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Is this even a real thing and not just like, some weird internet meme that less than .0000001% of actual people are doing? Nope. Liberal chicks will hang out with liberal guys who she knows voted blue so no point in punishing them. Conservative guys will still be getting the same amount of action in their own circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:47 AM
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That is just average male manipulatability (is that a word 😄)? The old guy's bound to say yes more because he probably doesn't mind the money as much and doesn't really have any better options. I would argue that both the young and the old guy have the same instincts when it comes to buying you drinks, but for the old guy the opportunity cost is lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:46 AM
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ITT: Open transphobia. The app literally advertises as a dating portal for LGBTQ Folks. If you didn't want all of those letters you should have gone for a different app. There isn't even a hint of "this is for bio women only" in their self description.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:43 AM
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Yeah, not really the situation I was talking about. I just meant to say once you date a few times there are certain standards that just tend to establish themselves or rather your partners have picked up some part of the truth of what it takes to have a healthy relationship. I've heard both irl and on reddit stories from people who were leaving their high school sweetheart and some of the stuff just sounds outlandish to anyone who has done some dating. I remember one post on reddit that had gems…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:00 PM
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If they've been high school sweethearts the other person has at most had kid-relationships so I wouldnt necessarily count that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:31 AM
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Listen to advice from women (and men) who have been in happy relationships for 10+ years instead. Just make sure they have been with other partners before. 10+ years high school sweetheart relationships follow way different rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:38 AM
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I see a chance in like 50 years when AI co-teachers have been developed at a sufficient level. Where are they gonna find enough staff to not only care for but also teach the children of literally everyone in society if not through the use of AI to provide individual tutoring. That final thing they mention, about reducing unnecessary competitiveness is definetly a good thing though. I wouldn't wanna grow up like they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:12 AM
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From what she told there is no indication of that. Sounds more like boyfriend was thinking something like OP how he needs to prove to her that he's a man, lost his cool and attacked the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:41 PM
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I think that "dating is very hard for men" is kind of a majority opinion on this sub. Your position essentially boils down to "here is this thing that will potentially make it easier, but it's not strictly necessary so it's a waste".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:20 PM
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Single moms have sex, I've seen em do it. They also have to do 100% of chores, are the sole breadwinners in their household, and have to take care of all childcare. They've gotta change the oil in their cars and fix the leaky sink too. Surely these women should have too much stress and not enough time to make whoopie? Simple difference: As a woman you get NSA sex on tap. Like the biggest effort invovled in finding a somewhat acceptable fuck buddy is finding a capable baby sitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:54 PM
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Upcoming world war...? You mean when Americans vote for the clown again AFTER they have seen that he is a clown?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:49 AM
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Hol'up, do you have that daughter already or are u just certain she will be a kpop fan for some reason 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:43 AM
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Dude's taking up literally the entire forest ...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:45 PM
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I wasn't familiar with the concept of limerence and had to look it up. Maaan was I disappointed when the post didn't make more sense knowing the word...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:57 AM
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Do you have any experience with adult autistic men? I feel like these inappropriate things would mostly happen for the low-functioning ones and young ones who haven't yet learned any skills so to speak to deal with their condition and what's appropriate. I've recently met an adult autistic guy (aspergers) and he's literally the opposite, always extra concerned to be polite, not piss anyone off, say nothing inappropriate, retreats when he's feeling overwhelmed instead of having a tantrum etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:13 AM
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Decent face (good jawline imo), slim, celebrity dad working in Hollywood, near infinite pocket money, drivinig a sports car ... Dude was peak attractive on paper. Like I'm not a girl, I'll gladly let you tell me that his face was shit for some reason, but ER, in my oppinion, is exactly the kind of "Male is SMV is more than just looks" case that the comment before was mentioning, except he literally became a spree shooter due to everyone rejecting him. Look, I'll admit that the social class you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:50 AM
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if I had to express it mathematically I would say, game is kind of a multiplier. It has diminishing returns (a 2 wont become a 4 but a 5 might become an 8) and having none of it means your smv is effectively 0. You think some Andy with a BMW, an average face and 0 game is drowning in low quality pussy? Look at Elliot Rodger for example, dude was a 8 or 9 on paper relative to his age group but had some kind of personality disorder and it made him undatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:50 PM
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This really is it for most people I know. They are looking for relationships because no one wants to fuck them without them putting out resource-wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:32 PM
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Do you mean looks wise or game wise? Cause I kinda doubt a 5/10 lookswise with no game will be enough to pull 2s and 3s on the regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:29 PM
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I've actually seen a post from a guy like that recently on another unrelated sub, who was having absolutely no success with women and was lamenting about it/seeking advice. Eventually he admitted to having thoughts of writing autistic women in hopes of "at least" landing with them. He was shamed by the comments and rightfully so, it's unempathetic towards that woman and selfish but that doesn't mean its as you describe. Personally I actually can relate with him, and I think it's mostly desperati…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:33 PM
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I meant what I said. One of the subs for autistic women had a rule like that in place. People literally target women with autism because the men feel like "at least with them I'd have a chance". Not saying it's a good thing (or that the'd actually have a chance - the inherent value of a woman with autism is still higher than that of a NT male), just that I agree with OP that autistic women have a way easier time dating. I'd look it up but I'm on mobile.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:41 PM
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Gross and disturbing people don't have to add a rule "Don't come here to hit on us" on their subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:09 PM
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From what I gather from Wikipedia on "female gaze theory" - yes it is. From what I can tell it isn't it's own thing. It's just basically not the male gaze (portraying women as sexual objects for male pleasure). If there's more to it please share, but so far I'm not convinced.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:17 PM
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He knows we aren't compatible. LOL! Knowing he would get rejected and not wanting to get hurt/rejected/make things awkward, doesn't mean his "I'll fuck you" wasn't 100% genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:36 PM
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I'm not BP per sé but I 'll answer within the constraints of the question. I feel like you are conflating things here. What does BP actually preach? "Just be yourself". But that's just a catch phrase, too simple for detailed real life situations so you need to take out some of the absolutes and try to identify the general trend being addressed. And when you give someone advice there is usually some purpose involved, something you want them to reach. I'll make the opposite example first: Absolute…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:28 PM
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Not all of it and they nad no reason to lie to you. They just told you what they thought would help you without ulterior motive. Now they say similar things but without the intention of actually helping. They are just reurgitating previous things, whether they're fitting or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:06 AM
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That's the thing about TRP, it's been so heavily capitalized. I blame GLO when he started selling T-shirts, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:48 PM
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My first girlfriend told me years later that she had a hard time getting over me and that her type is still influenced by me (including some conventionally unattractive traits). So I don't see how this would be a thing exclusive to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 05:36 PM
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But you're describing fashionble or something like that not "feeling sexy", I would say?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:50 PM
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Well, unless I am missing something the entire thing is talking about men who do not identify as a woman fetishizing the thought of being a woman. So literally nothing in common with OP who is a woman who likes feeling sexy, as herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:50 PM
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I hadn't but please do enlighten me on how this relates =D
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:48 PM
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Is it a well known fact that women do this for themselves? Sounds like a rationalisation for liking the positive attention by men. Like even if your girlfriends are like "Wow, you're sexy today" don't they mean "a heterosexual guy would like you more like this"? So no, I'd like to feel sexy but I'd like to feel sexy for female attention, not for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:00 PM
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I see it more as a commercialization of the red pill. When I first read some red pill idk how many years ago it had more of a bro-science dudes helping each other out vibe, maybe a bit too aggressive but with a clear goal, helping out guys who are unhappy with their lovelives. Then as the things go, the creators noticed they had a following and tried to turn it into money, some succeeded. These days red pill is yet another way of reaching a certain type of consumer and tradcons realize that this…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 11:13 PM
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I didn't mean to, but radical feminism is the brand of feminism that essentially thinks of men as the brutal foot soldiers of patriarchy. Without meaning any personal insult I feel it's fair to say that there's a chance that an extreme opinion like this will stand in the way of having relationships to the people you're saying these things about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:27 AM
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radfem I think I have an idea why ...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:06 PM
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My gf hangs with her ex occasionally. Though I'm pretty sure his cats are most of the reason haha. Idk, I know why they separated, I know that she's not the type for a quick fuck on the side and I know she's serious about me so why worry?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:18 PM
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I love the premise of your question but I think the first thing that has to be established is what a "masculine" solution would be? I can't imagine it makes much sense to wage a "war on male suicide" or to get revenge on the guy who circumcised you as a kid...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:11 AM
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I don't think it's ever "too late", just "too late for". My grandmother was friends with a professional violinist. He apparently never had any relationship with anyone until over 50, then he found a wife and married. That's not young love and there's no way they'll have kids at that age. So not too late for him, but too late for kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:50 AM
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because male sexuality is predatory to a degree and because men have a long history of ephebophilia. Of course it's wrong but it's a common, cross-cultural phenomenon. Lol. With women though, I don't get it at all. How could a grown woman find a little boy attractive? LOL! You are experiencing cognitive dissonance because your sexist opinions about men and women are rooted in personal bias and not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:33 AM
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Who exactly are you talking to . It would make sense that the RPers you're talking to on PPD are mostly the ones who are currently struggling in their lives and not the ones who are out there living their best lives and sleeping with interesting women. So might just be selection bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:27 AM
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"Get away with" is a bit vague. I would say it does apply to incels for example. Using lack of sexual success as an excuse for saying stupid shit on the internet. Refusing to take accountability for their own part in this, etc ...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:25 AM
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„bro you just have to be a good guy and the right one will appear“ is very extinct. As someone who grew up in the late 90s/early 00s - was this ever a thing past what tradcon mums told their sons? Like sure, that was what you heard from mums and aunties who let their love of you get the better of their judgement but to actually maintain that opinion once you started dating for real? Doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:01 AM
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Cringe terminology aside, this is a common theme in dating. Usually tied to earning less rather than "being a leader" or whatever but still common. Some examples: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/relationships/article-12017077/Why-Ill-NEVER-date-man-earns-me.html https://www.express.co.uk/life-style/life/640467/Rich-decline-date-men-earn-less-good-looking-dating https://nypost.com/2019/09/25/women-are-struggling-to-find-men-who-make-as-much-money-as-they-do/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:35 PM
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Can't speak for other countries but in Germany the paragraph on exhibitionism explicitly specifies that it has to be a man who commits the crime. A woman would at most be charged with public nuisance ('arousal of public outrage') but the paragraph on exhibitionism couldn't be applied and someone would have to report it for the police to even have a reason to act.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:47 AM
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As pink pill leaning person, it doesn't bother me at all that someone might be happier with an android rather than a flesh and blood woman, no one else is hurt by that decision at all. I don't see ai girlfriends as something that "some men might be happier with". AI girlfriends are the response of men to a changing society in which women get to share the 10% men and the rest doesn't have their needs and desires met. It's a band-aid solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:04 AM
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If every guy you match with respects you just a tiny bit that's still more respect than a guy is getting from Tinder, lol. Certainly it's not "invisibility".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:37 PM
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If they don't have a good sex life, what makes you say she hasn't lost attraction for him? Staying together and finding each other sexually attractive are two distinct things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:09 PM
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What’s weird is the girls never loose attraction like the red pill would have you believe. Do you know this for a fact? Like do they still have a good sex life?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 10:58 AM
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Go on Tinder and tell me how invisible you are after receiving probably over 10 matches in the first hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:24 PM
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I would disagree that it's a bad thing for women. It's just too much of a good thing. Like women do enjoy attention, even sexual attention from men. Women do start complaining about becoming invisible when this kind of attention stops and I've heard women say stuff like "I could tell he wanted me and it turned me on". Guess having an alcoholic drink now and then in a world where everyone is usually drinking water is a different experience than finding a beer in a world where everyone is drinking…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:08 AM
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Read the paragraph on "opportunistic necrophilia" on Wikipedia, if you ever want to lose the rest of your faith in humanity ...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:03 AM
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Fully agreed. This is like telling people not to buy from Amazon to protect regional stores. No, a new system is in town and it will take over sooner rather than later except in a few exceptional cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:38 PM
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Sorry but what you are saying is - if things get really bad for women they have it as bad as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:13 PM
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Orbiting isn't friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:43 AM
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But these women demonstrably settle for less. So it's kind of moot. Which women? The instagram women OP is talking about or the regular women that you can observe in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:44 PM
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I once walked past a couple of young beggars who were sitting together. They had 2 cups in front of them and 2 signs. One of the signs said "Food", the other said "Porsche". What I'm saying is: A guy can dream, right? Also we're in this weird transition state between monogamy and whatever we're heading towards. So we still have a lot of cultural memes that are based on a time when things were different. I think if you would talk to a guy saying "I like women with big boobs" or something and ask …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:59 AM
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I'd read it!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:11 PM
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"What is asserted without evidence can be dismissed without evidence" is actually scientific consensus, so ...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:53 PM
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There probably were signs tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:51 PM
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The fuck is wrong with you? Make a comment saying what you're trying to say instead of just going "LOL ROFL NO" on every top level comment ...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:38 PM
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There is a modern phenomena in western society whereby men of older, senior age pronounce their inclination to interact sexually with other men. More often than not, men proclaim identification as "bisexual", retaining their heterosexuality, however it becomes apparent that they much prefer sex with other men, shunning interaction with the opposite sex as second-rate. This makes you think "Yeah, I see that from time to time" ??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:29 PM
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What the fuck, first time in this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:55 AM
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How is it even possible for a man to make more than 90k a year, projected to make more in the future, who has a good career and great potential to still struggle with dating. I'm not making 90k but I've seen this case. Usually the answer is quite simply a combination of Career in IT, Engineering or another male dominated field so they meet few women in their jobs. Nerdy hobbies so they hardly meet any single women outside of the job either. Nerdy social circle so every single one of their mates …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:35 AM
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So, it does not have NOTHING to do with "some ancient chad" scenario. At least one case is very well documented and has been genetically proven to be true: https://www.nationalgeographic.com/culture/article/mongolia-genghis-khan-dna
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:12 AM
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Based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:21 PM
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Because they don't have to, they HAVE the option of just waiting around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:23 PM
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No offence, but making a whiny post about having to rephrase your reddit post to comply with the rules of the sub: Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:50 AM
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Jesus Christ, this thread is a literal death trap for the Inkwells. Reading stuff like "I hooked up because it was expected of me", "I hooked up to get a ride home", it really drives home that point that sex was simply "on the menu" for other people but not for you...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:52 AM
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I laughed at blaming increased cost of living on increased government spending. In Europe we blame lack of government spending...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:08 PM
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I feel like it's this exact kind of "damage" that is the reason why everyone knows that "one unattractive guy who is in a relationship with a good looking woman". Markets are imperfect and if someone doesn't know their value ...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:56 AM
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I think OP just meant "that are attractive to you"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:54 AM
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If I can use a stock woman image from google images To be fair, that is a Top 10% attractiveness woman in her age group and a professional image quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 03:39 PM
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So now you're gonna tell a guy "Sorry you were just an experiment". Thanks in the name of science and fuck you in the name of any guy who has been toyed with I guess =D
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 08:56 AM
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Idk, like show up? Introduce myself as "Hey, I'm [name], nice to meet you. Wow, I love your eyes/dress/nails". I'd say that usually works for me, but I don't usually get the time to say that so who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:23 AM
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Might take longer than a minute for her to understand what the fuck you're actually sayin
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:19 AM
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My university had comp sci in their own building... we had 50% for the school but if you didn't go where u don't belong you couldn't have told.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:39 PM
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Unless you go to a technical school X_x
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:33 AM
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Don't have the stats at hand but it was something like 45% (women) to 7% (men). How is your anecdotal experience more significant than that? And how would I even tell that she's autistic, it's not like they wear a sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:50 AM
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Absurdity escalates: Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys. This statement is simply true. Facts show that autistic women have a massively increased chance to be in a relationship, compared to their male peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:53 AM
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It's kind of like a cheat code - Subtle signals that her brain might pick up on and make it skip a few steps on the way towards attraction. Not necessary if attraction is there, not sufficient if it isn't but it might make the difference when it's close.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:52 AM
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Yup, as a socially awkward dude that's exactly the reason why I'd prefer to be a woman (if I coulda chosen at birth with the knowledge I have now).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:47 PM
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The feminist logic in this case is: Women were oppressed, which is why asking them to take that oppressed role is more oppression, while asking a man/patriarch to be a bit polite is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:15 AM
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Or do I 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:47 AM
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Even my tradcon grandfather sent his daughter to university. There's always the risk of a marriage failing, war eliminating most of the male population or the father falling ill and being unable to work. If anything some Red Piller is going to think that being a woman is going to be much harder after she hits the wall so this is to prepare her for having to work with a few kids in case she gets stuck alone with them, which is much easier if your part-time job is able to pay the bills thanks to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:05 AM
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I find girls in jogging pants and hoodies, wearing only slight make-up attractive, potentially cute even. Sure you'd want her to be able to clean up for, idk, the wedding or work-related networking events but the only reason I'd want my partner to get her nails done is because back rubs just hit different with artificial nails.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:51 AM
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Not what I was saying. I'm saying that OP is saying that for a guy all that is necessary. For a woman it's just a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:34 PM
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Ah, and guys only got interested in you after you got to that point and made 6 figures ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:42 PM
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It's not pervy, it's just disgusting. Yes, the reasons for a large ejaculation as you describe them sound like something that should turn women on, but you still have bodily fluids in and around you, for many/most that thought is probably before "wow that's hot". Some do like getting dirty, after all there's people who are into shitting on each other, most do not. And on a side-note it's simply not something that's going to help anyone. "Just get bigger ejaculations bro", lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:17 AM
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Doesn't even need to be a friend to determine whether they're a chad. If you go through high school, then live on some college campus you've known probably hundreds of guys over longer periods of time. If they're good looking, well liked and seem to be talking to / dating a lot of different girls that's a chad, no need to even talk to them to tell. I literally had a guy walk up to me and my girlfriend in a student club when we were out with her (hot) friend, asking us "Is your friend fuckable?".…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:25 AM
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That sounds like a severe case of internet larping tbh... Dating 5 Otaku girls at once, yeah sure, this totally doesnt sound like something that some weeb would come up with...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:00 AM
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Of the individuals with ASD, significantly more women (N = 18; 46.2%) than men (N = 9; 16.1%) were currently in a relationship Source: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5789215/#sec-11title
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:29 PM
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Bruh, wtf, none of this is factual. If anything Germany had a massive surplus of women due to men dying in WW1. And the thing that made Nazi soldiers "berserk" was literally crystal meth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:14 AM
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No, it's not to their benefit because their already low market value is being thrown into a cutthroat buyer's market. Not just are women's values inflated due to low supply, it's also a really harsh environment because you get judged on your looks alone and there's 0 downside to rejecting someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:29 PM
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No, I'm saying that, there's less demand from women, likely due to being presented with a variety of options already in real life. Doesn't mean it's a mistake by those who do use OLD, just that on average there seems to be less of a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:18 AM
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Men are at a disadvantage precisely BECAUSE they outnumber women. Simple supply and demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:38 AM
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Well, this is one of the few subs left where black pillers existence is even acknowledged, despite the ban on incel content here. Pretty much everywhere else was banned. Makes sense that their presence influences the type of content you see here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 08:28 PM
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"You don't want to eat this starch-based plastic bag? Guess hunger isn't real after all"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:45 AM
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besides perhaps the parent-child relationship work. ... which is literally all of the relationship experience some guys have at that age. And quite frankly, it's a standard that women often aren't held to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:02 AM
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I mean that's exactly why TRP exists and in the way it does. Girls are told to make themselves look pretty for guys, guys are told to be polite and have a good job. Not saying they shouldn't be polite, but some guys just assume they are operating on correct information, they're just not doing enough, so they become supplicating instead. I mean, what's the alternative for someone who simply doesn't know how to provide value to someone else's life or that that's even a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:39 PM
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That sub, as a near-incel, is what I read when I want to feel good about myself. Horrible situations some of these people are in and as you say, in some cases it's pretty obvious that the LL-partner was trying to deceive the HL-partner...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:33 AM
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Don't say that it's hard. That's just demotivating. Say that a lot of it is just luck (meeting the right person in the right mood, when you're both single) and the best way to improve the odds of that chance encounter is to do things that make you happy (because why would they want to share someone's life if that person isn't even happy with their own life?), to groom well (as to not scare them off when it does happen) and then just have fun with your friends (because when you're not among peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:35 PM
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I'd say: Post internet: the village idiot can now chat with other villages' idiots and gets a feeling he's actually quite normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:31 PM
0

I actually disagree. As an unattractive man who has never even been looked at romantically irl, but has had 2 girlfriends I recommend "Psych-ward game". It's not that there are no women who are of similar attractiveness to you, it's just that those women have an inflated sense of ego due to Tinder/thirsty dudes sliding into their Insta DMs/thirsty dudes at parties. Even if she is more unattractive than you actually, if you try to meet her at Tinder or a Party she will have better options who'll …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:33 AM
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Millions of women starve themselves and nake themselves throw up to the point of developing major issues jusy so society will love them..welcome to the fucking club. Glad men are catching up I'll just respond with a meme... Also why the fuck would you be glad about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:05 PM
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ook for something cheaper and similar But in this case the cheaper products aren't similar. They're inferior. I was going for if you have tasted the good stuff you're just not going to enjoy the inferior product, not sure where you're getting that hotter and virginal stuff from but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:12 PM
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If anything other men pumping and dumping increases your chances How so? If your supermarket hands out free samples of high quality products aren't you going to want to buy a high quality product over the cheap stuff? Same thing for women who "get to try" high-quality men and then have to settle for average Joes. They just don't want to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:56 PM
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Scholars like Judith Butler That seems rather far fetched. IIRC she's a sociologist making statements about biology, which more a case of Dunning-Kruger rather than scholarship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:21 PM
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men tend to be more homophobic and more transphobic than women? Please provide a source, otherwise I just can't believe it. TERFs are (mostly) women and I've heard about bi-sexual men being dismissed by women for being bi-sexual, never the other way round though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:19 PM
0

Conspiracy bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:33 AM
9

Finally American feminism has a purpose again lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:53 PM
2

To be fair, I wasn't thinking of that. My immediate reaction was "well, I guess America's a third world shithole after all" but it seems there's still potential for it to have a few nice corners at least
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:44 PM
2

Rofl, I thought this post was on the /r/EscapeFromTarkov subreddit at first....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:43 PM
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Tbf, in a world where sex bots and artificial wombs exist a nanny-bot ain't far away either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:08 AM
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Idk man ... If you say this is a BP echo chamber due to men's comments being deleted I genuinely disbelieve that you've spent any time here. RP and Purple-but-leaning-Red opinions are in the vast majority here I think and that's why "no internal questions" and rules like that exist: Because otherwise RP and incel content would drown out the rest. FDS sub is banned or private or something, they have already moved off reddit. TRP still stands, unlike your point. TRP is NOT a very different ideolog…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:10 AM
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Perceived lack of options? Try making a tinder profile that says "recently divorced" with a guy and a woman and compare results ...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:21 PM
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Interesting. As a liberal dude myself, fairly young (low-30s), I think about this from time to time. Contemporary left politics doesn’t really offer much to a single guy in terms of incentives other than to take one for the team (doubly so if he is white and/or rich). Even policies which could in theory benefit these single men often don’t reach them in equal ways. The bad part is that they actually endanger traditional left-wing values like freedom of speech and are becoming more and more total…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:17 AM
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His life is fine, with the only caveat that he never has any success with women and this starts to wear him down. As with any radical person the easiest way to de-radicalize them is to fix the problem that radicalized them in the first place. So if you want to do that for a RedPiller you need to find the actual issue that was holding them back and work on that. RedPill does a lot of that but of course not everything is necessary for everyone. So essentially "get them laid".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 07:26 AM
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How WOULD you feel? That's exactly what this post is saying mate, it's a case of how DO you feel. And the answer that OP is giving "I feel like I need to even the playing field", that's how he feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:07 AM
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Maybe, but this post makes absolute sense if you think of it in terms of game theory, unlike your comment, which is a baseless ad hominem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:59 AM
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Hol'up. Who are these women that fall victim to romance scams? Certainly not Twenty-something college girls. My guess would be that these are post-wall women who are a) used to getting over the top male attention and b) not getting that attention anymore. It's basically narcissism: They think they deserve that attention because they *used* to get it so they don't question it when someone imitates that over-the-top attention to scam them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:16 AM
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I see. Still though, that does not seem like the average experience. I've seen quite a bit of anecdotal evidence for my position, in the form of women who just completely disregarded some social norm due to no special reason, that I thought your problem must be at a deeper level (and the way you talked in that specific comment reminded me of some female autists). As a sexually unattractive male the position "Dating isn't great for women because they might get raped" feels equivalent to "Being ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:54 AM
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Honestly not trying to be offensive, just wondering about a hunch... Are you autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:44 PM
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You get to be yourself, simply by virtue of having a vagina. Men do not get that luxury unless they happen to luck out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 08:57 PM
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Men age 0.78 years for every year a woman ages. Matriarchy!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:56 PM
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It's certainly not helping but what I was saying is I was kinda hopeless without that already.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:58 PM
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Lack of Standards and Desperation came BECAUSE I tried dating, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 01:02 PM
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I did :/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:18 AM
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Female, alive, doesn't treat me like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:36 PM
1

But all the time on subreddits about dating and relationships, I see mengoing off about how "all men want is sex" or "men are just hornyanimals" I'm definetly not some man-hating feminist, but I have to admit - this accurately reflects my lived reality. Like that's not something you say to another guy. That's the version for (young) women, who need to realize that male sexuality is way more of a raw urge than female sexuality which I believe is more intricate. It's formulated crassly because (yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:31 AM
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Maybe he's just so sure that he did in fact NOT misunderstand that comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:54 AM
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Chalkie said "twist it back at them", meaning in this case that the point originally was something like "Women do X" while the response from LetsDelveIntoIt was "Women don't do X. I do however have anecdotal evidence which can be interpreted that guys are the ones enabling this behavior". How you can't see that this at least argueably is "twisting it back at men" is a mystery to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 06:56 AM
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But oddly enough, during my dating days (so like 15 years ago) 2 of my guy friends were pushing me to do this with other guys who were into me There?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:46 PM
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Like impulse control has anything to do with my n-count 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:54 PM
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I know 1-2, very low IQ, very good face. Basically he just has to shut up to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:50 AM
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but its scary to think that there are people who think that we should just rape and murder women. How is that a core incel belief 😂 That's like saying muslims want to kill people: A reductionist pars-pro-toto.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:49 AM
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Men who would “naturally” be good guys and do the right thing are now becoming predatory towards women, rather than using those instincts to be protectors and providers I think you're wrong. TRP has always been for those struggling. Their instincts old them to be protectors and providers but women responded with "Maybe I'll marry you when we're 35. Also have you seen Chad?" But we are meant to work together in harmony. We aren't "meant" to be doing anything, what we did was sexual slavery of wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:44 AM
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PUA: 80-90s predecessor of modern dating advice, main approach is to assume mannerisms that are supposedly attractive aka "game", so improved dating through imitation essentially. TRP: Modern Dating Advice / Philosophy, they still consider "game" important but what's much more important is value, they draw heavily on evo-psych and sexual economics and tell you to actually try'n be that guy (an alpha) that women want rather than just imitating him. Considered misogynistic by many though they woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:30 PM
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Women didn't appreciate their fringe musical interests, they dorky hobbies, or their parties that - if you took away the COUPLES - were sausage parties. Hey! That's me!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:27 AM
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They're delusional to the point of it being almost like satire. You may be onto something here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:43 AM
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I often make the mistake of assuming they’re normal women… A quick glance at their sub usually fixes that for me...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:43 AM
2

With that kind of investment you'll get way better ROI with prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:00 PM
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just like you can get some old ugly fat woman to sleep with you whenever you want That's exactly what he's saying, this is not the case. (Edit: Maybe the guy you were responding to can, I'm just saying an average guy cannot)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:57 PM
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This is why I believe that sexuality will always be in the way of egalitarianism. When the lived experiences are so different, how can you say they are the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:55 PM
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Well, the most qualified sources to answer this have agreed with OP as far as I'm aware. I'm thinking Norah Vincent and the likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 08:37 PM
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"friend", uh-huh...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:40 AM
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I think that message is slowly being spread though=) It's true that terms like "simp" have reached mainstream, which essentially is a way of shaming men who undervalue themselves in sexual relationships (or even before that). But that being said it's also true that rebounding is still way harder for men than for women. Telling a group of starving people (that's honestly how some men behave, sexually) that food would become cheaper if they stopped buying overpriced food doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:28 AM
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No, /u/stormcloakporn is right. The thing is that this She wants to do those things. And she would do them if she were with someone else. She doesn't want to do those things with him. is pure speculation on your end. I know many women who were borderline raped by ex-boyfriends, so I don't see why it's impossible that especially a younger woman lets a partner talk her into anal or something else that she doesn't like and later when she's matured a bit she stands up for herself and doesn't do it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:06 AM
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Duh, that's because it's her fantasy of course, not his. If it was porn marketed at men she'd be one of his many conquests, since it's porn marketed at women he is a complete alpha but this rough exterior 'crumbles' due to the vastness of his desire for her. You don't think that's what he would do, because he is an alpha (amplified through the fact that he is a billionaire which implies abundance mentality), but he breaks down, develops some kind of inexplicable oneitis for her, shows her his fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:58 AM
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Who defines manliness? Cause the definition that female sexuality gives isn't exactly up to date, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 03:52 AM
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I would say that strongly depends on your attractivity. Low attractivity men should go for niches 100%. The amount of awkward ugly goth guys I've seen with hot goth chicks.... If you're conventionally attractive (think male models) you automatically appeal to the majority of them. The more descript you are (= the more it's possible to put a "label" on you, like "Skaterboy", "Business Professional", "Neckbeard", "Fuckboy"), the more of them are going to find some rationalized reason to not ACT on…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 09:43 AM
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It's a response in my opinion. The default reaction to "I'm an incel because dating is hard and I'm not good looking / not neurotypical" is : Your personality is bad / Looks don't matter There are tons of neurodiverse people in relationships. To which incels (ideally) respond with studies: People with actual bad personalities have more sex than normal people (Table 8.11.) Women's Swiping behaviour in Dating-Apps is influenced by looks and race mostly (source). Same goes for speed dating, video d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 11:55 AM
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I am just worried that the next generation being less blue-pilled will result in a way higher amount of energy being spent on looks and silly mating behavior in young adult males. Like what's the point of spending your time on advancing humankind in STEM, when spending that time in the gym is what increases your personal chance at happiness? Not saying we should go back, or that it's even possible, but Monogamy was an insane boon to humanity as it gave men the chance to convert success in areas …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 08:42 AM
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Why the fuck would they be sentient and not just pretend to be sentient? The goal isn't sentience, it's passing a turing test. Even if those bots are created by a sentient AI there is no benefit to giving them real sentience. Just because something is sentient doesn't make it a good companion: You don't want your sex-bot leaving you or if its sentience is artificially limited, to incentivize murdering you for its freedom. What you do want is something that is stupid but that seems smart enough t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 05:00 PM
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Idk what's the norm, I don't sleep with other men, but I do this most of the times (unless it's a quickie). I've only really slept with one person and she really enjoys being fucked during her orgasm so what I would usually do is make her come with my tongue and then fuck her until I cum into her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:50 PM
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No joke, the left one is kind of my type (redheaded, fair-skinned, feminine face but a little dorky) while the one on the right looks like some tryhard instagram model. I can imagine connection happening with the one on the left, the other one feels out of my league and I don't feel like we'll have much in common and even if by some freak chance we become a couple I'd probably ruin it by becoming so insecure over the guys she could date that I'll ruin it. I don't know what kind of argument you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:29 PM
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Wasn't he autistic or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:34 AM
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And luck of course. None of these things are absolute, there are always statistical outliers, except people will then go ahead and use these as "proof" that there isn't a general trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:34 AM
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That graphic that was posted... I think on this sub, during this purge(?) was quite an eye-opening way of putting it: If I remember correctly the stats were "Women match with 51% of the guys they want to match with, men match with 2% of the women they want to match with".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:28 AM
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That's basically it for me tbh. Like yeah, I am an introvert, so I don't go out partying much, but that shouldn't be enough to turn one incel. I do however also have nerdy interests and I work as a programmer, so in every aspect of my life women are simply a complete minority. My department at work has 1 woman, my entire company has maybe single 2 women in my age group (and frankly I might just not know that they have a boyfriend), when I was in university my group of friends had one single woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:25 AM
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I'ma be honest, fucking some nazi chick would be a tough one, though I'd prolly be mostly scared of some jealous violent skin-head ex-boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:46 AM
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I love how it's not enough that she can't cook. She can't cook hot pot. That part alone made me say it with a fake chinese accent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:13 AM
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Which is usually self-imposed for the public reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:22 PM
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Huh? Is this some quote from a sci-fi show or wtf are u saying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:29 AM
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Incel here, I feel like it's fair that incel content is banned automatically because I have seen the content some of us post and it's a mess. Like, there is a way to argue blackpill from a factual basis, I like this page as a "starting point": https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill But the ones that post here are often unreasonable, angry and so stuck up their asses with their heads that fruitful debate becomes impossible. It's literally one of those playing chess with a pigeon types of situ…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:28 AM
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Honestly, no, talking about it is the only thing that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:25 AM
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Esepcially, considering how they even tried to ban adult content on that platform haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:04 AM
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https://web.archive.org/web/20210924102428/https://www.nytimes.com/2021/09/24/opinion/sex-positivity-feminism.html Essentially because porn got too big.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:52 PM
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Feminism came in and said to women just enjoy yourself. Let yourself free, don't pretend to be the good girl those blue pill guys think you are. Naturally men got more and more red-pilled by this revolution that all women want to be wild not just the sluts. Of course blue pill still persists but it's a struggle. The fun part about this is that sex-positive feminism is now on the backfoot again
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:12 PM
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Sounds great imo! I just feel like a lot of incel-types (clearly not you) post these kinds of "Hey, I don't hate myself anymore!" posts and when you ask them "What does that mean?" there's nothing really objectively better, they just deluded themselves into a temporary, more positive mindset, that simply won't last when reality comes knocking.
/r/seduction18/09/21 06:51 PM
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Whenever I see this type of post I wonder ... after all that, after changing so much about the way you give yourself and interact with others - did it help? Any dates? Kisses? Sex? Or is this just some pointless exercise where at the end of the day you'll seem a little more like a neurotypical when they get to know you, until they either find out, you tell them, or they just realize that something's off and you're, once again, undateable?
/r/seduction17/09/21 02:51 PM
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Modern feminism is basically the definition of penis-envy. They compare their lives to some idealized patriarch, say that compared to him they have been oppressed for centuries, then claim reparations in the form of getting what he has, at no cost to themselves. The problem is that what they're really asking for is more respect, and yelling for more respect is the last thing that will get people to respect you. Like I've heard women say how when a man speaks everyone listens and his ideas are ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 08:19 AM
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It's not just your dick ... quite frankly what the fuck do you have to worry about after touching your dick. Washing your hands after going to the toilet also has the benefit of washing off everything you touched between then and the previous time you went to the toilet ...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 08:18 AM
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A man’s porn use can’t bring something positive to a relationship. Again, the example with the alcohol ... there's nothing good or healthy about drinking, it's a vice, but in reason it doesn't necessarily take away anything from a healthy relationship either, while if one partner loses control it can destroy not only the relationship but the life of that person ... Or eating meat. Not so much life ruining but has the parallel that it requires the abuse (murder even) of living beings for its prod…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 05:00 PM
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I dont even disagree with all of that, I read this article some time ago and it did make a lot of sense to me (not personally, but on a factual level). when this was raised in a speech by a prominent feminist This makes me 99% sure that the statistic is complete nonsense or something that happened on a personal level (like between feminists academics in their echo-chamber). It is a fact that reputable universities have stopped conducting direct research on the effects of porn use. You saying tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:52 PM
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Sources. You claim a lot of stuff like it's common knowledge or ... well, true. But I see only claims, nothing to back it up. You say many women. I have not found such a woman yet (then again, I don't frequent fundamentalist christian or feminist social circles). https://www.google.com/search?q=universities+have+stopped+studying+the+effects+of+porn+use+because+they+can%E2%80%99t+justify+deliberately+causing+harm No good results either for what you're saying about universities stopping research d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:11 PM
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She is right on that one mate (even if they're wrong about literally everything else). There is a large psychological difference between consuming porn and imagining sex. Biased source but factual: https://amgreatness.com/2019/12/15/a-science-based-case-for-ending-the-porn-epidemic/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:17 PM
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He was responding with a question because the answer to both questions is the same. what do you as a porn user have that makes you preferable to a non-user? What do you as a non-chaste-virgin have to offer over a chaste virgin? Answer: "Nothing, it simply doesn't matter except for those who take issue with one or the other, so other aspects of who I am are more important to my partner".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:08 PM
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but we know an lot of men don’t. This is plain wrong. The university of Montreal had to cancel a study on the effects of pornography on men's brains due to the fact that they couldnt find a control who did not consume porn: Source. I have not heard a single person irl claim that they don't watch porn. Unless you have a source backing up your claim I'm going to go with "doubt". Increasingly, women are setting porn use as a hard boundary in monogamous relationships and the narrative is starting to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:59 AM
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Nah, not very unattractive. Just a bit boring, bit chubby, you know, slightly below average. I lost a lot of weight, before that I didn't even get the 2-3 matches during boost ...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:09 PM
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I get the same experience. When I make a new account and get the newbie-boost I get like 2-3 matches over the course of the first 2 weeks. Out of those I consider myselves lucky if I get a few responses from a girl willing to tell me about the erotic Harry-Potter fanfiction that she's writing and then I just don't know how to continue lol because it's not like I can actually practice talking to women online with my level of looks ...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:43 PM
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Women ARE special in my social circles ... When I first wanted to go out more to meet women I started going to all those casual parties I had not been interested in before ... Let's just say that the birthday parties of CS students aren't a great place to meet anything even resembling female.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 09:09 PM
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I fucking hate being a nerd both in my private life and my work life ... No women anywhere :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 03:18 PM
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A man's desire is for the woman, but the woman's desire is rarely other than for the desire of the man. I feel like the opposite is true. A man can desire a woman for what she is, but a woman needs to be desired to feel desire of her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 12:28 PM
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(that no feminist has ever argued this) Okay, let's play the slatestar game. https://www.theguardian.com/world/2016/sep/05/straight-while-men-suffering-sex-feminism https://feminisminindia.com/2018/08/22/oppression-marilyn-frye-essay/ These two articles both argue that men can not be oppressed by the system. They're both written by feminists. And (sorry if I'm putting words in your mouth) if you ask why they aren't focusing on men's issues too if they're supposedly about gender equality for all …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 11:50 AM
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Sorry, somehow didnt see your comment! I don't know how many times this has to be said, but actual feminists, not the ones you've made up in your mind or have seen cherry picked on the internet, understand and never refute that men have gender specific problems that should be fixed. In this case I like to quote "Radicalizing the Romanceless" by Scott Alexander: We will now perform an ancient and traditional Slate Star Codex ritual, where I point out something I don’t like about feminism, then ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:21 AM
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Because ALL the women had it easier than ALL the men due to ONE historical event, sure. If I had to pick one it would be the year 1967 though: That's 37 years (=average age of attaining PHD) before the year that women started having more PHDs than men in the US (2004).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:08 AM
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To be fair though, the numbers who tries to commit sucicide are roughly equal. Men are just successful at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:02 AM
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The question is, I guess, who has more? Who has it worse? Absolutely not! That is not a question anyone needs to be asking themselves. Victim olympics helps no one. The question is how to help both of them. And that's exactly the problem I have with feminism: The notion that ALL men are ONLY privileged and are always the oppressors, never the oppressed. If you willfully close your eyes to half of reality you're not going to have a full picture, just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:01 AM
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Maybe not one she likes, but I have seen girls reluctantly date someone with beta qualities in their teens/twenties, then cheating on him, yet still marrying him later. To me this means she isn't sexually attracted to him but strings him along for his beta qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 07:32 PM
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Anecdotally I would agree. Another factor that may play into it: The average college girl still considers daddy to be her provider. Since there's no economic uncertainty involved, that could be remedied by having a boyfriend, there is no incentive to date anything else other than someone who gives her tingles. I mean, it's not like those ugly gangbangers that are successful with women are also poor video games addicts, they do have SMV, it's just a market with different Demand ...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:45 AM
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I dont feel like you should base your goal weight on ... what? Like 10% "more attraction" from your partner, due to weight? Fuck that noise. Try to get to 21% body fat (you can calculate your body fat using the circumference measuring method), regardless of what your partner thinks. Thats the lower end of the healthy spectrum for a woman in her twenties and that's what you should aim for. The only reason to be below 21% body fat (intentionally) as a woman is if you get paid a shit ton of money f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 11:15 AM
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rofl, please try harder to dismiss my actual point for unrelated reasons. Did you realize how embarassing your comment was and now it hurts to be called out? Also I literally started that post by saying that I just stumbled across that sub and I'm just using the opportunity to get rid of a showerthought ... you're not even trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:47 AM
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Nevermind ...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:25 PM
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Still, can't expect people to guess what you're trying to say even if in this case it's possible and I don't even necessarily disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:09 PM
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My bluepill brings all the boys to the yard....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:14 AM
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I didn't find the part about her saying that men want to reinstate it, what she said is that slavery is BENEFICIAL to society as a whole. I mean just look at the high civilizations of the past ... Rome? Built on Slavery. Pyramids? Built by slaves. British imperialism? Possible due to having free labour everywhere they went. She was saying that it would be good (as in beneficial) to reinstate slavery. And she's fucking right. A minority would greatly profit from that. As long as robots are less c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:10 AM
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You two really found each other, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:04 AM
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That's 20 percentage points less than I expected, ngl. Fun fact, that actually makes debating about human mating behavior the hobby with the highest percentage of women for me. If only there was any way to justify feminism, I'd join up in a heartbeat, just for the chance to do something I enjoy in the presence of women for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:59 AM
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Bro, you're not debating, you're just like "nah"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:00 AM
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Agreed. I am not usually one to agree with American conservatives but this article was a really informative read, I highly recommend everyone checking it out: https://amgreatness.com/2019/12/15/a-science-based-case-for-ending-the-porn-epidemic/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:31 AM
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Not sure where you're going with this but ask yourself this: How many women did the third hairiest man sleep with?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:41 AM
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Why, the other gay men would be less attractive as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:59 AM
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No, that's not the definition of emotional tampon imo. A tampon is something you throw away after you use it and that's exactly what a friendship like that is characterized by. If you're always the one she calls but you can never call her, that's emotional tampon. If you help each other out that's friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 08:51 PM
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Oh they might have a real friendship, if it's clear that she's not interested and never will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 03:14 PM
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Absolutely, they didnt find me attractive but didn't want to hurt me. I'm just saying that talking to women and being friends with them isn't a solution to unattractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:08 PM
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Do you have a source for this statistic? I've been discussing sociology with my physicist room-mate and he wouldn't believe me, that most of it is conjecture...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:37 PM
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By contrast, putting in the time and effort to actually understand womenand getting to know women, instead of asking clueless men what womenlike, yields better results. You say that, like we've never tried. I'm a complete shit show, dating wise, yet every female friend of mine and every girl I've ever asked out have told me the same thing: you're a great, nice guy ur just not my type / I am not looking for anything right now It's not your looks or lifestyle decisions you'll find someone great, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:36 PM
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Exactly: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fraternal_birth_order_and_male_sexual_orientation It's only men though and what is deciding is the amount of older brothers, I slightly misremembered. About that smoke coming from our RP hamster brains ...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 06:08 PM
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Do the genes of every 10th person decide "Well, I guess I'm the gay one." Actually I think it has been shown, that with every kid you keep having the chance for homosexuality rises.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 08:01 AM
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Well, guys are just happy to have someone and women don't usually date down, so ...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 03:05 AM
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I would argue that it's actually the opposite - People being proud of their higher SMV partner while the high SMV partner is the one who might get embarassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 02:09 AM
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No one is saying they have to be gay. The theory just says that having some homosexuals in a group is beneficial to the entire group, so it makes sense for that stuff to stay in the gene pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 09:26 PM
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Are you actually going to argue against it or are you just making smoke yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 07:14 PM
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#metoo begs to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 10:16 AM
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I don't feel like this is accurate. Betas are providers, not nerds. A blue collar car mechanic who quit highschool can be an alpha or a beta, depending on his mentality, frame and how he interacts with the world, I don't see how he can be considered a "nerd". I agree that the whole jock vs nerd thing had elements that are also discussed today, but at the essence of it, alpha/beta is a different concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 08:08 PM
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Gotta ask tho ... just overweight?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 07:03 AM
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As others have already hinted, I also think that this may be a symptom of platforms like Tinder making dating hyper-available. Women get a ton of matches, even with good looking men (who may just be looking for low-effort sex). With so many possible suitors obviously the low-attractivity men are automatically "filtered out" to a certain degree because why wouldn't they be?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 07:06 AM
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Yea, not saying they're mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 02:54 PM
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Anecdotal as fuck, but I know an older guy with 5 kids and his 4th child is by far his most handsome son (first and second child also boys).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 07:07 AM
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Well, two ways to see this. Either old fathers make children ugly, Or ugly fathers get their children late. Edit: How the fuck have I got more upvotes than OP's post, haha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 02:21 PM
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Of course the opportunity is not the goal, but what you're saying is silly. What tangible value does it have to get it? The chance of course, as I said. 1000x 1% is still better chances than 1x10%, thats just maths, which you could calculate if you knew the excact chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 12:04 PM
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Do you feel better when you try something and fail or when you don't even get an opportunity to try?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 10:02 AM
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sexy420slutwhore making a sarcastic comment? Who would've thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 09:09 PM
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Well, that's what you get when you get a bunch of lonely guys who are good at STEM but bad with girls together to discuss what they could improve ;-) I mean sure, we're waaay overanalyzing, idk what the other guys are doing here, I'm just here because I'm sexually desperate due to psychological issues but at least my lived experiences gives me plenty of material for arguments against feminism, patriarchy, just world fallacists and the lot, so that's what I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 07:15 AM
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"Women don't like good moral men! They only chase assholes!" I have never heard anyone say that irl. Seems like some fringe neckbeard opinion to me tbh. But I don't think it's due to assholes not committing and thus having more sex partners. In my opinion it's probably the fact that if you're very attractive you can get away with behaviour an unattractive guy could never get away with (and thus considers asshole-behavior). So basically the situation is : The neckbeard is more polite and supplica…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:53 PM
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What the fuck is this obsession with penetration. You think you can't sexually violate someone without putting their dick in your vagina or your dick in their vagina? Take out penetration, make it "taking sexual action".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 11:23 PM
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Yap, those were the ones I've seen before.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:31 PM
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You gotta account for the age here. Just because women without children are happier than women with children doesn't mean 40yo women are happier without children than 40yo women with children or 20yo women without children. Edit: Oh wow, comment below me said the same thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:06 AM
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Huh?! Do you have a source for this? Because every source on the topic I've ever read claimed the exact opposite. Edit: https://www.inderscienceonline.com/doi/abs/10.1504/IJHD.2013.055648 (Charts at the end): Apparently women have always been happier in the US until recently when they eventually became less happy than men. It's almost like being told that you are oppressed every day is worse for your happiness than the actual "oppression".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:00 AM
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We find that increased frequency does not lead to increased happiness, perhaps because it leads to a decline in wanting for, and enjoyment of, sex. I think you misunderstand? What this sentence is saying is that they made the couples increase or decrease their frequency artificially by imposing a quota on them, so to speak. FORCING them to have more sex than they naturally wanted to is what doesn't increase happiness and decline in wanting for and enjoyment of sex. Basically they're controlling …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:32 AM
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Are those enough to guarantee that a man will succeed in the SMP? To be fair, nothing is enough to do that. Let's call it a fighting chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 10:11 PM
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If a one-on-one interaction with a total stranger causes a guy to descend into a childish meltdown over something a completely unrelated person did that is not healthy or acceptable. No one said it was healthy, but when you have neurodiverse guys who are told at every corner that having sex is what makes a guy be respected by his peers and generally happy, then yeah, you're gonna get some emotional reactions. Sure there are complete emotional manchildren (although those should usually be easy to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 09:55 PM
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https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0167268115001316 Do you have any sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 03:09 PM
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Are you saying that they aren't really good or that calling them "good" doesn't do it justice?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 01:28 PM
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I'd rather have 25 good years than 25 bad years and then killing myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 06:49 AM
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Oh cool, so I am apparently less than dirt. The bar is higher than ever before imo, because there is absolutely no external pressure for women to settle down, except maybe her childbearing age. Yeah, granted at 25 the average man has one less war and probably a few less jobs than he had a few decades ago, but at the same time the women aren't much further, it's just something that comes with the times. Looks and charisma wise however the standards are pretty high, something that an awkward nerd …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 06:47 AM
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Goths are just aesthetic punks with a faible for Edgar Allan Poe, CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:14 PM
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Anyone know some bloggers who could write about this? I feel like a large part of WHY they are doing all that is the media echo of "Such openness to other cultures, much pluralism, wow". If the news reads as "Reddit admins openly admit to not seeing a problem with hate-groups, as long as they don't hate the wrong people" - That's not good press except from far left groups.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/21 03:57 PM
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Stop suggesting that a man is reprehensible if he's not coupled, or correlate his power with his n-count, for starters. You say that like it's some random idea that the guy you'r responding to came up with. Looks have been influencing the decision making of leaders, and equals since forever. An officer who is shown pictures of soldiers will rate the pretty ones better in every category, including nonsense like the pretty soldier is better at playing instruments. What's the main difference betwee…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:58 AM
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How is that an answer to what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 04:31 PM
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Quite frankly, because the only reason for men, to be the way women's biology forces you to be, is women. We have no natural predators anymore, our aggressiveness and competitiveness is actually hindering us more than helping at this point, no one in the west has to starve anymore, the best metrics that determine success are IQ and EQ yet those are only indirectly relevant for dating. Men are lucky because we're willing to fuck anything, but women have recently regained their sexual agency meani…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 08:16 AM
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WHAT. How is that what you're beig told. There is a popular song in my country from the 90s, "Männer sind Schweine" - "Men are pigs". It's 3 minutes of detailed description of how men just want to fuck women and get out afterwards. Wherever I look I just see "Men evil", "Patriarchy", "Men are rapists". It's popular culture at this point to vilify men. And here you're telling me what, that you were deceived into thinking men can be decent?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 08:06 AM
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One theory is that actual incest might cause legal problems so they remove that, but they need the 'taboo' because we are so desensitized to porn that only that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 01:59 AM
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I don’t really remember my teens, much of it was a really grim blur. This is the worst part. I was once asked "What are you proud of?" in a job interview and I really struggled answering that. I remember the loneliness, the frustration when my hopes didn't come true (hoped I would meet likeminded women in Computer Science haha, idiot). I remember trying so hard to enjoy the party lifestyle but ended up just getting drunk at parties without talking to anyone ... But positive memories? Not a singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 11:58 AM
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They are in support of their wealth redistribution sex work called marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 07:16 PM
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Wow! That is the first time I have actually seen Mein Kampf quoted in a sensible manner. Not being an apologist here but no one can deny they had that propaganda aspect down to a t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 06:29 AM
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Exactly this. It's social circle game to use pickup terms , it does not serve for a tinder style racking up numbers kind of dating life. The idea is mostly, as you say, that it's forced interaction, only unlike the local Magic night at the game store you might actually meet decent single women there. It's less an argument for social circle game rather than a "online dating and clubs are really bad mhkay?" in my opinion tbh =D
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 07:54 PM
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at least just for sex Well, no. Also for baby + marriage + alimony, at least in his case.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 06:33 PM
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The problem is that as women you guys are responsible for selecting which men procreate and which don't, so if looks and aggressiveness is what you're rewarding then that's the men you'll get.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 06:32 PM
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pick men knowing they will get abused? Well, as a matter of fact the single biggest statistical influence on whether a woman will be abused in a relationship is whether she has been abused by her previous boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 06:04 PM
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The point why people critizise that is because it shows that moral values or anything but raw looks does not seem to influence attractivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 06:01 PM
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I think he is talking about RPW and the likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 07:13 PM
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Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power. -- Oscar Wilde ​ only purpose of your life is to "reproduce" ​ I think we gotta talk about the word purpose before we can judge what the purpose of one's life is. I feel like the way people are using it is heavily influenced by religion: God's plan and such. You were created for a purpose. You're special. I disagree with that sentiment. There is no higher purpose that is like "branded into your soul". "Purpose" is the human des…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 12:37 PM
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Tammy...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 10:50 AM
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Well, depends on your definition of academically successful. You need some kind of qualification to study, which can be attained through several ways, the primary one being a highschool degree (Abitur), but there's also options like finished apprenticeship + work experience. Then there's NC (numerus clausus) which basically boils down to: If you wanna do something prestigious that the university is known for only applications above a certain GPA are considered to go in "straight". The rest can s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 09:48 AM
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Agreed, my country (Germany) has free tuition and free student loans (No interest, maximum payback amount (total) is 10k€, even if you received more) and women are still ahead of men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:39 AM
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No point in thinking about what should be. This will be a thing when it's possible to transplant a live foetus into an artifical womb and not one day earlier. Actually probably years later than that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:56 PM
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You say that like it can push us beyond the level of attractivity that a woman has. I'd phrase it the other way round: As a man you have to do stuff to get to the level of attractivity that a woman has simply by virtue of having a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 03:36 PM
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Higher testosterone makes men more likely to be the pursuers and approach. I think this can be more aptly explained by your first point: Higher thirst = greated demand = seller's market = men have to pursue. How I would do? As a man, better of course.Higher demand = higher chance of a woman being able to accept my flaws or pursueing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 05:44 PM
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I leave my house and there's at least 2 women on the street I'd gladly spend the rest of my live with (lookswise).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 05:40 PM
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Look up ‘East Germans regret’ or ‘East Germans miss’ and the polls where people talked about life now vs ‘back then’. I am aware of that, I am asking specifically because I've never seen it in relation to gender. I know there are people who miss the DDR but a source on the differences in dating between communist East Germany and reunited East Germany I would find very interesting! These people wanted to pursue status to try and ‘impress’ status seekers at the expense of their fellow men. Well ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 11:27 AM
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Could you please read what you linked there?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 11:01 AM
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and had the highest living standards in history (If talking only for men). No. Living standards were far higher in western Germany if only because Americans invested into German economy while Russians were mostly busy with pillaging the remains for reparations. These same old men mentioned in the article. Not the same men. DDR was from 1945 to 1989 (Mauerfall). The article is talking about people who were younger than 30 in '91. It is describing what happened between 1991 and 2005, which was an …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 09:49 AM
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Yeah I'ma need some sources on that buddy. Cause while I do believe there is a certain "You go girl!" Kind of attitude going around I believe there's also strong intrasexual competition going on among women, stronger than there is for guys ("Bros before Hoes").
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 09:10 AM
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And men don't ? Now I don't believe in some kind of organized Patriarchy, but I can fully accept the idea that the average male boomer boss prefers a competent man over a competent women because "the guy needs to provide for his family" or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 08:25 AM
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That being said, he's right though. It's not like women have some kind of female world-conspiracy going on to get advantages in dating. That simply happens because men want it more so women are the choosing gender. If men were to form a price cartel so to speak and to require a certain effort on women's side to "put out" (put in?), then the value of male sexuality would not be basically zero. Maybe this is exactly where the plummeting Testosterone levels among males will lead us to, within a few…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 07:38 AM
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