Arexos Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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0	20,000 cold approaches - AMA That's alot of mental gymnastics bud. "Stating that a stranger has "insecurities" & consequently needs "validation" based on an AMA on a dating blog is quite ridiculous." Rediculous why? Because you don't like the way it sounds? Psychology is essentially the study of behavioral patterns etc. You've said alot about yourself and provided context, enough for me to make those conclusions. Gaslight yourself all you want, but nobody does what you are doing at the frequency you are doing it without hav…	/r/seduction	13/04/26 09:26 PM
6	20,000 cold approaches - AMA Any hobby can be taken to an extreme and become an unhealthy obsession / sign of mental illness, and you are well past that mark. Also, don't compare a hobby like dancing or boxing to approaching, and don't call it self-improvement lol. Self improvement at this point for you would be stopping or greatly reducing approaches, it's not "confidence building" it's become validation seeking behavior to cope with deep seated insecurity. But hey, don't let me get in the way of your delusions bro.	/r/seduction	13/04/26 07:45 PM
12	20,000 cold approaches - AMA 20,000 approaches? That's like mental illness or something at that point.	/r/seduction	13/04/26 07:04 PM
35	Why does he turn me down? Not into you that much Insecurity Physiological issues Mental fog Men aren't all just mindless animals that wanna fuck 24/7, only the desperate and insecure ones are like that. If you really want him then at this point don't push it so hard, keep yourself available to him and when he wants it he'll get in there. My advice is to move on to someone more interested/available tho.	/r/seduction	06/04/26 04:32 AM
3	Cold approach honestly changed my life This whole post is an ad, it's even structured like one. "My life was so shit, until I turned it around into what I used to fantasize about with the help of these products!" Ffs lol	/r/seduction	06/04/26 03:40 AM
2	Fantasies, kinks and how to raise the topic with my partner If she only agrees during the throws of passion but not outside of them, then she doesn't actually want those things yet. Being horny lowers inhibitions and fucks with rational thinking. If you value this woman then don't force it, or you risk losing her to your greed. She is clearly aware this is a kink for you, at this point all you can do is make sure she is comfortable and secure in sharing her kinks/fantasies with you. When she is ready to put you in the cuck chair I'm sure she will let you…	/r/seduction	13/03/26 06:18 PM
150	Spending the night at FWB’s house .. focusing on the friendship! Sounds like you're in a relationship and at least one of you doesn't know it lol	/r/seduction	12/03/26 05:47 AM
3	guys in their late 20's early 30's. How do you do with younger ladies? Don't waste your time trying to talk sense to him, it's been like a year of him constantly posting the same shit, and people gave him all the advice someone could ever need for this. The guy has a humiliation fetish or something.	/r/seduction	28/01/26 09:43 AM
1	is it ever worth tolerating toxicity just for sex? Like a couple others mentioned, this girl clearly has BPD, like without a doubt. Being with someone like that is dangerous as they will systematically break down your self respect and boundaries whether you are aware of it or not, until eventually you are hooked and more or less become thier puppet, stuck doing things and dealing with things you would never be okay with normally. They do this progressively, and often use things like love bombing, very good and freaky sex, the illusion of thier s…	/r/seduction	17/12/25 11:31 PM
15	you think when girls go on a trip they're getting smashed Not sure you know what the word loyal means, or the word genuine for that matter. I will say that alot of people have an unrealistic view on loyalty, they expect certain thoughts to never enter your mind, but that's a naive and mostly delusional take (not to say it's not possible, just highly unlikely). That said, being loyal is a choice, the choice to NEVER entertain or act on any of that bullshit. Entertaining the thought is considered cheating by most and rightfully so, since cheating is a pr…	/r/seduction	13/12/25 10:38 AM
2	Girls flake even after a good first date – is this normal? It really is though. Sometimes you are into something in the moment, but later when you think about it with a clearer mind you realize you don't actually want that thing. Or another option you were prioritizing became available, etc.	/r/seduction	20/09/25 06:47 PM
3	How to know if my straight friend is curious? Am I missing something here? Cuz it seems like he's already trying to flirt with you lol	/r/seduction	20/06/25 10:12 PM
2	7 signs a girl is not into you and that it's time to move on I imagine he means the opposite of insecure	/r/seduction	03/06/25 10:08 PM
40	I developed strong stoicism in field Sounds like she was initiating most things and gave you openings to close the deal, you didn't so she moved on. If that's the case, then it's completely understandable from her end.	/r/seduction	27/10/24 08:12 AM
3	2 random signs of attraction I see what op is trying to say, and agree that it's not a reliable metric for gauging attraction, sometime people just make observations. But let's assume it's not just an observation, a girl saying you look older is usually not a good thing, but a girl saying you seem older could be good in that she percieved you as mature or well put together etc. Same way saying someone looks younger is almost always intended as a compliment and acting younger is usually is a negative. Your second point contr…	/r/seduction	18/10/24 03:46 AM