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Women on the other hand, have never, in their evolutionary history, had to size up a man during a potential life or death conflict' in a time where serious injury could mean death. You can't just make stuff up and act like it's science.
/r/MensRights07/03/16 04:28 PM
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It is. I just forgot it cause I don't think about it that much, so it seemed new to me for a minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/16 03:04 PM
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Women who are high maintenance, demanding etc 99% of the time are good looking. Actually women who are high maintenance usually are not naturally more attractive. (looking for source) But I think you're on to something with the correlation between high maintenance and being demanding and general cuntiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 10:58 PM
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No, different movie. Old Boy is a remake of a classic Korean film.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 05:41 PM
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Women who have children older have smarter children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 07:35 PM
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Try checking out /r/MensLib. It's one of the only subs that seems to care about mens rights and true gender equality.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/15 05:47 PM
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Or it would be the guy who showers the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 05:06 PM
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Value implies respect
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/15 09:50 PM
1

I think that lashing out at someone you just met for not wanting to spend time with you is not justifiable anger. Random spewing of anger is probably the biggest turn off and a very dangerous sign to most women. And if you're putting all the anger of your back story on a some woman you just met at a bar, you're not handling it right and you're no longer a nice guy. Most 'nice' guys are just shy. Doesn't actually mean they are better people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/15 02:42 PM
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In my experience most men are less angry as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/15 02:17 AM
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I know some are, and I think that they are missing out. Hence I think coddling them is a disservice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 09:34 PM
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I dunno, is it really bad for the girl though? If you can get idiot thirsty betas to do all your work for you, throughout your whole life, then that's smart. She can't do it for her whole life and you know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 08:38 PM
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I forgot how weird high school was.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 08:24 PM
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I call that mentality "homoemotionality." Red pill is totally homoemotional. It is normal and healthy in our society to be like this in high school. The relative youth of rp is probably a large part of why so many of redpillers think this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 08:20 PM
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Now that you paint it, I remember seeing this type of thing occasionally. It's bad for all parties involved. If she is smart enough to be there, she needs to do her own work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 08:13 PM
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The trope of the shitty dude pretending to be a nice guy to score with a woman is precisely the feminist tactic I'm speaking of. It's not a tactic. It was an honest to god realization for a lot of women. Maybe what really needs to be reconciled is nice dudes realizing that they are a little shitty. When being hit on, I have seen men do such a complete 180 in terms of how they treated me after I rejected them. You can't just deny that. Millions of women experience it everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 07:40 PM
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Stop doing their homework. What? Never do anyone else's homework, unless you are getting paid. You shouldn't need red pill to know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/15 07:27 PM
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Being educated =/= being in poor shape Yeah educated people tend to be in better shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/15 05:55 PM
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Basically, I lack empathy and fuck you. This is so off. Did we even read the same comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 09:47 PM
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I don't know if there is any connection between red pill and porn addiction. But the less savory members of red pill scream narcissism. Relevant link. Narcissistic Men Typically Direct Their Rage at Straight Women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/15 10:45 PM
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I read somewhere a while back that rape fantasies were connected to shame. When the author, who was raised in a strict catholic household was 15 she wanted to be raped because she wanted to have sex so badly but didn't want to get in trouble for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 08:24 PM
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Powerful people have powerful friends. They form connections and partnerships and get shit done. They also are unlikely to have bosses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 07:48 PM
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"Power couples" means two masculine (one with a penis one with a vagina) people trying to assert dominance This is not at all what it means. It means two people working together to carve a place in the world where they have power. Couples that help build each others careers and presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 03:31 PM
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Empathy and pedestalizes are opposites.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 11:12 PM
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Power couples are a thing now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 10:56 PM
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Young people are narcissistic and selfish. Always have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 06:43 PM
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Talking to your partner is actually a really good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 06:22 PM
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Scientific studies are fact though. Scientific studies are not facts. They are a method of obtaining facts. And for them to work they need to be replicated and reviewed. The media is awful at distinguishing studies by their likely validity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 10:08 PM
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Then why start the bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/15 02:45 AM
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Initially and emotionally, absolutely yes. That is why I always pretend everyone is gay. It is sometimes the only way I can look at a situation without bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 03:45 AM
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I didn't post that article. I am not conflating 'how' and 'why'. The difference between 'how' and 'why' was my point. If the man is simply a catalyst, he is not a biological father at all. If biological fathers are not believed to exist, they are not expected to care for their children in the same way at all. The misunderstanding of reproductive details iterates through all aspects for kinship and gender in a society. Raising children throughout most of human prehistory was a communal endeavor. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 09:29 PM
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So there is an article about it. But I wouldn't consider part of the feminine imperative considering that it is most women don't want to do this at all. Perhaps it is just in the way you are conveying the information.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 09:16 PM
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True, but no one likes that in a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 07:59 PM
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How would you define femininity? yielding, nuturing, enduring, blithe Is vulnerability an aspect of it? Maternal sentiment? yes and yes but there are other sides to these coins. Do you consider yourself feminine? My walk and mannerisms are usually very feminine, but i tend not to put in much effort to fem myself up with clothes, makeup and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 07:56 PM
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and telling all women to fuck as many guys as they can in their late teens and 20s in order to "find themselves." I don't think this is a thing in real life. It's from "Cruel Intentions. "
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 07:29 PM
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Yeah, but he acted like an idiot. Sophisticated people have knowledge and understanding and choose accordingly. Sophisticated tastes doesn't mean fancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 11:15 PM
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And you o' wise one can see all. You see beyond and read between the lines. You are truly the specialest special snowflake. If I were smarter I would find this sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 11:07 PM
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Ayn Rand fans make bad boyfriends, so you're right about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 10:58 PM
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Touching their spine lightly, either the back of the neck or the lower back.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 10:57 PM
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I thought #gamergate was just about a bad game made by a women who slept her way to good reviews. I don't really see how this is related. Are referring to Anita Sarkeesian and her dissecting of video games???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 10:50 PM
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Neither
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 10:24 PM
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I think that the woman would be seen as weak too, it is just that men are less likely to find weak women unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 10:18 PM
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Crying is such a turn off Depends why he is crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 10:15 PM
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there is some relationship between copulation and childbirth since Homo sapiens first exhibited greater cognitive development, sometime between the emergence of our species 200,000 years ago... This may not imply what you think it does. The ancient Greeks believed women to be vessels in the sense that the child was not half theirs. They were thought to be more like the dirt a seed is planted in. Earlier humans may have understood that sex and children are linked without fully understanding pater…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 10:05 PM
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You are assuming that men provided for their own children throughout most of human evolution. We have no way of knowing that this is how humans lived when they were evolving to be more like us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 09:57 PM
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Also men have definitely been aware of the connection between sex and childbirth for quite some time. How long is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 09:54 PM
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Men don't show this preference at all towards women. Not true. Men want what other men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 09:50 PM
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This is total and utter bullshit. You can never have any inkling into another's experience without attempting to put yourself in their shoes. Empathy is not about giving it to who deserves it, it's about understanding. Without empathizing you can't have any real grasp on "who has it harder." You are basically admitting your own ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 09:46 PM
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You don't see a lot of guys running around trying to be a shoulder for strange women to cry on. unless they think it will lead to sex. classic "nice guy"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 09:36 PM
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Studies with children would demonstrate the opposite. Girls like stories with either girl or boy heroes. Boys tend not to like stories with girl heroes. Research complete.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 09:33 PM
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With feminists there is literally no room for non-feminism. Else you're sexist women-hating manscum. But not really. Red pill is nuanced, but all feminists are the same??? Many red pill men on here explicitly state that they refuse to empathize with women, and sure some feminists are the reverse of this. Obviously refusal to think about how your partner feels in bad for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 06:26 PM
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This is exactly how I feel about most of red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 04:53 AM
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It is true statistically, but is not a valid way to assess individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 06:26 PM
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I understand and do not dispute the bell curve, but it is not the only scientific source for understanding the differences between men and women out there. For fucks sake it's a simple two dimensional representation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 03:33 AM
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whoosh whoosh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 08:06 PM
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I think it just creates more misunderstandings. If one has the capacity to understand another it is good to do so. Even if you think it is unfair because they are offered more empathy. But emotionally, I see how this can be a drain at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 08:00 PM
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So part of what AWALT is doing is acknowledging women's sexuality as its own drive, thus attributing agency to women. I can see how if your previous view of women was an idealized one, that this would be a huge improvement in understanding. It almost sounds progressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 07:55 PM
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Yeah that is a pretty common topic in feminism. I think even Madonna addresses it. Masculine > Feminine is people's minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 07:39 PM
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Men and women are the same species though. Your metaphor is weak at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 07:34 PM
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I don't think people are blank slates at all, but there is more variance within the sexes than between. Recent scientific research points to the biological underpinnings of gender being a spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 07:33 PM
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I believe men find women the most physically attractive at 19 and 20. Women are at their most attractive when they are young, otherwise known as highest "Sexual Market Value" or SMV for short. This is true for sex but not necessarily for marriage. Men who make six figures tend to prefer not to be the only bread winner. At least that is how it is here in the city. Marrying the right person is important for your career.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 01:19 AM
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The odds are affected by your socio-economic background and education levels. For some it is expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 01:10 AM
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That song isn't saying guys should like her because she is fat, it is saying that they DO like her for her full bottom. Not the same thing. Granted the song is the jam of a lot of obese women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/15 08:06 PM
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They spent their whole lives thinking that there's someone out there who'll love them just the way they are. I don't know where they grew up to learn this bs. Even if movies say things like this, they sure as hell don't show it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/15 08:02 PM
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Well makeup can do wonders and it is off limits to most straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/15 07:59 PM
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I don't mind being gravy. It's the best part of any meal!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/15 07:42 PM
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If a man is smart he can hide the fact he's RP. If a man is a liar he can hide the fact he's RP. fify
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/15 07:41 PM
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Me too, but I treated everyone, especially men like shit until I was 25. I thought that they wouldn't like me if I was nice I guess, plus I was selfish and just could.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/15 07:37 PM
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Because there is a market place for LTRs as well I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/15 07:24 PM
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A man's fertility absolutely matters to me for an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/15 07:21 PM
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Just because studies say some shit doesn't mean that there is no other way for a man to be. I wasn't being illogical. I just wasn't conforming to your paradigm. We are starting off with different assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/15 07:14 PM
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I've questioned everything and everyone Including yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 05:56 PM
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And there are happily married couples where the woman finally went on a date with that guy she never liked "like that" because she was frustrated and out of options That is what I was talking about. You assume I am thinking things I am not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 05:40 PM
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Women related to it the way dudes relate to Will Ferrell. Really, what was disturbing about it? More disturbing than killing hookers?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 05:46 AM
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Joss Whedon
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 05:42 AM
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I disagree. Songs and plays are meant to be adapted again and again. Why is film not supposed to be part of this tradition?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 05:40 AM
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And we hope you will understand the limits of generalizations as they are often a 60 40 split.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 05:21 AM
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It crystallizes my arguments. And it preps me to not just punch a dude in the face when he says stupid shit when I'm out. Must prepare for all possibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 05:20 AM
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I know happily married couples that started off that way. Sexual attraction is more than what you assume it to be. Actually everything is more than we assume it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 05:04 AM
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Well it just seemed like you were talking about personal responsibility and then projecting outward. Maybe I misread.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 04:53 AM
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Being good looking and interesting are not mutually exclusive I know. But attractive people tend to coast on their looks. I've known some beautiful people who didn't realize they were boring because people would listen intently to them so that they could have sex or just look at them. If interesting is what is important to you, you could find that, but it doesn't seem to be a priority for you. Maybe you aren't sexually attracted to interesting women, and you prioritize sex over companionship. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 12:17 AM
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Really it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/15 11:59 PM
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It's great until you start growing donkey ears
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/15 11:58 PM
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Women don't care at all about a man's job or salary until she is 25, or is it until he is 25. One of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/15 11:57 PM
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If you want an interesting girl stop caring so much about looks. Look inward, check yourself and maybe you will meet an interesting girl. But is that what you really really want? Either way please stop bitching about boring girls being boring. We all know they are boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/15 11:53 PM
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Partly yes. I also think that many women are willing to date a fairly large spectrum of body types. Personally, I think the most important things are those that determine the over all shape. Such as: their hips are more narrow than their shoulders their shoulders don't slope too much not being obese or scawny ...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/15 10:01 PM
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There are different ways to be alpha. And like buartha said it is often related to class. I find the alphaness of jacked guys to be a big turn off, as far as I can see they have nothing to offer. And I hate the personality changes in men who use outside sources of testosterone. The women who hook up with these men are the Jersey Shore types, many find them hot, many don't. I feel like ppd often forget subtle cultural cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/15 09:53 PM
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Women actually are more mutable. They have preferences but their sexuality is more adaptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/15 09:43 PM
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Old fashioned marriage where the father is literally giving the woman to her husband is what seems similar to me. Especially in rich households where the wife wouldn't cook or clean so basically she got taken care of for sex and fidelity. I guess it boils down to if the woman is a commodity or not. Most marriage in modern America don't bear much resemblance. Common law marriage was to protect the woman in the olden days and should probably be done away with as insurance companies sometimes use i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/15 07:07 PM
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So if a women is not attracted to jocks she thinks she is a "special snowflake?"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 09:22 PM
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Marriage always seemed so similar to prostitution to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 07:32 PM
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Wow. So you really think she was asking for it huh? No point arguing with this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 07:28 PM
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Maybe all the rapists had tiny dicks. Also where did you read the information that she was not sore? Also you don't seem to understand vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 07:22 PM
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He has blow job lips and his eyes are too close. I just needed to get that out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 07:15 PM
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I consider it more a kin to a serial killer keeping trophies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/15 07:14 PM
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I'm talking about actual frequency of sex, which is often included in prenups.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/15 07:57 PM
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Unless sex is literally written into the marriage contract this is a bad metaphor. If it is that important to you, include it in the prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/15 02:47 AM
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Also 1 in 200 men alive today are descended from Genghis Khan. Women too, but we can't test that because no Y chromosome.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/15 02:33 AM
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So with casual sex, the man is always more attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/15 02:29 AM
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I agree partially, but all this is still after people removed themselves from their "natural" state. Once history and the plow happen, we are cultural animals as much as natural. Polgyny seems natural (like 2-4 wives), but harems are about as natural as Wall Street. The most likely natural states for humans are either serial monogamy or fuck who you want as long as he/she is not too 'other.'
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/15 02:21 AM
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Women's sizes are stupid and don't mean anything. There are literally 9 different sizes in my closet and they all fit me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/15 01:44 AM
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I disagree. They stay in those relationships because they think it is what they deserve. They NEED that man, but they don't necessarily love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/15 01:42 AM
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Birds are not attracted to the new bill at all. It is just that birds with the new bill are the ones that don't die or are better able to feed their young. With modern society evolution is weird because we have essentially changed the nature of the death/survival parameter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/15 01:35 AM
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I don't mean that the man who came up with red pill was consciously drawing on agricultural social structures, but rather that modern society is still steeped in said structures. Furthermore I was pointing out how irrelevant things like cuckcolding are if no one knows how babies are made or if a man helps provide for his sisters' children and not his own. Also, much of evolutionary pyschology is still arm chair 'science', and not rigorously tested peer reviewed science. Behavior is complex and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/15 01:23 AM
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Most of red pill theory is based on social constructs from the agricultural age. During preagricultural prehistory there were huge differences between one band or tribe and the next. Some didn't even have marriage, matrilineality was much more common, and during some of that paternity wasn't stressed at all or even understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/15 11:23 PM
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Just because it had evolutionary advantages, doesn't make it an evolutionary "trick."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/15 06:04 PM
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So we should kill unwanted babies after they are born like humans used to? Also, not relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 04:06 PM
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You can't just tell if the woman is into it? She should be obviously into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 04:05 PM
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I know it is almost worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/15 04:02 PM
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Some do. But that doesn't mean that they are not honestly creeped out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 08:32 PM
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All things being equal, if there are 3 women, one slut, one virgin, and one in between, I think that that last one has the most value.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/14 05:20 PM
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It's like how I don't feel bad for children ever because everyone else does. You're comment is honest about how you feel and I think it sums up everything wrong with the red pill. Grossly limited empathy is a mark of the ignorant and unimaginative. It sex the only thing that puts the blinders on your heart, or are there other sweeping statements you feel passionately about?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/14 05:41 AM
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They are comparable, but they are not tit for tat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/14 02:58 AM
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Empathy and pity are not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/14 06:52 PM
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Some female circumcision is the equivalent of cutting off the entire head of the penis. No one thinks that is okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 09:55 PM
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There is even a netflix 'documentary' about a man dealing with his small penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 09:46 PM
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She said the SAME EXACT THING.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 08:29 PM
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Well then, it is some other mean word of you to assume you know how ALL men feel about touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 07:12 PM
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She is not saying that women are less needy, but that women need a romantic partner less. He is also obviously just thinking emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 07:11 PM
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It's solipsistic for you to assume all men feel the way you do about touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 06:40 PM
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And he didn't understand hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 06:39 PM
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Civilization is doomed to fail. We can't keep growing. After that happens, what have men done? How is civilization and all the infrastructure actually helping anyone or anything? Who the fuck are we even trying to help? Why am I in this rabbit hole?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/14 06:36 PM
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Do you want to go through life alone, or do you want a traveling partner? Marriage is more about family than it is about sex. Sex is easy to get, family is special. When I'm old I want to have an old man around to cuddle with at night and maybe talk to a little during the day. Watching Star Trek reruns by oneself can get boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/14 08:49 PM
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I'm sorry, but I don't care what any studies say, if it hurts me to look at my husband's face, I am not going to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/14 08:41 PM
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Why are programming and engineering considered low status? Is it just because we assume they are going to be socially awkward, or is there another reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/14 06:18 PM
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Or like that Jenny Lewis song "It doesn't count because I don't care."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/14 12:06 AM
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Well If one can't tell that their husband is a wife beater, than their husband either never was or is no longer a wife beater.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/14 12:03 AM
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It could be many things. It is also possible that women with higher testosterone (implies higher sex drive) also have more masculine interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 08:16 PM
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Here But I agree about the ONLY has male friends though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 02:56 PM
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6) Pls don't have a million guy "friends." Have some solid girlfriends who are not party trash. "All my friends are guys" = AMFAG = huge red flag. Not arguing, but I just read an article that women with more male friends have more sex with their husbands/boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 03:57 AM
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Kind and Generous Responsible and Trustworthy Wise A face I like staring at, usually means high cheek bones and wide set eyes Has his own projects -- either work related or hobbies Polite and respectful, especially to servants and such Funny and thinks I'm funny Confident and encouraging Does not waddle (this cannot be stressed enough.) Is interested in the world and what it has to offer Realizes that there is always more to learn. Enjoys good food
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/14 03:48 AM
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The Pareto principle is very different than the way you are using it. It would mean that 20% of men get 80% of women, not that 20% of men get all and 80% of men get 0% as you are implying. It still boils back down to being mad that women put out for other men but not you. And for the okcupid study, it is important to note that many men would be considered ugly by many women, but attractive to some. There was more variance in the men women found attractive than vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/14 10:37 PM
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Where do you think this notion that being nice to a girl is a good way to woo her is from? Where did you learn it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/14 10:07 PM
3

Why do we need a word for "not celibate." I honestly don't get why you are trying to say when you use it. edit: okay I googled it. I know what it means now (involuntarily celibate). I still think it is a poorly constructed and confusing word.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/14 11:16 PM
1

It would be 'celibate,' incelibate is not a word.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/14 08:50 PM
6

Yes everyone deserves to be treated like a fucking person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/14 12:06 AM
6

Men have agency, so why is it wrong to cuckold them and lie about paternity? Because tricking people and being dishonest is wrong. That argument is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/14 12:03 AM
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Talking about how much money he makes or how smart he is. Smart people don't really talk about how smart they are. Ignoring other people's reactions to his behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/14 01:04 AM
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That's a way of dealing though, unless you never wanted that stuff anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 08:19 PM
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Women know that some men dislike it. That is part of the appeal, it limits the men who hit on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/14 08:15 PM
2

Debating religion is only interesting if you mostly agree, but are working out the finer points. People of vastly different faiths, or atheists debating creationists can get dull.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/14 08:10 PM
1

But still inaccurate. :p
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 12:05 AM
1

So you are saying that in this scenario that very high IQs would have a correlation with rationality, but that there would be no correlation between the two for IQs in other ranges? As if there were a rationality/IQ threshold that is very high?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 12:04 AM
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But all the stupid men would bring down the average of the men with high IQs. What are you not getting here? Also, more men have very high or very low IQs than women do, but most men are still average. I don't why this needs to be pointed out all the time. Have you looked at the graph?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 05:25 AM
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Most gathering was for root vegetables. Also rational minds pay attention to important details. You are being dismissive and have no facts in your argument. Since when were facts considered nitpicking?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/14 05:04 AM
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I think that is true of young people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 10:28 PM
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Some men would be more capable, but on average it would be about the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 10:22 PM
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Woman didn't stay back at camp. They gathered and stuff. Men can see moving objects better because of hunting, and women see colors better because of gathering. There are many sex differences due to this early division of labor, but I think that your conjecture is just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/14 10:21 PM
2

That causes false impressions through omission.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/14 01:45 PM
6

Most people do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 10:01 PM
4

Accuracy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 09:49 PM
2

Patriarchy is not needed in bands and tribes though. It is however a universal for agricultural societies, and agriculture is a prerequisite for civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 07:28 PM
1

Wut? We are obviously not communicating well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 09:13 PM
1

Fair enough, that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/14 01:03 AM
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I was just being silly. People don't live that long. No one thinks that any woman lived through thousands of years of oppression. He is challenging the identification people have with the struggles of their predecessors. BTW, to make another obvious statement, these oppressed women are everyones' ancestors.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/14 01:01 AM
0

Are you sure about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/14 05:33 AM
2

"their young men ...their country...their women" I see nothing offensive about it when looking at the whole comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/14 05:28 AM
1

So you don't want a woman who has had 6 different parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/14 09:33 PM
1

We don't live in an honor society. We live in a guilt society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/14 07:38 PM
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No I am an 120 year-old who weighs 8 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 06:16 PM
11

Why not? 8 , 34, 120
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 05:54 PM
2

No. But the system is not as simple as you make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 06:17 PM
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Because that is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/14 08:55 PM
1

Yes, my mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 09:27 PM
1

Dating is socialist. Everyone gets treated based on what the other person desires from them. I have sex with a man when I want to and he wants to. Edit:: Meant to say "Dating ISN't socialist."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 05:54 PM
0

Than what is the point of this at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 05:15 PM
2

There is truth to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/14 08:31 PM
1

I don't think they turn a blind eye, I think they just think that they are powerless in such cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/14 07:11 PM
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Men can rape men. A woman could drug a man and rape him. WTF are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/14 05:13 PM
3

Absenteeism is worse for the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/14 04:57 PM
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I remember when I was young, a few friends of mine became obsessed with polyamory. I was curious and socialized in their groups for a bit, but found most of the men to be sleazy or intimidating in some off-putting way. Peoples' sexual ideals reveal their weaknesses and not their strengths, and often blinds them to the reality of true power dynamics of a situation. I lost a lot of respect for some of my best friends during this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/14 07:58 PM
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I checked out her wiki. I think your paraphrasing loses a lot. To say there is one type of bonding is arbitrary. It all depends on how one is classifying. There are more ways to dissect things than by their chemical components.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/14 07:13 PM
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Women who were not rich have worked throughout most of history. If they were farmers wives, they farmed. They may have sold handiwork at the market. In the early 20th century many worked in factories sewing. The very idea of a single income home was originally for the rich and was made possible for middle and working class families during the economic boom of the 50's. As an ideal it is fine, but blaming feminism for the your current financial situation is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/14 10:07 PM
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You don't read what is written. You make your own stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/14 03:01 PM
2

Yes. Getting mad at someone for trimming their hair without permission is like getting mad at someone for shaving their legs, or trimming their nails without permission. It is part of taking care of oneself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/14 02:47 PM
0

Scorned by her lover.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/14 02:24 PM
1

The second link still works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/14 10:06 PM
2

Maybe, it is still conjecture for now. Obsession fits with the idea of pickiness. I couldn't find any statistics on it but apparently men are as likely to be stalked by men. Gender Studies of Stalkers And just for fun: I think we're alone now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/14 05:02 PM
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Acting a way because a system told you to, is not that different then acting a way because a person told you to. That system was, after all made by people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/14 04:31 PM
2

Or she is more likely to fake an orgasm because you won't be able to tell and there is no relationship to foster.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/14 09:04 PM
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Women in honor cultures get plenty of shame. It is considered shameful to even be a woman in some of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/14 08:55 PM
1

Honor cultures are shame cultures. If one has no honor (like an ant), how can one bring shame?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/14 08:51 PM
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"No one deserves sex" != "Group A doesn't deserve sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/14 07:09 PM
2

Gender war?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/14 07:01 PM
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But they do get a lot of stalkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/14 03:32 PM
1

There are two types of people: Those who dichotomize the world into two types of people, and those who do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/14 01:48 AM
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