Aridez Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Women Swipe Left on 95% of Men You have like 100 right swipes a day before hitting a paywall. If that felt too little, then you now understand what I meant when I said that we are self inflicting the harm on dating apps. And some people just suck, that happens everywhere, but you shouldn't dismiss dating because of that. I happens sometimes and it's a matter of keeping looking. I hope you find someone better eventually, and that you have a good time with your friend meanwhile.	/r/MensRights	10/08/25 01:09 PM
0	Women Swipe Left on 95% of Men Men usually try to match with more than 60% of women on dating apps. Just don't do this, if you like more than half of anything that's coming through the door, you are barely filtering anything. This is the self inflicted harm I was talking about. On the other side, an average guy will get 1% of swipes. This is the result, and yea, it sucks. The good news is, if you live near a city, you get a ton of exposure daily, so it isn't that crazy of a number. If you don't, then this isn't the best way f…	/r/MensRights	10/08/25 04:17 AM
-1	Women Swipe Left on 95% of Men Ah yes, the “meme” of actually trying to improve, because dwelling in your own misery while doing nothing is really becoming the flagship attitude around here.	/r/MensRights	10/08/25 03:31 AM
-13	Women Swipe Left on 95% of Men There's so much wrong with that way of thinking. You're stripping away your own value and lowering your standards until anything feels acceptable. In the context of dating apps, that'll land you on some horrible dates and neither you or the other person will end up satisfied. You will not die just because you didn't get a date, so that comparison doesn't really work. Take time, value yourself properly, and if you can't, work on yourself first. Then, be picky. Also, that's a perceived thing of da…	/r/MensRights	10/08/25 12:51 AM
-28	Women Swipe Left on 95% of Men I'm not sure what's your point, I agree that the experience sucks. It is self inflicted though, in the sense that, the problem is on our side in a collective way.	/r/MensRights	10/08/25 12:06 AM
-22	Women Swipe Left on 95% of Men If anyone remembers the early days of dating apps, it really was not like that. Everything felt more natural and swipes were actually 50/50 for men and women. The real reason this trend started is because of supply and demand. If you start swiping right to anything with a pulse regardless of whether you like her or not, then you create a shitload of supply and the other side can be as picky as they want. So maybe take a look at yourselves and see if you are part of the problem, because I bet tha…	/r/MensRights	09/08/25 11:36 PM
20	Hot take: therapy is kinda useless for men. I agree with you, the relationship with your therapist is the main predictor for success, and you can easily look for a few things in order to make the best of your therapist search. The first thing is to never go to a therapist if you are feeling forced. Be open about the idea and work towards accepting that it may be a necessary step, but wait for the time you feel is right. If OP is feeling forced by his sister, and even got a recommendation from a therapist that worked for her, numbers are i…	/r/MensRights	09/08/25 05:44 AM
4	Her past matters man if she fucked 50 dude leave immediately I agree with you. People complain when this sub is labeled as toxic, but it has been living up to the expectations for a while now. A lot of them are being driven by blind anger over trivial matters, undermining the cause we try to support. Looking at the content here, most posts zero in on highly specific, rage-inducing injustices. The reality is, bad things happen to people regardless of their sex. If we truly want change, we need to take a step back and look at the bigger picture. I do love w…	/r/MensRights	26/07/25 03:06 PM
33	Her past matters man if she fucked 50 dude leave immediately The fuck is this sub devolving to. A video with a thick accent and broken english getting people riled up? Overly conservative points of view laid out as the absolute truth? I'm sorry to break it to you guys, conflating body count with someone's character is lazy thinking. Sexual history is not the moral scoreboard you want it to be. It's a part of someone's life experience, and like any life experience, what matters is what they’ve learned and how they carry themselves. Thinking you're morally …	/r/MensRights	26/07/25 02:27 PM
1	Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvern It's the best system in the world. I'm not saying any alternative is perfect, but if you can ignore all of the very apparent flaws this system has, as well as painting as strictly good the overrepresentation of the interests of a minority over the majority, then I tap out of this conversation.	/r/MensRights	23/10/24 03:17 AM
4	WHY DID I NEVER KNOW THIS ABOUT FEMALE MURDERERS Please don’t come to dumb conclusions because that takes the credibility out of you in any debate defending mens rights. A man in a room with a murderous woman is at a greater risk of dying than a woman in a room with a murderous man This goes away from the key point made, that is the percentage of the population being susceptible of becoming murderers. Instead of pointing to things like lack of mental health support, of shelters for men or even some calling lines being only for women, a system …	/r/MensRights	22/10/24 02:38 AM
1	Kamala Harris is clueless about the situation of half of the people she plans to gouvern I think you are confusing what is legal with what is fair on that last point. Something being legal doesn’t automatically make it good, right, fair or ethical. And bringing up the electoral college, a fundamentally flawed system, prone to be modified for political benefits rather than better representation, isn’t doing any favors to prove whatever point you are trying to make.	/r/MensRights	22/10/24 01:19 AM
17	What’s a fact you wish more women knew about men? I feel like the answer to this question should be super simple and you got slapped with “just read this paper real quick bro” and “go search it”.	/r/MensRights	19/01/24 02:07 AM
1	Feminism ruined my relationship Eh, this post is pure circlejerk. It happens pretty often in this subreddit, people got more hate inside of them than they should. The shit he says wouldn't fly on other places because makes no sense: Uhmmmm yeah .... new age feminism isn't feminism. It's leftism under the guide of feminism. That's pretty much the thought of someone surrounded by a biased narrative, in this case republican. He is mixing feminist beliefs of his ex-partner with other beliefs she seemed to have. Not being able to d…	/r/MensRights	30/11/22 08:52 PM
1	about sub quality. Had this same comment as an answer to the same concern. Of course at the moment you don’t have the examples at hand, but looking through the following days I could give a few instances of it and answered back. Just look, it’s not that hard to find.	/r/MensRights	13/08/22 01:52 PM
1	about sub quality. They get upvoted regardless	/r/MensRights	13/08/22 01:50 PM
3	Apparently, Women Aren’t Getting Married Anymore Because Of A Surplus Of Broke Men \| Feminist writer mocks men for joblessness and economic underperformance, expressing utter contempt for the male gender. Because, if you take away all of the sexist assumptions and patronising findings, there is one beacon of hope. The idea that men are useless if we’re not draining them for money . Wow, I am amazed about how little self-aware whoever wrote that article is. Its like promoting the kind of thing they are supposed to be fighting against.	/r/MensRights	24/12/20 02:45 AM
3	Mens health paradox - feminist are desperately trying to shut down articles like this, its to late, MRA is entering academia. Check out Male Psychology Network, and psychreg, this author is excellent too. Check out their social media. I don't think that this is a problem that should be focused towards suicide or men only since there is a widespread a social stigma towards mental health. Suicide hotlines are great, but only serve as a point of support for critical cases. Before that there has been a long process of mental health deterioration that ends up in a breaking point for the patient. We need to start making mental health support more approachable to everyone so we can prevent having this risk of suicide in the first pl…	/r/MensRights	19/12/20 11:38 PM
4	Finally some sanity The story of this sub	/r/MensRights	15/09/20 11:33 AM
1	Father of Daughter being sexually abused by her mother’s boyfriend is denied custody by judge who wants to censor the story. Please help raise awareness by spreading this story. Get this Man his daughter back. #StandWithSophie I think it's unnecessary to make this about things it's really not.	/r/MensRights	04/09/20 11:42 AM
2	Dear Women: your opinions have value and are welcomed here Another one	/r/MensRights	04/09/20 11:36 AM
1	Father of Daughter being sexually abused by her mother’s boyfriend is denied custody by judge who wants to censor the story. Please help raise awareness by spreading this story. Get this Man his daughter back. #StandWithSophie Snarky comments even with situations like this?	/r/MensRights	04/09/20 11:35 AM
3	We love you, Will. Stay strong, and fresh. That's a very ugly generalization based on a Reddit comment. You can't dismiss valid concerns of a group of people just because some of them act stupid, because that doesn't happen only here. A bit of critical thinking helps you distinguish the real issues and weed out the trash.	/r/MensRights	31/08/20 03:45 PM
0	Dear Women: your opinions have value and are welcomed here Coming back here because I found one in the wild and thought about this conversation (the upvoted comment).	/r/MensRights	31/08/20 03:40 PM
0	Dear Women: your opinions have value and are welcomed here I mean, it doesn’t always happen. But you can look by yourself to form an opinion i guess.	/r/MensRights	30/08/20 03:31 PM
-2	Dear Women: your opinions have value and are welcomed here I have seen this sub get quite toxic sometimes. I think this post may have come out of that.	/r/MensRights	30/08/20 04:53 AM
2	She called out her privilege as a woman. Welp, seems like we've touched that one sensitive topic for you. Hopefully you'll be able to talk about it with other people that don't agree with you someday without getting angry. good luck dude	/r/PussyPassDenied	21/08/20 10:38 AM
1	She called out her privilege as a woman. Taking a tour over your profile I just hope you are not being serious, you're gonna have a tough time getting around in life with generalizations like the ones you do	/r/PussyPassDenied	21/08/20 10:19 AM
4	She called out her privilege as a woman. Women can feel empathy, like any other human being, and unlike you apparently.	/r/PussyPassDenied	21/08/20 03:13 AM
16	She called out her privilege as a woman. Pretty much this, if you want rights you must carry the reponsibilities too.	/r/PussyPassDenied	21/08/20 03:12 AM
3	She called out her privilege as a woman. It doesn’t have anything to do with me and what I said but I guess that your high horse word salad makes you feel good	/r/PussyPassDenied	21/08/20 03:07 AM
4	She called out her privilege as a woman. It seems like you think you know more than you actually do	/r/PussyPassDenied	21/08/20 03:04 AM
20	She called out her privilege as a woman. Maybe it’s just you, I’m feeling pretty normal	/r/PussyPassDenied	21/08/20 03:01 AM
3	She called out her privilege as a woman. I think you’ve been lucky	/r/PussyPassDenied	21/08/20 02:54 AM
2	Adele just got Brendan Frasered. That us vs them mentality is what brings so much trouble and is what I see in a ton of feminists. Be better than that, be above the feminist behaviour thay you say you hate.	/r/MensRights	08/04/20 12:57 AM
-4	Adele just got Brendan Frasered. Radical ideas are bad either way. I say something on both cases because it is wrong.	/r/MensRights	08/04/20 12:54 AM
3	Adele just got Brendan Frasered. That doesn’t sound much better than the feminists you guys complain so much about. Don’t fall for that and stand by what you say.	/r/MensRights	08/04/20 12:53 AM
5	A visual example of what feminism accomplishes. Being radical is pretty bad on both sides, specially if what we are looking is to make the world a more fair place to live for everyone.	/r/MensRights	12/03/20 11:43 PM
1	Jordan Peterson absolutely obliterates radical feminist arguments in stupendous fashion That's a bit vague but as I said I don't really know a lot about his personal life and what he says seems to be coherent...	/r/MensRights	06/03/20 12:33 AM
1	Jordan Peterson absolutely obliterates radical feminist arguments in stupendous fashion I haven't seen a lot of this man, although I have taken the time to see this whole interview, not just this part. I agree that some of the points made sound a bit odd to me, but the general message seems to be advocating for equality. Makes other people advocating for equality look like a bunch of oafs because we all get lumped in together. I don't think that's true, and it shows precisely at the part of the interview shared in here. He's making a point in the video that is "both genders are scr…	/r/MensRights	05/03/20 05:33 PM
4	Jordan Peterson absolutely obliterates radical feminist arguments in stupendous fashion in a debate like this you don’t want to lose time citing every source, you come prepared beforehand and it’s the viewer responsibility to check whay they watch and have a bit of critical thinking, same goes for the news. And I don’t think that the reason why both genders have problems matter. We are all screwed in some way or another and often from things out of our control, let it be testosterne, strength or genetic predisposition. What I take from what he says is that we should make our best e…	/r/MensRights	05/03/20 12:53 PM
8	Jordan Peterson absolutely obliterates radical feminist arguments in stupendous fashion I just stumbled upon this thread but I am curious, what do you see wrong about the points made?	/r/MensRights	05/03/20 12:47 PM
1	Johnny Depp Scores a Victory in Amber Heard $50 Million Defamation Lawsuit I do think its a bit of both. If something truly happened and there’s no proof then you might be prosecuted. I’d make a differenciation though, if someone comes forward I would agree. If someone gets caught then just prosecute that piece of shit that wouldn’t say a thing till things got messy. That way every day you spend lying you are at risk while having a very strong incentive for them to just tell the truth. Not the perfect solution but it’s a pretty gray area .	/r/MensRights	31/08/19 12:14 PM
1	Women say they have it hard Yes, and feminists do say women have it hard, I don't consider what goodmod said as an inaccurate statement whatsoever. Maybe I should have been more clear because I do not disagree with that in particular. I do agree that feminists say they have it hard, its true for women the same way it's true for men. All of us have it hard for different reasons, and thankfully, some feminists acknowledge these different problems. That's about as accurate as it gets right now, everyone has different problems…	/r/MensRights	05/06/19 01:40 PM
1	Women say they have it hard At this point no one can truly decide but yourself whether a generalization makes sense. I believe that if it's something that defines that group (like believing in a certain god) makes sense, if its something that changes from individual to individual within that group (like irrational hatred) then it doesn't. In this case you said yourself that The dictionary definition of feminism doesn't necessarily represent the movement. Just by being in the dictionary I think that at least there is enough…	/r/MensRights	05/06/19 01:00 PM
1	Women say they have it hard Generalising a broad demographic group is NOT THE SAME as generalising an ideology or movement, due to the simple fact that one can voluntarily choose to subscribe to an ideology. So you believe that it's okay to make generalizations based on ideologies, lets say, based on your religion for example? There's stupid people everywhere, among feminists too. The mod was complaining about being the target of generalizations while doing the same to another group of people, that's pretty hypocritical.	/r/MensRights	05/06/19 12:41 PM
-4	Women say they have it hard My thoughts exactly. The name was poorly chosen, but that was flat out ignorance.	/r/MensRights	05/06/19 05:11 AM
8	Captain Marvel Faces Boycott Backlash Over Brie Larson’s ‘Man-Hating’ Out of curiosity, whats your point exactly? Is it that this sub sucks or that the ideals are wrong?	/r/MensRights	10/03/19 05:37 AM
4	Captain Marvel Faces Boycott Backlash Over Brie Larson’s ‘Man-Hating’ I agree with the idea, but turning it into politics like they do is a bit of a stretch. This doesn’t have anything to do with rights or lefts, it’s straight stupidity.	/r/MensRights	10/03/19 05:34 AM
2	Finally, a New Emoji to Mock Men To be fair neither of these are ok and both of them happen	/r/MensRights	07/02/19 03:36 PM
1	Dixie Chicks Natalie Maines' Estranged Husband Demands $60,000 in Monthly Support, Says She’s Worth $50 Million And the kind of mentality the other guy has is what brought the world to the inequality levels we have now. Some people in here just want more and more and they become what they think they are fighting, just in their favor. We don’t have to seek just equality, we need to aim for a fair middle point or we all will end screwed at some point.	/r/MensRights	03/02/19 09:31 AM