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| 8 | If you lack self-confidence - try thisPutting all this in practice avoids cycles of negative self talk. I’ve done it in the past and seen others on this sub that have too. Don’t mentally knee cap yourselves people. | /r/seduction | 10/04/23 02:39 PM |
| 11 | Things I've learned about hooking up as an Indian guy in the US.Hey bro - good write-up here. Ignore any negative feedback, but besides the dating advice, I resonated with you saying “get out of the toxic environment” especially the mention of “narcissistic family members.” I’m Desi too, and feel like my parents try to keep me down and at the house. Need to cut them off. Thanks for the post. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | I get terrible anxiety when I’m interested in a person.Just apply these lessons and it will be more clear- but if you fixate on just her and your feelings, it won’t get any better until you break and do a thing that you may have not needed to do. | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 04:38 PM |
| 1 | I get terrible anxiety when I’m interested in a person.If you are in an environment with the friend group including her, and you are hitting up other people - you will likely know or get to the point where you may not care anymore. | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 04:34 PM |
| 1 | I get terrible anxiety when I’m interested in a person.I know you probably got feels for her but I’m telling you if you accept the friend zone, strive for a situation of abundance, you will make her act rather than having to solidify the rejection through your own interactions with her. If you got feels for her, it’s easier said than done. | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 04:19 PM |
| 1 | I get terrible anxiety when I’m interested in a person.Yeah, don’t ruin the friendship based on a partial, short term feeling (I’ve done this before). Female friends around you (and in pics) help you pick up female dates because some folks may assume loners are creepy/strange. | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | I get terrible anxiety when I’m interested in a person.If you are truly friend-zoned the short-term prospects with them are slim. In that short-term, instead go out with them as friends and it will help your social proof for dating others. Long-term, if you become more attractive to your friend, they’ll let you know directly or indirectly. | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | I get terrible anxiety when I’m interested in a person.Right on- yeah it can be tough to get the ball rolling, I’ve found that when I try too hard it’s goofy and awkward. Less is more- just a simple question that is a hidden complement is solid. Last chat I struck up was just a question about the woman’s outfit | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 04:00 PM |
| 2 | I get terrible anxiety when I’m interested in a person.Ah, yeah, depends on who you want to attract, but good grooming, hygiene, clothing, and other signs of having some money/work are the start | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 03:51 PM |
| 2 | I get terrible anxiety when I’m interested in a person.In the past, if I’m nervous and/or uninhibited (alcohol or just mood) I’ll go into a long monologue… some potential partners may like that but it has scared off others. Active questions are using “active voice” with direct subjects. So rather than “what would you like to do?” it may be more successful to present an “active” choice like “would you prefer coffee or a trip somewhere?” | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 03:27 PM |
| 6 | I get terrible anxiety when I’m interested in a person.Say less… if you’re like me when you get nervous- you may start rambling. Use active questions rather than long rants | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 03:19 PM |
| 40 | Smoothest rejection I’ve ever had, we both got a laugh outta itYou know what? That’s such an overused line. | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Truth is that may happen for you after college depending on your path | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you approach enough?Crabs keeping a crab down | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 11:34 AM |
| 19 | I got my gym crushYour gym crush got you too. Stay on your grind and appreciate your company with one another. | /r/seduction | 13/02/21 06:39 PM |
| 2 | How to properly "fake it till you make it" to success with womenI don’t think you should apply “fake it till you make it directly” towards seduction and relationships but that it is more applicable to the professional world. I don’t mean that you should cheat all the way through but more so that you have a goal and the ends justify the means (within reason*). Trying to be a completely different person in romance or seduction is short-sighted but I do agree that they are still getting experience. | /r/seduction | 18/01/21 08:59 PM |
| 3 | She is not replying to your texts? MOVE ON instantly.Clues work both ways. Some time ago I was unemployed and moved back in with my family. I told an older woman this after she was asking questions about my work and living multiple times over two nights. The second night I could tell she was definitely hovering around that. Afterwards, she stopped replying at her same frequency. I know I know, she could have other things going on etc., but some people may want to be chased while others (like this woman I am speaking of) are more straightforward. W… | /r/seduction | 15/09/20 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Tinder 101: A Complete Beginner Framework to Crush Online DatingIs Tinder worth it? I deleted it a while back when I started doing security at a college bar. There are a lot of cute girls that are flirty but I haven't felt any of them are really my type. I would ideally like to broaden my horizons for women in terms of their interests and personality types. | /r/seduction | 23/01/20 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Daygame > Nightgame: My insight and analysisI feel like it can be a little more difficult to initiate in daygame encounters though. | /r/seduction | 27/10/19 09:17 PM |
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