Arly13 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How do I avoid butthurt when I see unnatractive men with girlfriends? Why does he have a better life? Because he went out and made it happen. He didn’t make excuses, he didn’t play the victim, he didn’t say “I’m fat and greasy I shouldn’t be successful,” he saw what he wanted and he made the effort to make it happen, even with whatever disadvantages or hurdles came his way. Until you do that, you will continue to think you’re the victim of life’s circumstances.	/r/seduction	22/07/19 12:59 AM
1	I hate getting ghosted on tinder, so I just usually tell girls to unmatch me if they are done with me, and they seem to have a problem with this. You say you tried it, but it didn’t work. So I call bullshit. You didn’t try hard enough, you didn’t truly embrace changing from within, because if you did, you wouldn’t be spewing this suicidal incel toxicity. You might have done a couple things you thought would get you laid. But you’re taking those suggestions, making a meager effort to do the bare minimum and then say “oh it didn’t work.” Take going to the gym, it’s as an example. If you’re given the advice to go them and work on yourself, g…	/r/seduction	01/09/18 08:13 PM
9	Is inviting a teacher after graduation inappropriate? I would say yes its inappropriate just because if people see you together, speculation and gossip may start, which puts her and her job, and even her career, in jeopardy. Worst case scenario is someone sees you, spreads the gossip that you guys are together and have been fucking since you were in her class, and allegations and investigations from the school start for her, and even you both denying it won’t prevent her from being suspended or even terminated. Don’t know what the chances of that h…	/r/seduction	05/08/18 03:55 PM
1	My girlfriend gets asked out multiple times a day at her job, should I be worried ? Nah, free is free, accepting a gift and refusing anything more isn’t cheating, especially in a retail environment when your job depends on keeping customers happy, you can’t always bash their egos by rejecting a gift, even by saying “sorry I have a boyfriend.” It’s a tricky situation to navigate, but as long as she’s faithful, let her have the free shit and enjoy that you have someone so desirable. Don’t ever let her forget how much YOU desire her, and you won’t have to worry!	/r/seduction	21/06/18 08:54 PM
2	I shouldn't have instant dated her... No wonder you meet so many passive aggressive cunts.	/r/seduction	06/03/18 08:47 PM
3	Best US cities to move to for single woman? Vegas. Planes full of bachelorettes and girls who need validation and attention from men landing every day. They hit the Strip in droves, excited to get sloppy drunk and go barefoot up to some dudes room.	/r/seduction	25/11/17 07:39 PM
1	Irritated at how girls rejects most guys so easely and how they treat it so lightly. Actually that's the type of guy I went out with most often. I hate egos and cockiness, shy/awkward guys have none of that usually. It was just dudes who would sit at my bar and we would naturally chat, I'd get to now a bit about them, even encourage the shy ones to conversate, and if they asked me out and I was available I'd say yes. Didn't matter if I was attracted to them or not.	/r/seduction	30/12/16 06:55 AM
1	Irritated at how girls rejects most guys so easely and how they treat it so lightly. There are lots of women out there who fit that description. You pass by them every day. You sit by them in waiting rooms. Stand behind them in line. Stop at the red light next to them. You also sit, stand, and Stop next to the crazy superficial ones. That's what dating is for! Meet them, talk to them, and try to find someone compatible with you! Just don't get discouraged if it takes a while! I've gone out on literally hundreds of dates. I've been a bartender on the Strip for the better part of …	/r/seduction	30/12/16 01:41 AM
1	Irritated at how girls rejects most guys so easely and how they treat it so lightly. I see what you did there! :p My fiancé wouldn't approve, but thank you for the invite! Good luck!	/r/seduction	28/12/16 04:23 PM
1	Irritated at how girls rejects most guys so easely and how they treat it so lightly. We have a misunderstanding here. I was merely trying to explain some background for why SO MANY girls instantly brush off and reject SO MANY guys so quickly. I was only trying to provide the "common" female perspective, specifically speaking about the women who reject OP so rudely. Clearly it doesn't apply to everyone, which is why I stated in the beginning the disclaimer about it being a generalization. Me, I can comfortably handle whatever sexual situation I WANT to be in, without being a bitc…	/r/seduction	27/12/16 06:26 AM
1	Irritated at how girls rejects most guys so easely and how they treat it so lightly. You are absolutely correct, most girls automatically assume most guys are assholes who only want sex. You have an uphill battle to show a girl that you AREN'T that asshole. However, maybe this kind of understanding will help you up your game appropriately. You can see it as an advantage!	/r/seduction	26/12/16 07:30 PM
3	Irritated at how girls rejects most guys so easely and how they treat it so lightly. There's another side to this. I'm going to try to sum it up, and I realize I am making assumptions and generalizations, but I want to try and break it down as simple as I can. Bear with me. So, you're upset because girls are heartless and mean about rejecting you (and other guys). I'm assuming that MOST guys that hit on a girl are only after sex, not loving, meaningful relationships, because we're in the pick up forum. What maybe you don't realize is that from the girls standpoint, she is gettin…	/r/seduction	26/12/16 04:33 PM
9	How do rich guys get a lot of hot girls? If "everyone says it," listen, it just might be true. If you don't WANT to be that guy, then you're going to have to take a step back, grow in self-awareness, and BE something other than the arrogant, pompous person "everyone" sees you as being. Your "friends" may not ADMIT it to you, but chances are they see you that way also, but are fulfilling their own self-interests by catering to your ego. Be whoever you want, if you are happy with yourself, and you aren't hurting anyone, more power to you…	/r/seduction	06/08/15 08:09 AM
2	Condom storage facts Ugh. Posted from my phone. I Didn't catch all the typos.	/r/seduction	06/11/11 08:18 AM
4	Condom storage facts Nope nope nope. I'm a women. I've been pregnant. I went through months of fertility testing and whatnot trying to conceive. You've got it backwards. Days 8-19 are exactly when you should be trying to conceive. In a regular 28-day cycle, women will ovulate on or close to day 14, and ovulation lasts 20 hours. Since sperm can live up to a week, you start on day 8, do there would still be sperm from that day on day 15, including all that you've added since then. You continue through day 19 since not…	/r/seduction	06/11/11 01:42 AM
1	PSA: Guys, Girls....Never, ever stand someone up. Ever. This applies to Breakups as well. When you are dating someone, serious enough to where talks of moving in together and marriage are taking place, it's beyond hurtful to just randomly vanish from their life. Just sayin.	/r/seduction	19/07/11 07:50 AM