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Read a lot In another example she can start a stupid argument Reading a lot and arguing with a woman doesn't compute here... Relationship in your twenties? Yeah, no thanks, kid. You should be spinning plates and dating multiple women, not in some "LTR", which I doubt is even an LTR. Go through and read the sidebar books and material again. This time, pay attention to what you are reading...
/r/askMRP21/07/21 12:41 AM
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Your post history is... Creepy? Bad tinder screenshots? Going to the relationship subreddit? Holy fuck, you are a dumpster fire of retarded douchebaggery. STFU, sidebar, learn about dread, lift weights regularly, diet, and get out and talk to people without being a creep. Lose your gut as attractive women don't fuck unattractive men...
/r/askMRP19/07/21 12:50 AM
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What do you want out of your life? At the point forward, what is your main goal? Pussy? It sounds like it to me. Fine, if that's the case. But, everything you mention above deals in your wife's frame, even the part around hitting on girls and getting numbers. That's cool, but still in your wife's frame. If you want sex, go out and get it. One of the points of info missing in your post is dread. Have you ever read the 60 days of dread? Do you know what dread is? It's your road map moving forward.…
/r/askMRP10/07/21 05:13 AM
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I see your post as a kind of 'way' to get your wife to suck your dick and fuck your brains out. You are looking for ways to be mysterious to let your wife wonder about you... To me, this has nothing to do with you wanting to get out of the house and do what you want, it has do with sex. Period. Your sex life. Yes, getting out of house and living the life you want to live is part of it. But also, being attractive is part of it too - mentally & physically. What do you look like at the moment? What…
/r/askMRP09/07/21 12:19 AM
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This definitely has to do with this guy not fucking that... Much. It's clear to me that he is trying to find tricks that he can use to get his wife to want to suck his cock - morning, noon, night. This has nothing to do with getting out of the house...
/r/askMRP09/07/21 12:15 AM
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We can all tell that you have done ZERO sidebar material... What are your stats?
/r/askMRP24/06/21 08:58 PM
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You have no idea what you talking about... Go and read through the books on the sidebar and take the time to make notes, do the activities, and internalize key concepts. You have lots of work to do. Good thing here is that you are starting at 22 years of age.
/r/askMRP21/06/21 09:28 PM
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A plate...
/r/askMRP21/06/21 06:27 AM
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Been together with girlfriend for 7 months, we moved in together 2 months ago because and the sex frequency gone downhill and I've gotten insecure about it This wouldn't have been a problem if you were hitting the sidebar and lifting on the regular. Why on earth would you move in a 7-month plate to your house? Jesus Christ...
/r/askMRP21/06/21 06:01 AM
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Why are you in a relationship at 22? Super confused... It doesn't sound like you have a relationship, but more of a gal you are dating. But still, what are you stuck on? Conversational skills? Do you get out and chat with people? How much of the sidebar have you gone through? Your post is fairly broad and not sure what you need help with... Everything you need is in sidebar.
/r/askMRP21/06/21 06:00 AM
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I have never posted in MRP before How much of the MRP sidebar material have you read?
/r/askMRP04/06/21 01:37 AM
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Your post on the main TRP sub 3 months ago to your post here at MRP outline different perspectives that you currently have. Can you give us more info on whether or not you were planning on getting engaged to your ex? Was this a woman you were seriously considering for marriage and kids? How much of the sidebar material have you gone through? All of the material in the sidebar can help you become an HVM, who has his life in order doing what he wants. Sounds like you have work to get started on, s…
/r/askMRP03/06/21 11:39 PM
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The stay plan is go plan. STFU, lift heavy, and live the life YOU want to live. I didn't find an answer in reading material so I ask here for some opinions. Really? Check again...
/r/askMRP31/05/21 10:22 PM
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The real question here: Why have you not shut down your ex? If you have been here a while and read sidebar material, you honestly wouldn't be in this position. How much have you internalized the material? I would say little to nothing. Get your ass under some iron too.
/r/askMRP31/05/21 09:56 PM
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Your post history is full of red flags. What is this shit? Nofap? Instagram reality? Mulsim marriage tips? TRP BS? Look, man. You haven't told us barely anything about you. How old are you? How long did you date this girl before LTR promotion? When did you get engaged to her? A wedding during pandemic? We can't give you anything to work off other than the sidebar, lift weights regularly, and be an attractive man that owns his life.
/r/askMRP28/04/21 08:42 PM
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No mention of your stats... Therefore, it sounds like you are looking for cheat codes. Go over to the married red pill and hit the sidebar. There is tons of material when it comes to developing frame, OI, and basic game priciples.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 02:00 AM
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her (23F), Kid (2F). No way kid is yours. This woman is a plate, not an 'LTR'... Not to mention, she is in her prime and does fuck multiple men. You can think differently, but her pussy is getting filled up to the rim every month. Real question... Why you even here? What value are you adding to the situation? Why do you care so much about a woman who is: a.) a plate, b.) has a kid that isn't yours, and c.) is using you to her advantage?. Hit the sidebar, lift, and figure shit out on your side.
/r/askMRP13/04/21 06:59 PM
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Uhh, you realize that a "plate" is someone you are dating, right? Promoting a girl to the relationship/LTR phase requires effort and an earned promotion.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:38 AM
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Lube.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:36 AM
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I find it hard to believe that you have already spent time going through sidebar, but have made a post like this... I would expect a post like this without hitting sidebar. Nonetheless, it's time to take on responsibility. We know way too much about your "8.5 wife"; in reality, she is probably a plum 4 at best. So? What can you do about it? Pick up heavy shit and put it back down. Read everything on the sidebar; re-read, highlight, make notes, do activities, etc. Spend time going through the MRP…
/r/askMRP27/03/21 03:19 AM
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It sounds like no sidebar on your side, señor.
/r/askMRP25/03/21 11:40 PM
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LTR of 8 months Not an LTR unless you have dated her for a year prior to promoting her to the relationship phase. Anything under a year is a plate. Next time, spend more time dating a girl before even upgrading her to the relationship phase. In the grand scheme of things, 8 months is nothing...
/r/askTRP24/03/21 10:59 PM
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5 months is way above the average plate lifespan. Meh, I can keep a plate around for a year or so. In fact, most of the guys at MRP can spin a girl as a plate for well over a year. Spinning plates is equivariant to dating and you shouldn't even be promoting a girl to relationship/LTR phase unless you have been seeing her for a year.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 10:57 PM
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She is a plate... What, 7 months? You are creepy, desparte, and a fucking fool. No mention of stats around you. You sound like a loser. Hit the sidebar and lift.
/r/askMRP20/03/21 07:51 PM
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You are a poor leader. It sounds like you never led your wife off the sofa into the weight room because you never did it yourself. We can only assume that you are a really unattractive man, who probably is fat, balding, weak, and gross to look at. What work have you done on yourself? Share with us. We would like to know what makes you a high-value man in your world. Your fat wife is a punishment for all of unattractive traits you made. Sidebar? Lifting heavy? Frame? Personal responsibility? Get …
/r/askMRP17/03/21 08:37 PM
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Don't fuck with neighbors. Texting is logistics. You set something up ASAP, sir.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 03:43 AM
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No...
/r/askTRP09/03/21 03:19 AM
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Plate her for a year and see what happens.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 04:46 AM
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in the end she's giving me the "are you just using me for sex" question. During the first time you guys get together? Yikes... Here is the thing, you add her to your dating pipeline and go from there. If she asks your thoughts you just reply something along the lines that you "date women and see where it goes". I would be wary seeing a woman who already asks this question during/after the first time or two getting together.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 04:37 AM
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Girl A - I'm not yet banging, but am more interested in. Lives about 45 mins away. I wouldn't even waste my time on this girl unless she comes to you. Don't travel 45 minutes for sex...
/r/askTRP13/02/21 06:07 AM
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Any advice from the veterans who have gone past the spinning plates phase? You don't even consider promoting a girl you are dating to a relationship/LTR stage until you have been seeing her for a year. Slow down, take your time, and keep improving your SMV.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 03:31 AM
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You demote this girl to a plate and start gaming other women.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 02:15 AM
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I really don't understand why with this girl? Really? Why, señor? This girl should have been a permanent plate, not anywhere close to promotion to a relationship. Now it’s almost been 3 years and I feel like I’m just this idiot chasing a fantasy that she’ll return to the woman she showed me before. Why do you feel the need to stay? Captain save-a-thot? Come on... Hit the sidebar. What am I missing? The work. You are missing the fucking work you need to do on yourself - not her.
/r/askMRP11/02/21 02:13 AM
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Simplemente siga los principales subs de MRP. Mucha buena información por aquí.
/r/askMRP11/02/21 02:10 AM
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MRP es global, amigo.
/r/askMRP07/02/21 03:08 AM
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Holy fucking dumpster fire! Shit post, señor! me and ltr are both 21. 7 months dating so far. You are not in a relationship. Your girlfriend is at the peak of her sexual selection and height. All of us here are much older than you and we can attest your girl is getting fucked by this guy, and probably at least one or two more on a good week. Your girlfriend is getting more attention than you ever will at this age, which it seems evident that she is slurping it all up (other men's cum). You are d…
/r/askMRP03/02/21 06:46 AM
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Dated her 4 months before the promotion. Way, way too soon. You need a year or so of dating and spinning plate before a promotion. Your head isn't in the right place yet since you think she so special. Way too soon. If you would have kept her around as a plate longer, you wouldn't be in this situation. You will have to own this situation and learn for the next time. Your fault here, no one else's, nor your girl.
/r/askMRP25/01/21 10:44 PM
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You are an overweight, beta male provider. How does that sound? Do you enjoy being a plow horse? Your post is full of useless information. How long did you date this girl before the promotion? Why did she earn a promotion to LTR? What kind of boundaries did you set with her? You talk a lot about this girl, but we got nothing around you and your wants. Lots of useless info. Talk about you. What do you want? I can't answer or no one else can here.
/r/askMRP25/01/21 10:34 PM
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This has never really been a problem for me since it comes down to leading her and the situation. If it's late and I want to go to bed, I just tell her that it's time to go and we will catch up next time. It really comes down to frame and whether or not she enters your frame. No need to overthink this situation. I also find it's easier if you pick her up whenever you hang out since you can tell her with your actions on getting ready to leave.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 06:41 AM
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Poor guy got no help only got roasted. No one can help him but himself. A lot of the new guys that come here miss the fucking point - the work. You actually have to do the work on yourself in order to improve the situations around you. If you can't take the time to go through the sidebar, lift weights, and take ownership of your life, how can you expect things to change?
/r/askMRP14/01/21 09:29 PM
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It sounds like you have a lot of work to do on yourself. Your wife isn't the problem here, nor are your other excuses - it's you. You are the problem. How much work have you done on yourself? That includes the sidebar, lifting weights, developing your own lift outside your wife, hobbies, friends, etc. Please expand for us.
/r/askMRP12/01/21 12:27 AM
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I live at home so I can’t do that. That's bullshit. Do you not have your own space? Sounds like an excuse. Invite her over and go from there. Even if there is high interest, I usually won't go over and hang out at a woman's place until I have added her to my dating phase pipeline.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 01:34 AM
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You promoted her way too soon (before year/two) and have already been seeing her too much. A lot of problems will come your way with no frame... Limit it to seeing her two or three times at max. That includes texting for logistics only. No need for BS text conversations. You see her when you see her.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 04:35 AM
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You never escalated (up to sex) with her, that's why she doesn't want to see you...
/r/askTRP05/01/21 04:34 AM
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First off, I recommend taking a year (min) before promoting a woman to relationship status for next time. When you are dating a girl/plating, it's once a week (max.). That being said, now that you are in a relationship with her, I would recommend two to three times a week (max.). Otherwise, you will fall too much into her frame; especially, if you don't have your own life to live.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 04:29 AM
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Been in an LTR for four months now How long did you date her prior to promotion? (i.e. 6 months, a year?, two years?, etc.) What are some consequences I can expect from hanging out too often? This depends on your response to my question above.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 04:18 AM
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... Take the lead and do what you want. If they are not on board? Drop them and hang out with a different girl. You are in their frame...
/r/askTRP05/01/21 04:15 AM
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"New phone who is this?" Great lead off. I have used many times before.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 04:13 AM
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Your wife is angry with you because you aren't man she thought she was marrying. You became an unattractive plow horse. You bend the knee to your laydee, but fail to do the work on you. Why is that? Why are you fighting with your wife? Why haven't you posted any info on you?
/r/askMRP29/12/20 10:15 PM
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Who cares... Texting is for logistics. If you are texting her to hang out and she hangs out, what is the fucking issue? Sidebar, read, fucker.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 08:18 AM
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You realize all of your problems stem from you not being attractive, right? If you were an attractive, high-value man, then your wife would be interested in being there for you. That's not case at all. In fact, your wife despises you even more since you are looking for excuses on why your life isn't the way it should be. It's clear to all of us that you haven't actually done any work on the sidebar, nor have you gone through '60 Days of Dread' - no work. You can't expect your wife to be there fo…
/r/askMRP27/12/20 03:24 AM
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You sound unattractive, that's why you can't pull your wife, let alone other women. Have you been... Bolted into your home? Like, you can't leave the house? Your post is hard follow since you make a lot of statements around why you can't do this, or can't do that. I just hung out with a woman who I met via day game and we were wearing masks. There are no excuses, señor. You are unattractive to all women and you have lots of work to do. Get to work now, or continue to live as a eunuch.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/20 06:45 AM
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Lift heavy and stop whining.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 03:22 AM
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Texting is for logistics only. Stop the verbal diarrhea.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 03:21 AM
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Getting married to a woman under the age of 26 is fucking insane. If I'm not mistaken, there is a study out there that shows the numbers of divorce double for people who get married in their mid-twenties. There's nothing wrong with getting married and having family if that's what you want, but make sure you take your time when spinning plates/dating and being in a relationship.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:41 AM
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You don't have a plate, you have a girlfriend. How dumb are you to invite plates out with your friends? You spend time with the women you plate/date alone. Period. How much of the sidebar have you worked through?
/r/askTRP15/12/20 07:20 AM
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“aren’t you married?” "Only three days a week." Be creative, have fun, and don't overthink it like you are doing now. The ring will actually give you a slight advantage in some areas with women since that's preselection of the highest.
/r/askMRP09/12/20 08:23 PM
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You aren't gaming other women. It's clear to me. You haven't done any gaming, nor have not been practicing approaching. These are important skills that you need to work on. Over half the women I date are from women I meet out and about. Sometimes it's at the coffee shop, on the beach, out for walk, or even in odd areas, such as elevators. My point is that women are everywhere. I find it more fun to hang out with women that I meet in person since you can build that connection right away. From the…
/r/askMRP09/12/20 08:16 PM
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Scarcity mentality at it's finest. Yeah, it comes across like a stench in his post.
/r/askMRP01/12/20 09:26 PM
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Absolutely DO NOT get married in your twenties. That's so fucking stupid. Why are you in relationship anyway? Care to explain? You seem to know all about TRP, but fail to understand the basics around the main priority - you. You also have a scarcity mindset since you think this is the only woman who can provide you with kids and family life. For those of you who were in my shoes and chose to marry at this stage in life, would you do it again? I wish I didn't fuck around in two relationships in m…
/r/askMRP01/12/20 09:24 PM
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You sound autistic. You should knock her up.
/r/askMRP01/12/20 02:37 AM
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This happened this morning but events like this are not uncommon. So, what you are saying is this kind of event happens regularly, right? Does it also happen in public and in front of family and friends? What are both of your ages? If so, your wife doesn't respect you at all. That equals a massive red flag, followed by Chad entering the picture with your wife jumping back on the cock carousel. Trust me from experience, any woman who is flat out disrespecting you on the regular is already halfway…
/r/askMRP26/11/20 08:37 AM
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What the fuck? You clearly haven't gone through the sidebar...
/r/askMRP24/11/20 10:36 PM
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I hate you.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 05:42 AM
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Low interest. Move on.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 04:09 AM
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You fail because you refer to everything as a "date"... You are hanging out with women. Period.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 04:08 AM
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Read it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/20 09:29 PM
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Have you read MMSLP yet?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/20 08:45 PM
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Figure what you want and do that.
/r/askMRP17/11/20 09:27 PM
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Great advice! Thank you... I will work on AM more.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 09:23 PM
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Texting is logistics only.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 07:43 AM
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Need more info in your post... Low effort, try again with more info.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 07:05 AM
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Do you think my condition is a big deal? I can't answer that for you. You have to own your shit, your life, and the decisions that you make. Stop worrying about that and keep working on your shit.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 06:59 AM
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Texting is logistics... Stop worrying about time and set something up. Respond whenever and don't act autistic around it.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 06:48 AM
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Keep lifting heavy regularly.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 06:47 AM
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Do you lift regularly? What are your stats? If you are skinny fuck, or even a fat skinny guy, you will need to work on that.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 06:43 AM
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I definitely see what saying. Very good points here, sir. As I mentioned before, it was a new one for me, which left me surprised. I'm used to (from time to time) making out and leading everything up to sex on the first time hanging out at the very least. She was fun to be around, but nothing physical is a hard next at that point. For me, if we aren't having sex the first or second time together, I lose interest right away. Thanks again.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 06:42 AM
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Good call, thank you, sir!
/r/askTRP17/11/20 05:26 AM
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I would do a recheck on the vibes you're sending out on Tinder, are you like the fun guy or the boyfriend guy? To be frank, I don't really have an issue when it comes to online dating or regular game (i.e. day game) in general. My profile has always had good photos from my travels, doing things, and a few professional shots too. My close rate is really high when I'm going out with women for the first time. I have a couple of plates at the moment that I have been seeing for a handful of months, a…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 05:25 AM
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Can you pull other women? Seriously, can you? Do other women want fuck you? That's where abundance comes from. Are you attractive enough that other women want to have sex with you and be with you. Based on the info provided, you aren't doing any day game or getting any numbers. Start there. If you are as attractive as you say you are, you should have no issue gaming other women. This will give you something to look at from an objective level. Start gaming other women, get some numbers, play a li…
/r/askMRP14/11/20 07:41 PM
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I would be patient... There are a number of reasons why she hasn't reached out yet. I would give her another day or two to see whether or not she replies, then you can do a follow-up text if you want.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 04:38 AM
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Too much talk about your girlfriend. We don't care about her... I’m 25. I know I started late. Girlfriend is 22 Im happy in the relationship but it seems like her attitude is changing a bit towards me and it’s starting to make me feel uncomfortable. You are 25 and shouldn't be in relationship. Your girlfriend is at her sexual peak. She is probably testing waters to see if you are worthy of her time, or else branch swing will happen. I'm almost certain that she is looking at other men for validat…
/r/askMRP09/11/20 11:03 PM
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Post this on /r/askmrp.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/20 08:14 PM
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You don't know what you want. Plain and simple.
/r/askMRP09/11/20 08:13 PM
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You act RP but are BP boy in disguise.
/r/askMRP09/11/20 08:12 PM
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I would just start dating other women and going from there. If she catches you or says something about your situation, you just tell her that you aren't in relationships with women who chat with her exes. That's it. She is a 21-year-old woman who is about to hit her prime in the next year or two. She will probably bounce on you at some point; therefore, start gaming other women and demote to plate. Spinning plates is really, really important, sir.
/r/askMRP04/11/20 09:04 PM
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Easy one for me. Demote your girlfriend to a plate and start actively gaming other women. This is a demotion on my end. You are too young for a relationship anyway. Spin plates until you are in your 30s and work on your SMV.
/r/askMRP04/11/20 08:56 PM
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Your marriage has been over for a long, long time. Confronting your wife, now? Oh, no. Absolutely not. You are fucked and it's your fault. I agree with the other comments that suggest you should divorce your wife and leave the situation. Any kind of cheating would be hard next for me. That's a no-go zone.
/r/askMRP04/11/20 08:55 PM
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How long did you date your girlfriend before getting into a relationship with her?
/r/askMRP04/11/20 08:53 PM
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Volume gets muscle gains. A lot of people don't get this - good point, sir.
/r/askMRP16/10/20 05:20 AM
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Because the sex was soooooooo good you were afraid you wouldn’t find the same or better because you’re not the prize in your own mind. She smelt good...
/r/askMRP16/10/20 05:12 AM
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This happens when you pedestalize women. You are no different here, hit sidebar, lift weights, and start refocusing yourself to become the man you were. I agree with the other comments... It's your fault for not continuing doing the things you normally did before your unicorn.
/r/askMRP16/10/20 05:11 AM
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Questions... How long did you date/plate this woman before promoting to relationship? Did you ask for the relationship, or was it her? Did she earn a promotion to a relationship?
/r/askTRP15/10/20 01:51 AM
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You will actually have to plate/date women for months, close to a year or so to even consider a woman for relationship material. What are your stats? How much of the sidebar have you gone through? What work are you doing on yourself? Low effort post gets low effort comments.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 05:38 AM
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Señor... Come on... Look at players like my own country grown Paulo Dybala, Sergio Agüero, and Lautaro Martínez. They are solid and have muscle mass which helps them play very well (core & ball control). You don't need to lift weight like body builder, but you should lift heavy to improve your muscle mass. It will help in all areas of your life.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 05:36 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss... Please, take the time to grieve, take care of yourself (please lift!), and find a good counselor that can help you stay on the right path. I'm so sorry that you are going through this and my thoughts are with you during this time, fellow MRPer.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/20 10:53 PM
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Oh my god, you are right. Her post history is absolutely disturbing... I thought women weren't allowed to comment and post here?
/r/askMRP09/10/20 12:48 AM
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The phone is logistics only. Why are you calling and texting her random stuff all of the time? I don't think you have even gone through the sidebar at all... Also, how many days a week are you weight lifting? Lots of questions here from the group...
/r/askMRP08/10/20 11:17 PM
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Give us some stats.. What is your height? What is your weight? Lifts? Sidebar material?
/r/askMRP08/10/20 11:16 PM
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Go for a walk.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 08:09 PM
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You are very young. Too young for marriage - 21? Also, women that give the ring up show they are completely check out of relationship, engagement, or marriage. It was over when she handed you the ring, not when you read the letter. Start hitting the sidebar and lifting heavy to become a man within the next decade that every woman would want to have in their life for marriage if that's what you choose. Getting into relationships or marriage for men in their 20s is nuts. Focus on you.
/r/askMRP06/10/20 08:05 PM
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Curious... How far along are you on the sidebar readings?
/r/askMRP05/10/20 09:36 PM
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/u/business---travel gave you best advice here.
/r/askMRP04/10/20 10:26 PM
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Hard to read, señor, hard to read... The majority of us here are older than you and would never recommend guys in their 20s to get into relationships. You should be spinning multiple plates and learning about women. You say you are RP but your actions are very different... You have work to do which starts at the sidebar and with lifting weights.
/r/askMRP04/10/20 04:45 AM
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Your not working on any of these things. Sidebar? Lifting weights? Owning your shit? None. None of it. You hate your wife and we can all see it.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/20 06:39 PM
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I think you are doing your wife a favor. If you have that much of a bitch attitude, she will definitely find someone better. He hates his wife, but doesn't want to do work to improve his life.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/20 06:37 PM
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You are angry, very angry. It sounds like you hate wife. That's very normal for a lot of new guys that come here. They hate the wife, the life - everything. Slow the fuck down and hit the sidebar. Are you a high value man that gives your wife the tingles? All I see are a lot of beta comfort traits in your post around providing "good life" to her. You haven't gone through sidebar or lift, evidently.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/20 06:36 PM
2

What parts of the sidebar have you done? You didn't mention anything specific around sidebar books and links, and it seems to me that there are holes in post...
/r/askMRP01/10/20 02:52 AM
1

we where only together 6 months. Not really a relationship, more of a woman in the dating/plate phase. I wouldn't be surprised if she was with him the entire time. Block and move on. This shouldn't even be a discussion here.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 10:32 PM
3

You don't drink, but you are escaping by smoking weed like he was with drinking alcohol. It's a similar position, sir.
/r/askMRP30/09/20 07:32 PM
6

This is such an accurate comment. Any kind of relationship counseling is absolute garbage. The counselors want you to commit to them for a long period of time just so you can have "more problems" and pay them "more money" for them to do shit job. Fuck all of that. It's such a waste of time.
/r/askMRP30/09/20 07:29 PM
2

You remind me of a friend I knew from my early twenties who was in a relationship with a woman for around eight years... He went from a hot prospect footballer in his late teens/early twenties, who could pull women he was interested in, all the way to a man who found his unicorn and got comfortable and lost his purpose in life. In the later years of his relationship, his drinking and outings increased a lot to get away from the shitty life and relationship he built. He hated his girlfriend, but …
/r/askMRP30/09/20 07:23 PM
1

Hit the sidebar.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 03:17 AM
1

Get rid of the baby picture... Online dating is based around attention and fucking.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 01:36 AM
2

You fucked up on many levels, sir... Fucking a woman you work with. Dating that woman for only 1 month before deciding to LTR her, really? The relationship that would inevitably end and not expecting it too. Not owning your actions as adult and making the right choices moving forward. Not approaching to talk with boss. You don't lift weights, hit the sidebar, or know when to STFU. Game. Set. Match.
/r/askMRP26/09/20 01:31 AM
8

Hard next. I have NEVER gave any high important personal info about me to a woman; let alone, a girl you are meeting first time. Fuck that.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 05:32 AM
6

You should have asked her to hang out and move on with it already. Text = Logistics
/r/askTRP23/09/20 02:35 AM
2

There is a party strip in my city with a handful of bars and clubs that is notoriously known in my area as 'Tira de vagabundo' (aka: tramp strip). If your girl or wife heads out to this area on a girl's night, she will 99% of the time cheat on you. It's something I learned at a young age through my older cousins which turned out to be true once I started going out in my late teens/early twenties.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 06:09 PM
1

Very good read.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 02:55 AM
5

Best comment.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 02:40 AM
2

The Married RP subs.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:27 AM
7

Your comment is the reason I prefer to hang out more at the mrp subs. Lots of whining in posts on here without any action or accountability - STFU, lift heavy, and sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 04:34 AM
4

Always start with sidebar. This includes the course preqs, RP 101, and graduate level. Try to go through all of the books and info in order as it will make more sense the more you internalize everything. Also, make sure you are lifting weights at least 3 days a week (or more, ideally). You need to become a HVM for yourself first and foremost, which will help in other areas of your life afterward (i.e. women/wife). Get to work, sir.
/r/askMRP20/09/20 08:57 PM
3

Jaja, gracias mi hombre.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 11:47 PM
5

What do you mean "enjoyed RP"... Can you please explain?
/r/askMRP12/09/20 07:17 AM
1

That's a great read.
/r/askMRP11/09/20 05:06 PM
7

Never keep a woman around who openly disrespects you.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 05:48 AM
1

These are good points. One of the things I found as red flag with my ex was blatant disrespect to me in front of other people. A lot guy will mix this kind of behavior as some kind of 'test'; however, they have missed the boat on plain disrespect. Once you are able to get a grip on the different tests, as you mentioned, you can hit it out of park.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/20 05:47 AM
19

Develop your OWN style...
/r/askTRP11/09/20 12:43 AM
2

You are a plate.
/r/RedPillWives11/09/20 12:28 AM
1

You care too much, that's why you fail.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 12:18 AM
1

This is the problem when guys don't plate women for at least a year before considering a promotion to a relationship...
/r/askTRP11/09/20 12:18 AM
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She is giving you a heads up on her schedule. Figure out a time that works for you and set up a time to hang out. Not that hard...
/r/askTRP10/09/20 10:45 PM
2

I’ve said before men should learn the difference between a shit-test and straight disrespect. I agree. There is defienielty a thin line in sand when it comes to a shit test and plain cunt-i-ness. That's why the sidebar material is so crucial to go through to allow guys to figure out what's the different between a shit test, comfort test, and a woman who flat out disrespects you.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/20 10:43 PM
2

My man, just leave her and go work on yourself.
/r/askMRP10/09/20 10:41 PM
1

Who cares what the LTR thinks - fuck her. Better question... How long was she a plate before promotion?
/r/askMRP01/09/20 12:44 AM
6

You should set up a time to meet or pick her up and leave it. If she isn't interested - move on.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 11:12 PM
2

I also feel like I need to stop smoking weed. Stop smoking weed and cut out alcohol.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 01:26 AM
0

You secretly love the drama.
/r/askMRP29/08/20 01:21 AM
1

Oneitis.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 01:19 AM
13

Stop the fucking dinner dates, fucker!
/r/askTRP28/08/20 02:59 AM
1

Always next her.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 02:57 AM
1

Get rid of your oneitis by spinning plates and not spending so much time with her..
/r/askTRP27/08/20 05:24 PM
1

but she's rejecting more frequently. You aren't an oak tree that women want in a relationship. You are acting like one of her girlfriends. She doesn't want to fuck one of her "girlfriends" (beta provider/orbiter), she wants a man who leads. You are no different than all new guys. Hit the sidebar and start lifting weights. You need to work on you and stop trying to fix her = grade a captain save a'hoe.
/r/askMRP26/08/20 11:13 PM
1

Keep her as a plate, but no relationship.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 06:45 PM
1

Oh, si señor!
/r/askTRP26/08/20 06:42 PM
3

rpchristians is pretty faggy. I see guys promote the exact opposite of the sidebar matieral on both MRP subs.
/r/askMRP26/08/20 06:14 AM
2

No, no... Set it up sooner rather than later. I'm just giving you a heads up on how to set up plates.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 05:10 AM
1

I see the women I date at least once a week, sometimes twice a week (once in blue moon). You should be adding this girl to your dating phase a plating her for the next six to 12 months and see where it goes. Get a pipeline going. Pipelines are important.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 05:09 AM
1

Do that. Who cares what she says - stay firm.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 05:07 AM
1

But personally at 37 most of my plates are younger than 25, and I don’t see that changing as long as I put up with Daddy issues. Same here. I'm 34 and I have no issues with women in their 20s. In fact, since I broke up with my ex (31) early in the year, all of the women I have been plating are in their 20s. I find early 20s women the best for plates since most aren't looking for relationships.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 04:56 AM
1

You can easily get with women in their 20s if you up your SMV level (lifting, style, confidence, etc.). I'm entering in on my mid-30s and I have no issues plating early to mid 20 women. I'm seeing a couple right now and it's lots of fun. Keep increasing SMV so you can attract a wider range of women. If all you attract is single moms, then your SMV is low.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 04:53 AM
1

You are overthinking this, sir. You should be trying to bounce her back to your place. Pick her up, take her for a drive/grab a coffee/something, and go back to your place. If you have developed a lot of experience, this will be second nature for you.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 04:51 AM
2

Develop discipline.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 03:07 AM
0

You care to much and don't have frame. Don't get into relationship, you are not ready. Spin more plates and try again in a year.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 02:45 AM
6

Why are you in wife's frame? How much of sidebar have you done?
/r/askMRP26/08/20 12:02 AM
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Her answer: You killed her. Time to get papers in order and start pulling other women. This is fucking ridiculous and you are so young. No señor, no. At 23, you and this girl should be fucking like spider monkeys. Something fishy is going on... I advocate for you to get divorced and start spinning plates. You need to figure out your mission too.
/r/askMRP25/08/20 03:22 AM
1

I would just tie hands behind her back and then fuck her. I was surprised how horny it made her when I decided to experiment in the bedroom and fuck her like dirty slut. I would try things and see what you like and what works for you two.
/r/askMRP24/08/20 11:15 PM
3

After I read SGM I bought some rope when I was still with my ex and I would tie her up.
/r/askMRP24/08/20 10:57 PM
2

Exactly. This girl is just a plate, but OP fucked up this situation.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 09:02 PM
1

You should have kept this woman as a plate... Not sure why you'd think she is "relationship worthy" when she did NOTHING to earn your exclusivity.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 09:01 PM
5

Forget DMs... Always ask for her number.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 07:17 PM
5

Who cares what the MGTOW/Incel/MRA movement are going on about.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 10:30 PM
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Don't.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 07:17 PM
1

Your woman absolutely is your mirror. True. Thanks for sharing Horns!
/r/askMRP23/08/20 07:03 PM
2

Say bye to this friendship.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 04:40 AM
1

Ahhh, lo sé hombre, lo sé. Fue una situación loca porque todo sucedió de repente. No planeo follarme con ella de nuevo, eso es seguro. Gracias hombre.
/r/askMRP23/08/20 04:15 AM
1

Great story!
/r/askTRP23/08/20 02:57 AM
1

Confirmado Señor.
/r/askMRP23/08/20 02:56 AM
1

I enjoy fucking her but the drama isn't worth it, which was part of the reason I broke up with her four or so months back now.
/r/askMRP23/08/20 02:50 AM
4

This is a perfecto rundown; I like it. She is nuts! My ex is crazy, which is part of the reason I broke up with her. Once I got my balls back in the relationship I found her very unpredictable and disrespectful. The sex was always good and when I became more dominant with her, I would always fuck her like a dirty slut. Some days with her were good, while other days I had no idea who I was dealing with. If it wasn't for the drama I would easily plate her, but guys like you have brought up good po…
/r/askMRP23/08/20 02:48 AM
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Very good point, thank you. That's what has gone through my mind lately.
/r/askMRP23/08/20 01:47 AM
1

She was a plate...
/r/askTRP23/08/20 01:37 AM
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I have learned that big friend groups are a mix of the following: Beta male orbiters. Couples who are friends. Single women getting free attention whoring, but won't bang the single guys in that group. I have learned to always approach women that I'm interested in - any setting. Do it.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 01:36 AM
3

Sorry, I'm not great at English and I appreciate the comment. You bring up valid points around her yelling in public. It was worse the second time since there were people on my street out watching.
/r/askMRP23/08/20 01:25 AM
1

Good call - thanks.
/r/askMRP23/08/20 01:19 AM
1

What do you want? Good question. I was surprised to be honest since I have her removed on all social media and number too. I'm all for plates, but it makes me think about the iron rules around ex's and such. I'm conflicted since I think she would be a good plate, but she is also really crazy.
/r/askMRP23/08/20 01:16 AM
3

I am more interested in LTRs rather than spinning plates and whatnot. You are young and you need the experience of spinning plates to see what is out there.
/r/askMRP22/08/20 06:21 PM
0

Texting = Logistics Don't fall into her texting fight traps. You can also drop her if she has always been like this. Too much BS...
/r/askTRP22/08/20 12:38 AM
1

A good clinic will monitor for the blood issues and you'd simple donate a pint if needed. Where I am from, doctors can subscribe TRT to guys who at least show they are active and take care of themselves (via physical). The best bet for most men (all ages) that want TRT is to be in the best shape possible before requesting it.
/r/askMRP22/08/20 12:36 AM
7

My man, I've been plating a few early 20s women (below 25) and they have no interest in settling or getting into relationship. Why would you ever get into a relationship with a 19 year old woman who is around the peak of her SMV and attention years? You should have women in a pipeline.
/r/askMRP22/08/20 12:33 AM
1

Get all of your affiars in order and stop drinking.
/r/askMRP22/08/20 12:32 AM
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They have low interest - move on.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:49 AM
3

Ideally, you should date/plate her for a year or two before even considering promotion.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:30 AM
4

It's over, sir. You ended the relationship and she was hit with bricks of emotions. No contact and move on.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 11:58 PM
3

No, it's never too late.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 11:58 PM
4

Sorry man, but you are the third wheel here.
/r/askMRP20/08/20 07:45 PM
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