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3	I hate how much more power women have There are a lot of men who fail to clear the “treat women as people” hurdle, and women can sense that. You’re right in that we don’t lust after men’s bodies nearly as much as men lust after women’s bodies, but what we do find extremely attractive is a man’s confidence combined with some compassion. Because women receive A LOT of unwanted attention that more often than not makes us feel afraid, whenever we come across a man that is confident in himself (and isn’t outwardly desperate to get laid) …	/r/ExRedPill	07/12/22 04:26 PM
12	Found out my (f23) bf (m26) was into red pill I had a bf who would always argue the counterpoint. It doesn’t get better. Like you, I thought he just wanted me to see both sides, but years later, it became clear to me that he always argued the counterpoint because he didn’t respect my thoughts or feelings on anything. He would always dismiss or deflect what I had to say, and it was incredibly invalidating. It eventually got to the point that he flat out told me we wouldn’t have issues if I just agreed with him on everything and was more subm…	/r/ExRedPill	30/11/22 06:57 PM
4	I see a lot of hurt men here who were left over their participation in toxic versions of Red Pill and I can tell you with certainty, some of us still miss you deeply even though we had to leave. But you needed help we could not provide. Some of us were hoping you'd come back. 💔 I think you’re unintentionally excusing abuse. No amount of personal trauma and societal expectations justifies abusive actions like negging and bullying. Everyone is responsible for their own emotions, how they process them, and how they choose to act on them. Yes, societal gender norms suck and are often damaging for everyone, and we should practice a lot more acceptance. However, what differentiates abusive partners (both male and female) from non-abusive ones is how they CHOSE to act toward …	/r/ExRedPill	10/09/22 10:10 AM
1	Should men wait until their 30's ? Becoming a good partner takes a lot of practice, so avoiding dating and relationships until your 30s is a terrible idea. It is very much possible for a man in his 20s to be desirable to women, and it is very possible for a man over 30 with money and resources to be undesirable to women. There is a general misconception of the reason why women typically prefer older men who have money and resources. Some people believe it’s because of the prestige that age, money, and resources provide, and in my…	/r/ExRedPill	10/09/22 09:40 AM
16	Women have blown the idea of Men only wanting sex way out of proportion Women date men they are not only attracted to but also men they can connect with emotionally. If you aren’t emotionally available and can’t be vulnerable with the woman you want to date, she will likely reject you in favor of a man who is confident and secure enough in his masculinity to establish an emotional connection with her. To me, the least masculine thing in the world is a man who is so insecure in his masculinity that he refuses to acknowledge his own emotions or offer any empathy. My e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/21 09:12 PM

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