Arkellian_Pilot Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Asian male in America I'm in Canada, but Asian men do very well with women here. Seen some Asian dudes out with absolute dimes of every variety.	/r/seduction	27/12/19 03:26 AM
3	I had an epiphany The issue is that it's easy to... delude yourself isn't quite the right word. You should probably acknowledge that you are capable of ignoring or devaluing things which shouldn't be ignored or devalued. For the life of me, I used to hate working out and the thought of gaining muscle. I didn't care at all. One day I started a push up regimen just for kicks and kept at it for months. My last LTR told me that my intellect and language skills were very attractive, but that she said yes to going on a…	/r/seduction	24/12/19 06:42 PM
10	Are you considered attractive in a one on one situation but not when you are in a group setting? I run and attend book clubs because I enjoy books and discussing them. I don't really care if beautiful and intelligent women show up (but they inevitably do, and in large numbers).	/r/seduction	21/12/19 09:14 PM
2	Are you considered attractive in a one on one situation but not when you are in a group setting? The comparison is difficult to make, because I also changed drastically in the intervening years. I will say my young adult group meshed a lot better with my personality. My high school friends were chiefly valued for being in a band and partying, but I myself never valued that, even if others did. As young adults, my new social group did NOT value being in a band and partying. It was also much larger and more cosmopolitan and varied than my high school one. If anything, there was more competiti…	/r/seduction	21/12/19 05:42 PM
17	Are you considered attractive in a one on one situation but not when you are in a group setting? good call	/r/seduction	21/12/19 04:45 PM
18	Date requirements for boys vs girls If your only standards of women are that they are good-looking, that's on you, man. I used to think like this, and it burned me enough times that I now have much higher expectations of the sort of women I'll date. Being cute and attractive is just enough to get your foot in the door for both genders, as far as I'm concerned.	/r/seduction	21/12/19 03:26 PM
–	Are you considered attractive in a one on one situation but not when you are in a group setting? It's the competition factor. If you feel threatened by other guys, and so don't have the same confidence around them, or if your lifestyle or status lacks in some way compared to them, the women will naturally find the other men more compelling. They're almost supposed to by nature. The two options are: 1) Improve your standing in the group. 2) Find another group in which you are more valued. Accomplishing the first has been talked to death. The second I learned from reading Models recently. Bas…	/r/seduction	21/12/19 03:04 PM
8	How are men that go out with female friends perceived? You just have to be careful not to be too content already having platonic female company when you're out and about. A few years ago, I had many, many female friends, because of the job I worked in. I was also figuring out my style and getting in shape. But I still wasn't confident enough to date assertively, so I often ended up just going out with girls whenever I got invited anywhere. Sometimes in mixed groups, sometimes just girls and I, other times just one on one. And for years I went withou…	/r/seduction	14/12/19 12:10 AM
11	In an article unsurprising to anyone, bullies get laid more. I think it's also often the case--at least it was for me--that often times the bullied kid doesn't have any one to turn to outside of school either. Someone who is bullied but has support at home may develop the courage to stand up for themselves after a time and do something about it. But if you're bullied in one context, and abused or neglected in another in some way (as I was by my emotionally disconnected and narcissistic parents), you'll have a difficult time feeling like there's a way out.…	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/19 01:30 AM
4	What's the difference between a date and a hangout? Start small, just like I am. Teasing and playful taps when joking. Hugs for greeting. Hand on the shoulder for a moment when getting up/returning to a table. Things like that. Those things are all simple and innocuous, and they're not "overt." Once you get that down and have a good rapport going with her (and you're confident that she's comfortable--and you'll be able to tell), you can start escalating a little bit. Guys get scared of going to jail because they think they have to go from zero to…	/r/seduction	10/12/19 01:05 PM
4	What's the difference between a date and a hangout? What are you doing?	/r/seduction	10/12/19 12:51 PM
–	What's the difference between a date and a hangout? How much are you initiating physical contact? Also, it sounds like it has more to do with the kinds of dates you're planning. Generally, later in the day is better. Cafes and lunch time are super casual or businessy. It's not that it can't be done, but if you're not good at other aspects of dates and dating, it can tilt things towards platonic real fast. If you do wanna go on dates during the day, make the dates more event-like: go hiking somewhere nice, check out a museum together, anything lik…	/r/seduction	10/12/19 12:40 PM
5	Unconditional love is for children, pets, and weak males...not Men I always appreciated the definition of love offered by John Paul II: love is willing the good of the other. That's something you can offer unconditionally to anybody, and it makes no universal demand on any one--because it's a principle of action, not a particular prescription. It's the same as Aristotle's golden mean: act in the right way, at the right time, with respect to the right people, with the right intentions. It's the 'best' thing to do, but the embodied content of all those injunction…	/r/TheRedPill	07/12/19 06:04 AM
15	Gen X vs Millennial TRPers, the main difference.. I saw my aunt do this with her daughters (no sons). She let the girls at an early age speak to waiters, try things out in the kitchen, took them to Europe, encouraged them to volunteer, go out by themselves downtown. They're now in their teens but have better confidence in themselves than 90% of the adults I know. And they're not arrogant either. They're a blast to hang out with at events and I definitely took notes for my own future family.	/r/TheRedPill	27/11/19 04:42 PM