ArgyleOutOfSpace Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Can men and women be friends? Absolutely, I have a bunch of women friends! They have lovely insight, and honestly, there are a ton of benefits. I’m prone to developing crushes, but when they happen I deal with the emotions if I’ve decided not to address it. Plus, they have female friends of their own…and that can be very beneficial if you’re looking for a partner lol. Women make phenomenal friends, you just need to gauge you’re expectations. Don’t try to coerce them into dating you, that’s just fucking creepy.	/r/ExRedPill	14/07/23 04:28 PM
3	Stuff I learned after quitting the Red Pill (almost one year) I fucking love this. We’ve come to similar conclusions on life. You’ve come a long way mate. Keep on pushing!	/r/ExRedPill	27/03/23 12:00 AM
1	How do I become content with my lack of a romantic life in my 20s as a single man? Mate, didn’t lose my virginity til I was 22, first relationship at 24, and I’ve been a hoe for the last decade. Don’t let it control your life. Just focus on you and the people meant to come into your life will get there. Develop some hobbies, ones that have women in it are certainly preferable. But the interest has to be genuine	/r/ExRedPill	13/03/23 04:10 PM
2	I’m out of redpill but… So… Here’s the truth, there ARE women who are drawn to the type of man that you’re describing. We all have preferences and there’s nothing wrong with that. But, I’m under 5’9”. I make literally enough to survive on one job, and it’s the first time I’ve been able to do so (I’m 31 for reference). Through my 20’s I slept with and dated plenty of women. You’re young, you’ve listened to a lot of things that warped your brain. That’s okay, the same thing happened to me. Go live your life and build a l…	/r/ExRedPill	28/12/22 12:58 PM
12	Please help me. Homie you’re 18 years old. I didn’t lose my viriginity til 21 and my first relationship wasn’t til I was 24. You have time, but it’s gonna take work. The first and most important thing you need to do is you need to get yourself into therapy mate. Once a week is preferable, but however frequently you can afford. I’m going to assume you’re still living at home so a part time job will lend itself to this. Start to correct issues within yourself and make changes in your life that make YOU happy. Peo…	/r/ExRedPill	12/08/22 03:12 PM
4	Took a big step today. Unfollowed all the dating youtube channels. Also used to do the same, I worked hard to step away from them	/r/ExRedPill	22/05/22 03:28 PM
2	Females of the sub, have you ever cheated on your boyfriend/fiance/husband before? This makes a lot of sense actually. Thanks 🙏	/r/ExRedPill	09/05/22 06:40 PM
5	Females of the sub, have you ever cheated on your boyfriend/fiance/husband before? I could be wrong (I’m a Man here FYI) but oftentimes toxic men use Females as an insult, so while it may have not been insulting at first, it became insulting because of what men like us have done. P.S. this is personal opinion, if I have that wrong in anyway absolutely call me on it	/r/ExRedPill	09/05/22 04:41 PM
2	What are some good hobby ideas to develop as a healthy man? Any interest in photography? Can be an amazing way to see a lot of beautiful things. Obviously you need to ask for a lot of consent before doing things but it’s a great hobby	/r/ExRedPill	09/05/22 04:16 PM
8	Following common sense will make your life harder. Sometimes it is okay to lie Dude, women don’t go for bad boys. It’s just viewed that way because men get told from the time we’re young that we need to be chivalrous, and then told later that we need to be the opposite. Honest truth, the real reason why women generally go for the dude with the Motorcycle and leather jacket over the dude in the tshirt and Camry is because the motherfucker with the motorcycle is interesting. You want to attract women, stop trying to be the bad boy. In fact, stop focusing on whether you’ve ha…	/r/ExRedPill	07/05/22 06:34 PM
9	What is your opinion on a PUA infield when a balding fat ginger wearing bull walks up to women on the street and pulls a harem by just looking at them? Most “in-field” videos like are complete bullshit. Recited lines don’t work, I know, I followed every tip on the books. I bought a ton of courses. The only thing that ever worked is when I found someone that genuinely was attracted to me for who I was. The lines gave me confidence, and I’ll always credit the PUA scene for that. But im gonna be straight, it led me down a path so dark I lost sight of who I was. Straight up, fuck pickup.	/r/ExRedPill	07/05/22 04:12 AM
1	should I get an escort? I feel like my lack of experience is what's holding me back Honestly dude, it’s 2022. I know a ton of Sex Workers. Most of it is destigmatized, and it’s one of the oldest professions on the planet. If you want to pay for some company just do it, just make sure you do your research first man. Get an STD test and ask for one from her. If the richest celebrities in the world are paying for sex they do it for a reason. The workers are good at it, which means they’re going to treat you right so long as you treat them right. I see zero issue with this, and hon…	/r/ExRedPill	07/05/22 02:29 AM
2	If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different? Ah I understand, but one of the important lessons in life is to build a life that you are happy with. Don’t focus on trying to impress someone that you don’t vibe with, do the things that you enjoy, and eventually those people (regardless of who they are) will show up in your life. You may not fit one persons standards, but believe me when I say that you’ll probably step up and fill at least a few peoples. Just become the person that you want to be, that’s your primary job in life. Let other peo…	/r/ExRedPill	03/04/22 02:39 AM
2	If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different? There’s nothing wrong with having standards for your partner. But one of the things I keep in mind is “if this is a standard of mine, do I fit the criteria of said standard?” I don’t ask people to be better then I am personally. Also, you really need to work on your mental health if you walk around thinking of yourself in such a low state. There are so many factors that go into attraction, look at David Cross and his partner mate. The biggest influence on whether people are going to be attracted…	/r/ExRedPill	01/04/22 04:37 PM
2	If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different? Buddy getting away from the Red Pill, Mysogny and Self-Hate is incredibly tough. I willingly jumped in (using pickup as a portal) to despise the women around me for not giving me thing that I deserved. I’m going to give you the honest truth here, yes, life would be different if you were better looking or handsome. But that’s just genetics. I have a friend whose got model looks and has women begging for his attention. But he spurns them due to stuff in his life. His experiences in life are differ…	/r/ExRedPill	31/03/22 04:36 PM