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So girls are just that much smarter than boys, is that it. Nothing to do with differences in socialization. Why is it hard to believe that men, especially boys or young impressionable teenagers and men, are prone to being misled when there are countless people telling them every time it's not their looks every time they ask (or complain about) if it's their looks when they struggle? I don't think there is any other context where the entire society is forgiven for misleading or lying to people ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:23 PM
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They can try. Improving social skills is hard and the ones struggling the most with it as young adults in the first place are the ones least likely to succeed, esp those with developmental disorders or are on the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:59 AM
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Men do it to other men too though. It's society-wide so it can't just come down to virtue signaling from women wanting to sound good. Parents, friends, teachers, community leaders raising boys tell them from a young age to just be responsible caring men and the women will come. When these men complain that they are struggling maybe b/c of their looks or height these same people along with everyone else tell them they've got it wrong. E.g. "Maybe try a new hobby? Maybe you aren't listening to her…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:12 AM
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I feel like it's evened out by how many less than mediocre looking women are still attractive enough to many men. A woman who is so ugly she can't find anyone to commit is rare; in those cases where she's too fat, well, at least it's controllable and she can do something about it even if it isn't easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:07 AM
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Because everyone knows looks matter for women. But men are either told it's not important or not as important and that women aren't shallow (eg we don't care about dick size or muscles, it's about the personality), they're fed this by everyone from a young age, and it shows with the continuous gaslighting. I don't know how people can deny it. You also have women in a different camp - or alternating when convenient - joining in by telling men they are stupid if they didn't know looks matter all a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:52 AM
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it's chuesday innit? 'ello guvna
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:28 PM
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I guess I'll have to take your word for it b/c I am never downloading tiktok. I get my reels 2 weeks later on instagram like a real man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:12 PM
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But do they hire men as guests, men who say things like 'yeah i mean i dunno who told her she could leave the kitchen but...*shrug*"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:43 PM
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Why aren't there any woman grifters with channels trying to get more women to hate men? I know misandrists are out there and there is definitely a market for that shit so don't say it's b/c women are better. Would be interesting to see radfems hire low-class POS men to come on their podcasts and act like unhinged wifebeaters so that women can be like "see, that's what I'm talkin about" like how Fresh n Fit does. Is it b/c mainstream media already does a good enough job of shitting on men it's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:37 PM
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I can get easily attached to people emotionally sometimes. Sometimes it's a guy even if I'm not sexually attracted to men. There's something endearing to me about some men that makes me want to interact or spend more time with them and it's nothing physical. I liken it to maybe the yearning for a bond similar to that of a brother or father even though I have siblings and a dad I get along with just fine. Some people have called me secretly gay. They can think what they want, Idgaf lol. Also I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:25 PM
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A lotta men feel the exact same apprehension as you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:53 PM
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Reminds me of what a comedian said, 'it's a good thing men can't have multiple orgasms, if we could we'd never leave the house or get anything done'
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:47 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:05 AM
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Regardless of what you think you need or don't, it doesn't help when feminism is all about men needing to hold each other accountable and be allies but then 'why don't you do something to help men, it's not women's responsibility.'
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:57 PM
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The Joker sequel cost 200m to make, why/how did it fail so hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:31 AM
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For some reason women are drawn to or curious about wounds and scars. I cut open my hand at work once and all the women would not stop crowding around and asking about it. I was in distress at the time and was in no mood to enjoy the attention. It was the weirdest/creepiest thing because I was going through it and they almost sounded happy and excited. The wound left a faint scar on my hand and my female coworkers from time to time still like to run their hand over it and it just faintly itches.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:56 AM
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Not entirely neutral. If she's already attracted to you, being a good person will make you more attractive assuming you don't overdo it or are a pushover. If she isn't, it won't do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:41 AM
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i watched a couple a long time ago and that was enough for me always the most pure angelic selfless girl dying of a terminal illness, boyfriend is her long lost stepbrother so it's ok, gets hit by a car on his way to visit her in the hospital
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:59 AM
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그렇구나,, For some reason his accent in the trailer wasn't as strong, i'm still toward the beginning so maybe he started off leaning into it more. I watched the overrated David Fincher movie Killer with Michael Fassbender and it kind of turned me off b/c he fucked up the american accent almost right away with his first lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:52 AM
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Red Right Hand? It's on netflix i am just bored and I sometimes wonder if I've watched literally every good movie in existence that's how hard good ones are to find
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:42 AM
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Orlando seems to be laying it on pretty thick, I have an ear for accents and one of the ways you can tell someone isn't from a certain area is if they overdo it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:41 AM
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i'm watching a movie with orlando bloom set in appalachian kentucky do u guys really talk like that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:36 AM
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yes legs up i'm a leg man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:34 AM
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tell her you like reggaeton
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:21 AM
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back when he was still ryan gosling and not ryan goose
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:17 AM
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heh maybe if u include the drive there and back home
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:11 AM
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i edited ur quote to be silly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:06 AM
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that awkward half-trot half-tiptoe you do across the floor when you see someone mopping
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:04 AM
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im tired af and only have 12 1/2 minutes ppd stacy w/ the marathon man bf over here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:02 AM
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Missionary vanilla sex is underrated and over-ridiculed. I'm sorry if you depraved assholes can't get off unless someone takes a shit on your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:49 PM
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seems like a lot of people like white/gray/silver hair as long as it's not on an older person/face
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:45 PM
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Bc the people in these places are not reflective of the norm. Reddit and the internet select for people with niche ideas, people who are terminally online, people who are mentally ill, people on the fringe, or people with zero social life and grass-touching. It's like if you were to spend a lot of time online you'd think kpop is what every young woman wants and loves. I'm around women constantly and honestly have never heard a single kpop reference in years. It's often for socially awkward shut-…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:24 PM
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AIO I (23F) found 5,000 nudes from 12 different women in my slightly older bf's (85M) social circle on his phone and he refuses to do his own laundry and every time his shirts are stained with cheeto dust and cum (fused together). Am I wrong to be worried and unsatisfied? This is real and not bait, I promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:16 PM
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Do the women who complain about men being bad in bed make more of an effort in bed than the men they've been with?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 07:14 AM
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Uninhibited extroversion potentially plays a big role Guys with this aside from just doing better with any one woman are naturally inclined to play the numbers game without any worry or bother about rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:49 AM
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And if a man is successful and charismatic, he definitely will be attractive to a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:06 AM
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You don't think status or charisma have halos? It works the other way as well, women come to find men more physically attractive if they find out or appreciate other traits about them. When women speak of their SOs like "I thought he was kind of goofy looking/ugly at first but now he's the most handsome man in the world" may be exaggerating but the effect is real, visceral and genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:04 AM
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you think biden would have a better chance at winning if he had stayed in?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:34 AM
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Explain your logic. I lean moderate-right on most things but what is different now vs 2020? Trump lost to Biden in 2020 and Kamala is more popular than Biden.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:52 AM
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Just like with many things it's not either/or. Women like physically attractive men and they also like emotionally intelligent men. If she can get both in one man, all the better. The way our cultural values are currently and with the ubiquity of the internet and OLD though we do encourage a hedonistic lifestyle of looking for shallow or easily readily appreciable traits and then just as quickly moving on to the next best thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:36 AM
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It's a matter of degree like the maslow hierarchy of needs it's not something crucial to your body surviving eg w/o water you'll physically die in a few days but it's arguably a crucial component for most people if they want a relatively healthy mental profile and such just like how simply having friends, validation, a social support system is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:25 AM
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We do have housing, shelter, food stamps in my country at least I guess my point is just b/c something is a basic need doesn't mean people feel it's a basic right, for better or worse we don't have food stamps for incel men they can use at brothels
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:22 AM
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B/c the truth is harsh, people always approach sex as either a basic need and therefore you are entitled to it, or not. Fact of the matter is, it's not something as base as food or water or even shelter, but it is something people naturally have a drive for and crave, it's a basic need - at the same time you're not entitled to it because it involves another person's bodily autonomy. We've decided food and water are entitlements in developed countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:17 AM
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something else is going on if you can't get anything but bottom of the barrel but i don't know you or your situation so obvi i have nothing specific in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:11 AM
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that still applies average women shouldn't have trouble finding decent men with jobs and aren't POS i don't know what kind of area u live in tho, location can be a significant factor
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:06 AM
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if you're not unattractive you won't have to resort to bottom of the barrel men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:59 AM
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I don't think you know what average looks like...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:57 PM
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Okay but an ugly woman won't ever get any above average man to want to commit to her. Top-tier men can find top-tier women for both casual or commitment even if the sheer quantity of thirst may not be there for them, or any man vs for women. Even as I defend men constantly I know ugly women aren't going to find much solace in crazy or desperate perverts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:52 PM
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Statistically men are much more likely to be single now than women, esp young men vs young women, which was not always the case. The percentage of single men under 30 continued to increase even from 2019 to the present, so something or things have def changed and it's not just the internet giving whiners a voice. Sources are readily available with a quick google.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:45 PM
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It's definitely harder but there isn't a metaphorical ceiling that makes it impossible Terms like glass ceiling and privilege are just there to sound more legitimate and official when pushing agendas. In reality it's just that life isn't fair. Certain disadvantages are simply more politicized, and I'm not saying these disadvantages shouldn't necessarily be addressed or remedied.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:24 AM
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Tbh if i was living in the 100 acre forest, id probably try and bang kanga I really need to just leave this place once and for all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:24 PM
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Whether it's just your opinion or you're objectively correct, the eating shit so the dems can smell their breath thing doesn't apply here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:54 AM
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Based on his response? He's just saying he's choosing the side that he doesn't think is as bad even tho he likes neither. I'm assuming millions of Democrats did/felt the same when they voted for Biden in 2020, or planned to this year before Kamala took the helm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:39 AM
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I think he can have a valid point without valuing those without children less.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:43 AM
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I dunno. I wasn't really responding to that specifically I guess. I'm against a lot of things both parties stand for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:42 AM
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So did JD Vance have a point then
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:29 AM
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I hear a lot of "if it was any other election or period of time I wouldn't be as harsh, but this time more than ever we need to vote Democrat because it's Trump." We now look back on McCain, Romney, the Bushes and go "remember those days when politicians were civilized and acted like grownups". But people were the same way back then. It was "if it was any other candidate I might reconsider but we absolutely cannot let this Romney shithead win." As a kid I remember my aunt breaking down and cryin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:08 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:37 AM
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I don't understand your first two points. Children are better off raised in two parent households so individual men should get married and have children?.......If they don't get married there's no children to be raised. Very confused here. Unless you're assuming a ton of men are having children out of wedlock for the sake of not wanting to get married. Re: 2) It's hard for women to pursue passions with only her income so....a man should wife her up so she can better pursue her passions b/c he's …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:06 AM
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But these women are saying they're getting zero attention...not even ugly men are looking their way, they feel completely invisible. Not even sleazy low-effort come-ons from bottom of the barrel dudes looking to get their dick wet. According to you, even 300 lb bridge trolls are getting propositions IRL even from some allegedly attractive men, which tells me it's probably something mental going on skewing their perceptions. It is likely almost none of these women on these subs are bridge trolls,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:28 PM
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I'm trying to take them at their word. A quick scan at that sub revealed many posts where the women say they get zero attention and that no man will even look in their direction much less help them when they help other women. Which I assume means even ugly or normal men. How is that possible when your inbox is flooded with DMs? The men can't all be hideous creeps, and even if they were, according to these women they aren't even noticed by the bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:46 AM
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It’s absolutely not exaggerated. Will all men have sex with a bridge troll? No. Will a 5’2”, 300 lb middle aged alcoholic woman with horrible body odor be able to walk into a bar on a Saturday night and find more than one man, some actually relatively attractive men, willing to have sex with her? All day, every day. I tended bar for five years, have seen it with my own eyes. I've never observed anything close to this. I'll just do the polite thing and say we might just come from vastly different…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:38 AM
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"Men will have sex with a bridge troll" does seem to be something people just throw around but is so severely exaggerated. Also, if you read a lot of the posts in places like FAWomen it's women wishing for literally any kind of attention and saying they are constantly ignored or feel invisible. Tbf these women also sound either a little crazy or very crazy so there are probably other things going on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:13 AM
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Tbf I've never ever heard women bring up Dolph Lundgren, he's almost exclusively the domain of blackpillers online with masc fetishes. He's a perfect example of someone worshipped that the opp sex rarely ever thinks about just like the female looksmaxxers and their pet favorites over on places like vindicta.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:10 AM
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if i remember your tastes are actually much more reflective of the conventional female gaze anyway....you're comparing it to blackpill online niche guys with BDD and EDs with all sorts of weird fetishes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 06:02 AM
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Much like their male counterparts, most of them are the way they are bc of mental issues. BDD, anxiety, depression, OCD. Probably some PTSD involved, broken and dysfunctional upbringing and living situations. Trust still that even despite this the men will have it harder b/c mental illness and social incompetence hurts men significantly more with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:59 AM
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Ingest the Just-weigh-80-pounds pill
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:54 AM
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The femcel subs past and current full of women talking about how no one wants them always curiously have issues with the women getting too many DMs. When they say they are depressed no one wants them it translates to the tiktok influencer they follow doesn't know who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:53 AM
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there are also a lot of people who agree with you, and you're just focusing on the people who disagree in places that are probably the worst to look anyway for feedback
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:48 AM
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people are retarded, esp blackpillers online, just ignore them they also literally seem blind and can't rate for shit it's a bunch of men (or women) who have no idea what the opp sex wants or likes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:40 AM
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Even top-tier dick is limited in worth unless the top-tier dick comes with commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:50 AM
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I'm absolutely sure a lot of these asmon dick-riders are just on the whiny men and fanbase bandwagon, but in their defense there is a difference between a strong relatable well-written female character and one that is clearly forced to fill diversity quotas, check off boxes and cash in on woke culture; it's this trend that's been everpresent the past 5-10 years that is the legitimate problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:41 AM
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Honestly I was expecting a warning I know how they are with race here even with casual banter/jokes. Probably just depends on the individual comment and whether there are people who actually report you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:22 AM
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damn was it that obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:19 AM
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As a mostly white guy, I'm not obsessed with white men, although if I was I wouldn't be ashamed of admitting it. It's just amusing again that it bothers you so much what people think of your preferences on an anonymous forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:08 AM
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I remember vividly one time my two female friends were whispering and after one of them left the other one looked really distraught, down and concerned. And I asked her "uhhh what's wrong" and it turns out she was telling the other girl she thought another guy in our circle was really cute and the other girl disagreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 01:07 AM
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The wolves are all your personalities and the white lamb in the middle is the white pretty boy Nom nom
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:55 AM
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I think the difference is men may be concerned of the opinions of others re: their selection b/c they want other men to respect, admire, or feel jealousy b/c of their arm candy. For women it seems like they directly tie their taste to their self-worth and criticizing or disparaging a man they are into is almost taken as a personal attack. For men it's "Oh...maybe I should find another woman my friends think is hot."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:50 AM
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Yes it would depend on their reasoning. If it's pragmatic or personality-based I'd be more open to it, but if it's based on something like looks or style of dress I'd just chalk it up to "well that's just you"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:46 AM
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yeah that's a common cited difference between men and women, although i'm sure men care to an extent too eg the trope of men not wanting to be seen in public with an unconventional looking or fat woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:43 AM
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I can understand that to a huge extent, a lot of people, men and women, care about what others think. They want people to think they are intelligent, capable, attractive, trustworthy etc. It's just hard to understand why this extends into areas like personal taste or preference in the opp sex...or clothing/fashion. Maybe historically women have just been more likely to be judged for their preferences or acting on their preferences, I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:38 AM
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Women in general seem to care much more about how other people view their taste in men or whatever way they are oriented. They heavily tie their sense of self with it and feel actually insulted insecure if people criticize for example a man they find attractive. It's hard to understand, like if I show my friend a pic of a girl I think is hot and he goes "she's mid af" or "I see you only like latinas" I'm not going to feel anything about it except maybe respond with a jab of my own. And furthermo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:26 AM
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You can be both if you do skincare and grooming assuming you already have masc features. Honestly most men look the best in their late 20s, a lot of younger guys still have that awkward baby-fat look in their face. This is assuming they take care of themselves, that's a big if. Unless you've somehow just aged really poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 12:14 AM
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And you're not even one of the bad ones here. It's time to ask some of the real POS on PPD to go to your school sub to ask for Gender Studies class notes, as a social experiment we need to send our best. Where's the BMI guy and his sith lord protege.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:59 AM
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I don't know if this is a thing but some men have said it's easy or even fun flirting with other men bc there's no stake (e.g. a gay man flirting with a straight man or vice versa), when it comes down to it you are on different teams and it's somehow....fun or a way to relieve stress or let loose. Can't say I agree entirely but it is 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:49 AM
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Still weird, takes a pretty big tattletale with zero social life to give a shit about that which says a lot since this is reddit after all. Like they were wondering "hm let's check to see if this guy's a misogynist first before we give him any help"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:44 AM
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I'll give them the benefit of the doubt and assume they're the former. If they're the latter, yeah I can see how that is an annoying opinion to have but Idc that much either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:42 AM
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A lot of my gay friends obviously know I'm not gay but repeatedly make jokes or suggestive remarks that I like men or could potentially want to fuck men given the right circumstances. I don't particularly care but it's weird that they do it so much...I'm not saying to them "she has nice tits, don't deny it" when a hot woman comes along. Edit come to think of it they would prob actually just be like "omg yes I love her boobs they are so nice."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:37 AM
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You know I feel bad for making this remark bc I know there are creeps and malicious people out there but it's just funny that there's a sticky about being careful with DM and chat requests on a sub where I'm guessing all the women are saying nobody wants them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:33 AM
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Did you provide specific personal info or like your full name on this account in your comment history? Also quite the coincidence for someone to have visited both subs extensively to the point where they would even notice anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:12 AM
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Unless you're doing very slow reps or foregoing any type of aerobic or interval training, you're not going hard enough if you can breathe through your nose the entire time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:07 AM
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And shorter men in your situation have it even worse. I know this is true even when I know nothing about you or what you're going through.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:15 AM
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Impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:13 AM
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Ask yourself what things would be like if you were 5'7".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:22 AM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:06 AM
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This won't ever happen, but it'd be nice if every one of these types of videos had a picture or pictures of the guy(s) that keep standing her up and wasting her time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:15 AM
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I've heard research that goes both ways. Also that masculinity can tend to be a novelty after all needs are met, feminine features are preferred in less developed areas as a natural default - or you can interpret them as areas that have less exposure to mainstream media - and is more of a trend or status symbol among more well-off women. Or that the most well-off women with the easiest lifestyle are the ones who can afford to select for the most attractive men. In reality it's prob more complex …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:10 AM
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It is a man's world if we're talking less than 0.1% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:36 AM
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There might be a select few insecure men who are intimidated by a woman who makes a lot more than them but otherwise how much she makes isn't good or bad, it's a non-issue as long as she isn't broke or working retail if the man is class-conscious. If anything those in the mentioned group might only feel this way bc they've experienced being looked down upon or rejected by women more successful than them, not b/c of feeling any hurt ego or actual shame for not making as much $ as her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:30 AM
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So your logic is women aren't looking for a romantic encounter with every man so a looks threshold doesn't exist when she is looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:22 PM
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you?? nah..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:19 AM
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This sub has drama and brainrot but isn't quite as depraved as those other places that's why
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:52 PM
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I would agree. It's also a place where people's more light-hearted side comes out versus the regular threads where everyone is just emotionally invested in pushing whatever polarized narrative they're into at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:00 AM
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Except that male preferences are still shamed. When it comes to female preferences it's "you can't negotiate attraction" "sorry about it".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:12 AM
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That's what happened to me but it's also probably genetics. I got some of the feminine "pretty" features and a good jaw but my brother has always been more straight Chad, very neurotypical and social, athletic, tan etc. I'm the sensitive pale neurotic fucked up one and this was apparent from an early age. He also ate way more than me but we're about the same height, he just has a better more muscular build naturally. Life has never been fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:32 AM
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Then you're a rare one. Although you did say what's ugly to you is different to others which means there are still ugly people to you. There's plenty of women on here who say looks matter a lot, or are even #1. Overall my conclusion is that it depends on the woman and looks is probably a function of status which is what ultimately matters; it's certainly not as uniform as say for men who almost universally agree looks are a priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:52 PM
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For the women who are allegedly happily married or in a relationship, it is kind of weird why they're here. You're content with your LTR but still choose to engage daily with a bunch of resentful incel-adjacent men for months on end? While complaining about it? For clarification I'm talking about the women who are happy, not women who are with someone but are having issues and hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:18 PM
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How do you come to conclude that "You will do as I command" is threatening physical harm vs simply threatening other consequences like grounding or relinquishing of privileges? Like I said, it's just something intimidating a lot of parents, American or not, do end up saying from time to time. If not that it's something very similar, "As long as you live under my roof, you'll do as I say", et al.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:12 PM
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It's a gray area. Just like spanking. Violence is obviously unacceptable but parents say things to their children that double as "threats" all the time as my point. Do this or else. Or I'll take away your phone, or you're not going to your friend's house, or you won't be going out or to the party this weekend. And so on. America is no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:08 PM
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Yeah probably not. Was assuming you were just talking about a single regular zit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:55 PM
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Ignoring first off the unfortunate fact that kids are spanked and beaten and worse and the parents still get away with it, "do as I command" or a similar phrase is something a lot of parents just say and it works to instill fear or deterrence. Most of the time there isn't actually anything physically done nor is the child bold enough to ask "or what". If there isn't any assault most kids aren't going to go to any authorities. Not everyone in America is on board with the super PC progressive let …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:49 PM
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All that means is your looks threshold is different from others or that you may be less or more stringent and flexible about it. There are some women who can come to be attracted to a guy no matter what he looks like but I would say it's rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:47 PM
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or just use a concealer with salycylic acid and spot treat, works fairly fast and hides it at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:45 PM
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it happens all the time in america with zero repercussions not sure if it works tho i agree there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:43 PM
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I mostly agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:05 AM
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Is being a member of this sub actually improving your life? No, it is not. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:25 AM
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Maybe a better way to put it is simply that aspects of a man's personality matter a lot to women even if there is a looks threshold to pass first. Those aspects are not necessarily altruism or integrity, but more in the realm of charisma, emotional intelligence, navigating conversations and cultivating a warm and engaging dynamic. So personality matters a ton, just not in the way a lot of men seem to think it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:18 AM
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For all intents and purposes an attractive personality is what a good personality is supposed to be. A lot of people say personality doesn't matter here b/c they have the wrong idea of what a good personality is, thinking it's just when you're nice and polite with good intentions. Not going to work if your social skills, awareness, or emotional intelligence are shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:49 AM
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yeah no offense canadians are just as stupid and racist as americans - if not even moreso. Even the minority groups seem more elitist cliquish and arrogant from what I've seen in BC or Toronto. difference is there's a lie that you guys are better and you never pass up a chance to remind us how much superior you are with tolerance, politics, healthcare or education
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:45 AM
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Pretty face bc it still has fat and isn't as lean as the rest of her body, but most straight men aren't wired to be sexually drawn to high muscle definition. They do however, think it is visually impressive and want to have it on their own body themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:26 AM
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It's kind of the same way a lot of women aren't drawn to hypermasculinity even though they do like at least some masculinity in their men. It's not either/or. Some bitchiness or emotional outburst can be cute or hot but not psycho territory or to the point where it makes your life or daily routines and functioning more difficult eg spending 4 hours in a boring department store or putting up with days of silent treatment or passive aggressiveness wondering what the hell is going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:53 PM
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If you're talking about extreme traits like those, then yea. 99% of people fit somewhere in the middle. People also like to confirm their beliefs about personality from looks when it's the other way around a lot of the time. Like they see a fat person acting poorly and go "yeah ofc fat people are so entitled and shitty", when it's more like they let themselves go because there's something wrong with their mind and personality to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:32 PM
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It's...not attractive to men. Men will put up with it b/c of other qualities or out of desperation or fear of not finding anyone else. Or maybe due to having no spine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:27 PM
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나도 한국말 연습한지 오래 됐어 I'm currently working on Spanish since it gives me the most opportunity to practice in my state.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:09 PM
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고마워 친구
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:04 PM
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Hey, got any raisins? No... Okay how about a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:00 PM
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I have a hard time believing the socioeconomic class you were born into has less of an effect on economic standing than your face. Unless we're talking like top 0.001% of looks, maybe. There are an absolute shit-ton of poor people born goodlooking who still struggle. They may be just fine in dating and fucking, but their money situation is not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:58 PM
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Looksmatched if he lost weight and she removes makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:08 AM
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Keep in mind I have no idea what I'm talking about. This needs to be the disclaimer or signature at the bottom of the comments of at least 50% of this sub's members. Or Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:05 AM
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twox, fds, witchesvspatriarchy, 4thwavewomen, womeninnews, nothowgirlswork, fauxmoi, and so on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:46 AM
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"No, I don't think I will."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:27 AM
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The young stupid bleeding heart liberal stereotype exists for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:25 AM
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This is ridiculous. Literally no man actually thinks they dated, or fucked a 10 just because they jerked off to one. Are you insane? LMAO why all the unhappy lonely men then? They've slept with hundreds of 10s on pornhub!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:13 AM
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He might not think he’s a 10, but he will believe he actually slept with that 10. .....No...he will not. WTF? Most men are not clinically insane enough to believe this. What actually might happen is a small minority of men may find it difficult to feel attracted to anything less after jerking off to 10 after 10. There is again no masturbatory equivalent in terms of enjoying a rich man unless a rich man actually pays and finances a lifestyle for the woman. Hence the example with the rich man has …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:06 AM
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.....Unless we're talking the most extreme levels of mental illness, I don't think any man who jerks off to a 10/10 thinks this means he's also a 10/10 or even entitled to one......how are you arriving at this false equivalence?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:03 AM
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Men would be annoyed too if women started touching themselves to Jeff Bezos, and then start deluding themselves into thinking they actually slept with one of the richest men in the world. Then she will compare his finances to her boyfriend’s, even though it didn’t actually happen. That has to be one of the worst analogies I've ever come across. Men jerk off because they are visually turned on by the physical assets or imagery of sexually attractive women. There is absolutely no masturbatory equi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:49 AM
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Interviewer: Ok you said you went to Yale? That's a plus. PinchRunners: What a relief. I really need this yob.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:20 AM
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We don't necessarily disagree. I'm all for standardizing paternity tests in hospitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:02 AM
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We've enacted laws promising punishment for domestic violence and abuse. Nobody complains that their feelings are hurt b/c they aren't trusted to not beat or molest their family members and children. Legal bindings and laws exist to protect people in case someone happens to commit fraud or transgression, and the logic behind a required paternity test is no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:47 AM
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The way we socialize people is fucked. We have an epidemic of proud dumbassery. Like it's cool to be ignorant and not know shit in this country coupled with hedonism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:44 AM
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Right, women aren't attracted to math nerds not b/c eww intelligence. It's eww poor social skills and unconventional looks and style usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:57 PM
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Not rushing to fuck math whizzes doesn't mean they hate intelligence. Women like intelligence a lot, there just has to be more than that to seal the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:56 PM
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So what did he mean? Do I even want to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:46 AM
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Something about how more people need to know about the dogpill. Thought he was referring to how having a dog or puppy helps you get women but apparently I was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:41 AM
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I don't know his backstory. But he's 5'11 160, I wish I was 160. He's not close to starving but again I don't know what he's going through.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:39 AM
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lol that's so mean
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:36 AM
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You're better off than me. I also have good arms but otherwise we're the same height and I'm trying to get to 140. 8-pack abs but they don't count like big Ts on a fat chick. 5'11 160 isn't too bad at all if you're lean and athletic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:17 AM
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Maybe I misunderstood. What kind of depraved shit u guys talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:01 AM
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only if it's about men tho
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:59 AM
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Works like a charm. In college I went out to walk my puppy and got swarmed on campus. Afterward I was like 'u and me bro we're goin places'
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:58 AM
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I love blue-pilled songs. You know they are very unrealistic and naive but it's fun to entertain them like fantasies and sing them. The fact that you know it's not reflective of real life and a distant ideal makes it better, like emotional porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:45 AM
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"Client here, my regular raised her rates and told me I was grandfathered in." mfer talk like he being allowed to stay at his current monthly dues after 24 hr Fitness buys out his small gym x)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:32 AM
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do you still have to attend those town/city meetings
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:44 AM
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dude what kind of ghetto ass university do u go to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:43 AM
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Just try your own and see
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:03 AM
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Having a chance at sex, at intimacy, companionship, at a whole LTR, assuming she likes you in other aspects overall vs getting nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:33 PM
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Because men know it's fake and wouldn't be ok with it. They're not going to tell their fat potato-faced friend he looks like he could slay like a billion dollars b/c every guy in that circle knows it's ridiculous. Maybe part of it just has to do with how men and women are wired differently, honestly don't know for sure. It's again not about the compliment bombing between women, it's about how we as a whole are simply more forgiving and uplifting of women. Interestingly enough it's again always "…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 09:51 PM
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It's arguably even less acceptable bc at worst a virgin man is simply less sexually experienced than she thought. A promiscuous woman potentially could be hiding issues with loyalty, impulsive decision-making, among other problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:48 PM
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The internet will always be full of mentally ill whackos, many on this sub even. I don't see how that is a rebuttal. It doesn't annoy men b/c they don't want to fuck these women, it's annoying b/c it's obviously fake. It's this fakeness alongside conventionally sanctioned criticism of men and men growing up being told they are problematic. It's not just women complimenting other women, it's society as a whole being nicer to them, being fake to them, and being harsher to men. Literally every woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:26 PM
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Yeah, I just don't see what that has to do with what I said re: the dichotomy of how men and women are treated and viewed in society in terms of accountability and criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 07:56 PM
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I thought Australia was supposed to be cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:58 AM
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Or you know, it's possible to self-improve and also note society is a lot more lenient toward one sex in terms of demanding improvement - in performance, looks, career, whatever. Tho I agree men saying stuff like "no point in lifting or getting better" is dumbassery. But nobody tells women to ignore societal ills working against them and to just focus on getting better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:34 AM
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Cool, how does any of this contribute to or address what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:12 AM
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I don't follow where you're going with this...seems like I can't understand a lot of people here today lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:08 AM
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I'm thinking more just people who weren't going to vote or didn't care anyway making it to the polls b/c omg Taylor Swift and making it a social media event etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:06 AM
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Some people are more entitled or deluded about their worth than others, I don't know the exact percentages. But the bottom line is it's way more taboo to criticize women, way more acceptable to point fingers at men, we are much more ready to lift women up and you can't deny this is going to affect the personalities, behaviors and self esteem (heightened or lowered) of both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:24 AM
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Yes...but we're less likely as a society to tell these women they need to improve themselves ie it's more taboo and you'll be accused of being toxic or bodyshaming. At least in terms of the modern-day left or progressive zeitgeist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:16 AM
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uh what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:07 AM
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I don't know much about her fandom, but I imagine a lot of Swifties are probably stupid or shallow enough to want to go vote now because Taylor said so or make an entire event out of it. I'm not necessarily talking about people on the fence or making them switch sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:06 AM
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Even after Taylor's endorsement?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:51 PM
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It's not about good or bad advice, that's just the modern day message. Women being perfect 10s as they are, men constantly needing to "do better".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:47 PM
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The men these women are trying to meet, or at least the men who do just fine in dating, have no need to go to these events and the rest are realizing they don't want to pay just to get judged and rejected by an entire room of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 11:41 PM
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Everybody wants to celebrate with you at the finish line, nobody wants to help you get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:23 AM
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...If the reality is that men and women really hate each other, is it not better off that romance remain dead? As sad as that sounds. My take is that the opinions of these men and women online represent a polarized fucked up minority that ruin it for the equally terminally online men and women who read these things with neuroticism, depression, and anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:23 AM
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heh and they say women can't be funny
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:26 AM
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Me on a high horse telling everyone I don't use or give a shit about TikTok but just getting all the reels 2 weeks later on Instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:59 PM
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The mainstream premise is that men are inherently in the wrong, that's why if you flip it and ask women to do better you'll get nothing but outrage. Woman does a terrible thing, women aren't a monolith. Man does a terrible thing, it's either "yes all men" or "maybe not all men but enough men". Or it's "even innocent men need to be held accountable to check other men" "men need to be allies" but also "men's issues are not women's problem or responsibility."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:48 PM
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This response is to another one of your responses to my comment in another thread, but you brought up a point maybe indirectly I didn't think about. In defense of men, if a man lies about his lack of sexual experience, at worst he's just not as experienced with women as she had thought, but it shouldn't matter if she likes him as is currently. For women, the worst is she has a promiscuous past and lacks loyalty, healthy decision-making and discernment, or is settling for him. Either way though, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:53 AM
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Trying to be as objective as possible, but from some of the more polarized responses from men it makes somewhat sense to say: Men are more justified in hiding their lack of sexual experience than women hiding their history of promiscuity due to implications of character. I kind of understand this, although lying is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:45 AM
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Yes, but only b/c so many people are working full-time or multiple jobs just to buy basic need stuff and keep the lights on. $ is the solution in this context b/c it's the most common existing context and if surviving wasn't an issue people wouldn't be depressed, anxious, and in fight-or-flight 24/7. $ is the solution but not b/c material stuff leads to happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:27 AM
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I just have this feeling the men who advocate lying about lack of sexual experience are the same ones harping on female bodycount, but maybe I'm wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:16 AM
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If you seem to know your way around sex or have sufficiently impressed or passed her tests, it's probably easier for women to just be okay with whatever your bodycount is because at the very least you don't come across as inexperienced. If the tables are turned and it's a guy not knowing a woman's bodycount it's not entirely the same as he wants to know if she is the type to be loyal and that he's not just being settled for. Unless I guess maybe the guy starts to be suspicious b/c she's a little…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:15 AM
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I notice more than anything else the inability to think in shades of gray. Everything is either/or, all the way to one side or the other, but the logic and train of thought they're giving doesn't pan out or lead to these polarized conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:11 AM
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Similar to high(er) body counts. Some people will judge harshly, others say the past is none of their business or have a more progressive sex-positive perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:10 AM
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For the most part I agree with the exception of a few select white lie circumstances. I'm just wondering if the men who advocate for lying about their virginity are okay with women doing something similar, or vice versa ie switching the genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:04 AM
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Yea understood, my OP doesn't really apply to u then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:51 AM
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But do you condone or understand it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:47 AM
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Are men who say virgin dudes should lie about their lack of experience also okay with high body-count women lying about their history? In both cases, the justification is that being truthful will only hurt you or invite judgment. Edit: Trying to be as objective as possible, but from some of the more polarized responses from men it makes somewhat sense to say: Men are more justified in hiding their lack of sexual experience than women hiding their history of promiscuity due to implications of cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:40 AM
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I am not familiar with kpop stuff or the culture around it. But which gender do you think posts more about kpop? I see way more female fans online gushing over BTS than dudes simping hard for female ones. But personally I have a friend who is in therapy largely b/c of her obsession with Harry Styles among other things. When I imagine fans holding up signs in tears at concerts crying "I LOVE YOU MARRY ME HARRY/TAYLOR" it's an image of female fans in the audience, not male.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:29 AM
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there are female fans who suffer from mental illness, depression, suicidal tendencies (or actually committing suicide rarely) because of their parasocial attachment to celebs eg finding out their guy is taken, broke up, or got himself a new gf i would say OF is slightly different b/c a lot of men dump money for sexual or pornographic imagery, and yes it's stupid, but this type of unhealthy relationship isn't sex specific
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:15 AM
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maybe with OF girls with celebs in general it's def more women/girls who are the ones obsessing over male (or female) stars they'll never meet and compose the bulk of fandoms
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:08 AM
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Highly doubt issues with parasocial relationships, whether it be with celebrities or OF people, is a male only problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:03 AM
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Not really, it's both how society at large and how women view sex itself (to women). The idea that if a woman only has sex to offer it's a bad thing or she's being taken advantage of. There is no self-own there because there's no implication the sex (or his dick) was bad, and even if there was he was still able to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:58 PM
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it is pretty crazy that all men don't think the same
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:23 PM
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Women will say it's important to communicate or that men are terrible at communicating. Then shit-test or expect that the man should just know what's wrong or needs to be said/done, and if he doesn't it speaks to a flaw of his like lacking emotional intelligence or sensitivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:21 PM
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Even if it's the truth it's still a shitty thing to say to someone when breaking up with them, although they might not have separated on the best of terms so maybe there was hostility. But like why date her in the first place then
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:17 PM
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her red flags have red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:16 PM
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What woman here is going to reply with no?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:02 AM
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This is the way I feel about literally 75% of the takes on this sub. Like if they are biased enough, stupid enough, or depraved enough to present such premises in the first place, no amount of logic or constructed argument is going to convince them otherwise anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:25 AM
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That's b/c feminism is accepted mainstream stuff so any random woman no matter how she looks, if she's on the conventional bandwagon the chances are high she'll be fairly in line with feminist talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:38 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:52 PM
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Her SMV-match is 9/10 chad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:51 PM
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I'm confused. We aren't talking about the animals, right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:50 PM
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Yeah I was confused when reading this post like is this rocket science? Also to not talk of the guys in here who say lifting or going to the gym won't help. Insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:28 PM
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men are ignoring them and the only compliments they get are from other women. Men who work hard to lift and get jacked: "First time?"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:34 AM
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I've been catcalled by women and told 'run forrest run' by a homeless guy. I chalk it up to male privilege to not be afraid for my life. My female friends always say they can't understand how I can run at night. Honestly probably not the wisest choice even as a guy anyway nowadays...you don't know who the fuck is out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:42 AM
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Do you have this raging hard-on to go out of your way randomly either offtrack or out of nowhere just to remind people you think men suck?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:26 AM
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