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6	Does any of you have experience with oversize girls? How was it? Meh, when I had not much experience I did sleep with a few overweight girls. Not my thing tbh. I like some curves but there gets to be a point where it just turns me off. The hygiene thing is a mixed bag. I've had women who were not overweight at all with bad hygiene. Some people just don't know how to floss or clean their ass properly, regardless of weight. It's really not that hard honestly, just use a soapy hand ffs. My ex-girlfriend though, she had PRISTINE hygiene. Used like 10 creams. Wish…	/r/seduction	27/02/26 05:50 PM
2	To men who work remote: how so? if i didn't work remote, i'd get a little additional socializing, but I don't wanna date in the workplace anyways. It would also lower the friction to go out to approach, I could go straight from work. My field is male heavy anyways.	/r/seduction	23/02/26 08:02 PM
6	Slowly gaining confidence back If you're average looking you shouldn't expect to get girls way above average. I'm slightly above average and I get girls who are average to slightly above. I have great pictures though and I utilize nichemaxxing. Real life will give you more opportunities to shine beyond looks. Online is very blackpilled. It's not something you want to rely on.	/r/seduction	23/02/26 06:25 PM
2	Fast escalation with girl I met online. Did I kill the momentum? How to recover? There is virtually no reason to sexualize over text before meeting. It can only hurt you really. If a girl turns things sexual unprompted then I usually deflect or tease. It's often just a ploy for validation, and you shouldn't play into it. Even if she is down to meetup, you're removing any plausible deniability, which makes the encounter less exciting. It also increases the pressure and she's more likely to flake.	/r/seduction	23/02/26 06:16 PM
4	Slowly gaining confidence back If he's getting the numbers I don't think they're way out of his league. I'd chalk it more up to variance and competition.	/r/seduction	23/02/26 05:42 PM
39	To men who work remote: Dating apps, street game, social events. Working remote doesn’t really change things for me	/r/seduction	23/02/26 12:41 PM
1	Has anyone tried Dan Bacon's master attraction? never pay for a guru or online coaching. The only type of coaching I've paid for is infield daygame coaching.	/r/seduction	23/02/26 03:15 AM
2	How do I cold approach in college? What kind of clubs? My main friend group, I met in a club at college, it was my senior year. There are no excuses really. You can still make friends, just takes more effort than at orientation. Having friends is good, even if you don't meet any girls through them. If you're determined to do cold approach then go out and do it instead of talking about it on reddit. Also don't have the mindset that you'll find a gf after 200 approaches. That creates outcome dependence, not to mention it's not insa…	/r/seduction	22/02/26 08:57 PM
2	How do I cold approach in college? Okay first of all you should work on getting a social circle. Having friends is important. It sounds like you do have some friends. Dating apps are skewed and the attention is distributed unevenly. The bar for entry is high, you need great pictures unless you're already extremely good looking. And even then, your results are capped by your looks. That's just how online dating is. If you wanna DM me your profile I can try to help you out. I don't think you should cold approach yet. It's one of th…	/r/seduction	22/02/26 06:18 PM
21	2 Questions: Do you think the girl I'm (not) dating is a hoe and how do I progress this relationship to where she wants to have sex with me? Stop calling her a hoe, you're just trying to soothe your ego because she doesn't want you sexually. If you're so turned off by her promiscuity then move on from her and find another girl who does want you.	/r/seduction	21/02/26 07:15 PM
1	2 Questions: Do you think the girl I'm (not) dating is a hoe and how do I progress this relationship to where she wants to have sex with me? Well said. Guys who get laid don't invest in $100 dinners hoping she eventually likes him. He gives minimal investment at the start, and if she doesn't put out he moves onto the next girl.	/r/seduction	21/02/26 07:14 PM
15	2 Questions: Do you think the girl I'm (not) dating is a hoe and how do I progress this relationship to where she wants to have sex with me? If a girl is talking to you about other guys she fucked she is not into you. They don't say, "this guy gave me the best sex of my life, i fucked 6 guys in the past year" and "btw, i'm not that easy, you took me on 5 dates including an $100 dinner ." And she flirted with the other guy in front of you? It's not your job to tell the guy to back off unless he's being excessively pushy or harassing. If the girl is loyal to you, she should be the one rejecting him. Sorry bro, this girl does not respec…	/r/seduction	21/02/26 07:11 PM
1	Online game is 100x better ROI than walking around cold approaching Cold approach is no different. She's deciding within seconds whether to stay engaged. You do one awkward or weird thing, she's out. The margin for error is razor thin. The only scenario where this doesn't apply is social circle.	/r/seduction	19/11/25 01:31 AM
1	Online game is 100x better ROI than walking around cold approaching I agree and disagree. Here's the deal with online. If you just want casual sex and you are fine with girls that are average to slightly above average? Sure, online is way better for that. From what I know, most women are not on dating apps, or at least not active on them. Maybe most women have TRIED one at some point, but most of them leave quickly because they get overwhelmed by the number of messages, or get annoyed by guys sending them dick pics. Instagram, sure, but that's not a dating app, …	/r/seduction	19/11/25 01:27 AM
2	How did you stop blaming yourself for approaching women? I've done almost 2000 day time approaches and I still struggle with this. Feeling like I'm bothering her, like she sees me as a pest. The reality is, some girls WILL see it that way. Not every girl is open to random guys trying to talk to her. But there are also a lot of girls who really appreciate it, and respect it. I can't tell you how many times I've had a girl reject me, only to say something like: "you made my day" or "respect, this takes a lot of confidence." Rejection will sting. That's …	/r/seduction	07/10/25 05:34 AM
2	How did you stop blaming yourself for approaching women? It's not impossible. I used to say the same thing. You're just not willing to confront the suffering. I'm not saying it's easy. AA is absolutely paralyzing. Overcoming my approach anxiety is probably the single hardest thing I've done in my entire life, no exaggeration. That said, if you don't have a good basis of social skills, then you probably would be better off developing that elsewhere before you do daygame.	/r/seduction	07/10/25 05:25 AM
1	Can’t seem to get Cold Approach down… but doing really well online 10 a month is nothing. I do like 10 per week and that's still nothing. If you want actual consistent dates from it, you need probably 30 a week at minimum, unless you're insanely good at this.	/r/seduction	07/10/25 05:22 AM
5	How did you stop blaming yourself for approaching women? 100%. If a girl is rude to you because you said hi, it's on her, not you, even if your approach wasn't perfect. Here's how to understand this: Look at what causes you to feel upset and lash out at other people. You'll see that it has everything to do with you and nothing to do with them. There's just so much out of your control. Maybe she's on her period, maybe she decided she hates men that day, maybe her bf just dumped her, and none of that is your fault.	/r/seduction	07/10/25 05:16 AM
3	Don’t know where else to ask this question, but why is pussy not even that good tbh? A lot of potential things at play here. Porn, masturbation and drug use all can impact libido and sexual performance Anxiety can also play a role. My first time I couldn’t stay hard even though the girl was on all fours with a bubble butt sticking out. The first time you have sex with someone usually isn’t the best. One other factor nobody here has mentioned. Good sex isn’t just about the girl being hot. The energy and connection plays a massive role as well. But in your case I’d wager it’s main…	/r/seduction	10/06/25 03:21 AM
2	Why should I approach? Approaching isn't a panacea. There's a lot of guys who will spout shit like "bro, just approach her, your confidence will get you laid!" The truth is, approaching is not a source of value per se. It's a value delivery mechanism for your looks, vibe, and energy. If you struggle with social skills and/or you're not that good looking, it is going to be an uphill battle. Especially in clubs/bars where it tends to be more blackpilled, as there is an emphasis on casual sex. I'm tall and slightly bette…	/r/seduction	08/06/25 02:24 PM
1	How hard is it really to get consistently hot girls? i agree actually, but then again i wonder if its a subconscious defense mechanism because I know those girls are unattainable for me.	/r/seduction	07/06/25 05:51 PM
0	How hard is it really to get consistently hot girls? The thing is, celebrities have a harder time knowing if people actually like them, or just want them for their status or money. That's why celebrities usually date other celebrities or people with status. Are there cases where celebrities date non-celebrities? Sure. And even in the case of Emily Ratajkowski, her ex-husband was not anything crazy, looks or status wise. But he was still above average in looks with a significant level of social status (producer for Safdie brothers). My answer was u…	/r/seduction	07/06/25 05:11 PM
-1	How hard is it really to get consistently hot girls? Supermodels, celebrities, IG influencers with hundreds of thousands or millions of followers. "10" doesn't refer to the hot girl that goes to your college, unless she goes on to become one of the aforementioned. Why wouldn't they? They're the most desired girls on the planet. If you were a 10/10 guy with perfect looks and had beautiful models throwing themselves at you, would you date an average girl? Getting a "normal" hot girl is one thing. You don't need to be an NBA player to achieve that. B…	/r/seduction	07/06/25 04:37 PM
-2	How hard is it really to get consistently hot girls? This is the answer. You are not going to fuck actual 10s unless you're a pro athlete, a multi-millionaire, or a celebrity. Fucking reasonably hot "normal" girls is another story. But you're not banging the cream of the crop as a normal guy. End of story.	/r/seduction	07/06/25 04:21 PM
7	How hard is it really to get consistently hot girls? If we're talking about insanely hot girls, as in, top 1% IG models and stuff like that, it's next to impossible if you don't have the looks and/or status to back that up. You are competing with multi-millionaires, athletes, and male models for those girls. If you are a normal guy, you stand no chance. That's not blackpill doomerism. That's just reality. Now, if we're talking about reasonably hot "normal" girls, then that's definitely possible with good game and slightly above average looks. I do…	/r/seduction	07/06/25 04:19 PM
6	20M – Had my first ever cold approach yesterday Good job man. I wish I had the balls to be approaching when I was your age. Don't be hung up on the outcome, I know, easier said than done. It's largely out of your control. Just focus on putting your best foot forward and move onto the next.	/r/seduction	07/06/25 05:50 AM
1	Are spontaneous daygame same day lays possible? Yes, it's possible. But it's not easy to pull off. I have not pulled it off. All of my daygame lays were from planned dates. If you're not above average looking, then it'll be even harder. The first problem is that women outside are rarely doing nothing. They're usually either on their way to meeting friends or have some kind of prior commitment. The ones who actually are doing nothing are usually inside. You'd have to convert the interaction into an instant date, and then from there, you can tr…	/r/seduction	05/06/25 05:42 PM
2	Telling a man he'll have to wait for sex because you don't want to get "played" by him is a bad idea. Who is forcing these men to continue going on sexless dates with women? Men who deal with this (and don't want to), bring it on themselves. You can simply stop seeing a girl who won't have sex with you. Simple as that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/25 03:11 PM
3	There’s Different Types of Dating Ability Men Have, One Is Preferred and More Often Discussed I'm not sure I'm convinced of that either. There are definitely women who love their boyfriends and husbands dearly and would never even consider cheating on them. For women it's about more than just physical attractiveness. As men it's easy to project our thinking onto women, as men primarily value looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 11:09 PM
2	There’s Different Types of Dating Ability Men Have, One Is Preferred and More Often Discussed I'm not saying hypergamy doesn't exist, I just don't think it's as extreme as many incels or RPers would say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 10:07 PM
1	There’s Different Types of Dating Ability Men Have, One Is Preferred and More Often Discussed In my honest opinion the whole "top 10% gets the top 50-80% of women" notion is a little bit overblown. It's cope that incels use to avoid self improvement and responsibility. I'm not top 10% by any means, maybe 30% at most, and I've gotten laid from street approaches. Was it easy? No, but it's far from impossible. IMO blackpill is really only applicable to like the bottom 20% (or less) of men. The remaining 80% can looksmax to a level where they can at least get an average looking woman. Body, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 09:33 PM
1	To women who had sex on a first date in the past - would you date a guy who openly says he prefers to do this prior to meeting? Any man with a modicum of social awareness and experience with women knows that talking about sex prior to meeting, or even prior to getting into the bedroom, is basically always suboptimal. It's much better to go on the date not mentioning it, and then you can escalate things bit by bit. Her response to that will tell you if she's even potentially down to fuck you or not. It's basically always better to keep sexual stuff implicit, until you're actually in bed together. If you want to fuck on th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 07:37 PM
10	Telling a man he'll have to wait for sex because you don't want to get "played" by him is a bad idea. Women can do what they want, and men are free to accept or reject that. If a woman wants to wait until a relationship to have sex, that's her right. Likewise, men have the right to not continue dating a woman who has such a standard. It doesn't make either of them wrong or bad, it's just a simple matter of incompatibility. In my experience, women making me "wait" is really not a common occurrence. Usually we fuck on the 1st or 2nd date, or I get rejected outright. It's rare that a woman wants to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 07:15 PM
3	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws "average" men are not low value. They're average value. I'm referring to low value men, AKA the men who literally get zero matches on online dating besides the average OF whore AI account.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 05:51 PM
1	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws You're right actually, I should clarify. It's not that low value men don't get used, but they don't have to invest as much before finding out they are being used. Whereas low value women literally have to sleep with a guy to find out if they are being used or not. Because men will fake interest to get laid. Also, ultra low value men really don't get any attention at all, they don't even get matches, let alone dates. Even when women use men for attention they want it from reasonably attractive me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 05:45 PM
5	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws There has definitely an uptick in men who are becoming conservative, and specifically alt-right. Especially in the modern day with Andrew Tate, etc. This is absolutely a modern problem EDIT: I should clarify, I'm referring more to the alt-right rather than just normal old school conservatism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 04:09 AM
24	The Reason Getting Dates is So Much Harder For Men Is Women Won’t Look Past Any Flaws Women have tons of options, it's reasonable that they will rule out a lot of guys based on seemingly shallow nonsense. They have to filter them out somehow. Also plenty of the traits you listed are perfectly reasonable to reject someone over, man or woman. I wouldn't date a woman with kids, who is significantly overweight, has conflicting religious/political views, is unkempt, etc. If you're not getting dates, you're simply either low value and/or chasing women who are not in your league. I have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/25 02:12 AM
1	If TRPillers were honest with what they´re saying, they would have 0 issue with single women, cat ladies, sluts etc. If I don't find the right girl, I'm going to become a single crazy cat man. 2 or 3 cats max though. Having 9 kinda makes you a little crazy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 05:22 PM
2	People should think about their priorities before complaining about dating. When I say not suitable I mean they’re not suitable for ME. Thanks for your advice though. Got a date tonight and I’ll see how it goes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 03:36 PM
1	People should think about their priorities before complaining about dating. Maybe not when reading this post at face value, but my characterization of my standards as "high" is because I do have pretty stringent physical standards. For instance I don't really find small boobs to be attractive. Finding women who are busty and also not overweight, whilst also lining up with my other physical and non-physical standards, makes my standards high IMO. I've been trying to be open minded and not rule partners out unnecessarily, but I have yet to have very enjoyable sex with a g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 06:00 AM
1	People should think about their priorities before complaining about dating. Lmao yeah true, a lot of red pill guys would definitely say they needed a "pure" virgin girl with zero male friends. I try to be reasonable, and I re-evaluate my standards constantly. For me, what ultimately matters is strong physical attraction & non-physical chemistry. And sexual chemistry too. I wanna say I could reconsider most dealbreakers if I met the right person. But there are some I'd be unlikely to budge on. And with regards to sexual chemistry, it's not just about looks, unlike what I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 05:49 AM
11	People should think about their priorities before complaining about dating. Can she be fat? No. But I'm not fat. Can she be busted? No. But I'm not busted. Can she have a high body count? Sure, as long as the promiscuity is not the result of a severe mental health issue. Bad teeth? Depends but probably not. Tats and piercings and funny colored hair? Fuck yeah, that's the kind of girl I like. Friends with lots of guys? Sure, as long as there's no weird or suspicious behavior going on with them. Active social media? Don't really care, but I'd prefer a girl who isn't obses…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 02:52 AM
15	CMV: Men Should Stop Taking Social Advice from Women, Especially on Social Media I agree with this, but let me tell you, the most nasty bitchy reactions I got were from girls who were closer to me (or even less attractive than me) in looks than the hot ones that I'd classify as "out of my league". The hot ones were almost always nice, even if they were less likely to be interested.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 07:35 PM
–	Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about. idk how much time exactly it is, i'm guessing but my jaw does get sore. maybe it is longer than 5 minutes. I usually will push through it if she seems like she's getting close, but 15-20 minutes of oral seems like a long time. I certainly don't expect that from my partners. To me a blowjob is just to get me in the mood, most of the getting off happens during sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 12:34 AM
–	Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about. you really are a virgin, your jaw is going to be sore after 5 minutes of eating pussy. Generally I try to make her cum before I do, that way I can just relax and chill afterwards without feeling guilty. Women usually don't have a refractory period so it doesn't end the sex like it would for us	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 10:47 PM
–	Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about. i'm 24 and honestly i need at least a good 15-20 minutes before having sex again	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 08:50 PM
–	Is this Red Pill strategy BS? I think it’s biological, and affects men to a certain extent too. It’s the oxytocin. I’ll say personally that when I have sex with a girl on the first date the odds of another date happening are much higher than if we didn’t. I guess this is also probably because if the girl liked me enough to sleep with me on the first date then she is more likely to want to see me again regardless	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 12:33 PM
–	Is this Red Pill strategy BS? yea I agree unless the sex is really really bad I'm usually gonna give it at least one more try. But I've had times where the sex was so god damn awful that I couldn't bring myself to give it another try.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 04:44 AM
–	Is this Red Pill strategy BS? So, I’ve noticed than many down-to-earth and sensible Red Pill “coaches” teach the following idea: you [men] need to have sex AS SOON AS POSSIBLE with a woman to kind of “fish-hook” her into falling in love with you. You [men] cannot get sexual too late, because she will get bored and find someone who has more attitude than you. It depends on the kind of girl. If it's the kind of girl who has lots of casual sex and is a highly sexual person, waiting to escalate could backfire. If she is an ultra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 04:20 AM
1	Too old for cold approach? I don't know anybody that old who does cold approach. Oldest guy I know is like 42 or so. I know plenty of guys in their 30s who do it though. I think you can still do it. I think you should just go for women who are in their 30s or above. Maybe a little bit younger if you can pass for younger. If you look 48 then I wouldn't go below 30s. You can also lie about your age but I don't really support doing that kind of thing. And if you want something long term I would definitely advise against that…	/r/seduction	29/11/24 07:11 PM
1	How do we pick up a girl for a threesome ? Lmao I once went on a date with a bisexual girl who had a very sassy attitude. She was complaining about how ugly the guy usually is when couples try to get her to join for a threesome. And I remember seeing a profile of a couple on Feeld, it said, "women only", and the guy was absolutely hideous, then again his girl wasn't anything to write home about either.	/r/seduction	29/11/24 07:08 PM
1	A Solution to the Woman making you “wait for sex” problem. 6’1.5”	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/24 09:29 PM
10	Do you think women are more bigoted then men? The reason you listed is bigoted though. The idea that male male sex is gross is rooted in homophobia. It’s all because we are societally conditioned to feel that way. Notice how the same thing isn’t true for lesbian sex. I wonder why? As I said many times before, I don’t say any of this with the expectation that anybody changes their preference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 07:04 PM
10	Do you think women are more bigoted then men? Yeah, you’re right, it’s not homophobia, it’s biphobia. The idea that bisexuals can’t be monogamous, or that they’re all hypersexual degens who can’t control themselves, or that they’re always going to leave you for the other gender are all biphobic stereotypes. It’s bigotry. Plain and simple. You’re within your rights to not date a bisexual man, but it doesn’t change the fact that these “reasons” are all rooted in harmful stereotypes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 05:41 PM
6	Do you think women are more bigoted then men? It's hypocritical. You can't claim to be pro-LGBT whilst simultaneously having a "preference" that is rooted in homophobia. It's just completely contradictory. There's really no valid reason for a woman to refuse to date a bisexual man. Any of the reasons ultimately come down to homophobia and bigotry, which is what this post is about. That said, I'm not saying that women should force themselves to date/fuck a bisexual man if they don't want to. What I am saying is, that "preference" is rooted i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 05:27 PM
19	Do you think women are more bigoted then men? there are plenty of women who will claim to be pro-LGBT, allies, etc, yet the second they're faced with a bisexual man in their dating life, they get the ick and are turned off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 04:51 PM
6	Do you think women are more bigoted then men? This is a very good example	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 04:46 PM
7	Do you think women are more bigoted then men? I would be inclined to say that it's relatively equal. But it's hard to say for sure. It definitely manifests differently. I think women can definitely get away with it more easily. Especially when it comes to gender. That's a big gripe a lot of men have with feminism movements, there is a lot of hypocrisy. I would also say that women are more likely to be bigoted in a subtle, indirect way, whereas men are more likely to do it openly. I think women are definitely way more bigoted than most peopl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 04:43 PM
2	Getting a fwb through cold approach? Cold approach requires technique, it isn’t something a noob does and gets sex immediately without knowing what he is doing. For instance most noobs at cold approaching just have 1-2 minute interrogations and then ask for the number once they run out of questions. That’s not how cold approach is supposed to be done, and it leads to 99/100% failure rate. (By failure I mean failure to have sex. As you only get numbers that lead nowhere) Agree with this 100%. I've done 1000+ cold approaches and stil…	/r/seduction	05/09/24 06:34 AM
1	My therapist says I have to try talking to girls I'm sorry but there's no easy solution to this. You can take baby steps, but eventually you'll have to take a larger step and actually hit on girls. The anxiety is real. You have to push past it. I know it's really fucking hard. You'll soon realize that it's not as big of a deal as you once thought. I was in the same boat as you. Had extremely bad AA and seeing a girl that I wanted to approach gave me a massive fight or flight response. After tons of exposure therapy I don't have much AA anymore…	/r/seduction	05/09/24 05:21 AM
11	My therapist says I have to try talking to girls Agreed. If you really want to use medication, I recommend propranolol. Xanax is comparable to using alcohol as a crutch. You won't quash your anxiety unless you face it head on.	/r/seduction	05/09/24 03:44 AM
5	My therapist says I have to try talking to girls If you do decide to do this, do NOT drink. That combination is very bad.	/r/seduction	05/09/24 03:43 AM
-6	Ladies, when hooking up with a guy, what’re some tells/signs that he’s inexperienced? Speak for yourself, even with a double digit lay count I still sometimes have trouble	/r/seduction	02/09/24 07:15 PM
3	Ladies, when hooking up with a guy, what’re some tells/signs that he’s inexperienced? Not knowing where the hole is, or where the clit is When I lost my virginity I kept thinking to myself, she knows I have no idea what I’m doing	/r/seduction	02/09/24 06:36 PM
1	The difficulty increase from seducing 8/10's to 10/10's is unreal. How do y'all do it? this is why i think that 10 doesn't even exist in the first place, 10 implies perfection, and no human is perfect. I think the highest rating is like 9.5.	/r/seduction	27/07/24 06:11 AM
1	Is there a PUA community for gay men? There ought to be. No but they’re probably still better looking than the women he’d get if he was straight He definitely doesn’t have super high standards though so you’ve got a point	/r/seduction	18/07/24 04:05 PM
7	Delete ugly but personal photos from IG? Just archive them	/r/seduction	17/07/24 06:16 PM
0	I can get any girl but i’m to afraid to touch them Get a male therapist. A female therapist will most likely be bluepilled.	/r/seduction	17/07/24 05:34 PM
1	Is there a PUA community for gay men? There ought to be. Gay guys don't need game lmao. My gay roommate is overweight and autistic and he gets plenty of men easily. As a possibly bi guy myself, I've toyed around with using grindr or setting my dating apps to men. Men are easy and straightforward. I get an okay amount of matches from women, but I get flooded with men. Men are easy. Be yourself game actually works if you're gay. I hypothesize this is because hetero men/women are conditioned to follow the script of heteronormativity. Whereas gay relation…	/r/seduction	17/07/24 05:21 PM
1	You need to spend money to get laid! as a guy with a gay roommate, I can confirm this is true	/r/seduction	16/07/24 08:18 PM
3	Men: do you like a girl more if she subtly rejects you ? in my opinion, the main thing is not being too available, e.g., not responding immediately all the time, not being free all the time, etc. You gotta strike a careful balance. If you go too far with it then I would just assume the girl is tooling me for attention or validation, but if she is always super available then I would probably assume she doesn't have much going on in her life.	/r/seduction	16/07/24 08:16 PM
3	Men: do you like a girl more if she subtly rejects you ? this is why I cringe when I see bluepill reddit advice like "you should ask to kiss her"	/r/seduction	16/07/24 08:13 PM
12	I naturally dont have intetest intl girls. What to do to develop attraction maybe try downloading grindr	/r/seduction	16/07/24 08:09 PM
2	Years of self-help and some therapy later, I still can't approach or find any social success. Tbh this is not going to help if you're not really dedicated to doing it. Not sure how many approaches you'll do in one of those bootcamps, but I imagine its less than 100. 100 is not enough approaches to overcome severe approach anxiety. I'll say personally it took me 500 or 600 approaches for a significant reduction in my AA.	/r/seduction	16/07/24 08:08 PM
5	Female attention means nothing unless it’s leads to something physical. agreed 100%. I'm in OPs position and it's because my game is bad. A girl needs to be super fucking into you to overlook bad game.	/r/seduction	20/06/24 07:36 PM
–	I’m losing a lot of the bitterness I had as teen / young adult because I’m realizing that most women actually do desire masculinity and enforce gender norms I never said you had to be hypermasculine to get with women. The person I am trying to be is actually just what you described, which is basically a blend of masculine and feminine. I am advocating for healthy masculinity, not toxic masculinity. My primary point is that being effeminate and unmasculine is most likely going to reduce your dating pool a lot as a man. Just like how most men don’t want a hypermasculine woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/24 10:42 PM
–	I’m losing a lot of the bitterness I had as teen / young adult because I’m realizing that most women actually do desire masculinity and enforce gender norms Yep. Despite what SJWs might say, I firmly believe that the overwhelming majority of women prefer masculine men with confidence to initiate. I think gender norms are partially societal but also partially rooted in biology. A man with traditionally masculine traits, like dominance, leadership, confidence, etc, was likely more effective at protecting their families and children in prehistoric times. Even though this is not as necessary in most of modern western society, our brains still think we a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/24 09:49 PM
2	Is this a relevant side effect of traditional blueprint of dating? Great advice. If you're gonna be passive and/or only rely on online dating, don't expect to be fucking girls that aren't lower in SMV than you. This is true for Chad too. There are a ton of bluepilled SJW men who are like, oh, gender roles shouldn't exist. While I don't think that idea should be completely discounted, there are certain aspects of gender roles you must follow if you want success in modern dating. Being the initiator as a man is one of them. Women are hesitant to approach men beca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 12:30 PM
3	A Solution to the Woman making you “wait for sex” problem. Good girl was put in quotes for a reason. I don't literally think that less experienced women are more "good" than promiscuous ones. In general, I'm not really interested in girls who are going to "make me wait" for any reason. Doesn't matter to me if it's because of inexperience, or because of choice. It's not about them being "good" or not, it's just a lack of sexual compatibility. I am a very sexual person and I want a girl who is the same way. I also have very liberal and open views and girl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 04:34 PM
9	A Solution to the Woman making you “wait for sex” problem. Yeah, why not? I won't judge a girl for sleeping with me on the first date. I will judge her for pretending like she's a "good girl" when she's slept around a lot in the past. Most of my fuckbuddies we slept together on the first or second date. If you act like a fuckboy you'll weed out the women who actually are conservative regarding sex. I once fooled around with a virgin and after the 2nd date, she was like, oh, we're looking for different things. You just can't be a beta who goes on a milli…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 05:04 AM
3	A Solution to the Woman making you “wait for sex” problem. Not only this, but if you reject her even if she thinks you are interested, it will hurt her self-confidence and she might look for validation in other men. Women are not used to sexual rejection so when they experience it, it can cause them to seek elsewhere. This is precisely my point. Women are used to guys constantly pursuing them and offering up sex on a silver platter. So when a guy actually says no, it's a big hit to their self-esteem. Especially because women are used to doing the reject…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 05:02 AM
2	A Solution to the Woman making you “wait for sex” problem. Attractive guys can still face this problem, if the woman sees him as boyfriend material. For attractive fuckboys who they have no interest in romantically, this never happens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 02:47 AM
1	A Solution to the Woman making you “wait for sex” problem. In all fairness it's actually a pretty accurate assumption. Due to online dating and social media, the SMP has become more and more "winner takes all". A lot of men are desperate for sex these days. If you're average to below average you probably get next to nothing from online avenues, and you better learn to get good at cold approach and/or building a social circle. I agree that the concept of framing sex as something that women "give" to men is toxic. Sex is meant to be a mutually enjoyable e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 02:43 AM
18	A Solution to the Woman making you “wait for sex” problem. Women often make men wait if they view that guy as boyfriend material. They don't want to seem slutty or "easy", because they think that many men will not view them as relationship material if they seem that way. Whereas, they don't care if a fuckboy views them that way, as he is not boyfriend material. "making her wait" can easily backfire. If you're a high value man and she's really desperate for you, it could generate interest. But high value men don't usually have a problem getting laid on t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 12:55 AM
2	How the fuck do you approach when going out with friends? Sounds like he goes out with his acquaintances lol Heck, even acquaintances tend to be nice about this stuff. OPs "friends" are truly a different breed. I remember once I was in line late at night on a Saturday getting fast food, I was talking to this guy behind me about women, and he gave me some great advice about approaching and the one thing he said to me still sticks with me to this day: "Remember, they're not above you" Truer words have never been spoken.	/r/seduction	12/02/24 05:29 AM
5	A woman being promiscuous benefits men more than herself Yep. I know a guy who is a total chad. He fucks multiple women and even expects exclusivity from them despite not giving them it in return. His rule is basically that he only does wine & fuck unless they’re exclusive to him, otherwise he won’t take them on proper dates. Eventually the girls leave him for a beta, but often times they come back because that guy is boring. And often times it’s the beta who is forced to wait whilst chad gets sex on the first night. This is why I’m never waiting to h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/23 05:29 AM
3	CMV: neurodivergent/guys on the spectrum should seek partners on the spectrum If the woman is attractive then yeah	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/23 04:54 AM
16	CMV: neurodivergent/guys on the spectrum should seek partners on the spectrum I’m a fairly good looking ND guy, nothing crazy, but I can get laid from dating apps at least every few months or so. But I have a lot of trouble keeping girls around. In general I’m just really awkward around women. Out of like 70+ dates over 4-5 years, the longest anything lasted was maybe 6 dates. My advice is to work on improving appearance and social skills. No, you’re not necessarily screwed, but dating as an ND guy is hard because girls can be really judgmental about awkwardness and lack …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/23 03:16 AM