Aros125 Archive

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1	What would help people leave RP? "there are just as many women in the world as men, there isn’t any actual shortage of opportunity." And this is where the problem begins. It turns out that this isn't exactly the case. Here too, the red pill is not wrong in understanding that there is a problem, but the answer he gives is wrong. Red pill attributes male loneliness to changing dating world, but it's simply not like that: in today's world, the female model of leading life and satisfying emotional-affective needs is more resilient …	/r/ExRedPill	30/06/26 06:32 AM
1	What would help people leave RP? I believe that the Red Pill has structured and poisoned a reality that has always existed. Even 100 years ago, beautiful women were with handsome, rich, and famous men. And you still had a certain coping mechanism that for some reason broke down. And it broke because in the past, more or less, everyone found someone to...You knew you'd settle down eventually. Today a boy feel the real risk of being alone because of a physical defect or psychological problems or simply because he is not good enou…	/r/ExRedPill	29/06/26 09:23 PM
2	What would help people leave RP? Let's not talk nonsense, emotional relationships and reproduction (intended as sex) are fundamental elements of the pyramid of needs. We have cultural tools to resist economic and social inequalities, but healthy relationships, including sexual ones, are non-negotiable for individual well-being and satisfaction.	/r/ExRedPill	29/06/26 06:02 PM
4	What would help people leave RP? People have been looking for partners, sex, and relationships since the dawn of time. It is not cultural any more than hunger and thirst are.	/r/ExRedPill	29/06/26 05:55 PM
6	What would help people leave RP? Cognitive behavioral therapy. The problem with the red pill isn't its absolute falsity. In fact, denying it has produced aberrant results, very poor results even with therapy started voluntarily. This brings us to the concept that the red pill cannot be effectively eradicated, it can only be contained by targeting the improper connections and generalizations pervasive in every perception of reality.In short, describing the red pill as a model that reproduces well the behavior of a part of the fe…	/r/ExRedPill	29/06/26 10:05 AM
-2	I’m a mom and witnessing the way the world treats my 11yo son vs. my daughter changed me forever. Boyz will go wild, start getting used to this idea	/r/MensRights	19/05/26 12:39 PM
3	User claims misandry doesn’t exist and is just a “trauma response” from misogyny Suppose that's true, why can't misogyny also be a response to trauma?	/r/MensRights	06/04/26 06:52 PM
0	Former Red Pill members—what changed your perspective? My perspective hasn't changed, it's the Red Pill that has become a misogynistic shithole and a far-right den over time.	/r/ExRedPill	22/03/26 11:44 AM
1	I believed them 😣 It depends on your point of view. Maybe, from my point of view, I'm already where I want to be.	/r/ExRedPill	19/03/26 06:53 AM
1	I believed them 😣 There's pain inside everyone, it's banal. I see effort you put into telling me these things, thank you, but I'm sending it all back to the sender, I don't need it. Bye.	/r/ExRedPill	18/03/26 11:00 PM
1	I believed them 😣 I've been around since before the Red Pill, so my idea of masculinity certainly doesn't come from the Red Pill. Nor do I consider myself superior to anyone. I simply grew up with the idea and example that a man should have a certain role in society and in the family and today this is no longer possible. The world is changing, and I'm fine with that. But I prefer and have decided not to deal with it; I believe it's my right. The world offers me ways to satisfy my needs and necessities anyway. I h…	/r/ExRedPill	18/03/26 10:41 PM
1	I believed them 😣 I'll be honest, I'm not angry, maybe in the past, just after a lot of overall very negative experiences, I woke up one day and realized that no one was forcing me to deal with them. Unless I really have to. And it was true, there are many more interesting things I can devote myself to.	/r/ExRedPill	18/03/26 10:13 PM
-1	I believed them 😣 Feminism, social networks, and a whole series of social changes and transformations have thrown man and his figure, his social role, into crisis. This has created a rift between the identity many men grow up with and reality. Some are in the acceptance stage, like many people here, others in the depression phase, others in the denial phase, others in the negotiation phase and a significant group in the anger phase. Not everyone will get to the acceptance stage, I am one of those. But perhaps wit…	/r/ExRedPill	18/03/26 09:48 PM
1	Was the red pill so wrong or right? The red pill is simply an extreme simplification of those changes that began about 20 years ago. When society began to use the internet as a space to communicate and get to know each other. The arduous task of facing and interpret the problem that has led dating to be almost totally irl at 60% online today in the USA was left to teenagers. The same teenagers who later discovered that the rest of the percentage of encounters occurred in predisposed contexts such as friends and study/work. In shor…	/r/ExRedPill	16/03/26 06:55 AM
3	Did jail reform you? It probably reinforces the heroic narrative of a struggle against a hostile society	/r/ExRedPill	10/03/26 09:52 PM
1	I fear I’m going back to my incel way of thinking. Consider that a crowded bar is not much different from a dating app: whether you are a man or a woman, consciously or unconsciously, you already know who a potential partner is or is not. "Winning a woman's heart" is a romantic legacy of a world that no longer exists and in which the winner was the one who maximized interactions with a specific woman. But this was possible because society was very repressive towards women and the opportunities for interaction were few. So, maybe you only had one…	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/26 04:23 AM
2	How to desconstruct the toxic idea of "She's settling for you but really wants the "hotter/alpha" guy who didn't commit to her" It's not like just as ideologically denying every redpill argument gets you to the truth, It leads you to an equally flawed model. Simply put, we all settle, men and women. I simply see my potential partner's resume before I arrive. Because there are women, and I've known some, who place relative importance on physical appearance. And they always have. The problem isn't the Redpill or being against the Redpill. The problem is that finding a woman, a man, a decent person is extremely difficult. H…	/r/ExRedPill	03/03/26 06:55 AM
2	Patriarchy Protects Women Better Than Modern Feminism I always like to remember the phrase from Fight Club. "We're a generation of men raised by women." And this should be written on every wall. In every men's room. Because it's true, because the men and women they meet are almost always raised by women, educated and often castrated, raised insecure, by women. Fears, insecurities, inadequacies They can only be largely the fault of those who were in closest contact with the man of the future and guided him in his first steps and beyond. And this per…	/r/MensRights	11/02/26 09:36 PM
1	It’s been almost a decade and this video still makes sense. What difference would it make? I'm a man. No one would defend me anyway. So why do you increase the risk of me getting hurt by defending a woman?	/r/MensRights	07/02/26 01:26 PM
2	It’s been almost a decade and this video still makes sense. And that's why now, if I see the first scene I turn away and mind my own business.	/r/MensRights	07/02/26 06:24 AM
0	I don't believe that there's someone out there for me It doesn't seem to be working that well given the current US political situation first and foremost	/r/ExRedPill	29/01/26 06:16 PM
-1	I don't believe that there's someone out there for me The red pill and the manosphere becoming politicized and converging on the far right. So this has and will have increasingly stronger and more tangible political effects.Many are still kids, but soon these people will vote. You had feminism, which achieved important results, but now we discover that the system is inelastic, so contract the male space, erode gender roles, expect friction and a backlash. Unless we provide a vision of reality and a model for a peaceful society.	/r/ExRedPill	29/01/26 06:07 PM
0	I don't believe that there's someone out there for me I like that it makes you laugh, until the problem blows up in our faces.	/r/ExRedPill	29/01/26 05:15 PM
-3	I don't believe that there's someone out there for me So you're just as extremist and blind as they are. I'm sorry.	/r/ExRedPill	29/01/26 08:59 AM
-2	I don't believe that there's someone out there for me The guy is not entirely wrong, it's okay to be against the redpill, but you can't just blindly deny every redpill statement with an ideology that claims the exact opposite. It's not that if you do the opposite of how a theoretical system describes the world, and you think it's wrong, then the resulting model is right. Indeed, often the negatives of an extreme ideology create an equally ridiculous ideology.	/r/ExRedPill	29/01/26 06:29 AM
-8	How do I get over patriarchal views for women? Everyone does what they can, and for some it may be a difficult achievement.	/r/ExRedPill	30/12/25 11:38 PM
-8	How do I get over patriarchal views for women? You have to live with it, the older you get the more you will find partners with a high body count. It could have been worse, you leave her and in a couple of years you only find partners with triple the number of partners. Be happy with what you have.	/r/ExRedPill	30/12/25 11:11 PM
3	why does feminists think that every man who does not like feminism is an incel If a man hated women, the correct term would be misogynist. But this term is not offensive, they want to attack the intimate sphere, personal value, implying that nobody wants you and you don't have sex. Words are used as weapons.	/r/MensRights	21/12/25 08:26 AM
0	If in real life only personality matters, then why with me, who am ugly, have only very ugly girls hit on me and never a cute and maybe shy girl? To say that only personality matters is to go against all studies and evidence. It's okay to get off the red pill, as it's not a healthy model of reality. The problem with the red pill is not that it lies, it contains many factual truths, the problem is that it crystallizes the process making it oscillate between the anger phase and the depression phase. In short, this way you never reach acceptance and therefore the ability to live in pace with yourself and the world. Going back to an embryonic…	/r/ExRedPill	16/12/25 08:43 PM
3	Are men going to be legally forced to pay for a child that isn't their's? There are countries where the mother refuses her consent to the DNA test simply to avoid losing child support. The only child you're sure is yours is the one from frozen sperm before the vasectomy. And there too you must have a recent spermiogram.	/r/MensRights	14/12/25 09:10 PM
1	Men's Reproductive Rights Let's start from the idea that there is no single pregnancy in a consensual relationship that is more the responsibility of one than the other. So let's apply logic: if you do things that make children, you will have children. So the woman has decided to have children and if she has an abortion she is a woman who changes her mind and does not want to take on responsibility. Therefore, always according to the logic applied to man, abortion is an emergency brake on the path to fulfilling her respo…	/r/MensRights	13/12/25 03:26 PM
3	Men's Reproductive Rights Well, in that case what do they tell us? Oh yes, now I remember, take responsibility. No way back for me, no way back for you. But since we don't want to contract rights but expand, we must create a way back for men too.	/r/MensRights	13/12/25 07:33 AM
11	Men's Reproductive Rights So let's abolish abortion, right?	/r/MensRights	12/12/25 08:08 PM
12	Men's Reproductive Rights And if you take this opportunity away from me, you have to pay compensation. Because the child can't be mine just after he's born. If there's no consensus, there's maintenance. But it's the bare minimum. So food and everything else. By the way, if the house is mine and I'm out, if you live in it you pay me an equally minimal rent until the children come of age.	/r/MensRights	12/12/25 01:58 PM
30	Men's Reproductive Rights So if you, as a woman, agree to do it without protection, then you want a child. Why should you have the right to change your mind and have an abortion afterwards?	/r/MensRights	12/12/25 01:50 PM
12	Men's Reproductive Rights You don't have more responsibilities than women. So it makes no sense to give you fewer rights than women. Otherwise, you're saying that women can be infantilized, but men can't. And no, I don't care about the narrative that "a man should..." It doesn't work anymore. Solutions? Well, let's start by saying that aborting without the man's consent implies compensation to him. Whether the child was wanted or due to contraceptive failure. Let's also say that if the man did not consent within the term…	/r/MensRights	12/12/25 01:39 PM
17	Men's Reproductive Rights You’re saying men don’t have a right to abstain, get a vasectomy or wear a condom. No that's what you're saying. I'm saying that when the condom breaks you discover that your rights are thinner than the material it's made of. And beyond that, if the woman has a choice after conception and the man has none, then you can't bring up the whole "well, but first you should have done this and that" thing. Because The rock-solid evidence remains that she can abort and abandon the pregnancy. You can't. A…	/r/MensRights	12/12/25 12:31 PM
28	Men's Reproductive Rights The problem is after. I don't know about your part of the world, but in my part, a woman can abort and even abandon her child after birth in the hospital without consequences. The man, if recognized as the father, he is practically forced to be a father (with consequent obligations) even if he doesn't want it. Oscillating between:I'll kill the fetus even if you want it (which must be terrible) and not being able to abandon, like a woman, if you do not want the child before it is born. Man is fre…	/r/MensRights	12/12/25 11:42 AM
1	When did feminism become a hateful religion? Brother...I'll tell you how all mass movements end: it's a digestive process that transforms even the most elaborate dish into shit. In feminist movements, all that is done is creating a gigantic pyramid that will allow the apex to live from "struggle" and assign roles of power and prestige to some prominent figures. In short, the entire pyramid works in such a way as to create a niche of power and well-being for the famous 0.1%. The BLM? Good idea, but what did it create? Those who rejoice are …	/r/MensRights	20/04/24 04:34 PM
2	Feminism has completely destroyed relationships how do we fix it? They have an extreme distrust and dislike for men. Tell her that if she's a lesbian it's not your fault.	/r/MensRights	19/04/24 05:31 PM
1	And how is this not abuse of men in public spaces. Single woman boldly calls for wealthy HUSBAND over airplane PA system. The good old prostitution of the past no longer exists.	/r/MensRights	10/04/24 05:48 PM
7	Some more feminist LOVE! In my opinion we tend to overestimate these people. Today there is simply a lack of male awareness of the fact that certain women exist and should be avoided without compromise. They simply need to be isolated, left to age and die alone and infertile with houses full of cats.	/r/MensRights	23/03/24 07:43 PM
1	They hate it when I say this I like the similarity with a football match. But I see it this way: what happens if we stop playing, since there is no prize and we abandon those who behave in a certain way on the playing field? Women have finally set a cultural standard for what a "good man" is. Maybe we should set different standards too	/r/MensRights	05/03/24 06:27 PM
5	They hate it when I say this Ok you pass your thesis as good, the problem is: what do men do when they realize they are being manipulated? Personally I understand your point but this must produce countermeasures. It is we men who perhaps, out of emotional "laziness", overlook it to avoid conflict at all costs. The way I see it, the abusive partner must be abandoned, We must always maintain a very high contractual and financial autonomy and quit whenever we are no longer happy with the situation. And you or I don't have to d…	/r/MensRights	05/03/24 05:00 PM
10	I feel violated. Girl lied to me about taking birth control… Even the birth control pill (if you take it and you say to take it). Many couples decide by mutual agreement to adopt one or a different contraceptive method. So yes, it's a question of trust and it works as long as whoever is in charge of contraception for men or women does what they have to. Almost all the relationship in the couple is based on trust and verbal contracts to function. When the verbal contract is violated maliciously, as in this case, it is not the result of an error but of a sp…	/r/MensRights	23/01/24 04:04 PM
17	I feel violated. Girl lied to me about taking birth control… Exactly how double responsibility should work when she says she took the pill and then didn't. Forcing her? No. In this dynamic the responsibility lies with the woman. Because relationships are based on trust. If one of the two is responsible for contraception, he/she effectively takes on that role. And this is also and above all true in stable couples, precisely where this practice is most widespread.	/r/MensRights	23/01/24 03:28 PM
51	I feel violated. Girl lied to me about taking birth control… Or I simply have the "kink" of self-determination in my life...	/r/MensRights	23/01/24 03:18 PM
59	I feel violated. Girl lied to me about taking birth control… Now...where did I put my passport?	/r/MensRights	23/01/24 01:56 PM
4	This is how villains are created. This is the worst thing a woman can do to a man I agree with some here. If she convinced a man that the child was his and he provided support because of this bond with the child and the mother, it would be appropriate for her to pay appropriate compensation. Not only the expenses but also the non-economic damage. Even more so if they were not married, In the marital context, where moral and material support is a duty, this is a just cause for dissolution with nothing to claim from her including all assets owned by the husband. From that momen…	/r/MensRights	30/12/23 12:25 PM