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And if you’re an old guy with attitude you know that Taylor Swift wasn’t the first person to say these things. She likely wasn’t even the first person to say them that day.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 03:38 PM
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Where did I say I was just standing there crying?
/r/MensRights31/12/23 03:35 PM
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Crying at the death of a family member isn’t normal?
/r/MensRights31/12/23 03:24 PM
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“Some kid once said to you” - that “kid” was 18. ETA: And thanks for proving the whole point I commented on a post sharing a relevant experience I had, and you said I’m “bitching” You’re participating in the same comments and clutched your pearls when I said you were bitching.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 02:35 PM
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18 years old - not 13. You’re in a forum bitching about something a celebrity said. SMH
/r/MensRights31/12/23 02:24 PM
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Why not you just “you’re funny” “you’re strong” - why is the baseline a comparison to men? Why is that the default? I’ve been told all of these things. But please, keep telling me about my own experiences. Jay Mohr has a comedy special called Funny for a girl. There’s merch with that slogan and others on it. Number five on this list
/r/MensRights31/12/23 02:22 PM
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A high school classmate asked me if i was “on the rag” because i was crying after finding out my grandfather died
/r/MensRights31/12/23 02:16 PM
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You’re not though, you’ve been given it and aren’t accepting it. The dictionary definition of nice isn’t the same as the way women refer to “nice guy” - which is what you were asking. “What internet women mean by ‘nice guys’” those are your words. You’ve been given the answer. Repeatedly.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 01:38 PM
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Women observe it. Have you ever been told “you’re funny, for a man”, “you’re a good driver, for a man”, “you’re pretty strong, for a man”? Have you ever been asked if you’re on your period for having a completely normal reaction to something?
/r/MensRights31/12/23 01:34 PM
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What are you actually asking here? How strangers refer to other strangers? How women use the phrase “nice guys”? What the difference is between a nice guy and a “nice guy”?
/r/MensRights31/12/23 01:25 PM
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Kind, empathetic, funny, smart, interesting, considerate, outgoing, etc. “Nice” is usually used when nothing stands out.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 01:17 PM
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The headline in the fourth pic is concerning and the school fucked up, but the cancellation of the day isn’t why he committed suicide. The school shouldn’t have bowed to the pressure and should have focused on men’s mental health but the headline is misleading clickbait
/r/MensRights31/12/23 12:44 PM
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Kindness and empathy are positive traits. Those people would likely be described with specific adjectives and not just “nice”
/r/MensRights31/12/23 12:41 PM
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“Nice guys” act nice to get something and turn into assholes when they don’t get it. The other type of “nice guy” is the guy who thinks being nice is an entire personality and not the bare minimum of how people should treat other people. Like he thinks not being an asshole is some sort of achievement.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 12:07 PM
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That’s not what being an introvert means
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:59 AM
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Men do too. Did you comment this to OP as well?
/r/MensRights31/12/23 09:27 AM
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Report her. I’m sorry this happened to you.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 02:46 AM
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Alone doesn’t mean lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:39 AM
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LOL. No. We’re not.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 02:20 AM
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Women who date short men aren’t called brave.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 01:37 AM
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I wouldn’t care. Have them, don’t have them. Make them, adopt them. Don’t care, just don’t steal them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:40 PM
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LOL ok
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:06 PM
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Or your premise was pulled out of your ass without any actual evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:04 PM
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Look at the comments from women on this post
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:03 PM
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Quite the opposite. Prove me wrong. You say you see this “constantly” - where are your examples of this happening to average, not celebrity, women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:28 PM
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r/iamverysmart 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:25 PM
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“Sharpening my debating skills” 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:14 PM
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It’s this sub. It happens in this sub all time. Your use of “females” is very telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:12 PM
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I’ve never experienced that, nor seen it in real life with friends or colleagues, and I’ve never seen it online. Where are you seeing it? Which subs?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:10 PM
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Happy doesn’t mean never getting angry. Anecdotal evidence isn’t evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:44 PM
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That attitude isn’t just in Japan or held by Japanese people - that was one example
/r/MensRights30/12/23 01:38 PM
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Are older women unhappy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:45 AM
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My husband works in a company whose head office is in Japan. When the Japanese leaders are in meetings they do not listen to women in meetings. Women will say something and be ignored, a man will say the exact same thing and the Japanese leaders will take notice. When women are in meetings and someone needs to take minutes, men will always look to the women - even if those women are in higher positions. The disrespect isn’t “alleged”
/r/MensRights30/12/23 12:41 AM
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I think men will gravitate to AI girlfriends more than women will to AI boyfriends but not in large enough numbers for anyone to notice or care. The people who will use them are probably already out of the dating pool
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:59 PM
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It’s been proven - according to Paul Dolan, a professor of behavioural science at the London School of Economics, the 'healthiest and happiest population subgroup are women who never married or had children.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:15 PM
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So if I’m understanding: Men care about how many men have penetrated a woman, and women care about how many men have penetrated a man? Seems like both men and women care about the same thing
/r/MensRights29/12/23 04:02 PM
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Not always. We’re not a hive mind either
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:53 PM
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Those aren’t the same men. Desperate creeps aren’t charming manipulators.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:32 PM
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Because when men do it, it’s assertive. When women do it, it’s argumentative. When women do it, it’s self preservation. When men do it, it’s cowardly. It’s not just the words that just but also the perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:00 PM
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Married women have single friends
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:44 PM
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Who? Who argues this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:30 PM
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Women aren’t explaining their bad choices with a quotep One woman used that quote. Me. I’m not the “speaker for the gender”. Don’t conflate the two. He’s also not the one who said it. Wanda did.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:09 PM
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There may be a few on tiktok who believe that but tiktok is not real life. There are also a lot of people who make rage bait to get clicks and engagement There are also a lot of men on TikTok who say all women should be raped or rape isn’t a big deal. Does that mean all men believe that? The loud minority is still the minority
/r/MensRights29/12/23 12:49 PM
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And then the immediate response is “not all men” to which some women will respond “but we don’t know which ones” Lather rinse repeat. It gets us nowhere
/r/MensRights29/12/23 12:47 PM
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From BoJack Horseman “When you look at someone through rose-colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags,”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:44 AM
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If you live outside Sweden. What’s the point of quoting that study? I’ve never heard anyone, feminist or not, say all men or even most men are violent
/r/MensRights29/12/23 03:19 AM
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Depends on the country
/r/MensRights29/12/23 01:27 AM
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If more recent data exists, then that’s the data that should be used. It should also be relevant - same country.
/r/MensRights28/12/23 03:44 PM
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She’s not a 13 year old at a house party Most women pay for their own drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:55 PM
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She wants to hang out with her friends and go dancing. Where else can she do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:52 PM
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She wants to go dancing. That’s why most women go to clubs. That’s why a lot of women have started taking over gay bars - so they can dance without getting hit on. If you don’t trust your GF that’s a bigger conversation you need to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:51 PM
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She supposed to sit at home because he’s insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:50 PM
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He’s feeling insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:44 PM
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She. Wants. To. Go. Dancing. Stop reading into it. It’s not that deep
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:44 PM
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Both are insecure and controlling. Cut the shit and just say what you mean: “I don’t trust you not to cheat when presented with other options”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:43 PM
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Not what someone else is allowed to do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:19 PM
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Who cares if men go there because women are there? What do those men have to do with OPs girlfriend? If he thinks she’ll cheat, that’s a different problem and her not going to clubs isn’t going to change that. She’s more likely to cheat with someone she met at school or work than someone she met in a club.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:17 PM
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I gave the actual psychological definition of boundary What you’re referring to is a preference. OP prefers to date someone who doesn’t go clubbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:58 PM
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That’s not a boundary either, that’s a preference
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:54 PM
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That’s not a boundary. A boundary is about your own actions, not someone else's. If she gets hit on, she’ll say no. If he doesn’t think she will then their relationship has bigger problems than her going dancing She’ll get hit on anywhere she goes. Men don’t just wait to go to nightclubs to hit on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:54 PM
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That’s not a boundary. This sub really needs to learn what boundaries are. Boundaries help you define what you are comfortable with and how you would like to be treated by others - not what others are allowed to do. A boundary is about your own actions, not someone else's.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:20 PM
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She wants to go dancing with her friends. What’s the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:17 PM
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Because most women want partners, not dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:04 PM
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What did you think would happen? When you ask a woman for dating advice of course she’ll tell you what she likes because she doesn’t speak for all women. She’s speaking for herself. Ask a bunch of women and see where the commonalities are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:51 AM
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LOL ok
/r/MensRights28/12/23 11:15 AM
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Tell me you don’t know anything about feminism without telling me 🤦‍♀️
/r/MensRights28/12/23 10:36 AM
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That matters because…?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:27 AM
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You’re proving my point Unattractive women don’t get approached Introverted women aren’t at the bar Socially awkward women don’t make eye contact LGBT women are at different bars Those women make up significantly more than 10% of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:06 PM
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Not true
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:21 AM
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That’s correct.
/r/MensRights27/12/23 07:53 AM
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“This entire sub is based on one thing and one thing alone. 90% of men have…” No idea what women want and don’t care because they just want to bitch and moan instead of making any sort of effort at being likeable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:47 AM
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Oh FFS 90% of women? Really? This “entire sub” forgets that unattractive women, introverted women, socially awkward women, and lgbtq women exist
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:39 AM
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Anyone can have narcissistic traits. That’s nothing new either
/r/MensRights26/12/23 10:33 PM
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What a ridiculous comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:09 PM
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I’d say it’s about even
/r/MensRights26/12/23 04:05 PM
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Not all women
/r/MensRights26/12/23 03:40 PM
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🤣🤣 I’ve seen significantly more men do this than women
/r/MensRights26/12/23 02:02 PM
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Evidence of what though? You: “feminists demonstrate slightly more narcissistic behaviours than non-feminists!” Most people: “ok, and?” Narcissism is a trait, while NPD is a pervasive pattern of behaviors that impacts all areas of life and functioning With three decades of data from more than 475,000 participants, a new study on narcissism from the University at Buffalo School of Management reveals that men, on average, are more narcissistic than women. Your “evidence” and argument aren’t going …
/r/MensRights26/12/23 02:00 PM
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And for women they’re physical
/r/MensRights26/12/23 03:09 AM
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Oh well, since it’s your social circle it must be universal. Side note: I’ve never been stung by a bee, so I can guess bees don’t sting people
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 11:47 PM
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Why does the sub often define things and absolutes? Very few people are 100% masculine or 100% feminine. In a healthy relationship you balance each other out. Yin and yang. It depends on the situation and the circumstance. Relationships are about balance. One is weak when the other is strong and vice versa. No one is weak or strong all the time. One is emotional when the other is stoic and vice versa. No one is emotional or stoic all the time. I’m an atheist but there’s something lovely in the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 08:41 PM
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Unconditional love doesn’t exist, unless you’re a literal dog 🐶🐾. Humans don’t love unconditionally, all love is conditional.
/r/MensRights25/12/23 05:31 PM
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This whole post is a tire fire of generalizations and assumptions Some people are more empathetic than others. Gender is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:27 PM
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What do men provide?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:32 PM
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Replace “woman” with “man” and same. I’d love to actually debate something in this sub that isn’t actually reinforcing both genders. I’ve seen a lot of men in this sub say the like to ask “what do you bring to the table?” So let’s not pretend that men aren’t also looking at what women can provide
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:32 PM
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What. The. Fuck? I’m disturbed that’s actually real. This is why Drake puts hot sauce in his used condoms
/r/MensRights24/12/23 05:53 PM
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Convenient that the person who referenced the study in the original comment, chose the almost 30-year-old study, instead of the more recent and relevant eight-year-old study, because it fit his narrative? Yeah, I thought so too.
/r/MensRights24/12/23 01:50 PM
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In 1994, when that study you linked in another comment was done. But a 2015 disproved that
/r/MensRights24/12/23 01:21 PM
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The study has its skeptics. Its data were gathered between 1992 and 1994, making demographer Sharon Sassler of Cornell University wonder about their relevance today. Something more recent:“new study suggests blokes can improve their sex life by taking more of a responsibility for the tasks that need doing around the home.” And from 2015
/r/MensRights24/12/23 01:14 PM
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See above. Most women work. They can, and do, put food on the table. Physical security against whom? When? Who’s waiting until they’re sure you’re home to break into your house? If you work outside the home and she is a SAHM mom, sure she’ll do most of the domestic labour. If you’re both working, you both share the domestic labour.
/r/MensRights24/12/23 11:23 AM
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Most women work. Even in a household with a SAHM, washing dishes isn’t a flex
/r/MensRights24/12/23 11:07 AM
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Because some men expect a parade when they do the same basic chores they don’t thank their wives for doing every day
/r/MensRights24/12/23 11:03 AM
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That’s part of the problem. These activities are gender neutral and should be seen as such
/r/MensRights24/12/23 11:00 AM
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Washing dishes and cleaning the house are basic adult things. They’re your dishes too. It’s your house too. Thinking that washing dishes is above the minimum implies you don’t consider it a shared chore. You consider it a woman’s chore so you’re doing her a favour by washing the dishes you ate off. Anything you would have to do for yourself if you lived alone - cooking, cleaning, laundry etc., is the bare minimum. You should have already been doing those things on a regular basis for yourself. R…
/r/MensRights24/12/23 10:34 AM
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“Got to a girls house and ask permission to take her out”. What? When? 1950s maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:43 AM
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You know they made a few movies about Ted Bundy, right?
/r/MensRights24/12/23 08:38 AM
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Cuz no male serial killer has had a movie made about them
/r/MensRights24/12/23 08:36 AM
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Definitely add that to your profile. Be up front about who you are and what you’re looking for. It will weed out women who aren’t looking for the same thing and save you a lot of time and energy. It might not be easy but it will likely be worth it. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 02:44 AM
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But that’s not the one from your original post - which is the one I commented on
/r/MensRights24/12/23 01:34 AM
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Present wares openly and be honest about pricing without trying to oversell. Read: be open, honest, and communicative.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 11:18 PM
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More like a flea market where all the vendors want to sell you something you don’t want or need and you just want to quietly find the vendor you’re looking for, make your purchase and go home
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:51 PM
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But we’re talking about this study. The one based on 181 couples and doesn’t mention feminists. Had you left out the first sentence in your title, I would let take issue with the post. But the women who are happier with a certain power dynamic and feminists isn’t one circle.
/r/MensRights23/12/23 03:02 PM
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The article didn’t specify that they surveyed feminists.
/r/MensRights23/12/23 09:17 AM
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Here’s the history
/r/MensRights23/12/23 03:08 AM
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Respecting greatness =/= hero worship I can respect someone’s accomplishments without getting weird about
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:40 AM
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Consequences of what? She’s not happy with the choices she made. No one forced her to make those choices.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 10:05 PM
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Feminism gives women the ability to choose. If she’s not happy with her choices, that’s on her.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 10:04 PM
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Those aren’t combined red flags. Each woman, just like each man, will determine their own red flags. And each woman, just like each man, may be flexible on their red flags due to other factors. That is not in the domain of women only. Men do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:48 PM
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Individuals are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:17 PM
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I didn’t specify men or women in my comment because it applies to everyone Whose red flags are inconsistent or incoherent?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:55 PM
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What?! 🤣🤣 menopause is not a disease, disorder, or illness. You can take care of your body and make it stronger. What does being rich have to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:29 PM
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Damn, your internalized misogyny runs deep
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:01 PM
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It’s true for women too. Hormones, pregnancy, and menopause are all normal - not unhealthy or fucked up. Your body isn’t getting “worse for no reason” - it’s because you’re aging and not taking care of your body
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:59 PM
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“Why does everyone…..?”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:04 AM
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Some red flags are specific to the individual. This being one of them. For some inexperience is a red flag, for others experience is a red flag. You don’t get to decide what someone else deems a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:57 PM
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Men absolutely care about what other men think of them.
/r/MensRights21/12/23 09:55 PM
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My brother-in-law has two sons, his neighbour has a daughter. His neighbour has always talked about how he’s lucky to raising a daughter because they’re easier than sons. Then my brother-in-law said to him “I only need to worry about two penises, you need to worry about all of them”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:18 PM
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That bothers me too. The number of posts I see on Reddit where women are asking “should I leave my BF because he hasn’t proposed?” Propose to him!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:10 PM
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How about that? “If a lock can be opened….” 🙄
/r/MensRights21/12/23 05:09 PM
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It could be used as a strawman example. It’s almost the textbook definition of strawman.
/r/MensRights21/12/23 05:05 PM
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I don’t classify men or women in terms of value. It’s impossible that someone wouldn’t have something to offer. I don’t respect anyone, man or woman, who doesn’t try to improve themselves if they’re not happy with themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:50 PM
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Straw man argument
/r/MensRights21/12/23 01:41 PM
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You’re making up that double standard: “if I…” - so you haven’t “I’ll likely…” - so you haven’t Assuming you know how people are going to respond isn’t a double standard.
/r/MensRights21/12/23 01:39 PM
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The answer is yes which is why you wait for enthusiastic consent
/r/MensRights21/12/23 01:36 PM
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A straw man argument is a distorted (and weaker) version of another person's argument that can easily be refuted
/r/MensRights21/12/23 01:36 PM
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Most of us know it’s not all men but we’re talking about the men who demonstrate certain behaviours If you say “women who make false allegations” - no one’s going to say “not all women” because we know it’s not. We know you’re talking about women who make false allegations So when women say “men who do this….” Most of us are talking about men who do that. Not all of them Saying “not all men” or “not all women” is dismissive. It’s saying “it’s not me so I don’t care” You’re also make a sweeping g…
/r/MensRights21/12/23 01:33 PM
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Sealioning at its finest.
/r/MensRights21/12/23 01:25 PM
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Not all women
/r/MensRights21/12/23 01:24 PM
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How is it trolling? You can’t say “not all men” then say it’s “all women”.
/r/MensRights21/12/23 01:19 PM
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This guy’s out here bragging about doing the thing that a lot of men in the sub say men don’t do, or women should be able to spot immediately. When y’all tell women to “pick better men” - you act like you really think men like this are the exception, not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:59 PM
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Masculine women disrespect weak men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:03 AM
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How are you reading disrespect?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:39 AM
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Women hate age gap relationships because we’re old enough to know how little we knew, but how much we thought we knew, when we were young. We’re trying to prevent these women from making a mistake and hoping they’ll learn from us. We don’t give a fuck about being “tossed aside”. We actually prefer it. We’re trying to protect these young women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:18 PM
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You can’t tell shit from that video other than she’s looking for an equal partner
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:59 PM
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Sure, that’ll keep you warm at night
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:58 PM
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She’s single because she’s not settling
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:42 PM
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Means he doesn’t have to support her financially. Ah wait, I see. Since she doesn’t need someone to provide financially for her, you can’t hold that over her head and make her cook and clean for you. She wants a partner. You want a bang maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:07 PM
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So a self sufficient, financially independent woman who can take care of herself and wants an equal partner? Like the one in the video?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:20 PM
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Define “bare minimum”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:15 PM
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Happy beta guy in a relationship vs. “alpha🙄” sitting at home alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:08 PM
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Person like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:06 PM
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Because some women would choose to be single than to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:00 PM
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This reads like the 12 Copes of Christmas
/r/TheRedPill20/12/23 01:30 PM
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Women: stop objectifying us Also women: I’d prefer to date a guy with a solid track record in relationships FTFY Christ, it’s not virgin or whore - there is middle ground
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:51 PM
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How are those even related though?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:50 PM
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Say everything you just said about women with a body count, and that’s this sub too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:46 PM
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Crop tops? Other than sports bars where have you seen women wear crop tops to work?
/r/MensRights20/12/23 03:42 AM
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Bob Belcher. He loves his family and is a great dad. He lets his kids be who they are and is instilling good work ethic. He’s a great husband. He gets his wife, is thoughtful, involved, and goes on adventures with her. He provides for his family and gives them all opportunities to take part. He encourages and supports his family and he’s got a great mustache
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:25 AM
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It is
/r/MensRights19/12/23 06:57 PM
10

You can prefer one type of woman without disparaging another type.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:47 PM
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If you want a modest woman, date modest women. A woman going to a club doesn’t mean she’ll cheat - what a ridiculous assertion. If women who aren’t dressed modestly aren’t for you, that’s fine. Everyone has their preferences. You don’t need to write a manifesto about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:33 PM
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You’re talking about tv sitcom dads from the 80s “Provide wise guidance” 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:52 PM
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I wouldn’t date someone who could be killed every time they go to work - fire fighter, cop, military etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:42 AM
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Very few women are demanding that men be traditional. Very few women have the “seduce a man…” plan you stated Men are done dealing with women because they never learned and refuse to learn how to be likeable
/r/MensRights19/12/23 12:37 AM
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You guys complain when women complain that there are “no good men left“, then you call women massive bitches. Spoiler alert, you’re not the good men.
/r/MensRights18/12/23 08:05 PM
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Women have adapted and changed. A lot of men don’t like those changes, but that hasn’t prevented women. Why would women prevent men from doing the same?
/r/MensRights18/12/23 04:09 PM
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Too late for what? Men need to evolve and adapt to the way things are, not wish for women to regress and revert to the way things were. That ship has sailed.
/r/MensRights18/12/23 01:15 PM
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Work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:07 PM
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“Expensive security services”? Please A dog in the house is a bigger deterrent than a man.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 06:11 PM
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So if she did some “cleaning beyond what you deem necessary” does she get to peg you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:34 AM
7

You’re not seeing how that’s different?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:30 AM
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So by “compromise” you mean unfettered access to her body?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:59 PM
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Woman’s emancipation isn’t the only or biggest reason for declining birth rates
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:21 PM
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Someone needs a nap 👶🏻👶🏻🍼🍼
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:47 PM
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What do you mean “what life as a woman is about”? What is life as a man about?
/r/MensRights15/12/23 09:40 PM
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This post doesn’t warrant one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:03 PM
4

Why should we care?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:03 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:02 PM
5

That’s heartbreaking.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 08:56 PM
1

How is that not relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:08 PM
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After my siblings and I moved out, my parents lived together in their house. My mom describes those 20 years as the loneliest time in her life. My dad‘s been dead 10 years, my mom has been thriving ever since. She has two dogs and she is living her best life. Alone, but not lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:03 PM
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Silly flair rule You feel differently in your 30s than you did in your 20s. In your 40s you’ll feel different than you do in your 30s, and so on. This is how you feel right now, it may not be how you feel forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:49 PM
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That’s a lot of pressure to put on the person you’re in a relationship with. Cultivating friendships should be as high a priority as cultivating romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:42 PM
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Depends on the person and what you mean by completely alone. No friends? Family? Social outlets?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:38 PM
2

There’s a difference between alone and lonely. You can be lonely while in a relationship. You can be alone and never feel lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:24 PM
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Her future ability to have children was at risk Even though her life wasn’t, she should still be able to get an abortion Any woman should
/r/MensRights15/12/23 01:27 PM
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The same can be said for anti-men posts. It’s all about perspective
/r/MensRights15/12/23 03:06 AM
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Kate Cox
/r/MensRights15/12/23 12:55 AM
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Because knowing that a high risk pregnancy could result in your death or imprisonment is terrifying
/r/MensRights15/12/23 12:22 AM
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Depends on the subs you visit. I also see a lot of anti-women posts.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 09:03 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:46 PM
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They’re not telling you that because they hate or want to exploit men. They’re telling you that because that’s the way things have been for centuries. They’re stuck in traditional gender roles and don’t know any better. If you don’t think women are constrained by sexism and gender roles, think again.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 01:31 PM
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I don’t think you know what “self-worth” means. Self-worth is not a dollar value. It’s not numerical. Self-worth is the internal sense of being good enough and worthy of love and belonging from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:25 PM
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She didn’t friendzone him. Read it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:58 PM
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I didn’t say it was fine when women did it, did I?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:57 PM
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Spending a few minutes having a conversation with someone doesn’t mean they feel entitled or owed. Nor does it mean you’re “sharing your whole ass life”. It’s just a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:52 PM
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In the scenario I described, the evening wouldn’t have ended with anyone being called an asshole. There’s a tactful and respectful way to dump someone. Also, if the genders were reversed, the odds of a sexual assault would increase significantly. Then it becomes a safety issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:48 PM
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Give her a choice. Have the conversation about him not wanting to change the arrangement. “If we’re not gonna have sex, I’m going to go to bed you can choose to go home or you can choose to sleep on the sofa, up to you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:33 PM
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Show me where I said she was owed?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:08 PM
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Is having a conversation with someone so difficult?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:58 PM
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She tried to change the arrangement but he didn’t have to kick her out on the middle of the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:57 PM
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Hanging out with your friend group is different than joining a club or group that interests you so you can make new people “Being social” means get out there and meet new people - not keep hanging out with the same people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:35 PM
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I’d say that’s fair and the reverse would be true as well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:25 PM
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Just because someone recommends a car doesn’t mean I want them as a permanent passenger
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:07 AM
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For what?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:46 AM
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Just buy a fleshlight and leave women alone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:41 AM
3

We have very different definitions of power
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:31 PM
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That’s not real or actual power. And men don’t like women more than women like men. Men want to fuck women more than women want to fuck men. Big difference
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:37 PM
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What power advantage? Lemme guess: wOmEn aRe tHe GaTeKeEpErS oF sEx
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:34 PM
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Individuals like or dislike individuals. I don’t like every man or woman I meet. I don’t dislike every man or woman I meet. You can like men in general, but still think a woman’s body is sexier. Those two things have nothing to do with one another. Liking a person is different than liking their genitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:49 PM
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“Penises are gross” Like it wasn’t a man who compared Taylor Swift’s vagina to a ham sandwich Isn’t it men who constantly tell women we’re going to hit a wall, single moms are trash, and on and on? Like men aren’t comparing women to locks and other inanimate objects Men aren’t the ones telling women we’re useless after 25? Men aren’t on here all the time asking why they should even bother being friends with women? Men are on this and other subs every day saying women are evil gold digging whores…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:14 PM
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What social status?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:07 PM
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By that same standard, men hate women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:06 PM
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Isn’t it interesting, when I asked the reverse question on this sub, “do men even like women”, the mods removed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:03 PM
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Their behaviour isn’t excused though. But even if it were - women complaining about men not wanting relationships is a helluva lot different and significantly less dangerous than incel behaviour has the potential to be https://www.mccaininstitute.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/incel-and-misogynist-violent-extremism-read-ahead-materials-august-2.pdf https://www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcna49737 https://toronto.ctvnews.ca/man-who-pleaded-guilty-in-incel-inspired-murder-at-toronto-spa-sentenced-to-lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:02 PM
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“Understand” is passive. Understanding doesn’t change anything. How do you measure “understand”? Action verbs. What actions should be taken?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:31 PM
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They’re not owed that either
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:27 PM
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It’s perfectly normal to feel attraction
/r/MensRights12/12/23 02:32 AM
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It’s like you guys don’t know how the law works. She got away with it until she didn’t - and her sentence reflected all of her crimes.
/r/MensRights11/12/23 02:37 PM
2

What a sad post.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:19 PM
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It’s not an audition or job interview. YOU decide if the person you’re dating is someone you want to spend time with. Get to know them and figure it out for yourself. The question is never “harmless”. It’s in bad faith. You’re trying to make someone jump through hoops trying into convince you they’re worth your time. What do you bring to the relationship? Are you answering that question before asking someone what they bring?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:12 AM
1

Doesn’t the Big Brothers organization still exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:35 AM
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You can’t compare the average woman’s every day makeup with megastars who have teams of makeup artists
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:20 AM
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You know what your wife wants. She’s not all women. If you dislike your wife so much, divorce her. You can live the single like you’re desperate for. Do yourself and her a favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:07 PM
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What were you expecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 10:23 PM
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A partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:25 PM
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Ask a relevant and well worded question.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:16 PM
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If someone stole 10 cars before getting caught on the 11th and their sentence was based upon all 11 thefts - did they get away with it 10 times? Their sentence is based upon all 11. Her sentence was based upon all 15. Not just one.
/r/MensRights10/12/23 04:43 PM
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That’s not why women leave relationships. Women often feel alone and as though they have no support system within their marriage. The mental, physical, and emotional toll of the overburdening responsibilities is a major contributing factor when women are considering divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:38 PM
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Agree. It should be the same. But four isn’t a big deal
/r/MensRights10/12/23 04:30 PM
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And she’s in jail for that
/r/MensRights10/12/23 04:28 PM
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You ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:27 PM
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In 29% of marriages couples make the same amount of money. In 16% of marriages wives out earn their husbands. The fact that you think marriage is a competition, means you’re the one who’s losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:43 AM
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Women make their own money. Try again
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:27 AM
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Going out to eat cost money and no effort Preparing a meal for someone costs less money but more effort Reciprocating the effort your partner makes for you every day means a lot more than just buying a meal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:24 AM
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Spoken like someone who’s never made a meal for someone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:21 AM
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“money he earned with blood and sweat” Are you a coal miner? Work on an oil rig? Fire fighter? Women work too. Buying an expensive meal is not a flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:20 AM
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“Women in the west” - you mean North American women? So, not European women? Four countries out of 195 - 2% - isn’t something to get excited about
/r/MensRights10/12/23 01:26 AM
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I didn’t say it was an excuse. I said she didn’t get away with it.
/r/MensRights10/12/23 12:48 AM
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There’s no way to know that though. She could have been under investigation for the first 14 when the last one happened.
/r/MensRights09/12/23 10:06 PM
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If it weren’t for the first 14 she never would’ve got the 10 year sentence. Her sentence is still too light, but it was based on all 15. “Jemma Beale, 27, from Hounslow, west London, was jailed for 10 years in August 2017 after claiming she was sexually assaulted by six men and raped by nine over the space of three years.”
/r/MensRights09/12/23 10:02 PM
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She should have gotten more jail time, agreed. But saying she got away with it is incorrect.
/r/MensRights09/12/23 09:53 PM
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She didn’t get away with it though
/r/MensRights09/12/23 08:45 PM
2

People don’t leave happy and fulfilling relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:33 PM
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How are those two things related? Happy people in fulfilling and supportive relationships, don’t leave their partners. “Oh but I was happy” Too bad your ex wasn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:08 PM
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Women aren’t leaving good men who make them happy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:12 PM
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'Probably just hormones': Women's illnesses going undiagnosed One woman was told she was being “dramatic” when she pleaded for a brain scan after suffering months of headaches and pounding in her ears. It turned out she had a brain tumor. women are seven times more likely than men to be misdiagnosed and discharged in the middle of having a heart attack. endometriosis patients are often viewed by their treating doctors as “reproductive bodies with hysterical tendencies”. One gynaecologist said to…
/r/MensRights08/12/23 09:05 PM
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You know how women are treated at the doctors office? You know how many women have had issues misdiagnosed because doctors will tell them “it’s just your hormones.”
/r/MensRights08/12/23 07:30 PM
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It doesn’t say women’s pain should be taken far more seriously than men’s. It’s that it should be taken as seriously as men’s
/r/MensRights08/12/23 06:28 PM
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Kinda missed the point
/r/MensRights08/12/23 02:29 PM
2

Women have been made to feel bad about aging for centuries. This is nothing new
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:27 PM
1

You do you, boo. It doesn’t make you better than anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:03 AM
1

If you don’t like make up, don’t wear make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:01 AM
1

Literally every woman you think is hot wears makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:59 AM
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Imagine one city where everyone was equal and had the same benefits and faced the same consequences
/r/MensRights07/12/23 11:20 PM
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You can, and should, absolutely leave her. You deserve better. She’s not only physically abusing you but mentally and emotionally abusing you as well. Be clear and firm. Leave no room for misinterpretation. “I will no longer tolerate your abusive behaviour. This relationship is over” Her pouting and acting like a child is just emotional manipulation. Don’t fall for it. Be strong.
/r/MensRights07/12/23 07:22 PM
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Different strokes for different folks. In my opinion, too much attention is clingy and suffocating I have a coworker who feels neglected if her boyfriend doesn’t lavish her with attention. Her relationship is my nightmare, and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 06:15 PM
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Just because someone is single doesn’t mean they’re lonely There’s a big difference between “alone” and “lonely” I’ve known people who felt lonelier in relationships than they did when they were single.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 04:03 PM
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“In general terms, of the resumes considered,more than 5,600, male candidates were called to interview in a higher proportion (10.9 percent) than women (7.7 percent). Under equal terms, the likelihood of receiving a call to a job interview was 30 percent lower for women than for men.”
/r/MensRights07/12/23 01:30 PM
0

“One guy was on a bus. Another was on a train”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:35 PM
1

Do you really think women are constantly recording?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:21 PM
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Women aren’t constantly recording, there was likely significant staring happening before she started recording.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:22 PM
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2016 2019
/r/MensRights06/12/23 05:34 PM
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Honestly, the only people I hear talking about the “top 20%” are other men. I’ve never heard or seen women speak that way online or in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:22 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/science/s/ZQaBZitZ6B
/r/MensRights06/12/23 04:21 PM
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Treat your women friends the way you treat your men friends. Because you’re just friends. If you don’t pay for your men friends, don’t pay for your women friends either. If you’re only “friends” with someone because you’re trying to get in her pants, then you were never her friend. You were just emotionally manipulating her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:06 PM
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In real life you’re hearing from people you know Online you’re hearing from people around the world that you’ve never met and will never meet an want to share their experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:52 AM
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She had a higher net worth than he does, she should be paying him
/r/MensRights01/12/23 09:25 PM
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This also makes her creepy. The same news outlets and people that would condemn men for doing the same thing, will applaud women. The double standard is bullshit.
/r/MensRights01/12/23 09:04 PM
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She wasn’t triggered. She was a con artist. She knew what she was doing
/r/MensRights01/12/23 07:24 PM
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So much to unpack If your ego needs feeding, that’s a you problem. Are you looking for a partner or a fan club? You get what you give. Men are usually the ones who try to create, and benefit, from a power imbalance in relationships. Pick better women, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:24 PM
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She’s not a feminist. She’s a con artist. Is there anyone from the dance class who can back you up?
/r/MensRights01/12/23 01:56 PM
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“If men were still willing to sleep with anyone, that crosses their path” Here’s the rub, someone needs to be willing to sleep with them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:57 PM
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That’s awful that she did that to you but it sounds like you dodged a bullet. That’s not someone you want to have a child with and be tied to for the rest of your life.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 07:12 PM
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Do you feel the same way about somebody who wears contact lenses? They’re “faking” they have good eyesight because they’re not wearing glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:22 PM
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If you don’t like it, don’t wear it. It’s a creative outlet, like nail art, hairstyles, clothing choice. If you wanna make it more than it is to make yourself feel better, go for it. But it speaks more to your insecurity than other peoples.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:20 PM
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You can enjoy painting a canvas without shit talking and making broad, and incorrect, generalizations about people who choose to wear makeup. That comparison is as stupid as me saying “I just prefer painting on a wall instead of on a canvas, but that’s just me”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:51 PM
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Makeup is a fun expression of self. Like people who wear fun socks or ties. It’s not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:47 PM
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Idk why you’re making this political
/r/MensRights30/11/23 01:14 PM
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Nothing applies to every woman. Just like nothing applies to every man.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 01:13 PM
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I’m talking about parents teaching their kids
/r/MensRights30/11/23 01:10 PM
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If it hadn’t been a woman, this post wouldn’t likely wouldn’t even exist.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 03:25 AM
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It means instead of being overly polite when being harassed, be clear and firm. Women are taught to be polite and not hurt feelings, so when women politely reject some men, those men don’t take the rejection. Because she was nice, they persist. This is telling women not to be afraid of being rude to those type of men if they feel unsafe.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 03:06 AM
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I don’t make the laws. They’re probably using them to set an example.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 02:47 AM
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I didn’t defend anything. Nor did I condemn it. I stated facts.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 02:45 AM
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The UK has some fucked up laws. They broke the law. I didn’t write the law.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 12:58 AM
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That was quite a stretch. Follow the bouncing ball here. They weren’t arrested for the crimes of others. The actions of others led to the laws being made. They broke those laws. They were arrested for their own actions.
/r/MensRights29/11/23 10:25 PM
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One referee with a broken jaw. Another threatened with a Stanley knife and forced to quit the game he loves. These are real-life stories — revealed on Mail Sport’s podcast It’s All Kicking Off — that show a refereeing community in fear and in crisis. Rhys Baldwin took the decision to quit refereeing in April after 11 years. The 25-year-old shockingly explained how he had knives pulled on him and his car keyed in response to refereeing decisions he made in matches. As Mail Sport launches a campai…
/r/MensRights29/11/23 07:08 PM
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Did you get past the clickbait title and read the article? The incident comes amid Mail Sport's campaign titled 'Stop Abusing Referees',which seeks to shine a light on the aggressive behaviour officials face. Furthermore, in accordance with the Club's behaviour matrix, foul and abusive language carries a potential ban of up to four matches, with discriminatory and hate speech being punishable with a maximum ban of five years. Birmingham City has a zero-tolerance policy towards any form of discri…
/r/MensRights29/11/23 06:52 PM
0

Men’s suicide rates haven’t changed that dramatically since 1950 and women’s rates have experienced similar (although to a lesser degree) ups and downs In the United States, death rates from suicide are highest among those aged 45 to 64 years — these aren’t the men feeling the most pressure to show their emotions.
/r/MensRights29/11/23 06:14 PM
3

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:31 PM
9

Because if it’s what OP is describing she’s likely pissed off that someone she thought was her friend was just pretending to be so he could get into her pants
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:29 PM
4

I feel like we’re missing a lot of context here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:26 PM
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One common line in those threads is “other than this he’s an amazing and loving boyfriend” That’s the disconnect. She knows he can be amazing. She knows he can be a great partner. She knows they can be happy. Which is why when he (insert shitty behaviour) it is so confusing. “He’s not always like this so it might be temporary or stress related” “He’s usually so amazing so this might be a one off” Seeing two different sides of people makes it hard to know which one is the real one. Like work - so…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:09 PM
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A Massachusetts study examined 2,100 fathers who asked for custody and pushed aggressively to win it. Of those 2,100, 92 percent either received full or joint custody, with mothers receiving full custody only 7 percent of the time. Another study where 8 percent of fathers asked for custody showed that of that 8 percent, 79 percent received either sole or joint custody (in other words, approximately 6.3 percent of all fathers in the study). Of course, this leads to the obvious question: Why do so…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:02 PM
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When men fight for custody, they get custody. You won’t lose them - you’ll share them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:54 AM
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You can be tough and resilient and still be compassionate and empathetic. Compassion and empathy doesn’t mean you’re constantly weeping. Compassionate and empathetic people are also emotionally resilient. Expressing emotions in a healthy way and having traditional male values aren’t mutually exclusive
/r/MensRights28/11/23 09:48 PM
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You don’t think a compassionate and empathetic man can collect garbage bins or fix electrical wires? Jesus fucking Christ. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/MensRights28/11/23 09:36 PM
1

Youth today are also seeing strong male characters being vulnerable and supporting each other. Bucky and Steve Rogers friendship The three Spider-Men in No Way Home The definition of strong men has evolved
/r/MensRights28/11/23 09:19 PM
1

No, it’s not good enough. Assuming she’s a stay at home mother who doesn’t work: You made the baby with her, so you share in the raising and care of that baby. You put a roof over her head but she keeps everything under that roof clean. You put food on the table, but she’s the one who shopped for it, cooked it, and then likely cleaned up afterward. You’re going to work to make money, did you wash the clothes that you’re wearing to work? However, since women account for 47.7% of the global workfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:31 PM
8

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:26 PM
0

As the studies show, it’s not pointless nor is it that hard. If men aren’t asking for custody, it’s likely because they don’t want it.
/r/MensRights28/11/23 08:19 PM
1

You’re m confusing manly characters with manly men. If Clint Eastwood wasn’t Dirty Harry and John Wayne wasn’t a cowboy, you’d be lumping them in with the “scrawny androgynous“ guys.
/r/MensRights28/11/23 08:05 PM
7

Maybe it has something to do with different women liking different types of men.
/r/MensRights28/11/23 08:01 PM
0

Akshually…
/r/MensRights28/11/23 08:00 PM
1

John Krasinski and Tom Holland are not scrawny androgynous wimps Clint Eastwood wasn’t jacked, he was just tall
/r/MensRights28/11/23 07:59 PM
-2

Then I guess it’s not that important to them
/r/MensRights28/11/23 07:56 PM
-3

A Massachusetts study examined 2,100 fathers who asked for custody and pushed aggressively to win it. Of those 2,100, 92 percent either received full or joint custody, with mothers receiving full custody only 7 percent of the time. Another study where 8 percent of fathers asked for custody showed that of that 8 percent, 79 percent received either sole or joint custody (in other words, approximately 6.3 percent of all fathers in the study). https://www.dadsdivorcelaw.com/blog/fathers-and-mothers-…
/r/MensRights28/11/23 06:40 PM
0

That’s heartbreaking. I’m sorry for your loss. Does your fiancé’s work have a bereavement leave policy? He could reference that to get some additional time to grieve.
/r/MensRights28/11/23 06:11 PM
0

Well that’s not unpaid labour then, is it? Women also pay taxes.
/r/MensRights28/11/23 05:46 PM
-5

“Help with household chores”. You’re not “helping” — they’re mutual chores. It’s your house too. Nothing in your list about child care? Managing holidays? Caring for aging parents? Women don’t need body guards. Most men I know choose to or even insist on driving. A lot of men aren’t handy. Most women I know manage the household finances.
/r/MensRights28/11/23 01:27 PM
3

A woman shopping at Sephora, minding her own business, doesn’t want to be approached. She doing her own thing, running errands, likely just wants to get in and out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:54 PM
8

The average guy isn’t, but enough guys are, and women never know how they’ll respond to rejection. r/whenwomenrefuse
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:47 PM
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And when women do use filters on dating apps they’re vilified for it on this very sub
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:48 AM
3

Because saying “baby” would be inaccurate
/r/MensRights28/11/23 03:26 AM
4

Because it’s not a baby. It’s a potential future baby
/r/MensRights28/11/23 03:20 AM
9

r/titlegore
/r/MensRights28/11/23 12:38 AM
6

But I’m a fully functioning self sufficient clump of cells that isn’t reliant on someone else’s body to survive
/r/MensRights28/11/23 12:31 AM
8

No. Removing a clump of cells won’t have nearly the same physical and emotional impact.
/r/MensRights27/11/23 10:54 PM
4

For me, it depends on the extent of the behaviors. If a man chose porn over, being intimate with me, or needed porn in order to be intimate, that would be a problem. If it was just something he watched after I went to bed so he can wank one, no big deal. Conversely, if I was going clubbing three or four nights a week, and then started dating someone, I would likely curb that back to spend time with him. I wouldn’t stop it entirely because I still enjoy going out dancing and hanging out with my f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:43 PM
2

Feminism doesn’t encourage women to see themselves as victims. Quite the opposite. Feminism has empowered women to make their own money, pursue education, support themselves, financially, and emotionally. To not settle for bad relationships. Women do acknowledge that, in some instances men have it harder than women do, but what do you expect us to do about it? We can’t fix men’s issues any more than men can fix women’s issues. Women aren’t going to start dating men to whom they’re not attracted,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:20 PM
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If a man regularly watched porn before we met, it would be unreasonable for me to ask him to stop. It would be my choice to continue the relationship or leave. And you’re right again, people don’t fill out questionnaires before they start dating but if you meet a woman in a club, don’t assume she’s going to stop clubbing. If you see that her social media profile has photos of her in a bikini, don’t assume that’s going to stop either. That doesn’t require a questionnaire, just a little bit of obs…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:15 PM
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No. You’re asking her to go through months of physical and emotion stress - that’s not how bodily autonomy works. It’s a shitty situation but you can force or coerce her to carry a child for nine months. There’s also never “no physical risk”. Even if she doesn’t have any complications, her body will change as a result.
/r/MensRights27/11/23 09:32 PM
3

Women being raped, abused, and murdered is the same as “I can’t get laid because I’m short”? The “who has it harder when dating” pissing contest will never be resolved. Do what you can with what you’ve got and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:18 PM
2

Which men are you talking about then? It’s also not a boundary to say I don’t want you to dress a certain way, thats a preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:55 PM
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If a man meets a woman in a night club dressed in a certain way, it’s not reasonable for him to ask her to change the way she dresses. If she was posting bikini photos before they met, it’s not reasonable for him to ask her to stop posting photos. If he wants a modestly dressed woman with a limited social media presence — he should date modestly dressed women with limited social media presence. You also don’t know what “boundaries” means.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:25 PM
1

Those are issues for women too but there is a certain kind of man who seek out introverted women or women with low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:09 PM
1

I don’t care if other women are interested in him or not. How would I even know. Not having friends is a bit of an issue. I don’t want to be his entire social outlet or support system. That’s a lot of pressure to put on someone and friendships are important.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:06 PM
2

Good for you! That takes a lot of courage to put yourself out there. Some women might not respond positively, some “safer” compliments could be “that’s a great shirt” “I really like your glasses” etc. Compliments that take the focus away from her looks are less likely to be received negatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:54 AM
2

Most people don’t care about most people.
/r/MensRights27/11/23 02:37 AM
1

Don’t you guys get bored recycling the same content week after week after week? What does it even matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:36 AM
2

I have no idea what percentage of men I find attractive. I don’t track that information. I don’t think about men I’m not attracted to. They don’t repulse me. I’d have to notice them to know I do/don’t find them attractive. I have no idea if I’d be friends with them because I don’t know anything about them. I become friends with people because of the personality, common interests etc. Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:24 AM
0

Counterpoint Some are, most aren’t.
/r/MensRights26/11/23 11:09 PM
2

Everyone deals with shit. Everyone’s shit is different. That doesn’t make their shit any more or less shitty than your shit. Respect everyone’s shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:14 PM
-6

The example you gave was an example of a man doing exactly that and attempting to derail the conversation.
/r/MensRights26/11/23 03:07 PM
2

Relationships aren’t transactional. Don’t date people you’re not attracted to because of what they can do for you. That’s gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:56 PM
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🤦‍♀️ because there isn’t a lack of male representation
/r/MensRights25/11/23 06:27 PM
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JFC of all the dumb takes on this sub, this is the dumbest. Women want to be on the company of other successful women at conferences. They want women share their experiences, successes, and advice from other successful women. There’s nothing biological about it. You don’t ask a football player how to succeed in baseball. Women want to talk to and learn from other women.
/r/MensRights25/11/23 06:26 PM
1

You’re asking women you go to parties with what kind of men they like and they said men who party. Ask introverted women who game and they’ll probably say introverts who game. Ask active women who like camping and they’ll probably say active men who like the outdoors. Different women like different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:30 PM
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It doesn’t sound like you understand what qualities men find attractive either since you’re only speaking for yourself and your own standards. Men “collectively” raising their standards won’t do anything because not all men have the same standards. Some men like a woman who carries some weight, others don’t care about body count, some guys like that their girlfriends dress provocatively (especially since she probably dressed that way when they met and that’s what attracted him). There’s no unive…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:07 PM
14

“Men’s forgiveness” isn’t what “enabled women not to see [these traits] as shortcomings. Women stopped giving a shit what men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:02 PM
-3

Friends? Partner?
/r/MensRights25/11/23 02:33 AM
1

If you can’t get your own candy, you don’t blame the candy though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:09 AM
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Be a woman on a dating site and you’ll know why. Honestly, make yourself a woman on Tinder, find a pic of an average woman, create a fake profile, see what happens.
/r/MensRights24/11/23 10:18 PM
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Women understand, but what do you want us to do about it? The solution is not to have women date men they don’t like or are attracted to. Come up with something It’s not “absurd for someone to go through life without romantic intimacy”, you’re not owed romantic intimacy. No one is guaranteed a romantic relationship. What advice are you expecting? If a guy can’t get a girlfriend, there’s something that he needs to do, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:50 PM
-5

No. Changing any part of an argument to “if xxx was black” is lazy. Make an argument that stands on its own without dragging race into it.
/r/MensRights24/11/23 12:32 PM
4

JFC was it Jenny’s decision to be molested by her father?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:27 AM
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That’s lazy and intellectually dishonest “Change it to a completely different thing and see how that sounds”
/r/MensRights24/11/23 12:01 AM
2

Ask the older guys
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:12 PM
2

Older women aren’t jealous of men getting younger women. Older women are concerned for the younger women. Big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:13 PM
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Oh well, that one woman speaks for us all 🙄🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:50 AM
1

Is that a surprise?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:49 AM
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Most women work so they don’t have to rely on a man to bring income into the relationship. Most women don’t give a fuck about “status“ Cooking, cleaning, taking care of a household, and childcare are not “feminine qualities”. They’re basic life skills and parenting. If all you bring to a relationship is money, and probably not a lot at that, you’re essentially useless. What a sad, sad post
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:35 AM
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Most women don’t think men are stupid
/r/MensRights22/11/23 10:33 PM
1

What does one have to do with the other? Domestic violence shelters should take in whoever needs to be taken in. They should accommodate men and women in separate areas of the building.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 10:32 PM
1

That’s not “hate” though, not in this context
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 08:29 PM
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Yeah, look at how many men say “it happened once so never again”. They’re also the first ones to say “not all men” but when it’s one woman now, it becomes “all women”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 08:26 PM
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That’s not even remotely what we’re fucking talking about. It’s not what my comments were about, it’s not what the original post was about, I have no idea how you went so far out of the ballpark Jesus fucking Christ, I make a comment saying that I want to be financially independent and self-sufficient and contribute to my household and now you’re talking about what men have invented in the 21st century, get a fucking grip
/r/MensRights22/11/23 08:12 PM
1

My husband and I have been together for 28 years, but sure, go off. The reason our grandmothers stayed in those relationships is because they couldn’t get out. There’s a reason divorce rates increased when women were legally able to seek divorces. I’m not talking about people being dependent upon the government. I’m talking about wives working so they don’t have to be dependent on their husbands. Your last two sentences were absurd.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 07:01 PM
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You didn’t prove I was wrong, though. I was talking about my experiences, so go off
/r/MensRights22/11/23 06:55 PM
2

How much time are you spending in other peoples homes to witness how they interact with one another?
/r/MensRights22/11/23 06:29 PM
1

Being financially dependent on someone else is never a privilege
/r/MensRights22/11/23 06:28 PM
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Her net worth is higher than his, she should be paying him support
/r/MensRights22/11/23 03:44 PM
2

Because patriarchy set these rules for how gender is supposed to present itself. It’s why young girls are told to sit like a lady, and young boys are told not to cry.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 03:26 PM
1

They’re not though
/r/MensRights22/11/23 03:23 PM
1

You’ve taken a deep dive in my comment history, you already know
/r/MensRights22/11/23 01:55 PM
1

I’ve never seen it. The only instances of #killallmwn I’ve ever seen, have been by men talking shit about women who use it.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 01:25 PM
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Mostly with links to other Reddit posts. That lacks credibility
/r/MensRights22/11/23 01:18 PM
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You could get more updated data Real cases of rape are poorly dealt with by the legal system. Heterosexual relationships is not where women obtain “their power.”
/r/MensRights22/11/23 01:17 PM
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So do men want women’s help or not? There are posts on here almost weekly about how women don’t help and don’t support men and here you are saying the help is unwelcome.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 01:00 PM
1

The ones are referring to are the outliers, not the norm.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 12:58 PM
0

Bro, you’re commenting on every comment I’ve made in this sub - obsessed much?
/r/MensRights22/11/23 12:56 PM
1

None that I know. The extreme are the extreme and should be left out of the conversation because they don’t represent the whole.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 12:55 PM
1

And?
/r/MensRights22/11/23 12:44 PM
1

Raised by European immigrants
/r/MensRights22/11/23 12:43 PM
1

I am talking from experience.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 12:42 PM
1

It says that I don’t want to rely on someone else financially. Whatever you’re reading into it is on you
/r/MensRights22/11/23 12:42 PM
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More women than men seek help for their mental health and are willing to take medication for it. The stigma around seeking help and taking medication has lessened so more people are willing to get the help they need. Before that, women drank
/r/MensRights22/11/23 12:40 PM
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In 1918, the shopping cart with wheels was invented. Men refused to use it because they didn’t want other men to think they were weak and would get made fun of. That’s the kind of shit that comes from the patriarchal idea that men are strong and don’t need anyone’s help.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 12:37 PM
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Gee, I wonder what that’s like 🙄
/r/MensRights22/11/23 12:34 PM
1

Healthy relationships aren’t a power struggle. Emotional vulnerability isn’t a weakness. Anything “in excess” will destroy a relationship but it’s not for the reasons you noted here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:34 PM
-1

Relying on someone else to provide financially while you do all the domestic labour. I can’t fathom someone not wanting to make their own money so they don’t have to be dependent on someone else
/r/MensRights22/11/23 02:48 AM
2

Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:48 AM
-1

How so?
/r/MensRights22/11/23 01:43 AM
-3

Men and women should work together to achieve equality. We just have to get past the “we have it worse” nonsense and work together
/r/MensRights22/11/23 01:43 AM
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Those are the minority
/r/MensRights22/11/23 01:41 AM
1

Toe-may-toe Toe-mah-toe
/r/MensRights22/11/23 01:39 AM
-18

It’s indentured servitude
/r/MensRights22/11/23 01:37 AM
-30

Being a housewife isn’t a privilege
/r/MensRights22/11/23 01:29 AM
6

It’s not jealousy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:19 AM
0

How is that even relevant?
/r/MensRights22/11/23 01:04 AM
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Bullshit. Women are told from a young age how to be a “good wife”.
/r/MensRights22/11/23 01:00 AM
-7

Attended a two hour psychology for dummies webinar and now thinks they’re an expert
/r/MensRights22/11/23 12:59 AM
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Men and women both bring something to the table, they just bring different things. Not better. Not worse. Different. The things you listed are things you do. They’re not universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:30 AM
-2

What do you get out of kicking someone when they’re already down? Does it make you feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:29 AM
1

Every week there’s a “the problem with modern dating is insert something shitty women are doing” post on this sub. It’s getting boring
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:25 PM
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You know we can see your comment history. You didn’t get banned from r/sex because you “refuse to use coddling language”. It was probably because you said “yeah you’re a fucking idiot fam” in a sex positive sub meant for civil discourse. She wasn’t there seeking judgment, she was seeking advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:24 PM
2

Every. Fucking. Week.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:16 PM
1

Your assertion is that being gay is a choice….or is “debatable”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:26 PM
1

And what was your decision making process like?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:19 PM
1

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:40 PM
1

It’s actually not
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:30 PM
4

There needs to be a PPD Unhinged Hall of Fame.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:28 PM
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Show a chart actually made by feminists instead of this made up nonsense
/r/MensRights21/11/23 06:23 PM
2

Oh FFS grow up. “Women need to constantly demonstrate and make clear that they have desire for their man” is absurd. “Captivated by his style, drawn to his intellect, ticked by his humor, safe in his arms blah blah blah” life isn’t a hallmark movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:20 PM
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Careers aren’t meant to “fill the hole in your heart”. They’re meant to help you live life - feed, clothe, and house yourself. Hobbies make you an interesting person and are part of a fulfilling life and personality. Your entire life shouldn’t be solely focused on “love and companionship”. Honestly, it sounds like a puppy wrote this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:16 PM
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They’re telling you to be a complete person. A functioning member of society with their own interests and goals. That’s what attracts love and companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:15 PM
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Women get raped in prison too. Men and women have the same resources when they leave prison - halfway houses, etc. I just googled it and a bunch of sites came up. There are different types of re-entry programs. They can focus on assisting with employment, securing stable housing, or providing healthcare services. Some programs serve sub-sectors of the formerly incarcerated population such as women or juveniles. Do you have real sources for your claims or are you just pulling all this out of your…
/r/MensRights21/11/23 05:13 PM
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You’re right. It is your body and your choice to wank it. Very good.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:43 PM
3

Just wank it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:43 AM
-3

🤣🤣
/r/MensRights21/11/23 01:00 AM
-4

International men’s day definitely needs more awareness - but genuine awareness not petty awareness. “Searches for International Men's Day spike on International Women's Day. While there are spikes in November for Men's Day, the bigger spike in searches is on International Women's Day.” Men need to care about international men’s day because they care and genuinely want to raise awareness, not because they’re trying to “stick it to women”.
/r/MensRights21/11/23 12:06 AM
-4

I don’t remember anyone talking about international women’s day.
/r/MensRights20/11/23 11:59 PM
1

The World Health Organization has recently conducted a study comparing 41 European countries and found that men’s health was worse in gender-unequal countries. WHO has also found that men and women living in more equal countries report that they sleep better than those who live in socially unequal countries. Recent European studies like this found that this is not because of a lack of stress but because men take better care of themselves in gender-equal societies. Studies have found that men are…
/r/MensRights20/11/23 09:42 PM
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Not what we’re talking about though. Men aren’t approaching women = why men aren’t getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:18 PM
5

In the entire dataset, 29% of men said they never approached a woman in person before. 27% said it had been more than one year. This was larger for men in the age 18-25 group: 45% had never approached a woman in person,” according to the study.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:15 PM
-2

Some are, most aren’t.
/r/MensRights20/11/23 10:37 AM
4

Emotionally mature men know how to express their emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:11 AM
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Women having an interest in sex doesn’t mean they’re going to fuck just anyone. Almost half of men don’t approach women, that’s what they’re sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:10 AM
6

OPs assertion that women are “getting judged all over the place for what guy they are with” is false
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:01 AM
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Women want the same thing. A man they find attractive who treats them well
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:07 AM
-4

You know it wasn’t a documentary, right?
/r/MensRights19/11/23 10:39 PM
2

Because those numbers are bullshit and not indicative of real life
/r/MensRights19/11/23 09:35 PM
3

“Why has no one decided to have sex with her?” You can’t fathom that she might be the one choosing to remain a virgin? This whole thing reads like rage bait
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:36 PM
-3

a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it.
/r/MensRights19/11/23 12:31 PM
-3

Dumb comparison
/r/MensRights19/11/23 12:30 PM
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According to your redpillers, Chad wouldn’t be a project though, would he? Y’all think Chad is the finished product.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:08 AM
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You’re assuming that every man a woman takes a chance on actually lives up to his “potential”. They often don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:58 AM
-6

The men in our lives have told us and studies and research and stuff
/r/MensRights18/11/23 06:52 PM
2

Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:34 PM
1

This sounds familiar
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:29 PM
-35

“Political power”? Women remain less than a third of all elected officials in the USA
/r/MensRights18/11/23 06:28 PM
2

Clearly you misread and misunderstood my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:48 PM
2

😂😂 what? Honest about what? What did I win?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:44 PM
-1

Are you going to give me examples or am I to guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:27 PM
-2

It’s a legal definition. It has nothing to do with women. Talk to the lawmakers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:37 PM
3

The legal definitions. The definition of rape should be expanded to include women as the perpetrator but likely won’t be. Rape: “The penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim.” “The term sexual assault refers to sexual contact or behavior that occurs without explicit consent of the victim. Some forms of sexual assault include: Attempted rape. Fondling or unwanted s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:36 PM
0

They’re really not. A woman can tell you “I like it when men do this” or “this is a turn off”. Men can’t tell you that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:24 PM
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If you’re only hanging around someone because you believe you have a chance with them, you’re not their friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:48 PM
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Yes, of course, that can happen. But the majority of men who complain about being in the “friend zone” are the ones who never wanted a friend in the first place. They just hang on in the hopes that one day she’s going to realize that he’s the man for her. Most people who use the phrase “friend zone” unironically are disingenuous and will bail as soon as they realize there’s no romantic relationship coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:41 PM
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There’s no such thing as a friend zone. There are friendships. If a woman has a man who is a friend, he’s not in the friend zone - he’s her friend. And she is not romantically interested in her friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:37 PM
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Here’s the thing though, people aren’t companies, they’re not fish, they’re not locks, they’re not keys, or any other inanimate object. If someone doesn’t want to invest their time and energy into someone in the hopes that they’re going to become someone better, they don’t have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:37 PM
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I’m not making an analogy. The person I responded to did.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:35 PM
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But you buy them when they’re finished
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:54 PM
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Choosing to stay single instead of settling isn’t women screwing themselves. Women aren’t looking for projects.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:46 PM
-2

Women may not know how to attract women but they know what they find attractive in a man. The only time you don’t care about that is if you’re just trying to get laid. If you actually want a relationship, then ask women what kind of men they want to be in relationships with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:34 PM
1

I enjoyed the Brown Sisters series by Talia Hibbert.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:59 PM
2

Was he safe? Was it all consensual? Was he honest with all of them? Is he 50 and not 22? If yes, then why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:57 PM
2

Ok 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:39 PM
-8

Patriarchy is where the idea of “real men” came from
/r/MensRights17/11/23 09:05 PM
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That was a lot of words to say “men should compliment other men more” No one is forcing you to date or interact with obese women so why the fuck do you care if they the believe they’re beautiful? If you want men to feel handsome, tell them they’re handsome. If you want to get laid, your bro’s opinion of you is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:02 PM
0

Nice means pleasant; agreeable; satisfactory. Kind means having or showing a friendly, generous, and considerate nature. They’re different words with different definitions
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:56 PM
2

How are women doing this?
/r/MensRights17/11/23 01:02 PM
4

The person may be less miserable with a lot of kids but it’s not about them. It’s about their kids. The kids they can’t properly care for who will suffer A childless person can adopt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:57 PM
1

Sure it is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:44 AM
1

🤣🤣🤣 I didn’t realize you were 12. Go to bed before I tell your mom you’re up past your bedtime
/r/MensRights16/11/23 11:52 PM
3

Maybe neither of them wanted to get serious Maybe they were incompatible Maybe they were better off as friends Maybe they didn’t have the same relationship goals There are a shit ton of reasons relationships end
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:51 PM
-8

“Fault” who’s talking about fault? Stay on topic.
/r/MensRights16/11/23 10:59 PM
-8

“Fewer role models” There are 30 NBA teams, for example, and 12 WNBA teams. How often do you see women’s hockey or baseball on TV? “Fewer”
/r/MensRights16/11/23 10:54 PM
7

He’s open about his mental health issues and addressing them. He open about his challenges with substance abuse and has been to rehab. His exes all gave good things to say about him. My guy, owning your issues, taking accountability, and dealing with them is the greenest of green flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:44 PM
6

Some younger women think older men are creeps. Some don’t. We are not Borg.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:33 PM
5

“Years” is now “hundreds of thousands of years”? Ah so women trying to be treated as equals is “demanding validation”? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:21 PM
7

When are women asking for validation? Men are the ones coming on the sub two or three times a week complaining about not getting any empathy. I’m not seeing women making those same posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:48 PM
11

See?! We’re finding common ground
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:43 PM
-35

Christ, y’all will complain about anything. Young girls have fewer role models to look up to. Fewer successful women in sports to inspire them than boys do. It’s about representation.
/r/MensRights16/11/23 04:13 PM
4

I love when men experience the same things women have been experiencing for years and act shocked and appalled that it could be happening to them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:59 PM
6

It is a preference, absolutely. If a guy doesn’t want to date a single mother because he doesn’t want the responsibility of children, that’s 1000% OK. If he doesn’t want to date a single mother because he’s afraid other guys are gonna call him a cuck, that’s fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:52 PM
1

Everyone’s allowed to have boundaries but that doesn’t mean everyone else has to abide by them. If you’re not compatible, you’re not compatible
/r/MensRights16/11/23 01:20 PM
8

It’s not selfishness. It’s stupidity “I can’t date a woman who might make me really happy and whose got a great kid because some random desperate single guy who hasn’t been laid in a decade might call me a cuck online”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:50 PM
9

Stop caring what other men think and only douche bags will think that anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:47 PM
3

Christ. Women do want sex - with partners who care about pleasuring them. If sex doesn’t end in babies it’s usually because of a little thing we like to call birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:26 AM
3

Women do feel during sex. Not all sex ends in babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:15 PM
4

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:08 PM
1

Isn’t this entire conversation about men having unresolved issues? How do you propose those issues get resolved? Women also tell other women to go to therapy if they have issues they need to work through. It’s not gaslighting.
/r/MensRights15/11/23 09:51 PM
-1

You’re the one blaming women for making bad choices. Give women better options.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:49 PM
0

Be. Better. Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:45 PM
1

Reddit is not therapy.
/r/MensRights15/11/23 08:23 PM
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Nice is not a personality. It’s the bare minimum. There’s more to a person than being nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:16 PM
-4

The point is that dicks don’t permanently stretch pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:45 PM
1

Mean length from cervix to introitus: 6.3 cm (2.5 in). Mean width: at the proximal vagina: 3.3 cm (1.3 in); at the pelvic diaphragm: 2.7 cm (1.1 in); at the introitus: 2.6 cm (1.0 in) The variations aren’t as big as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:11 PM
2

It’s crazy that men don’t. The vaginal canal can change shape in certain situations, like during sex or childbirth, and if snaps back like a rubber band unless someone has had multiple births and in that case, kegels help. The opening of the vagina measures around 1 inch across, but, as with the rest of the vagina, it can stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:55 PM
-1

I’m sorry, the premise of your post doesn’t make any sense. It’s disgusting what the women in your life are doing to you but that has absolutely nothing to do with “women are the stronger sex as feminist claim”. Those are two completely disjointed thoughts. When it comes to male shelters, sadly, it’s largely due to supply and demand. If men don’t use shelters, shelters stopped being funded. If there is someone in your life who can get you out of this situation, or somewhere you can go, please do…
/r/MensRights14/11/23 09:37 PM
9

So triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:05 PM
4

All the negative shit she said is her projecting on him. She doesn’t know if or why he dated before he started dating her mom. She’s making a lot of assumptions. She thinks he’s a bit of a chump, that doesn’t make him a chump. She’s not said anything negative about who he is as a person. The negative comments she has made, have been her negative perception of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:10 PM
4

She doesn’t say a negative thing about him other than her mom’s friends - who are now jealous of their relationship - not thinking he was good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:17 PM
15

She basically says her step dad is an awesome guy. Why wouldn’t a woman want an awesome guy? They’ve been together for almost 30 years He’s happy and she’s calling him a chump. For being happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:03 PM
17

She’s making a lot of assumptions. Nowhere does she say her mom regrets her choice. She just thinks her mom could because OP wouldn’t have dated her step dad Sounds like it was written by a 16 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:46 PM
6

Did your mom say she wouldn’t have dated him if she didn’t have kids or are you pulling all of this out of your ass? Just because you’re too shallow to see past a minor disability, doesn’t mean your mom was.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:44 PM
8

Proved my point 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:44 PM
1

Because a small percentage of the population is on a dating site and dating site behaviour is different than real life behavior. It’s not that deep
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:44 PM
4

On a dating app - not indicative of real life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:59 AM
6

A dating app survey is not real life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:52 AM
13

Women defend men here all the time, you downvote them, and accuse them of lying
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:12 AM
0

I know your kind. I could produce 100 examples and it still wouldn’t be enough.
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 01:01 AM
1

“One in five British women born in the 60s don’t have children – and the grief many of them feel has rarely been acknowledged. “ One in five is half?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:55 PM
0

Do absolutely nothing to make things better, complain incessantly that things are shit. Good plan fellas. 🤦‍♀️🙄
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 09:27 PM
4

Therapists don’t fix your problems. They help you help yourself.
/r/MensRights13/11/23 07:59 PM
-4

How? What’s the solution?
/r/MensRights13/11/23 07:58 PM
1

It wasn’t obvious.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 02:13 PM
0

How do you know what I do or don’t do in that situation?
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 01:47 PM
-9

“A comparatively low rate (5%) of engagement with talking therapies was evident among the men we studied, despite the higher than expected rate of contact with services that we found. This is consistent with data showing women are twice as likely as men to finish a course of Improving Access to Psychological Therapies (IAPT), and are more likely than men to seek help through psychological therapy. We recommend psychological therapies suited to the needs of men should be offered.” How does this m…
/r/MensRights13/11/23 01:36 PM
-16

No one can fix them for you. They can listen and offer empathy or suggestions.
/r/MensRights13/11/23 01:34 PM
-8

Talk to the right people. The ones who can help you.
/r/MensRights13/11/23 01:33 PM
4

Money isn’t a personality Women make their own money, yours isn’t impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:31 PM
-7

If you respond like this before someone even had a chance to say anything, you have no idea why they’re approaching you or what they’re going to say. Please get therapy. You have too much anger and resentment for your young age.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 12:59 PM
0

The subsequent behaviour? You mean after he told them to fuck off and called them her a dumb bitch for no reason?
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 12:54 PM
-1

When was he being bullied? At what point in that interaction did the pulling occur?
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 12:52 PM
-1

What did happen? Where was the bullying? It was in OPs head.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 12:47 PM
-3

You have no idea what they wanted to say to you. When women behave like this toward men y’all are the first ones to jump down our throats NoT aLL mEn but these girls hadn’t even said anything yet Stop getting proactively angry
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 12:45 PM
0

Victim of what? They hadn’t done it said anything. He had no idea what they wanted to say to him.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 12:44 PM
1

Bruh, I wasn’t referring to the point about prison sentences. I don’t know how to make that simpler for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:40 AM
-5

You’re an idiot.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 02:57 AM
-3

You’re the one who’s coping. So desperate to be a victim that you can’t fathom women experiencing the same shitty emotions. Grow up.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 01:35 AM
-7

Wrap your head around this - not all women have friends and family. Not all women get hit on. Women are not immune from loneliness.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 01:25 AM
-6

You really think men are the only ones who can feel lonely? Christ, you know women are human too, right?
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 01:07 AM
1

WTF are you even talking about? Being imprisoned for committing a crime isn’t “getting screwed over”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:05 AM
7

You don’t know what those women believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:13 PM
19

So don’t have a baby out of marriage. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:13 PM
1

Have you ever considered that their boyfriends don’t want to be on social media? Or that their social media is about something other than their personal life and relationship?
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 06:02 PM
12

Why do you care about what women you don’t want to date do?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:58 PM
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Source: “I’d reckon” Mmm, yes, that’s valid 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:27 PM
-11

Those people need to direct their issues with possible solutions to the right people. Complaining on Reddit that men are being drafted ain’t it. Theres a lot of talk but, not a lot of action.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 02:17 PM
-11

What do you mean “no one complains”. People complain. A lot.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 01:38 PM
1

If you said “women who do this behaviour are gold diggers” then it’s not because you’re talking about a specific behaviour. It’s really not that hard. “Men who repeat the same question over and over again are sealioning.” See how that works? I’m not generalizing all men, just men who do that thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:16 PM
3

Women. Not “girls”.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 01:08 PM
1

Whenever a survey goes against what y’all believe you’ll shout from the rooftops that self reported surveys are bullshit. But as soon as a survey aligns with your view then it must be the gospel truth
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 12:59 PM
1

Because like I said in my original comment “some of those listed aren’t privileges”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:52 PM
1

So don’t get married. It’s not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:14 AM
1

There were two separate points OP made. One about the number of men in prison and one about prison sentences. I specifically commented on the number of men in prison
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:22 PM
1

And?
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 09:29 PM
2

I’m not, sugar
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:27 PM
3

I have a college education and my husband graduated high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:22 PM
4

Her perspective is immature. Men and women should be complete on their own and be with people because they want to be. Not because they need to be. Hopefully, she’ll grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:50 PM
2

It’s legit concern. We remember how uncomfortable it felt to be a teenager and have men old enough to be our fathers pursue us. We also remember how stupid we were (while thinking we knew everything) and how little we knew about ourselves or relationships. We’re trying to prevent young women from being taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:39 PM
2

How is that attitude helping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:35 PM
2

“No one is accepting that man’s behaviour, only other misogynists” Correct, and the exact same thing is true for misandry. Only other misandrists are accepting of that behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:48 PM
4

That’s your perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 07:40 PM
7

I can show you videos and posts where men are disgusting in the comments too. That doesn’t solve anything. Instead of focusing on the women who do say those things, why not find allies in the ones who don’t? If it’s “not all men”, it’s “not all women” too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:22 PM
5

I’ve never known a woman who would make fun of a man or show a lack of empathy in any of those situations. Is it really that common or is it a fear men have?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:11 PM
6

Calling women “purely evil” and then expecting them to help you isn’t the way Men say they have these problems but never follow through with the solutions What do you want us to do? And it’s not “date any man who asks you because he’s lonely” be realistic. What is the solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:04 PM
7

Norah Vincent already had severe mental health issues before doing this experiment. The trans man making that video should have been a wake up call to men. It should have driven men to be more open with their friends. To work harder on their friendships. To work on the issue of male loneliness instead of just throwing hands in the air and giving up. Only men can solve the problem of male loneliness because it’s more than intimate relationships. Men need to be better friends to other men. Women d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:43 PM
61

Most people don’t care about most people regardless of gender. When speaking specifically about gender, a lot of men expect empathy from women when they aren’t empathetic toward women. The lack of empathy didn’t come from nowhere, it’s largely in response to the lack of empathy a lot women have experienced from a lot of men. Before you say “society cares more about women”, I’m not talking about society as a whole. I’ve seen posts women have made about their rapes and men in the comments are disg…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:19 PM
9

Some of those listed aren’t “privileges” though. If men and women committed crime at the same rate and more men went to prison, that would be a privilege. Men are committing more crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:02 PM
2

“Keep oppressing women in the name of religion so men can get laid”
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 08:26 PM
1

Spelling mistake. How was that projecting?
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 08:14 PM
2

How? Dragging the men in our lives to therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:12 PM
2

Nothing is obvious on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:44 PM
10

Careful, sounds like you’re getting upset, that’s feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:40 PM
0

Where was this energy when the person I was responding to was saying that women need to be taught how to choose men? Be consistent.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 06:40 PM
7

I hate to break it to you, but men also experience moods and emotions. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:39 PM
8

Ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:28 PM
6

How is that a “feminine frame”?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:24 PM
0

What does this have to do with men feeling entitled to women’s bodies?
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 06:23 PM
0

And according to a lot of men on this sub, a woman’s worth is tied to her fertility and body count. What’s your point?
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 06:22 PM
2

It’s a big distinction. Any oncologist or researcher can work on treating cancers. Let’s not forget that men also get breast cancer. Women can’t solve men’s problems because we are not the ones experiencing those problems. We can’t take the lead on those. It’s up to men to come up with the solutions that are facing men. Women can help, but they can’t solve.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:22 PM
19

Did you really just say men who get emotionally invested in sports are feminine? Jesus fucking Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:33 PM
0

Are you in the USA? Because no American man has been forced into military service since 1973. Your point is also completely irrelevant to the topic of this thread. You’re the one playing the “who’s got it worst game”.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 05:31 PM
4

Social problems and medical problems are very different problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:27 PM
1

Do you know what “protecting” means?
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 05:22 PM
1

“Taught how to choose a guy” Teach men how to be guys worth choosing
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 03:03 PM
-13

Confirmation bias. I see women being blasted all the time on those subs. The next post I scrolled to after reading this one was women calling a women TA because of her behaviour.
/r/MensRights10/11/23 01:24 PM
1

No one is entitled
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 12:48 PM
3

Visit the subreddit I linked.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 02:40 AM
8

Not sure what that has to do with your post though. Women who say men are not entitled to their bodies are usually saying it in response to men who behave as though they are entitled. There’s no hypocrisy or double standard there.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 01:12 AM
0

What are you so mad about?
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 01:07 AM
2

If only it were that rare.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 01:04 AM
6

If men didn’t feel entitled to women they wouldn’t respond with violence when rejected. r/whenwomenrefuse
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 12:53 AM
1

A lot of women are choosing to stay single. That means they don’t like anyone. They’re not expressing interest in pursuing relationships. That’s what it means to choose.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 10:57 PM
-1

You’re not helping each other, though. You’re fueling each other’s disdain and getting deeper into your echo chambers. Women don’t hate “sub-5s”. Women, and men, are largely indifferent to people outside their social circle or to whom they’re not attracted. It’s not hate.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 09:54 PM
4

Revenge against who? Do those things for yourself if they’ll make you happy. Stop seeking validation from women and blaming women when you don’t get it. Live your life
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 09:50 PM
0

By choice.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 07:25 PM
0

They’ll get bored and seek out a good vibrator
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 03:27 PM
0

What women want hasn’t changed - we’re just able to articulate it and get it now.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 01:29 PM
5

“Porn deem as normal” Porn is a fantasy genre, it’s not meant to deem anything as normal. Step siblings usually don’t bang. You can’t pay for pizza with blow jobs. The plumber never shows up on time.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 12:54 PM
1

What a dumb “rule”.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 03:56 AM
-4

There have been men who have posted their “ick lists” that include things like wearing make up, into fashion, into astrology, doing crafts and other things that are typically considered “feminine hobbies”
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 12:57 AM
4

Head over to purplepilldebate or allpilldebate and you’ll see why
/r/MensRights09/11/23 12:18 AM
3

Nope. When my husband and I met, he was making minimum wage, and I was making a lot more than that. I still make significantly more than he does. We’ve been happily together for 28 years. I don’t care how much money he makes as long as he’s happy doing what he’s doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:17 AM
2

Confidence comes from within. Knowing you look good makes you feel good. Clothes aren’t advertising anything. A drunk guy will make a move regardless of what she’s wearing. This is just silly. If you want a woman who dresses modestly, date a woman who was dressed modestly when you met her. Don’t expect a woman to change how she dresses after you start dating. The way she dresses before you started dating is the way she dresses all the time, that’s not going to change after you start dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:29 PM
-5

Are you kidding? Women’s hobbies are demonized all the time. Also, women play video games too
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 11:19 PM
1

Just say you don’t have an answer
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 07:38 PM
1

You’re an idiot
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 06:59 PM
1

Most women think he’s gross
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 06:58 PM
1

Answer it then
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 06:58 PM
1

Women and the ones you’re trying to date so they should be the ones you listen to. A lot of men resonate with it because they enjoy their echo chamber and it absolves them of making any effort to change or improve
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 06:57 PM
2

If someone flares a post as CMV they should be open to having their view changed. That’s rarely the case
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:56 PM
8

It’s not even that though. I’ve never seen anyone change their views on a CMV post. They mostly just double down and downvote anyone with an opposing view.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:51 PM
2

Tate pays women - that’s why they overlook his misogyny. They’re on the payroll. Nice isn’t a personality. Nice is the bare minimum.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 06:41 PM
0

What about meeee?
/r/MensRights08/11/23 02:13 PM
-1

🤣🤣🤣
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 02:10 PM
4

How is that virtue signaling?
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 01:38 PM
4

Yeah, but I never said any of that though. Stop making shit up. Since you looked at my profile, doll, you would have seen that I consistently say “looks are important, they’re just not the most or only important thing” Maybe reading comprehension isn’t your strong suit since you only focused on the pictures I posted. Pictures of men who aren’t considered universally attractive so not sure how you think that proves your point. Recognizing that a celebrity - someone I’ll never meet - is hot had ze…
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 01:19 PM
1

Yeah I know what it is sweetie but thanks for the lesson None of what you said is the truth. It’s your attempt to cope What did I “deny exists”? Share
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 01:08 PM
1

The insults you listed are looks related so they wouldn’t apply to an attractive man.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 01:04 PM
-10

Oh no, not looking at my profile. 🤣 Creepy content? I’m not the one spewing hate toward an entire gender because I can’t get laid.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 12:54 PM
-20

You’re so angry and hateful toward women - that’s why you an incel. Why would a woman want to spend any time with someone who has so much disdain for them? Y’all do this to yourselves and then blame women
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 12:44 PM
-10

Pathetic
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 12:41 PM
-4

Most men aren’t incels. Get out of your echo chamber once in a while
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 12:40 PM
1

How is “men who do this thing” generalizing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:36 PM
2

It’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:26 AM
2

Pick better women bro
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:20 AM
0

If you don’t feel it, you don’t feel it
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 03:09 AM
1

What?! Women do not chase known cheaters. Your assertions are ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:05 AM
11

I’m sorry to hear about your mom. I lost my dad to brain cancer and it was not amazing. Wishing you and your family the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:12 AM
3

I make significantly more than my husband. We’ve been together for 28 years and have a very healthy and loving relationship. Our money goes into one bank account. We’re working toward the same goals. It’s irrelevant who contributes more financially to those goals because we’re partners, not competitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 12:10 AM
2

A lot more than you think
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 11:12 PM
1

Yes they can. Anyone can. Don’t be so dramatic
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 11:12 PM
1

Live your life. They’re not thinking about you, stop thinking so much about them.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 11:10 PM
-1

I’m not a bot. You’re derailing the conversation because you can’t say anything relevant. If your go to statement when the topic of men and women comes up is “hurr durr women don’t get drafted” then you’ve got nothing to contribute
/r/MensRights07/11/23 03:15 PM
0

You’re derailing the conversation. Stick to the topic at hand.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 03:11 PM
0

How is any of that relevant?
/r/MensRights07/11/23 03:07 PM
1

A survey is more reliable than the numbers you pulled out of your ass
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:55 PM
-1

Oh fuck off with that shit. Most people don’t care about most people outside of their circle. Men don’t even care about other men so stop acting like it’s a moral failing of women
/r/MensRights07/11/23 02:54 PM
4

Explain how men cheat more than women then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:53 PM
0

Statistically it’s men who cheat more, but sure 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:52 PM
-3

Subreddits are your source?
/r/MensRights07/11/23 12:15 PM
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Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:14 PM
-11

Women don’t think about men as much as men think women think about men
/r/MensRights07/11/23 02:49 AM
-5

Both sexes do not sexually assault at an equal rate
/r/MensRights07/11/23 02:48 AM
6

If you’re not willing to read it, you’re not willing to have your view changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:31 AM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:13 AM
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None of what you’ve said in your post, or in the comments that you made to other people leads me to believe you understand what empathy is. You keep saying it “helps to ascertain someone’s motivations and what they want from you” but that’s not empathy. When somebody wants you to empathize with them, what they’re looking for is compassion and understanding. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:00 AM
2

That’s a family
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:09 PM
2

Nobody cares what their friends look like.
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 10:07 PM
-1

Of course they can. Men and women are actual friends IRL much to the disbelief of many men in this sub.
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 07:06 PM
-10

Women’s standards aren’t unrealistic nor have they changed that much.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 06:26 PM
2

Men are more afraid of crying in front of other men than they are crying in front of women. When did I say the crying is attractive? Someone crying isn’t a turn on or a turn off. It’s a thing people do. It doesn’t make someone more or less attractive. A man who is unwilling to cry, unwilling to share his feelings, and either shuts down or resorts to anger, that’s what’s unattractive And I didn’t say men who are constantly crying, are toddlers. What I said is toddlers are the ones who are constan…
/r/MensRights06/11/23 03:44 PM
-1

So you’re a teenager?
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 03:34 PM
1

And a considerable number of women find it part of a healthy relationship. Most women do support their men.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 03:31 PM
0

Are you a toddler? Why would you be constantly crying? Women want their partners to tell them what and how they’re feeling. They want their partners to tell them about their struggles and challenges. Because that’s what partners do. Partners support and uplift each other.
/r/MensRights06/11/23 02:09 PM
0

Yes, women do. If you can’t express your feelings and show vulnerability to your partner, you’ve chosen the wrong partner
/r/MensRights06/11/23 02:00 PM
2

Is your dick getting sucked though?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:59 PM
1

He was asked what his regimen included and he answered. How does that translate to seeing it as an accomplishment?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:58 PM
2

So be mad at the system, not the ones who benefit from it. That’s counter productive, shitstain
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 01:56 PM
1

Which subsidies and benefits? Are you taking into consideration time women aren’t working because they’re on parental leave? I’d assume not since the age range where women are contributing more during their menopausal years. Are those the befits you’re referring to. The benefits women are entitled to when they’re birthing and raising men’s children?
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 01:42 PM
1

Source?
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 01:11 PM
2

You can have preferences. No one says you can’t. Just because you find yourself above average looking doesn’t mean women will and it doesn’t mean your personality isn’t important. Now tell all of this to the men on this sub who get unreasonably angry when women don’t want to date them because of preferences.
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 01:09 PM
4

Women pay taxes too. You also benefit from their labour. Don’t be a douche
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 01:07 PM
2

Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:12 PM
1

“Women who do (insert specific thing here) are stupid” is fine Just like I said “men who do this thing”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:35 AM
1

It doesn’t
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 09:41 PM
1

Yes, women like the men they are in relationships with. That’s why they’re in relationships with them.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 09:40 PM
1

Are you trying to be hubby material? Are you meeting women’s standards? If not, why is she going to waste her time with you?
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 09:39 PM
1

Real life isn’t a hallmark movie. Socially awkward women also exist. You also need to know how to read signals
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 05:49 PM
1

Looks get you started. Personality keeps going. No one has ever said looks don’t matter, they’re not the only thing that matters.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 04:19 PM
-1

So you’re not even trying but made you’re not succeeding. Got it.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 04:17 PM
-4

Different women find different men attractive. Those women aren’t lying to you, they just have different preferences
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 01:40 PM
0

100% even when these men are told something that contradicts their thinking by countless women in the comments, they assume we’re lying.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 01:38 PM
0

And what are your standards? Are you talking to average women?
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 01:35 PM
0

How often do you ask women out and under which circumstances? Half the men on these subs aren’t even talking to women but mad at women for rejecting them when they haven’t even had a chance to reject them because they never even tried
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 01:34 PM
0

So stay bitter, angry, and lonely but at least take some accountability that you’re doing it to yourself Your attitude and perspective is what’s garbage. You’re a shit person and are blaming others for recognizing how terrible you are WoMeN nEeD tO PiCk bEtTEr MeN They still don’t pick you eViL BiTcHeS Fuck off with that shit. You want to get picked, be pickable
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 01:21 PM
0

Wtf are you talking about?
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 01:18 PM
-1

Idk why you think you need to vilify them for just existing
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 11:51 PM
-2

No. You are bitter and angry
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 11:44 PM
-2

Confirmation bias
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 04:54 PM
-4

Where did I say they were? Finding someone attractive is not the same as being attracted to someone
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 04:01 PM
18

“1 in 10 approaches lead to at least a date” So you think a 10% success rate means women want to be approached. Ignoring the 90% of failed approaches
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:56 PM
-2

Everyone defines that differently. Some women go nuts for Jon Hamm - I don’t see the appeal Some women love dad bods and don’t care about height Most people in general are average and average looks improve with a great personality or sense of humour Very few women give a shit if a man is bald. I’d bang Stanley Tucci or Mark Strong over Jason Momoa any day of the week
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 03:53 PM
1

Women who lose weight experience the same thing
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 02:54 PM
-2

All women are not attracted to the exact same type of man. JFC
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 02:50 PM
-4

You guys are idiots.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 01:38 PM
-15

Go outside and look around. Sit in a mall food court and look at couples. They’re not all “chads”
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 01:14 PM
1

That’s quite a stretch
/r/MensRights04/11/23 12:59 PM
5

Be a good guy because you’re a good guy, not because you want to attract women
/r/MensRights04/11/23 12:49 PM
33

Older men aren’t pursuing younger women because younger women don’t like men their own age. Older men are pursuing younger women because they want a younger woman It’s not that deep
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:04 PM
0

It’s the “likable” part most of the men here seem to have the most trouble with
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 11:26 AM
2

Of course the logical, reasonable, and well thought out response is getting downvoted.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 11:10 AM
6

Men’s delusion is thinking those women give a shit about what you think. They’re happily living their lives and you’re so mad about it. Live your life
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 11:07 AM
1

Minimum wage
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:04 AM
1

I was speaking specifically about men who say “not all men”. I thought that was clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:30 AM
0

Not a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:02 AM
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Woman married to a man My husband did lose his job once and i covered his expenses. We were married at the time. Would I do it for someone i was dating and not living with? Probably not. Nor would i expect them to do that for me. But as a married couple, yes. I was fine with it for as long as it took to find a new job. I knew it wouldn’t happen overnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:52 AM
0

I’m the one living in your head rent free. Not the other way around.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 03:43 AM
0

Omg that’s so sad. 🤣
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 02:27 AM
0

Which is?
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 02:24 AM
1

GeE I wOnDeR wHy i’M SiNgLe aNd LoNeLy
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 12:52 AM
1

I’ve never heard that and certainly didn’t experience it. After reading this post, I also asked some friends, and none of them have experienced it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:09 PM
2

We range in age from mid-20s to mid-30s. I’m the oldest in the group at 49 Some met online, some met in real life. Some got together in their early 20s and some in their late 20s and a couple in their early 30s Marriage was usually between 2-3 years Middle class
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 08:32 PM
3

What a sad little life you must have
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 08:29 PM
7

None of my friends husbands are over 6 feet tall. They’re all between 5’8” and 5’10” Since men on dating sites can’t filter women by weight, women shouldn’t be allowed to filter men by height
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 06:42 PM
1

When most women say “men” we don’t mean “all men” we mean “men who do this thing” When (not all) men pipe up in the comments with “not all men” it’s absolving themselves of any responsibility to make other men better. It’s saying “I don’t do that thing so I don’t care what you have to say” when what we’re saying those men did/do is the point. Getting hung up on “well, not me” isn’t helping.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:18 PM
13

If you can’t be emotionally vulnerable around your partner, you’ve chosen the wrong partner
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:32 AM
1

If you don’t have romantic interest in a person who clearly has a romantic interest in you, don’t go out with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:34 PM
-20

“They think” - so women are a “community”?
/r/MensRights02/11/23 07:25 PM
1

And even if she’s not attracted to you right away, after getting to know you, assuming you don’t have a shitty personality, you may start to look more attractive to her
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 07:13 PM
0

I told you about two relationships - not all of them. And they’re with men who take accountability for their own mental health. If you think so poorly of women, why are y’all so desperate to be with one?
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 04:29 PM
-2

If all you care about is sex, pay for it.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 03:56 PM
-3

Get a fleshlight then
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 03:53 PM
1

But you do choose how you deal with it
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 03:19 PM
0

Then why the fuck are you all so angry?
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 03:19 PM
-7

Looks get you a first date, personality gets you a second date.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 03:18 PM
1

I’m not the one who brought it mental health, OP was
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 03:15 PM
-5

What you lack in looks, you have to make up for in personality and charisma
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 03:14 PM
0

Yes, men with treated and untreated mental health issues have partners. The quality of their relationships is up for debate, but they have partners. There’s no inconsistency in what I said.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 03:13 PM
-1

You have no idea about their relationships. Some of the men on the sub will call women delusional while at the same time expect to be fucking supermodels.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 03:12 PM
-11

Loneliness isn’t just a lack of romantic relationships. It’s also friendships, family relationships. A girlfriend isn’t going to fix all your problems, and you shouldn’t expect your partner to fix your problems. If you’re angry at the world, how do you think you’re going to attract a partner or friends for that matter? I see short, bald men every day with wives and girlfriends. Men with mental health issues have wives and girlfriends. Angry men who refuse to do anything except bitch and moan don…
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 01:09 PM
-18

You are choosing not to treat your mental health You are choosing not to improve yourself You are choosing to blame women You are choosing to blame your parents You are choosing to be angry If moths stayed outside and minded their business, they wouldn’t be killed
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 12:32 PM
0

Looks like you’re the delusional one here, pal
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 12:26 PM
3

It’s not a bitch if it’s by choice 🤦‍♀️
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 03:40 AM
0

They’re not delusional. They’d rather be single than in a shitty relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 02:33 AM
0

You’ve responded to three of my comments in a row and I’m the triggered one 🤣🤣
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 11:11 PM
1

No. We’re not. Women aren’t denying it. JFC. We consistently say looks matter, but they’re not the only thing that matters. Pay attention
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 11:06 PM
1

Couples argue. Adults talk things through. Most relationships are based on mutual physical attraction and personality.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 04:34 PM
4

So why are all you fucking idiots so surprised when women are attracted to looks? Do you know how fucking pathetic it sounds when almost every comment on these threads is “if you’re attractive enough“? It’s fucking sad.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 04:31 PM
2

🤣🤣 do what face to face? Tell me more about myself 🙄
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 03:13 PM
3

It was implied or are you too dumb to understand nuance? Or just a hypocrite?
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 03:12 PM
-2

🤣🤣🤣 you’re funny. And more than a little pathetic Women you deem disgusting still aren’t picking you so stay mad
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 12:58 PM
2

https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/social-instincts/201507/when-men-arent-good-looking-they-think?amp
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 12:18 PM
-9

We’re also very much alike.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 12:04 PM
3

People conducting these studies know what they’re doing. These aren’t buzzfeed quizzes
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 11:52 AM
1

My best friend is an autistic man who’s been in a great relationship for nine years. He’s made an effort to work on his social skills and he’s up front about his challenges and his needs. He’s not shy about saying things like “I’m autistic and have trouble understanding sarcasm” - then it’s up to other people to make an effort to accommodate or bail.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:14 AM
-16

Because women aren’t the only ones attracted to good looks. Christ, you black pillers are slower than parked cars.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 11:11 AM
4

My husband is hot and has a great personality.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 11:10 AM
0

Oh no, not the rigorously conducted and peer reviewed OK Cupid study 🤦‍♀️
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 10:51 AM
1

On the inside
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 10:42 AM
-18

Are you dating or approaching women to whom you’re not attracted?
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 10:41 AM
1

I live in a big city and have lots of friends. Perhaps you should get off social media and get into the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:26 AM
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🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ are you being purposefully obtuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:25 AM
4

Because the person approaching someone isn’t expected to be the one doing the rejecting. A guy approaches a woman knowing there’s a chance he’s going to be rejected. It’s exceedingly uncommon that a guy approaches a woman, and then he is the one does the rejecting It’s like calling someone on the phone and when they answer saying “what do you want?“ You don’t apply for jobs just so you can tell the recruiter you’re not looking for work
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:45 AM
2

Being approached vs approaching, really?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:16 AM
2

Reactive vs proactive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:15 AM
1

Yea and I corrected that.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 11:30 PM
-3

Feminism isn’t 10 years old. Feminism isn’t to blame for everything.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 11:21 PM
2

How are those two things even remotely the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:19 PM
1

What’s your point?
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 11:12 PM
1

Oh FFS Sex work is a very very very old profession. Feel better now?
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 11:07 PM
1

The earliest known record of prostitution dates back to 2400 BCE in ancient Babylonia.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 11:04 PM
20

Have you ever spoken to a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:30 PM
7

This is a hot take on a sub that demonizes women constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 08:07 PM
3

Sex work is the oldest profession. Supply and demand.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 05:08 PM
2

You’re too young to be this angry
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 11:43 AM
0

Boring and predictable comment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:48 PM
1

Forbes
/r/MensRights30/10/23 02:16 PM
1

Single women were also turned away from banks. In 1974, the Equal Credit Opportunity Act (ECOA) prohibited discrimination against credit applicants based on gender, among other factors. For the first time, women could own a credit card in their own name. https://www.forbes.com/advisor/banking/when-could-women-open-a-bank-account/ https://www.oneadvisorypartners.com/blog/the-history-of-women-and-money-in-the-united-states-in-honor-of-womens-history-month?format=amp https://www.usatoday.com/story/…
/r/MensRights30/10/23 01:47 PM
1

Even after it was legal - banks still refused.
/r/MensRights30/10/23 12:51 PM
2

It’s not ok when either group does it
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 12:31 PM
10

You mean men hating women? Yes. This sub makes that abundantly clear
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:28 PM
7

They also speak for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:26 PM
1

Technically, women won the right to open a bank account in the 1960s, but many banks still refused to let women do so without a signature from their husbands. This meant men still held control over women's access to banking services, and unmarried women were often refused service by financial institutions.
/r/MensRights30/10/23 09:23 AM
1

By that token, a lot of women’s mental health issues stem from men’s vicious scorn towards normal women Body shaming Body count shaming “When her weight starts with 2” Single mom shaming
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 09:21 AM
1

How is getting to know someone in a social setting, discovering you have things in common, and then asking them out, the same as a cold approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:19 AM
6

Shyness can be overcome
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:17 AM
24

She doesn’t speak for most women, just herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:07 AM
1

Don’t get married.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 02:44 AM
1

There’s always a reason. Did you see my original point? They were in there
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 02:41 AM
0

She didn’t get bored. She was unhappy. For marriages to work - both of them need to feel happy loved supported fulfilled etc etc.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 02:28 AM
9

She considers you a friend and that’s how some women talk to their friends. Or she thinks you might be interested in her so she says stuff like that to dissuade you from asking her out
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 02:08 AM
1

Then they don’t fit the criteria noted above
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 02:05 AM
-1

How is that relevant to the topic at hand?
/r/MensRights30/10/23 02:04 AM
1

Without consequences? Women are being blamed for all of men’s problems, seems like a consequence
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 12:11 AM
0

Is anything not women’s fault? FFS
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 12:10 AM
-2

When women say “we don’t need men” we don’t mean “the world as a whole doesn’t need men”. We mean, we as individuals don’t need men to thrive. It was within my lifetime that women couldn’t have bank accounts or credit cards in our own names without a man signing off on it. We couldn’t own real estate or get loans. Women married men they didn’t love or men who treated them poorly because they had to. We don’t have to anymore - we don’t need a man to survive and thrive. When we choose to be with a…
/r/MensRights29/10/23 09:37 PM
-1

“More and more ERs” Not “all ERs”. Not yet.
/r/MensRights29/10/23 07:00 PM
1

It’s not inherent sexism, it’s a standard question asked to everyone in more and more ERs. OP was just assuming he wouldn’t have been asked without actually knowing
/r/MensRights29/10/23 06:25 PM
1

It’s not a competition. If he was safe and every time was consensual, I don’t care. His past is his past and it’s in the past. If you can’t handle the answer to the question, don’t ask the question
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 06:23 PM
-1

It’s not that you can’t celebrate them but doing it as a “gotcha” is shitty. Men have invented most things so women want to celebrate the things other women have invented. These women serve as an inspiration and role model to girls and we don’t have as many of them as men do. Responding to posts with “ackhually, men…..” is an attempt to put women in their places.
/r/MensRights29/10/23 06:07 PM
8

FFS 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:52 PM
4

You don’t know that these marriages are based on love
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:00 AM
6

people with disabilities have been more easily sexually exploited than other people
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:26 AM
14

Here’s a life pro tip, happy, loved, supported people who share the financial, domestic, and emotional load of their marriages, don’t get divorced.
/r/AllPillDebate29/10/23 01:06 AM
5

jesus fucking christ 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 09:50 PM
3

They tell us to pick better men and then act shocked when they’re not being picked.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:43 PM
1

Great explanation!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:41 PM
8

You just know shitty women
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 09:34 PM
2

That was your biggest takeaway?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:28 PM
0

The majority of these answers are some version of “have a personality and don’t be a slob”. Didn’t realize that was considered “hard work”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:12 PM
2

“You have to talk to them” That’s considered “work” now?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:11 PM
0

Most women don’t think about men as much as men think women think about men. We may be aware of men’s loneliness, but we don’t enjoy it, because we don’t think about it that often. We’ve got our own shit going on.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 02:24 PM
3

You’re probably a better manipulator than you think then
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:17 PM
2

JFC abusers are excellent manipulators. Men, like you, aren’t (usually) abusers. You just straight up don’t like or respect women - and that’s what shows
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:10 PM
1

What did I say that was funny? Have you been in an abusive relationship? Did it start that way from the beginning?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:52 AM
3

To their friends. Not in a test pool and if they do they’ll be weeded out of the results. Actual scientific studies are a bit more rigorously implemented than an ok Cupid survey
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:46 AM
1

This relationships don’t start that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:36 AM
3

All of men’s dating issues are caused by men not actually liking women. You don’t think women can smell the contempt oozing off of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:30 AM
4

Where’s the bit about mothers keeping fathers away from their kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:10 AM
1

Define “cold approach” because what I said is the opposite of that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:09 AM
9

Source? Even one? Just one source?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:21 AM
20

Jesus fucking Christ. OWN YOUR SHIT
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:20 AM
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Bruh 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:14 AM
5

Join a hiking club if you like hiking. Talk to everyone in the club, get to know people, make friends. If someone tickles your fancy after you’ve gotten to know them a little bit, ask them out. Don’t join a club to walk up to someone and ask them out. Do the things you enjoy doing and you’ll meet people with similar interests. Don’t do things just for the purpose of meeting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:09 PM
-17

Entitled to what?
/r/MensRights26/10/23 09:20 AM
0

Simple google search and I saw posts on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, multiple counties and hospitals posted about it the third week of October has been Male Breast Cancer Awareness Week since 2009. This was changed in 2021 to October 17 to October 23
/r/MensRights26/10/23 08:58 AM
2

Last week was men’s breast cancer awareness week
/r/MensRights26/10/23 07:34 AM
-1

It’s Breast Cancer Awareness month not Women’s Breast Cancer Awareness month October 17 to October 23 is Men's Breast Cancer Awareness Week. And November is Men’s Health Awareness month so….what’s the problem?
/r/MensRights26/10/23 07:33 AM
8

Friendship isn’t leading someone on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:56 AM
1

Most dating advice is join groups and hobbies to meet people, but yeah, go off
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:36 AM
2

Were we supposed to just forget all the “stranger danger” lessons we got as a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:35 AM
9

91% of rape victims are women Edit: corrected number and added source
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:39 AM
2

You really think Brad Pitt is going to be a passport bro? Bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:22 PM
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You’re really going to shame someone for trying to get help for their mental health issues? speaking of unattractive qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:19 PM
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Also false
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:09 PM
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Read your comment again. “While it’s a preference” - correct, those are preferences “With the expectation that…” - this is not an expectation women have of men, but one they have of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:01 PM
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Those are also women’s preferences. Not expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:55 AM
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So were the ones the OC put in his comment….did you reply to him with this same observation?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:50 AM
3

The international men’s day hashtags trended higher on international women’s day than on international men’s day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:33 AM
0

Look around you. A lot of fat women are in happy relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:13 AM
0

“In a survey on love and finances conducted by Money and SurveyMonkey, 85% of men said they think men should pay on the first date. Only 72% of women said so.” Another survey said: nearly two-thirds of men (63%) think that the man should take care of the check on a first date. Women don’t agree. Less than half of the women in the study (46%) think that paying for the date is the guy’s responsibility. Y’all think you should pay until it’s time to actually pay. Make up your minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:00 AM
2

When have you heard that in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:52 AM
-1

Are those the only two options? Bully or victim?
/r/MensRights24/10/23 10:27 AM
-2

False.
/r/MensRights24/10/23 10:26 AM
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Oh is that all for me ? Not obese? What about: Low body count but fucks like a porn star. Doesn’t go out with friends a lot. Doesn’t have make friends. Cooks, cleans, and works a full time job. Makes money, but not more money than him because that’s emasculating. And on and on
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:11 AM
-5

What I’m saying is the men have to take the lead on moving men’s rights forward. Just like women did. Women have male allies and men have female allies but the bulk of the work comes from within.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 05:40 PM
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Abusive men don’t start that way. They don’t broadcast who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:38 PM
-8

If the question, as you put it, is “what can we do for men’s rights?” - how are women supposed to answer that question for you? Women will join in the cause but we can’t start it or keep it going for you. There will be women who don’t, just like there are men who don’t care about women’s issues, but there will be women who will. Women’s rights come down to more than just sexual misconduct. Bodily autonomy, medical misogyny, lack of representation in leadership, lifetime earnings gap etc etc. You…
/r/MensRights22/10/23 01:26 PM
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It’s almost like you get why women have been so mad for so long
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:41 PM
-10

Do the men in these comments are about women’s issues? Or LGBTQIA issues? How about BIPOC? To what extent? What are you actively doing for these issues? What are you doing to bring awareness to men’s issues? How are you supporting men’s issues?
/r/MensRights22/10/23 12:32 PM
1

Answering question that aren’t being asked.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 12:25 PM
-8

How did I miss the point of the comment I was responding to? He said if the roles were reversed, they wouldn’t be aired. You’ve agreed that they have been. I wasn’t responding to OP
/r/MensRights21/10/23 11:24 PM
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“A 2009 study demonstrated that after a short interaction with an attractive woman, men experienced a decline in mental performance. A more recent study suggests that this cognitive impairment takes hold even w hen men simply anticipate interacting with a woman who they know very little about.” Source
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:52 PM
-20

What are you talking about?
/r/MensRights21/10/23 01:08 PM
-97

Tv shows do this all the time with women. It’s always been that way. It’s just now that the roles are being reversed. It’s usually a “hey, don’t look at my daughter that way” or “hey that’s my daughter”
/r/MensRights21/10/23 01:07 PM
1

I’d be curious why they think I’d know something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:55 PM
1

I don’t care if a woman or a man pays for it. Not my monkeys, not my circus.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:54 PM
0

“Spineless species of women” I’m sure there are tons of women in your country who have sacrificed more for your country than you have.
/r/MensRights21/10/23 12:34 PM
2

Accusing your partner of cheating on you isn’t 99% trust
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:30 PM
1

Don’t get married then. Why do y’all act like you’re being forced to marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:59 AM
0

If she wanted to check your text messages and social media history every day would you feel trusted?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:45 AM
2

How couples choose to manage their finances is up to them, not you. Some bring all their finances together, some have their own bank accounts and a joint bank account for their mutual finances. There are many ways for a couple to manage their finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:09 AM
1

And what is preventing the husband from having his own account?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:05 AM
6

You really thought you did something there, didn’t you? Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:01 AM
2

Women having their own bank account is not a rainy day fund. We’re allowed to have our own bank accounts now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:00 AM
3

Because you’re accusing her of cheating on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:58 AM
6

Why did you marry her if you thought she was going to cheat on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:58 AM
-16

Y’all are just looking for shit to get mad at now
/r/MensRights21/10/23 12:53 AM
16

Looks like you just had your gay awakening
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:48 AM
2

Doubtful
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:42 AM
7

Right?! The gay men I know are pickier than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:21 AM
9

You’re not in prison
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:20 AM
17

Dude, you’re gay or you’re not. If you’re bisexual or pansexual , just say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:18 AM
1

Women also uphold the patriarchy - they’re not part of the in group
/r/MensRights20/10/23 08:32 PM
-1

All groups have some in group bias. It’s not the core belief of feminism because it doesn’t need to be a core belief, it’s common sense. Men have in group bias. As do women. As do people who are really into dungeons and dragons.
/r/MensRights20/10/23 08:21 PM
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It’s exactly what it means. If you didn’t think there was a chance she cheated, you wouldn’t ask. If she wanted to check your text messages every day, would you feel trusted?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:19 PM
-1

Patriarchy and in group bias are not the same thing
/r/MensRights20/10/23 08:16 PM
-9

It’s not about women and children - it’s about helping the vulnerable. That includes the elderly and the infirm - men and women.
/r/MensRights20/10/23 12:01 PM
1

The men in these comments saying “kindness isn’t free” are the same jokers complaining about being lonely and single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:47 AM
3

Who said they’re giving it exclusively to women? Basic courtesy should be given to everyone. Kindness should be free. What a sad world you want to live in
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:45 AM
1

The men in these comments 🤡🤡🤡 If a man had made this post about women, y’all would be tripping over yourselves to be the first to agree
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:40 AM
-9

Men having in group bias is not a core assumption of feminism though.
/r/MensRights20/10/23 04:28 AM
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“Doesn’t mind” - sounds like a true love story
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:08 AM
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Not everyone wants kids so reproductive advantages are moot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:07 AM
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Women looking good for themselves is shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:54 PM
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Women spend money on their appearance for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:04 PM
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What about meeeeeee? The OP text was about women so why wouldn’t comments be too?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:55 PM
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It’s frustrating. He didn’t get the hint. Her body language is clear that she was uncomfortable. She’s at work so she can’t really tell him to fuck off and if she did, he knows where she works, he knows what time the mall closes. If the roles were reversed the comments would be very different. Have you seen what some men comment on stories of young boys being assaulted be their teachers? Most of them comment they wish it had been them - that same sentiment would be here as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:22 PM
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I’m not going to have a child with someone who thinks I would cheat. I would rethink the relationship if my husband thought so little of me. If you think your partner is or will cheat on you, don’t get married
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:45 AM
0

You know how to manipulate and lie to women. Trash
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:29 AM
2

Are you really not getting it? What part of “unwanted attention” are you not grasping? You want attention, and you’re not getting it. Women don’t want attention, and they’re getting it. Both situations are shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:42 PM
1

As are most women. Unless someone is exceptionally attractive, or doing something purposefully to gain attention, they’re likely being ignored. You probably forgot that attractive women exist, because you’ve been ignoring them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:28 PM
4

That was a lot of words to say you don’t know anything about women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:25 PM
3

You know most people are, right? I took my dogs for a walk today and saw a bunch of people - I couldn’t pick them out of a line up. Most people ignore most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:24 PM
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Actually, we would. Most women don’t want to be noticed when they leave their house to walk the dog or go to the grocery store. Most women want to be left the fuck alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:53 PM
8

Are 90% of men treated as sex objects and uteruses?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:32 PM
1

What we mean is being treated as more than sex objects or uteruses
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:31 PM
3

And then she ordered an entree! He should have sooner so he didn’t have to watch and listen to her slurp back all those oysters
/r/MensRights17/10/23 08:28 PM
0

“Pursued en masse by the remainder of men” sounds so predatory
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:04 PM
-11

If you’re calling the quality of women poor, it’s no wonder they’re not dating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:30 PM
9

The “vast majority” of western women are not participating in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:56 AM
1

Social media isn’t real life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:54 PM
2

A smaller number of men are approaching women. 45% of men say they have never approached a woman. How do these men expect to get laid when they’re not approaching women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:18 PM
17

Women: just existing Men in this sub: GRRRRR they’re turning us i to super villains
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:36 PM
1

“Getting the woman” women aren’t prizes and they’re not going to fix anything
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:01 PM
2

Dating hadn’t changed as much as you think. Every generation thinks they’re the first generation to deal with a thing. It’s cute. Every generation goes through shit. The shit may look different, but they all go through shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:55 AM
2

That’s the saddest thing I’ve read all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:52 AM
1

For some women, it is. Fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:01 AM
1

It’s not ok to be racist. When women are wary of men, we’re wary of all men. Regardless of age or race. Your false equivalency is predictable and a cheap attempt at a “gotcha”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:58 AM
2

You’re talking odds. So let’s talk odds
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:53 PM
1

Yea. Starting a conversation with “you’re beautiful can I take you on a date?” is creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:56 PM
1

The odds of getting into a car accident are low - does that mean you don’t wear your seatbelt or check your blind spots?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:55 PM
2

He didn’t do those things but he was still being creepy. He approached a total stranger to tell her she was beautiful and ask her on a date. In what world is that not creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:53 PM
-9

No they don’t. Feminists really really want men to take care of their mental health.
/r/MensRights14/10/23 12:07 PM
2

We teach children stranger danger but when they become adults they’re supposed to think all strangers are now their friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:02 PM
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Women aren’t just afraid of being raped. Women have been followed, stalked, beaten, and murdered for saying no. She likely wouldn’t have been raped in this exact scenario but she could have been pushed into traffic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:55 AM
2

You don’t think a guy approaching a woman in a tight spot at night to tell her she’s pretty and ask her - a complete stranger - on a date is creepy? Gad-fuckin-zooks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:52 AM
-5

How many men are happily paying?
/r/MensRights14/10/23 10:37 AM
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If you really are a woman, delete this. You’re making us all look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:32 PM
3

Sadly, dating problems have also led to a lot of violence and death
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 11:53 AM
0

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 11:50 AM
0

Women are shamed for being too fat, too thin, wearing too much makeup, not wearing any makeup, having big boobs, having small boobs, have a fat ass, having a flat ass, having cellulite, being tall and on and on and on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:01 AM
1

Big blue eyes, nice lips, great hair, and he could sing. I don’t know what you’re not seeing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:09 PM
2

here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:28 AM
-5

Yeah they didn’t keep the girls for wholesome reasons
/r/MensRights12/10/23 01:49 AM
-7

“Boys” are children. It’s “women and children” and nowadays it’s the vulnerable first - the very old and very young
/r/MensRights12/10/23 01:48 AM
1

Ewwwwwww
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 12:18 AM
3

🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 12:08 AM
2

I’m sure the same happens in the reverse. Desperation is never attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:11 PM
1

Women don’t judge men by how popular they are with other women. That’s the dumbest thing I’ve read today, and it’s been a long day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:06 PM
13

I make 40% more than my husband. We have one bank account and one credit card. All our money goes in and out proportionally. We don’t keep score.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:02 PM
1

Have you seen 1960s Mick Jagger? He was hot. There are also men (and women) who have a ton of sex appeal but aren’t conventionally attractive and that has nothing to do with their wealth or status. Mick Jagger now is still one of those men. The fuck do we care if he’s rich or famous? We’re never going to meet him and when women fantasize about men, we’re not fantasizing about their bank accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:58 PM
6

Making it up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:55 AM
13

“It’s a woman’s logic” said unironically by a man. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:55 AM
1

Rich and famous is irrelevant when talking about celebrities. When it’s someone you know you’ll never meet, it’s all about how attractive you find them physically. It doesn’t matter how much money they have if you’re never going to benefit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:47 AM
3

Yeah, that’s why I put “apps and swiping” in quotations. Video dating served the same purpose. Buying a personals ad wasn’t expensive and it was how local people met local people. You don’t need a fancy phone with mega apps if you’re looking for someone in the same geographic area who reads the same newspapers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:24 AM
4

“Apps and swiping” have existed since the 1970s. Great Expectations was the first video dating service - it was started in 1976. Personals ads in newspapers started well before that in the 1960s. The tech has evolved but the premise is the same
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:15 AM
5

He’s literally said that in the comments
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:24 PM
8

It’s actually saying they’re trying to get to know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:21 PM
7

Are you serious? Those are the most basic getting to know you questions. What should she ask instead “hey nice to meet you, tell me about your deepest childhood trauma”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:20 PM
5

And then the whole train car clapped
/r/MensRights10/10/23 12:08 PM
5

There was literally a post on here a few weeks ago where a man was saying exactly that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:50 PM
1

If I got rejected 1000 times in a row I’d reevaluate my dating criteria and think maybe I’m shooting above my league. It’s why you don’t see janitors applying for CEO positions
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:19 AM
1

I don’t know what you look like but the personality you’re displaying in these comments certainly isn’t working in your favour
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:17 AM
1

Because I’m married
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:16 AM
1

Not everything but definitely something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:41 PM
1

Freddy, grow up. That’s not what I said and you know it. Looks aren’t the only thing women AND MEN care about but of course they care about looks. That’s not a gotcha. People go on first dates with people they find attractive. People go on second third and fourth dates with people they’re attracted to AND whose company, personality, and sense of humour they enjoy. Looks only get you so far. Stop pretending like anyone had ever said otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:24 PM
2

Who’s lying? Women are very open about the fact that we date men were attracted to. Attraction to someone is what distinguishes friends from romantic partners. It’s not that deep but y’all act like it’s groundbreaking
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:16 PM
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Thanks for proving my point. Are you so dense that you think women will date men to whom they’re not attracted? Being attracted to the people you date is not a ducking news story or gotcha. Do you seek out women you’re not attracted to? Fuck all the way off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:13 PM
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Then what was the point of your question?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:35 PM
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This sub made me ecstatic that I’m not dating. A lot of the men here don’t know anything about women, don’t listen to/believe women - even when asking women direct questions, they’ll argue with women and agree with men. Most of the questions aren’t about how to be a good partner or get into a relationship - they’re mostly about how to get laid. Many men assume they know how women think and when that’s challenged they assume we’re lying or “don’t want to admit it to yourselves”. I’ve yet to see a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:07 PM
1

Kind wholesome men aren’t the ones approaching women though When women talk about “nice guys” we’re bit actually talking about men who are nice. We’re talking about men who pretend to be to get what they want or men who are only nice until you say no, then they turn into screeching harpies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:57 PM
1

Bruh. Stop. You know as much about women as I know about molecular biology - which is jack shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:20 AM
1

Other women don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:23 PM
5

I repeat…what?! You think these men are having affairs because their wives want them to?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:51 PM
3

Define invisible? Do you expect women to approach you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:45 PM
1

What? Mate 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:43 PM
3

That’s the dumbest shit I’ve read today.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:48 PM
1

Those criminals aren’t considered creepy because they were very good at what they did. If women found Ted Bundy creepy, he would have had a much harder time finding victims. Being charming was part of what made them successful predators. It’s like when they interview the neighbours of killers “he was a quiet man, a good neighbour” They have to be normal and likeable I’m their every day lives to avoid suspicion
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:44 PM
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They mentioned that the neighbourhood was a great place to raise kids. This was about five minutes into our conversation. I said we don’t have kids and they asked “is that by chance or by choice?” I said by choice. “Oh well, welcome to the neighbourhood, bye”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:50 AM
5

I was responding to OPs point “no family to visit or care for them”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:14 PM
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You’re assuming childfree people don’t have other family or friends. And people do care - when we moved into our house neighbours from across the street came over to introduce themselves. When they found out we’re childfree by choice, the ended the conversation and never spoke to us again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:13 PM
11

We drill “stranger danger” into kids but when adults are wary of strangers, it’s considered weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:06 PM
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Childfree people are already being shamed. Having children doesn’t mean they will visit or care for you. Visit any assisted living facility. They’re full of parents whose kids don’t visit them. Parents and children people should rely on their savings in old age. They should not be relying on their children to financially provide for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:02 PM
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So you’re frustrated when others have better jobs, nicer cars, bigger houses, nicer clothes, more friends? Most people comes to terms with the fact that life isn’t fair and some people will always have it better than you when they’re teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 07:48 PM
3

Bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:07 PM
19

We do this every day. It’s like Groundhog Day
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:00 PM
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Getting to know someone at the club over some time and then asking them out when you think there is a mutual interest is totally socially acceptable. Joining a club and immediately asking someone out when you don’t know anything about them, isn’t. It’s not that hard a concept to follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:55 PM
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Not all women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:53 PM
1

What’s the “sex life of an avg woman”? Men reported a mean of 14.14 lifetime partners; women reported 7.12.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:21 PM
2

Who was encouraging men to do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:16 PM
1

False equivalency in both cases
/r/MensRights05/10/23 04:41 PM
1

Having similar goals might “level the playing field” - if men are dating for sex and women are dating for relationships - goals aren’t aligned and it won’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:49 PM
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In these countries they created these trains and buses reactively. Not proactively. They were created as a result of men’s behaviour, not in anticipation of it.
/r/MensRights05/10/23 02:44 PM
1

Absolutely no
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:43 PM
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But you’re both on the app for the same reason and with the same intention.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:26 PM
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Because people tend join clubs to meet people who share a hobby. People tend to join gyms and go to gyms alone because they want to work out alone. When you join a hiking club, you’ll likely be talking to everyone in that club. Getting to know people organically. At a gym, you’re heading straight to someone with the intent of picking them up. Nothing organic about it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:24 PM
1

Completely different
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:39 AM
2

Masking. Women are better at it than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:12 PM
1

I am also a woman. I’ve been married for 22 years. I don’t orgasm every time, I greatly enjoy it every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:48 PM
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Men are just as afraid of other men as women are. They just don’t want to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:21 PM
0

Most women don’t have consistent orgasms. And they still very much enjoy sex. If you think all the women you’ve been with have had orgasms, I hate to break it to you, they didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:04 PM
2

A cold approach is how I met my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:02 PM
3

Just because a lot of women don’t orgasm doesn’t mean we don’t enjoy sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:28 PM
1

Do you consider cat calling an appropriate way to approach someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:25 PM
3

You’re not seeing a correlation here?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:19 PM
4

45% of men aren’t approaching women either. You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:57 PM
1

Do you develop romantic feelings for your male friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:27 AM
1

I absolutely would. But treating someone well should be the standard. It’s not royal treatment, it’s the minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:18 AM
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It makes me trust/like men less. It shocks me every day how little some men know, or care to know, about women. If disappoints me every day how little some men think of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:02 AM
1

What’s funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:20 AM
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The researchers detected fluctuations in emotions three different ways, and then compared the sexes. They found little-to-no differences between the men and the various groups of women, suggesting that men's emotions fluctuate to the same extent as women's do (although likely for different reasons). Source
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:26 PM
1

If “treat like a king” also meant just treat them well, I’d take issue with that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:22 PM
1

If I’m reading this correctly, you think treating somebody well, is treating someone like a queen?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:02 PM
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Just reminded y’all. Just like y’all remind us constantly that it’s “not all men”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:44 PM
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“Sexual interest never has zero value” Tell that to the 600 American women who are going you be assaulted today
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:44 PM
15

We’re not Borg. We don’t share a consciousness
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:06 PM
4

This is awful. Men’s stories need to be heard and taken seriously.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 11:43 AM
5

It comes as quite of a shock to some of the men in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:54 AM
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That’s not what I’m saying. Y’all are quick to jump on the “if he was attractive hurr durr” and ignore the double standard
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:09 PM
1

Did you read the comment you wrote?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:24 PM
2

Don’t complain that women give attractive men preferential treatment when you’re doing the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:21 PM
5

Cuz you’re all approaching unattractive women, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:04 PM
2

“In the club/bar” you’re in that club/bar - are you saying you’re not “suitable for ltrs”?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:03 PM
2

Women don’t want exceptional men, just good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:58 AM
4

Did you even read her answer? She’s not the exception. You say you know women aren’t the same but you were expecting one answer instead of listening to the multitude of answers you’ve been receiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:47 PM
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You asked why women allow themselves to be used for cheap sex. Women have been telling you we’re not being used. We are enjoying the hook up. You’re not accepting that as an answer. You also asked why women keep engaging in these encounters when they don’t enjoy them. Once again, women have shown up to tell you that we do enjoy these encounters. And once again, you’re not believing us. Just because you’re not getting the answers you wanted, doesn’t mean you’re not getting the right answer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:45 PM
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What did you mean? Every time you said women don’t enjoy sex or women don’t get anything out of sex - where was the misunderstanding. Also, you’re the one who brought up porn. I was quoting you. It must be a secret that women don’t enjoy sex as much especially since I’M A WOMAN and the orgasm gap does not mean women enjoy sexual any less. If you’d actually spoken to any women instead of reading poorly written articles and poorly executed studies, you’d know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:59 PM
1

Deflecting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:56 PM
1

That’s not even what we’re talking about. This comment thread is about all the men saying she rejected him for not being good looking enough, meanwhile none of us have seen his face. Stay on task
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:02 PM
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Most women who participate in casual sex do so because they enjoy casual sex. It’s not that deep, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:00 PM
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Your entire post is bs and you’re not listening to all the people telling you it’s bs. You just said it very rare for women to enjoy sex outside of porn. Fella?! Women enjoy sex a lot Porn actors are paid to act like they’re enjoying it. You’re watching them AT WORK. They’re working.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:59 PM
1

You’re conflating two very different things
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:56 PM
15

That makes no sense. If they both want a casual hook up and they have a casual hook up - who’s not getting what they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:25 PM
13

You’re an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:23 PM
9

More than just “a few” women enjoy casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:22 PM
9

“Very rare”. Mate. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:21 PM
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If they both want the same thing, no one is being used.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:20 PM
1

You’re vilifying her for the same behavior that a lot of men praise when exhibited by men. If it’s good for the goose…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:14 PM
1

What truth? Did you see the guy in the video? No. No one did. But a lot of men here made big assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:12 PM
0

Women don’t think that way because they believe it makes them desirable. This may come as a shock but most women don’t care about being desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:14 AM
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You and i both know that’s not what I’m saying
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:12 AM
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What you’ve said here has nothing to do with your original post. If you don’t like arrogant women, don’t date arrogant women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:29 PM
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Women aren’t always trying to attract men. She’s certainly not looking to attract the majority of men. She has the same attitude the Tate and others of his ilk have, why is it only vilified in women? When men do it they’re “alpha bros” but when women do it, y’all tuck tail and run. The ones who opt out - aren’t the ones she’s trying to attract
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:51 PM
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Why does a woman with high self esteem threaten so many men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:43 PM
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You’re not looking at them but somehow notice they’re not looking at you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:19 PM
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“Threat to their ego integrity” 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:19 PM
3

Oh fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:30 PM
0

Women don’t use those terms unironically. Grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:52 PM
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I don’t know a single woman willing to share a man and every time someone posts that question on this sub, the answer is always the same. Women aren’t sharing men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:51 PM
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Physical attractiveness is also the number one determiner in a woman’s dating market value. Shocking, I know. Men and women prefer to date people to whom they’re attracted. How does this same topic come up so often?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:49 PM
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Jesus Christ you just made it so much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:43 PM
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She didn’t show his face so where the fuck are all these “if he was hot” comments coming from. Y’all are broken idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:34 PM
14

He’s not even in the video. How do you know what he looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:33 PM
11

How did you watch that and think it was a normal interaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:29 PM
11

“The source of all male dating woes” is men coming up with wildly ridiculous theories instead of looking at themselves in a mirror. If you were a woman, would you date you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:18 AM
8

This is the dumbest shit I’ve read all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:16 AM
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On a post about a male teacher assaulting a female student women don’t say “I wish I were that student” on a similar post were a female teacher has assaulted a male student, a lot of men say they wish they were that kid. That’s why it’s not taken as seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:35 AM
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Men often come into those spaces with a combative attitude which is why women get defensive. It happens in a lot of spaces that cater to a specific thought or belief. Go into a a knitting sub and start asking questions about crochet and you’ll likely get the same response. I asked a clarifying question in a conspiracy sub and got temporarily banned.
/r/MensRights29/09/23 07:43 PM
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So you’re just going to sit around the house staring at blank walls and blaming everyone else? Go to therapy. Work on your anxiety issues. Don’t just give up. Take steps to improve your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:40 PM
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How what? How to meet people? Join a group or a club. Meet people at work or school. Develop hobbies and interact with people who share the same hobbies. How else do you think people meet people?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:32 PM
1

Unwilling to try or put in the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:30 PM
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Everyone can. Anyone who doesn’t, is choosing not to
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:29 PM
1

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:29 PM
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Why does that matter unless you also want to date men? Look at the men who are having a significantly easier time dating than you and focus on that. What are they doing that you’re not?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:28 PM
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It’s not an “off chance” that it’s unwanted. The “off chance” would be that it is wanted
/r/MensRights29/09/23 06:41 PM
1

Google is free
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:51 PM
0

Most people feel invisible most of the time. Most women who experience sexual attention, don’t want that sexual attention. Most women want to be left alone, which is why most women leave other people alone. If guys are abandoning dating because of rejection, I don’t know what to tell you, this isn’t a new thing. Men have always been rejected. Maybe they used to care less because they knew it was a numbers game. You don’t usually get the only job you apply for and when you don’t get it, you don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:27 PM
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Childfree woman here - my entire life both men and women have been trying to convince me to have kids. People I know and strangers alike. Whe people learned I was childfree by choice. 60-70% would immediately try to convince me otherwise. Men and women.
/r/MensRights29/09/23 12:18 PM
1

The average woman is being approached and harassed regularly. Usually not by 18-25 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:49 PM
2

“They are oppressed and normally you can EXPLOIT that AND TAKE ADVANTAGE OF VULNERABLE WOMEN” FTFY
/r/MensRights28/09/23 05:03 PM
1

Depends how they’re defining “sexual offence”
/r/MensRights27/09/23 05:49 PM
3

Ya know we can worry about both, right?!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:31 PM
3

That’s how partnerships work. You’re supposed to be working toward the same goals. Your husband or wife isn’t your dependent, they’re your partner. You share with your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:24 PM
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