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| 64 | how do i get over fumbling 10s | Inner Game | Aromatic_Strike_9415 | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 04:36 PM |
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| 6 | The text messages in AmIOverreacting sub have opened my eyes to how needy and intense a lot of guys areThis is true. I posted on this sub about my experience losing 10s and it was because i was making this mistake. | /r/seduction | 30/06/25 10:12 PM |
| 1 | how do i get over fumbling 10sWow.. so I was actually doing that full court press approach until I became too needy. It was working surprisingly and didn’t realize I was doing your strategy until now. She found it super cute until I got too dependant which is why I’m backing off for a few days. | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 07:04 AM |
| 1 | how do i get over fumbling 10sYessss, after our first date for some reason I completely didn't text her. she even msged me to come pick her up from a club and i said im sleeping and didnt msg the next day. then she msged first. It is true that u need to not be needy. I fumbled completely after she cancelled our date and exposed all of my clinginess and boundaries. kind of embarassing but I kind of fixed things to the point where i asked her if she wants me in her life and she said yes but for now as friends. So now i gotta b… | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 07:59 PM |
| 1 | how do i get over fumbling 10sYeah; on top of this, social media algorithms is making them even more dilusional with them needing to be chased including all the DMs they get and attention outside. The ones with a billion options including successful men will never chase. I think the key is getting their initial attention normally and cool; just like i did and then backing off a little once you get the interest. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 07:58 PM |
| 1 | how do i get over fumbling 10sexactly. I sometimes forget how disrespectful the whole situation really was. | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 07:56 PM |
| 1 | how do i get over fumbling 10sgood advice. I think they care more about experiences and competition once they see me with other girls. My problem was trying to show her I am only for her. I wish i could update this thread but I did get her KINDA back through some toxic methods lol. But i have to now play the game on HARD mode to get things back to what they were before. I am now backing off alot and giving her freedom but i'll slowly restore things but with the advice everyone in the thread has shared. I agree, on the boat/y… | /r/seduction | 27/06/25 06:36 PM |
| 1 | how do i get over fumbling 10sYeah, believe me i can handle the painful truths and I have analyzed this. I don't think i'm a 9/10 to these woman. I am good looking but not a top model. From afar, I think they like me because I do look like I have the lifestyle but my "nice guy" personality ends up coming out after they meet me and I put them on a pedestal (I need to work on this). One characteristic I have noticed amongst the really beautiful women is their exes were very messed up guys. Both actually dated "scammer" type of… | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 03:03 PM |
| 1 | how do i get over fumbling 10sYeah, I think the right route is to just find more 9/10s because refraining from caring is super hard. in the end of the day, when I feel disrespected (cancelling a planned date) then It's almost impossible not to care. | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 03:00 PM |
| 1 | how do i get over fumbling 10slots of great advice | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 02:54 PM |
| 1 | how do i get over fumbling 10sthis is amazing advice. I think you. nailed it. I treat the 10s differently then the 7/8s. With the 7/8s i generally don't like to over plan and I flocculate my attention towards them all the time because i'm generally busy. With the 10s, I have to respond within a couple hours because of the excitement. I also try to impress them with the fancy dates and stuff which should be reserved for later. The weird thing is, I always see them liking instagram posts of Guys who do over the top nice things… | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 02:53 PM |
| 1 | how do i get over fumbling 10sGreat advice. thank you | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 02:46 PM |
| 2 | how do i get over fumbling 10sI get what you both are saying. I think when it comes to me wanting a relationship there needs to be a baseline level of looks but them being the hottest thing shouldn't be the priority like the girls i am going for right now. | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 02:24 PM |
| 1 | how do i get over fumbling 10syup the struggle is real. There is some good advice in this thread and i think with more and more experience we will know how to stop getting too excited way too early. Just need to get the Reps in. | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 08:17 PM |
| 1 | how do i get over fumbling 10sTy, this is true. | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 08:15 PM |
| 1 | how do i get over fumbling 10snoted, i think i just need to keep more busy and social. I moved to a new city and work online so that's probably why i was so fixated on this girl. | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 08:15 PM |
| 3 | how do i get over fumbling 10sThank you and sorry to hear that. I guess i'm not "ready" for something too serious so I wanted to have this little experiences with a beautiful woman out the way before I find me an actual good woman. | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 05:01 PM |
| 15 | how do i get over fumbling 10sty my friend. Needed to hear this | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 05:00 PM |
| 2 | how do i get over fumbling 10syou are right | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 05:00 PM |
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