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[Some] women: Most men are simply unattractive or not sufficiently attractive. It's just the way it is. The same women: What do you expect women over 35 to do when they lose their SMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:47 PM
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It's not something I proactively want but I'm open to it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:26 PM
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Gotta protect yourself. Putting yourself first is necessary otherwise but it's not like you don't trust your friends and family to help you when you need it. You can love and trust people, you just never know. That's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:23 PM
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That's not really making excuses, that's just finding/providing explanations that are frankly pretty condescending so the sentiment isn't one of trying to be forgiving or understanding. There are men here who defend women who make bad choices, but those are fewer and also they aren't anywhere near the pool of men she'd be complaining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:15 PM
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And none of these quotes are from men who would ever complain about the "women are wonderful" effect so.... You're all over the place. In another comment you complain about men here being overly judgmental with women's dating choices According to this subreddit these guys are clearly awful people and these women still want them. That makes her an awful person too. And now you're saying men will make excuses for these women. Which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:12 PM
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Are you trolling? Find me one man here who makes excuses for women who date shitty men. If anything it will be the white knights, and these aren't the same men who complain about the "women are wonderful" effect. This is PPD 101 and plain as day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:47 PM
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They're obsessed with how society keeps telling them to be the "nice guy" when they observe "bad boys" having a much easier time getting relationships Whether or not these men go on to try to emulate bad boys or choose to stay true to who they are is a different matter and irrelevant b/c the reason for their obsession is when they first struggled as a "nice guy", not the desire to sleep around and be toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:45 PM
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.....who tf does that here? It's the exact opposite and there's constantly women complaining that men keep telling women to pick better. With the amount of time you've been here you'd think all this would be obvious to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:42 PM
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They envy bad boys b/c they believe bad boys have a much easier time getting relationships and have struggled with getting a relationship while trying to be a good person Just typically disingenuous as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:40 PM
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Just sort of regular everyday dudes you don't think twice about. They're okay but unremarkable, like most people in general. But most people are in relationships...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:50 PM
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Really depends on the area. In wealthier or more well-to-do areas and among young people eg college students esp in some states, most people in these demos are normal to skinny weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:48 PM
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Right, I agree for the most part A lot of guys here say game or social skills don't work b/c I'm guessing they actually don't have an idea what good social skills is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:43 PM
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Metabolism doesn't slow that much especially before 40. If you were able to eat like crazy and stay thin at 20, you won't suddenly be gaining weight at 30 on 1500 calories unless there's something else going on - eg lifestyle, we forget how active we really were in our teens - or there is a legit hormonal disorder. We're talking a metabolic difference of maybe a cookie per day if even that between say someone who's 20 vs 30. Also, there's this recent news: Metabolism in adulthood does not slow a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:36 PM
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At least they are acknowledging that how you talk to women is a major factor instead of saying things like it's entirely looks. It's an unfortunate fact that the men who are having a hard enough time that they need to seek out programs or workshops to learn game online are probably the least likely to ever be able to implement it effectively or in other words improve upon their conversational skills and social intelligence. Also, getting better at talking to people or women can only be done by c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:32 PM
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Most normies aren't on diets but most normies are also either fat or skinny fat/out of shape so I duno maybe not the best supporting argument for your brutal pill. Also if you're talking young men there are plenty of naturally skinny awkward dudes as well who aren't chads. It's mostly a lifestyle thing, people get settled into their 20s with sedentary routines, desk jobs, and bad habits. Metabolism slowing down is not significant enough and does not account for the statistical weight gain many p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:18 PM
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So girls are just that much smarter than boys, is that it. Nothing to do with differences in socialization. Why is it hard to believe that men, especially boys or young impressionable teenagers and men, are prone to being misled when there are countless people telling them every time it's not their looks every time they ask (or complain about) if it's their looks when they struggle? I don't think there is any other context where the entire society is forgiven for misleading or lying to people ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:23 PM
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They can try. Improving social skills is hard and the ones struggling the most with it as young adults in the first place are the ones least likely to succeed, esp those with developmental disorders or are on the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:59 AM
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Reminds me of the hordes of people in r/politics complaining about how the media was biased against Biden after that disastrous first presidential debate for constantly bringing it up and it was hurting the future of the country with their carelessness. I am not staunchly right-wing by any means but I know better than to bother commenting there. "Why does the media keep portraying Biden in such a bad light?" Presumably typed with a straight face sans irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:31 AM
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She became a proclaimed superhero overnight when Biden dropped out even though everyone had forgotten she even existed during the majority of the term. Honestly most of America probably forgot Biden existed b/c the media has talked about nothing but Trump for the past 8 years. Not like my vote matters, I don't live in Pennsylvania.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:21 AM
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Men do it to other men too though. It's society-wide so it can't just come down to virtue signaling from women wanting to sound good. Parents, friends, teachers, community leaders raising boys tell them from a young age to just be responsible caring men and the women will come. When these men complain that they are struggling maybe b/c of their looks or height these same people along with everyone else tell them they've got it wrong. E.g. "Maybe try a new hobby? Maybe you aren't listening to her…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:12 AM
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I feel like it's evened out by how many less than mediocre looking women are still attractive enough to many men. A woman who is so ugly she can't find anyone to commit is rare; in those cases where she's too fat, well, at least it's controllable and she can do something about it even if it isn't easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:07 AM
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Because everyone knows looks matter for women. But men are either told it's not important or not as important and that women aren't shallow (eg we don't care about dick size or muscles, it's about the personality), they're fed this by everyone from a young age, and it shows with the continuous gaslighting. I don't know how people can deny it. You also have women in a different camp - or alternating when convenient - joining in by telling men they are stupid if they didn't know looks matter all a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:52 AM
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Just a few of her videos after googling. Honestly a lot of her stuff just sounds like building up confidence self-care advice. I guess that's part of the whole "decentering men" thing but I didn't see any hateful things toward men. Putting yourself first isn't very polarizing it's just generic decent advice as long as it doesn't lead to arrogance or hurting others.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:48 AM
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Not pretty privilege, I just haven't looked through her material really but no matter what she looks like from what I saw I didn't see anything really inflammatory like you see constantly with FDS. Decentering the opposite sex is always a good idea given how much we are taught to do the opposite, although for people who preach this they sure do spend a lot of time trying to look pretty or buff or rich or whatever, both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:20 AM
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She just seems very non-problematic and not b/c like oh she's pretty so it's fine. If this woman was typical of what FDS was there would be no issue with them. FDS and feminist aren't the same and there are some FDS members who are actually anti-feminist in many ways - many are basically traditionalists with very archaic views who hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:55 AM
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i know but we're talking about whether he's legit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:52 AM
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She seems to have more in common with that Pearl woman or some of those pickmes who side with men and subscribe to traditional gender norms tbh...although maybe she's not as bad. Overall it's more like she's just selling her fashion and glamorous lifestyle....but admittedly I haven't looked too much into her brand. When you say FDS it's a very specific type of platform and sentiment as far as I understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:49 AM
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She doesn't seem FDS aligned to me...more just like a woman who is kind of redpilled or traditional-minded in her content as an influencer or dispenser of advice. I envision FDS women as much more blatantly expressive in their man-hating and more complaining and spreading of negativity like the women in twox which is where all the fds women went.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:46 AM
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well you did say a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:20 AM
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so the whole thing about men being the more romantic sex is horseshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:12 AM
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The only good candidates are ones with a peculiar writing style or if they talk about recurring topics
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:03 AM
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or Kano from the Mortal Kombat movies
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:09 AM
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Well I admit it is bad I'm just saying it's not that different from the idea that women only want men for money or provisions and think most men are unattractive and will merely tolerate sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:06 AM
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what if he gave you a free trial lesson and he was ugly af and showed that he pulled mad bitches regardless during an infield demo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:02 AM
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It's hard for me to take his comments poorly because I read them in an aussie accent and then it just sounds cool or friendly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:00 AM
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would you trust him more if he charged $40
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:57 AM
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A lot of people probably think "you pay a prostitute to leave" has shitty misogynistic overtones but is it really that different from a sugar baby who cringes at the thought every time she has to spend time with or touch an old wrinkly man b/c she just wants him to pay for her tuition and vacations? Or just relationships in general where the woman is with the man primarily for his ability to provide and she'll simply tolerate giving him starfish sex a few times a month bc she's not especially at…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:47 AM
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California, and yes they do here, unfortunately, at least in UMC korean circles though I also have interacted with a lot of japanese and chinese. Maybe not all asian americans or pockets of diaspora think the same and I don't know much specifically about cantonese chinese.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:33 AM
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"Gday mate, let's put another shrimp on the barbay" "Naurrrrrrrr" or your fellow countryman Swole Australian: "You're all stupid and clueless here. Seriously, fuck everyone. See you tomorrow tho."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:26 AM
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I don't want to share my pinterest board of cute tiktok boys because I don't want you guys to judge my taste. Also it's very mysterious you will never know what these guys look like because tiktok hotties are a very diverse looking group.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:18 AM
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Also my dorm is out of power again. Fingers crossed I hope the ice machine works at the hotel tonight :-/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:17 AM
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Honestly I think he's a cool mfer, just weird, distinctive and very peculiar in the way he posts The original post/prompt was practically made for him
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:11 AM
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Bc it's meant to highlight how important it is to not have to deal with all that extra stuff and that the main drawback of sex are the hoops you would otherwise have to jump through or things you'd have to deal with in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:06 AM
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The phrase is not meant as a flex for sexual prowess. It's saying sex workers provide pure sex with none of the time or trouble that often comes with getting sex with regular people like drama, jumping through hoops, navigating social conventions or mundane conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:54 AM
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I'd say maybe bc grass is greener, asians tend to have fuller lips and subscribe to a eurocentric standard (or at least even moreso now than historically), explains why white people want fuller lips and asians want thinner ones although that doesn't explain why black people have full lips and prefer it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:48 AM
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i read all your comments in his character's voice from true detective
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:35 AM
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Wait so you're here, every day, voluntarily, with a clean bill of mental health?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:31 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/shorts/QDjCtCMLgME?app=desktop it you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:26 AM
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I'm no longer in love with my best friend She keeps leaving messages, but I will resist. Her spell over me has run its course. Temptation has become nothing to me. I am no longer the man I once was. A new animal has emerged from the shell of former consciousness. What is life, truly? If sheep require a shepherd, for whom does the shepherd yearn? The clock of existence, without a doubt, relentless and unwavering Unto this I reflect, until the next encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:09 AM
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just another night of horse tranquilizers and beef jerky ykwim tbh tbh ykwim also anyone have any recipes for garbanzo or lima or pinto or kidney or fava or jelly beans ask me about the sopranos
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:04 AM
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Maybe, but I'm just pointing out he isn't saying/complaining that a man won't ever be able to attract all women or be everyone's type.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:04 AM
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a) I watch Judge Mathis b) I watch Judge Judy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:24 AM
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Maybe I'm reading too much into it but I don't think that's the OP's point. More like she'll inevitably get bored or tempted over time b/c of the sheer amount of options and other ripe peaches bc of the inherent imbalance in the modern dating market and entitlement culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:57 PM
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a) boxing, mma, muay thai, kickboxing, lifting (kind of), gaming when it's a good game b) skincare, but not really a hobby, just a routine i've kept, "cozy" video games like Animal Crossing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:38 PM
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i see i mean i am against body positivity (in the mainstream health at any size sense) but i get what they are saying but i'm also not into fashion it just looks like a regular outfit to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:07 PM
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must be a tiktok thing or i don't spend enough time in certain spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:02 PM
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There's that unfortunate effect people usually don't talk about that a lot of men become more depressed, paranoid or misogynistic when they improve with women because they realize how shallow all their improvements were and how big of an effect they made. Makes a lot of men trust or respect women less. Not just in terms of looks but also just learning how to convey social value or dominance and the men think "is this all there is". Also makes men afraid of commitment, like "If I can get women's …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:59 PM
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Couldn't stand her for more than 20 seconds had to close window. What does 'that outfit gagged me' mean
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:53 PM
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no bc u played a lot of starcraft lol how is your tag korean is it a reference i'm not getting, i'm part korean i don't listen to kpop tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:25 PM
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are you korean
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 01:06 PM
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no just a stupid name i randomly came up with lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:48 AM
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nm the comments are back for some reason? no idea my feed is buggin out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:20 AM
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All I see is like 30 lines of deleted comments
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:19 AM
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tf happened here...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:03 AM
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The best games were already made before a lot of us were even born I regret playing chrono trigger if only b/c it basically ruined all jrpg or even modern rpgs for me and any final fantasy title, it was that good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:26 AM
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Honestly wish I played more. Video games just don't hit the same way they used to as a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:17 AM
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Intent absolutely matters, even if it doesn't always justify things or justify it 100% anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:23 AM
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yeah i just figured, if you can't hear your own voice, you probably can't hear anything period
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:20 AM
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"I don't care who started it" from teachers ever since kindergarten I mean that's whole entire point of having self defense laws is that who started it matters a ton. Just shitty lazy teaching or parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:19 AM
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Does that mean you can't hear anything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:17 AM
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Does this mean you can't hear your own voice in your head, or that you can't actually reason things out in your head, or both
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:12 AM
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Is it abusing the block function if you're just trying to get away (or tired of) people who are nasty every time they comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:08 AM
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You can debate without sounding like a c__t Again, please don't skip days on your SSRIs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:04 AM
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crazy and angry lolol it's a personal attack to call you combative and unpleasant? That's what you are and that's your tone, where's the lie
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 03:00 AM
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get it son
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:59 AM
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some people are just naturally unpleasant and combative whatever gives you peace maam
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:56 AM
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once in a week
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:54 AM
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not gonna argue with this very popular easy way out non-answer i'll just stick to the dailychat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:53 AM
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I'm saying high unreasonable standards make both men and women insecure and it's a bad thing The men who complain about women's high standards think they are unreasonable Easy to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:49 AM
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Ideally men wouldn't be made insecure enough by women's high standards that they would require validation in the first place. Same goes the other way around, it's like saying it's good for men to be so superficial otherwise instathots wouldn't be able to feel good about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:36 AM
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it's chuesday innit? 'ello guvna
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:28 PM
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I guess I'll have to take your word for it b/c I am never downloading tiktok. I get my reels 2 weeks later on instagram like a real man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:12 PM
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But do they hire men as guests, men who say things like 'yeah i mean i dunno who told her she could leave the kitchen but...*shrug*"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:43 PM
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Why aren't there any woman grifters with channels trying to get more women to hate men? I know misandrists are out there and there is definitely a market for that shit so don't say it's b/c women are better. Would be interesting to see radfems hire low-class POS men to come on their podcasts and act like unhinged wifebeaters so that women can be like "see, that's what I'm talkin about" like how Fresh n Fit does. Is it b/c mainstream media already does a good enough job of shitting on men it's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:37 PM
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I can get easily attached to people emotionally sometimes. Sometimes it's a guy even if I'm not sexually attracted to men. There's something endearing to me about some men that makes me want to interact or spend more time with them and it's nothing physical. I liken it to maybe the yearning for a bond similar to that of a brother or father even though I have siblings and a dad I get along with just fine. Some people have called me secretly gay. They can think what they want, Idgaf lol. Also I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:25 PM
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A lotta men feel the exact same apprehension as you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:53 PM
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Sure, you might need game - or just good conversational skills and maybe a sense of humor - to get people to like you. Social skills are a plus but the status you get from being a respected and valued member of a community or circle is a separate plus as well. Just like how you need intelligence, networking, persistence to get fame or career but those are also separate traits/strengths in addition to the resulting status.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:29 PM
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You don't need to be high status to see how status makes a huge difference. You don't even need to be rich or powerful, just be someone everyone likes and then word gets around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:20 PM
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We know this to be true b/c the top-tier women with the most options are with high status or rich men, not men with model looks. These are the women who could get any man they want and while looks probably factored in somewhere you can tell it wasn't the top priority by their choices. Women who prioritize looks above all else are often in circles where looks are the only thing the men could possibly ever have going for them. If you live in a trailer working as a waitress and the guys around you …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:01 PM
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The reason I've been given for why astrology appeals to young women is that they grew up with a sense of lack of control over their lives and it gives them a sense of control or order. Which is still weird...a lot of guys grow up like that too in turbulent circumstances so I wonder if it's just another spin on the patriarchy thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:55 PM
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I am friends with about 3...and know of at least 10-15. I don't necessarily always run with a progressive crowd but I move in and out of different circles and they are obviously from those circles. I dunno where you live but apparently 14% of Washington DC is LGBT.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:53 PM
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The amount of people I otherwise respect as functioning intelligent adults IRL whom I suddenly overhear talking unironically about astrology and planning their life around it is way too high. And every time I shit on it online I get net downvotes. That's why it never bothers me when people get upset or disagree with me anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:49 PM
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Depends on where you live. If you lived in certain pockets of a large blue-leaning city and it's all you knew you would not think they are rare by any means. With young people, usually young women identifying as nonbinary, even moreso.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:43 PM
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He looks just like a regular dude tho. I read he got surgery to make himself look more "Aryan" earlier on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:38 PM
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Maybe it's just the spaces I've frequented in the past but I came away thinking everyone loved femboys and some unorthodox preferences but then realized maybe it's just b/c a lot of the "young" mainstream internet is disproportionately inhabited by neurodivergent or autistic people. I lost count how many times I regarded comments as way out there only for them to say "well I'm autistic" later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:35 PM
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There are those with gender dysphoria who still remain unsure, and also there seems to be a subset of autistic people who genuinely process gender differently who fall into the nonbinary category. But it also seems to be a label for a lot of women, often young white and liberal, with major issues and resentment toward gender prescriptions and it's a way of rebellion. I know quite a few non-autistic biological women who identify as nb and for all intents and purposes they seem to act just like ci…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:48 AM
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Except I think in this case it's not b/c he's a handsome monster. It's b/c the people who are sympathetic to him agree with his white supremacist nazi views.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:33 AM
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Not the point at all. It's about bluepillers doing a complete 180 because they'll always have an excuse for why struggling men are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:28 AM
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Women hating average or subpar men or making tiktoks complaining how most men are trash b/c of the POS chads who mistreated or ghosted them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:25 AM
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Reminds me of what a comedian said, 'it's a good thing men can't have multiple orgasms, if we could we'd never leave the house or get anything done'
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:47 AM
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prob just the girl version of myself...i like my face maybe since i'd be a woman slightly lighter colored hair
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:08 AM
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unfortunately not mine but i had to share
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:00 AM
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Sure, but as far as I can tell men are not opposed to said rapist/abuser facing the full brunt of consequences. I'm guessing the women doing this "gotcha" are on the fence or worse for paternity fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:54 AM
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So from female sentiments "Bodycount shouldn't matter/is none of your business" but also "He should've vetted better"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:37 AM
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So "Bodycount shouldn't matter/is none of your business" but also "He should've vetted better"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:30 AM
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Hence the fantasy of a fuckboy d-bag with limitless options but only wants her and treats her with respect, best of both worlds, have cake eat too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:24 AM
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is this all the same person
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:19 AM
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Most people have a vice. Debates focus on specific topics like masturbation, alcohol, whatever but basically any time you lose sight of God and prioritize other things it's a sin, according to the religions. So if you spend your days seeking chicken tenders sitting in a chair addicted to video games that's also sin. There are people who have zero issues with drinking or drugs or porn but are obsessed with other shallow pursuits, same deal. The difficulty of being pious comes from losing focus, n…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:58 AM
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He was kind of chubby I guess women still thought he was handsome/hot shit, for a politician anyway, and plus his status
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:51 AM
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Few ppl know this but Karl Marx had a much lesser known daughter named Anya, who was a great pioneer in the regulations and conduction of modern-day marathons and track events.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:49 AM
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How is it difficult to be pious? In our hedonistic culture it's pretty hard to abstain from drugs, alcohol, various excess, women or porn. Even if you aren't successful with women it's hard to abstain from chasing or fixating on it. In most religions the sin comes from the mindset and pursuit of pleasure, the actual behavior or activity is less important.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:46 AM
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you could be in a Fargo spinoff movie or series
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:40 AM
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i remember the turning point junior year in h/s when my entire perspective of the world changed started hanging out with the 'popular' kids and invited to parties, found out everyone - well a lot of people - secretly hated each other and held their standing by knowing the right people and saying the right things, pretending like you don't care found out later on this applies to the rest of life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:36 AM
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i always imagine you in a small cabin in the middle of a plain in south dakota with gigantic oven mitts in a kitchen full of pots with spaghetti sauce dripping or stained off the sides
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:34 AM
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Translation: If he has a goodlooking face some women won't mind if he has a little bit of extra weight on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:31 AM
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There was a study a long time ago that found women are more understanding, tolerant, compassionate, kind and empathetic than men, until it comes to their own dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:28 AM
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ah yes evidence code sections 352 and 1108 hate that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:50 AM
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Also blue pillers 10 years ago: "Looks don't matter, it's your personality that's the problem. Stop spreading these toxic lies women aren't that shallow" Blue pillers now: "Looks have always mattered a lot, if you didn't know this by the time you were 7 you're an idiot."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:46 AM
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It's always funny when I hear people say a pickup coach is ugly. Those are the guys I would listen to if I wanted to improve. If it's a 6'2 chad with a nice car how would I ever be able to know if it's his game that's working. If a 5'5 bridge troll on a hand-me-down scooter is pulling women you can trust he has skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:18 AM
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in world where everyone is increasingly stressed and with things like IBS that's a legit 2024 OLD flex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:26 AM
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Mentalcel isn't the word I used b/c he's not celibate, but he isn't ugly by any means he's just skinny and has terrible style and probably thinks he can't do better which is why he's putting up with this controlling woman who doesn't allow him to have any female friends. Any guy who puts up with this has something going wrong mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:23 AM
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i only date women who don't fart
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:57 AM
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If he started lifting, actually tried to get some sun, got rid of that awful hair, he wouldn't have to put up with that shit and find someone else. As usual it's not a matter of whether he can it's a matter of mental or emotional obstacles and health getting in the way and he doesn't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:56 AM
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LOL if anything the guy who lives at home with his parents is in a better financial position b/c he can save up more money assuming he's not a dumbass or a NEET. But I guess since culturally western households kick out their kids at 18 so they can spend 10-15 years living paycheck to paycheck to pay rent usually the type of guys who stay at home are ones who are even worse off than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:11 AM
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"All men are perverts and creeps" is also a common rhetoric but only the worst women believe it to a tee or act/treat men accordingly. The reality is there are probably many different degrees of belief from rejection to mere suspicion, to "kinda, but not all men" to fully subscribing and living by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:05 AM
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Are you saying the really cool secret decoder ring from the Capt Crunch cereal box won't do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:56 AM
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I don't see a trend...the first two links simply confirm what I said about them complaining that tall men are given more lenience. The last one MIGHT be able to be interpreted as tall men being more violent but to me it's just highlighting that when tall men do terrible things they aren't seen as representative of tall people but when short guys do people make excuses to generalize all short men. Either way I don't see the "tall men are more violent" concept communicated on a large scale at all …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:43 AM
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lol go annoy someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:34 AM
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There is not even an indirect insinuation in that post that tall men are more capable of violence than short men either due to size or whatever. The point he is highlighting is the double standard of tall men being given more lenience or women being quick to generalize short men when things go wrong with a short guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:33 AM
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Why are you still responding to me? Thought you said bye?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:31 AM
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The really shallow ones maybe. Then again a lot of asian people are shallow af. Thankfully aside from a few stuck-up cousins most of mine are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:30 AM
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Don't hold your breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:19 AM
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short men always talk about short girls going for tall dudes and how these tall dudes could be violent and she would never have a chance. Umm do you really hear short men saying this specifically a lot or did you kind of willingly interpret it vaguely from a single comment and thought it would be a good springboard for your dailychat post? Bc I know short guys bitch a lot but I don't think I've ever heard this comparison about tall guys being violent vs short guys. Wifebeater badboy Chad maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:14 AM
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I can do that too, I can find radfems who unironically think 90% of the male population should be culled with many many more upvotes and then say the misogynists are right. But I don't expect mental stability or logic from you so I don't know why I'm wasting my time. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:09 AM
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You went out of your way to seek the most depraved rabbitholes where the shittiest people post and comment and you came away with ThE RaDFeMs R RyTe?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:04 AM
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I used to think redditors were stupid but now I'm slowly beginning to realize it's just all people. Reddit just gives people an anonymous way to express their thoughts, yet again another reminder I'm glad I can't read people's minds or know what they're thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:17 AM
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I mean there's nothing wrong with trying to convince someone you're right, that's inherently the purpose of a debate, but then people won't admit when they are wrong, lacking in an area, or are disingenuous or backpedal so almost all of it is completely unproductive. Even the "good" and "best" posters are guilty of this at least sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:33 AM
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99% of people don't "debate" to learn or compromise or find solutions, they just do it to be right or blow off steam. And this is before we get into all the biases, inaccuracies, trolling, and delusion. In a best case scenario it's just people talking at each other. I would be interested to know, has anyone here actually had their mind changed about something significant?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:01 AM
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Regardless of what you think you need or don't, it doesn't help when feminism is all about men needing to hold each other accountable and be allies but then 'why don't you do something to help men, it's not women's responsibility.'
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:57 PM
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I'm saying people only give a shit about you after you cross the line but aren't above ridiculing or making fun of you for trying to get there. For example, men trying to be more attractive by hiring dating coaches being called incels or cringe. People admiring fit bodies but making fun of fat people at the gym trying to lose weight or get fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:35 PM
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"Empowerment and autonomy, down with toxic masculinity" but also "Little male man" "Loser virgin"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:48 PM
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This is what I got from it too. I try to keep an objective fair mind here but can you imagine this many women defending men in a post from a woman with the same type of content criticizing men of something similar?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:43 PM
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yeah but usually you aren't shamed or deemed repulsive from your struggle, it's the contrast. Like admiring fit bodies but making fun of fat people at the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:28 PM
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Men also want naturally attractive women and consciously know a woman looks better in heels and makeup but they don't have a problem with women utilizing either of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:17 PM
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negging game confirmed legit again
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:14 PM
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i'm not saying you're entitled to receive help, but it is weird that you are celebrated as a winner but ridiculed for trying to win, if that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:45 PM
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Due to the shallow transactional nature of dating, I think most people, man or woman, in receiving the end product, don't really care about the means or how they got there, but with things like alpha male workshops or coaching suddenly the means becomes this gigantic ick so this ick just seems disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:44 PM
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I awkwardly knelt over her and she kinda quietly said 'it's ok' lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:39 PM
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it just means he didn't follow his own advice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:36 PM
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Kids are mean. In college my friend and I chatted up a couple girls at a coffee shop and started playing a version of jenga with commands on the blocks and my block said "go sit in the lap of a member of the opp sex of your choice" and so in the moment I went over to the one I thought was prettier but I still feel shitty about it. Looking back I would've flipped a coin so it was completely random and whatever other girl would not have felt bad... maybe I'm projecting because I know it would've h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:34 PM
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So they just aren't hot, doesn't that kind of further discredit the criticism directed toward them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:26 PM
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A guy can disagree or dislike a woman arriving at a healthy weight via eating disorder or crash dieting but that won't make him appreciate the end product any less. Do you think women would feel the same way about men they knew attended alpha male workshops and pick-up artist coaching sessions? They wouldn't bc they would get immediate ick even if they are initially attracted by his vibe aura or demeanor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:24 PM
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There's just a lot of talk around here about how money doesn't matter or doesn't inspire real attraction. One of my reg talking points is that it absolutely does.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:10 PM
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A billionaire will never struggle to find a woman, even if he can't get literally any woman he wants. There will be armies of the willing. It's easy for random women here and there to go "yeah i don't care about money, no matter how rich he was" because realistically a billionaire proposing to them is so far from potential reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:03 PM
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There was literally a survey done of the most and least attractive hobbies spanning several pages and manosphere specifically came dead last. You're seriously saying you haven't seen widespread criticism and disgust directed toward the RP or manosphere from women? Surely it beats out the number of men saying they hate makeup. Which again, is close to zero, most men appreciate at least some makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:49 PM
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I haven't heard any men say they "hate" makeup, esp IRL, but I did use this analogy in a reply further down. With surgery perhaps but I am pretty sure "most women are ugly without makeup" is said by a select group of men online. The overall attitude toward makeup isn't nearly to the same degree as the knee-jerk reaction to the RP or manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:43 PM
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Reminds me how women just automatically think of a relatively fit body as an average body for men without knowing it takes a regular disciplined gym routine even if it's nothing fancy. I want to be fair and maybe use the analogy of men complaining about women using makeup or spending time doing their hair but then they would complain or be taken aback if she didn't do it. Or men saying "see I like girls without makeup" and then showing pictures of women with makeup still on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:37 PM
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lol i was trying to figure out a shorter way to say it flocks of admirers at the finish line but nobody is willing to help u get there
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:19 PM
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Women find the manosphere disgusting, but don't find men who naturally embody the traits prescribed by the manosphere disgusting. They love assertive, physically fit, stylish, socially prolific well-connected men who know all the right things to say but are repulsed by struggling guys who try to become these men by attending workshops or paying for programs and coaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:11 PM
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The Joker sequel cost 200m to make, why/how did it fail so hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:31 AM
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For some reason women are drawn to or curious about wounds and scars. I cut open my hand at work once and all the women would not stop crowding around and asking about it. I was in distress at the time and was in no mood to enjoy the attention. It was the weirdest/creepiest thing because I was going through it and they almost sounded happy and excited. The wound left a faint scar on my hand and my female coworkers from time to time still like to run their hand over it and it just faintly itches.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:56 AM
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Not entirely neutral. If she's already attracted to you, being a good person will make you more attractive assuming you don't overdo it or are a pushover. If she isn't, it won't do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:41 AM
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i like how when she opened the envelope and took out the english magazine out of all the things they could have put on the cover they put DATE RAPE.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:28 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=7&v=m5lOdo1ovfw&embeds_referring_euri=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.bing.com%2F&embeds_referring_origin=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.bing.com&source_ve_path=MjM4NTE
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:15 AM
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they made him a photographer so it would be extra tragic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:13 AM
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Have you seen that old kpop music vid 여자이니까 where the guy gives both his eyes to the girl who went blind when he could've at least kept one for himself lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:08 AM
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i watched a couple a long time ago and that was enough for me always the most pure angelic selfless girl dying of a terminal illness, boyfriend is her long lost stepbrother so it's ok, gets hit by a car on his way to visit her in the hospital
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:59 AM
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그렇구나,, For some reason his accent in the trailer wasn't as strong, i'm still toward the beginning so maybe he started off leaning into it more. I watched the overrated David Fincher movie Killer with Michael Fassbender and it kind of turned me off b/c he fucked up the american accent almost right away with his first lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:52 AM
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Red Right Hand? It's on netflix i am just bored and I sometimes wonder if I've watched literally every good movie in existence that's how hard good ones are to find
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:42 AM
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Orlando seems to be laying it on pretty thick, I have an ear for accents and one of the ways you can tell someone isn't from a certain area is if they overdo it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:41 AM
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i'm watching a movie with orlando bloom set in appalachian kentucky do u guys really talk like that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:36 AM
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yes legs up i'm a leg man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:34 AM
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tell her you like reggaeton
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:21 AM
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back when he was still ryan gosling and not ryan goose
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:17 AM
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heh maybe if u include the drive there and back home
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:11 AM
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i edited ur quote to be silly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:06 AM
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that awkward half-trot half-tiptoe you do across the floor when you see someone mopping
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:04 AM
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im tired af and only have 12 1/2 minutes ppd stacy w/ the marathon man bf over here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:02 AM
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Missionary vanilla sex is underrated and over-ridiculed. I'm sorry if you depraved assholes can't get off unless someone takes a shit on your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:49 PM
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neither regular sex nor riches guarantee happiness but they sure can help better to have those if you're going to be sad anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:46 PM
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all i'm saying is just b/c you have regular sex it doesn't mean there aren't many other things that make your esteem bad or your life shit; you can also have healthy esteem without sex b/c of other things in life you feel good about. not sure why you're reacting so hard
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:44 PM
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seems like a lot of people like white/gray/silver hair as long as it's not on an older person/face
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:45 PM
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I'm saying having sexual partners doesn't guarantee good self esteem lack of self esteem hurts me and a lot of people more than lack of sexual partners. I had the highest self esteem and happiness at a point in life when I was the least successful with women, and the reverse also was true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:36 PM
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Speak for yourself? A lot of factors determine self esteem at any one point in your life, that's why there are rich people who have lots of sex with garbage mental health and vice versa along with everything in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:31 PM
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Bc the people in these places are not reflective of the norm. Reddit and the internet select for people with niche ideas, people who are terminally online, people who are mentally ill, people on the fringe, or people with zero social life and grass-touching. It's like if you were to spend a lot of time online you'd think kpop is what every young woman wants and loves. I'm around women constantly and honestly have never heard a single kpop reference in years. It's often for socially awkward shut-…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:24 PM
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AIO I (23F) found 5,000 nudes from 12 different women in my slightly older bf's (85M) social circle on his phone and he refuses to do his own laundry and every time his shirts are stained with cheeto dust and cum (fused together). Am I wrong to be worried and unsatisfied? This is real and not bait, I promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:16 PM
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If I were to choose between regular sex and shit esteem and no sex with good esteem I'd choose the latter every time, having been to all those places. At least I can jerk off, there's no jerking off for your self esteem lol. I mean maybe aside from cocaine, but I don't do that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:13 PM
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It's a good thing no matter what. Whether you love life or are depressed it's always better to cry in a ferrari than in a used toyota camry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:39 PM
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When I had just discovered reddit I by default assumed everyone was a normal functioning adult with reasonable logic and cognitive skills and discernment. There aren't any words to describe how wrong I was. To use an example if reddit is to be believed there were tens of thousands of people confidently assuring us Trump will be in jail for collusion or anything else any day now. Not saying it still won't happen, but at the very least they've been wrong for years. As a whole I am just here mainly…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:37 PM
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'Face it, you weren't made fun of in school bc you watched anime. You were made fun of bc you and your friends did naruto runs in the cafeteria during lunch.'
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:18 PM
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Do the women who complain about men being bad in bed make more of an effort in bed than the men they've been with?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:14 AM
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It's already understood OP is speaking in generalities talking about being generalized negatively and that's fine and done regularly bc everyone already gets the nuance. Would it make you feel that much better if he said "Women need to stop generalizing men as shitty or terrible. Disclaimer, not all women."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:05 AM
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That's the problem with fetishes, whether it be race-based or chubby chasing or specific bodyparts, for some reason there's a greater danger of being hyper objectified so you're nothing more than that one part of you, your fatness, your race or culture, your...I dunno, nose? neck, ankles. Maybe bc fetishists overcompensate because they've lived a great deal of their life feeling ashamed or restricted in pursuing what they like or maybe it's bc they really are just that depraved idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:26 AM
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The reasoning is not that it isn't possible to earn wealth, but more like the economic situation you were born into - something you can't control - heavily influences how possible it is to either stay or become rich. There are always rags to riches exceptions, and stories of refugees or immigrants who saved every penny sleeping in the back of a laundromat so their children wouldn't have to live like them. Lauded as examples of success, but how much merit or comfort do these provide if beating po…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:34 AM
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Everyone has advantages and disadvantages, but it's clear some get a lot more spotlight and attention than others. There are people born with many disadvantages but get zero help or empathy because society has chosen not to focus on those disadvantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:08 AM
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Problem is certain types of advantages in society get trademarked by the current sociopolitical zeitgeist as privileges and so the less privileged in relation to these get attention and help. Things like white privilege, male privilege, ableism, and now thin or pretty privilege but only for women. If you're a short fat ugly poor white guy your disadvantages vastly outweigh your advantage of being born white but nobody talks or cares about that. He faces a lifetime of lecturing about white privil…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:59 AM
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I agree, very attractive women can be more insecure if they have this idea that their looks are their best or only quality or have learned to rely on it as a crutch from focusing on their looks for so long. In addition I always say a 6-7/10 guy can shoot for a 8-9/10 girl by nichemaxxing because if the guy is her specific type a 6-7 becomes an 8 or even higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:51 AM
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I was able to do 2 pages at 140 wpm a while back but i'm rusty now It's one of my few strengths and it's a fairly useless one at that, after 70-80 wpm who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:55 AM
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Uninhibited extroversion potentially plays a big role Guys with this aside from just doing better with any one woman are naturally inclined to play the numbers game without any worry or bother about rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:49 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:45 AM
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ya if he's goodlooking that means he can potentially get a variety of goodlooking women Doesn't mean there won't be some hypergamous women who won't take anything but the top but there are more than enough options as long as he's socially decent
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:16 AM
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well according to some people here even women with over 50 BMI (literally 5'2" 300 lbs) get propositions from attractive men even if it's just for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:13 AM
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yeah that goes without saying, you're just using the tired not all ___________ rebuttal. When someone writes an article on rape culture or sexual assault anyone who says not all men is shut down. It's understood it's not all men, but enough men which is why people are complaining. Same applies here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:02 AM
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the term blowjob still doesn't make any sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 12:56 AM
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And if a man is successful and charismatic, he definitely will be attractive to a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:06 AM
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You don't think status or charisma have halos? It works the other way as well, women come to find men more physically attractive if they find out or appreciate other traits about them. When women speak of their SOs like "I thought he was kind of goofy looking/ugly at first but now he's the most handsome man in the world" may be exaggerating but the effect is real, visceral and genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:04 AM
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you think biden would have a better chance at winning if he had stayed in?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:34 AM
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Explain your logic. I lean moderate-right on most things but what is different now vs 2020? Trump lost to Biden in 2020 and Kamala is more popular than Biden.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:52 AM
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Just like with many things it's not either/or. Women like physically attractive men and they also like emotionally intelligent men. If she can get both in one man, all the better. The way our cultural values are currently and with the ubiquity of the internet and OLD though we do encourage a hedonistic lifestyle of looking for shallow or easily readily appreciable traits and then just as quickly moving on to the next best thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:36 AM
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I see this thread pop up so often...before a breakup one party (statistically more often the woman) has usually checked for awhile. Also nobody just breaks up b/c they wake up one morning and aren't feeling it. It's likely a long time, months even years of talking about and repeated trying and failing, breaking up is almost a last resort to not talk of divorce. At that point she moves on quickly not b/c she never cared, it's b/c she stopped caring/loving you a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:29 AM
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It's a matter of degree like the maslow hierarchy of needs it's not something crucial to your body surviving eg w/o water you'll physically die in a few days but it's arguably a crucial component for most people if they want a relatively healthy mental profile and such just like how simply having friends, validation, a social support system is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:25 AM
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We do have housing, shelter, food stamps in my country at least I guess my point is just b/c something is a basic need doesn't mean people feel it's a basic right, for better or worse we don't have food stamps for incel men they can use at brothels
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:22 AM
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The way traditional women treated men in the past is the treatment women reserve for chads in the present day Do with that info how you will
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:20 AM
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B/c the truth is harsh, people always approach sex as either a basic need and therefore you are entitled to it, or not. Fact of the matter is, it's not something as base as food or water or even shelter, but it is something people naturally have a drive for and crave, it's a basic need - at the same time you're not entitled to it because it involves another person's bodily autonomy. We've decided food and water are entitlements in developed countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:17 AM
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something else is going on if you can't get anything but bottom of the barrel but i don't know you or your situation so obvi i have nothing specific in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:11 AM
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that still applies average women shouldn't have trouble finding decent men with jobs and aren't POS i don't know what kind of area u live in tho, location can be a significant factor
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:06 AM
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if you're not unattractive you won't have to resort to bottom of the barrel men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:59 AM
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doesn't seem like something that needs a term or word, it's obvious to everyone that it's a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:02 AM
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it's something that happens to both genders because of the dramatic shift between being naturally much more active toward things like starting a family or a desk job or adopting of other coping unhealthy eating habits
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:00 AM
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that's what i was saying, i don't think women are outweighing men at the same heights, the average 5'6" man is still heavier than the average 5'6" woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:58 AM
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My understanding is the metabolism slowing is very much overstated and can be easily compensated by eating like 100-200 calories less each day, if even that, and it doesn't really apply until at least your 30s. Lifestyle and diet matter the most and the 20s is when you see often a dramatic shift between the naturally active lifestyle of youth toward a more sedentary way of living once people get established into the workplace or with families etc. Also it might be that if you adopt a sedentary l…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:57 AM
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that explains your power outage elevator situations sorryjk maybe not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:54 AM
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if you observe people in their 20s 5 years can make a huge difference, but not bc of biology or aging, more bc of lifestyle changes also i know you're into it but statistically we gain the most weight in our 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:52 AM
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I'd agree in terms of potential In reality a lot of people look like shit by 25 because they just stop trying or are bogged down by other life circumstances, sometimes both
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:51 AM
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whaaatt
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:49 AM
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i would say there isn't really a discrepancy as long as women aren't outweighing men at the same heights
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:49 AM
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nothign i was just throwing out a state still in the south but not that south johnny depp was born in owensboro i think
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:46 AM
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depends on the woman you can find a woman who was hotter at 35 than she was at 21 but there are probably overall trends
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:45 AM
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owensboro, kentucky
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:43 AM
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Biologically women should not be outweighing men. Naturally having a higher BF% doesn't mean higher overall body weight to not even talk of average height differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:38 AM
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well now i'm going to imagine you with like an accent from deep in the middle of georgia
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:36 AM
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this place is absolutely nothing compared to incel spaces after lurking in those places for a bit where literally every other comment would have warranted an automatic sitewide ban on reddit you become numb or indifferent
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:34 AM
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are you like in a foreign country or in the south? sorry i should check my biases
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:32 AM
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it's ok the power is probably out anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:29 AM
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it explains a ton, fuck canadians this is an american site, why would we not talk about our politics
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:28 AM
1

I've always done really well with Guile even tho I never was that keen on charge characters That character design for jp is godawful but good job
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:24 AM
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I agree, we should be teaching men how to cultivate healthy social skills and networks instead of telling them to be nice and caring and respectful even if those are on their own admirable qualities - just not for garnering attraction. I don't think teaching men to be good people and teaching men to attract women necessarily clash. You can be charismatic, emotionally intelligent, and respected without being a narcissist or selfish. There are women esp drawn to narcissism or machiavellian traits …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:19 AM
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yea it's fairly complex, that said a lot of women feel entitled the same way with mateguarding with asian men i feel it's not so much they feel entitled - well maybe some asian men - but more a reaction to a trend of asian women not wanting them eg a much higher outmarriage or out-dating rate among diaspora that has spanned decades for many concrete institutional reasons and for something potentially inflammatory. a lot of asian men suspect asian women don't speak up about being fetishized b/c t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:15 AM
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White guys complaining about white women banging black guys is not the same as asian guys complaining about asian women banging non-asian guys bc of a history of asian male emasculation, power dynamics and institutional mechanisms, among other factors, and this especially applies for asian diaspora in western nations. For similar reasons how black women are portrayed in western media, but there will always be those bootlickers who say "no you're just ugly, there isn't any racism involved".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:38 AM
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People have been saying that for years. He made it to 75 with his lifestyle, why wouldn't he make it longer. I honestly don't think being fat, while unaesthetic, is the health-destroyer people say it is. Most of america is fat and you don't see an epidemic of people dying in their 50s and 60s from obesity complications. Median lifespan is still a lil over 75. The reason why you don't see a lot of older fat people is mainly b/c people usually lose weight naturally as they get older due to loss of…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:28 AM
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Maybe kinda. Trust people were still shitting heavily on the opposition. There's an argument that what we have now is objectively worse but every single election there was always talk about "these are the worst candidates to date" "we can't afford to not vote this election" "fuck your protest vote"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:40 AM
1

I always get those two mixed up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:38 AM
1

Mostly agree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:18 AM
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there's no option for consumers in between?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:09 AM
1

right, so why do economists think they're stupid or don't work
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:55 AM
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ok so you're saying they don't just make products from that country more expensive but everything more expensive? I just don't see how tariffs don't work if consumers stop buying the other country's products due to price increase
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:55 AM
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I'm a newb to this shit, why are tariffs stupid? Don't they make the target country's products less competitive by making them more expensive for domestic consumers?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:47 AM
2

I think there's some truth to telling a lot about someone's personality by their face. You can tell Walz is a genuinely kind and caring person, he looks like a nice if a bit scared high-trust grandpa. Vance looks competent but he also looks like an evil squinting conniving d-bag, which tracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:42 AM
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Clearly I spend too much time online and I live in a very blue area but I don't see any of these rituals and institutional practices like debates changing anyone's mind. Most people vote for their party or their preferred narrative/agenda. I've never actually talked to an undecided voter. Apathetic both sides suck idgaf, yeah, undecided or on the fence, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:16 AM
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He's been known to be a bad debater and Vance a good or at least better one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:06 AM
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that's why i just tell men to learn how to play an instrument will it work on all women? no but enough women, a lot of women, a ton. results may vary like u might not get the same mileage with the harmonica or accordion
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:45 AM
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if some guys on the alcoholics sub are to be believed you can drink 5 drinks every night for 10 years and it's still fine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:51 PM
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q4anyone who knows: How much can someone drink before they become an alcoholic or suffer from health problems? According to some reddit subs you can drink a shit-ton for years before seeing issues, but that might just be c0ping. Prob also very much depends on the person but I'm talking in general. I'm not against drinking at all but I only drink rarely for social reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:40 PM
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The problem with these men is they don't have a personality that is attractive to women in that sense, not that their personalities aren't "good". People then take this to mean that personality doesn't matter when it absolutely does. Charisma, social skills, reading the room, emotional intelligence, the type of persona to garner social proof and respect, these are what make up an attractive personality versus a personality that is caring, considerate, altruistic, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:30 PM
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prefer blonde but that's just my type, brunettes can be equally attractive and often times moreso
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:27 PM
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I mean more like guys are shallow and will fuck anything so be careful etc women are raised to be cautious and suspicious of men in contrast men are taught to become good responsible boyfriend material and not be on the lookout that she's been run thru by shitheads by the time she's 25, altho that's prob changing nowadays with all the pilled rhetoric
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:25 PM
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Different types of beauty but same rating to me but u get my point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:34 PM
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I mean that's obviously not what a lot of people mean when they say looksmatch. They mean someone with the same degree/rating of attractiveness. To me Andrew Garfield and Zendaya are looksmatches and they look nothing alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:17 AM
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lol come on now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:00 AM
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i'm sorry what can u elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:05 AM
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true but women are pinkpilled on that shit from birth a lotta men still assume the best of women and are told to be the good nice guy to maximize dating success and it's taboo to talk about or people (at least the mainstream media outlets) will shut you down or call you an incel for bringing it up no man here wants to admit they post here or ever be associated with this sub IRL for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:03 AM
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oh shit you're right *picks up tinfoil hat from trash
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:52 AM
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talkin bout 9/11 being a coordinated conspiracy involving many thousands in law enforcement, media/journalism, fire dept, military, public service, political sector etc when you can't even get 4 people to meet for DnD
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:45 AM
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"Bro after she realized she could barely tell whether you were in or not she prob had to fantasize about getting dp and spitroasted by a gigachad/tyrone 12-incher trio just to keep from throwing up with disgust. Stop coping" incel crabs in bucket
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:43 AM
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I've definitely heard women unironically half-joking half-seriously talking about you need to try out the bad boys and make [the fun] mistakes first before finding and settling down with the right "good" guy. Not saying all women would be like this though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:38 AM
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I don't know if this is actually his situation but whenever you see a beautiful woman with a big fat guy you'll often find they've been together for awhile, and that he was handsome and much fitter (in addition to being tall) when they first dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:54 AM
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are you saying 5 is overrating him?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:39 AM
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lmao i got downvoted too maybe a fat guy or someone who likes them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:34 AM
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a few
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:28 AM
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5 Edit: Might be a weak 6, I googled other pictures of him, his face doesn't look as round or fat in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:18 AM
1

so basically a city planner in the midwest
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:09 AM
1

I saw Magnificent Seven before I saw Seven Samurai.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:06 AM
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chubby hipsters reliving their childhood in their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:04 AM
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Re: Rashomon for some reason I'm not a huge fan of the movies where they go through the same thing from different perspectives or points of view. Same thing with the Groundhog Day formula. I think they were pretty cool at first but for me it's just kind of a novelty that just gets older and worn out the more movies similar to that I watch. Also re: Groundhog Day or Edge of Tomorrow as a viewer it can almost be frustrating seeing the characters react a certain way repeatedly when you know what's …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:04 AM
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I think you went back to edit your comment so maybe try not to be so disingenuous Literally nobody in my list is famous for being ugly, they got famous for other things and their looks just didn't get in the way. You think if Jack Black or Psy were goodlooking people would be like "wait he's too goodlooking, we can't run with this"? What planet did you grow up on?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:58 AM
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........are you for real? So you think everyone I listed is above average? I don't understand why so many people think of only A-list celebs with leading man/woman roles when they neglect literally the remaining 90% of people in supporting, comedy, dramatic or character roles, not to mention other sectors like politics, music, technology, business, countless others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:55 AM
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when you grow up watching so many modern movies that have piggybacked on the classics, actually watching the classics often seems very underwhelming like rashomon or 7 samurai you just gotta keep in mind they have the acclaim and appreciation because they were simply the first of their kind and the directors were seen as trailblazers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:51 AM
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Unconditional love only exists between parent and offspring - if you're lucky. Every other relationship is transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:49 AM
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this is embarrassing af but it might have been when a couple girls told me i could model in college and during that time i was perpetually angry and stressed so i've been unconsciously just blue-steeling it and it became a habit -_- it's making me cringe hard just typing this out. The stereotype about men being able to live off a single compliment for years is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:34 AM
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I never understood women's thing with Duchovny bc of his big nose or squinty eyes but I kinda get it now I guess. I'm slowly becoming able to appreciate more unconventional beauty in people again after years of mainstream media.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:32 AM
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americans also have this obsession with smiling, not just men telling women to smile more or that they'd be so much more attractive if they smiled. I got told constantly I have a good smile and I should smile more instead of looking so pissed. Even by my mom. Never understood it. Just let me be pissed lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:29 AM
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I would've put young Odenkirk as above average in his youth, but not overly so like matinee-idol or a-list or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:27 AM
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lol in japan fucked up teeth (or at least teeth not completely straight or treated with orthodontics) is potentially seen as charming or adding character or uniqueness to one's beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:24 AM
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I dunno, I feel like politicians have a much lower bar. Like they thought John Edwards was hot. Mitt Romney, maybe, yes. JFK also, but not when he was in office, when he was a much younger man, I'd agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:23 AM
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Steve Buscemi comes to mind I'd say he's average, but more unconventional or "interesting" than anything. In his youth his unconventional features might have even worked in his favor. But he's basically what the hivemind bring up as "ugly" whenever the topic comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:21 AM
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Seems like a lot of people by default list 7/10s as average. It's someone attractive enough that they'd consider dating but not exactly b/c of a variety of possible reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:13 AM
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gg
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:12 AM
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Honestly felt the same way about Bill too but apparently he was considered handsome (for a politician maybe?).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:09 AM
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I mean if they really wanted to get rid of you they would have just banned you long ago. I've heard of people getting banned for much less/almost nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:59 PM
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A lot of times I feel like I have high functioning autism to the point where clinically it wouldn't count. I'm also hypersensitive and reactive to social cues and supposedly one of the hallmarks of autism is being unable to read them or know how people are feeling when I'm actually very good at that. I mask socially extremely well and interact with people in a way that basically I'm often told that I am universally liked. But some of the other things...yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:57 PM
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This gets posted in the dailychat every so often but perhaps we should do it again. I have this feeling a lot of men don't have a good idea (or inflated) of what is actually an average looking woman just like the women they accuse of the same thing. Frankly I think both parties are guilty to an extent probably from either entitlement, lack of visual discernment, or spending way too much time online. So what is your idea of average? Name some public figures, celebrities, etc. My examples would be…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:53 PM
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shoot
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:40 PM
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What if I already know I'm a pussy, can I save myself the suffering and everyone the tax dollars and suspense
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:38 PM
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Can't old redneck conservatives come up with insults better than demonrats which sounds like something a 70 year old came up with in the 1950s?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:32 PM
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.....ww who date bm are called out or ridiculed constantly all the time, wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:32 PM
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Lmao oh ok cool. "Not here for semantics" is going to be my new default argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:29 PM
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I don't think you know what average looks like...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:57 PM
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Okay but an ugly woman won't ever get any above average man to want to commit to her. Top-tier men can find top-tier women for both casual or commitment even if the sheer quantity of thirst may not be there for them, or any man vs for women. Even as I defend men constantly I know ugly women aren't going to find much solace in crazy or desperate perverts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:52 PM
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The supposedly average woman is more attractive to me than the supposedly hot one
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:50 PM
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Well, just like how women respond when we say 'not all men': It's enough women. Enough women that it's a problem that needs to be talked about and addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:51 PM
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Statistically men are much more likely to be single now than women, esp young men vs young women, which was not always the case. The percentage of single men under 30 continued to increase even from 2019 to the present, so something or things have def changed and it's not just the internet giving whiners a voice. Sources are readily available with a quick google.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:45 PM
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best to not worry about stupid shit, use whatever you want
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:31 AM
1

Slightly related, I've had quite a few discussions about this with my female friends who talk about emotional and unpaid labor. One example is on my days off when they said my ex was performing a lot of emotional labor while I sat on my ass and wanted to do nothing and she planned a day to the park or museum with lunch. I ended up going a lot of times, but I didn't ask for it. She decided and insisted on me participating, and it sounds shitty to say but I honestly don't think I necessarily benef…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:28 AM
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It's definitely harder but there isn't a metaphorical ceiling that makes it impossible Terms like glass ceiling and privilege are just there to sound more legitimate and official when pushing agendas. In reality it's just that life isn't fair. Certain disadvantages are simply more politicized, and I'm not saying these disadvantages shouldn't necessarily be addressed or remedied.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:24 AM
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But the 'unpaid' adjective is only used with unpaid labor done by women b/c it infers and highlights that they should be paid or have been oppressed. There's no such push for compensating men so when men do it the adjective isn't used.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:21 AM
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the shape and scooping is true, not the alphas have smaller dicks thing considering alpha males for humans isn't even an exact science if it's real at all bro hasn't listed a source which isn't surprising b/c they don't exist, there aren't even any pseudoscientific bullshit links if you try to google it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:10 AM
1

sounds legit lolo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:50 AM
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what fresh cope is this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:36 AM
1

the 500 hats of bartholomew cubbins
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:13 AM
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I like the longer full names. Idk why so many guys go by Max, Seb or Bart when they have Maximilian, Sebastian, Bartholomew. So much cooler and regal sounding lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:04 AM
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All the women I've talked to have agreed Something about it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:55 AM
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For guys I like Sebastian, Theodore, Oliver, and Bartholomew
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:52 AM
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baby names are really just names
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:45 AM
2

I am this but I still would need about 10lbs more pure fat just to feel and look more normal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:18 AM
2

hate us cuz u aint us
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:07 AM
5

it's an american site and we're the best
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:47 PM
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Tbh if i was living in the 100 acre forest, id probably try and bang kanga I really need to just leave this place once and for all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:24 PM
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Whether it's just your opinion or you're objectively correct, the eating shit so the dems can smell their breath thing doesn't apply here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:54 AM
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The binary shit is by social design. Asian women sexualized and seen as hyperfeminine (which is stupid, so many asian women have large masculine faces and features it's not even funny), the men seen as weak or emasculated, black women seeing as loud and hypermasculine, the men being hypersexualized. None of this is by accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:43 AM
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Based on his response? He's just saying he's choosing the side that he doesn't think is as bad even tho he likes neither. I'm assuming millions of Democrats did/felt the same when they voted for Biden in 2020, or planned to this year before Kamala took the helm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:39 AM
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I think he can have a valid point without valuing those without children less.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:43 AM
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I dunno. I wasn't really responding to that specifically I guess. I'm against a lot of things both parties stand for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:42 AM
1

So did JD Vance have a point then
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:29 AM
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I hear a lot of "if it was any other election or period of time I wouldn't be as harsh, but this time more than ever we need to vote Democrat because it's Trump." We now look back on McCain, Romney, the Bushes and go "remember those days when politicians were civilized and acted like grownups". But people were the same way back then. It was "if it was any other candidate I might reconsider but we absolutely cannot let this Romney shithead win." As a kid I remember my aunt breaking down and cryin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:08 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:37 AM
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got it, not everyone can separate their preferences from the preferences of others or objectivity
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:37 AM
1

But then as inappropriate as this sounds, wouldn't you want your son to grow up with an aesthetic penis so that he'll be more attractive to women when they have sex? My question would then be why not circumcise him anyway then?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:25 AM
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oh absolutely, but i guess 1) I'm not into asian women anyway and 2) it's not really comforting knowing even guys like that can make it and you wonder if there's something wrong with the women. But purely pragmatically if you're looking for asian women, yes half asian guys do great.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:20 AM
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lol well i'm not going to press you on that but it does make me curious, sounds like some pretty specific acts if the presence of a foreskin makes it impossible since the foreskin moves back in most cases during sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:19 AM
1

So why do you prefer circumcised men if you don't want your child circumcised? Is it an aesthetic or sexual preference in the men you date or do you think it's something your kid should have autonomy to decide for himself later?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:16 AM
1

yeah but not required can just be a loser who goes there to teach english
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:09 AM
1

The only unreasonable one I see is the sex one. Not even fairly high libido men want to have sex wherever and whenever some of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:08 AM
1

just-be-a-skinny-white-dork-and-move-to-asia pill wins out again exhibit #98746401
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:07 AM
1

Finally, a standard I can live up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:59 AM
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I don't understand your first two points. Children are better off raised in two parent households so individual men should get married and have children?.......If they don't get married there's no children to be raised. Very confused here. Unless you're assuming a ton of men are having children out of wedlock for the sake of not wanting to get married. Re: 2) It's hard for women to pursue passions with only her income so....a man should wife her up so she can better pursue her passions b/c he's …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:06 AM
1

Right, I think I've just read too many comments from kpop stans insisting they love feminine men to the point of them literally looking like girls, but I get these are likely niche preferences and people like this congregate online and are particularly outspoken.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:55 PM
1

well and also you seem to be into very cutesy things like anime stuff or the games you like my bad if I'm wrong, maybe I need to check my biases x)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:42 PM
1

Are these your preferences? For some reason I assumed you'd want a more feminine guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:33 PM
2

But these women are saying they're getting zero attention...not even ugly men are looking their way, they feel completely invisible. Not even sleazy low-effort come-ons from bottom of the barrel dudes looking to get their dick wet. According to you, even 300 lb bridge trolls are getting propositions IRL even from some allegedly attractive men, which tells me it's probably something mental going on skewing their perceptions. It is likely almost none of these women on these subs are bridge trolls,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:28 PM
2

I'm trying to take them at their word. A quick scan at that sub revealed many posts where the women say they get zero attention and that no man will even look in their direction much less help them when they help other women. Which I assume means even ugly or normal men. How is that possible when your inbox is flooded with DMs? The men can't all be hideous creeps, and even if they were, according to these women they aren't even noticed by the bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:46 AM
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It’s absolutely not exaggerated. Will all men have sex with a bridge troll? No. Will a 5’2”, 300 lb middle aged alcoholic woman with horrible body odor be able to walk into a bar on a Saturday night and find more than one man, some actually relatively attractive men, willing to have sex with her? All day, every day. I tended bar for five years, have seen it with my own eyes. I've never observed anything close to this. I'll just do the polite thing and say we might just come from vastly different…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:38 AM
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"Men will have sex with a bridge troll" does seem to be something people just throw around but is so severely exaggerated. Also, if you read a lot of the posts in places like FAWomen it's women wishing for literally any kind of attention and saying they are constantly ignored or feel invisible. Tbf these women also sound either a little crazy or very crazy so there are probably other things going on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:13 AM
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Tbf I've never ever heard women bring up Dolph Lundgren, he's almost exclusively the domain of blackpillers online with masc fetishes. He's a perfect example of someone worshipped that the opp sex rarely ever thinks about just like the female looksmaxxers and their pet favorites over on places like vindicta.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:10 AM
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if i remember your tastes are actually much more reflective of the conventional female gaze anyway....you're comparing it to blackpill online niche guys with BDD and EDs with all sorts of weird fetishes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:02 AM
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Much like their male counterparts, most of them are the way they are bc of mental issues. BDD, anxiety, depression, OCD. Probably some PTSD involved, broken and dysfunctional upbringing and living situations. Trust still that even despite this the men will have it harder b/c mental illness and social incompetence hurts men significantly more with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:59 AM
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Ingest the Just-weigh-80-pounds pill
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:54 AM
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The femcel subs past and current full of women talking about how no one wants them always curiously have issues with the women getting too many DMs. When they say they are depressed no one wants them it translates to the tiktok influencer they follow doesn't know who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:53 AM
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there are also a lot of people who agree with you, and you're just focusing on the people who disagree in places that are probably the worst to look anyway for feedback
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:48 AM
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people are retarded, esp blackpillers online, just ignore them they also literally seem blind and can't rate for shit it's a bunch of men (or women) who have no idea what the opp sex wants or likes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:40 AM
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Even top-tier dick is limited in worth unless the top-tier dick comes with commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:50 AM
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I'm absolutely sure a lot of these asmon dick-riders are just on the whiny men and fanbase bandwagon, but in their defense there is a difference between a strong relatable well-written female character and one that is clearly forced to fill diversity quotas, check off boxes and cash in on woke culture; it's this trend that's been everpresent the past 5-10 years that is the legitimate problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:41 AM
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In some cases I don't doubt this is true but in others these were women who had already suggested sex in a casual manner or invited me to their place after 10pm and it's happy hour drinks or dinner the next day or following week. Maybe I just live in an area where the people are more modern or progressive about things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:36 AM
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Honestly I was expecting a warning I know how they are with race here even with casual banter/jokes. Probably just depends on the individual comment and whether there are people who actually report you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:22 AM
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damn was it that obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:19 AM
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Bc women tend to like pale and skinny men, that leads to a more rodent look bc of features that stick out and lack of sunlight etc. I'm pale and skinny myself, no hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:10 AM
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As a mostly white guy, I'm not obsessed with white men, although if I was I wouldn't be ashamed of admitting it. It's just amusing again that it bothers you so much what people think of your preferences on an anonymous forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:08 AM
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I remember vividly one time my two female friends were whispering and after one of them left the other one looked really distraught, down and concerned. And I asked her "uhhh what's wrong" and it turns out she was telling the other girl she thought another guy in our circle was really cute and the other girl disagreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:07 AM
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The wolves are all your personalities and the white lamb in the middle is the white pretty boy Nom nom
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:55 AM
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I think the difference is men may be concerned of the opinions of others re: their selection b/c they want other men to respect, admire, or feel jealousy b/c of their arm candy. For women it seems like they directly tie their taste to their self-worth and criticizing or disparaging a man they are into is almost taken as a personal attack. For men it's "Oh...maybe I should find another woman my friends think is hot."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:50 AM
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Yes it would depend on their reasoning. If it's pragmatic or personality-based I'd be more open to it, but if it's based on something like looks or style of dress I'd just chalk it up to "well that's just you"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:46 AM
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yeah that's a common cited difference between men and women, although i'm sure men care to an extent too eg the trope of men not wanting to be seen in public with an unconventional looking or fat woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:43 AM
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I can understand that to a huge extent, a lot of people, men and women, care about what others think. They want people to think they are intelligent, capable, attractive, trustworthy etc. It's just hard to understand why this extends into areas like personal taste or preference in the opp sex...or clothing/fashion. Maybe historically women have just been more likely to be judged for their preferences or acting on their preferences, I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:38 AM
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Women in general seem to care much more about how other people view their taste in men or whatever way they are oriented. They heavily tie their sense of self with it and feel actually insulted insecure if people criticize for example a man they find attractive. It's hard to understand, like if I show my friend a pic of a girl I think is hot and he goes "she's mid af" or "I see you only like latinas" I'm not going to feel anything about it except maybe respond with a jab of my own. And furthermo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:26 AM
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In my opinion the -cel suffix is still adequate even if you're not a virgin as long as you're having issues that prevent you from more sex or relationships with women. Like me being able to initiate or open just fine but I can only NT-mask for so long before the neuroticism and paranoia take over. I'm glad you don't have those issues though~
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:20 AM
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I'm saying no matter what the result is just going to be some conventionally attractive dude, why do you care how people respond it's just reddit, and if you're going to post about "omg i just saw the hottest guy" it's not really interesting for discussion or banter if there's no pic to go along with it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:16 AM
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You can be both if you do skincare and grooming assuming you already have masc features. Honestly most men look the best in their late 20s, a lot of younger guys still have that awkward baby-fat look in their face. This is assuming they take care of themselves, that's a big if. Unless you've somehow just aged really poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:14 AM
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so another white pretty boy? in all seriousness what's the worst they could say "oh look another chad"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:09 AM
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picture?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:03 AM
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I don't think the men are taking it that way at all, they're taking it at face value, and interpreting it as gaslighting or lack of empathy. These men may also feel like they've been told their entire lives from an early age by the media or society that they need to do better or become less problematic, hold other men accountable, become allies, among a myriad of things while at the same time being told they are on their own with men's issues i.e. "It's not women's responsibility to support men,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:56 PM
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I'm saying I don't care about the differences b/c my general overall opinion toward both of them remain similar or the same bc they share enough of the views I disagree with. Just like how a lot of people don't care if someone identifies as tradcon or alt-right, they hate everything they stand for either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:49 PM
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Libs, leftists, I know there's a difference but it's all the same to me. I don't agree with everything she says either I'm just saying nothing is good enough for them. I doubt leftists as a whole are going to just refrain from voting or write in a protest vote, most still believe the alternative is unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:44 PM
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The backlash against Chappell Roan and her refusal to endorse Harris despite still voting for her is a testament to how you cannot win with the left. You can be a fucking uber progressive LGBTQ up and coming pop star icon and they will still trash you if there's anything you say that's not good enough for them. If you haven't been eaten alive by those in your ranks, it's just a matter of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:39 PM
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You also a part asian mentalcel? Are we brothers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:19 PM
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Gigachads flex the Costco membership card
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:17 PM
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Almost all dates I've been on the woman has insisted on splitting. Not sure if that's a good or bad thing. Like good bc she isn't betabuxxing me? Or bad b/c that means she doesn't take me serious when I offer to pay. Either way I manage to sabotage or fuck things up shortly later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:16 PM
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I mean there are a lot of causes people care about even if statistically they are unlikely to be victims, and they also tend to personally identify with the victim demographic bc that's how people work. For example, single women still campaign to spread awareness about domestic violence victims and donate to women's shelters. I'm guessing kissless hugless virgins don't plan on staying that way forever and many want to start a family eventually, regardless of how realistic a goal that is for them…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 11:10 PM
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There was a comment that I thought was so fitting, something like if he's the most beautiful man you've ever seen, that means he has options. That means you're the one applying for the job, not him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:40 PM
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I don't think he's a troll, just very fucked up with major issues. Usually trolls don't just spam a bunch of comments then delete their account when criticized and then rinse and repeat in the exact same place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:36 PM
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He has already admitted that he is self-hating, he literally refers to the language his parents speak as stupid for no other reason than it's not english and wants so badly to be a white guy lol. At the very least he is self-hating in that he hates his phenotype and looks and all the traits that are the result of his ethnic background because he can't get white women, which is more than sufficient to qualify, as well as being rooted in racism or white standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:31 PM
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Just like how she was such a good communicator she sat next to him for 30 min and said nothing bc she's too good to say anything first.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:28 PM
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You genuinely think that situation you described is comparable to this of a 1st generation American (or Canadian) of immigrant parents, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:15 PM
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Some women are so bad at describing men or what they are attracted to, I don't know why. "I saw the most beautiful man. He had.....brown hair....super tall."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:12 PM
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par for the course here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:04 PM
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sure thing jan
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:57 PM
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I don't think you know what that word means.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:46 PM
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an imaginary scenario that happens 5% of the time? Nobody says this about fear of assault when less than 1% of the population has committed assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:42 PM
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.....it's the people and language of his ethnic and cultural background, doesn't matter how westernized he is if his parents are from India. How is it not self-hate again? Also bro literally admits to self-hating and tries to justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:31 PM
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Americanized Indian men actually do amazingly well with women (and yes, white women, since it matters so much to this guy). Like to the point where it's kind of shocking, not in a "shocked b/c I was expecting them to suck ass" but shocked due to unusually good results.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:24 PM
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sad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:19 PM
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Don't shit on your own people's language. You're a disgrace.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:17 PM
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I'm sure it's been done many times both in actuality and also with catfishing so there's probably at least casual observational data available.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:56 PM
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You're free to google. My observations are mainly that muscles help but I've also noticed alongside common sense after a certain point it becomes excessive or gross with diminishing returns.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:50 PM
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I'm sure some do. It's just one of many isolated physical traits they obsess over depending on the day or trend. And the ones with regular or even wider wrists probably think their wrists aren't big enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:47 PM
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Most women like muscles but not to the point of steroidmaxxed. Muscles and body help a ton, and benefit normies more than they benefit Chad relatively speaking. Chad already does well whether he lifts or not, for average looking men it's a difference between getting almost nothing to hey hmmm getting some good feedback and attention here and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:44 PM
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Incels at one point were - and probably still are - obsessed with wrist circumference and there were many who insisted it was the reason why women found them repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:42 PM
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And you're not even one of the bad ones here. It's time to ask some of the real POS on PPD to go to your school sub to ask for Gender Studies class notes, as a social experiment we need to send our best. Where's the BMI guy and his sith lord protege.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:59 AM
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I don't know if this is a thing but some men have said it's easy or even fun flirting with other men bc there's no stake (e.g. a gay man flirting with a straight man or vice versa), when it comes down to it you are on different teams and it's somehow....fun or a way to relieve stress or let loose. Can't say I agree entirely but it is 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:49 AM
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Still weird, takes a pretty big tattletale with zero social life to give a shit about that which says a lot since this is reddit after all. Like they were wondering "hm let's check to see if this guy's a misogynist first before we give him any help"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:44 AM
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I'll give them the benefit of the doubt and assume they're the former. If they're the latter, yeah I can see how that is an annoying opinion to have but Idc that much either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:42 AM
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A lot of my gay friends obviously know I'm not gay but repeatedly make jokes or suggestive remarks that I like men or could potentially want to fuck men given the right circumstances. I don't particularly care but it's weird that they do it so much...I'm not saying to them "she has nice tits, don't deny it" when a hot woman comes along. Edit come to think of it they would prob actually just be like "omg yes I love her boobs they are so nice."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:37 AM
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You know I feel bad for making this remark bc I know there are creeps and malicious people out there but it's just funny that there's a sticky about being careful with DM and chat requests on a sub where I'm guessing all the women are saying nobody wants them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:33 AM
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Did you provide specific personal info or like your full name on this account in your comment history? Also quite the coincidence for someone to have visited both subs extensively to the point where they would even notice anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:12 AM
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Unless you're doing very slow reps or foregoing any type of aerobic or interval training, you're not going hard enough if you can breathe through your nose the entire time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:07 AM
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not my thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 03:12 AM
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The POC conservatives are often even more extreme bc you know they had to make extra effort to be accepted. It's like non-white cops, even though I'm not into the whole all cops are bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:30 AM
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A link to an instagram reel of kind of a chubby but good natured extroverted dude doing a PSA about women sending him too many nudes and how even if he's a nice guy not all guys can be trusted. Then you find out he's 6'6".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:25 AM
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Things might be changing, but a lot of half or part asians tend to shun their asian side due to wanting to confirm to the white standard their entire lives. There's a lot of internalized issues with them and just asian americans in general. Hopefully things will get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:21 AM
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heightpill wins again
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:41 AM
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some people pay good money for that kinda action
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:19 AM
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And shorter men in your situation have it even worse. I know this is true even when I know nothing about you or what you're going through.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:15 AM
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Impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:13 AM
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Ask yourself what things would be like if you were 5'7".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:22 AM
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that is so weird that the first fear that pops into a person's mind about posting a pic of their gf is that they don't want to look like a cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:53 PM
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I'm not sure of anything. That's why I asked. Like the women complaining on tiktok don't seem especially unstable (well, maybe some do) so I'm just looking for insight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:48 PM
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This is the type of answer/ideas I was looking to consider even if I may not entirely agree. It's funny men nowadays will ironically forego calling a woman crazy or dumb because the narrative with the monopoly is that she is chasing only chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:40 PM
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Plenty of gamers maintain friendships and networks with people they otherwise would have never met even though obviously toxicity exists in the context of interaction with randos. It's not just meeting new people but a way to keep in touch with those who are far away or maybe moved somewhere else for work. Men have a hard enough time maintaining friendships as is, gaming provides a medium to make it easier. Men bond by doing things together; their interaction is more facing the same direction, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:32 PM
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we want a source that "most" men lie for sex, to quote you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:24 PM
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It seems like if they are actually not being able to find what they are looking for, it's either very vague (where are all the good/real men) or they'll just frame it as men being hard to understand, being wrong, or not willing to commit. If they say they can't find what they are looking for it's almost like admitting to having too high of standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:21 PM
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We don't, that's why I'm asking the question. What other possibilities could there be, if the men are not out of her league.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:53 PM
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why do men get so offended that women think a hobby where you sit around looking at a screen is unattractive? At least gaming is interactive and potentially fosters community. Tbf I wouldn't have a problem with this if so many of the women saying this didn't sit around watching reality tv and binging netflix as if they are the outdoorsy type. People have this idea that gaming is this super unproductive loser hobby when other hobbies aren't much better if at all. Like cool, you shit on your guy f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:50 PM
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So does this mean she's also just down for something casual and then does a schrodinger later and decides hey i might want to date this guy long-term? Because I feel like if she was really set on commitment she would def be vetting, and a lot of these women don't really seem stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:37 PM
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In cases of women who are decent looking with a relatively normal mental profile and struggling to get commitment from men (eg those women complaining about dating on tiktoks), what other possibilities could there be aside from her constantly reaching for and feeling entitled to men out of her league? I don't doubt there are exceptions and answers I'm just curious what people come up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:26 PM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:06 AM
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She's pretty enough in a bland way. My theory and observations have led me to believe a neutral good enough face is sufficient for both men and women if the body (or height, for men) is good. Almost like if it doesn't take away from the other qualities it's gonna be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:18 AM
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This won't ever happen, but it'd be nice if every one of these types of videos had a picture or pictures of the guy(s) that keep standing her up and wasting her time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:15 AM
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I've heard research that goes both ways. Also that masculinity can tend to be a novelty after all needs are met, feminine features are preferred in less developed areas as a natural default - or you can interpret them as areas that have less exposure to mainstream media - and is more of a trend or status symbol among more well-off women. Or that the most well-off women with the easiest lifestyle are the ones who can afford to select for the most attractive men. In reality it's prob more complex …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:10 AM
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To add on, a lot of Asian standards are what white people would consider ordinary or traits that are common in white people and are otherwise boring or bad, which are large round eyes, smaller and narrower faces and chins and pale skin. A lot of blackpillers in the west would call these guys the definitive incel archetype. It's a grass is greener on the other side thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:54 AM
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That's been my modus operandi for meeting friends and choosing who I associate with since I was 7. If it ain't broke don't fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:49 AM
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A lot of people's tastes fall outside conventional norms until they get brainwashed by media or other people's influence. It happened to me, the people I think are 10s now would have been bland and invisible to me earlier in life (like Hexum or Matt Bomer, but Lachowski is the exception). I also had a partially asian upbringing so that probably also affected my standards ie overly square jaws, hunter eyes, tan skin are considered ordinary or ugly. You like guys like young Al Pacino versus brickf…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:47 AM
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hey that's my line
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:35 PM
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That's the problem with blackpillers is for people who are so obsessed with looks and all their standards and systems of analysis, you'd think they'd be more accurate in assessing what is attractive and what isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:14 PM
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If you're looking for likeable people in GOT, you're gonna have a bad time Although I guess I did find the basically objectively "good" people ie the Starks to be the most boring characters
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:05 PM
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Yeah, I try to justify making fun of her looks by referring to her crimes and personality - not to mention her ironically being into eugenics - but in trying to be a better person I remind myself I'm also indirectly making fun of every decent person who looks like her too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 10:59 PM
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Meanwhile men on incel forums "Maxillacels GTFIH rate foid with shitty forward growth but somehow still hot??"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 10:50 PM
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So many women say they are particular about the type of men they like visually and then say well maybe these men aren't objective 10s but they are their subjective 10s. If there are so many subjective 10s that basically means objective 10s don't exist and there is limited objectivity to looks aside from very basic markers of health like symmetry, skin and hair quality, relative youth, and so on. I don't think anyone actually has a thing for fucked up skin or teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 10:39 PM
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I don't feel like gaming is a loser hobby anymore. Even Stacies game, even if it's likely to be one of the more high-profile popular games.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:47 AM
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There are definitely many key traits that will make most women at least give the man a chance due to perceived potential. Social skills, charisma, conventional good looks, success and social proof - the man might not be her exact type but men who have many of these traits are going to make most women (who are looking for men) stick around to at least see where things might go.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:53 AM
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It is a man's world if we're talking less than 0.1% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:36 AM
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There might be a select few insecure men who are intimidated by a woman who makes a lot more than them but otherwise how much she makes isn't good or bad, it's a non-issue as long as she isn't broke or working retail if the man is class-conscious. If anything those in the mentioned group might only feel this way bc they've experienced being looked down upon or rejected by women more successful than them, not b/c of feeling any hurt ego or actual shame for not making as much $ as her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:30 AM
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The generalizations about female friendship dynamics were apparent to me since h/s, and carried on through college (sororities, instagram, friends in greek life who readily admit to this fakeness) and so on once you get into the boss-babe corporate world or other female dominated industries like hospitality, nursing, and real-estate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:26 AM
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It occurs in all classes of women. Again, if you have a problem with me generalizing female friendships it's weird you would generalize male ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:20 AM
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My circles are UMC. I still see a general pattern: Men may "have friends" but they do a poor job of maintaining contact or communicating; they are reluctant to open up or seek help from the people who are there meant to be there for support. Women have a greater quantity of friends but a lot of those friends are as I said temporary and seasonal, the dynamic is fake and just to maintain norms and image. For the record ofc a lot of people still have a couple friends they are actually close to, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:17 AM
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Sure, and you have guys saying "wait, I definitely have close friends I cherish." General rule still applies despite exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:13 AM
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Men have little to no friends. Women have fake friends. Everyone is failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:10 AM
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It's a catchy song, and it's trendy and safe and respected to always say you just wanna have fun and don't care about money. I just think people read too much into things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:14 AM
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That's not a blackpill anthem, it's just another song where women virtue signal saying they aren't golddiggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:07 AM
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Me too, I was thinking I was bored and over it until I realized it's actually pretty hard to find another game with similar appeal and quality. Waiting for the next one I guess, which won't be for awhile since Nintendo won't be releasing their next-gen console til next year.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:46 PM
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Moderation means a few hours a week Rookie numbers even if you're talking daily
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:44 PM
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Man it sucks being right all the time >_> Stardew Valley is stressful af tho. I couldn't get into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:42 PM
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for some reason tho not too hard to figure out why I associate you with the cozygamers sub and Stardew Valley
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:39 PM
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probably, i keep forgetting how low the bar is for average it's not even bc of genetics or whatever, most people just don't gaf guys freely acknowledging if they put more effort into their looks they'd do better with women but they still don't do it all while continuing to complain they don't do well with women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:25 PM
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So your logic is women aren't looking for a romantic encounter with every man so a looks threshold doesn't exist when she is looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:22 PM
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some guys look better with a little weight on them and some don't. In his case the skinny tim burton look was his niche with younger women or women into that aesthetic, he was never the type to look good jacked
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:20 PM
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don't u like kpop dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:18 PM
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He might have looked better/more normal with a narrower face that wasn't shaped like a shovel or hatchet tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:18 PM
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it's simpler than that....the radfem and femcel subs like fds or gendercritical got banned or went private, same reason why incels migrated to other subs after their spaces got banned
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:34 AM
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you?? nah..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:19 AM
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LOL i'm just trolling. Lifting and body provide an absolute halo. It actually helps average looking guys more than goodlooking guys, goodlooking guys already do well and lifting will make them do even better. Average guys will get jackshit but by lifting/body their halo will get them some if not a lot, and Leonidas's face while not model tier is absolutely more than sufficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:45 AM
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why lift when it's all about your face - franco lechomsky
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:38 AM
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reported
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:35 AM
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Surprising her with flowers at work after relationship is swoonworthy Surprising her with flowers at work when she doesn't like you like that = right to jail
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:15 AM
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based john viii
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:12 AM
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People act in accordance with their options, but there are always exceptions I suppose the fact that he simps despite not needing to is a big part of the attraction, like the bad boy who happens to make an exception and treat her very respectfully
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:11 AM
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I feel your examples of men don't really cover a lot of the men struggling, because these men usually don't make good money and/or have charisma. Very few men with those qualities or good looks ofc are having a rough time. The closest I can concede is maybe those men with money but can't get anyone to save their life, in which case it's absolutely their personality. There are men so ugly they can't get anyone, but that is very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:07 AM
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The type of man who is least likely to ever feel the need to simp
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:03 AM
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He looks like the guy posted earlier after a good night's sleep
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:58 AM
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If women didn't want these men exclusively, they wouldn't want them in their harems either
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:56 AM
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this place must be a buffet for you then
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:43 AM
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crazy talk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:42 AM
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yet another case for the importance of social skills and interacting with people IRL if you can't rely on photogenics
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:19 AM
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CMV the reason why looks seems to matter more than ever these days for men is b/c men have little to no hope of excelling in any other areas that would also attract women. B/c our economic climate is so fucked up many men won't ever be rich or even move past living paycheck to paycheck. A lot of people grew up with the internet and have social stunting, esp those who came of age during the pandemic and had to spend the end of their h/s or college years there. What you get is entire generations o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:08 AM
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at least with video games assuming they play online it's a way of keeping the brain active with coordination, maintenance of motor skills and communication and fostering relationships and community granted i know a lot of guys just end up in toxic circles and it'd be better if they actually went outside and met people IRL but for those where for whatever reason it's not an option it's better than nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:51 AM
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Fairly legit I have a friend she's 22 and has 50 squishmallows.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:28 AM
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A lot of what we're attracted to is due to exposure which is why there's always a fuss about proper media representation but it also works the same way with personal environment or surroundings. Right out of college I worked a job with a lot of black and latina women and for a while I found them the most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:41 PM
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upgrading you're gonna make it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:28 PM
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unlimited beef jerky for life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:18 PM
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Are you asian yourself? I'm part asian but for some reason asian women just don't do it for me. I figure it's fine, since there are plenty of dudes into them and plenty of asian women who date white or non-asian men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:16 PM
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get that bag john
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:03 PM
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If you like tall girls like I do, you might find that some tall girls def hold the conventional preference that their men need to be even taller, but there are also those who, due to already having been tall their entire lives, either think height isn't a big deal or actually might even prefer a shorter man. The women most obsessed with height - obvi not all but the ones who are - are the really short ones looking for compensation. In college there was a 6'1" blonde knockout who asked me out eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 10:00 PM
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so that's why you can't leave him i'm jp
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:57 PM
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This sub has drama and brainrot but isn't quite as depraved as those other places that's why
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:52 PM
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how dare u, victoria justice is top tier
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:31 AM
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I would agree. It's also a place where people's more light-hearted side comes out versus the regular threads where everyone is just emotionally invested in pushing whatever polarized narrative they're into at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:00 AM
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Except that male preferences are still shamed. When it comes to female preferences it's "you can't negotiate attraction" "sorry about it".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:12 AM
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That's what happened to me but it's also probably genetics. I got some of the feminine "pretty" features and a good jaw but my brother has always been more straight Chad, very neurotypical and social, athletic, tan etc. I'm the sensitive pale neurotic fucked up one and this was apparent from an early age. He also ate way more than me but we're about the same height, he just has a better more muscular build naturally. Life has never been fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:32 AM
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Then you're a rare one. Although you did say what's ugly to you is different to others which means there are still ugly people to you. There's plenty of women on here who say looks matter a lot, or are even #1. Overall my conclusion is that it depends on the woman and looks is probably a function of status which is what ultimately matters; it's certainly not as uniform as say for men who almost universally agree looks are a priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:52 PM
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For the women who are allegedly happily married or in a relationship, it is kind of weird why they're here. You're content with your LTR but still choose to engage daily with a bunch of resentful incel-adjacent men for months on end? While complaining about it? For clarification I'm talking about the women who are happy, not women who are with someone but are having issues and hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:18 PM
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How do you come to conclude that "You will do as I command" is threatening physical harm vs simply threatening other consequences like grounding or relinquishing of privileges? Like I said, it's just something intimidating a lot of parents, American or not, do end up saying from time to time. If not that it's something very similar, "As long as you live under my roof, you'll do as I say", et al.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:12 PM
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It's a gray area. Just like spanking. Violence is obviously unacceptable but parents say things to their children that double as "threats" all the time as my point. Do this or else. Or I'll take away your phone, or you're not going to your friend's house, or you won't be going out or to the party this weekend. And so on. America is no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:08 PM
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John VIII
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:57 PM
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Yeah probably not. Was assuming you were just talking about a single regular zit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:55 PM
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"Oh shit, it's John the 8th with a folding chair!"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:54 PM
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Ignoring first off the unfortunate fact that kids are spanked and beaten and worse and the parents still get away with it, "do as I command" or a similar phrase is something a lot of parents just say and it works to instill fear or deterrence. Most of the time there isn't actually anything physically done nor is the child bold enough to ask "or what". If there isn't any assault most kids aren't going to go to any authorities. Not everyone in America is on board with the super PC progressive let …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:49 PM
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All that means is your looks threshold is different from others or that you may be less or more stringent and flexible about it. There are some women who can come to be attracted to a guy no matter what he looks like but I would say it's rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:47 PM
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or just use a concealer with salycylic acid and spot treat, works fairly fast and hides it at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:45 PM
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it happens all the time in america with zero repercussions not sure if it works tho i agree there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:43 PM
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"As long as you live under my roof, young lady/man"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:42 PM
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I didn't know you cut your hair already, but ya you're well on the way through that pipeline.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:26 AM
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Did u know Jon is not a real Jon bc Jon is short for Jonathan which is actually a version of Nathan Follow me for more white people facts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:21 AM
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Gonna call you John from now on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:10 AM
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There are many men who aren't cels who nevertheless still struggle with women or at least have some major hangups and trauma fallout. I have the biggest trust issues with people and it bleeds into how things progress when I try to make things work out long term. I also have major anxiety and OCD and understand the male perspective re: modern dating. Also a lot of our lives are boring and empty af and this is just the place we happened to run into and decided to waste time at. I could ask why the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:08 AM
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George
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:55 AM
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is your name alexandra, you sound like an alexandra that was my friend's alcoholic emo gf's name but she shortened it to lexi
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:51 AM
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you're honestly one of my favorite posters when you left i was wondering if you were never coming back
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:33 AM
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i'm the one who told you you're the opposite of fat, why do you talk to us like we're a monolith
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:27 AM
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Is there a circle for people who eat too much beef jerky
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:23 AM
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Most incel or incel-adjacent men are mentalcels. That's the truth. I remember when I first discovered a depraved incel forum and I automatically just assumed everyone was fat and hairy and drowning in their filth. Then some of them posted their photos and I was completely shocked how normal or even good they looked. Makes you wonder just how completely useless or garbage they are socially, which makes sense with the level of autism in those places.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:17 AM
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I think she does that same act in a few different places in the same outfit but yeah that's the one. She's not my type, looks a little too babyface-ish but she's def cute and it was one of the songs I came across when studying french.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:11 AM
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That one live version with her lip synching in that black dress/outfit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:04 AM
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I mostly agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:05 AM
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Is being a member of this sub actually improving your life? No, it is not. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:25 AM
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Maybe a better way to put it is simply that aspects of a man's personality matter a lot to women even if there is a looks threshold to pass first. Those aspects are not necessarily altruism or integrity, but more in the realm of charisma, emotional intelligence, navigating conversations and cultivating a warm and engaging dynamic. So personality matters a ton, just not in the way a lot of men seem to think it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:18 AM
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For all intents and purposes an attractive personality is what a good personality is supposed to be. A lot of people say personality doesn't matter here b/c they have the wrong idea of what a good personality is, thinking it's just when you're nice and polite with good intentions. Not going to work if your social skills, awareness, or emotional intelligence are shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:49 AM
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yeah no offense canadians are just as stupid and racist as americans - if not even moreso. Even the minority groups seem more elitist cliquish and arrogant from what I've seen in BC or Toronto. difference is there's a lie that you guys are better and you never pass up a chance to remind us how much superior you are with tolerance, politics, healthcare or education
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:45 AM
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Pretty face bc it still has fat and isn't as lean as the rest of her body, but most straight men aren't wired to be sexually drawn to high muscle definition. They do however, think it is visually impressive and want to have it on their own body themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:26 AM
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"Q4W: Are you actually attracted to your partner?" "Q4W: Would you rather your son be a nice loser or a goodlooking asshole?"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:23 AM
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It's kind of the same way a lot of women aren't drawn to hypermasculinity even though they do like at least some masculinity in their men. It's not either/or. Some bitchiness or emotional outburst can be cute or hot but not psycho territory or to the point where it makes your life or daily routines and functioning more difficult eg spending 4 hours in a boring department store or putting up with days of silent treatment or passive aggressiveness wondering what the hell is going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:53 PM
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If you're talking about extreme traits like those, then yea. 99% of people fit somewhere in the middle. People also like to confirm their beliefs about personality from looks when it's the other way around a lot of the time. Like they see a fat person acting poorly and go "yeah ofc fat people are so entitled and shitty", when it's more like they let themselves go because there's something wrong with their mind and personality to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:32 PM
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It's...not attractive to men. Men will put up with it b/c of other qualities or out of desperation or fear of not finding anyone else. Or maybe due to having no spine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:27 PM
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나도 한국말 연습한지 오래 됐어 I'm currently working on Spanish since it gives me the most opportunity to practice in my state.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:09 PM
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고마워 친구
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:04 PM
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Hey, got any raisins? No... Okay how about a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:00 PM
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I have a hard time believing the socioeconomic class you were born into has less of an effect on economic standing than your face. Unless we're talking like top 0.001% of looks, maybe. There are an absolute shit-ton of poor people born goodlooking who still struggle. They may be just fine in dating and fucking, but their money situation is not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:58 PM
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you have two types of women who talk down to men here, one who confirms that looks are #1 and it's time men get a taste of their own medicine, and the other is women who tell men they are stupid for saying looks is #1. There's just a lot more variety in what women say vs men who basically unanimously say looks is the most important.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:37 AM
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Whether it's being used for resources or genuine attraction to a man due to the idea of him being powerful with means, it refers to a traditional approach when selecting men vs say looking for the best looking one with nice hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:04 AM
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I mean potentially it can be real love. One person is just very insecure about their looks which is pretty common, or maybe a girl is into goth guys so a 5/10 goth guy will look like a 7 to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:39 AM
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Or if the hotter one is super insecure with major BDD and isn't aware they're a lot hotter. Or if they think the other one is on the same level b/c they're into a niche or have a fetish. Although these examples potentially can be pretty unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:26 AM
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Being rich doesn't help women nearly as much as it helps men. I'm 1/4 Korean. It's true Korea is a very looks-conscious society almost to unhealthy levels when you talk about things like cosmetic surgery or female objectification but at the same time the people are still quite traditional minded re: gender roles despite what you may be hearing about a burgeoning 4B movement. That means expectations for men are still not quite as looks-centric or blackpilled as one might expect. The checklist for…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:15 AM
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Yea but if it's who I think you're talking about he admitted he wasn't really attracted to her and was constantly ashamed of being with her, said things like any sex was better than no sex, talked shit about her nonstop and kept complaining as a fit guy he couldn't get a fit gf; he was doing both of them zero favors by staying with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:02 AM
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So which point are you trying to make? That Korea has high beauty standards so you have to definitely be more goodlooking to succeed in dating there, or that hypergamy is just something whiny PPD men talk about because this is a Korean couple in Korea and the guy is fat and average? Even with trolling you gotta be consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:48 AM
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Looksmatched if he lost weight and she removes makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:08 AM
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Keep in mind I have no idea what I'm talking about. This needs to be the disclaimer or signature at the bottom of the comments of at least 50% of this sub's members. Or Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:05 AM
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twox, fds, witchesvspatriarchy, 4thwavewomen, womeninnews, nothowgirlswork, fauxmoi, and so on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:46 AM
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truly coocoo for cocoa puffs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:35 AM
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"No, I don't think I will."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:27 AM
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The young stupid bleeding heart liberal stereotype exists for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:25 AM
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...damn hopefully you're just having an off day
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:20 AM
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This is ridiculous. Literally no man actually thinks they dated, or fucked a 10 just because they jerked off to one. Are you insane? LMAO why all the unhappy lonely men then? They've slept with hundreds of 10s on pornhub!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:13 AM
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He might not think he’s a 10, but he will believe he actually slept with that 10. .....No...he will not. WTF? Most men are not clinically insane enough to believe this. What actually might happen is a small minority of men may find it difficult to feel attracted to anything less after jerking off to 10 after 10. There is again no masturbatory equivalent in terms of enjoying a rich man unless a rich man actually pays and finances a lifestyle for the woman. Hence the example with the rich man has …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:06 AM
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.....Unless we're talking the most extreme levels of mental illness, I don't think any man who jerks off to a 10/10 thinks this means he's also a 10/10 or even entitled to one......how are you arriving at this false equivalence?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:03 AM
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Men would be annoyed too if women started touching themselves to Jeff Bezos, and then start deluding themselves into thinking they actually slept with one of the richest men in the world. Then she will compare his finances to her boyfriend’s, even though it didn’t actually happen. That has to be one of the worst analogies I've ever come across. Men jerk off because they are visually turned on by the physical assets or imagery of sexually attractive women. There is absolutely no masturbatory equi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:49 AM
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Interviewer: Ok you said you went to Yale? That's a plus. PinchRunners: What a relief. I really need this yob.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:20 AM
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We don't necessarily disagree. I'm all for standardizing paternity tests in hospitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:02 AM
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We've enacted laws promising punishment for domestic violence and abuse. Nobody complains that their feelings are hurt b/c they aren't trusted to not beat or molest their family members and children. Legal bindings and laws exist to protect people in case someone happens to commit fraud or transgression, and the logic behind a required paternity test is no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:47 AM
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The way we socialize people is fucked. We have an epidemic of proud dumbassery. Like it's cool to be ignorant and not know shit in this country coupled with hedonism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:44 AM
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Right, women aren't attracted to math nerds not b/c eww intelligence. It's eww poor social skills and unconventional looks and style usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:57 PM
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Not rushing to fuck math whizzes doesn't mean they hate intelligence. Women like intelligence a lot, there just has to be more than that to seal the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:56 PM
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She looks like Sydney Sweeney.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:40 PM
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DJ Khaleeeeed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:53 AM
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So what did he mean? Do I even want to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:46 AM
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Something about how more people need to know about the dogpill. Thought he was referring to how having a dog or puppy helps you get women but apparently I was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:41 AM
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I don't know his backstory. But he's 5'11 160, I wish I was 160. He's not close to starving but again I don't know what he's going through.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:39 AM
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lol that's so mean
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:36 AM
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You're better off than me. I also have good arms but otherwise we're the same height and I'm trying to get to 140. 8-pack abs but they don't count like big Ts on a fat chick. 5'11 160 isn't too bad at all if you're lean and athletic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:17 AM
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Maybe I misunderstood. What kind of depraved shit u guys talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:01 AM
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only if it's about men tho
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:59 AM
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Works like a charm. In college I went out to walk my puppy and got swarmed on campus. Afterward I was like 'u and me bro we're goin places'
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:58 AM
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I love blue-pilled songs. You know they are very unrealistic and naive but it's fun to entertain them like fantasies and sing them. The fact that you know it's not reflective of real life and a distant ideal makes it better, like emotional porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:45 AM
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"Client here, my regular raised her rates and told me I was grandfathered in." mfer talk like he being allowed to stay at his current monthly dues after 24 hr Fitness buys out his small gym x)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:32 AM
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do you still have to attend those town/city meetings
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:44 AM
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dude what kind of ghetto ass university do u go to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:43 AM
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Just try your own and see
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:03 AM
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Having a chance at sex, at intimacy, companionship, at a whole LTR, assuming she likes you in other aspects overall vs getting nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:33 PM
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Cooking, playing instruments, and speaking different languages seem to be the big three activities/talents that really draw women in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:18 PM
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5 feet, 5 figures? Seems easy enough. The only way you wouldn't make this as a man is if you're part of the 0.01% of men under 5 feet tall or unemployed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:15 PM
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Because it's obviously fake, forced and manufactured and again it ties in with the rest of the popular culture of lifting up women and shitting on men. Nobody said cutting people down was good either, why are people unable to refrain from black and white thinking here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:12 PM
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Right, they just look horrendous. Like I'd be looking at a cute girl and the top half would be great then she'd be like a smurf below the waist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:09 PM
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Uggs was the ultimate proof women will just wear anything that's in style. I still remember my mom's friend from Europe wearing uggs and she was like "you just wait these will be popular in the US in a few years" and she was fucking right -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:00 PM
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I know women often sacrifice comfort for fashion but I always wondered how the hell it feels ok walking in those, but I guess I'd say the same about heels. It's just that supposedly the fall is supposed to have this cozy connotation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 09:59 PM
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Because men know it's fake and wouldn't be ok with it. They're not going to tell their fat potato-faced friend he looks like he could slay like a billion dollars b/c every guy in that circle knows it's ridiculous. Maybe part of it just has to do with how men and women are wired differently, honestly don't know for sure. It's again not about the compliment bombing between women, it's about how we as a whole are simply more forgiving and uplifting of women. Interestingly enough it's again always "…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 09:51 PM
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I usually don't have a problem attracting women initially but my neuroticism, anxiety, and trust issues/self-sabotage take over and it never goes anywhere. I lost count how many times things just fizzled out over the course of a month. Being neurotypical is truly the real privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:51 PM
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It's arguably even less acceptable bc at worst a virgin man is simply less sexually experienced than she thought. A promiscuous woman potentially could be hiding issues with loyalty, impulsive decision-making, among other problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:48 PM
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The internet will always be full of mentally ill whackos, many on this sub even. I don't see how that is a rebuttal. It doesn't annoy men b/c they don't want to fuck these women, it's annoying b/c it's obviously fake. It's this fakeness alongside conventionally sanctioned criticism of men and men growing up being told they are problematic. It's not just women complimenting other women, it's society as a whole being nicer to them, being fake to them, and being harsher to men. Literally every woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:26 PM
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Both are mid 40s, same age. Genetics, lifestyle, and photo processing make all the difference. The 1st woman has good skin but you can tell she's not young anymore bc she doesn't have the fullness of youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:19 PM
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based sigma chad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:07 PM
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Yeah, I just don't see what that has to do with what I said re: the dichotomy of how men and women are treated and viewed in society in terms of accountability and criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 07:56 PM
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I thought Australia was supposed to be cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:58 AM
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Or you know, it's possible to self-improve and also note society is a lot more lenient toward one sex in terms of demanding improvement - in performance, looks, career, whatever. Tho I agree men saying stuff like "no point in lifting or getting better" is dumbassery. But nobody tells women to ignore societal ills working against them and to just focus on getting better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:34 AM
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Cool, how does any of this contribute to or address what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:12 AM
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I don't follow where you're going with this...seems like I can't understand a lot of people here today lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:08 AM
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I'm thinking more just people who weren't going to vote or didn't care anyway making it to the polls b/c omg Taylor Swift and making it a social media event etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:06 AM
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Some people are more entitled or deluded about their worth than others, I don't know the exact percentages. But the bottom line is it's way more taboo to criticize women, way more acceptable to point fingers at men, we are much more ready to lift women up and you can't deny this is going to affect the personalities, behaviors and self esteem (heightened or lowered) of both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:24 AM
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Yes...but we're less likely as a society to tell these women they need to improve themselves ie it's more taboo and you'll be accused of being toxic or bodyshaming. At least in terms of the modern-day left or progressive zeitgeist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:16 AM
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uh what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:07 AM
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I don't know much about her fandom, but I imagine a lot of Swifties are probably stupid or shallow enough to want to go vote now because Taylor said so or make an entire event out of it. I'm not necessarily talking about people on the fence or making them switch sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:06 AM
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Even after Taylor's endorsement?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:51 PM
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It's not about good or bad advice, that's just the modern day message. Women being perfect 10s as they are, men constantly needing to "do better".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:47 PM
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The men these women are trying to meet, or at least the men who do just fine in dating, have no need to go to these events and the rest are realizing they don't want to pay just to get judged and rejected by an entire room of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:41 PM
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lean the cuck chair against the door underneath the knob just to be safe at night
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:43 PM
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Also a gigantic percentage of military personnel at all levels with roots, ties, family members etc in regions the govt would be targeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:39 PM
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you're just the ppd wikipedia tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:14 AM
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yea it sounds pretty bad, i'm sorry your area has so much of it, I read/hear about it a lot but I don't know how easy it is to get affected etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 08:05 AM
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are these people overdosing out of carelessness and going too far or are they getting a higher dose than they expected/asked for without then knowing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:49 AM
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i know this kid, 20 years old, whole life ahead of him, many friends, loving family, died of fentanyl overdose just like that. I thought it was one of those instances where he was depressed and got addicted but it might have just been kids having fun, I don't know. I don't know much about that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:16 AM
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why tf would you be alone forever? Even then ultimately if being alone means not being with someone who makes you rip your hair out and feel like shit, how is that not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:47 AM
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then leave him, find someone else, or be alone, anything better than that element dragging u down
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:43 AM
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ur bf?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:38 AM
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Everybody wants to celebrate with you at the finish line, nobody wants to help you get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:23 AM
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I'm not necessarily even blaming these women for doing this. Like it's fake, they give fake compliments, the recipients know it's fake but still express appreciation for it. It's just a system/game everyone knows about and is in on but is kept in place to keep up social cohesion. Many women I've talked to readily agree out loud this is what happens, I honestly can't remember anyone disagreeing and I don't think it's bc of the crowds I run with. In your case maybe it's different bc it's you talki…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:05 AM
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No, not every time. I never had anything truly bad happen to me and I would go out every night for a few years. I'm mostly indoors or at the pool nowadays but looking back I guess I feel fortunate I never got mugged. Did get my keys stolen once though when I left my bag unattended. Depending on where you live, chances might be low but never zero. I get the comfort and the calm of going out at night, like maybe a cool breeze, less people, quieter, but you never know, if you don't mind try running…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:01 AM
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I got catcalled for my ass by a group of women while running one night, but I've also gotten heckled by homeless people, "Run Forrest Run" I think the guy you are responding to experienced the same thing. Overall running at night is probably not the best idea but I realized the world of difference in perception of safety when women told me they didn't understand how I felt safe running at night. It's projection since they have never felt safe out alone at night but somewhat understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:56 AM
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Because the compliments and forgiving-ness toward other women is fake and for conformation and image/reputation purposes. It's honestly hard to find a female friend or acquaintance who even denies this when talking 1 on 1. Telling fat women they look amazing as is, 'don't change a thing', also lessens competition and makes themselves feel better, whether they'd like to admit it or not. I've heard women admit that secretly they feel good when they find out an old female peer or friend/classmate, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:51 AM
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Context and nuance matters, they didn't call her fat even if it's obviously inferred, they were honest and said her appearance would vastly improve if she lost weight - specifically when she asked in the OP how she could look better. Huge world of difference. I understand however these days suggesting that someone lose weight is tantamount to sacrilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:02 AM
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800 would be a fucking steal here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:51 AM
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He looks pretty darn masculine though. Just goes to show how ridiculous a lot of the male gaze standards have become.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:49 AM
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there was a guy at the gym who eats beef jerky while on the exercise bike what's funny his he goes so hard when you'd think he doesn't give a shit then he asks me if i know anything about crypto
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:41 AM
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I was told by a lot of people that I have a "good face" which I took as a compliment but also wondered why they were being so awkward when saying it, then I realized it was something to say in place of "your rail thin weak body is shit and you look like you'd blow away with a slight gust of wind". I've gotten decent progress in lifting with arms but little else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:22 AM
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it's a message not just to you but to everyone people sit at different weights naturally, don't overthink it and hardline like these terminally online autists do, the automaticmeaning guy is obvi a known full-of-shit troll and honestly so is the guy i was responding to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:08 AM
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this is why i think you're the alt of jaded another poster. In any case BMI 22 is just fine (basically up to BMI 24 or 25), I don't subscribe to that 19-21 crap. I have BMI 19 and I'm a fucking dude, just naturally neurotic so metabolism is high and weight gain is hard. My main point is more like just for staying healthy women shouldn't be entitled to an upper-tier man physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:01 AM
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Doesn't require hard work to maintain a healthy BMI, just don't eat like shit and try to stay active. I realize just how low (and difficult) of a bar this is to reach for americans. Laughable that just for not being fat a woman is by default on the same level as an upper tier man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:29 AM
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People place way too much emphasis on face. His face is attractive enough, just b/c he doesn't look like one of those hypermasc truerateme ogres doesn't mean shit. Many women probably actually prefer this. Add the blonde blue eyed phenotype, tall, uniform, he's good, he'll do well with most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:27 AM
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As friends, women are much better with opening up and talking. When there's something eating at me I can always rely on them to be more willing to listen and give feedback. It's not that male friends don't want to help, but their response just seems much more muted. Edit Question for OP: Aren't women also supposedly good at encouraging each other? The conventional idea is that women compliment and build each other much more and look out for the safety and interests of even women they don't know …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:09 PM
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Got to see my boy Darth Maul more too after they sorely underused him in Ep 1
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:56 PM
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They are left to americans and among americans, so I don't see the issue. There's also a sizeable leftist or progressive left who believes the Democrats aren't nearly left enough, but to conservatives or the right-leaning anything left of center is libtardery and the progressives feel similarly about anyone right of center because everyone is becoming increasingly polarized in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:29 AM
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Vaginas get loose with age, not really with dick taking. Although even if it did how do you know if it was 1000 dicks or the same dick 1000 times in a long-term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:00 AM
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Every day, all the time I don't go there anymore either, I don't like being pissed off and my impression of reddit is already low enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:36 AM
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Do you feel the same way about twoxchromosomes? The people on twox are way more nasty than the people on mensrights and the sub is also way more popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:31 AM
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Maybe he didn't always look like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:31 AM
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...If the reality is that men and women really hate each other, is it not better off that romance remain dead? As sad as that sounds. My take is that the opinions of these men and women online represent a polarized fucked up minority that ruin it for the equally terminally online men and women who read these things with neuroticism, depression, and anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:23 AM
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He would be the chaddiest chad, and very enchanted
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:18 AM
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You really need to watch the Clone Wars - very time consuming I know - in order to appreciate the intended character arcs. Otherwise Episode 3 is Palpatine going "Hey Anakin, come to the dark side" and Anakin's like "No!" and then Palpatine goes "Come on..." then Anakin's like "ok fine".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:13 AM
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Woman: Gaming is such an unproductive waste of time. Meanwhile, Love Island/90-Day Fiance marathon over the weekend with wine
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:03 AM
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would be chad with a better haircut
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:02 AM
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heh and they say women can't be funny
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:26 AM
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Me on a high horse telling everyone I don't use or give a shit about TikTok but just getting all the reels 2 weeks later on Instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:59 PM
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The mainstream premise is that men are inherently in the wrong, that's why if you flip it and ask women to do better you'll get nothing but outrage. Woman does a terrible thing, women aren't a monolith. Man does a terrible thing, it's either "yes all men" or "maybe not all men but enough men". Or it's "even innocent men need to be held accountable to check other men" "men need to be allies" but also "men's issues are not women's problem or responsibility."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:48 PM
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When I was in college a girl told me it was hot that I spoke many languages. It's still baffling how it works, I think it's interesting and "cool" at most but would never make me more turned on to someone whether there was existing attraction or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:29 PM
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Stop piss jug shaming
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:09 PM
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Interesting you'd say that drinking or smoking makes someone more interesting though lol. And a lot of guitarists do both of those as well. Gambling, well, I can kind of see how even if it's not a vice I would ever take up these types of people might have more crazy stories or perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:55 PM
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I don't find myself particularly interesting, I pick my hobbies b/c it's fun. But if it works with women I see it as a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:52 PM
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This is pretty legit. The women seem to come crowding around or expressing curiosity when I demonstrate how I know many languages or play the guitar. Haven't gotten the same response by just casually dropping that I read tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:48 PM
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Unfortunately there's no real way around improving social skills except by practicing. It's always going to be tough and awkward at first but I've found sometimes if you fake it til you make it by acting like everything you say is completely natural and normal the other party may likely start to feel more at ease as well even if they might think you're kinda weird at first. Or like "why did he just overshare or open up like that?" but then it'll turn into them actually feeling like they can open…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:15 AM
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People from the lower classes or poorer less fortunate circumstances have less inhibition and more street smarts, learn how to navigate life in turbulent environments and learn earlier on the social skills necessary to survive. On the way this includes talking to women. These kids are at risk for criminal activity, pregnancy and sexual activity at earlier ages. They don't have the parental presence or upbringings UMC kids have to keep them safe and sheltered or teach them good decision-making. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:47 AM
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The Virgin sex-having normie vs the Chad PPD Sunday shitposter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:28 AM
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Nah, way more women who prefer a man a little on the leaner/thinner side. At least w/ young women. Think e-boys or boyband members. Even the skinny musicians and artists get play.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:17 AM
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Militant misandry always gets a pass here. And the most vile shit about men is never policed if written by a woman. So just like the rest of reddit then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:39 AM
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This response is to another one of your responses to my comment in another thread, but you brought up a point maybe indirectly I didn't think about. In defense of men, if a man lies about his lack of sexual experience, at worst he's just not as experienced with women as she had thought, but it shouldn't matter if she likes him as is currently. For women, the worst is she has a promiscuous past and lacks loyalty, healthy decision-making and discernment, or is settling for him. Either way though, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:53 AM
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Trying to be as objective as possible, but from some of the more polarized responses from men it makes somewhat sense to say: Men are more justified in hiding their lack of sexual experience than women hiding their history of promiscuity due to implications of character. I kind of understand this, although lying is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:45 AM
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Yes, but only b/c so many people are working full-time or multiple jobs just to buy basic need stuff and keep the lights on. $ is the solution in this context b/c it's the most common existing context and if surviving wasn't an issue people wouldn't be depressed, anxious, and in fight-or-flight 24/7. $ is the solution but not b/c material stuff leads to happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:27 AM
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And it's in women's best interest not to disclose their bodycount. So as long as you don't see it as wrong from the other side as you don't see anything wrong from your end, there's no hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:21 AM
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I just have this feeling the men who advocate lying about lack of sexual experience are the same ones harping on female bodycount, but maybe I'm wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:16 AM
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If you seem to know your way around sex or have sufficiently impressed or passed her tests, it's probably easier for women to just be okay with whatever your bodycount is because at the very least you don't come across as inexperienced. If the tables are turned and it's a guy not knowing a woman's bodycount it's not entirely the same as he wants to know if she is the type to be loyal and that he's not just being settled for. Unless I guess maybe the guy starts to be suspicious b/c she's a little…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:15 AM
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I notice more than anything else the inability to think in shades of gray. Everything is either/or, all the way to one side or the other, but the logic and train of thought they're giving doesn't pan out or lead to these polarized conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:11 AM
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Similar to high(er) body counts. Some people will judge harshly, others say the past is none of their business or have a more progressive sex-positive perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:10 AM
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For the most part I agree with the exception of a few select white lie circumstances. I'm just wondering if the men who advocate for lying about their virginity are okay with women doing something similar, or vice versa ie switching the genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:04 AM
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Yea understood, my OP doesn't really apply to u then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:51 AM
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But do you condone or understand it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:47 AM
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Of course she wouldn't, in the same way many men aren't eager to volunteer that they have zero experience. For a lot of women, the fear is that even a count of 2 or 3 would invite criticism or slutshaming in the eyes of men and society.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:45 AM
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Are men who say virgin dudes should lie about their lack of experience also okay with high body-count women lying about their history? In both cases, the justification is that being truthful will only hurt you or invite judgment. Edit: Trying to be as objective as possible, but from some of the more polarized responses from men it makes somewhat sense to say: Men are more justified in hiding their lack of sexual experience than women hiding their history of promiscuity due to implications of cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:40 AM
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Do the men who think this feel it is okay for women to also not be forthcoming about their sexual history since they'll likely be judged for it as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:36 AM
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I am not familiar with kpop stuff or the culture around it. But which gender do you think posts more about kpop? I see way more female fans online gushing over BTS than dudes simping hard for female ones. But personally I have a friend who is in therapy largely b/c of her obsession with Harry Styles among other things. When I imagine fans holding up signs in tears at concerts crying "I LOVE YOU MARRY ME HARRY/TAYLOR" it's an image of female fans in the audience, not male.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:29 AM
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There are multiple ways to gain social proof...usually for young men it's only really by looks because in other to gain it in other ways you need experience in the real world, socially, financially, industrially or skill-wise etcetera
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:20 AM
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there are female fans who suffer from mental illness, depression, suicidal tendencies (or actually committing suicide rarely) because of their parasocial attachment to celebs eg finding out their guy is taken, broke up, or got himself a new gf i would say OF is slightly different b/c a lot of men dump money for sexual or pornographic imagery, and yes it's stupid, but this type of unhealthy relationship isn't sex specific
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:15 AM
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maybe with OF girls with celebs in general it's def more women/girls who are the ones obsessing over male (or female) stars they'll never meet and compose the bulk of fandoms
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:08 AM
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Highly doubt issues with parasocial relationships, whether it be with celebrities or OF people, is a male only problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:03 AM
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Not really, it's both how society at large and how women view sex itself (to women). The idea that if a woman only has sex to offer it's a bad thing or she's being taken advantage of. There is no self-own there because there's no implication the sex (or his dick) was bad, and even if there was he was still able to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:58 PM
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it is pretty crazy that all men don't think the same
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:23 PM
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Women will say it's important to communicate or that men are terrible at communicating. Then shit-test or expect that the man should just know what's wrong or needs to be said/done, and if he doesn't it speaks to a flaw of his like lacking emotional intelligence or sensitivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:21 PM
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Even if it's the truth it's still a shitty thing to say to someone when breaking up with them, although they might not have separated on the best of terms so maybe there was hostility. But like why date her in the first place then
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:17 PM
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her red flags have red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:16 PM
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just another deluded blackpiller who doesn't know what he's talking about on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:00 PM
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What woman here is going to reply with no?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:02 AM
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are u sure you don't have a boyfriend, not a gf hehee he
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:01 AM
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Literally 75% of Reddit is just circlejerks with very punchable people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:08 AM
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This is the way I feel about literally 75% of the takes on this sub. Like if they are biased enough, stupid enough, or depraved enough to present such premises in the first place, no amount of logic or constructed argument is going to convince them otherwise anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:25 AM
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That's b/c feminism is accepted mainstream stuff so any random woman no matter how she looks, if she's on the conventional bandwagon the chances are high she'll be fairly in line with feminist talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:38 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:52 PM
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Her SMV-match is 9/10 chad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:51 PM
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I'm confused. We aren't talking about the animals, right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:50 PM
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If he doesn't smell or have the other negative physical characteristics of smokers, that explains more, but even so. I would say it definitely lowers his attractiveness in the eyes of many women. If he already "has it", there might still be those who don't see it as a dealbreaker eg they smoke themselves or if they just find him REALLY hot, but it definitely hurts his overall score for a lot of people. Especially if it comes to long-term commitment. A hot guy still being able to get women despit…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:43 PM
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Yeah I was confused when reading this post like is this rocket science? Also to not talk of the guys in here who say lifting or going to the gym won't help. Insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:28 PM
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This is like saying the expectation for women to be young and pretty after the age of 35 is ridiculous. It's the way it is, women will always like mature, experienced men with acquired skills, wisdom, and social proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:26 PM
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Is he smoking while they're checking him out? Does he smell or have dirty fingernails or yellow teeth? Nevertheless, liking how he looks in a moment is one thing, dating or spending regular time with a smoker is another.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:23 PM
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That's just how it is. Women like experienced, mature, skilled men with wisdom and a cultivated status and network. It's like if you say the expectation for women to be young and pretty after they are 30 is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:16 PM
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men are ignoring them and the only compliments they get are from other women. Men who work hard to lift and get jacked: "First time?"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:34 AM
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I've been catcalled by women and told 'run forrest run' by a homeless guy. I chalk it up to male privilege to not be afraid for my life. My female friends always say they can't understand how I can run at night. Honestly probably not the wisest choice even as a guy anyway nowadays...you don't know who the fuck is out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:42 AM
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If average men, who are a gigantic percentage of the population, are all struggling with little to no options, then the problem isn't the men. At least, not entirely. If this were the case with women we wouldn't be as harsh or dismissive. That's obvious. We'd be asking ourselves what we're doing wrong, what problematic messages are we sending or teaching young people and so on. With men it's "Suck it up, what now? You made your bed."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:30 AM
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Do you have this raging hard-on to go out of your way randomly either offtrack or out of nowhere just to remind people you think men suck?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:26 AM
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The biggest disparity in dating occurs between young 20-something men and women. As much as it would be ideal for 22 year old men to be okay with staying single and not obsessed with meeting or dating women due to years of nonexistent experience and maturity, that simply will never be the case nor can I necessarily blame them. This isn't the same as a woman who has gone through relationships with shitty men after a decade or more and finally decided she's had enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:29 AM
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Are you talking about people who are a lot older? In my demographic I know zero single women in my circles and I feel a lot of these discussions involve young 20-somethings as well, seeing as how 20-something men are the most likely to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:24 AM
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The less options the greater the likelihood of desperation for both men and women, but women on the whole have more options at every level so less likely to be desperate. People want partners, people get desperate for partners. That's not going to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:19 AM
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Why is there this automatic assumption men shouldn't be desperate vs maybe there's something causing men to be desperate we should be looking at, like how average men have little to no options? I'm not necessarily saying it's black and white but I just notice people reflexively jump to this. Versus with women's issues, it's how we change society and cultural thinking to make it easier for them ie it's men that are the problem making women's lives difficult or making women feel unappreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:13 AM
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Which means it's all on her
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:06 AM
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Probably not as simple as that. If she lacks a better option but it's bc it's a chad stringing her along that doesn't mean there aren't other good less genetically gifted men willing to wife her up who are arguably "better" options for her goals in starting a family and such. Although this is probably less likely to be the case if they have been [allegedly] exclusive to each other for many years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:14 AM
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