AreJewOkay Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
28	My date was late and waited until the time of our reservation to let me know so you know what I did…I blocked and left. It’s already over man	/r/seduction	29/03/26 03:09 AM
27	I like girls with meaty labias Let the man enjoy his roast beef	/r/seduction	05/03/26 05:41 AM
2	Redpill dudes, do you actually believe rich men date broke women? I’m would not say I’m rich but I make 200k+ per year and I’ve dated lots of broke women. I’d rather date a younger, more beautiful, friendly/kind woman who doesn’t have much money over a woman who makes a lot but doesn’t have those traits and also doesn’t have free time. At a certain income I feel as if your partners income isn’t really a factor anymore. I would date a high income earner and it’s definitely a positive, the other traits are just far more important.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 03:48 AM
6	Men love whores What you’re missing is that to become a high rate stripper like this you have to be insanely hot and generally in your 20s. We are taking women who look like pornstars. Average men will simp for 9s and 10 regardless of their history, you are absolutely right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 06:37 AM
3	The bluepill is too difficult for most men to swallow Blue pill teaches you how to have a successful relationship with a good woman. Main takeaway from redpill is how to identify and not get taken advantage of by toxic women. If you only subscribe to redpill you are likely weird and bitter but there’s a lot of good knowledge to take from it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 02:19 AM
2	Question for Heterosexual Men: If you care about body counts, why? I don’t think most men care about it until a certain extent. I have a lot of platonic female friends and I live in a big city so we we engage in a lot of nightlife. I can tell you from firsthand experience I’ve seen a lot of the high N count women cheat with random guys. The women who don’t have casual sex never decide “tonight is the night to do so”. There is a significant loyalty risk you’re taking when dating a woman who is used to that behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/23 04:28 PM
11	How do you handle the "what are you looking for?" question? Most women that ask that question want to hear “I’m looking for a relationship with the right person” Your answer basically amount to “IDK”. You should be honest though and figure out how to verbalize exactly what you want.	/r/seduction	24/06/22 03:30 PM
6	When I'm with girls 1-on-1 at parties, what do I talk about ? Last sentence sums up my life pretty well.	/r/seduction	10/06/22 03:11 AM
4	Is there ever a point when finding a sexual partner is easier for the average man than for the average woman? This is not true. First off the average 30 y/o woman is not a single mom. Even if we make that concession a 30 y/o average looking single mom could walk into a bar and pick a guy she likes for casual sex within 30 minutes. An average 40k per year dad bod guy cannot do that so it’s not really a contest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 11:21 PM
2	How often do you get hit on? Why did you use your wife pictures as the fake profile? Surely you could have just used random pictures if you were just curious what it’s like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/22 07:44 PM
1	Women would not give so much importance to getting old if male attention was not a priority for them You’re using this negative example but I know lots of men in their 30s who married and started a family with a woman in her 20s. It makes sense for a man that age who is looking to settle down. You can have more kids with a woman in her 20s and there is much less risk. Most men aren’t attempting to pump and dump younger women. Millennial men start thinking about marriage in their 30s and younger women are logistically a great option not to mention they are more attractive. If you’re a boomer I g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 05:16 PM
11	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage Weird take here. As a man you should be maximizing your self worth throughout your relationship and never stop. Workout, eat right, maintain a large social circle. Men who only hang out with their SO and have no friends might have this problem but if you maintain your life and good practices you won’t. There’s no need to doom your relationship by cultivating other options. If you put work into yourself constantly then if you are dumped you will have no issue finding someone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 03:45 PM
1	Swinging on a cop as you're being kicked out at the ballpark... Yea what the hell was that??	/r/PussyPassDenied	13/04/22 06:34 AM
2	Divorce attorney says that in 13 years of practice, the women who were her most difficult or litigious were the SAHMs. I realize it’s hard to get back into the workforce but common. If you’re in your 40s you can get a job and support yourself. After the kids are around 10 people should be trying to get back into the workforce anyway. Infants are one thing but after the kids are in school full time you have the ability to work again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/22 04:52 PM
2	If a woman continues to multi-date after going on a date with you, she's not into you. It’s more about the kind of relationship someone is looking for. If you are looking for a casual thing then multi-dating is fine. You know you’re not looking to get married anyway. If you’re dating to marry I don’t see how multi dating works. That’s an easy way to be someone’s second choice since they are likely dating people that they want but won’t commit to them so they settle on you as the next best option.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 06:47 PM
31	Do you support a publicly accessible domestic violence offender registry, similar to the sex offender registry? A friend of mine had a fight with his wife over Chipotle. She hit him with a shovel and he spent 2 days in jail for domestic violence. She stayed home and ate the Chipotle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/22 09:58 PM
1	The only people that truly win in today's dating market are high value men Hard disagree with your point about only high value men. High value women have basically the same power. Are you friends with any truly gorgeous young women with their life together? I am friends with a couple and they have access to the same benefits. HVM lining up around the block to date them and be in relationships. Free things constantly. A high value woman by men’s standard can get anything she wants out of the dating market.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 02:41 AM
1	Just on the topic of N count, wanted to share this post. What are your thoughts? Agree that it’s a troll post, but the comments are real.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 12:32 AM
16	Would you date a widower or widow with children? Would you date someone with children if you yourself had children? I respect single moms because they have a lot on their plate. I don’t understand all the hate that they get from some of these subs. I would not date one because I don’t have kids and our lifestyles would be way too different. If I was single and I had a kid already then I would be open to dating one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 06:52 PM
6	“Lower you standard”, is the worst possible advice a person can get, when it comes to dating It’s ok to have high standards if you meet them yourself. No one is telling a young, fit, popular person with a good job to lower their standards. If you’re out shopping for a new BMW and you have used KIA money, the market determines what you can get.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 03:51 PM
3	At least she tried She’s looking for that thot support	/r/PussyPassDenied	31/03/22 02:21 PM
-1	All men have to pay for sex in one way or another. So men with the ability and willingness to pay may as well go for the youngest, most fertile, and attractive women possible. Yea that was a bad example Trump has been with women 30-40 years younger than him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 04:46 PM
1	Would you rather be in a relationship with someone hot but poor, “below average” but ambitious and financially secure, or be celibate for the rest of your life? As a guy who has a good job I’ll take the hot but poor from a foreign country any day over the alternatives. Never a single mother though I’d rather be single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 04:18 PM
1	Do overweight women struggle attracting men? Most fat women I see are with fat men. Fat people tend to gravitate towards each other. It’s rare to see an obese woman with a fit guy or vice versa. It does happen but it’s rare.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 03:23 PM
15	How many of you who think women should settle more often, have actually expereinced a relationship without attraction or low attraction? I don’t think anyone here is telling, for example, a girl who is a 9 to settle for a guy who is a 4. That’s the straw man argument people make when they don’t have a point. They are saying that you should be aiming for your looksmatch. If you are a 5 then you should be matching with 5s. If you’re only attracted to guys 8+ then you’ll likely never get a partner anyway to start that family you said you wanted. It’s practical advice for people who are perpetually single. If you are revulsed by men …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 10:21 PM
2	What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender? Average woman in America is obese with mental health issues and makes 30k per year. Not sure where you live but that is not top tier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 08:22 PM
9	What’s something you think you know about the opposite sexes behaviour that they might not realize is happening within their own gender? Sounds like more of a coping mechanism than anything when phrased this way	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 07:46 PM
4	Women don’t only care about looks, they care about MORE then looks. Yea I get your point I just don’t think anyone here is saying that looks are the only thing that matters for women. Maybe that’s the only thing that matters to them for casual flings. For relationships it’s obvious that other things matter as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 05:35 PM
20	Women don’t only care about looks, they care about MORE then looks. Does it matter though? I mean if you must be this tall to ride the roller coaster then height (or in this case looks overall) is the most important factor. If one factor is the entry point and you don’t have it then it seems like that’s all the person cares about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 05:22 PM
3	One thing I admit, social media and dating apps have changed my perspective on how attractive I find some men Are girls really hotter? On social media definitely but in real life I’ve noticed more fat people than ever before since COVID began. I know several insta thots and they do not look like their pictures in real life, sometimes DRAMATICALLY different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 04:25 PM
–	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? You people are really transactional here. I think it’s fine for people to be fine being single and alone. If you are average you should be fine with an average partner. If you feel you cannot find someone equal to you that is appealing then being alone is fine. But if you go to r/datingoverthirty it’s full of post from women that sound like “WILL I BE ALONE FOREVER? DATING CANT BE THIS HARD” If that’s not a fear of yours then date yourself. At FDS they even buy themselves wedding rings queen 👸	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 05:56 PM
1	Debates here will never lead to any conclusion until redpill gives data to prove "most women are like that" Sad but it’s common. Just spoke to a guy TODAY makes 250k, takes home 15k a month. Lost his home now has to pay 3k rent and 3k alimony. Credit score 500 because she let all his cards fall behind (he took on most of the debt in the divorce). He fell behind on his truck payment and they are trying to repo it now. It’s like you can go from the American dream to a bum in a few months.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 08:06 PM
11	CMV: FDS and Red Pill want the other sex to be traditional while they are unbound They are not against casual sex. One of their mods posted that they should multi-date and sleep around while dating for a relationship. The difference is the entrance fee to casual sex is very high including men paying for everything and being more attractive than them by “1-2 points” according to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 10:57 PM
5	Debates here will never lead to any conclusion until redpill gives data to prove "most women are like that" I think the loaded gun analogy is a great one. I work in finance and when reviewing money with my clients I’ve seen tons of men paying $2000-$3000 monthly in alimony payments. I’ve worked with a lawyer who also has the drive Uber all night to barely pay his bills because of a high alimony payment scheduled for the next 10 years. Every time you get into a car you put your seatbelt on. Most times you don’t have an accident but the one time you do you are glad you wore your seatbelt. It’s all about…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 05:57 PM
7	The myth of "settling" This is pretty much the definition of settling. Great analogy though because it’s like the real estate market right now. All the good houses are going into bidding wars and being won by cash offers (hot young women). You gave your prime years to those apartments and now you realize you should have bought years ago because the prices just went way up 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 10:35 PM
2	Q4W: Do you believe that men are becoming more attractive or less attractive? Playing Texas Hold ‘Em with a hand of Uno cards	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 12:52 AM
3	“Dual Mating Strategy” doesn’t matter if you’re not young and hot It doesn’t matter for a lot of men because that will be their only option. If you don’t have options, you take what you can get or just get comfortable being by yourself. If you have options you can avoid being settled for. You can date younger women who have more to offer. You don’t have to be someone’s bailout who is progressively looking worse each and every year that wouldn’t give you the time of day years in the past. I think it’s just a matter of self respect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/22 05:50 PM
1	Question for TRP: What type of man do you consider a "Top" man or High Value Man? So if a rich, handsome, fit, and well established guy with good character asked you out you would say “No thanks, you make too much money?” 🤔	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/22 06:19 PM
1	What Are Some Sure Ways to Prevent Being "Traded In" for a Younger Woman? Most men aren’t leaving for much younger women. If they can date much younger women then they probably bring a lot to the table. Most times when someone leaves it’s just for someone who treats them better. Keeping a partner is about maintaining a friendship and romantic relationship through the years. It’s also not letting yourself go. If you’re 100 pounds overweight and they maintain their fitness than you’re not doing your part to maintain attraction. This doesn’t apply if both people get fat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 07:27 PM
1	Honestly, would you leave a 7 in looks who you loved and had other shared interests/ values with, for a 10? No I would not and I think your perspective is incredibly flawed. I’ve seen way more average women cheat on average men when a model looking man is showing them attention for the night.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 07:37 PM
7	What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships? Men do find it kind of gross. If you give me a toothbrush and tell me this toothbrush has touched 100 dicks then I’m not using it. Ask 100 men if they would prefer their wife had less partners or more and you know what the answer would be for 90+. The other issue is the social factor. Imagine if you live in a small town and you marry the town bicycle. You could be shopping for tomatoes at the grocery store then look up and BAM staring at you is a guy who blasted on your wife’s face. You know it,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 07:20 PM
1	Do you have less respect for women you meet on dating sites compared to women you meet in person? I respect them but to your question about marriage or LTR I think where you meet them makes a huge difference. I tend to just date casually with OLD. First off it’s highly likely that they are mutidating, or seeing multiple people at the same time. This is a turn off for most people getting into a LTR. Second you really have no idea who the person is. I have met some seriously insane women a few times. My only LTR that came from online dating I later found out she was racist (I’m black), previou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/22 11:55 PM
2	Men should not approach women. Men should wait until women approach them or women show obvious interest in them. This is great advice if you can get it to work. You end up with girls who are really interested in you and enthusiastic about being with you. Most of my relationships have been with women who approached me from being in connected social circles. This option is less effective using OLD but can still work. If men don’t believe this can happen you just need to expand your social circle. It’s unlikely you will meet 10 single women and 0 will be interested in you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/22 10:11 PM
1	Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count? Men definitely care I just think people here take it to extremes. If the count is like 10 nobody is really going to care. When it gets to be something like 30+ I couldn’t see marrying a woman like that. It’s indicative of their judgement, STD risk, commitment, and attitude towards sex. I mean some men may actually like that more if they are into kinks or something but the average man will tell you that they consider it a huge negative when it’s too high.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/22 01:44 AM
3	Q4W: What is your main disagreement with the Red Pill? I think the problem with TRP is that they are mostly lonely guys with no social circles so they rely on OLD and random encounters to find women. Only 30% of women use OLD. I think the majority of women that use OLD frequently have the same negative tendencies. If this is the only type of women you run into you think AWALT because that’s your sample size. It’s not true but you can see how they end up drawing this conclusion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 10:22 PM
1	Blue pill advise does not help men whatsoever So religion	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 10:14 PM
10	Average men wanting chad’s lifestyle are akin to middle class people wanting a billionaire lifestyle If he’s in your league then that would also make you an unattractive simpleton. Nothing wrong with telling someone to date in their league for best success. Applies to men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 06:08 PM
2	Do women value a guy’s status or overall looks more? I knew Tim before he was famous. He had no trouble getting attention he was extremely stuck up and arrogant about it as well. He went to a performance art school so environment also matters. The answer here is that status matters more than looks, as long as you aren’t ugly. An average guy who is moderately famous or rich has access to so many more women than a broke/loser good looking guy. If you don’t think this is true go to NYC/LA/Vegas and get a table at a club with a bunch of friends. You w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/22 11:37 PM
0	Would you stay in a relationship with someone who let themselves go physically? The phrase you are looking for is “lots of money”. Have you seen Lizzo’s boyfriends? She looks like my toe and she dates jacked men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/22 03:07 AM
-1	Would you stay in a relationship with someone who let themselves go physically? It’s a movie. If Adam Sandler was a regular guy without millions of dollars he’d be dating a fat chick most likely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/22 03:03 AM
1	Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it is I think most people can agree huge age gaps are kind of weird. I’m talking 20 years+. I can’t see being with a partner who is going to die 20 years before you. I usually date at an age gap of 5-10 years simply because it works out better. Women in their 20s are flat out more attractive than women in their 30s and come with less baggage. Plus if you want to have multiple kids why start with a woman in her 30s?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/22 10:44 PM
1	Women are "delusional" in thinking they can secure a top 20 man because they dont even find THOSE MEN that attractive The 80/20 rule only applies to online dating. Only about 30% of women use online dating. These crazy ideas are because some guys only interact with women outside their family through online dating so their world view is twisted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/22 07:03 AM
1	Men in their 30s, how often have you hooked up with women older than you? Never. I guess I’m probably fitting into the stereotype because I’ve only dated women in their 20s for the most part since turning 30. It’s not that I’m strictly against it but I just haven’t found any women older than me that I’m attracted to and the opportunity exists.	/r/seduction	11/01/22 10:49 PM
8	I'm an obese, single mother and these are my demands. You must be over 6'3" (no exceptions), stable house and income, like MY kids and want more kids, be interested in marrying a single mom, and etc.... Oompa Loompa with broken family seeks NBA player with a good family for a bailout. No midgets need apply. Never mind that my eyes are two different sizes you won’t be able to see them from up there anyway.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	10/01/22 08:26 PM
3	Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laid Great advice. If you’re an average looking guy your soul will be crushed on OLD. It’s a sausage fest essentially. I’ve met most of my girlfriends in person and most of them approached me. The best method I’ve found is to make good FEMALE friends. Girls usually know lots of girls and know where the girls are going to be. Then it’s an extra boost that they are able to vouch for you as not a weirdo because they’ve chosen to be your friend.	/r/seduction	10/01/22 07:23 PM
1	Is it really bad if, after a woman asks me what my height is, I ask her what her weight is? How is weight explicitly sexual? You can have a preference for average sized partners without it being sexual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 08:09 AM
1	Men do not glow up in their 30s. 60% of married couples are within a 3 year age gap Yes, those thing matter in regard to the caliber of woman you want. If you’re short and average looking you would have to be really rich to attract the best looking women. You could still do fine with average looking girls if you are fit, social, and and have money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 06:22 AM
18	What standards are TOO high? For women it is wanting someone who is better than them physically and financially. Lots of short fat women want a guy who is tall, fit, and makes double their income. Good luck. We don’t want an Oompa Loompa. For men it is wanting a a much younger, more beautiful woman when they are an out of shape shlub. You finally got your life together at 40, congrats. Date a 35 year old woman because college girls aren’t into your run down ass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 02:07 AM
6	Men do not glow up in their 30s. 60% of married couples are within a 3 year age gap I believe the statistic because lots of people are getting married in their early 20s, college sweethearts. There’s a huge amount of people off the market before they are 25 and of course their partner will be a similar age. They are not marrying 15 year olds. If you are a shlub in your 20s and also a shlub in your 30s nothing will change. There is however a significant percentage of men who improve themselves in their 30s both physically and financially. Those men can easily date much younger w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 04:47 PM
16	Fuck stepping in for a woman in trouble I’m a large fit guy and they were both smaller than me so I never felt like I was in danger. They started kicking and slapping me so I just power walked away, was more embarrassing than anything. Next time I’ll just call the cops, lesson indeed learned.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 06:33 PM
4	Fuck stepping in for a woman in trouble Dam she was getting choked out and not fighting back. What if that was yo mama?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 06:12 PM
100	Fuck stepping in for a woman in trouble One time I saw a man physically assaulting a woman on the street. I stepped in and shoved the guy trying to do the right thing. They both started to kick my ass together as a tag team.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 04:08 PM
50	[deleted by user] What’s with all the fat hate around here? I just avoid fat women and let them be fat and happy. Get that third scoop of ice cream mama life is too short 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/22 12:03 AM
43	Outliers, the people who supposedly don’t exist or are in the minority according to TRP, what are YOUR personal views on TRP? Both TRP and FDS are full of insane people who focus almost solely on the darkest parts of dating. Imagine dating someone whose primary objective is “how do I benefit the most from this situation without regard to the feelings or benefit of the other person involved. Most of both groups are just older bitter people who are giving advice when they are unsuccessful themselves. If you legitimately hate the other gender just call it that. The silver lining is that these two groups open with extremel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/21 06:30 AM
1	If a woman has money, then starting to have children when she's 30 and over is mostly fine. I think you are right when talking about women in their young 30s these days and it’s a lot more common. Fertility starts to decline at 30 and then rapidly at 35+. It effects dating because if you find a woman who is 35, you date for 2 years before deciding you are compatible enough to get married and have children. Now she is 37 and will be 38 when the baby is delivered, already in a riskier scenario. What if you want more than one kid now? After recovery time the next baby would pop out when s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/21 07:22 AM
6	CMV: OnlyFans creators are taking a massive gamble on their futures They are extremely against sex work because it lowers the value of female sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/21 07:26 PM
1	CMV: OnlyFans creators are taking a massive gamble on their futures Most employers really won’t care. If you go to an IVY league school and might be the CEO of a company sure it might matter. If your career outlook is Starbucks nobody is is going to care. I’ve hired people before and I can tell you that it would not bother me or stop me from hiring them unless it was an executive public facing position.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/21 07:23 PM
1	Men overestimate how "easy" it is for women to date. It is much harder than they think. You can approach men in a friendly way without hitting on them or asking them out. Strike up a friendly conversation that invites them to speak with you and many times they will end up asking you out. Men have been told not to approach women in most settings so respectful men are not going to risk bothering you outside of a social setting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/21 07:06 PM
1	Everyone talks about what makes a man low value, but what exactly makes a woman low value? The same standards apply to both genders the only difference is how things are weighed. A high value woman to date would be fit, no kids, cooperative, loyal, educated, has a career, treats people kindly. Fit usually runs to the top of the list for HVW and career ($) usually sits at the top for wants of a HVM. The inverse of any of these things can make a LVW especially the first two. The kids thing for women on the dating scene is an absolute killer but obviously wouldn’t apply to a married woma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/21 07:03 PM
1	How do you view the redpill's "never pay the entire bill/as cheap as possible dates" mindset? I’m not worried about it because it’s her choice and the alternative isn’t that bad either. I’d say 80% of women will be down the remaining 20% at minimum will want to make out etc. Still worth it because I tend to filter to for very attractive women. The next date after that will be a lot more low effort like quick drinks right near my apartment or just coming over.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 04:34 PM
-1	How do you view the redpill's "never pay the entire bill/as cheap as possible dates" mindset? I agree with the concept of splitting the bill and equality. That said as a man with a high income I always pay unless she is offering a split even then I’ll just suggest she buys me a drink afterwards. It’s a touchy subject for some women and you date for a fun time not to debate feminism or equality. The majority of women that let me pay the entire bill end up sleeping over. It’s an interesting debate but the best way to increase your chances is to pay and just not go to to expensive places wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 06:52 AM
0	Women still have an easier time finding dates/relationships (on average) in their 30s+ vs their male counterparts. I think OP is right that women in general will have it easier but the gap closes a LOT. Men age better than women in general due to biology. It’s easier for a guy to get in shape than it is a woman at that age. There are many more obese women than men the higher the age group gets. The average 40 year old chubby man or woman is going to have similar average relationship prospects (removing casual). The difference for men is they can still date women 10 years younger whereas very few women will b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 09:52 PM
6	Objectively, does red pill have real life relevance? Does it "work"? I am not RP but their advice on a lot of things does work. I followed it before I knew what RP was. They tell you regardless of women to get fit, improve your finances, and maintain a good social circle of motivated individuals. Doing this myself has made dramatic improvements in my life and everyone should subscribe to their advise regarding self improvement. The first thing you should work on is yourself, not worrying about other peoples standards. They give really solid non sugarcoated advice…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/21 09:05 PM
11	What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings? The concepts make sense it just suffers from the same downfall as the incel community. That is the community is just toxic. If you browse by the top posts you can learn something as there are definitely a TON of shitty men out there. The basic principles make sense to eliminate them but the community has devolved into just hating on 90% of men. The double standards are terrible and you’ll see from the comments that the majority of the sub isn’t there for advice on dating, they are black pill and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/21 06:40 AM
2	A man shouldn't have a problem waiting for sex ladies, if he does, it's definitely a red flag. I say this as a man. All men are different. Sex can be very important to a relationship to the point where bad sex can be a dealbreaker. Why invest 3 months into someone only to find that you are incompatible sexually and have to break it off anyway? Not all men are trying to pump n dump women. A sexual person may want to see how compatible they are with their partner before committing to that long term. This is not nefarious or an indication of a “bad” man. It’s ok to have preferences and a pre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/21 02:48 AM
1	How do you answer, “what do you bring to the table?” It’s a question asked in response to having high standards. If someone says they want a guy that’s 6 ft 6 figures etc then it’s a fair question. What do you have to offer that guy who has plenty of options. It’s rude if you’re on a date or just talking and they just bring up that question as if it’s an interview. Totally fair question if you are putting out a list of demands.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/21 04:27 PM
1	What's wrong with the age gap really? Older, successful women can not get the men they want, because men chose younger women, and don't care about their success. You are spot on but OP is referencing the extreme view and not the nuanced part of it. Early 20s women going for guys in their 40s is a rarity for sure. It’s possible but requires a lot of effort on your fitness and self improvement, something guys can do at any age. If you are successful when you are older you can easily date youngER women. When men are 40s they will still find lots of women in their 30s attractive. The guys in their 30s are chasing girls in their 20s so there are lots of avail…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/21 02:38 AM
4	Now that she's 35 and overweight, her life partner has to wait for sex unlike men from her past because she finally "wants to get to know a guy for once". My first car was a Pontiac G6. It was a rental car that hundreds of other people probably drove and it had a big white stain on the back seat that my friends would joke around and say it was a cum stain. This reminds me of that car.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	04/11/21 01:49 AM
2	How 'Golden Penis Syndrome' is ruining dating for university women: Deficit of male students means men develop inflated egos and become 'Casanovas' who 'cheat' - despite a 'lack of social and sexual skills' Does this mean Tinder gives women “Golden Pussy Syndrome”?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 01:15 AM
5	If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair? How is being faithful not a benefit to both people in the relationship? Isn’t that the point of a relationship?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/21 08:43 PM
2	Red pilled men know about hypergamy, so why don't they date down? You’re confusing TRP with incels like most people do on this sub. TRP accepts hypergamy and actively utilizes it. They encourage you to improve your worth than date many women, regardless of their financial status. They are leveraging hypergamy as a tool to get more women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/21 02:01 AM
21	People are uncomfortable admitting that anything other than personality affects someone's attractiveness Never said anything about obligation. There can be plenty of attractive men outside the door too. But 100% of them inside the door are attractive therefore it’s the most important factor by definition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/21 11:19 PM
42	People are uncomfortable admitting that anything other than personality affects someone's attractiveness It’s the most important factor if everyone without it is outside the door.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/21 10:20 PM
1	Guys would rather be fuckboys than seen as husband material because the former gets the best of both worlds, and the latter gets the least of both worlds. I think the term “fuckboy is mainly the equivalent of the revenge fantasy for women. They couldn’t get commitment so they write him off as a “fuckboy” because admitting you aren’t enough is much harder. I’ve experienced the lifestyle when I was single and it’s really revealing. The women that call you a “fuckboy” are the ones that want commitment the most. I’ve experienced a few stalkers, but most of them turn into orbiters. They are upset when you won’t offer commitment but they stick around in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/21 07:12 PM
1	Men look at women who ask them out as “options“ This is completely wrong as you’re putting the focus on the asking out and not the woman. If the woman is high value it doesn’t matter. HVW can ask a man out and they aren’t losing anything. Guys will still be enthusiastic and it will lead to the woman having the power of selection for the exact mate she wants. The scenario you’re bringing up is when a woman asks a man out who is out of her league and he’s not that interested anyway. The issue is that lots of men will ask out women they aren’t c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/21 05:16 PM
2	Why are pick me girls criticised? So a strawman in other words. Most people aren’t blank drive robots who operate like this. The biggest usage of pick me I’ve seen is women hating other women on FDS. The fun, cooperative, and equality minded woman is a pickme. The woman who uses men for meals while sleeping around is the Kween 👸	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/21 07:34 PM
17	Why do women make some guys wait for sex and not others? Yea I tend to agree with you. Most women are having sex within 1-3 dates if they are attracted to the guy. The guy that is made to “wait” is usually because she isn’t sexually attracted to him and is deciding if it is even worth it. Then she ends things before it gets to sex most times. The one time when this differs is over very long periods of time. For example I know girls who got around at 20 but now at 30+ they usually make all guys wait a bit because because they are looking to settle down…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/21 07:25 PM
2	if you're a young woman that only dates men who earn 80k+, then you can't complain about older men dating young women. OP doesn’t really say anything about what the women in this scenario make but you can probably assume he’s talking about broke women. It’s never wrong to want something in someone that you possess yourself. High earning women tend to date high earning men and there’s nothing wrong with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/21 01:47 PM
0	Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic? I’m sure this is true of some men but it actually happens that way for lots of people. Truthfully both men and women get generally less attractive as they age, it’s life. Personally I’m in my early 30s and I’ve noticed men and women that I grew up with have gained weight, had kids, and show the effects of a party lifestyle. I’m still in great shape and look like I’m in my 20s so it’s been easy for me to date women in their 20s. They are just flat out more attractive than the women in my age grou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 04:14 PM
2	Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic? There’s a big spectrum for this question. Lots of women like older guys and I think within 10 years is pretty common as long as you have the same lifestyle. Younger women are generally much better looking than older women so of course men would like to date them. Anything more than 10 years you can start to notice major lifestyle differences. Also nothing wrong with older women dating younger guys. I have female friends in their mid 30s dating guys in their late 20s. These women are in shape and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/21 04:05 PM
6	Here's a calculator for women to find how many men fit their criteria, and the results are not good But how you were born realistically determines your class. Making a good deal of money doesn’t necessarily put you into a high class. I know lots of millionaires who are born rich. They tend to marry other people who were also born rich. This is so accurate in my experience it even goes beyond looks. A friend of mine (born rich) married one of Alec Baldwins nieces. Very nice girl but not conventionally attractive. She has access to lots of rich men because of her class and family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/21 09:05 PM
13	“I need a NFL champion with a Harvard degree who strong yet in touch with his sensitive side but also know how to scam, is a drug dealer & a shooter” He’s wearing a hoodie… guy is the most vanilla clean cut player in the whole NFL.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	30/07/21 07:04 PM
0	What are your physical dealbreakers in women? -Fat -Too short -Bad teeth -Bad smell/hygiene -Too many tattoos or piercings -Looks completely different without makeup -Short hair -Flat/no curves/boyish physique -Massive nose	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 09:00 PM
154	"I've been retired [pornstar] for 3-4 years, it's unfair for people to continue dragging me into that. I think that these types of comments about sex workers will not be allowed in the future." -- She doesn't want a good man, she just wants to feel good! Mia Khalifa is their George Washington.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	21/06/21 12:44 AM
1	CMV: social media and online dating have completely destroyed the dating market, it cannot be repaired You’re just wrong about what you’re saying here. I don’t think men have standards that are too high because lots of men would date women less attractive than they are. And how do you know who wants to date you before you try? You can’t read their minds. Would you tell a fat woman not to want to date an athletic guy because her chances are low? Maybe it will be harder for her but she still have a decent chance of catching a chubby chaser. She probably realizes most men don’t want a fat woman but …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/21 06:20 AM
8	CMV: social media and online dating have completely destroyed the dating market, it cannot be repaired I’m sure you have good intentions but your advice here is just bad and removed from reality. If you spend 10 minutes reading this sub or any OLD sub you will see that men aren’t complaining about model looking women rejecting them. They are complaining that they spent a month on Tinder, swiped 500 times and got 1 match. Most men are not even getting a shot at talking to these women you speak of. The data from the OLD apps show the top 20% of men are the only ones getting lots of matches. If a ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 10:04 PM
13	CMV: social media and online dating have completely destroyed the dating market, it cannot be repaired This is why men should not take dating advice from women. You just don’t understand the problem. “Message more women in your league” Sure men are messaging women who are 10s but they don’t really expect a response there. Their issue is that a man who is a 5 who is messaging 4s and 5s on OLD is still getting no responses/dates/matches. It’s not a problem of staying in their league it’s a matter much fewer women being in OLD so they select upwards. Sure the man can settle for some train wrecks but…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 07:13 PM
44	Any more requirements sweetheart? (Easy left swipe) Land whale seeking Land Rover.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	09/06/21 05:51 AM
2	The biggest dating issue for men is wanting things to be simple and not accepting complexity. Some women are complex but most like the same thing in general. This is why men are told to lift, get their finances in order, and develop social skills. If you are a fit, have money, and have a diverse friend group you will have no trouble getting dates. These features are attractive to 90% of women. Sure there are some women who have alternative interests which falls into the other 10%. That’s not important though because when you appeal to the majority of women in your dating pool you aren’t …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 04:01 PM
1	CMV: FDS women will never be as happy as red pillers. RP'ers work towards being the ideal mate, while FDS primes women to be a nightmare partner. The premise of FDS is making a man jump through hoops to show relationship and financial commitment while said woman benefits herself by still keeping her options open. Both sides are pretty similar really, but TRP focuses on more on self improvement (money/health). You also see a lot less hate on TRP because it’s more about accepting reality and dealing with it. Half the posts on FDS are man hating posts. There was one a few weeks ago that said you should never date a man who plays video games …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/21 09:38 PM
3	Are late bloomers basically screwed? I think putting an exact age on the wall is the problem. The concept makes sense and it exists for attractive women and Chad’s also. Once your looks fall off your dating pool becomes a lot more limited. It can happen anytime even before 30 but lots of time 30+. I’ve seen Chad type guys get fat and bald before 30 and that was it for them, they hit their wall. It just so happens that’s around the time women have their looks decline as well and it’s a huge wake up call, but you can avoid “the wall”…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/21 06:54 PM
2	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread There is a top post there right now bashing Indian men. It goes pretty deep calling them cheap, inconsiderate, just trying to claim white women etc. Other subs would be quarantined for less.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/20 06:16 PM
6	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread TRP is pretty brutal but it boils down to improving yourself (fitness, career, confidence) and women will follow. FDS basically says by being born with a vagina you hit the genetic lottery so use that power to extort free food and money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/20 06:14 PM
5	You guys are missing the whole point of FDS, the point of FDS is NOT to solely attract men. The strategy is to WEED out men they don’t want. In FDS a high value man is defined as someone who has money, sometimes they will attach looks to the equation, but it’s more about someone who will spend their attention and money on them. Not sure what a high value woman is by their standards. Still looking to figure that one out but it seems like you become a high value woman by not dating broke guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/20 09:16 PM
18	Saw this and thought it belonged here. Depends on the artist though. If this guy is the Picasso of tattoo artists then it’s a good price. I’ve seen some horrible tattoos so paying a lot for something that will be around forever isn’t unreasonable.	/r/PussyPassDenied	30/07/20 10:30 PM
2	Girlfriend spermjacking boyfriend and crying "Rape!" top /legaladvice post got over 12,500 upvotes and got magically "[removed]" because it shows women can be criminals too I read that post and what a nightmare situation. The guy said he went into the bathroom and came out and she was there stealing it then started screaming after he tried to stop her. What do you do in that situation? If you try to physically stop her you will go to jail. If you don’t you can be responsible for a kid you don’t want and a lifetime of expenses. There is no winning.	/r/MensRights	11/02/19 05:54 PM