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| 2 | Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptableI'm not sure how that is stopping you from looking at the few sentences someone chooses to write about themself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 06:21 PM |
| 0 | Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptableI have been married 13 years, we met online, and we both showed mutual interest in each other. He messaged me first, but we both looked through each others profile and determined if we were compatable and looked for things to talk about with each other. I have messaged other men first, and I did the same thing. I looked at what they said on their profile to see what kind of person they were, and if I thought we might work, I used that information to talk to them. Saying yes/no based on a selfie … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 07:21 PM |
| -1 | Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptableIf showing interest in your potential mate is too much work maybe dating just isn't for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Do you genuinely expect your partner to lay down their life for you if push came to shove?Yes, and If it's in my ability, I will lay down my life for them also. If there's only one seat left on the life boat, we are dying together | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Female written romantic literature is insanely patriarchalI think they are referring to Kim krizan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 12:56 AM |
| 2 | The dating frustration that gives men the most hopelessness in the modern dating era is that the lack of "levers" he can pull to attract this "equivalent" in the modern dating eraNothing in your statement points to someone who is not fat. Does good health mean not fat to you? Because that's not clear to everyone. Most young people are in good health even if they are fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 02:00 AM |
| – | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADNo Ricky is way better looking. Shes very thin which might be hard to find in a trailer park so that raises her up some probably idk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 11:55 PM |
| 3 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThat's not who I would want to look like though. Not into fake freckles or the brushed up to look as bushy as possible eyebrows. Also protruding teeth are my least favorite feature on anyone. Honestly she's not even cute just has a tan and lots of makeup on. Shalom Harlow ftw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 03:32 PM |
| – | What women like can be summarized by three words: tall, dark and handsomeOk first of all. The cruel prince and twilight aren't smut. Second of all, those are some examples but not the only examples. Two of my favorite series rn are the Emily wilde series by Heather fawcett and the scholomance series by Naomi Novak. And both have super sweet, "golden retriever" energy. As for being handsome, well sure, the girls are attractive too. I can't really speak on the tall thing. I'm 5'10.5" and yeah I like guys my height or taller. Sue me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 02:48 PM |
| 1 | What is your MBTI type? - and other mbti nerderyI'm an infp. I can't figure out what my husband is. Everytime he takes a test he acts all confused by the questions and acts like none of them apply to him and can't see the nuance or generalization in it. Anyone know what type that might be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 04:55 PM |
| 15 | Father’s Age and Fitness Linked to Placental Health and Pregnancy RisksWhen men are waiting until their 30's or 40's to get married because they are planning on getting with a much younger woman anyways, they are absolutely deciding when their babies are going to be born. I'm tired of hearing that woman hit the wall at 25 and men peak in their 40's when it's clearly not true, and waiting until an advanced age to have children is damaging to the child whether you are the male or female | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 04:50 PM |
| 15 | Men are not attracted to young women because they are "naive and easy to manipulate" but mainly because they are thinner and have nicer skin. If you are a woman and you take care of yourself, you can post-pone "hitting the wall" and remain attractive even into your early 40s.So it's ok for you to say the 19 y/o is uninteresting but if she agrees and says the men who chase them are also uninteresting, that's an insult? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 06:26 PM |
| – | "Choose better" - What warning signs does Redpill think there are for abusive men?You do realize women like Luigi because they think he's good right? To put him in the same category as Ted bundy and Hitler is nuts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Men that tell women to “just choose better”, how do you feel about the exodus of women in the dating market?This is super confusing to me. Where I live, all the alt people with colored hair and tattoos are straight. Or at least mostly date men. There are also a ton of lesbians where I live. They all look like mom types with natural hair and no/minimal tats | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 05:35 PM |
| 1 | women don't like men dating within their social circlesWell yeah no one wants to date their friends ex or someone their friend slept with. I didn't even know that's what this was about. Why is this a problem to you guys. You want women who would do that to their friend? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 05:29 PM |
| 1 | women don't like men dating within their social circlesSorry what is the problem here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 05:25 PM |
| 0 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI think most women admit they care about height. The difference is that the guys on here seem to think we want someone as tall as possible, at the expense of all other attributes. that's just not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 04:29 PM |
| -1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWhat? Have you seen a movie or sitcom before? Let me refresh your memory https://images.app.goo.gl/sEECwnrqwG1oC3Bx5 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Why is Pregnancy Talked About Like It Should Be A Punishment for Women Who Had Sex?That just not true. I got pregnant on the pill. Second baby was intentional. Now I'm pregnant for the 3rd time and I have a hormonal iud in... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 04:51 PM |
| 4 | My take on how society has failed men and has contributed to extreme red pill ideology.Well your friends are offering support because it is easy for them. They don't really have to do much but say some kind words right? These women are running away because they don't want to be stuck as the maid/nurse. I mean that's way more responsibility. You expect way more from a partner than a friend right? It's really not comparable and you shouldn't be using this as an example as to why women suck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 04:31 PM |
| – | How should child support work?So you want to rip two week old babies out of the arms of their postpartum mothers? Do you have any idea what you are saying? That will destroy society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 05:08 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThat's not true. Hourglass is considered a rarer body type. The most common shape is actually rectangle i.e. straight up and down, not very curvy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 06:39 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWell I have been overweight my whole life. So I never knew that good treatment by others was even an option. It hurts deeply, when even your own family treats you better. I feel like I don't have very good social skills, because the way that people have reacted to me and treated me my whole life has been negative. So yeah I feel bitter to realize that I'm not actually a bad person, everyone just didn't like me mostly because of my appearance. And that my growth in life has been stunted by that. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 05:53 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAw good for him. I bet hes pretty interesting to talk to. As far as looks go, I give him a 3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 05:28 PM |
| 5 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADDoes anyone read the bios of people who are very unattractive to them? I would think not... I look at the picture and if they are cute I read the bio. If the bio is fine or better I match. If we obviously aren't looking for the same thing, or it's clear our personalities and how we like to spend time are different, i pass. Is that not how everyone does it? Why would I spend time reading about people I don't want?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 05:25 PM |
| 33 | When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys AlreadyI don't understand why redpill men are encouraged to "spin plates" but if a woman has any other option but you, she's bad?? Ok for me but not for thee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 05:21 PM |
| 8 | Perhaps women no longer being attractive to men as they get older is a good thing.First of all, when these people say "the wall" they usually mean 30 or 35, not 50+ That's what is upsetting to me and most of us. Because most 30 year olds are still very young and hot. I am 29 and I am way hotter than I was 10 years ago. Way more fit, better hair, perfect skin, can afford nice flattering clothes etc. It just sounds utterly ridiculous to me that next year I will hit some imaginary wall and be unattractive to most men. It's complete and utter negging. 50+ and the wall being tied … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 05:10 PM |
| 3 | The Man You You Want vs The Men You Are Attracted ToHe looks about 25-28 to me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 06:15 PM |
| – | Whats your opinion on what men think the female gaze is?I'm 29 and I've felt randomly horny (Like not when kissing/about to have sex) TWICE in my entire life. When the redpillers start shouting about how women are soooo wet for random bad boy Chad's but not in their own relationship, it is the most ridiculous thing I've ever fucking heard. I do not lust after strangers. I do not feel horny for anyone but my partner. I love sex so don't get it twisted!! I just do not feel horny or feel lust randomly like men apparently do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 07:03 PM |
| – | Whats your opinion on what men think the female gaze is?I've never heard of 365 days... I've read all the 50 shades of grey books mainly bc my mom had them laying around. They were kinda boring though. didn't really do anything for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 06:53 PM |
| 5 | Which Type of Partner Do You preferI love how you view a woman occasionally voicing a different opinion than her partner and eventually the couple coming to a compromise as the woman giving orders. That's hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 08:24 PM |
| 12 | Would you rather marry a guy 20+ years your senior or remain single and childless for life?I am married to a man 14 years older than me. If I were looking for a new partner, I would set my limit to max 10 years older. The fear and sadness of him dying first and me being sad and lonely for 20+ years,and eventually dieing alone is a lot. Too much. I won't do it again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 05:20 PM |
| 5 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADYou are using the term absent minded completely wrong here lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 05:01 PM |
| 5 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADBeing pregnant will 100% shift weight around and will even widen the skeleton | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive.It's cringe to wear heels if you're tall? That's a weird take | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Society cannot make any given individual attracted to another individual enough to create more long lasting relationships. It’s all down to you to become attractive.Ok but what if they are dating tall women? Its going to be real embarrassing if he said he was 6' and shows up to the date and is actually shorter than her. I also don't like liars and it would definitely be a red flag if a guy is lying about stupid stuff just to make himself sound better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Why social media and dating apps have destroyed dating for average men and wreck the mental health of average womenDid you not like them back? You ever think about just liking the girls you actually might date?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Why social media and dating apps have destroyed dating for average men and wreck the mental health of average womenI got 17%. But yeah it's women who are delusional... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Women are inherently predispositioned to utilizing men in a uni-directional transactional nature in female to male friendships - and this is the reason why most male to female friendships do not have implied loyalty - a hallmark of male to male friendships.Well I wouldn't consider giving my friend advice a favor that needs repaying. Like to women that's just talking its not a favor that you talked to us lol. Also I wonder if they are being a bit rude in person bc they think you want to get with them and they are trying to make it clear they aren't interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 08:15 PM |
| – | Cheating is better than pornography.Because it's morally wrong? Looking someone in the eyes, making a vow in front of everyone you know that you won't cheat and then going behind their back and cheating bc you need constant sex and attention is straight up evil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 08:56 PM |
| – | Modern feminism and online dating have destroyed dating; absolutely nothing to do with TRP, which is simply an acknowledgment of reality.What? Yall complain about social loneliness all the time. What about all that "women have large social networks and support systems that men just don't have" ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 06:21 PM |
| 1 | How socially privileged are you?I got a 4 yay... it can be hard for women too you guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 06:18 PM |
| 1 | I need a trad husbandMen say they would be ok with this, but the reality is within 6 months they will sitting in a dirty ass nasty house, throwing prepackaged snacks at the kids, and have put on 30 pounds. Also likely about to start an affair bc they are so bored and dont get any adult interaction. They say they would want to do it, but it's not about wants, it's about ability and I don't think 99% of men can hack it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 06:17 PM |
| 22 | Why don't you approach men?I have approached 3 guys and every time they were weird and rude about it. I have never been approached myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 05:55 PM |
| -4 | The bar is in hell for womenI love how a man who isn't fat and bald and doesn't have kids is top 10% to you. But y'all wanting a woman who isn't fat or a single mom is "the bare minimum" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Many women and men on this sub are willfully ignorant about male genital mutilationHave you ever been in the room while a baby is being circumcised? I think if you had you would not be saying these things. It doesn't matter that it's In a "medical setting". They strap that baby down to a board and cut part of his penis off while he screams bloody murder. It bleeds and bleeds and their little diaper is bloody. No bandages. Imagine being 2 days old and piss and shit is getting Into the open wound that your parents wanted so that your penis could be "cuter". As if you weren't alr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 05:36 PM |
| 4 | Many women and men on this sub are willfully ignorant about male genital mutilationFr. Plenty of women who have had fgm still have "functional" vaginas. Still able to have sex and make babies. It just doesn't feel nearly as good. Hmm kind of like being circumcised. Can we just stop cutting parts of people's genitals off? That'd be great thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 05:24 PM |
| 4 | Many women and men on this sub are willfully ignorant about male genital mutilationI think it's horrible. This is actualy something i feel very strongly about. I will 1000% stand behind you. But you men need to lead the way. It is not all on women to fight for you. My husband actually wanted to circumcise our babies and I said absolutely not. Dealbreaker. He was like damn well if you feel that strongly about it i guess not... I'm doing my part by not circumcising my children, encouraging my friends to do the same, and if I hear about a protest in my area I will be there. What … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Status is everything for menWow the fact that you think housewives don't contribute is really something.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 06:43 PM |
| 1 | You're wasting your time chasing party girlsHow does this ex partier man slut even have tons of money for his ex to take? That doesn't add up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 06:30 PM |
| 5 | You're wasting your time chasing party girlsIt's not about being able to find commitment from someone else. It's about if they will be able to commit themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 06:25 PM |
| 11 | Women should be more nice to men or else men will democratically vote away their rights.Did you really just encourage women to bend over and take it because it will hurt less??? Please think about what you are saying. I would never ever encourage a man to let himself be raped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Women shouldn’t complain about the current dating/relationship/sexual landscape when this is everything they wantedAre you serious? What would you call it besides slavery? How would you feel if you basically weren't a person? If you got sold to some man and had to fuck him every night and bare his children and clean his home and you have no other choice. No where to run to. You aren't even allowed outside alone. Oh and he has every right to beat the shit out of you if you don't comply. But yeah so different from slavery... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 04:24 PM |
| 4 | Its not that women give bad advice. Its that men arent honest about what they really want.So.. she should settle for this guy even though he sucks in bed? I thought you guys, above all else, hated the thought of being "settled" for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 05:54 PM |
| 1 | How does a man’s lifestyle affect his attraction level.Definitely Jensen. Tall and rich af. Im introverted and need lots of alone time too, Adam sounds like too much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 06:33 PM |
| 16 | The Orgasm Gap Is Mainly About Biology and The Rest is Entirely Women's Own FaultAlso your whole spiel about multiple orgasms leading to one huge one is just wrong. I can have 10-20 orgasms, and they get weaker and weaker until my vag goes numb. There's no building up to a giant orgasm. I have had a crazy big, 5+minutes screaming orgasm via oral sex but it was the first one. And after that everything was really sensitive and I wanted to be done (usually want multiple, am insatiable) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 05:34 PM |
| 33 | The Orgasm Gap Is Mainly About Biology and The Rest is Entirely Women's Own FaultI don't understand this post What exactly is your argument here? That women don't know how to have an orgasm ourselves so it's not mens fault they can't make us cum either? I can go from not being turned on AT ALL to having an orgasm in less than a minute using just my hand. If a guy can't make me cum in 15-20 minutes then yes it is mostly his fault. And no I'm not "fine" having sex without having orgasms. His feelings of "lust" towards me mean jack shit when I am left sexually frustrated and fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 05:29 PM |
| 4 | The Orgasm Gap Is Mainly About Biology and The Rest is Entirely Women's Own FaultMost women do not cum from having their nipples sucked on. My nipples have almost no feeling. There's no way it would ever lead to an orgasm. And anal? I guess some women like it but I wouldn't say that's a reliable way to cum either. And to me clit stimulation and piv are one and the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Do you know any younger, never-married single mothers? If so, how is their dating life?Well not never married. But I do know someone who is 29 and has 3 kids from 3 different dads and has been married and divorced 4 times. 2 of the kids she was married to the dad. One was a one night stand. And 2 guys she was married to but didn't have a baby. She's a "makeup artist" but I think she mostly lives on welfare and child support. She doesn't have a problem getting guys (although not high quality ones). They just don't stick around even if she gets them to marry her lol. I don't think a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 05:05 PM |
| 5 | Anal and blowjob only way man can be safe in abortion situations.So does taking it up the ass. Ever heard of anal prolapse? Women are way more at risk than men. You won't use birth control because of "risks" but the risk of my organs falling out of my body isn't a concern. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 05:37 PM |
| 11 | Trauma-Bonding is the most effective means of keeping a women's emotional investment in you99% of women are not dating 5% of men holy crap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 03:28 PM |
| 0 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADreally? she's kind of a butterface to me. Definitely has a blonde halo going on. she's still cute don't get me wrong. But ideal s tier is a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 05:56 PM |
| 8 | Truth being friends with lots of girls may also be a negative. Especially if none of them are attracted to you.Ever heard of the term "trophy wife"? Yet you hardly ever hear of a trophy husband... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 04:40 PM |
| 0 | You're on a date & everything is going well, then they tell you they were falsely accused in the past...Ok so this kinda happened to me. It wasn't the first date, but early in our dating my partner told me that a few years ago he was accused by his friend A of raping her other friend. Basically, he had been friends with this girl A for a while. And they were all going to the club or a rave and she brought her other friend. And my partner took her home that night. Then a few days later, his friend A is telling everyone in the friend group that he raped this other girl. He called the girl and asked … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Women, what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of men? Would it be easier if you were a man?I thought I was being like a baby about my menstrual cramps. Until I gave birth. Yep turns out my monthly cramps feel just like being dialted to a 6! And I actually have a high pain tolerance and am in no way a whiny baby like others led me to believe.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: When/How to approachMen have killed women with their bare hands for rejecting them. Is that a concern for you? Men have to worry about being embarrassed. Women have to worry about getting raped and killed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 04:29 PM |
| 8 | Pro Porn Rant Part 2: Addressing 2 of three main radfem arguements.Hahaha I never thought of that take before. They are watching the alphas on screen fucking the women while they are beta cucking themselves. And then cumming to this situation Basically brainwashing themselves that they should be on the sidelines while the alphas get to fuck. Crazy. I would imagine that would lead to some very low self esteem.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 03:19 PM |
| 1 | How women train men to be angry (Dr. Orion Taraban)Never even heard this stereotype while the reverse is extremely common | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 03:09 PM |
| 1 | The most recent season of “The Bachelorette” is a perfect example of why “women should just pick better men” is terrible adviceAre you serious rn. He's not cute. She's way better looking. I haven't seen the show so I can't comment on personality/status/money... but this guy is not attractive https://images.app.goo.gl/kene8Jhz7fDwvqzMA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:33 PM |
| -5 | Dating apps are hard for womenThe thing about that, is that you have no way of knowing that those are decent guys who want a relationship. I'm not sure why all the men on here acting like it's just a given that they are stand up guys. Most of them are lying. That's what womens dating is. Getting overloaded with matches and interest and knowing that like 90% of them are lying to our faces about their intentions and who they are and manipulating us to get us into bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 08:13 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Having no friends is NOT a red flag, especially in the modern dayI think you are looking at the 1990 stat. It says nearly a quarter for those without a degree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 07:33 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADBro why are you so obsessed with 19-21 bmi. Like you cannot mention a girl without mentioning her bmi. Also, do you have other accounts on reddit that you are using to spread the word about the 19-21 bmi?? Because the past couple days I have seen multiple other accounts singing the praises of 19-21 bmi girls. Not just this sub but like random subs that have nothing to do with rp. Are they you? Do you have bots working for you? Is it is some kind of club??? Also why so skinny?? I think a fit 22-2… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe shit tests are real?That's literally considered a shit test. Look up common shit tests. That will be on there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 05:25 PM |
| 3 | if women date up, men do tooIf that were true, then all the women 100 years ago (or whatever, before everyone was fat) would have all been total babes. They weren't. There were still hot women and plain women and ugly women. I'm really tired of men saying that all you have to do to be attractive is just be thin. It's simply not true. Just because a women weighs 100 pounds doesn't mean she is a 10 and can snag whoever. Also men like fit gym bunny type women too? An athletic woman with that built up bubble booty is 100% goin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 05:44 PM |
| – | What’s the point of telling women they’re expired?What do you mean by "paying full retail"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 06:08 PM |
| 6 | What would you describe as a man repellent outfit, hair or makeup look?Ok but that just seems to be the style now? My last pair is 15+ years old, I was shocked when I could not find a new pair that doesn't take up half my face. I felt like a clown. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 08:08 PM |
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