Arose1316 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Ex-Red Pillers, what would you directly ask/say to Manosphere figures like Fresh & Fit and Rollo Tomassi if you had the chance? How do they feel knowing that their rhetoric has led men to trying to kill their spouse?	/r/ExRedPill	15/05/25 05:03 PM
1	Get out the Redpill as fast as you can. Especially the black pill which is poison. Truly.	/r/ExRedPill	21/09/23 02:56 AM
2	Get out the Redpill as fast as you can. Especially the black pill which is poison. Thank you. I appreciate the empathy, truly. I remember the guy sneako, but didn’t know about the gun waving and paranoia / insanity onset. It makes so much sense. One of the last major fights we had before we broke up was the day Kevin samuels died. He came to meet me at a work event of mine and was heartbroken. We went out for drinks after and while out, I said I didn’t like MTR. I thought he was annoying. My ex-fiancé lost his mind. Got up. Poured my drink out in a sink behind the bar, stormed…	/r/ExRedPill	18/09/23 02:40 PM
10	Get out the Redpill as fast as you can. Especially the black pill which is poison. My(33F/ white for context) ex-fiancé (34M / black for context) fell down the fresh and fit / mtr / Kevin samuels and worse rabbit hole. While I saw red flags and suspect it’s always who he truly was…that nonsense turned him into a monster. Physical, mental, verbal, sexual, & severe emotional abuse. All of it snowballing after 4 years together - total of 6 - with the last two being when he got into this mess. Cancelled our 6-figure boujee destination wedding 3 months before - 3 days after our inv…	/r/ExRedPill	18/09/23 12:55 AM
2	Why women shouldn’t be upset about the red pill and rather see it as a blessing (older man’s perspective). This is really nice. Thank you.	/r/ExRedPill	08/10/22 02:31 AM
3	Helping someone realise the programming of RP Leave. I never used to be an advocate of telling someone I don't know what to do in their relationship. But my life became hell because of this. Well, because of him and the fact that he's a narcissistic psychopath - and I don't say that lightly. Read the book "women who love psychopaths" by Sandra brown. If it mostly applies to your man, legit - run. You'll end up with your life ruined and starting over like I am if you stay. Read my post history. It won't get better.	/r/ExRedPill	25/09/22 08:05 PM
2	Rich COOPER DESTROYED MY MARRIAGE. I HATE HIM AND I HATE ALPHA MALES/RED PILL Thank you. I appreciate that - I'm a wedding planner by trade to make matters EVEN worse.	/r/ExRedPill	19/09/22 05:43 PM
2	What does a woman 'loving' up on a man and 'loyalty' look like to you? This is beautiful.	/r/ExRedPill	19/09/22 02:10 AM
5	Rich COOPER DESTROYED MY MARRIAGE. I HATE HIM AND I HATE ALPHA MALES/RED PILL He spent zero dollars on our wedding, minus my engagement ring. My FATHER was paying for our wedding and he DID lose a $100k because we're so close to the wedding and it's now non refundable.	/r/ExRedPill	12/09/22 01:23 PM
1	i feel like blackpill is reality and there is no "detox" from it. Ok. Well, if that's how you want to see it - red pill men love to tell women over 30/35 that they better just get a dog and be prepared to die alone. Guess it should apply to men too, huh?	/r/ExRedPill	09/09/22 02:50 PM
3	To those who have parted ways with Red Pill, what was the most eye-opening thing that helped you see through the mirage? Thank you for realizing this. Redpill focuses on one subset of women that is not the overarching reality of female behavior as they portray. It's exhausting.	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/22 03:51 PM
2	i feel like blackpill is reality and there is no "detox" from it. OH and an easy fix right there - and don't get defensive - but I don't know any grown woman who takes a man seriously when he says "bruh". Drop that out of your vocabulary. Best of luck!	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/22 01:43 AM
3	i feel like blackpill is reality and there is no "detox" from it. Never said it was all personality, bruh. I said your chances at dating and sex is if you reframe your shitty outlook on it, get a hobby, clean yourself up as best as you can, work on your social skills, find something that gives you more confidence. Get out of your echo chambers and learn about yourself, about women, about relationships, about communication, about friendship, etc. It's hard. It sucks. I used to be fat, now I'm not. I used to have shitty skin, now it's glowing. I had to give up m…	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/22 01:41 AM
3	i feel like blackpill is reality and there is no "detox" from it. Tell me, what's ironic?	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/22 01:20 AM
4	i feel like blackpill is reality and there is no "detox" from it. Honey. The you're not getting dates probably has little to do with your looks. You're whiney. You whine. Quit whining on the internet about not being able to get a date. Go get a personality. Go find hobbies. Dorky girls need dorky boys. I'm a beautiful woman, took care of my ex-fiancé hand and foot, come from money, am educated, personable, great cook, great lay... And I still got left at the alter. I'm here trying to heal from my trauma so I can get back out there and find a man who won't dip …	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/22 12:24 AM
2	"dick is low value and abundant" What? No, I don't want their names. You gave me all the answers I needed though.	/r/ExRedPill	07/09/22 09:03 AM
4	"dick is low value and abundant" Got it. Well, that makes sense when framed that way.	/r/ExRedPill	07/09/22 08:14 AM
1	"dick is low value and abundant" Genuine questions - where do you hear this? Like from what women? You personally have heard it? In my 32 years as a woman, Ive never heard a man, woman or anything in between or beyond say that or anything remotely close to it. I'm sorry that the red pill has made you believe that your only value is your dick (and wallet). It's not true	/r/ExRedPill	07/09/22 07:19 AM
12	can someone explain this to me It's all such a hypocritical mind game. My ex-fiancé who became red-pilled used to say it was the man's job to "protect and provide". But by the end, it was him I was afraid of and he was financially/emotionally/physically/sexually abusing me...it's an insane rhetoric.	/r/ExRedPill	04/09/22 12:06 PM
2	should I(female) die once I can't reproduce anymore? Agreed! I thought I was going to be sharing it with my ex-fiancé who just left me... but I will admit I'm getting excited to find someone who deserves me at my best. Not that douche canoe who was trying to destroy me.	/r/ExRedPill	02/09/22 02:11 AM
4	should I(female) die once I can't reproduce anymore? Baby girl, no. No. My ex-fiancé surrounded my worth around my beauty, fertility, and tangible value. It was so wrong. No one could tell me it was wrong when I was deep in it, but it is. Baby girl, it is. I'm 32, childless, and the hottest I've ever been. I know how to do my makeup properly, the weight from drinking too much in my early 20s is off, my career is at its peak (well, was before he destroyed it - but fixing that), and I know who I am. Plus, you won't be infertile at 30? Like, honey. I…	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/22 10:21 PM
9	should I(female) die once I can't reproduce anymore? I have saved this comment as my red pill rebuttal. I've been so fucked up by a partner who fell to it. I needed this. Thanks.	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/22 10:16 PM
15	exposing myron gaines from fresh n fit. why hes the most delusional. Thank you for posting this! I think he such a vile man. My now ex-fiancé was just loving him more and more and it scared me. I appreciate you sharing this.	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/22 12:48 PM
2	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory Oh my gosh! I am so proud of you. It's not weird to hear at all and it actually means so much to me. It gives me hope something good can come from the massive mess my life became because of my ex-fiancé. I think the red - pill shit is really just a megaphone for men (and women) with one (or multiple) of the dark triad personalities. Narcissism, borderline personality disorder, anti-social personality disorder - that's where you'll find that "Jekyll / Hyde", emotional abuse common denominator. I'…	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/22 01:52 PM
1	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory Yes indeed sir.	/r/ExRedPill	30/08/22 03:53 PM
3	A new sub called r/RedPillCasualties has been created for those who want to share their Red Pill stories without being debated. Thank you!	/r/ExRedPill	30/08/22 02:16 PM
1	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory I'm in excellent shape with an hourglass figure, work hard, had a high profile job, and come from a great family with money. We had a beautiful home. What is it that red pill made him realize could be better?	/r/ExRedPill	30/08/22 02:08 PM
1	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory Is my ex-fiancé a black man? Yes.	/r/ExRedPill	30/08/22 02:05 PM
2	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory I'm sorry, honey. It's so scary, heartbreaking, and confusing. The future you pictured with this person just starts to slip through your fingers. A lot of people won't understand, but I certainly do. I'm grateful for places like this sub too. Who would have thought that strangers on the internet could be so helpful in this toxic world? I hope you have people to lean on, but please message me if you want any resources to read or if you just need an ear. I'm no expert, but I'm 10 weeks out and see…	/r/ExRedPill	30/08/22 12:25 PM
2	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory Ha, sorry. I'm going to be single for a long time and I don't do long distance. :)	/r/ExRedPill	30/08/22 12:17 PM
1	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory That's not an excuse. It's not just guys that get fucked over. I was in a bad relationship just before I met him and my ex-fiancé never had a bad relationship from what he told me. And it wasn't just "seeing me as a good girl" - he was flat out abusive and saw me as a monster. The more I did for him, the better my body got in shape, the further I went in my career - the more I improved to meet HIS standards - the worse I was in his eyes. I couldn't do enough or be enough - he just wanted "more".	/r/ExRedPill	30/08/22 12:15 PM
3	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory Thanks. I tried.	/r/ExRedPill	30/08/22 12:51 AM
15	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory I like to think that I was sweet and loving to my fiancé. I cooked, cleaned, we had regular threesomes, I took care of pretty much everything, we laughed a lot, had shared hobbies, had a lot of hopes and dreams. Then he found this red pill stuff and all of a sudden I wasn't enough. He needed more women, whenever he wanted them. Not even threesomes with me was enough. For him, I think it might have been a lack of a father and stable home? Not sure.	/r/ExRedPill	29/08/22 07:57 PM
8	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory Thank you. I don't want to tell you to run, because I do believe my ex-fiancé has problems outside of this mess ... but be careful. Keep your eyes open. Trust your gut. It snowballed really fast for me. Out of 5.5 years the bulk of the bad was the last year. I saw someone compare it to the "frog in boiling water" analogy. You put a frog in boiling water, they'll jump out. You put a frog in room - temp water and slowly turn the heat up, they just stay until they're boiling and dead (Excuse my hor…	/r/ExRedPill	29/08/22 07:17 PM
4	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory Yup. I will admit that. He appears to be a textbook narcissist, but I am not a therapist. I read this book: "women who love psychopaths" and it was him to the letter. I do believe he would have gotten more abusive / controlling on his own - but this certainly escalated things. I remember him even saying "I know it's harsh, but I realized this is how I've always felt."	/r/ExRedPill	29/08/22 07:08 PM
8	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory Thanks. Might sound silly, but affirmation from strangers going through / who understand this mess is helpful. I appreciate your support and wish you a happy reconciliation. Just take care of yourself.	/r/ExRedPill	29/08/22 07:04 PM
5	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory And thank you for the hugs and support.	/r/ExRedPill	29/08/22 05:39 PM
15	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory Ah, I see. We were very similar, but flipped. I'm from the affluent family, he's from west side of Chicago. I am white, he is black. I am highly empathetic though and have spent my life trying to understand perspectives from all sides. So it was confusing why he fell down this rabbit hole. He was so obsessed with being a high value man and I'm not really sure any of these guys really know what that means. Because my fiancé was marrying into a family of Midwest money and power ... and he threw it…	/r/ExRedPill	29/08/22 05:39 PM
7	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory What is an affluencey affliction? We're 10 weeks no contact to the day. If either of us reaches out, we have to pay $5k and a restraining order will be put in place. It got really ugly.	/r/ExRedPill	29/08/22 05:29 PM
41	I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theory It happened to me. I (32/f) just lost my fiance (33/m) to Kevin Samuels, Fresh and Fit, Mediocre Tutorials and Reviews. He ended it after 5.5 years together and 4 months before our 6-figure wedding. We built a brand new home together - I spent the past year and a half decorating it. Hanging up wallpaper. Making us a home. I meal prepped for him. Made him his favorites from scratch like cheesecake and bolognese. I did all the laundry and cleaning (I am not always the BEST at cleaning, but our hou…	/r/ExRedPill	29/08/22 04:35 PM
1	Women's standards in men aren't getting any higher (except for the physical one) Oh and my point was, he wouldn't be caught dead in the same room as them. Because they are truly of lower status. He's all about "pulling yourself up by the bootstraps", but you also gotta read the room guys. There's a reason the phrase "new money" exists. We don't respect them. Never will. Edit to add: I mean he will never respect these "high value men" who strut into the room, thinking they know how society works. Thinking they get to determine the value of humans. You're new to the game, and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 07:00 PM
1	Women's standards in men aren't getting any higher (except for the physical one) My father is what these boys consider to be a "high value man". CEO, rich, 6'3, big house (lots of houses). I told him about this "high value man" obsession and showed him a Fresh and Fit video. He laughed. For a long time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 06:58 PM
3	Women's standards in men aren't getting any higher (except for the physical one) Which one? I clearly mention two relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 08:01 PM
1	Women's standards in men aren't getting any higher (except for the physical one) This!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 04:24 PM
6	Women's standards in men aren't getting any higher (except for the physical one) They do? Really? Because I have been (long term) with both a handsome black man with beautiful muscles in the military and a skinny, short, balding white dude who was a touring merchandise manager for a well known known musician. Wanna know what attracted me to the skinny, balding, SHORT white guy? His voice. His charisma. His confidence. So... are you SURE that's how women think?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 04:23 PM
2	Cuckoldry is not a "fetish", it is the normal human sexual behavior Ah, ok. I always forget about comment history.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/22 02:16 PM
3	Cuckoldry is not a "fetish", it is the normal human sexual behavior I want to believe this is just someone trolling, but it's not. They really out here believing this genuine insanity.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/22 12:59 PM
1	I hate how fucking stupid a lot of black men have become, because of Kevin Samuels. Thank you. It might be pathetic of me, but affirmations that I did the right thing help. Because this sucks.	/r/ExRedPill	20/08/22 01:18 AM
6	What Do You Think of the phrase "Men love unconditionally; women love conditionally?" Agreed - and thank you.	/r/ExRedPill	20/08/22 01:15 AM
5	What Do You Think of the phrase "Men love unconditionally; women love conditionally?" It was gradual. He's military / grew up poor / pretty vain. Steroid user. So, he always had his "moods", but it was nothing I couldn't manage. We were a situationship for awhile that got serious. Eventually got engaged and I followed him across country. It was like 2 months into us living together that all of this started to ramp up. At first he understood why I didn't like guys like fresh and fit. By the time we broke up, I said I didn't like fresh and fit and their message and he screamed in m…	/r/ExRedPill	20/08/22 01:13 AM
3	What Do You Think of the phrase "Men love unconditionally; women love conditionally?" Thank you.	/r/ExRedPill	20/08/22 01:06 AM
18	What Do You Think of the phrase "Men love unconditionally; women love conditionally?" Thank you - and I'm a white woman. The impact of these monsters will be even worse for black women. Granted, a lot of these guys don't discriminate based on color - they just think all women are terrible "hos".	/r/ExRedPill	19/08/22 07:51 PM
6	What Do You Think of the phrase "Men love unconditionally; women love conditionally?" Thank you.	/r/ExRedPill	19/08/22 07:48 PM
17	What Do You Think of the phrase "Men love unconditionally; women love conditionally?" 5.5 years. Didn't get like this really until he fell into the "black manosphere" YouTube/podcasts until about a year ago. Right after I gave up my job and moved across the country to be with him. Right before our wedding. Sigh.	/r/ExRedPill	19/08/22 07:48 PM
33	What Do You Think of the phrase "Men love unconditionally; women love conditionally?" I (f/32) loved my fiancé (m/33) unconditionally. No matter how much abuse he put me through, I kept loving him. But he made me weigh in monthly as part of my conditions to love me. If I interrupted or said anything he disagreed with, he would take my engagement ring. There was condition after condition after condition. If I wasn't "fit, feminine, and friendly" at all times, he was going to leave me. If I didn't show him that I was on the treadmill for hours - he was going to leave me at the alte…	/r/ExRedPill	19/08/22 05:43 PM
3	Rich COOPER DESTROYED MY MARRIAGE. I HATE HIM AND I HATE ALPHA MALES/RED PILL Hey - sorry. Just seeing this. Thank you for the kind words - I hope you're doing well.	/r/ExRedPill	16/08/22 04:40 PM
2	Is the notion that another man can steal your gf stupid? You too. :)	/r/ExRedPill	16/08/22 03:07 AM
2	Is the notion that another man can steal your gf stupid? Yes on the born July to August part, but birthday is July 16 - so a cancer. It sucks being so loyal sometimes, eh? I find myself wishing I just didn't care, but I am grateful I do. I'd rather be loyal than a liar.	/r/ExRedPill	16/08/22 02:39 AM
1	Does anyone else think that red pillers are hyper sensitive to criticism? Yes. They are all narcissists. Look into Sandra Brown "women who love psychopaths". It's all of these men to the letter.	/r/ExRedPill	16/08/22 02:00 AM
3	Types of Redpillers She's insanely annoying.	/r/ExRedPill	16/08/22 01:58 AM
2	Types of Redpillers This is great. Thank you. I've lost my fiancé to groups number 1 and 2 and this helps explain it.	/r/ExRedPill	16/08/22 01:57 AM
1	Is the notion that another man can steal your gf stupid? I (32f) have been cheated on more times than I can count. I've never cheated. I flirted via text one time with one guy while in a relationship and immediately felt guilt and ended the friendship with said guy. And before you think it - I'm an attractive, in shape, well off, educated woman. Still cheated on. Still never cheated. My fiancé was a male dental hygienist. My ex who was in love with me is a military helicopter pilot. Still didn't cheat. Moral of the story: ignore this rhetoric. Otherwi…	/r/ExRedPill	16/08/22 01:55 AM
3	I hate how fucking stupid a lot of black men have become, because of Kevin Samuels. Nope. I didn't sleep with any men, either. We had threesomes/foursomes with women, mostly. I'd hoped that would help. It didn't. I would also get in trouble lately if I said anything like - "hey, it would be great if I got some attention during the threesome. It feels like you leave me out a lot lately." Red Flags, I guess.	/r/ExRedPill	15/08/22 12:49 PM
1	I hate how fucking stupid a lot of black men have become, because of Kevin Samuels. Mediocre Tutorials and Reviews - YouTuber. Thank you. I appreciate it.	/r/ExRedPill	15/08/22 12:01 AM
3	I hate how fucking stupid a lot of black men have become, because of Kevin Samuels. Exactly right and thank you. Fingers crossed for that after I go through lotttsss of therapy. Thanks for bringing this topic up and letting me get this off my chest. Today would have been my bridal shower, so it helped.	/r/ExRedPill	15/08/22 12:00 AM
4	I hate how fucking stupid a lot of black men have become, because of Kevin Samuels. Me too. He was even mimicking his phrases and the stupid voices he makes by the end. Made my stomach churn.	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/22 11:59 PM
4	I hate how fucking stupid a lot of black men have become, because of Kevin Samuels. Thank you. It is a true story, unfortunately. I have all the lost wedding deposit receipts and very angry parents/ family /friends to prove it.	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/22 11:58 PM
57	I hate how fucking stupid a lot of black men have become, because of Kevin Samuels. I just lost my fiancé to the Kevin Samuels / MTR / Fresh and Fit rabbit hole. 4 months prior to our 6 figure wedding. After 5.5 years together. After I moved across the country, gave up my job, put together our home, started a new job I loved. He was my best friend - then a complete stranger. Started about a year ago. Openly cheating. Mentally and physically abusive. Pulled a gun on me to "put me in my place" because I "disrespected him" (I said I didn't like MTR, that's it). He went from warm a…	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/22 01:20 AM
1	My brother is really into FnF Fnf, Kevin samuels, MTR are all toxic psychos. They are a big reason why my ex-fiancé called our engagement off just before the wedding. He completely changed. Could you talk to a trusted male friend about it? Maybe they could talk to him? Hope you can help him.	/r/ExRedPill	31/07/22 10:24 PM
2	JustPearlyThings: Emotions and vulnerability This woman is so woof.	/r/ExRedPill	31/07/22 10:17 PM
1	TRP’s attitude towards crying makes you weak Seems like we have had similar relationship trauma. I'm happy you didn't lose your business - he caused me to lose 2. Sucks on top of it all. Anyways. This was beautiful. Thank you for sharing and helping me feel not so alone.	/r/ExRedPill	31/07/22 10:13 PM
1	Here’s why red pill destroys lives Yes. Yes. Yes.	/r/ExRedPill	31/07/22 09:58 PM
1	How Kevin Samuels Fooled 1.5 Million People I truly hate this man. I partially blame him for the destruction of my relationship.	/r/ExRedPill	31/07/22 09:54 PM
5	Rich COOPER DESTROYED MY MARRIAGE. I HATE HIM AND I HATE ALPHA MALES/RED PILL My fiancé just ended our engagement 4 months before our wedding. I largely blame it on his cult like obsession with red pill YouTubers / podcasts similar to this guy. Kevin Samuels, Fresh and Fit, MTR, etc. All awful. We were so happy, I thought. I had moved across the country, lost my job, started a new one I loved, built a house with him, decorated it with love... to be kicked out just before our 6 figure destination wedding. Then about 6 months ago, everything changed. He listened to these gu…	/r/ExRedPill	31/07/22 09:51 PM
1	Boyfriend has gotten into Fresh and Fit the past year... can this be undone? Late to this, but my fiancée just ended our engagement 4 months prior to our wedding. I attribute a lot of it to his rabbit hole obsession with fresh and fit, Kevin samuels, mediocre tutorials and reviews. I didn't even recognize him the last few months of our relationship. It fed into his narcissism and spread like wildfire. He even made it known that he was "exercising his options" with other women. I'm sorry that you're going through this. It sucks. I'm in so much pain. Look up Sandra Browns …	/r/ExRedPill	31/07/22 09:41 PM