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| 3 | The number of people who refuse to acknowledge that men are way hornier than women is a perfect example of why blue pillers can not be trusted to have an honest discussionIn that case, bad sex is very undercooked or very overcooked food. Or entirely too spicy or too dull. Or there is something that isn't supposed to be there, making it painful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 06:21 AM |
| 9 | The number of people who refuse to acknowledge that men are way hornier than women is a perfect example of why blue pillers can not be trusted to have an honest discussionWomen also consume vastly more erotic literature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 02:29 AM |
| 2 | The number of people who refuse to acknowledge that men are way hornier than women is a perfect example of why blue pillers can not be trusted to have an honest discussionIt does if we make your right hand ramen, and sex into a steak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Population collapse and datingIf births don't correlate with the economy at, why was there a substantial downturn from 2008-2010 when tons of people lost their jobs and retirement savings?? <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Society is finished, terminal stageThat's my point. You are taking St. Augustine, someone from a specific background and place as gospel for the opinions of the whole empire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Society is finished, terminal stageThere were plenty of large-scale famines going back to the late republic. The wealthy people we have knowledge from would not have been starving anyhow, but it became far less acceptable to be opulent and hedonistic during late antiquity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Society is finished, terminal stageYou do realize that trajan and Hadrian were both provincials, right? Also that Marcus Aurelius was from a provincial family and adopted into a more prestigious one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Society is finished, terminal stageSt. Augustine was also from a wealthy enough background that he could spend much of his life in education and join the clergy. He was also from a highly romanized background in North Africa, which was a core piece of the empire. Not exactly representative of the general population or those who were near Rome's frontier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Society is finished, terminal stageRoman society became less hedonistic as it fell, though. Most of the age of roman expansion was also an age of debauchery for free romans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 12:05 AM |
| 2 | A man who's sexually inexperienced is not a "red flag"Im going to tackle your hiking example. I wouldn't try to hike everest with a total newbie, but if it was someone that brought me immense joy to be with, and they were willing, we would start with sotheing easy and local and get pur fitness a gear situation settled and go at a pace comfortable for the two of us and train to the point of being able to climb everest. But here's the thing, climbing Mount everest isn't necessarily the greatest time and is quite expensive, so most people never really… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Are guys who don't go to college screwed in the dating world?Even if we accept your premise that only women with a degree prefer nen with a degree, the are 1.4 women with undergraduate degrees to every one man with a degree. So the numbers favor men with degrees substantially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 04:20 AM |
| 0 | Paternity tests should not be used as a weapon against opposite sex, but as a logical progression of rightsThere are also the men who have legitimately trusted their partner and are unknowingly betrayed. It would protect those who are legitimate victims of adultery from undue emotional and financial burdens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 04:37 PM |
| 1 | For those that worry about being the “best she ever had”…Their original reply can be boiled down to: assume other guys were more naturally gifted with sex (ie. Have a bigger dick), so just put in more thought and effort into being a good sexual partner (bring that undrafted free agent energy). Dude is just saying to put in the work to perform the best you can and there isn't any point worrying after that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Women don't get snatched off the street and sex trafficked, it's not a realistic scenarioYou were a foreigner at a club in eastern europe, the target on your back was substantially larger than if you were in a random club in an anglophone country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Women don't get snatched off the street and sex trafficked, it's not a realistic scenarioSpeaking from experience, coworkers and family can be a little difficult to avoid. You can be having a totally normal conversation, but anything tangentially related can send them into q rant mode. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Women don't get snatched off the street and sex trafficked, it's not a realistic scenarioSpeaking from experience, coworkers and family can be a little difficult to avoid. You can be having a totally normal conversation, but anything tangentially related can send them into q rant mode. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Do you think you can actually sense misogyny?They're not pitying you. They said you are taking too much pity on yourself. Yes, they don't know your situation and problems the same way you do, but you are making your problems actively worse with some of your attitudes. If you get that enraged over a semi-anonymous internet comment, then you have some problems regulating your emotions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 02:38 AM |
| 6 | Are you worried you might be in a dead bedroom someday?Issue with your response is that it requires one to priortize regular sex over a lot of other things that many people prize highly, such as children and money. Also, even in relationships similar to the one you pose, housewives straight up just get bored and it harms their mental state if you were to take as much off of their plate. They now have the stress of keeping you happy because you are their sole provider. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 02:54 AM |
| 9 | Today’s female dating strategy will lead to a demographic collapse of liberal progressives and a future where women are treated as second class citizens.Korea and japan have strong working women cultures, not the whole caregiver culture. They are not conservative they are neoliberal with some of their own characteristics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce.These expectations have been changing, and distributions of labor can be oddly more even in rural households. The development of the suburban middle class has made social expectations strange and not really in line with the demands of modern society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 06:32 PM |
| 8 | Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce.It may not just be the lack of friends period, but also the rise of online gaming creating online friend groups that can't really perform matchmaking in the same way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 06:28 PM |
| 1 | How the hell can women commit to a man they don't lust after?The government could mind its business with all sorts of relationships, but having some legal framework and protections for these relationships is not an unreasonable thing, i do think it is unnecessary, but it's not like we should act like it's some super oppressive system as many in the red pill community would lead people to believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 03:49 AM |
| 1 | How the hell can women commit to a man they don't lust after?Why are you criticizing me for semantics when i admitted that I used a pedantic arguement there? It's also a somewhat different legal contract between common law relationships and a licensed marriage, so i dont think its entirely pedantic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 03:46 AM |
| 1 | How the hell can women commit to a man they don't lust after?Common law spouses are different from marriage, so if we want to be pedantic no one is forcing you to live with a person and present as a couple publicly and no one is forcing you to offically get married. Its simple, decide if someone is worth the risks of marriage within two years, honestly if someone isn't worth the risks and commitments, seperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 11:17 PM |
| 1 | How the hell can women commit to a man they don't lust after?You do realize that under bc law you can create a relationship agreement that will supersede the law? So if they actually are reasonable and plan ahead the two consenting adults are able to decide exactly what happens. Edit: you can make this agreement at any point during or after the relationship and it is binding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 07:26 PM |
| 1 | How the hell can women commit to a man they don't lust after?If your life and finances are intertwined with someone like that for over 2 years, there needs to be some sort of legal framework to ensure an equitable breakup. If one partner decided to not take a job so that they could do domestic work and the other partner was okay with it, then spontaneously decided to breakup and get kicked out, the partner that was staying at home deserves some sort of legal protection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 04:07 PM |
| 3 | How the hell can women commit to a man they don't lust after?A simple solution: if you dont want someone to be your spouse, don't live with them. If both of you have a decent invome that was contributed to the household, there is no substantial issue in terms of distributing debts and assets acquired over the course of the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 01:29 AM |
| 7 | How the hell can women commit to a man they don't lust after?Common law marriage in the jurisdictions it is still allowed requires a marriage agreement/mutual consent. Look up actual legal documents and summaries on common law marriage in the US. You can go on law.cornell.edu if you don't trust what Wikipedia says about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 10:24 PM |
| 12 | How the hell can women commit to a man they don't lust after?Even in the states that permit it, there has to be mutual consent and both parties have to have publicly and offically presented themselves as married. Its really just for people that dont want to get/lost/forgot a marriage license. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Study show that straight women are disproportionaly more likely to search porn with violence against women and where they are being raped abused and endure physical violence, than straight men do.Realistically you should just be cynical about other people to an extent, and just be conscious of what they stand to gain from you and vice versa. That can and will lead to some 'red pill' conclusions, its just more about not being naïve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 10:48 PM |
| 0 | Study show that straight women are disproportionaly more likely to search porn with violence against women and where they are being raped abused and endure physical violence, than straight men do.I was not saying that was the purpose, but that your post can be misinterpreted that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 10:46 PM |
| -3 | Study show that straight women are disproportionaly more likely to search porn with violence against women and where they are being raped abused and endure physical violence, than straight men do.Probably bc there are red pill dudes that the op can trigger into acting more aggressive and violent towards with this post. There will be the occasional set of dudes who will think "women have rape fantasy = okay for me to rape them" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 01:46 PM |
| 2 | "Touch grass" is awful advice. Social interaction and getting better at social skills is a two way street. You need two people who are BOTH willing to have a social interaction, it's not something you can do on your own. People seem to forget this.Are you trying to say that people need to learn to socialize when they are young and have more warm approaches than when they are older? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 06:34 PM |
| 5 | "Touch grass" is awful advice. Social interaction and getting better at social skills is a two way street. You need two people who are BOTH willing to have a social interaction, it's not something you can do on your own. People seem to forget this.So then you think that people need to learn how to interact with people? This seems to contradict your original post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Why does it seem that blue collar and “average Joe” men have an easier time with female romantic partnership than money making STEM or forum guys?yeah, SOF has a divorce rate of 40% because of how much more demanding the work is on work/life balance. Normal military members' divorce rate hovers in the 4% ballpark. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 07:30 AM |
| 0 | Women claiming to be 'Sapiosexual' often do so either inaccurately or as code for something else.Emotional intelligence is also a thing... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 03:13 PM |
| 12 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherBruv, you are just being a doomer, the real issue is that people are just broadly more insular. You sound like I did when i was more terminally online judging by your other comments. You dont need to go chase women, just interact more with people irl and things will get better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 04:19 PM |
| 6 | 90% of what gives women ""the ick" is just men failing to live up to masculine gender stereotypesAs someone from american midwest, what are you even talking about? As long as you aren't throwing your hands around like a nutcase, you aren't weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 11:30 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to even get a relationship nowadays?meet someone through work/friends and be honest with your intentions relatively quickly. You are also only talking about subcategories that do not make up all women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Dating is much more difficult for men if they aren't willing to date trashy womenCross the words anecdote and data | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsI think it’s more so that they chase after women that are basically strangers, and don’t try to network and social proof themselves at all, it’s a lot easier to land a date with a girl you don’t know if a mutual friend can vouch for you saying your a good and interesting person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 04:07 PM |
| 4 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsWhen normal guys talk about girls ignoring them, the girls might not pretend they don’t exist, but they do display that they want to engage with you and find an opportunity to talk to someone else. You do need to pass at least a certain bar in someone’s mind for them to even entertain a relationship with you. Everyone treats more attractive people better on average, regardless of sex/gender. it’s a biological imperative that one would prefer to have an attractive mate so their more likely to pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 04:04 PM |
| 5 | Women would do better in dating if they involved the men in their family with mate selectionDang, so just screw girls who grew up with bad families? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 01:20 AM |
| 4 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenNot a scam if you know exactly what you are signing up for, rather have someone I could relate to and talk to more. There are thing more worthwhile and less fickle than physical appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 07:51 PM |
| 6 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenIf I create a perfect example where I know the guy’s exact motivations, you would be right. But you can’t know that IRL, even if I guy says so. I wouldn’t want my daughter to be viewed as a child production tool and a trophy by some older dude either. There are also plenty of younger guys that aren’t running around trying to have sex with every woman they deem passably attractive. Perfect knowledge examples are borderline useless in thinking about social interaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 05:48 PM |
| 22 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenHe could find someone in the 22-27 year old bracket and be far less suspect, as those girls at least have some mild dose of adult life experience that also fulfills your listed criteria. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 05:28 PM |
| 10 | Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older womenShe’s almost just as likely to get betrayed by an older dude. Just because a guys older doesn’t mean he’s less likely to be a shitty person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 05:24 PM |
| -1 | CMV: It’s a sign of extreme inequality that women facilitating sex work is seen as more and more publicly acceptable, but men using the services of a sex worker is just as taboo for men as its always beenI know it’s hard, but you have to force yourself to talk to people even if you’re not inclined to, just like I had to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 03:49 PM |
| 3 | CMV: It’s a sign of extreme inequality that women facilitating sex work is seen as more and more publicly acceptable, but men using the services of a sex worker is just as taboo for men as its always beenThe club is not the place to meet and talk to people in any remotely meaningful way, you have to find people that are in the same areas you are, make friends, and create a social network that allows you to meet girls in places that aren’t the night club instead of being a defeatist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 03:16 PM |
| 28 | Socioeconomic success doesn’t yet mean social or sexual acceptance for Asian American men.Because most asian men don't have plastic surgery or makeup. | /r/BlackPillScience | 03/02/20 08:36 PM |
| 14 | When men are in environments without the presence of women, they do not enforce gender normsGuys do some gay shit when girls aren't around Source: am guy | /r/BlackPillScience | 06/03/19 05:16 AM |
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