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No crazy shit isn’t too self-explanatory, it’s subjective.. and not a Thot ?? Bro even if a girl doesn’t cheat on you, believe me !! They are checking out guys left and right when you’re not there.. just like men check out and talk about girls when our girls aren’t present … other than that, you should be able to find one .. about reading though and being religious uhh it’s gonna be harder but they’re out there .
/r/seduction29/10/22 04:33 PM
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Seems like he’s looking for confirmation that he’s ugly.. the sooner he accepts it the sooner he can start doing something about it. Being good looking isn’t the only way to get laid… but it is important to acknowledge the truth for you to focus on what you can actually do to reach your goal..
/r/seduction29/10/22 04:35 AM
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At some point we have to admit it to ourselves so we can now focus on the things that we can control …
/r/seduction29/10/22 01:44 AM
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You are ugly bro, honestly it’s gonna be hard for a girl to find you handsome.. best thing you can do is go to the gym and get muscular, get a better hair cut but that’s about it .. plastic surgery maybe ?? Other than that, don’t expect to pull hot girls by the way you look cause you’re honestly not very good looking.. that’s just the truth, so either find an ugly girl or make tons of money to get a gold digger.. the truth is , most people aren’t lucky enough to be good looking and well , we nee…
/r/seduction29/10/22 01:26 AM
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The easiest thing in the world is talking to someone who smokes bro .. come on, you both smoke ! That’s something in common, just talk about smoking .. that’s how I literally made a lot of friends when I used to smoke
/r/seduction28/10/22 06:55 PM
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Then you’re the outlier that doesn’t get laid , period.
/r/seduction27/10/22 07:06 AM
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What do these teach?
/r/seduction24/10/22 08:21 PM
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You don’t have to! But most guys want to and then complain that they don’t… so if you wanna have sex on the first day, how about you actually try to have it every time you go on a first date ?
/r/seduction24/10/22 03:56 PM
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Yeah 100% !! It’s a major turn off when I see a girl that is already good looking trying to improve their looks even more with surgeries ! It’s a red flag, shows you don’t know how to be grateful for what you have; so if your already almost perfect looks can’t have you satisfied then I’m not gonna be enough for you either no matter how high value I am.. it’s also a major turn off when they are constantly comparing themselves with other girls “looks” and material possessions ….
/r/seduction19/10/22 09:05 PM
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Well, high value men don’t care about looks anymore .. sure they wont date someone below average probably but they won’t be going after the hottest women either .. they’ll be happy to be with a humble girl even if she’s not the hottest girl… as long as she’s caring, loving , loyal, charismatic and funny .. you’re not really high value if you like being with a hot shallow materialistic girl.. those aren’t worth it at the end of the day , so why would you be with someone that’s not worth it ? Unle…
/r/seduction19/10/22 04:28 PM
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Yeah exactly what you said Happened to me but closer to my Mid 20’s.. I wish it would’ve happened at 18.. then in my mid 20’s after putting in months of work results started to come in.. but it Also had to do with me valuing My self better… know your worth and constantly try to increase it and don’t let the opinions of others affect your opinion on yourself .. they all have flaws just like you do so no one is really better than you..
/r/seduction18/10/22 05:08 PM
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I’ve gotten over that now, but it did affect me for a while ..
/r/seduction17/10/22 02:33 PM
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Yup, people just come here to feel smart.. they love correcting others in a fucked up way…
/r/seduction17/10/22 02:32 PM
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I needed jaw surgery too, for other reasons but it wasn’t 100% necessary.. after letting my beard grow it hid my imperfections so I started getting a lot more attention as a consequence… before when I was clean shaved I was still able to pull decent looking girls though but not as often as I would like… crazy how a little change can change your whole life
/r/seduction17/10/22 06:49 AM
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Yeah super conservative, I felt ashamed of having a GF when I was in HS because my mom said I couldn’t have one until I graduated college..
/r/seduction17/10/22 04:55 AM
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Yeah it’s their nature
/r/seduction17/10/22 04:54 AM
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I understand why it would sound fake.. 99% of guys / people don’t have experiences like that.. but then again, if you’re not in the top 20% in terms of looks (which I am, I often get told I’m an 8/10 in looks) then you’re likely not going to experience this … even if you’re in the top 20% in looks you still have to know how to spit game though .. which I’m good at, I’m a sales man, I’m good at talking to ppl and persuading them
/r/seduction16/10/22 08:05 PM
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Yup, they say one thing and do the complete opposite.. never trust what a woman says, it’s her actions that really say the truth..
/r/seduction16/10/22 05:15 PM
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That was a while back when I had zero social skills and was insecure due to the fact that I never went to a party In my teens because I was playing academy soccer so I would spend every day training with my team, had like 3 games per week and school work to do, while everyone else was partying , fucking and going on dates, drinking .. even though I had a lot of positive comments on my pictures and girls constantly Friend requesting me … I still never thought nothing of it. Just now I realized al…
/r/seduction16/10/22 04:58 PM
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My stripper Gf broke up with me cause she thought I was too good for her .. she said this to me “you’re cute , know how to talk to women and are almost done with your bachelors, will make good money “ I’m insecure that you’re gonna cheat on me because I’m just a whore so before I fall more for you I’m gonna have to back off “ .. it’s not the first time a girl cuts contact with me because she likes me too much .. My HS gf did the same thing but a week later came back crying for an opportunity.. w…
/r/seduction16/10/22 04:55 PM
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Probably but idk where I got that idea from, literally I would get called hot, cute etc by random girls while walking down the street almost every time I walked (haven’t walked since I was 17 and got a car) … even though I’ve had a lot of girls show interest but I never saw it like that back then. Just recently I started noticing when a girl is interested .. I’ve never been aware of my surroundings, always focus on my Thing but as I started to become more aware i realized I’ve been passing out o…
/r/seduction16/10/22 04:51 PM
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Dude one time a girl literally asked me at the mall If she can take a pic with me .. and idk how the fuck I missed that hint lmao ..
/r/seduction16/10/22 06:59 AM
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Yeah I’m considering leaving this sub as well.. the only thing this sub did for me was confirming my hypothesis.., I had already thought about it but was in denial at first !! I had to grow the balls and practice in real life, that’s what really taught me .. I’m only here to try to help people but there’s always counter arguments from idiots that have zero real life experience contradicting my advices , and a lot of people in denial that aren’t willing to put in the work !! Nothing you do or say…
/r/seduction15/10/22 04:23 PM
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Whatever works for you.. this has worked for me so it was obviously a great advice that someone gave me… it’s a great indirect approach , once you establish a little rapport , you start flirting right away and if she doesn’t like you then Move on .. it also allows you to develop conversation skills which will help you a lot in other ways other than approaching women.. your way isn’t the “only way that works” not everyone functions like you do.. some people might consider your approach to be terr…
/r/seduction15/10/22 04:08 PM
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I cold approach as I go about my day… chat up girls at gas stations, super market , when I go play soccer, when I go buy supplies for my business , when I go to class, the coffee shop when I’m doing home work, the park when I go run, mall when I buy clothes, etc etc.. plus cold approaching allows you to pick that cute girls you randomly see .. I’m tired of online dating, I got like 50 hook ups from online dating but always wished I could get at that girl I saw where I happened to be at, so I swi…
/r/seduction15/10/22 04:02 PM
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That’s the only way for some people to meet women.. not everyone has the time to have a social life… for some people it’s easier to have a 5 min conversation and then ask for the number , possibly start texting them and set up a date than getting involved in social activities, social circles or any other “normal way” . some people just have too much going on. I have to run my business , exercise daily , and be a full time student .. where in the world am I gonna find time to be social ? .. I rat…
/r/seduction15/10/22 08:08 AM
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of course you have to push yourself, it’s like going to the gym.. real results come after months of constantly pushing yourself .. so if you do it today, don’t go home happy because you did it once.. right after doing it, try to do it a few more times that same day . That’s the only way you’ll develop consistency .. then tomorrow do it again a few times using your latest experience as a reference
/r/seduction14/10/22 06:24 PM
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After you do it once, try to do it as much as you can for the rest of the day to build consistency .. if you only do it once a week, or once in a while you will never be able to do it consistently..
/r/seduction14/10/22 06:22 PM
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Dude just observe your surroundings and come up with something to talk about from your observations.. something will always come up, trust ! Then take it from there.. I literally talked to a bunch of different girls the day of my orientation just from commenting on what was going on around us
/r/seduction14/10/22 06:19 PM
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Dude I’ve had tons of car sex.. just find a place and park and fuck.. most girls don’t care either , they just wanna fuck so will do it in the car.. I’ve done it at every time of the day as well
/r/seduction14/10/22 06:03 PM
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Look bro one time I was talking to this girl so I was like “so what are you doing after ?” And she was like, I’m a go eat, and then I said “oh yeah ! Eat what 😏 ?” But you gotta say it with a certain type of tone ..use your tonality to send a “hidden message” so she understood my hidden message and was like “pussy” lol do you eat pussy?? .. and went from there .. words alone won’t get you there, it’s a combination of face expressions along with your voice tone .. and of course your looks.. if sh…
/r/seduction14/10/22 01:25 AM
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Then just keep working on your social skills, keep trying bro.. it’s not even about your personality, people who are evil as fuck have other evil friends.. it’s about your social skills, learn to socialize , It means to be yourself around people and don’t worry about their opinion on you.. the right people will stick around !! Takes time but everything I told you is the only way…
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:48 PM
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I told you different ways that I’ve made friends with girls before bro, online isn’t the only way..
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:44 PM
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I’ve never made friends with many women cause It’s not hard for me to find a girl that’s willing to fuck within 1-2 weeks of meeting but the very few I’ve made friends with, I met through school, work, my neighbors , coed sports leagues , or through cousins or other male friends .. and online. The ones I’m not attracted to that message me become friends sometimes
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:41 PM
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By talking to them and being yourself around them… the ones whose personality is compatible to yours will stick around and those will be the ones that will introduce you to their friends with similar personalities… the ones whose personality isn’t compatible then will just leave but that’s fine cause not everyone is gonna like your personality so you don’t need those people in your life..
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:35 PM
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I gave him 2 specific examples that have worked for me ..
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:34 PM
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If you’re a 3/10 then you shouldn’t have any problem getting girls who are 3/10 .. so then you need to work on your personality and social skills.. see ? Everything I told you applies… if you get that plastic surgery and you dress cool, get ripped , get a cool haircut , given that you’ve developed your social skills; then you should be able to get a 5/10 or 6/10 …
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:31 PM
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Yup everything I told you applies , just let go of your ego and apply it
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:27 PM
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It’s Same with all women, they just sleep around within their own range of attractiveness … look not all women are like that, but the majority are … so your best bet would be to look for a below average introvert with low sexual libido .. cause even ugly girls with high sexual drive get used as cum dumpsters by cute guys that would fuck anything that moves ..
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:22 PM
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Yeah just remember how in HS and college a lot of girls had crushes on their professors ?? Well just stay fit and you’ll have plenty of options through your 30’s and 40’s ….
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:20 PM
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Yeah man that’s reality… good looking girls have tons of options so unless they have a lower sexual libido, the older they are the higher their body count !! Good women that are looking with a low body count get married young …. Not saying older good looking girls aren’t good women, I’m saying they will just have a higher body count..
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:19 PM
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Yeah bro that’s your only option.. the quicker you realize it and let go of your ego the quicker you’ll start getting laid… all girls do that even to cute guys, they’ll fuck a lot of cute guys and then settle down with one of them.. the only way you will find a girl that hasn’t been around is by meeting them before age 20 and marrying them at that age …
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:16 PM
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Just stick around.. when they realize cuter guys just use them for sex but never take them serious they will end up giving you a chance since you’re the only one willing to take them serious
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:12 PM
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People are just like that bro.. even guys ! We want a cute girl.. you could get laid but with someone similar in looks to you.. you can still Get a cute girl but don’t expect to get a ton left and right .. the way it would work would be by hanging out with her as friends and proving your personality is better than her other option’s personality, listen to her , give her what she wants mentally and then she’ll like you once she’s mature enough .
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:08 PM
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Damn bro then yeah I guess you weren’t blessed with a decent face.. at this point maybe getting some plastic surgery , and keep working out get ripped … also get a cool hair cut and wear clothes that will show case your muscles … I’ve seen famous soccer players get plastic surgery cause they were ugly as fuck and they became better looking
/r/seduction13/10/22 04:03 PM
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Uh you could be Indian and get girls but then .. maybe your face isn’t that cute ??
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:59 PM
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Like this: let’s say you haven’t seen her since Friday and it’s Monday “I hate mondays but the only good thing about it is that I get to see you again so I’m actually starting to love Mondays” if a girl thinks you’re cute or likes you she will love to hear that from you.. if she didn’t already like you or thinks you’re cute, no amount of flirting will make her change her mind …. Also like “I love your outfit , and your hair looks amazing today” .. like I said, If they find you attractive this li…
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:55 PM
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Then you haven’t done anything about it bro.. that’s not normal. You must have personality/ social skills issues … work on your flaws !! I started getting more attention until I got a cool hair cut, cool facial hair, started lifting weights and started dressing with cool shoes and clothes that fit me and showcase my body figure … also when I started practicing my social skills since my confidence grew and bettering my posture as well…
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:52 PM
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I’ve seen guys in their 30’s with their shit together , fit bodies , and more confidence get more girls than guys in college… when you’re in you’re 30’s your dating pool gets bigger .. seems like everyone wants you?? I’m in my late 20’s but I get a ton more attention now than I did in my late teens , early 20‘s .. if you get your shit together and work on your self , definitely your 30’s will be your best years .. I would say between 32 and 36 would be your prime.. you can date 10-12 years young…
/r/seduction13/10/22 03:38 PM
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Those words will vary among different women.. it’s imposible for all women to fall for the same words .. because it also depends on how you carry yourself , not just what you say but how you say it and their current life situation
/r/seduction11/10/22 02:52 PM
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Bro why does someone always have to have a counter argument .. this sub is about changing your mentality, these counter arguments keep you focused on the negatives…. No one denies looks matter but not all girls are gonna find you ugly just how not everyone is gonna find you cute.. it’s mostly about confidence, exactly what this guy said In his comment .. if you’re confident it will make you more attractive because you will dress how you want , say what you want , get the haircut that you want wi…
/r/seduction09/10/22 06:26 PM
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I think it’s a dominant attitude .. you’re born to dominate or be dominated .. I think guys who can attract girls do so because they don’t mind confrontation when they have to face it.. and guys who avoid it at all costs are the ones who can’t attract them unless they literally super hot.. so yeah it’s your attitude , there was a guy in middle school who had a pathetic pussy ass personality and had zero girls.. 2 years later his attitude was completely different, stopped being a scary cat and ob…
/r/seduction09/10/22 05:42 PM
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Bro you’re not perfect , not everyone is gonna like you.. plus my current GF said to me, sometimes girls just reject guys for fun even if they like them because some girls just get a thrill from rejecting good looking guys.. like when a Rich guys throws money away for the fuck of it cause they have a lot to Throw so they don’t know what else to do with it .. you get it ??
/r/seduction09/10/22 05:03 PM
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I guess a lot of guys got used to their parents doing everything for them, that they expect girls to fall in their lap.. 2 of my cousins can’t get laid cause their parents never made them make an effort for anything so they can’t make an effort to get laid (they’re 30 and have never worked cause their parents are doctors so they’re set) they rather get stuck in video games and porn…. My uncle grew up just like them but after going to live on his own, he learned to make an effort so naturally he …
/r/seduction06/10/22 11:57 PM
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No but seriously bro, if you can’t get laid you really have to fix your personality or change your habits but to change your habits sometimes you gotta fix your personality first.. I’ve seen ugly idiots get laid … all these ugly idiots did was just socialize and didn’t care too much about other peoples opinions… if you can’t get laid it’s cause there’s a psychological/personality issue you gotta fix… if your excuse is that you’re ugly, there’s no reason why you can’t get laid with another ugly g…
/r/seduction06/10/22 11:52 PM
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Thats the problem with guys that can’t get laid.. they look for help but refuse to change.. it’s not normal for a guy not to get laid, there must be something wrong with them, it’s not always looks.. they gotta take a look at their personality, be honest with themselves but they also don’t wanna hurt their ego so how are they gonna change ???
/r/seduction06/10/22 11:45 PM
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Social circles work though if your friends consistently meet other people and bring them around .. but if it’s just you 5 and you never meet other ppl then of course it won’t work.. I’ve hooked up with friends cousins, and friends of friends ..
/r/seduction06/10/22 11:18 PM
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Thats what I’ve been saying.. idk why people are in this sub, if they’re going to contradict every advice given and come up with excuses as to why it won’t work , yet they’re asking for help??? If something isn’t working for you then you have to change , the world won’t change for you… I’ve been in this sub for a year and I’m only still here to give constructive advice but people always reply with something stupid .. Everything I read here further confirmed what I had already thought about but r…
/r/seduction06/10/22 11:05 PM
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If she already likes you just talk to her normal, invite her out as soon as possible and make a move …. Don’t make this more complicated than it is… she already likes you dude !! It’s a done deal unless you fuck it up by acting weird or shy
/r/seduction06/10/22 06:32 AM
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Idk bro, some people like me are just born with it.. maybe you’re born with it too but you haven’t tried so you don’t know.. other people become like that because of the way they’re raised, people they hang out with etc.. for some guys they have to completely change their perspective and personality to find that balance ..
/r/seduction04/10/22 07:40 AM
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Not everything he said applies to every girl but for the most part everything he said is the true … it’s what’s more likely to work..
/r/seduction04/10/22 07:39 AM
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Idk bro I disagree , case I’ve literally said to girls “damn that’s a fat ass” and they automatically started liking me ?? I noticed the more direct you are the more rejections but also the higher the chance of getting laid.. I used to think like you until I witnessed a lot of girls respond positively to direct compliments … it depends on the girl honestly , what works on one doesn’t work on another, just find a style and stick to it. Or learn to use different approaches . it is a number game at…
/r/seduction02/10/22 06:19 AM
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This sub is full of people with excuses .. yet they come here for advice, refuse to take it and come up with some more excuses as to why it won’t work . it’s pathetic lol for every person that comments something positive, there’s like 5 others that reply with something negative .. yet they’re here looking for help ?? No matter how much you read , ask for advice etc, if you don’t change your mentality from negative to positive then nothing you read will ever help you ..
/r/seduction02/10/22 06:15 AM
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Yea true .. but thats the best advice I could give you.. there’s really no other way around it, max out your looks and settle down with the best looking girl your looks can attract… if you really want a cute Gf then maxing out your looks would increase your chances but if thats still not enough , your best bet would be to become simply friends with good looking girls and wait to see if one of them ends up falling for your personality.. that’s reality for most people that aren’t good looking .. G…
/r/seduction02/10/22 02:22 AM
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If you don’t want a girl to want you only for your money then yeah you’re gonna have to settle for whatever girl you can get since she’ll like you for you.. but don’t lose hope, I’ve seen ugly dudes with hot girls… and the hot girls I’ve met that had ugly dudes said they were friends first for a while and they realized the ugly dude understood them , listened to them and had other better qualities than her “good looking” options so they went for the ugly dude instead.. if you’re ugly then you be…
/r/seduction02/10/22 02:14 AM
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They have to settle for whatever they can get just like you are gonna have to settle as well
/r/seduction02/10/22 12:01 AM
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Of course… just get it in your head that not all girls will like you and you’re right , if they find you ugly you can’t really do much but don’t assume cause a few girls find you ugly that no one will find you good looking enough to date .. the good thing about being average looking is that not everyone will find you cute but at the same time there will be girls who will find you good looking .. you don’t know how many times I’ve been called ugly but also several other times I’ve been called han…
/r/seduction30/09/22 01:51 AM
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Looks matter but most people are good looking enough to date a decent looking girl.. my short ugly friend has dated more good looking girls than my tall good looking friend .. the short one was funny, confident and persistent .. the tall one lacked self esteem , courage, and confidence , and humor…. Cute girls often told me that they liked him but he never did anything about It even though he liked them back and ended up marrying a below average looking girl that treats him like shit
/r/seduction30/09/22 01:45 AM
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As long as you keep that mentality then nothing you read here will help your case.. it’s not about reading a post and commenting something negative.. it’s about learning to listen to people’s advices.. maybe the reason you get no girls is because you don’t know how to listen to them.. the reason I had a hot ass stripper girl friend for a few months was because she said that “I listen to her “ so thats what attracted her to me and made me stand out from the other guys that threw a bunch of money …
/r/seduction30/09/22 01:39 AM
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Don’t Include me in “you and I” ever since I stoped putting them in a pedestal, recognized them as equal and human full of mistakes just like me , I learned to relax and be myself around them, stopped holding back from saying whatever I wanted to say , I started getting a lot more respect from them and more success seducing them.. I even got myself a stripper girl friend ..
/r/seduction29/09/22 11:38 PM
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Lies… they do it to pull the guy that they want… and to boost their self esteem by making other girls envious of them.. but whose gonna admit that? No one
/r/seduction29/09/22 01:59 AM
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Help on social skills ? Lol bro you haven’t said anything constructive.. as long as you keep Chad in your mind you won’t be of any help here
/r/seduction29/09/22 12:43 AM
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Then idk what you’re doing on this sub if you’re not contributing positively lol you could always get a sugar baby.. my hot ass ex stripper GF stopped seeing me cause she became exclusive with her 50 year old , fat , bald sugar daddy who provides everything for her , she was only 22 .. .. she said since she started fucking only him it gets to a point that she gets turned on during sex cause that’s her only sex partner at the moment
/r/seduction28/09/22 10:07 PM
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Then go for ugly girls .. I’ve seen ugly ass dudes with cute girls cause they have a dominant personality, got ripped at the gym and learned to listen to girls and how to charm them through trial and error, if girls see other guys respect you then that’s a step closer to conquering them.. excuses are like assholes, we all have one and they’re all full of shit ..
/r/seduction28/09/22 10:03 PM
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That’s why I said, what are you doing to improve your looks ? Have bad teeth? Save up , get a part time to pay for your treatment, same if you’re balding .. make the gym and eating right your priorities, don’t have a cool style ? Let go of your pride and change it to resemble the style that girls like on guys, you aren’t tall? Try to go for good looking girls shorter than you … I used to be so proud of my style until I realized most girls weren’t into it , when I changed it girls showed a lot mo…
/r/seduction28/09/22 09:57 PM
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If you can’t get rid of the mentality that only chads can get these girls then why are you in this sub? Nothing you read will help you out … this sub is gonna work only for those that are willing to adjust their mentality and are willing to do what it takes to increase their attractiveness…. The truth is, you don’t deserve that cute girl not because you’re not a Chad looking guy , but because you’re not putting in the work required to get one .. ive had opportunities with girls I never thought I…
/r/seduction28/09/22 09:24 PM
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Yeah I’ve been turned off by beautiful girls after hearing them talk and seeing the way they think..
/r/seduction27/09/22 11:57 PM
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Improving will work for most people… Some people fail to see what they lack and accept criticism, so how are they going to improve ??.. in their head they believe what they have done is enough but in reality it might not be enough and gotta improve more ..
/r/seduction27/09/22 11:55 PM
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Exactly bro… the reason you don’t deserve to have a cute girl is cause you aren’t approaching them and putting in the work to get one.. they just can’t fall on your lap.. you’ll deserve one the day you start putting in the work it takes to get one …
/r/seduction27/09/22 09:48 PM
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For the most part , but sometimes their charm wins .. my girl is good looking but I’ve dated hotter .. however , she’s so sweet and caring and down to earth that I prefer her over better looking, more shallow girls that I could be with
/r/seduction27/09/22 09:03 PM
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Maybe young girls but Personality and looks won’t pay the bills …. At the end of the day when women mature they will be turned off by a good looking looser and turned on by the good looking loser’s boss with status and money.. because the ugly boss dominates the good looking loser …. My hot ass stripper girl friend broke up with me to be with a fat bald 50 year old with money.. she said guys that make her life easier money wise turn her on more than good looking young guys (she gets hit on every…
/r/seduction27/09/22 05:14 AM
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Yup it’s all about status and money… especially when you get out of college, women won’t go out with you if looks is all you have to offer .. they don’t wanna end up with a good looking looser … if you’re good looking they might fuck you but when they want a serious relationship, especially after experiencing how expensive life is, they’ll go for status and money at the end of the day ..
/r/seduction26/09/22 11:32 PM
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Indeed I’ve been very lucky in this life thank god
/r/seduction25/09/22 06:57 PM
1

How the fuck do you assume so much shit ? You dont even know me or have seen me .. I don’t even think I’m hot , I’m like a 7.5 but I’ve been told I’m an 8 .... alright I’m done arguing with pussies
/r/seduction25/09/22 06:52 PM
-6

Foo I’ve fucked 90+ girls I don’t care about anyone’s opinion.. I’m way way way above average so it’s obvious average dudes like you guys won’t believe me cause since you all can’t do it , then you can’t comprehend how someone can …. Simple: stay in shape, keep a cool haircut , dress good, develop social skills, hustle, respect your self by going after what you want and stop taking rejection personally. Set boundaries and don’t let no one pass them
/r/seduction25/09/22 06:47 PM
-6

Haha apparently you can’t believe something that hasn’t happened to you lol.. the only reason I joined this sub is cause I thought everyone was getting laid every weekend by a different girl.. which is what I wanted to do.. I got tired of getting laid by a new girl every month, I thought I was behind everyone but I see I’m way above average like 10 times the average.. so I’m ok now, I should feel lucky.. I started getting laid shortly after turning 15 and hasn’t stopped in 10 years.. a new girl …
/r/seduction25/09/22 06:13 PM
6

Hahaha this attitude is what allowed me to fuck 90+ girls I’ve never asked out none of my girl friends .. they always did
/r/seduction25/09/22 06:05 PM
23

Fuck her testing , move on.. call her out on her bullshit .. or ignore her ! Respect yourself , you don’t gotta pass no one’s bullshit tests.. there’s tons of girls out there
/r/seduction25/09/22 05:57 PM
37

I usually just pull them towards me and kiss them… or try holding their hand while walking… if they hold your hand back it’s pretty much a done deal, kiss them as soon as you can after that
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:17 PM
1

I bet not if they come from a guy they’re attracted to
/r/seduction24/09/22 05:22 PM
6

Set your boundaries and don’t let no one pass them including girls .. get really fit to gain more confidence about a possible confrontation.. learn how to take rejection
/r/seduction21/09/22 04:11 PM
3

Idk bro I just open my mouth and girls laugh… idk if they do it cause I’m really funny or cause they like me so they laugh regardless… making them laugh is super important though
/r/seduction20/09/22 10:24 PM
2

If you have to seduce some one in the beginning is because they do not naturally flock to you so you have to “seduce” them.. you’re contradicting yourself.. if they naturally want you then there’s no seducing to do, she’s ready to go
/r/seduction20/09/22 08:34 PM
1

Yeah I see a tons of girls looking at me everywhere I go.. i just started developing a high self esteem as well maybe just work on that, appreciate yourself more and stop minding about people’s opinions ..
/r/seduction19/09/22 07:57 PM
1

I especially dislike attention from gay guys.. for me it’s not a compliment at all being hit on by gay guys every time there’s one near me .. it’s more of an insult , why won’t girls hit on me this aggressively ?? It only happens at bars but I hardly go to bars .. maybe you just need more self esteem bro .. if your face is a 7 and your height isn’t too bad like atleast 5’7- 5’8 then if you get shredded and dress cool plus a cool haircut then that’ll probably make you an 8 in attractiveness …. 90…
/r/seduction19/09/22 07:07 PM
1

In my grading scale if you’re shredded you would be swimming in pussy 8-9 unless there’s something odd going on with you like your dressing style or you’re not showing off your body as much or you’re really short .. or somehow even after getting shredded you’ve maintained a poor personality .. without being shredded I’ve been told I’m like an 8 but I don’t wanna pump up my self too much so I label myself a 7.5 .. I’m in shape though just not shredded
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:18 PM
0

Maybe the way I grade is different .. for me a 5 is a person that’s kinda ugly and out of shape but has room for improvement.. a 6 is a person that’s not ugly but kinda chunky , 7 is just a person that’s not ugly and skinny with room for improvement especially in their body).. a 7.5 is a person that is kinda cute but also room for improvement (I need to get shredded) .. a 8 is a person that’s just cute and most ppl would agree ,skinny but not great body .. 9 is a person that’s cute with a good b…
/r/seduction19/09/22 03:36 AM
2

Some girls like you a lot that even if you don’t push for sex they will be patient just like guys when they really like a girl.. sometimes you think you don’t want a serious relationship and just sex but the connection happens to be stronger than you thought so you start changing your mind and all of a sudden don’t mind waiting for sex to happen, so instead of rushing it you wait for fear of loosing the person ..
/r/seduction19/09/22 12:24 AM
0

Well I think I’m average like a 7.5 out of 10 .. I haven’t maxed out my looks yet though
/r/seduction18/09/22 09:29 PM
1

I actually fucked about 97 girls I just feel embarrassed now so I always say around 60 .. when you get older it makes you look bad having been around that much .. (plus a dozen more just head and make out sessions ) I’m still surprised I’ve never had an std and up until my last check up last week always been clean
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:21 PM
5

You don’t know about girls at all… if there’s a pattern I’ve noticed is that girls say one thing and often really want something else.. now please if you are just talking out of assumptions stop replying cause I’m talking out of experience and you’re taking out of your inexperienced self belief
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:14 PM
3

now you’re just wrongly assuming. Have you done your research ? Most girls have an ex for a reason, (they don’t want them anymore) the only way to prove your assumptions is by doing surveys and research …. Not all girls want a relationship either so they are open to random hook ups or fwb .. if girls weren’t going around looking for it then why have I found so many that are ? I think my experience outweighs your assumptions
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:11 PM
2

It depends on what the girl wants.. some want sex quick, others don’t mind waiting because they really like you…. That’s why is easy to have casual sex but difficult to fall into a good relationship, both of you gotta want the same thing at the same time.. I’ve only had like 3-4 serious relationships but over 60 hooks ups
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:06 PM
3

I talk out of experience.. in my experience girls want sex just as much as we do but some of them also suffer fear of rejection so will wait for the guy to make the move and most guys assume girls don’t wanna get laid quick so stop them selves from making a move soon .. most of the 60+ girls I’ve been with we did it within the first 2 dates.. if we didn’t at least make out the first day I wouldn’t call them again, and even when that happened, a few of them asked me to kiss them next date .. some…
/r/seduction18/09/22 07:40 PM
19

Fuck the pride .. understand that women want sex just as much as guys do
/r/seduction18/09/22 06:17 PM
8

This definitely applies to a lot of people but the majority especially when young does expect sex to happen quick.. only guys with less options or when you really really like the girl are willing to wait .
/r/seduction18/09/22 06:06 PM
0

Think whatever you want buddy,, only I know what me and her lived through
/r/seduction16/09/22 08:44 PM
1

Oh well I was anxious like you so I started going to strip clubs and that’s where my anxiety disappeared cause I would just try to have fun talking to the girls and drinking and then I realized if I was able to pull a stripper for free then I can do it with regular girls in real life
/r/seduction16/09/22 05:33 PM
4

Dude just hit on them like you would any other girl… I pulled a stripper and got all her attention for free , banged her for free 11 times , even met her parents (we lasted 2 months before splitting up due to her insecurities of being a slut she thought she didn’t deserve me she said ) .. just treat them how you would any girl you wanna get at.. sometimes your game will work, others it won’t, no big deal
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:31 PM
1

Average is just not ugly but also not cute …
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:47 AM
1

Bro relax just cause a girl is checking you out doesn’t mean she likes you.. them just like us check out the opposite sex when the chance arises.. you must have really low self esteem to get exited because a girl checks you out… a ton of girls always check me out too but I don’t think nothing of it, I check out girls too just for the fuck of it … if you like her though approach
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:44 PM
1

He’s right lol good looking means 7.5 and up .. 7 is average .. 5 is not even passing so average is 6-7 and 7.5 and up is the top 25% which is good looking .. 1 out of 4 … it’s subjective though in the eyes of every person where you stand
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:40 PM
2

He probably meant when he pays someone to date him he has the most success lol
/r/seduction03/09/22 10:56 PM
2

Then you ve been fooled lol countless girls always turn to check me out when they’re out at the mall or a restaurant with their dude and they mainly do it when the dude happens to look elsewhere but they also just randomly look and then their dude turns around to see wtf they looked at hahaha
/r/seduction03/09/22 10:54 PM
4

Are you dumb bro? She matches with you on a hook up app and you’re still being a pussy about it.. make a move as soon as possible
/r/seduction03/09/22 05:06 PM
1

Yeah he did haha and no bro once you get used to approaching your nerves will calm down.. I was super nervous my first approach and I still get nervous but it’s less every time … and I noticed at first since I would clearly look nervous, the girls would look at me and start reciprocating my energy acting the same way.. but when I approach with a smile, and looking calm in a respectful manner , they smile back and seem relaxed as well
/r/seduction02/09/22 06:38 PM
2

Sometimes a guy is too nervous that they don’t realize they’re projecting a creepy vibe.. which will make them feel the same way. If you approach calmly with confidence and know what to say, most of the time they will gladly talk to you.. I just witness a 50 year old approach and talk to 2 girls 19 and 20 years old at the park.. while I had debated for 40 mins whether to approach or not ,
/r/seduction02/09/22 06:01 PM
1

No thats totally wrong.. most girls actually are educated and respectful, if a random person comes up to you the right way you’re not gonna act like an ass right?? Same with girls. They are people, you are a person, if you come at them the right way they will respectfully talk to u.. the thing is a lot of guys don’t know how to come at them the right way or have bad body language which makes the girl nervous and defensive… if you come at them like “hey cutie let me get your number” even if they …
/r/seduction02/09/22 05:38 PM
1

Yup, my goal is to be able to approach 20 girls in one day, about 1-2 days a week for an hour and a half or so so I can focus on my career the rest of the week lol currently I’m at 1-2 a day but slowly improving
/r/seduction02/09/22 05:25 PM
2

More like what they mean is they don’t like being approached in a creepy way, but if you could approach them in a way that doesn’t feel threatening and you’re able to keep them focused then they won’t mind (there will always be bitches though that are too conceited so reject almost everyone but they’re not the norm)
/r/seduction02/09/22 05:23 PM
2

Yup not necessarily.. if you managed to get used to approaching girls that you like then automatically becomes easier to talk to any random stranger you’re not attracted to
/r/seduction02/09/22 05:21 PM
0

The most attractive hobby probably is “making money” .. girls love a man with money .
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:52 PM
3

Im saving this for sure .. this gotta be It ! There’s no tricks… this is the cold truth
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:52 PM
24

Bro 2 days ago I witnessed a 50 year old approach and talked for 20 minutes to 2 girls 19 and 20 years old , then he got their number and left but he kept them engaged in the conversation.. i had been debating for 40 minutes whether to approach or not overthink everything and here comes this man out of nowhere , got their number , talked and left ..
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:50 PM
12

Maybe you have to make a list of 10 possible openers other than the one you use , and try them all and see which one works best..
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:48 PM
4

He said dating apps lol
/r/seduction30/08/22 05:50 PM
8

All the advice you need is here on Reddit and in analyzing your past experiences with women.. the best book is “learning from trial and error” because a book is useless if you don’t put it to practice. While you read your book, I’m out there making mistakes , learning and progressing… it could be so easy, yesterday I just approached 2 girls sitting in the grass by casually saying “hello can I sit here” and just had an hour talk and exchanged numbers .. I was shitting it first though, but after s…
/r/seduction30/08/22 05:48 PM
1

I play left wing lol .. or you could always focus on girls that are like 5’2 ? Lol my wife is 5’3
/r/seduction26/08/22 09:52 PM
-7

Then what does “get drinks” mean lol … literally if you drink alcohol you won’t need to do anything else to turn them on..
/r/seduction26/08/22 09:44 PM
2

No I was just a soccer player so I have never been big .. I’ve been in shape like 15% body fat but that’s it… there’s days when I wake up and I think I’m cute but then I see other guys and I’m like “fuck I’m not that cute after all” lol but there has been girls that do like me … my point is. Don’t assume all girls want a tall guy, some will like you even if you’re shorter
/r/seduction26/08/22 09:22 PM
2

I have a lil above average body, not muscular though… my face i would say is like a 6-7 but there’s been girls that have called me ugly, but there has also been girls that have called me handsome .. I do have an Ok dressing style though so it might benefit me
/r/seduction26/08/22 09:19 PM
2

5’7 but 10 years ago in Hs I was like 5’5 and as a 14 year old freshmen at 5’4 I was making out with seniors age 18 and a few Inches taller than me
/r/seduction26/08/22 09:04 PM
2

You have the wrong mindset, why do taller girls hit on me if they all want a tall guy? When I was a teen and still 5’5 I had already gotten laid a bunch of times.. I’m 5’7 now and last week some 6 feet plus tall girl kept eye fucking me and smiling while I was walking around with my wife at the beach
/r/seduction26/08/22 08:45 PM
1

Then why the hell have I banged girls that are taller than me ?? Makes no sense lol
/r/seduction26/08/22 08:44 PM
1

Bro a 5 or 6 out of 10 is ugly lol average in my opinion would be like a 6 or 7 .. a 5 isn’t a passing grade
/r/seduction26/08/22 08:28 PM
-7

You were giving awesome advice until you said “get drinks” that kills it all.. if you involve drinks, then thats all you basically need lol you can ignore the rest.. we want advice on how to do it without Involving drinks
/r/seduction26/08/22 08:14 PM
1

I wouldn’t consider myself successful but it could be within the first 30 minutes all the way to when you’re about to go home.. it depends on the vibe and situation.. there’s not a rule that says “within 1-2 hours you have to make a move”
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:48 PM
6

I’ve gotten way better looking girls in person .. OlD I only get 6’s and 7’s .. once in a while a 8 .. but in real life I’ve managed to pull above 8..
/r/seduction24/08/22 07:29 AM
1

Life experiences
/r/seduction22/08/22 05:18 AM
1

A girl wants a guy she can show off and brag about.. and they care more about bragging about how cute or hot their BF is rather than bragging about their qualities.. this might change later in life like in their 30’s but while Being young and superficial all you care about is saying you have a hot partner.. there’s always exceptions though and not all under 25 want that but most do
/r/seduction21/08/22 06:10 PM
4

You just gotta be good looking… my friends are stupid and ignorant as fuck bro like you have no idea how ignorant … but have no problem finding a decent/good looking girl that will put up with their ignorance, stupidity and closeness of mind just because they’re cute .. young girls just really wanna have someone to show off… so yeah it’s all about the looks :/ .. what my other friends said “if you’re not cute then you’re gonna have to provide for these girls to get laid” .. now , is it possible …
/r/seduction21/08/22 03:37 PM
3

Maybe not hundreds but it’s not to hard to fuck 100 especially with social media and online dating, it has become easier than ever to get laid.. if you’re not getting laid and are single is cause you’re extremely ugly or super socially awkward/ quiet / shy
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:39 PM
3

Sometimes it’s true though.. my numbers are like 6 times the average
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:36 PM
6

Simple.. plenty of women are up for random hook ups so stop thinking that all women need an emotional connection to hook up.. and second: some guys trick girls into thinking they are bf and gf just to sleep with them for a while.. that’s ur answer
/r/seduction20/08/22 03:34 PM
2

5’7- 5’’8 .. but I have hooked up with taller girls in the past, some tall girls don’t care about your size, they would go for you regardless … I’ve never been buff either, just about 15% body fat… what helps me the most is dressing cool and staying well groomed ..oh and of course …. Talking to a lot of girls.. I also had a lot of girls turn me down but just keep hitting on them until one of them says yes
/r/seduction19/08/22 10:54 PM
2

Literally anything… I usually just look around and something comes up for me to comment on … then you just gotta know how to carry a conversation (I learned how to keep a conversation going by chatting with strangers online) quick example: I saw a girl sitting on a table alone at the park, I just went up to her and said “can I sit here” she said “yeah” and then I proceeded to ask if she was waiting for someone , she said “no” and then I just made a comment on our environment, then slowly she sta…
/r/seduction19/08/22 08:58 PM
1

Cold approach is to approach a stranger in the street and start a conversation and then you shoot your shot like 5-10 mins into the conversation… or you can just straight up say “you’re pretty . May I have your number” either one is cold approach
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:05 PM
8

Seems like he’s making progress so as long as he progresses he should just keep doing what he’s doing.. let’s let him figure out on his own how to spend less money on dates but that comes later… the most important thing now is that he’s making progress and finally talking to girls
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:44 PM
3

Or they will show show your shoe, or your wrist watch lmfao
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:05 PM
5

Totally !! I especially love that older ladies mostly reject you in a nice way that will make you feel happy Even if you got rejected and the younger girls mostly reject you in a fucked up way that makes you not wanna talk to anyone ever again
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:57 PM
6

Yeah dude idk why when everyone is competing for her attention and you figure you’re not gonna compete because she’s “way out of your league” , that’s when you actually stand out from the crowd and it’s likely she will be interested in you because you’re the only one that isn’t showing interest in her… happened to me a couple of times at different jobs
/r/seduction28/07/22 06:12 PM
20

That’s if you know how to read those subtle signs which most guys don’t… now I agree that guys should start being more aware of situations so they can start reading these approach invitations.. but there’s tons and tons of girls with social anxiety that act like they don’t like you out of nervousness…. So at the end of the day it is a numbers game and the more girls you talk to the faster you’re gonna find one that likes you (i thought one of my ex’s was totally not into me until she told me she…
/r/seduction23/07/22 11:19 PM
4

The problem here is, not every one is going to look at you the way you look at yourself.. if you think you’re ugly, I guarantee there’s someone out there that disagrees with you.. so go up to that hottie, you never know what her tastes are like..
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:06 PM
50

The point of cold approach is to find the girls that like you already… how else are you gonna meet them if what you’re already doing is clearly not working?? Cold approach is about talking to a lot of women until you learn to spot the girls who show interest , which is what the OP is basically saying (pick the ones that pick you) and moving on fast from The girls that aren’t into you..
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:03 PM
7

At a bar ..
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:54 PM
9

In what área ?? Not in mine for sure.. tired of spending my Saturday afternoons sitting near my local cinema
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:52 PM
2

In my experience, I would stay away from the strip club unless I have the money to make it a sustainable life style and are ok with the risk of stds.. it’s ok if you wanna experience hooking up with a stripper go for it though but you might reach my same conclusion .. .. I only go once a month to drink with my friends, laugh and get my hands on sexy ass girls … once in a while you come across a girl that is new and loves all the attention she gets from men at the club that she’s wasnt getting be…
/r/seduction22/07/22 06:34 PM
3

It’s not worth it unless you have really bad social skills that you can’t talk to girls at all or if you just don’t wanna put in the work /time into a normal girl or if you’re a sex Addict and have the money to spend … you can’t even fuck them how you want because you’re always gonna be thinking “what if i catch something” it might be a good experience just to have something to brag to your male friends about but over all it’s not worth it… when I start making a lot of money I’m not gonna get wi…
/r/seduction22/07/22 06:06 PM
3

Yeah that’s common too, think about it, if you have to fuck someone for money, wouldn’t it be better if they weren’t ugly ?? I have a bunch of contacts from girls from the club, I’ve even been to their houses met their parents , etc but even if you don’t hand them cash directly, they are gonna make you spend when you take them out on a date.. the sex is phenomenal though but you’ll spend a lot when taking them Out lol if the money isn’t a problem for you that’s cool bro spend all you want.. all …
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:54 PM
4

I could tell you’re inexperienced cause you’re getting exited because a stripper shows signs that she likes you lol if I had a penny for every stripper that has done that to me I’d be rich in Pennies.. (im the type of guy that a stripper will give her free time to when work is slow even if I’m not tipping her and they won’t get mad about it) a strip club is not the right place for you to get validation from cute girls, if you’re trying to fuck a stripper then do it, it’s easy ! But don’t feel sp…
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:44 PM
3

You’re wrong bro lol finding someone who will take care of them isn’t enough, you have to actually have money, they’re not gonna quit their job for someone that makes 2k a week.. they would for someone that offers them a 2k weekly allowance though plus pay their rent and sustain their life style.. but the moment I had to spend that kind of money in a girl then i wouldn’t spend it on a stripper, there’s plenty of girls with way less milage and less emotional trauma that will gladly go out with yo…
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:35 PM
18

Bro you’re clearly inexperienced lol they do that to everyone, yeah they might like you but tomorrow another guy will come by and they will like him too… I’m not even muscular at all and i get called cute/handsome often at the strip clubs and I get perks that not every guy gets because some do like you, but at the end of the day they don’t like you for you, they like you because they think you have money .. the moment you stop spending money they’re gonna walk away… these girls care mostly about…
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:25 PM
1

Lol you have a very close mindset.. yeah it’s true people will respond positively to hot guys but if they don’t know how to spit game, They’re gonna get laid just as little as your average guy.. I’ve experienced this over and over for almost 2 decades .. your average hot guy isn’t more social than your average guy, hot guys/girls could be just as introverted.. it depends on a lot of factors.. I’ve seen more regular guys with good looking girl friends then hot guys with hot looking girl friends .…
/r/seduction21/07/22 07:35 PM
3

It’s always gonna be the guys with the most resources who get to do this … even if they don’t pay cash directly to The girls, they are spending a lot of money in alcohol, drugs, Airbnb , and all the things kick backs and parties need ! This helps them grow their circle and then the magic happens … plus most girls are drunk while doing this, most probably wouldn’t do it sober .. want to experience that, have something to offer other than your presence ..
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:19 PM
-1

You’re right but you’re wrong if you think everyone ‘s definition of hot is like yours… what May be ugly to you could be hot to someone else.. a lot of times, I thought I was too ugly for someone and they ended up finding me me very handsome ?? And every hot dude is definitely not killing it, back in HS and college it was the most social guys with large friends groups that would get the best looking girls and not the “good looking” but introverted guys..
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:14 PM
1

Know when to put them in their place .. that’s what they secretly want ..
/r/seduction09/07/22 10:34 PM
2

No but you’re right though, the key is to have them thinking about you as much as possible about anything really that is not disrespectful towards you and then they start wondering why they think about you a lot and some conclude that they might like you lol
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:16 PM
1

Yeah all the time even when I feel like I dressed bad .. I wish they would all just come up to hit on me though so getting checked out really doesn’t help , I still gotta put effort to talk to them
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:49 PM
1

But make it clear that you want something else though you can’t just go on that date and act like a friend.. you flirt, you hug , you playfully touch or don’t go on that date at all
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:55 PM
1

Downvote 1000 times … I’d say make your move as soon as possible or else you’ll be friend zoned .. unless the girl is already crushing on you but if that’s the case why wait even longer ?? She’s already ready..
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:52 PM
3

Don’t listen to him… if you don’t wanna be friend zoned then try to escalate soon .. if you wanna get laid don’t wait to Make your move !!! Or else you’ll Be wasting your time
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:50 PM
1

Looks and money is the only thing that matters to people because they would give you a chance almost instantly without getting to know you first if you have any of these 2… it’s very rare to find a girl that wants to see your character first before deciding to give you a chance.. .. if at first sight you don’t look like you have money or are good looking, you’re automatically friend zoned despite a girl saying she doesn’t go for looks or money
/r/seduction24/06/22 06:17 PM
3

There’s felons that are in prison and are still able to find a woman and marry her despite being locked up.. what’s stopping you lol
/r/seduction24/06/22 06:15 PM
2

There’s nothing you can do to seduce him.. if he doesn’t already like you you won’t randomly change his mind unless he’s the type that would fuck anyone that would give it up easy to him.. or if he hasn’t fucked in a while and is desperate
/r/seduction23/06/22 08:52 PM
1

Not necessarily… but you’re more of an idiot for having sex with a drunk girl though
/r/seduction23/06/22 08:39 PM
2

Yeah true !! Agree … unpopular opinion that is true …
/r/seduction23/06/22 08:38 PM
1

We can’t generalize … those girls that show a lot of interest might be doing so cause they really liked you… are you gonna act like an introvert when a girl that you like approaches you ?? Most likely not right ?? … on the other hand, girls that seemed quiet and shy have ended up cheating on their boyfriends with me ….
/r/seduction23/06/22 08:36 PM
1

But most people don’t remain silent when interrogated , the cops know how to trick you into talking. Plus even if they remain silent, %90 of the time , whatever comments they make the other 10% of the time could be enough to convict you..
/r/seduction23/06/22 05:35 PM
0

I just text them until it’s obvious they like me (I never ask them to hang out until I can clearly see they’re into me through texts) then I just invite them to come to my room and it’s a done deal..
/r/seduction23/06/22 05:32 PM
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Also what I learned is that the more effort I put into my appearance (gym , haircuts, dressing style) the better looking girls you get and it makes it way easier to the point that you don’t need no game cause girls will spit game on you.. it also helps to look good because the cashiers will give me extra of whatever I ordered just for my looks, or the waitress serves your food faster than the others, or the girls at the weed shop serve you faster than girl costumers just cause you’re a “cute guy…
/r/seduction20/06/22 06:32 PM
7

You forgot #4 (do not have the same shity mentality as you )
/r/seduction20/06/22 06:30 PM
0

Spark/chemistry/attraction can’t be manufactured .. but just because a girl doesn’t show any of these doesn’t mean you have Zero chance… as long as she doesn’t find you ugly, it’s possible to make her fall for you.. but it’s gonna require time and effort.. I’d prefer spending my time looking for someone who does like me though instead of having to “prove myself” to a girl..
/r/seduction20/06/22 06:22 PM
0

Agreed
/r/seduction20/06/22 02:10 AM
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By failing a lot of times and the analyzing what you think you should do differently next time and with enough trial and error then you learn.. if you came to Reddit looking for a shortcut then the truth is there isn’t.. could take a few months to a couple of years for you to master this.. try learning to analyze your self first and then you’ll learn to analyze your interactions and fix them for the future
/r/seduction19/06/22 01:27 AM
1

Yeah that’s what I thought too that’s why I told you hang out in different circles and stay in the ones that you feel like you grabbed the most attention lol
/r/seduction19/06/22 01:07 AM
1

OLD has been the easiest way for me to get dates as well as my 4-5 main friends I chill with lol.. maybe you need to figure out in which type of circles you feel like you grab the most attention and stick to those.. I don’t think your height has a lot to do with it .. but like one of the above comments said, if you don’t have a good body shape, it’s hard to compete unless you’re very handsome.. that’s why it’s recommended for everyone to hit the gym, it will do wonders unless you’re an anti soci…
/r/seduction19/06/22 12:36 AM
0

If you’re not getting dates through social circle then it definitely has to do with your looks. Especially with the example that you used … when my friend would introduce me to his other group of friends, even if I only went out with them once, the girls In his circle would flirt, hook up or get my number.. this would happen mostly every time I came into a new circle and also happened to my friends .. so I guess you need to work on your appearance or maybe you just lack A lot of confidence, ther…
/r/seduction19/06/22 12:28 AM
0

Things didn’t start changing for me until I stoped being a people’s pleaser… once you do that, it’ll be easier with girls cause they’re also “people” so if you’re not trying to please them, make them like you, it means you don’t care about that they think so you automatically start handling rejection better.. because now you’ve understood that you can’t please everyone so what they think of you won’t matter cause their perception is not your reality , that’s just their own perspective..
/r/seduction19/06/22 12:21 AM
1

Come hang out with me and watch.. how am I supposed to just tell you through here ???
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:20 PM
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Well i experienced it in real life so it’s more of a fact for me because I’ve seen it happen multiple times.. but Then I guess those men and women weren’t raised right
/r/seduction16/06/22 06:17 PM
2

Applies more to women though because I’ve experienced it … on the other hand, men are more likely to respect women they aren’t attracted to..
/r/seduction16/06/22 06:14 PM
15

No lol I treat everyone with the same respect until they disrespect me first
/r/seduction16/06/22 06:13 PM
8

By texting more women and learning from your mistakes
/r/seduction16/06/22 06:12 PM
1

This sub if full of guys with pussy weak mentality that come here trying to find short cuts to sleeping with women but there ain’t any.. its all 1- putting in work into your over all attractiveness and 2- get out your comfort zone and talk to girls ..
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:49 PM
1

I’ve got to the point in life where I’d rather date a girl that’s a 6-7 but humble and likes me for me than dating a 9-10 that wants me for status and is full of vanity
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:44 PM
0

Yeah with shorter women 5’8 or below
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:24 AM
1

Well I just worded it wrong maybe cause I was high af while typing but basically I’ve succeeded in every way without much effort .. I came In here looking for advice on how to succeed every week instead of every 1-2 months and then I realize I only succeed when I go out (every 1-2 months) so if I wanna get a new girl weekly then I need to go out weekly .. I’ve gotten dates hook ups by just randomly talking to girls in any situation , gym , mall, bar, beach, theme parks walking down the street, j…
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:16 AM
1

Maybe it’s the way I come at them…. And then they like what they see on my IG yeah I get rejected a lot but I succeed like this a lot too
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:12 AM
1

Well for me I’m saying why Instagram works better than asking for their number in my experience
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:07 AM
1

I could ! Idk where you’re getting that from lol
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:05 AM
1

I do have experience and I have done it that’s why I’m typing this
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:02 AM
2

Yeah I would because she values a healthy life style and a person that chooses you for your status just wants material things
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:59 AM
2

I wouldn’t like a girl to choose me for status though .. status is great to get laid but I wouldn’t get with a woman that wants me based on my status, or money
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:42 AM
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Yeah but guys here wanna get laid with good looking girls without putting in work in them selves, the gym, or even their dressing style, they come here trying to read some magical words that they can say to girls to get laid
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:38 AM
2

I didn’t say it was everything but it will get you laid easier and , status and money actually take longer and are harder to achieve than a good body at the gym..
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:31 AM
2

Of course bro not saying you won’t be able to get a good looking girl being an average guy ( .. my point is that if you want to consistently get with different type of food looking women then you have to increase your physical attractiveness.. or else it’s gonna take sometime for you to prove your self , and the point is to make it easier for you not harder ..
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:09 AM
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Well everything you said is right but except the benefits of working out.. if you think girls don’t get turned on by looking at your cut up arms, defined chest, manly shoulders and back then you’re delusional lol this is the type of things that will get girls approaching you in person especially at clubs and parties, you showcasing your muscles through your clothes is a pussy magnet at said venues given you also know how to spit game.. plus yeah a girl might wanna marry that funny chubby guy wit…
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:00 AM
1

He is ugly bro , and the girls he grinds with have a hot body Ok face but still hot body..
/r/seduction13/06/22 03:53 AM
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How else are you going to become better looking ? Improving your face, and body would be the only ways.. girls do care about looks, you at least have to be fuckable for them to wanna date you/ fuck you..
/r/seduction13/06/22 03:53 AM
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Agree
/r/seduction13/06/22 03:04 AM
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Why do they expect results with out putting in work into their physical appearance? That’s the only thing that is gonna make women more attracted to you .. it would make spitting game easier if you’d just work out and get a decent body shape
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:58 AM
1

Then that’s why you Start working towards becoming less boring
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:43 AM
1

My friend is all that you said and just because he’s tall I’ve seen him grinding with hot girls at the club
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:36 AM
2

Maybe it depends on your social environment.. I’ve read here on Reddit that in the environment in which they move in, a girl will not even give you the time of the day if you don’t have money or status or could benefit them in any way .. so he’s thinking about not moving to LA because he wouldn’t have the status and power he has now with his 150k a year salary he has now
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:32 AM
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Mhmm I would suggest to have multiple sources of getting women kinda like having multiple sources of income lol.. I could take some cool pics for social media and then also learn day game and night game pretty much game everywhere 24/7 ready for it, that’s my theory.. just look around and if you see a girl you like, figure out how to strike a conversation doesn’t matter where you are.. I am parked outside of my street rightnow as I type this and if I see a girl coming towards me I’m gonna figure…
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:25 AM
2

I guess it depends on age cause I noticed girls 19-20 all respond better on Instagram or social media and the older women like thirties and up all respond better through text
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:16 AM
2

Yeah true I only ask for the number once I’ve gotten to know them a lil bit through Instagram
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:14 AM
2

Actually I never ask for the number.. I always ask for their Instagram because that gives me excuses to come up with an Interesting opening instead of a lame “hey” .. and they respond to my stories as well so it’s easier to build a connection.. that’s just what works for me (I’ve literally gone out and hooked up with girls whose Instagram I got while driving down the street and just asking for it)
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:12 AM
1

Would save you tons of stress smh
/r/seduction04/06/22 06:22 PM
2

Then tell her straight up .. if we don’t have sex I don’t wanna talk why make it so complicated?
/r/seduction04/06/22 05:15 PM
1

I get your point but it’s badly presented that’s why you get my downvote .. if you could write it differently , maybe another tone then it’d be better.. also your advise doesn’t suit every guy out there that’s just what works for you personally but a couple of your points are valid .. the problem Is that a lot of guys do have to change something about them selves to become better men / people in general and if they were to follow your advise they would never better their personality by expecting…
/r/seduction04/06/22 04:25 PM
2

Not just that... it’s simple, social anxiety is not only for guys.. I would say girls are more socially anxious .. I’ve heard a ton of times that a girl feels nervous around you if they are attracted to you .. or they are just socially anxious that’s it.. (lacking social skills)
/r/seduction03/06/22 05:27 PM
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You become confident by doing the things you’re scared of doing and realizing they were just scary in your head .. in other words , grow some balls and stop caring about what others think about you (including the girls that reject you because most of the time they reject you for other reasons that have nothing to do with you) start doing the things you’re afraid of until they become simpler to do.. that’s the cold hard truth .. but most ppl don’t like putting in hard work or conquering their fea…
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:18 PM
1

You’re right bro.. I’ve succeeded just by straight up saying “hey what’s your number “ and actually went out and made out etc but I’d prefer talking to her for 5 mins. Try to gauge her level of attraction/ interest and then either ask for the number or walk away politely
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:10 PM
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The success of cold approach is low because there’s 100 valid reasons for a girl to reject you VS only 2 good reasons for her to accept (she likes you, she wants your money)
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:03 PM
2

Yeah bro it’s absurd but if you have no social circle or time to Créate one , then your best bet is cold approach.. online or in person.. I’ve succeeded a few times with cold approach in person and a lot more online.. just straight up asked for their number after Introducing myself.. and I’ve actually gone out with a few chicks I met this way and made out etc ..... so just get over the initial discomfort phase and you’ll be able to pull girls this way consistently
/r/seduction02/06/22 05:40 PM
4

I prefer going alone, if you’re gonna run into a drunk asshole , you don’t have to be at a bar for it to happen.. sometimes drunk family members get in fist fights at the family parties
/r/seduction02/06/22 01:33 AM
2

But what they want is not what they usually get .. come on, most guys aren’t tall and muscular so if all girls wanted tall and muscular then most of them are gonna end up single for life
/r/seduction31/05/22 05:50 PM
1

It really annoys me so much when guys have the mentality that you need to be tall and muscular ... what you need is to get rid of that pussy mentality .. I’m 5’7 , have always been slim fit , by no means muscular.. and i had no problems getting laid , especially online .. just hit on girls, trial and error until you get better at it
/r/seduction31/05/22 05:47 PM
1

You’re gonna keep researching your whole life bro.. there’s no one “best method” different methods work for different people.. trial and error until you find out what’s best for you...
/r/seduction31/05/22 04:40 PM
2

You only fix it by pushing through bro... there’s not a shortcut for everything.. sometimes the only way is to go through whatever makes us uncomfortable until we learn how to deal with it and make it feel natural or at least more comfortable.. just keep in mind that most people will respond positively when approached in a respectful non threatening manner so there’s nothing to be nervous about ..
/r/seduction31/05/22 03:05 PM
1

Naw if she doesn’t have sex often then I think you’re good .. just get it done next time , don’t drink too much alcohol
/r/seduction30/05/22 03:25 PM
1

Bro also some of these guys just get laid because they pretend to be something they’re not and it works for a one night stand .. they quickly get dumped after the girls find out who they really are but it will work for one night stands with superficial girls.. Like they could pretend to be anyone and convey and display status symbols and it’ll attract girls in the short run until they realize you were just a poser and leave you) my friend dated a stripper with his stimulus checks and she only la…
/r/seduction29/05/22 07:59 PM
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I agree except with the part “don’t cold approach” .. cold approaching will bring in many more benefits other than getting a girls number .. it will help your over all personality and it’s something I recommend to guys who want to grow as a man.. i would say , cold approach whenever you see a girl you like anywhere you’re at but don’t make it the main “number/date generator” .. don’t be a pussy, don’t get used to looking at a girl you like and never approach due to fear/ anxiety
/r/seduction29/05/22 07:46 PM
1

Bro the problem is that the girls you wanna fuck are only 1 in 4 .. the top 25% .. so obviously they’re gonna be in more demand.. so just become more attractive to get into the top 25% in looks for men.. this should be easily achievable if you’re a solid 6/10 .. just put on some muscles, wear clothes that showcase your figure (your most attractive asset) and get a cool hair cut and stay well groomed( get a hair cut every 10 days) then you’ll be able to get the girls you can’t get rightnow.. you …
/r/seduction28/05/22 04:52 PM
1

Instead of being grateful for what you already have .. 🤦🏻‍♂️ the only thing you can do is get your self less attractive friends.. there’s nothing you can do to only appear hot to men because if you’re hot then both genders will recognize it.. and the hotter you get, the more some guys will get scared and approach you even less so women will be the ones complimenting you either way more often
/r/seduction28/05/22 01:01 AM
1

Yup that’s why I mentioned the word Perseverance :)
/r/seduction27/05/22 09:37 PM
2

If a girl is showing signals that she likes you or is attracted . There’s nothing else to prove ... just hit on her aggressively because she’s already ready to fuck you, get with you, or start dating.. you only have to prove your self to a girl that isn’t attracted to you. But also doesn’t find you ugly (if you really want that girl) but it’s easier to move on to find someone that likes you right away than trying to prove your self to someone which could take months ..
/r/seduction27/05/22 06:30 PM
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A mans confidence is not only built through success but also through failure and perseverance.. not every man that acts like an alpha is an alpha.. you’re gonna have to see what he does when it comes down to showing your true character .. a lot of guys are good actors I would say but when it comes down to taking one for the team they are pussies therefore not an alpha .. a lot of guys just learned to “appear” confident but it’s not a true measure of how strong their character really is
/r/seduction27/05/22 05:56 PM
3

For free head stupid lol jk but yeah hard to deny free head apparently could be a reason .. or people are just horny and the ugly guy/girl was in the right place right time
/r/seduction27/05/22 01:33 AM
2

Bro I’m high ass fuck reading this and after the part “fat girls get used “ I started cracking up and almost peed
/r/seduction27/05/22 01:28 AM
1

Bro my friend once told me before going clubbing , try to pick up a girl that you like but if it hits 1:30 am and you still haven’t found no one DTF then start looking for a fat girl lol but shhhh dont tell no one ...
/r/seduction27/05/22 01:25 AM
3

I have a friend who used to fuck model looking girls one day and the next day they were fucking a big BBW he would say “so what, pussy doesn’t have a face”
/r/seduction27/05/22 01:24 AM
2

Yeah bro wait until next college year and then hit her up with interesting plans right away !!! Then you better make your move that night
/r/seduction27/05/22 01:14 AM
1

Well I wasn’t dating her seriously you know just enjoying my turn
/r/seduction26/05/22 11:48 PM
1

Yup I also feel unmotivated most of the time but I realized I don’t even have to go to a certain place with the purpose of picking up/ approaching .. just by showing up and posting up right there on a busy street. Plaza , mall whatever place , You will end up talking to strangers accidentally or naturally just for the sake of being somewhere with enough foot traffic
/r/seduction26/05/22 09:16 PM
2

Bro I was literally dumped by a girl i was dating , she was a 22 year old stripper.. and she left me for a guy in his mid to late 40’s and she even moved in with him ASAP something I didn’t do in the 3 months we dated haha you have an advantage!!! Use it
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:55 PM
10

Damn this is a good one lol
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:24 PM
2

You could say , well I’m not dark but my intentions are :) jk.. nothing bro if they don’t like you just move on, someone will like you for how you look
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:21 PM
3

Bro even when I go out with friends, I still get lost by my self and come back with new friends haha .. it’s way easier to meet a random stranger when you’re alone, all my friends and I , have gotten laid way more times when they go out alone than when we go out together ..
/r/seduction26/05/22 05:33 PM
0

Nope i meant that for the most part only girls with high confidence will approach you even when they see they’ve got competition because its something that happens to me everywhere I go.. a girl I like doesn’t talk to me or doesn’t wanna go out with me because she thinks I can get better looking girls than her so i must only want to “use her for sex or , i might cheat because “he must have a lot of hoes” so she decides to act Indifferent and back away from me for fear of getting hurt in one way …
/r/seduction26/05/22 04:20 AM
2

It’s difficult cause you see it that way, but when a random person approaches you what do you do? Unless you’re an uneducated asshole with no manners or just an asshole , you will talk to the stranger with respect if he comes at you with respect , no ? Ok so when you go up to a girl in a confident respectful manner she will respond positively.. if they respond arrogant or insulting then they just showed their true character and why would you wanna be with someone that treats people who come at t…
/r/seduction26/05/22 02:57 AM
3

Ive done it multiple times, just have 3 beers and you’ll be surprised how many numbers you get out of nowhere
/r/seduction26/05/22 02:52 AM
1

Only if the girl has a high self esteem or if she thinks she’s prettier than the girl she saw you talking to... the opposite happens more often .. Most girls will automatically assume they don’t have a chance with the guy they like because in her eyes, if she wants you then there’s many others who like you just the same so especially if they have low self esteem or another character issue they gotta deal with( which seems to be very common in most women today due to pressure to look and be a cer…
/r/seduction26/05/22 02:49 AM
1

Easy Bro, get a good body, not super shredded but at least visible muscles that look like you lift .. make respectable money, and with that money buy trendy stylish clothes .. then boom 💥 you’re now in the top 10% in terms of overall attractiveness ... but without social skills being in the top 10% still won’t get you girls if you don’t approach.... you still gotta make friends and be social or else how are people gonna find out that you are in the top 10% if you’re nowhere to be seen in public …
/r/seduction26/05/22 01:20 AM
1

Bro if after sex they still don’t wanna date you for real, then your sex must be average .... whenever I fuck a girl she usually becomes obsessed .... but for real like, in most of your pick ups, do you ask for sex within the first 5 exchanged messages ??? Or takes you at least a few more message exchange?
/r/seduction25/05/22 02:06 PM
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Don’t delete your post I’m gonna save it to look at for motivation !!!
/r/seduction24/05/22 12:43 AM
6

It’s actually a great advise to be yourself... but if you currently have negative traits, you won’t succeed by being yourself... the key is to become the best version of your self and constantly try to improve it, then you can be yourself and it will work
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:08 PM
1

You sound like nothing but a hater lol all you’ve said are assumptions and generalizations .. I’m telling guys what has worked for me and my friends, and the first thing you do is assume things and believe that your assumption is the “truth” lmao ... even the “good girls” have given it up easy and will give it up easy again given the right circumstances (or they’re simply just horny, don’t confuse promiscuity with being a “bad person” or unworthy person) your job as a man that wants to get laid …
/r/seduction22/05/22 09:36 PM
5

Yeah bro you’re definitely right, my last 2 friend with benefits acted like if we were together and stuff but after my turn was over then they just move on like if nothing ever happened.. they didn’t really care about what’s going on in my life, they just wanted to get fucked, and share some laughs with me about nothing serious
/r/seduction22/05/22 05:05 PM
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That’s the whole point bro? Everyone on this sub wants to get laid lmao.. and if a girl is going on a dating app it’s not to find a Bf bro it’s to get laid .. stop being a pussy, if you wanna get laid you gotta ask for it.. if you have a hard time believing that girls are just as hornyy as guys that’s your problem.. girls are just as horny or more than guys but with the right guy that knows how to bring it out of them.. so they’re gonna do the things that I mentioned and it doesn’t mean they’re …
/r/seduction22/05/22 02:47 PM
1

No wonder people struggle to get laid.. girls are literally checking out every little detail about you including shoes for sure , style and grooming habits or if you’re able to pull a hairy look then u should be good but if you’re not getting laid then maybe you should try grooming .. so if you don’t optimize these things you will struggle to get laid especially by the type of girls you want
/r/seduction22/05/22 06:07 AM
3

Idk about extremely handsome but I have gotten compliments before about being good looking... I probably just have a better sense of style than most, always well groomed(get my haircut every week) , and can actually carry a conversation and I’m Fit , not ripped but lean fit .. I send lots of messages to girls on dating apps and that’s how I’ve gotten laid with about 50 girls .. and Im not rich for sure .... so yeah over 40 girls, I fucked on the first date and of those girls about half, I fucked…
/r/seduction22/05/22 05:41 AM
5

It’s not hard bro it’s just a numbers game.. I try to make a connection as soon as possible and if it feels right, I’ll start flirting, if they flirt back then I’ll bring up sex as soon as possible.. at this point only something I say could kill it and it’s only a matter of 2-3 days up to 2 weeks depending on the girl before I get laid.. and I’ve actually straight up asked a girl “let’s hang out in a motel room” and they agreed without ever talking before, and I got laid obviously.. met them thr…
/r/seduction22/05/22 05:30 AM
-4

Naw bro trust ! I’ve had girls tell me they have a boy friend but that he’s an ass and like me better and we fuck
/r/seduction22/05/22 04:06 AM
25

Same happened to me so it’s believable! It actually happened to me like 2-3 times
/r/seduction22/05/22 04:05 AM
2

Where are you vacationing??
/r/seduction21/05/22 07:28 PM
2

Yeah do it why not lol ?? Others have done it
/r/seduction21/05/22 07:17 PM
7

Text her right away, if she’s interested she will show it.. my homie used to get girls numbers and right away texted them.. the girls either ignored him , or they showed the same level of interest.. he’d end up fucking them within 2 days of getting their number.. sometimes on the same night.. so this “I’ll wait a few days to text her” is actually bullshit advise because you’re gonna loose a lot more girls this way
/r/seduction21/05/22 06:41 PM
8

Damn I hope someone answers with a convincing answer because the same happens to me ! I get flirted with by older women and girls around my age reject me lol maybe the older girls want need validation from younger men because we automatically look better (there’s exceptions) just for the fact of being younger, since the guys around their age are mostly bald, fat and out of sexual stamina.. and the younger girls want looks, and status?? Which most young guys don’t have , or are still developing .…
/r/seduction21/05/22 05:42 PM
2

Maybe he just asked this cause he was trying to show off lol but yeah ridiculously stupid question
/r/seduction21/05/22 05:21 PM
7

Bro you’re right !! Most girls are only comparing themselves to other girls and what they have and if they see someone uglier than them with a better guy than you, they’re probably gonna loose interest and try to find a better looking guy.. that’s why a lot of attractive girls are single very few girls are actually “humble” enough to stick to you regardless of anything
/r/seduction21/05/22 03:46 PM
1

Yeah I would just make random conversation and would try to bring up the sex talk as soon as possible but that depended on every girl.. if I felt the interaction was going well then I’d start flirting and if she flirted back I would start talking about sex lil by lil .. then i would plan to have sex with them prior to meeting or I would ask them to hang out and during the date , I would just make a move on them .... some declined, most accepted and I got laid
/r/seduction21/05/22 06:13 AM
1

It’s called Meetme . 20 from there and 20 from random girls I would request on Facebook and start talking to .. and on other occasions I didn’t have sex but I did have oral sex so it’s actually a bit more than 40 hook ups
/r/seduction21/05/22 03:29 AM
2

I no longer use any , until I Master in person dating.. but a couple of years ago like exactly when the pandemic started the app I used was “ meet me” used it for 6 years since age 19
/r/seduction21/05/22 03:25 AM
1

I use other apps , not tinder.. but it depends , some I had to talk to for like 2-3 weeks and others we had sex after just straight up asking “ let’s hang out In a motel” they were like “I’m down” and others after 2-3 days .. but most took on average within 5 days from the first message .. and for 98% of them we had sex on the first date ..
/r/seduction21/05/22 03:19 AM
1

Lol bro 45 over a span of 9 years is a little bit lol but I just wanna be able to feel the thrill of picking up a girl I see on the street .. I guess I have to keep practicing my social interactions
/r/seduction20/05/22 09:13 PM
1

In So Cal .. I’ve only had like 5 lays from girls I met in real life .. that’s why I’m in this sub, trying to get good at picking up in person
/r/seduction20/05/22 09:09 PM
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40 lays from online dating apps
/r/seduction20/05/22 09:04 PM
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Me too ! I was a soccer star growing up and girls liked me but I had zero skills cause I never went to a party or socialized with anyone other than my soccer team. So I didnt get as many girls as I wish I had... online dating was no problem for me. But up to this day, I’m struggling to get with girls I meet In person.. because i dont know how to start a conversation with a stranger and haven’t learned how to take it from asking their number to the bedroom.. Online I have no problem though
/r/seduction20/05/22 08:52 PM
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You’re right bro !! Picking up women is more a skill you develop by talking and trying to pick up women !! As long as you’re decent looking. You’ll be ok
/r/seduction20/05/22 06:20 PM
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Yeah I was talking about your answer !! Simple but way smarter than his lol and I’m laughing even more cause I am actually in the process of logic-ing my way to some pussy lol
/r/seduction20/05/22 06:09 PM
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Bro if you’re trying to get laid on the first date, being formal isn’t going to get you anywhere unless somehow the girl makes the move on you.. if you wanna get laid on the first date you have to make a move or else how is it supposed to happen? It’s about making her feel like if she has known you for a long time even though you just met so don’t be shy just be your self don’t hold back. Find a place lonely enough and make a move !!!’
/r/seduction20/05/22 12:11 AM
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This is Smartest answer I’ve read though lmfao
/r/seduction20/05/22 12:08 AM
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I can’t risk being found by my Gf if I go on dating apps though , some of her friends might see me and show her.. so I have to learn to pick up in person which I suck at.. I’m successful online though I can get a new girl like once a month in online dating
/r/seduction20/05/22 12:05 AM
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Exactly me too !! 50 girls all through dating apps.. but in person I’ve only gotten laid from 4 girls I met in real life ..
/r/seduction20/05/22 12:03 AM
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Easy bro, from my experience .. most girls who are on dating apps are always down for sex on the first date if they find you cute and you made the “date” fun.. there’s a reason why they are on dating apps, they want to attract even more male attention than they are already doing through their regular social media accounts (FB, IG , etc) or some can’t hit on guys through their regular social media Chanel’s so they go on dating apps .. all you have to do is make a move on them and that’s it litera…
/r/seduction19/05/22 11:58 PM
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He’s Mexican.. I wish he was white though ;) lol
/r/seduction19/05/22 07:15 PM
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Damn bro solid advise but the sad thing is that there’s guys who are so insecure that even changing their hair style or clothes would be too uncomfortable for them to even grow the balls to do it, they need to get rid of the people pleasing mentality first , start standing up for your self and then confidence to do everything else follows
/r/seduction19/05/22 06:13 PM
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That just makes you a person unaware of other variables that may be hindering your success.. so find out what else is wrong with you and work on it because it’s not normal to do what this person said and you’re still single.. either you’re too damn ugly or do need to change something about your personality or something else .. my 22 year old virgin brother in law. Super ignorant , dropped out in 10th grade to stay home and play video games, super fat, super stupid , a total asshole with zero sel…
/r/seduction19/05/22 06:07 PM
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Lol his attitude is just like my cousins attitude and that’s why they are 30 and single .. have always been single
/r/seduction19/05/22 06:03 PM
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The realest advise I can give you is .. all The stuff you read here works but once you put it to practice and learn from your mistakes and adjust what you do for next time.. trial and error is the real teacher .. along with being able to analyze your self objectively so you can actually adjust what you’re doing wrong ..
/r/seduction19/05/22 05:54 PM
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No the post is actually over 90% correct... I’ve experienced it .. the first post that I’ve seen that summarizes the game almost 100% accurately.... there’s things you can do differently though and get the same results but for the most part if you stick to this it will work
/r/seduction19/05/22 05:46 PM
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You’re right !! People who don’t agree are just people who will clearly never improve because they don’t want to put in the work ..
/r/seduction19/05/22 05:40 PM
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You don’t need to read this somewhere else (a credible source) to believe it’s true.. if you use common sense and analyze your social interactions objectively through out your life, you’ll realize this advise is true for the most part .. it’s like a perfect outline .. there’s things I would do differently though out of personal preference because every guy is different so you’re welcome to try your own ways but if you follow this advise then it will land you girls ..
/r/seduction19/05/22 05:36 PM
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I wish I had tinder but my Gf will find it ..
/r/seduction18/05/22 05:56 PM
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Hahahahaja exactly what I thought as I read the post .. “are you brain dead” ? 😂😂🤣😭
/r/seduction14/05/22 01:38 PM
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I guess it does lol as long as you’re not super short you’re fine but most guys here are complaining about being over 5’5 but under 6 feet and using that as an excuse why they can’t get girls which is bull shit, they have enough height .. I’m not sure about shorter guys but at least over 5’5 you should be good.. if you’re 5’0 feet tall for example, you may not be able to get a girl who is over 6’5 but you can sure as hell get a girl that’s about 5’ 5 - 5’10
/r/seduction12/05/22 05:21 PM
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I also love how the taller guys in my class lower their head down when I look straight up at then Im a submissive way .. I’m way shorter , yet respected by way taller guys and this is what girls see and like ..
/r/seduction12/05/22 05:16 PM
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It could be as hard as you make it for yourself even if you’re tall .... I’m sure you’re way taller than a lot of women. Yet, how many women shorter than you have you banged ?? So it’s more about your other characteristics than height
/r/seduction12/05/22 05:14 PM
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They just like me for who I am and for how I look and ignore my height .... yeah some girls will not like you if you’re shorter, but it’s definitely not the case for all girls... yeah i had to work on my personality first though, I had to get out my comfort zone and stop being the quiet shy kid for things to start happening for me .... and this helped me and gave me confidence to work on my appearance because I no longer care if someone doesn’t like my hair or how I dress etc ....
/r/seduction12/05/22 05:07 PM
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Bro I’m also 5’7 but taller girls have shown interest in me so it’s not the height that matters as long as you’re not under 5’5
/r/seduction12/05/22 04:31 PM
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Just be honest... I thought being honest wouldn’t work but, there’s not a one thing works for all girls so just be honest and wait until you come across a girl that wants the same.. unless you lie to her just to get in her pants.. I’ve straight up told a girl before that I wanted to be friend with benefits and she agreed .. so now we only call each other to fuck about once a week
/r/seduction11/05/22 07:39 PM
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If they don’t have that instant sexual attraction that men do then why have random strangers at parties or concerts just straight up rush to make out with me without knowing me? First time they ever saw me.. and like I said, girls are just as or even more insecure than guys.. insecure girls act like they don’t want you. When they do
/r/seduction09/05/22 12:40 AM
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You described Jonny bravo lol
/r/seduction08/05/22 08:16 PM
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Bro it literally took me like 4 months to realize the Bud tender had been flirting with me lol I’m always minding my business, I never look at people unless I got business with them... so I suck at reading body language, I never went to a party in high school and only a few in college so I’m way behind in social skills.... got asked to winter formal by a good looking girl and I rejected , got asked to prom by a decent looking girl and I declined again.. and here I am like most guys here, trying …
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:30 PM
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Some girls are too intimidated by good looking guys so when they walk in front of them they look away or down
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:22 PM
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Yeah you can , but be careful.. if she looks like she’s too into the guy then it’s a waste of time.. but I always talk to girls at bars and at least half already are there with someone.. but I’ve danced with the club owner’s wife without knowing she was the wife and she grinded on me while her husband was drunk as fuck
/r/seduction08/05/22 06:41 PM
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I literally run with this song
/r/seduction08/05/22 03:49 AM
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Not a lie though.. he just used the wrong words lol if you got a sexual libido , you’re gonna try to satisfy it.. we’re human
/r/seduction07/05/22 05:08 PM
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If she’s got commitment issues, ain’t got a hobby or career to spend her time on.. she’s definitely fucking left and rigth.. especially if she abuses substances, smokes and is good looking (been there done that)
/r/seduction07/05/22 05:05 PM
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Haha good one .. I’m a say this next time” cause I’m picky so I don’t just go with anyone, I gotta really like you to even go out with you “ (then she will feel special cause she’s out with u
/r/seduction07/05/22 05:02 PM
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Then it might be the way you carry yourself.. I’m still learning to carry my self better too but yeah then it’s all about the way you carry yourself .. just treat girls like if they were a man but don’t disrespect them, and also be considerate and compliment them but with confidence cause if you seem nervous or shy when complimenting them then they see you as a pussy and loose interest.. learning through trial and error ..lSo just analyze your interactions. And see if there’s something you can f…
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:56 PM
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The truth isn’t bad advise .. and this is the truth
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:51 PM
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This !! As soon as my body shape started showing through my clothes, when I was 19, I started having cougars and older girls just hitting on me .. I was still skinny but wearing fitter clothes helped to make my body shape stand out and it grabbed a ton more attention, and even more when I started dressing better
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:48 PM
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Either you’re ugly or you lack game.. if you are as attractive as she says you are, you shouldn’t struggle to find a girl even if you had no game... so it’s either you carry yourself like a pussy or you’re style is off , or you’re ugly.. but even if you’re style is off, you should be able to get a girl sooner or later given that you’re not ugly ..
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:45 PM
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I know I hate it though, also when they ask me “so why are you single” both of those piss me off cause idk wtf to say and whatever you say after this question does affect the outcome if you fuck the girl or not
/r/seduction05/05/22 05:20 PM
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Nope I just don’t like alcohol and I don’t like dancing ..
/r/seduction03/05/22 01:05 AM
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I hate it too... just not my environment.. I’ve succeeded in it but I would rather not go to those places
/r/seduction02/05/22 07:20 PM
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Sounds like jealousy to me...
/r/seduction02/05/22 05:50 PM
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Exactly bro.. day game is mainly for when you see a woman alone.. then later on you can progress to hitting on girls in pairs. And then later girls in groups.. but it’s better to just hit on girls alone or in pairs cause it’s easier to be liked by 1 or 2 girls than a whole group.... plus out of the group of girls. Maybe one does like you, but she won’t admit it if her friends are gonna laugh so don’t take rejections by a group too serious...you should really only count the rejections when they a…
/r/seduction02/05/22 05:49 PM
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Bro you got laid once !! Come on just keep going lol
/r/seduction02/05/22 05:45 PM
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Can’t judge a book by its cover ... not just because they gave out their number to a stranger that they might have found attractive means they wouldn’t be a good GF.. I’ve made out right after meeting them with girls who had a BF and everyone thought they were “wife material” then turns out they weren’t ..
/r/seduction29/04/22 05:56 PM
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What’s your hobby? I’m also finding some hobbies I can make money off in my free time from my “business” .. haha so more business to rest from my other business ..
/r/seduction27/04/22 05:55 PM
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Nope! Women need game only for men who have other options (as good looking or more than them) so they gotta win him over somehow ..
/r/seduction27/04/22 05:44 PM
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When all you want is to get laid and boost your ego then emotional manipulation like you call it works best..
/r/seduction22/04/22 08:46 PM
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This so true ! I just realized this same concept after looking back at my life.. I was the Alpha of my wolf pack that I created and their girls would always try to hit on me because I was the boss of the group.. and I wasn’t necessarily better looking than them and for sure didn’t make as much money
/r/seduction22/04/22 08:45 PM
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I would totally follow your IG and read all your advise but I don’t have time since I’m out there in the field learning day game by my self lol
/r/seduction14/04/22 06:42 PM
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Yeah eventually though if you’re good looking enough, you should be able to get a girl that you find attractive as well .. just push through the rejections.. I would say after 100 girls though if you haven’t found one you find at least decent looking then maybe it’s your looks lol
/r/seduction14/04/22 06:19 PM
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The amount of girls who reject you and are “single” will be an accurate measure of how attractive you are ... no matter how good looking you are, if a girl isn’t available then she just isn’t ..
/r/seduction14/04/22 05:29 PM
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I’ve seen it in person a lot of times and I have experienced it myself .. took a girl away from 2 guys who were buff and over 6 feet... they couldn’t talk though they stuttered when trying to hit on the girl lol and she came with me cause I knew how to carry the conversation so made the taller guys look weak
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:42 PM
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Just tell him to kiss you before he comes over .. I’ve had this happen a few times before .. I didn’t make a move the first time I chilled with a girl so the next time she asked me to chill she said “but you have to kiss me as soon as I get in your car” .. another girl asked me before she agreed to hang out with me if we were going to make out and I obviously said yes and she got happy.. so just tell him before he comes that you want to make out .. nothing wrong about being direct, men love it
/r/seduction12/04/22 05:46 PM
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For me , an approach is made until I’ve asked for their number... other than that, it’s just making conversation with a stranger until you ask for the number, or make a move.. if I called “approach” every interaction I have with a girl then I would have a thousand like he does lol so I only count as “approach” the times I’ve asked for their number, social media, or made a move ..
/r/seduction12/04/22 05:41 PM
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Not always but you don’t need all shorter girls to find you tall, you just new a few of them to find you tall so you could have a chance with one
/r/seduction11/04/22 03:52 AM
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If they’re shorter than you you have a chance because they see you as “tall”
/r/seduction11/04/22 02:12 AM
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That is such wrong advise .. If he doesn’t ask you out after you initiated conversation doesn’t mean he’s not interested..most guys are like me for example: unless a girl straight up tells me that they want to go out, or if they are obviously flirting like calling me handsome and touching me , i will not understand any hints.. if a girl came up to me at the gym asking me to spot her then I wouldn’t think she’s hitting on me , I would just think she just needs a spot ... the best thing to do to g…
/r/seduction08/04/22 06:06 PM
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OP wants to pick up girls in volume.. you can’t do that in class
/r/seduction08/04/22 01:25 AM
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Hardly anyone gives good advice.. those who do are the ones that get girls .. the others don’t , so they’re here giving advice without getting girls them selves ....
/r/seduction07/04/22 08:38 PM
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Why do many people say target ? Lol
/r/seduction07/04/22 05:48 PM
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But in a class you can’t pick up in Bulk , unless you hit on every single girl in the class
/r/seduction07/04/22 05:46 PM
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And jack off .. that’d do the trick
/r/seduction07/04/22 05:43 PM
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I don’t have a lot of experience fucking girls I met in person, but online I had to send hundreds of messages to be able to fuck a different girl about once a month or once every 6 weeks so yeah there’s a lot of rejection involved.. but i could say I’ve had more success online than most people here .. so I guess success does come as a result of many failures.. you fail and fail until you succeed
/r/seduction07/04/22 03:35 PM
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No one denies that being good looking gets you attention but most girls don’t act on it .. just like us, they are afraid of rejection.. what i am 100% against is the belief that all you need is to be good looking and you could get laid.. yeah you will be able to get some girls without effort, but there’s also girls who you won’t be able to get unless you spit game no matter how good looking you are .... I’ve also taken away girls from a couple of Chads cause they couldn’t keep the girls engaged …
/r/seduction07/04/22 02:43 PM
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It’s funny cause I’ve been asked by a few girls to be their pimp on a few occasions lol I just never do it cause it’s dangerous lol yeah apparently there’s a lot of ppl who can’t even get a girl that’s 6/10 so I should just start enjoying more what I do get lol
/r/seduction07/04/22 02:32 PM
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Agree 100% with everything you said bro... talking out of experience too.. sometimes girls will just reject you because you’re good looking (happened to me ) I don’t consider myself good looking but apparently some girls find me good looking .. also if being good looking was the only thing needed, then I would have fucked that fat girl at the Club that rejected me last time .. looks get you in the room faster but if you don’t spit game right then you’re getting kicked out soon lol
/r/seduction07/04/22 02:19 PM
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You mentioned online dating.. I could be successful at that too, but I’m tired of on line hook ups.. so with zero social interactions you could be tall, rich and handsome and you won’t get girls ... (Not counting online dating)
/r/seduction07/04/22 02:15 PM
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Naw bro even the guys that have it all “looks , money , status” will get no girls if they don’t socialize ... For example: Me ... I’m not saying I’m super hot , with status and money.. but i used to get hit on a lot more often when I used to socialize more.. now that all I do is go to work (there’s no women at my job and zero social interactions with people) come home and stay in the house until it’s time to go to work again, on weekends I don’t have friends so I go to my uncles house (no one is…
/r/seduction06/04/22 06:12 PM
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In what age range do you approach?? 18 and over or 21 and over ??
/r/seduction06/04/22 05:56 PM
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Wow bro you’re a 6/10 and i complain that I consider my self a 7.5 and I complain when girls say I’m a 8/10 lol .. I guess I gotta be more grateful for what I get
/r/seduction06/04/22 05:53 PM
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The thing people ignore about just “going to the mall” is that most girls are in pairs, it takes some time to see some alone... the ones mostly alone are over 35.. so you will have to learn to open girls in pairs of 2 or more .. or just be at the mall longer until you see several girls by them selves that you could approach ( may take more than 2-3 hours depending on the mall)
/r/seduction06/04/22 02:34 PM
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Naw bro, no one has girls throwing themselves at them (unless they are famous) not even if they display having money.. they might get flirted with more often but thats about it, It really depends on how much they socialize, if you’re a Chad , but spend all your time indoors, an average looking guy that spends most of his time making new friends will get hotter girls more often than introverted Chad
/r/seduction06/04/22 02:32 PM
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Disagree ! They will respond way better to your approach initially especially if you have a good body or are good looking .. when they will reject you is after a couple of minutes if you don’t carry yourself the right way..
/r/seduction04/04/22 03:44 PM
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Just keep approaching and adjusting your behavior .. it’s a long few months before you start getting consistent results but once you come up with the technique that works for you then it’ll feel very simple
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:39 PM
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Looks do matter bro , game is only to get a girlfriend .. not to land a one night stand or friends with benefits.. To do that you need both looks and game.. However, if you want a good looking serious girl friend then you need game , time and patience (looks not so much, just dress cool).. if you wanna get better results when finding a fling or friend with benefits then all you can do is hit the gym and wear clothes that show your muscles a bit more , if a girl isn’t attracted to your face but i…
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:06 PM
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Yeah of course it’s all about looks.. all you gotta do though is not be ugly and you’re set, will take longer than a guy that is good looking but you still have a chance .... definitely it’s all about looks first.. a girl could choose you over better looking guys though, all you gotta do is connect with her more than the other guys.. (been there done that) I’ve taken away girls from better looking guys just cause I was able to click more with them than those guys
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:02 PM
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I’ve had success in dating profiles, but the women i attracted in person were way cuter than the ones I attracted online.. so in real life he might actually have more success , who knows.. just gotta try
/r/seduction01/04/22 07:58 PM
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Here goes my question again.. how can I stop looking like a player ? I have no problem personality wise, because like I said most girls find me super chill, funny and humble after they get to know me.. but the very first time they see me , they claim that I look like a cocky player .. how can I stop “looking” this way? Do I have to cut my hair different or dress different so I don’t “look” cocky/player ?
/r/seduction31/03/22 06:48 PM
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OP said , before they even get to know him they already judge him as a player.. same thing happens to me, how can I fix this ? I’m tired of girls saying when they first saw me they thought I was a cocky guy / player .. and after they got to know me they realized I’m down to earth .. how can I stop looking like a player ??
/r/seduction31/03/22 06:32 PM
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Yeah but for most girls that’s too extreme.. all they want is someone taller that’s it ..
/r/seduction29/03/22 08:50 PM
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Yeah that’s my exact height lol with long hair I’m a 5’8 ..
/r/seduction29/03/22 08:50 PM
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That’s why you’re dating someone shorter ... because if height matters to the girl, all you gotta do is be taller than her
/r/seduction29/03/22 06:52 PM
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I have taken away girls from guys who were around 5’11 and taller .. I’m only 5’8
/r/seduction29/03/22 05:53 PM
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If you’re 5’7 just date someone shorter than you.. problem solved .. (I’ve never thought size mattered, just date someone your height or shorter.. been there done that)
/r/seduction29/03/22 05:52 PM
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Im 5’7.5 and height being a reason why I don’t get girls has never been an excuse for me .... it doesn’t matter, some girls only date taller guys, and that’s ok.. and other girls date shorter guys .. what a girl says doesn’t matter, what matters is what she does.. I’ve been hit on by girls taller than me .. so yeah height doesn’t really matter. If you think it does then you’re just adding another excuse to your list of excuses as to why you can’t get a girl
/r/seduction29/03/22 05:48 PM
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False .. a girl who is not even a 6 in looks won’t have the courage to approach a guy who is a 7/8. Out of 10 , there’s outliers though but your average ugly ass girl won’t have the courage to approach your average good looking guy..
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:30 PM
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It’s absolutely normal for a girl to approach you / hit on you in a setting where it’s ok for people to interact with strangers ..
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:28 PM
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Oh no that’s absolutely normal ! It even happened to me ... I thought when you all said approach you meant a girl stranger randomly approaching you while you walk down the street or are chilling somewhere
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:20 PM
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But why would a girl 4/5 in looks have the courage to approach though?? They are even More insecure:.
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:05 PM
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Women definitely approach guys .. do they cold approach strangers in the street though? Most don’t ... at parties or bars , concerts and music festivals it’s more likely
/r/seduction29/03/22 02:33 PM
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How about when you’re walking around the mall, or anywhere... do they often stop you out of nowhere to hit on you? Or mostly happens in places where people find it appropriate to approach?
/r/seduction29/03/22 02:31 PM
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Yup ! If you want an active sex life then you still gotta actively try to hit on girls .... good looking guys get rejected too (by good looking girls)
/r/seduction24/03/22 03:38 PM
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It does make things worse.. you know how many years I struggled with confidence?? I’m an 8/10 but some people take rejection so serious.. I got rejected once and I thought for years I was ugly as fuck and it made my teen years very bad.. (still working on my confidence) then i realized good looking dudes get rejected too (by good looking girls) and started to appreciate myself more .. especially reading guys comments on here.. I can relate to all the experiences they share about being good looki…
/r/seduction24/03/22 03:02 PM
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Oh I’m an expert at NOT recognizing IOIs .. I get tons but fail to act on them lol
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:56 PM
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Yeah girls always think you’re gonna play them so they play hard to get .. or are intimidated by you so they won’t grow the courage to flirt back with you etc
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:42 PM
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Im like an 8/10 .. you do get approached In person by random girls but mainly by girls who you wouldn’t date.. the better looking you are, the less chances you have with good looking girls because the number of girls on the same level of looks or above also shrinks .. you get random guys hating on you cause their girl likes you/ flirts with you.. a lot of girls don’t wanna go out with you cause they think you just wanna fuck and leave , or because they’re intimidated by you.. I always get asked …
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:16 PM
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It’s probably that he’s not that funny! He might still be good looking, just not as good as his friends so that’s why he’s still considered funny..
/r/seduction24/03/22 01:58 PM
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Bro are you me ? Haha i have taken away girls from way taller and better looking dudes than me just because I can hold a better conversation.. at first they get more attention, but after they interact with me, they just come over to me and ditch them..
/r/seduction24/03/22 01:57 PM
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So what? I make all girls laugh and I don’t even say anything funny, they just laugh . But i never fuck them because I lack the skills to fuck a girl that shows interest in me.. get asked for my number a lot when I go out , for them to just never text me...
/r/seduction24/03/22 01:51 PM
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Foo it’s a struggle too.. you do meet people easier and lots of numbers but it still takes social skills to fuck these girls ... so at the end of the day your sex life is almost average
/r/seduction24/03/22 01:48 PM
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Bro you put in the time to just ask for an Instagram? Lmao I just ask straight up and then i DM them.. most will give you their IG by just asking right away
/r/seduction24/03/22 01:46 PM
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A lot of girls will reject you because they think you’re too hot for them so you will cheat.. a lot of girls think you’re only using them for sex, so will reject you.. a lot of dudes will hate on you for no reason.. ultimately though. If you don’t carry yourself the right way, even if you’re hot, you’re gonna have an average sex life
/r/seduction24/03/22 01:44 PM
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Not all women make a move though, most times they are scared of cute guys .. but yeah you do get hit on every now and then.. but you still gotta put yourself out there
/r/seduction24/03/22 01:43 PM
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Well there’s tons of good looking dudes that are horrible at dancing (being out of shape on a race) so even if they get the head start they end up finishing last
/r/seduction24/03/22 01:39 PM
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What is IOIs ??
/r/seduction24/03/22 01:37 PM
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She saw my friends talked to me with a lot of respect.. so that automatically earned me her respect... then i guess she liked how I was leading the conversation, whereas my friends would not know what to say, stutter , etc ! And last, I may not be that good looking but maybe I was still fuckable in her eyes so she fucked me.. and she had a Bf
/r/seduction23/03/22 12:56 AM
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That’s why you don’t get girls .. it’s like the gym, you get out what you put in.. or just design a cool social media profile with good pics of you and message girls
/r/seduction22/03/22 12:12 AM
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I found my friends who were tall buff and good looking by accident at the movie theaters, and they were trying to pick up a girl... i thought the girl was already with them so I was talking to the girl with confidence.. turns out they had just met the girl and she immediately asked me for a ride home.. as soon as she got in my car, she Put my hand on her boobs and I immediately drove to a hidden location and had car sex.. my friends were virgins and they were amazed at what I had just done and t…
/r/seduction22/03/22 12:08 AM
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Hahahaha no !! Consistent way for guys who are beginners ?? No one gets laid consistently until after they learn .. by the time they learn they are no longer beginners..
/r/seduction21/03/22 05:40 PM
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Yup definitely working out will help a lot unless you just don’t mind being seen as a piggy bank , walking atm lol
/r/seduction21/03/22 05:38 PM
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Both of my cousins are rich in Mexico .. their parents make 6 figures and are doctors and they’ve never had a girl friend.. they’re clearly from a higher social class , therefore their status alone should be able to get them girls.. status and money are just a tool, if your personality is lame , you’re an anxious quiet person and have no balls etc , you wont get girls even if you have status and money ..
/r/seduction21/03/22 05:34 PM
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That’s what I’ve been advising everyone in this sub all the time.. you don’t get laid because you don’t have a social life.. so you will obviously get less chances.. guys who are uglier than me, have gotten laid a lot more by good looking girls cause they’re always out there hanging out somewhere with someone and making new friends
/r/seduction21/03/22 05:20 PM
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Because the original post was using his lack of money as an excuse why he can’t get girls .. so i have to point out that I’ve fucked girls who make more money than me .. so it really isn’t the money , although it could be a deal breaker for some women, others will not mind it as long as you make enough to cover your own bills etc.. it’s really sad knowing that only money can make YOU confident .. I’ve also seen guys with money who can’t even find a good woman to be with..
/r/seduction21/03/22 05:09 PM
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In my experience .. the ugly guys I have seen dating hot women without having money are the ones that are respected by other guys and other people and second , if they could carry themselves in a confident way by not being afraid to speak their minds.. we all have “game” but most guys can’t display it because their brain goes blank due to nerves .. not one pick up line or game is gonna work with all though (here’s where confidence comes in) so just be you , be social, confident and you will get …
/r/seduction21/03/22 03:19 PM
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You’re wrong lol not all the average women or hot women get all the attention.. it’s all based on how social you are / if you have a social life style.. I’ve read posts from girls who claim to have been hit on every day when they worked costumer service jobs.. and once they moved to a Cubicle job , office job, they say they get hit on maybe once every 3-4 months .. unless they start going out again to parties etc, but that’s everyone though .. plus most guys are average too , only very few are g…
/r/seduction21/03/22 02:45 PM
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I know. There’s so many good looking girls that have under 500 followers .. just hit on one of them lol
/r/seduction20/03/22 04:33 PM
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If you meet her in person yeah it’s worth it.. if you’re trying to meet her online then i wouldn’t go for no one over 600 followers ... I’ve banged a few girls that had around 2000 + followers but I met them in person.. I know for sure if I would have hit them up via IG, I would’ve never had a chance due to the amount of messages they get .. they showed me
/r/seduction19/03/22 08:33 PM
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True ! I somehow happened to become friends with one of the most popular girls in school , she won beauty contests, homecoming queen etc. And i went over to her house a few times and one of those times she was like “hey look I have over 100 unread messages” She only replies to whoever she already knows from her friends or friends of friends... once in a while a random guy may be able to get her attention and actually go out but it’s actually luck since most guy’s messages get mixed up and lost w…
/r/seduction19/03/22 08:28 PM
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Yeah but it’s easier to get girls via social circle than it is Cold approaching random girls.. at least in the beginning .. I’m also working on cold approaching random girls because I don’t have time to do the social circle thing .. it takes way longer to get laid through cold approach at first but after it’s easier than picking up via social circle.. just resist !! It’s frustrating at first when you’re learning cold approach but if you could resist you will get a reward later
/r/seduction19/03/22 06:56 PM
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The key is (if you put yourself out there ) Building a social circle. Growing it and staying active will do the trick .. there’s always someone out there for you, but how are you gonna meet them if you’re just home in your couch laying down?
/r/seduction19/03/22 03:08 PM
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This won’t work if you have social anxiety or aren’t good at making friends though.. the number 1 thing is to be social and then work on the rest of the things that you said
/r/seduction19/03/22 03:04 PM
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Im on my journey towards this but after so much thinking, reading , and my few experiences , I’ve concluded that it’s all about being social , Trial and error and consistency ... if you aren’t hanging out with friends and friends of friends then it’s Gonna be way harder.. I’m not an expert by all means but I have made out with a lot of girls I met through friends ... I haven’t been consistent though , that’s the problem.. but yeah just build a social circle and stay active in it, always keep exp…
/r/seduction19/03/22 03:01 PM
1

Can you explain how your approaches resemble each other?
/r/seduction15/03/22 07:45 PM
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Bars are the easiest in my experience so far but I’m also trying to find somewhere other than bars, Macy’s and those type of stores have them, and they are easy to talk to..
/r/seduction15/03/22 07:45 AM
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Bars bro !! Or Macy’s .. I’ve met cougars from both places, and fucked
/r/seduction15/03/22 07:20 AM
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The advise is good ( it may just be worded wrong).... just don’t try to show you’re in demand by talking about other girls.. she will notice by the way other girls look at you, their tone when they talk to you , by hearing other girls talk positively about you etc.. plus if she feels attracted to you, then she automatically assumes other girls see you the same way.. so in this case you have nothing to prove .. if she doesn’t feel attracted to you though, then no matter how much you try to prove …
/r/seduction13/03/22 12:59 AM
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Bro you could make up for this... just socialize with the right people and change your mindset if you have to.. you think these guys coming out of prison after being there since age 18 and are now 35-40 years old aren’t fucking ?? These guys missed all the things you’re talking about and yet , they come out of jail and start banging girls In their 20’s..
/r/seduction13/03/22 12:18 AM
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It’s true bro.. I stayed with my last Gf because of her personality.. she was a solid 8 , I have been with 9’s in the past, I believe I could have gotten a better looking girl, but I stayed with her because her personality was better than a lot of these better looking girls .. so looks dont matter as long as they don’t find you ugly .. so actually they do kinda matter .. the thing is, we don’t know who is gonna find us ugly or cute because when you’re average looking , the saying “beauty is in t…
/r/seduction13/03/22 12:14 AM
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When they say they prefer personality , means they would get with you as long as they don’t find you ugly ... you don’t have to be super cute or sexy, just not ugly .. if you’re ugly in their eyes you don’t stand a chance... so yeah looks do matter, you gotta not be ugly in her eyes for her to choose you based on personality
/r/seduction12/03/22 11:28 PM
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He approaches, he is just getting rejected so maybe fixing his clothes could help? I haven’t seen him but that may be 1 problem
/r/seduction12/03/22 05:45 AM
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Idk maybe fix your style ? Having a cool dressing style sure helps a bunch
/r/seduction12/03/22 04:59 AM
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She’s most likely already fucking someone who is not stupid enough to not fuck her when she was basically offering her self
/r/seduction12/03/22 04:49 AM
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What hurts more about being friend zoned is seeing how another guy comes and with zero effort already has her dying for him lol fuck it, gotta learn to move on from this quick.. when you weren’t blessed with looks, you gotta develop more courage
/r/seduction12/03/22 01:38 AM
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Any topic can take you there really .. you have to develop the skill to take the conversation where you wanna take it ... I’ve literally talked about sex to a lot of girls and I just knew how to get sex in the conversation.. I started by practicing online though.. I would think for a few min what I was gonna say next until I started thinking faster and better “lines” until it becomes natural and you just adapt the knowledge to an in person setting.. took me months, this stuff take months when yo…
/r/seduction11/03/22 10:05 PM
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Sorry if it sounds insulting but Are you stupid ?? Either you ignore them, or you just grab them and let them grind on you ! Come on bro ! The same happens to me and those are about the only options you have ..
/r/seduction11/03/22 07:09 PM
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Well yeah, it’s all about looks when you’re young , especially if you want to move fast.. if you’re not good looking enough on the guy’s eyes then you have to prove them through actions that you would make a great Gf.. but the guy has to wanna settle down.. also most of the time a guy won’t know you’re flirting unless you’re making it obvious .. I always assume I’m not wanted until they make it really obvious .. after they make it obvious, if I’m attracted to them (and available) I’ll flirt back…
/r/seduction08/03/22 12:01 AM
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Go for it . Try to fuck her ! She could just choose not to cheat .. if she cheats it’s cause she wants to .. you have nothing to do with it , she would do it sooner or later.. if she was married then yeah stay way , but she’s single so go for it
/r/seduction07/03/22 11:50 PM
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You won’t be ruining anything if you fuck her.. the girl could just say no and walk away.. don’t feel guilty if she cheats with you.. she wants to
/r/seduction07/03/22 11:49 PM
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It works .. but if you actually get something out of that girl depends on her availability.. , if she’s available (single and open to dating new guys) you have a higher chance of dating her.. so most of the time it’s not you, it’s her situation that made her reject you..
/r/seduction07/03/22 09:03 PM
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It’s not weird .. it will be weird for some, but exiting for others.. I’ve done it and failed and I’ve also done it and succeeded
/r/seduction07/03/22 08:33 PM
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Just malls for now lol cause that’s the only place close to my house so I don’t wanna drive far knowing most likely I won’t approach.. so until I’m able to be consistent with my approaching then I’ll go somewhere else
/r/seduction06/03/22 03:23 PM
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I’ve been going 3-4 times a week in the afternoon.. so far 3 approaches in 10 times that I’ve gone.. but Im not sure if the mall is the best place for starters since I noticed most girls go in pairs or groups of 3 or more and are often moving .. I want to find a place where there’s more girls alone and static .. makes the approach easier.. but Im still learning Mall game, since it’s close to my house so if I can get a flow of approaches going on, I’m just gonna stick to the mall
/r/seduction06/03/22 09:05 AM
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Naw bro come on , she most likely has something to do next, she was probably about to make dinner ?? But if you want to take a girl home this way, keep trying until it happens... if it takes 200 try’s, so be it
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:53 AM
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Like me lol I need alcohol to be outgoing in crowds but I’m slowly starting to act as outgoing as when I’m drunk but sober so it worked to get me out my shell and to realize there’s no reason I shouldn’t act the same way while sober
/r/seduction05/03/22 07:03 PM
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Message me when you need to bro, I want to network with guys in my situation who also want to improve their game with women in person, that way we can share experiences and tips
/r/seduction05/03/22 05:03 PM
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Yeah bro I’ve realized there are no short cuts, I’m tired of looking for ways to hit on girls and not get hurt by rejection or I’m trying to find ways to just make them like me without risking being rejected but nothing works, seems like the only thing that will work is to become stronger every time until you don’t care about rejection and are able to get over your fears when meeting women , becoming strong enough to speak your mind without fear of being judged , being open minded and twist your…
/r/seduction05/03/22 04:59 PM
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In my late 20’s but. I just started doing the whole approach thing this year because I’m tired of getting girls online only , I want to do it in person
/r/seduction05/03/22 04:55 PM
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https://www.nateliason.com/notes/models-mark-manson This is the link to the summary I’m reading.. it makes a lot of sense but at the end of the day all advice I’ve read and through my own experiences; the message is the same ( just don’t care about the results, be you and say whatever you feel is right , have an abundance mindset (I don’t care if she doesn’t like me, I can approach 10 more girls today ) and just learning to deal with rejection and not getting hurt by it , just saying fuck it and…
/r/seduction05/03/22 04:52 PM
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I googled it and a dating book poped up but I love the summary so far
/r/seduction05/03/22 04:48 PM
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You read “models” ?? Is there a free pdf version of the book somewhere ?
/r/seduction05/03/22 04:22 PM
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Not weed .. alcohol yeah because it makes you more outgoing and careless about things you usually care about such as hitting on women and handling rejection or speaking your mind regardless of who’s around.. weed makes you want to keep to your self but it could be a good excuse to hang out with women and meet women and for women to ask you to hang out .. I’ve gotten laid because of weed, weed was my excuse to hang out with the girl.. but just because you smoke weed doesn’t mean you will attract …
/r/seduction05/03/22 09:50 AM
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Day game .. I hate night game but it’s even easier for me at night in bars.. my goal is to get 10-20 numbers a day .. barely working on it but when I accomplish this goal then it will be time saving !!
/r/seduction05/03/22 07:05 AM
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Yeah that’s why you push yourself outside of your comfort zone .. I’ve had social anxiety (the kind that would get me nervous AF to even order at mc donalds) still do but the only way out is to push yourself out ..
/r/seduction05/03/22 07:04 AM
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I also have a friend named Chad , he is gay (still in the closet) Chads can also be gay, more girls for us .
/r/seduction04/03/22 11:52 PM
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I recommend the solo cold approach when you want to save time .. if you have time for a social life with friends then it’s cool but if you’re a busy man, solo cold approaching is like a dating app.. in a dating app you message dozens of girls a day (cold approach) then one responds and you hit it off, and you may or may not fuck her.. same thing with cold approach .. Once you’re good at it, you will get 10 -20 numbers a day if you really want to. Then out of those, you’ll probably be able to hit…
/r/seduction04/03/22 10:57 PM
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It’s true what he said though, because in my group of friends, I was the one in command so when girls came over to chill with US, they all always liked me instead because they saw I was the one in charge and controlling the situation, what we were doing etc .. they stopped inviting me to chill with them afterwards so I started learning the solo “cold approach” which also works .. I would rather do solo cold approach when you’re trying to save time and don’t have enough time for a social life wit…
/r/seduction04/03/22 10:54 PM
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He’s just famous .. ( think about the numbers game) he doesn’t have to go out to meet tons of women for one to like him, tons of women Already know him so it’s obvious at least some women like him ..
/r/seduction04/03/22 10:51 PM
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Yeah you should !! Think about it, if they’re open enough to be naked in a beach then they must open to random conversations for the most part !!
/r/seduction04/03/22 10:47 PM
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I have succeeded in the night life as well but it’s not my thing.. hate dancing , drinking and partying .. that’s not my definition of fun.. but I’ve had to learn to push my self out of my comfort zone so I still approach at bars, parties just to get good at every setting .. that’s why I’m putting more effort into “cold approach” so I can just go out one day to the mall or beach and get 10 numbers in one day without having to drink and party .. that will save me tons of time, then through text I…
/r/seduction04/03/22 10:41 PM
2

Yeah true , but some people won’t understand until they experience it .. most people here have to understand that it won’t be the same for everyone.. all guys looking to learn to hit on girls using the Cold approach method will have to figure it out on their own what techniques work for them.. all we can do is encourage them not to give up !!!’ And share our experiences so they can get some guidance
/r/seduction04/03/22 09:42 PM
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Well that guy was obviously still learning bro.. mad props to him for trying.. soon he will be able to pull hotties after he goes home and analyzes his approach and adjusts what he feels needs to be adjusted .. trial and error bro !! This is how you get good
/r/seduction04/03/22 09:30 PM
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That’s what I want all guys to understand.. you will definitely get rejected , but that’s the only way to get to the girl that will like you.. the key is getting used to not caring about rejection, which is what I’m working on rightnow .. I have no problem approaching, the problem is I can’t be consistent.. I can approach a girl today, and then I won’t grow the balls again until days or weeks from today lol the key is to approach several girls in the same day, and repeat within a couple of days …
/r/seduction04/03/22 09:27 PM
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Where do you do your approaching at ??
/r/seduction04/03/22 07:01 PM
1

But they can’t get Chad so they gotta settle for you
/r/seduction04/03/22 06:37 PM
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I am only 5,7 .. I am skinny , always wear a size small for joggers and a 31 for my jeans .. a little out of shape , and I’m still able to pull girls sometimes when I go out .. you have no excuses bro, we will get rejected more often but if we want to conquer then just keep trying .. take the rejection as a motivation.. one more rejection just means one step closer to the “yes” .. i don’t consider my self above average in looks either, I’ve been called ugly but I’ve also been called cute .... I …
/r/seduction04/03/22 05:57 PM
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It’s called ( Blacks beach) I highly recommend it .. tons of naked women lol
/r/seduction04/03/22 05:20 PM
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Thanks for the tip about Venice bro ! I’ve been dying to go there cause lots and lots of hotties but I don’t wanna come back without zero approaches so I’m getting as many approaches as possible close to my house, that way Im already used to controlling my approach anxiety.. so when I go to Venice the drive won’t be pointless and I know I’ll be able to approach. But yeah the beach makes sense . I almost fucked a married girl I met at San Diego nudist beach when I was 20 .. she was just laying na…
/r/seduction04/03/22 03:49 PM
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It look like anything bro.. random as fuck just say anything random and that’s how it starts. Im still working on this but I’ve noticed that’s how it goes .. last week my approach line was “ hey do you smoke ? And took it from there.. other times (depends where you’re at) when I happen to over hear a conversation and I know I can contribute to it, I just say something to them about their conversation .. and that’s how it goes.. or other times a girl is sitting in a bench and I said “hi can I sit…
/r/seduction04/03/22 03:38 PM
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2 weeks ago I did an I direct approach on a girl who just kept starring at me at the mall, she was with 2 friends .. I asked her about the time the bus passes (that was my opener) and right when she smiled and was about to open her mouth and we were finally gonna talk , her stupid ass friends said “you could look it up in your phone, and didn’t even let the girl talk (the one I was hitting on) this is the reason I will never approach girls with friends ... leave your friends at home and do what …
/r/seduction04/03/22 02:55 PM
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Or she can go out alone to places so a guy can approach her .. if she wants to get picked up, she better start leaving her friends at home because it’s a mission for guys trying to get rid of the friends lol plus sometimes their friends will say something stupid like “she’s already taken” or “you’re not her type” without even letting the girl that’s being hit on decide lol
/r/seduction04/03/22 02:52 PM
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Took me 14 years after my first rejection like that to decide to start approaching again.. my ex girl friends either met me through social media or my recent one actually approached me first .. other than that, after being rejected in 7th grade (the ewww type of rejection) I never bothered to start approaching again until 14 years later lol it could be that traumatizing
/r/seduction04/03/22 02:45 PM
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It depends on the woman , everyone reacts differently.. with this one I was direct but I did text her and flirted a little for about 2 weeks .. we had already made out though the day we met.. so there’s never a “one thing works with all” cause they’ll respond differently .. the key is having an abundance mind set.. don’t be scared to speak your mind for fear of loosing her , there’s always another one out there if you’re willing to keep approaching.. people just don’t like putting in the work th…
/r/seduction04/03/22 06:03 AM
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Because sometimes the friend says something rude and stupid and we don’t wanna deal with stupid rude people when we’re talking to a girl so to avoid that situation , I only approach girls who are by them selves.. never with a friend .. but Im gonna start practicing how to approach Groups of girls cause I’m missing on a lot of opportunities.. but most guys will not bother so they will only approach you when you’re alone
/r/seduction04/03/22 12:09 AM
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Could work but depends on the girl, situation , place , etc
/r/seduction03/03/22 11:50 PM
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Someone who is attracted to a 40 year old woman lol
/r/seduction03/03/22 11:13 PM
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I consider myself average looking so the only good thing about it is that sooner or later you land something decent so if you actively try then you should be able to get a girl. You just have to make it a habit to talk to girls every time you’re out, I’ve had to push myself out of my comfort zone too much but I’ve made some progress
/r/seduction03/03/22 10:35 PM
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Exactly !! This is how I met my cougar lol just talk to them how you would talk to any girl your age, they want your validation because they’re getting old .. if you’re in your 20’s and aren’t fucking cougars is cause you have to loose the fear of hitting on them
/r/seduction03/03/22 08:24 PM
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Yeah bro it’s the same way as you would fuck a girl your age, but actually older women are nicer so it shouldn’t be a problem to fuck one . I’m gonna fuck a 40 year old today for the 4th time.. met her at a bar. Talked for 5 minutes and we were making out .. texted for 2 weeks and I straight told her to come to my room for a massage .. she came and we became fuck buddies
/r/seduction03/03/22 08:15 PM
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Naw bro every girls is different trust but yeah if you’re that direct you will get rejected more but you will get laid more .. but whatever works for you, everyone’s journey is different .. I agree with some stuff I see here but I disagree with other.. at the end of the day we have to just get strong enough to not care about rejection that’s the key and just approach every day without caring people’s opinions.. I see people in here say not to do stuff this way or that way, but I have succeeded i…
/r/seduction03/03/22 07:09 PM
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Nope that comment was brilliant lol.. guys who say otherwise are guys with zero experience .. not one single line will work the same with every girl.. guys that like making excuses not to approach will often say that is disrespectful or weird but I have picked up girls by straight out saying “damn you have a big ass” so anything could work.. if she’s available and open to meeting guys and she likes what she sees in you she will respond positively to almost anything .. just don’t insult her with …
/r/seduction03/03/22 06:49 PM
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That’s enough lol it only takes being buzzed for a girl to start to loosen up.. 2 drinks is enough to get someone buzzed or drunk enough depending on their tolerance regardless if they are able to drive drunk or not .. or she can actually like you . That’s possible too.. I consider my self average at best and I was able to date a stripper that gets hit on every day by men with money .. this Just proves my theory that as long as you’re average sooner or later someone will think you’re hot.. so co…
/r/seduction02/03/22 06:59 PM
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male scarcity is just one reason why a good looking women would lower her standards but also, statistically speaking , even if you’re average , you will sooner or later land a hottie as long as you can keep a conversation going ... average means some girls find you attractive while others find you ugly. So chances are this girl just happens to be the one that found you attractive.. beauty is in the eye of the beholder.. and this saying applies the most to average looking people because they eith…
/r/seduction02/03/22 06:56 PM
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It’s not because you’re with a girl bro trust.. you just don’t Pay attention to your surroundings .. when you go out alone, dress well !! And notice how you pull the same amount of attention as when you go out with a girl..
/r/seduction02/03/22 06:27 PM
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Also, if you’re average looking, even if you’re below average but still in the average bracket .. sooner or later you will succeed at least once statistically speaking.. so the key for average folks is to play the numbers game.. sooner or later you will find a girl that for whatever reason has a boring life style, zero social interactions so doesn’t meet guys often despite being good looking , so when they happen to meet a guy, as long as he acts normal, they are more likely to go for him due to…
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:14 PM
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He said they had spent the day drinking... when girls drink x they wanna make out with anyone or at least that has been my experience .. they always try to make out with me after having a couple of drinks.. either I’m too ugly that only alcohol makes me look decent, or the girls need alcohol to grow courage to hit on me ..
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:06 PM
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