. Do you have depression?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:56 PM
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It's still a biased sample. The men who don't do this sort of thing don't exactly get attention for what they are not doing. You guys might just be looking at the same group of dudes who act like creeps and generalizing all men to be the same. I have sympathy for your situation with creeps, and we can both agree that they should be acting like that. However, I personally don't like being called out for something I didn't do, which I believe is a sentiment that I believe that anyone could agree w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:55 PM
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I actually did not downvote you. I'm just annoyed that people have this conceptualized notion that men are simplistic creatures who only have one or two emotions, and the rest are non-existent. I don't share every emotion I feel because it will only hurt me in the end when I'm looking for a relationship. I see other men doing the same exact thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:46 PM
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Lol thanks. I really appreciate it. Just because we don't show our emotions doesn't mean that we don't have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 04:14 PM
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Not really. The Red pill, in my opinion is an amoral set of tools. While it is effective, it depends on how you use it. I only use the techniques if I absolutely have to when flirting/escalating, but otherwise, it's been going pretty decent for me when I stick to wordplay and a little teasing. You seem to want to put all men in this box which corresponds with your set of beliefs, but the fact remains that not all men are like that. The red pill has very negative views about women, and I don't at…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:59 PM
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Not like this: pushiness, demandingness, coercive, aggressive That just indicates a shitty choice in men. Just because your type of guy isn't Prince Charming doesn't indicate that the rest of the male population is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:48 PM
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That cop is a fuckin diplomat.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/08/19 08:33 PM
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I see. Thanks bro.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/08/19 07:47 PM
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Would you happen to have a link to the video. I remember watching this. I can't find it on youtube.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/08/19 07:29 PM
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Ok fair. Your comment made you sound like a controlling gf. I'm glad I was wrong. Sorry for the confusion!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 03:23 AM
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Out of curiosity, what would you consider excessive hobbies/commitments? I get it if he can't make time for you, but does it really matter what he likes to do to make him happy when he is not with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 03:09 AM
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For those of you who are like me, and like to stay indoors, I got a nugget of info for you. Talking to girls over Reddit can be quite effective. Trying to flirt with girls online is like real life, but on hard mode. You need to maintain frame all the time, and if you slip up once, its practically over. If you can pull off an online interaction, you can easily transfer those skills to irl when you catch up socially(it will go much, much faster than if you were to try the first time). The best par…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 04:44 AM
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I don't know if I would like a feminized society to be honest. They say a woman's weapon of choice is poison for a reason. I prefer the direct man-man confrontations because I have a greater degree of control over them. I don't want to deal with manipulative guys and having to spin a web of lies and deceit and going about things indirectly. In addition, women don't seem to like guys who act like women, so that's another reason why I would prefer society the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 12:32 AM
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I mean sure, but there are still plenty of girls who don't follow this. There is literally no advantage in a guy going for a girl who makes it hard for him to form a relationship, even if she wants it too. Girls will literally play mind games with you in order to maintain dominance in the relationship. This is the basis upon which TRP is based on, and it gives out techniques to prevent that. Why should I play the game her way, when I can play it my way?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 06:27 PM
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You speak about how a woman is the "prize" and that a man has to earn his way to procreate, but then you talk about how it's nice to have someone who wants you equally. You are clearly contradicting yourself, so please explain which side of the fence you're on. I agree that men shouldn't chase after people who don't want them, however, why should men give attention to someone who won't reciprocate? Personally, there are plenty of girls out there who are willing to put in as much as I put out, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:07 PM
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I'm not arguing against your right to your own opinion. I am arguing against your opinion. I completely agree with you that it should be sincere and coming from the heart. However, the delivery is just as important as the final product. If a guy gave a sincere compliment the wrong way, he is likely to be brushed off by the girl he is approaching because it raises a lot of red flags for her. The traditional way that guys learned this was either through their fathers, or by failing until they got …
/r/seduction06/08/19 03:04 PM
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This is sad It sounded like you had an issue with it. I understand why you might. You don't want guys to fake their compliments and personality just to be with you. However, some guys literally do not know how to do this right. Is it too much to give them a nudge in the right direction?
/r/seduction06/08/19 02:51 PM
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It works pretty well(I know because I do it all the time). The key takeaway here was to make your compliment count and to compliment things she has control over. Some guys don't know how to properly do this, so whats you issue if OP took the time to lay out the unwritten rules of engagement for them?
/r/seduction06/08/19 02:40 PM
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The message is different because men and women don't try to understand each other's issues, and come to a common solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 10:33 PM
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I agree with you, and am willing to give women the benefit of the doubt because this is something they can't control. However, I never knew that men could close their tear ducts. How is this even possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 10:03 PM
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I did an experiment on this once. I acted really beta to a group of girls. Once they started to ignore me(obviously), I then pulled a really alpha move out of the blue, and I got a girl to invite me to 'hang out' over snapchat. Woman are not men, and contextualizing female sexuality under a male lens will not help you when it comes to girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 05:46 PM
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Yes. I don't want to be fucked over if we have a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 04:07 AM
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You are trying to compare the women standards of attractiveness to the male standards of attractiveness, which you can't really do, because they are like apples and oranges. Women tend to get attracted by someone's personality more than their looks. In this sense, game is perfectly fine, because it's what they want you to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 09:44 PM
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Huh. That's really interesting. I'm part of the Instagram generation, so we don't really use facebook much. I assumed it was a trend across all social media.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 05:44 PM
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Girls do this thing where they follow people on social media, and then they unfollow. Don't worry about it. Also, your kind of giving off overprotective vibes here. Calm down, and let it be.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 05:08 PM
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O shit. That sucks dude. Is there any way your mother can buy them out, or your dad can put a clause or something when he gives over 25% ownership so that they can't screw your mother over?
/r/askTRP01/08/19 04:22 PM
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Have you at least tried talking to the stepdaughters? People can be very reasonable. Perhaps you can work a deal out. Also, are your parents divorced or is the house separate property(as in: Was the house your dad's prior to marriage?)?
/r/askTRP01/08/19 03:58 PM
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It's his money. Why do you care? You sound entitled. Stop getting pissed because he gave people he cares about money, especially if he thinks of them as his own family. It's disgraceful.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 05:58 AM
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For me, the perfect woman would be someone who can handle herself no matter how difficult the situation gets(unless its a very bad, like parent died bad). I am fine with handling my own shit and carrying my own weight, but I don't want to be dragged down. I also don't want to be the one carrying a relationship 100% of the time. Being the one to always have to initiate a texting conversation gets old really fast, and I would not date a girl if I had to do this over and over. I also want them to k…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 03:30 AM
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Exactly. I would bet my bottom dollar on the idea that if men didn't have to learn how to play the relationship game with women, and we could live by more blue pill ideas, this sub wouldn't be necessary. However, that's just not the case. The anger people feel after they realize their beliefs are completely wrong is justified because they got fed a bunch of lies by media about how relationships work. Unfortunately, feminist see this as a problem because they don't realize that its a phase rather…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 07:19 PM
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What a wholesome reply. I was planning on lurking in the comments, but your comment was so unbiased and reasonable and I appreciate that. Women do faces issues in society just as men do. Until we both sit down at the table and discuss and come up with a solution together rather than just piss on each other's beliefs, nothing will ever get solved.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 07:14 PM
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Oh I see. I follow TRP too. I didn't understand what your point was in your previous comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 06:41 PM
1

How does a man woman correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 06:26 PM
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Then tell me why you brought it up at all in the first place in a post about male domestic violence victims?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:19 AM
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You may not have directly said otherwise, but the fact that you brought up these arguments on a post about how male victims need more help and recognition implies disagreement. Throughout our debate, you have been avoiding points that you didn't have an answer to. Do you have an answer to them now, or will we just have to assume that you are trying to avoid those points because you don't have an actual argument which will stand against them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:12 AM
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If I slapped my husband as hard as I possibly could, he'd have a red face. If he did the same to me, I'd be concussed at best. Still doesn't make it right to slap your husband ​ Oh please. If a woman hits you, you just fuck off and leave. Poor little victims. Nothing needs to be said here. You mocked male victims just because of their gender. ​ A violent man is MUCH more dangerous than a violent woman. Stop trying to pretend men and women are the same. We're not. If a woman is violent, she deser…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:06 AM
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And those types of men should be punished for their actions. However, couldn't we agree to punish women for committing the same deeds?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:57 AM
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Woah, easy there. It was just a simple grammar mistake, nothing more. My point, and by extension, u/Salty-Bastard's point is not absurd because the lack of 'manly' men creates a shortage which means its easier for those types of men to seduce women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:52 AM
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Do you disagree that men who are abused are a minority?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:48 AM
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Yes, we are victims in that scenario. Some guys don't have anywhere to go/can't because they have kids and don't want to lose a custody dispute if they divorce. We both agree that men shouldn't hit women, but why can't it be the other way around as well? Why do you seem to have an issue with the idea that no one hits anyone? Women are not some magical beings who can do no harm. Nobody, male or female, gets into relationships in order to be abused. Whatever issues women face from men in this scen…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:46 AM
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As fucked up as it is, your completely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:33 AM
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u/deep-end speaks the truth. Men are expected by the code of chivalry to never hit a woman. This is an issue because if a woman fights a man, the man could not throw a punch back because we will not get any sympathy from the courts are more likely to be revictimized with a jail sentence if we do. We are just expected to take it, no matter how severe our injuries might get. Also, if the woman uses a weapon like a frying pan(referencing from a few comments down), it can be deadly to a man. Just be…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:11 AM
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Couldn't he use the sex doll as a way to fix his dead bedroom?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 03:17 AM
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How are the incels who haven't murdered or harmed anyone "literal murderers"? This point literally does not make sense. If anything, this will help keep more women from dying because potential future homicidal incels would not feel an urge to act on their violent thoughts. This could be implemented by making a program which brings in incels who are potentially going down this road and gets them help and teaches them appropriate methods of dating and a healthier view of women. After doing this fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 02:20 AM
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While I don't agree with the ideology of incels, I think those who have not committed acts of violence should be helped and given a chance back into society. We both agree that they are not mentally well, but at the same time, you yourself have advocated for the death of innocent men just because they weren't productive to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 09:14 PM
1

Would you mind elaborating on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 06:49 PM
1

How would I do this if I'm Indian?
/r/seduction25/07/19 06:44 PM
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What makes women more innocent than men? I could easily go online and find stories about women raping men. Also what crimes have incels committed? Are they not allowed to think for themselves, or is it just because their thoughts do not fit your narrative? Just because you and I and most people do not agree with black pillers doesn't mean that they should die. If anything, you committed a crime against them with death threats.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 01:19 AM
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Not really, if anything, it makes then worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 05:32 PM
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As much as I hate to say this, I have to say that I have to agree with you. I hate that my dating experiences were like this, but its been rough learning these lessons the hard way. I don't think I have as negative of a view as you do about women, and I hope it doesn't get to that point. However, I see where your coming from. If I disagree with anything, it would be the complete domination part. I try to dominate in order to even the scales and force an equal relationship power wise. Relying on …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 08:43 PM
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Numbness does not take away the pain in life. It only takes away the pleasure. Personally, I numbed myself to the point where I literally felt nothing but my negative emotions, I recommend not following through with this misconception.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 08:36 PM
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While I agree that they are at fault for staying, I do not understand why you are using such vituperative language. All my point was that I like it when women are polite when turning me down and that I think more of them for it. If they stay and are bothering you, you have every right to tell them to fuck off if necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 11:33 PM
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It doesn't make you heartless. While it's not right, some women keep around beta orbiters just for their own validation. You're not doing that, which in the end, helps the men in question. In addition to that, your being polite and declining. While I understand women may be afraid that men may get violent if they do this, I personally am grateful and have more respect for them, even if we don't end up friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 07:56 PM
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I don't blame you. Thinking creatively is quite erotic.
/r/seduction21/07/19 08:19 AM
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Perhaps your right. You make good points. I guess it couldn't hurt to try it your way a few times.
/r/seduction21/07/19 12:32 AM
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I agree with the moderator's reply, but my point was that while you should be available, you shouldn't be too available. I could have said this better in my first comment, but the point I was trying to get at was that being clear with her that your time is valuable and that you are willing to negotiate, but not open up your schedule 100% for a first date is something that I believe is important. I know this to be true because I've had girls who initially showed interest in me ditch me when I rec…
/r/seduction21/07/19 12:06 AM
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This advice was that guys should talk to more girls than one at a time and then see which one they prefer the most. From what I've read, girls get a lot of attention from more than one guy. That's why people say the dating market is tilted to favor women. What's wrong with guys tilting it back by starting with a larger group of people and narrowing it down.
/r/seduction20/07/19 07:32 PM
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I find that piggybacking off what she's saying, or introducing another perspective on her thoughts is very useful. I completely agree with u/Douglex's reply to your comment. Its a lot easier for her to be interested in something she brings up than it is interesting her in something you say. That's why I always do that before leading to my own points.
/r/seduction20/07/19 05:53 PM
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If the guy shows more interest than the girl at the start of the relationship, chances are, she will ditch him. Doing this actually helps him more, because it raises his SMV, making the girl more likely to stick around.
/r/seduction20/07/19 05:49 PM
1

How so?
/r/seduction20/07/19 05:46 PM
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He's lucky. As long as he doesn't stray from the path he's on, he will be a beast in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 03:55 PM
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I'm in high school currently. When I entered, I barely could talk to people, and I had a lot of insecurities. I followed someone who was a leader in my school for a year. I eventually realized that it wasn't going to get me anywhere, so I struck out on my own. Having to deal with my issues by myself helped me because when you don't have someone to make hard things easier for yourself, you tend to learn stuff like this very quickly. I now am much better at socializing, and can even flirt with gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 03:52 PM
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The skills that men use for flirting can be learned peripherally when one tries to better themselves in terms of leadership and personal improvement. I agree you need actual practice to get the experience necessary, but it's not like all the paths to success in this department are closed if you don't have the qualities you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 03:38 PM
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Thank you for the backup bro. Lowkey thought I was going to get an angry feminist response, but its nice to have someone respond in support for a change.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 03:56 PM
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While it may be shameful for a woman to admit that she's slept around, it's not fair to assume that men are not shamed in some sort of way as well. It is shameful for a man to admit he has never slept around. Personally, as a guy, I don't care about the fact that I'm virgin, but I am not going to advertise it needlessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 07:54 AM
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That's because they show subtle behaviors that give them a higher ranking in the social hierarchy in that field. Men are always competing with each other and trying to move up this hierarchy, so they know how to play the game when they are in a new environment. A higher ranking in this hierarchy goes a long way in terms of promotions. Women don't often have to play this game, so they don't stand out as much as a man would even if they have the same, or better qualifications for the job. In any c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 01:51 PM
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Out of curiosity, how do you introduce the idea of taking turns buying rounds to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 01:35 PM
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What privileges do men have?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 01:16 PM
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Your a real romantic there bud. Literally saying your wife isn't a woman of quality. I understand your point, but you didn't need to throw her under the bus.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 06:12 AM
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Out of curiosity, how does society punish women who ask for raises or women who have ambition? Also, men have more to fear by telling off other men. A decent amount of guys still practice chivalry and won't hit girls, but have no qualms about hitting other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 08:38 PM
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That sucks man. My condolences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 02:46 PM
1

What did she do?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 02:08 AM
1

Vasectomies are illogical due to the fact that they are considered permanent and for good reason. If you wanted to reverse a vasectomy, you need to undergo complex surgery. Also, the child is innocent. The baby literally did not do anything to create its own existence, its parents were to blame for screwing up. If you screw up, then you fix the issue, not push the issue onto someone else. Having sex is a commitment, and not following through with said commitment if the least desirable outcome ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 09:55 PM
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The kid does take nutrients from the mother who recieved those nutrients from the food she ate, which either came from an animal or plant. In other words, all she does in the process is carry the baby, nothing else. The baby is merely hitching a ride until birth, at which point, the mother can choose to willingly give up the baby for adoption. The baby is a completely different being, as proven by genetics, tethered to a mother who made bad life choices and isn't willing to face the consequences…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 08:44 PM
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Is that so? A kid is a human, not a parasite as you so described. In order for it to be human, the kid must be alive, and as a result, you can say that it is murder at that point. No one has or should have control over another persons life. From what I read, you believe the same thing with women, and I completely agree with you on that point. No one but the woman to whom the life belongs to should have even a modicum of say in what that woman must do or be. You and I share many similar beliefs, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 07:12 AM
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If they were having sex, and weren't prepared for the worst possible scenario, they should either a) give the baby up for adoption, or b) raise the kid. Its not the kids fault that their parents were not responsible enough to at least have a plan b if things went the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 10:07 PM
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I think that both of you are simply misunderstanding each other. I will agree with Jezebel that women do have a right to their own bodies (as does anyone). But I must disagree with the fact that people should have the right to abort a baby. As a male, I do not know the perspective of a female of this matter, due to the fact that I am not a girl/woman. However, I do know the basic, old tenets of masculinity, including the fact that men are not just supposed to, but are required to by male honor t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 05:20 AM
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