Aris3048 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	No issue getting dates but physical escalation is a mystery for me I can help with lmr. If this ever happens here's what you say: "Okay. No problem. We don't have to do anything." And then don't do anything else. Balls in her court and now she's horny. You might not get laid that time, but you will next time.	/r/seduction	26/09/22 01:36 AM
1	You NEED to read Models Neediness in relationships is a problem every man experiences. Having a book explain that that one thing is the main thing holding people back from developing relationships isn't groundbreaking, but it's something almost everyone has experienced and might need a check on.	/r/seduction	26/09/22 01:33 AM
1	Escalation not responded Refused is easy, that's a no. No means move on. Ignored is different. If someone is ignoring physicality but not shutting you down they are either petrified of saying no and you really don't want that or they have severe hangups about sex because of past relationships or religion and could be interested but won't show it and you probably should still move on. Persistence could win the day, but do you really want someone who you have to wear down?	/r/seduction	26/09/22 01:26 AM
1	they said that asking a women for kiss is stupid but guess what it worked Could work. Probably won't. Everything works with someone some of the time. Sometimes being direct works, but it only works with a certain type of girl. It'll almost always work with that type, but there are many other girls that would be a hard rejection. I've straight just asked people to my place once there was nothing else to talk about and if you say it to someone whos already decided they want to fuck you then it works. If you're talking to someone that puts a special value on sexual shit,…	/r/seduction	26/09/22 01:18 AM
3	I've never been able to talk to girls and just started college and wanna know how I should talk to girls? Don't use that line ever. It won't work and you'll feel miserable. Talk to women like you talk to your male friend you've had for awhile. Interest and flirting comes naturally. There's no secret language for talking to women. Just talk and listen. If you groove with someone you'll know quickly. If you're a socially awkward weirdo chances are you wont be good at picking up chicks who like going out and partying and shit and that's fine. Find a socially awkward weird girl who you can talk to and p…	/r/seduction	26/09/22 01:09 AM
0	How can I take rejection graciously? Someone says no. You say okay cool. Then you eat a sandwich and never think about it again because if you didn't ask the default was also no. The only way to get any change is to ask for it. A rejection isn't a loss, it's a reset to baseline. Nothing changed so literally it doesn't matter.	/r/seduction	26/09/22 01:01 AM
4	“Hey do you wanna dance? No I’m with my friends” shittest A shit test isnt really real. We all do little interest tests with people were just starting to feel out to see if we're compatible. Now, the key there is just starting to feel out. You've got to already be engaged with the person. If you just walk up and some one says anything resembling the sentiment "fuck off" immediately don't be weird and just fuck off and try with someone whose actually into you	/r/seduction	22/09/22 11:43 PM
13	Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high value Seduction is just building relationships. Building a relationship is as simple as being honest with who you're talking to and yourself. Not everyone will want to be in a relationship with you, whatever that relationship is. Find the ones that do and sometimes you'll find someone who wants to fuck you after 10 minutes and sometimes you'll find someone you want to he with forever. You can't make anyone feel anything. Just do what you feel is right without trying to please another person and all th…	/r/seduction	22/09/22 11:40 PM
32	Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high value This sub is weird. Girls aren't hard. Listen to what they say, say what you feel like saying. don't become overinvested in a stranger, if you want something, fucking ask. If they say no, evaluate whether you want another friend if that's what they want. If no, fucking move on.	/r/seduction	22/09/22 11:32 PM
2	Some "high value" girl threw my approach in the trash. If this was 1850 this shit would be very romantic. In a modern context it's toxic and creepy and you should stop being a weirdo.	/r/seduction	22/09/22 11:27 PM
15	“Hey do you wanna dance? No I’m with my friends” shittest That's not a shit test, bro. She just told you to go away. Sometimes the answer is to be a normal ass person and listen when people don't want you around	/r/seduction	22/09/22 11:24 PM