ArkaStevey Archive

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0	Exhausted from Dating.. It’s okay man, this is me too. Six hours is a short amount of time, but I know that ‘feeling’ that changes when you suddenly get slower and slower responses. Getting ghosted is all i’ve really known for the past couple years or so. I think i’ve fully prevented myself from getting emotionally invested in any girl, because it would just result in the same thing. Example, I met a really cute girl who was very sweet to me in person. So many ioi’s. Sent her a chill, normal text the following day. not…	/r/seduction	24/05/24 12:18 AM
5	To all my shy guys “ If you want her to open up her legs, you’re going to have to open up your mouth “ Yeah I feel you. I think though that half the time, when you’re speaking with family and friends, you’re not talking necessarily only about things that you know they’re into but also things that you’re into or find interesting. It’s like I know my sister’s into anime and cosplaying, but that’s not the only thing I talk about with her, i’ll bring up anything, or just say some funny, dumb shit to make her laugh and bond with her. It should be the same with girls we like. Talking with girls about s…	/r/seduction	01/06/23 05:02 PM
12	To all my shy guys “ If you want her to open up her legs, you’re going to have to open up your mouth “ Think about how casually you speak with family members or friends and mirror that confidence with her. Mentally pretend she isn’t what you think she is and you’ll gradually dispel the mental barriers preventing you from talking to her and all girls without fear.	/r/seduction	31/05/23 01:09 PM
9	Unless you are in an established relationship with someone, there needs to be a degree of emotional detachment regarding a potential future with them Not OP but have had the same issues. There's really not much else you can do other than to take the hit and eventually you start to naturally adhere to the 'abundance' mindset. Start to consider your attention / desire as one of your most valuable resources. If you spend that attention pining too hard after one girl who isn't reciprocating, it's just a waste of that commodity and obviously comes across as too desperate. I've been rejected / in purgatory with the last 3 girls i've spoken with, ea…	/r/seduction	19/10/22 04:00 PM
1	I'm using my dog to hook up with girls No harm in that! Not like the dog's a mind control device hehe. I recently started going on pretty lengthy walks with my dog, who's pretty cute. Super shy though. I also haven't been laid in ages so I figured i'd try and kill two birds with one stone. I started approaching girls / groups of girls in the park during the walks. I'd ask them politely if they could help me out with my dog's shyness by giving her treats, to which most of them outright jump up giggling saying yes. I'd give them treats…	/r/seduction	28/09/22 03:20 PM
1	Anyone else get almost no results despites being attractive? Yessir. 6'4'' and decent looking. The vast majority of women I speak to either ghost me or take a long while to respond. Main thing I realised was I needed to improve my texting game. Look up Playing with Fire on YT and look at his texting breakdowns. Might seem redpilled at first, but he breaks down very logically what women respond to well over text. You'll realise quickly that ghostings arent personal.	/r/seduction	09/08/22 02:55 PM
3	A quick rant about Reddit’s views on cold approaches, and a word of encouragement It's a shame there's such a huge negative opinion towards cold approach online. I also made a post five years ago on AskWomen about this exact thing: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/6oouj7/women_do_you_like_it_when_guys_politely_approach/ It was startling to me that the overwhelming general consensus was a resounding 'No, leave me alone' with some outliers here and there who would find it somewhat charming. I thought it was going to be a more even, or at least quarter split. This seem…	/r/seduction	05/08/22 04:57 PM
3	Some of you guys have no idea how cool or nice some of these girls are that you see on the street who you are afraid to approach! i'm 6'4'' with a decent profile and gotten one match in the last week, lol.	/r/seduction	14/07/22 11:06 PM
3	Where do I meet women if I’m not into clubbing or dating apps? Any ideas where to find said interesting things lol? Are you referring to hobbies or just general events where people would meet.	/r/seduction	11/07/22 09:17 AM
6	Unpopular opinion: I would rather have honest closure than a vague easy let down Pretty much every girl i've spoken to in the past two years has ended up ghosting me by the end of it. I would really like to think i'm not the one causing it, always trying to be polite, courteous etc, but it doesn't really make a difference. At this point, it just feels like a part of my process to never fully trust anyone because they'll just end up ghosting me anyway. All those horror stories of guys who have been in 3+ year relationships just to get ghosted somehow at the end of it don't he…	/r/seduction	03/05/22 10:29 AM
1	Asking out a client - breach of boundaries? Appreciate that, just found it to be a slight dillemma because the job was coming to an end soon. But you're right that I wouldn't want it to be anywhere near my record.	/r/seduction	15/04/22 10:29 AM
1	Swallow this. Seems about right	/r/seduction	23/11/19 04:59 PM
1	Some approaching/conversation tips by Woujo Yeah. There are times where a joke could be more appropriate though you never know. Nontheless, good list man!	/r/seduction	02/05/16 11:18 PM
2	Some approaching/conversation tips by Woujo It seems to me that this piece of advice with 'sex traps' is somewhat contradictory to your other advice. You emphasise being as masculine as possible, including not dicking around by doing 'booty dances' and things like that, yet here if a girl was to say 'I want to fuck you.' or make some other kind of suggestive gesture, then you're supposed to take it as a joke? She might be trying to see how you react to her sexual advances, which I think would be much better received if you acted with conf…	/r/seduction	02/05/16 09:15 PM