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| 31 | To Women: How and when do you like to be approached? | Question For Women | ArmoredDragonIMO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 04:36 AM |
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| 1 | Question for redpill: What should the people who will not be in a top 20% relationship do with their lives?Conservatism, from what I can observe, isn't necessarily sex negative. It's a common misconception, and one that conservatives themselves aren't in any hurry to debunk, mainly because they like to be more private about it. I'd say maybe some 40% to 60%, possibly more, are sex positive, women inclusive. I'm not a Trumper myself, but I live around and with many who are, and almost all of them are sex positive, females inclusive. And when they are sex positive, they typically don't talk about it to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 09:40 PM |
| 17 | Isn't it strange how men are less sexually fluid than men? You would think that given men's thirstiness, they would be more fluid.My understanding is that most heterosexual women will only accept a totally straight man, so if a bisexual guy wants a wife/girlfriend, he can't ever let her know that he is in any way attracted to men in most cases. Whereas it seems like many more men, me included, don't care whether a woman has had sex with another woman before, or might even encourage them to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 02:56 AM |
| 2 | To Women: How and when do you like to be approached?Well personally I wouldn't do any of that, in fact I wouldn't even cold approach period, so the question isn't a "should I" but more of a prompt to get them to speak about what situations they are and aren't comfortable with. Part of the motivation for me asking all of this is because of some stuff I was reading on thepinkpill.co, where they seem to resent the fact that they're NOT being approached. Some of that could be the result of them always putting themselves in situations or even posturin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 08:10 PM |
| 4 | To Women: How and when do you like to be approached?That's actually one thing I struggle to deal with personally. Other people tell me I should cold approach, but I really don't like to, even when my better judgement tells me that it is somehow appropriate. The struggle is basically that I can't sort out where the balance is, (part of my own personal issues) because in the other thread I alluded to a lot of them seemed to want to be approached, and the femcell forums I've been reading over the last few days seem to be resentful that they aren't a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 04:55 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I can't "keep a man" unless I do everything.If all of this is true, you can keep me if you want to. FWIW I'm a Cybersecurity engineer at a major health care company. I make a decent wage and I'm about to start making even more. I don't mind if women make more than me, in fact it's a bit of a turn-on because that means I'd be more in a position to take risks career wise -- the kind of risks that pay off big. Right now I'm the only person that takes care of both me and my mom financially, so I can't afford to take big career risks. If I was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 04:12 AM |
| 2 | The rise in obesity and decline of testosterone is a good thing for menIt takes a few generations for it to work, it won't happen overnight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 02:17 AM |
| 4 | The rise in obesity and decline of testosterone is a good thing for menNah not really, it's selective-selection. It's basically a self-correcting problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 01:28 AM |
| 1 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.The only thing I've ever noticed improving things for me is weight loss. Really, buying a house, having a decent job with decent pay (really decent pay, actually) having nicer things, really hasn't done me any favors in that department. More girls were interested in me while I was in the Army, and while I was in college, and I didn't have any of that stuff back then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Do you ever feel anxiety/fear when you think about approaching men?Part of the problem in my case is I can't understand nonverbal signals all that well. I've taken responses as rejection when other people told me they weren't, and I also have a difficult time understanding when they're telling me no without actually telling me "no". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever feel anxiety/fear when you think about approaching men?Why do you think you are so important that the world would care and hate you forever if you asked a woman out? I don't think I'm particularly important, but as for the rest...A bit of autism. A bit of ridicule for merely showing interest for particular girls during middle school and high school. A bit more of that later in life. A bit of many things, actually. It's not as easy to ignore as you might think. Anyways, terms like "beta" and "alpha" are basically meaningless. In fact the guy who came… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 10:38 PM |
| 2 | How much SEXUAL attractiveness does losing weight and putting on muscle add to a guys SEXUAL appeal?Bodybuilding is different from trying to get fit, strength training, etc. Bodybuilders like to compete in shows, and they do everything they can to maximize muscle size and minimize fat, with little concern for muscle strength. Smaller guys will typically outdo them in physical sports, especially when it comes to sports that require high cardiovascular endurance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 08:43 PM |
| 1 | How much SEXUAL attractiveness does losing weight and putting on muscle add to a guys SEXUAL appeal?How much SEXUAL attractiveness does losing weight and putting on muscle add to a guys SEXUAL appeal? Oh definitely. After losing a lot of weight I got a lot more tinder matches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 08:39 PM |
| 1 | What is dating like for women who aren’t above-average in physical attractiveness, but are above-average in game and personality?Nah, I think I was born without a personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 08:37 PM |
| 0 | Do you ever feel anxiety/fear when you think about approaching men?No, I won't get thrown into prison. But I know how much some women love to gossip. Hell if I let my mom know anything about my relationships, then the whole world knows within an hour. The last thing I want is some kind of "oh that guy's a creeper" on the grapevine. There was this one woman at my gym that was talking about how much she liked hiking, so I told her I go every weekend, and that she was welcome to join me if she wanted to (and no, I wasn't expecting any kind of relationship to come … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever feel anxiety/fear when you think about approaching men?they dont care if they get pumped and dumped I don't know about other guys, but I definitely don't take rejection well. That's actually one reason it is hard for me to approach to begin with, usually my thoughts center around "I'm just some dumb idiot, she probably doesn't want me to bother her." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 07:31 PM |
| 1 | More data about increases in celibacyI think if these guys had an active sex life, rather than killing random people instead they would have killed either their woman or somebody they suspected her of cheating with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 03:12 AM |
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