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Interesting, what do you do professionally?
/r/seduction20/02/14 04:13 AM
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Not sure about the KISS approach that everyone has ALWAYS advocated. I like bullshitting with girls and generally shy away from approaches to game that build value by being stingy with attention. A lot of girls are intimidated by me at first, and are usually nervous about meeting up cold when all we've done is exchanged numbers. Messaging warms them up a little bit, then I call to coordinate meet up.
/r/seduction13/01/14 05:11 PM
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Solid point -- girls also pay close attention and even if you haven't spoken yet, they'll know where you are and who you're talking to. She'll know if she's the third or fourth person on your list of people to flirt with and that could work against you.
/r/seduction04/12/13 09:13 AM
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Lol, okay buddy. Good luck with that one.
/r/seduction04/12/13 09:06 AM
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You should go through some more traumatic or dehumanizing experiences. I'm 28 now (maybe you are too) and seeing all these college kids who were just like me at that age -- on top of the world -- makes me say...."Oh, son. You're in for a wake up call." At this point, I don't believe you have SHIT in the way of game unless you built yourself BACK up from being a nobody in adulthood.
/r/seduction04/12/13 08:37 AM
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Hell yeah! Same dude!!
/r/seduction04/12/13 08:34 AM
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Okay, go be a lovable dick to an institutional review board. I wish you luck, really. But don't pretend nobody warned you that institutions of higher education have drastically different value systems from the society you think you live in. No offense, but you seem to think you look like Hank Moody when you actually sound like that kid who "punk'd" Fox News.
/r/seduction03/12/13 11:34 PM
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Frame control is the buzzword here -- if you share the exact same scale for sizing up human beings (hers) then yes, you will lose them. She will wonder why you are less popular than her, and there are two possible answers: Because you actually are lower status, or because you are playing a different game than her, and she might be lower on that totem pole. You've got to be willing to let them go. If it seems like she's backing off, remember that you've got your own status hierarchy in mind, and …
/r/seduction29/11/13 09:06 PM
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Focus on finding social success instead of focusing on getting laid. Girls are disgusted by guys who are desperate for sex and not much else (and so am I, for that matter). Find friends, enjoy other people, become someone with high vibrational frequency who acts in whatever way makes him feel good, and girls will follow naturally.
/r/seduction29/11/13 09:00 PM
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Just a head's up. Academia is a really repressive hierarchical institution and I was definitely in for a rude awakening when I walked in with a "fuck the haters" mentality. Not that I don't support what you're doing, but I do think it's worth letting you know if you're trying to keep going on a grad track.
/r/seduction29/11/13 05:55 AM
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Just......consider that if you apply to grad school, you're going to have to tell the exact people you're trying to impress that you did your senior thesis on masturbating and facebook. The things you choose for research indirectly tell people the things you think are relevant. Source: I am doing research on the genetics of mating strategy and people sometimes look at me like a scumbag for finding these things important.
/r/seduction29/11/13 02:34 AM
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Men have it too, it's called the madonna/whore complex. Same shit, it's just the competing drive to find someone to reproduce with and someone to take care of you. The madonna is the female provider.
/r/seduction27/11/13 02:51 PM
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Not in depth advice, but.......pickup always taught me that there is one kind of ladder that all relationships follow. Attraction, comfort, seduction. 7 1/2 hours. You can use this to get ONS or to find the love of your life. I've since found that different types of relationships go at different speeds, follow different trajectories, and proceed naturally from different personality types. Also, the dirty projectors were good. Saw them in Virginia about 10 years ago. Shouts out.
/r/seduction26/11/13 11:35 PM
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Yeah, really good story. But I put a ton of stock in the idea of the lover/provider complex, and if a woman's love for you is protective, she's really just using you as a surrogate for the children she doesn't have. If you stay with her long enough, that will fucking vanish once you have kids.
/r/seduction26/11/13 11:30 PM
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Meditate
/r/seduction26/11/13 01:12 AM
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I think that's the point, man. First, that to a woman, it's probably incredibly obnoxious to have guys you aren't attracted to or involved with perpetually trying to assert "upper edge" over you during the 80% of your life you're not actively trying to mate. And second, if you're an attractive man, edge doesn't come from weird power plays or the constant threat of running off. If you're actually a high value man, you get looks from other girls in public and people want to be around you, and that…
/r/seduction09/11/13 05:04 AM
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It's great advice to read on a pickup site and start believing if you are a chronic beta. I am not, so the half truth doesn't benefit me. On the contrary, I got into this stuff in 1999 and have a wealth of experience that led me to disregard it. Women and men are completely different in matters of sex, relationships, and views on status. Somewhere around the time I turned 25 I realized that these arenas do not comprise 100% of human life, however, and realized that we are in fact mostly the same…
/r/seduction08/11/13 06:12 PM
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Yeah, totally true. I'll check out the link. Posted this whole thing because I moved and find myself a dateless loser for the first time in 10 years. Should probably just bone up on the game stuff I haven't used since college and go pull a girl off the street. I spent a loooong time coasting off of reputation and social circle though, and really don't remember how. Could be fun to pick pickup back up.
/r/seduction07/11/13 11:41 PM
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I actually think there's truth on both sides, and everyone is a person and a man/woman at the same time. Definitely think that role switching is more of a headache for women. Definitely not crying about it, though.
/r/seduction07/11/13 11:38 PM
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I actually think there's truth on both sides, and everyone is a person and a man/woman at the same time. Definitely think that role switching is more of a headache for women. Definitely not crying about it, though.
/r/seduction07/11/13 11:38 PM
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I used to believe what you just said word for word. Don't believe it anymore.
/r/seduction07/11/13 11:33 PM
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Gotta wonder whether needing an edge in the first place comes from an intrinsic inability to trust people, though. Women are also people, I think.
/r/seduction06/11/13 05:09 AM
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Hell yeah this is what I was looking for. Keep it coming. I've been doing the MLTR thing for about a decade so if it sounded like I'm decrying anything, it's only because it's becoming increasingly unsatisfying speaking only for myself. Also, I moved so now I don't have any girls, ha ha. Edit: God, this really was genius. I fucking love seddit.
/r/seduction06/11/13 12:16 AM
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Yeah this owns
/r/seduction24/10/13 03:46 AM
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To be honest, I never saw a need to dive in head first. By the time I cold approached a total stranger, I had already approached a 4 set featuring one person I knew and got myself in with the others, or started a conversation with a girl I sat next to in a class or something, hundreds of times. Everything I ever did was a tiny step further than the last thing I did. If I cold approached a total stranger when I first got into the game, I would expect it to go horribly.
/r/seduction24/10/13 03:45 AM
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No, it's not a stupid question at all and there really is no advice for it. I am not a big scary guy, but people definitely take me seriously, and after doing some dangerous shit overseas a couple times, I've had periods where I came back "hard" and had to work to overcome it. The trouble is that most of the manosphere stuff is written from a perspective of not being taken seriously enough, or not intimidating people as much as they would like. Frankly, I think if you have the opposite problem, …
/r/seduction23/10/13 06:33 PM
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Didn't Roosh do this two dozen times over the course of 2010?
/r/seduction23/10/13 06:25 PM
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I'll keep it simple: ten years of experimenting, and this has NEVER worked for me. And it's not particularly enjoyable when you try it out.
/r/seduction21/10/13 03:26 PM
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Ooooooold school!
/r/seduction22/08/13 03:09 AM
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I'm glad you posted this because I'm about to do it myself. Personally, I've always been into the music scene, whether punk, metal, indie, dance, whatever. So I've honestly just found whatever hipster kids are around town and said "Hey, I just moved here, is there a show scene at all?" Then you have a pre-planned event to go to with someone, exchange contact, start seeing the same people around town, fall in with an established social circle. But I'm interested in doing in the way most people do…
/r/seduction13/08/13 12:32 AM
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Just...why?
/r/seduction13/08/13 12:24 AM
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So easy to hit a club meeting, then at the end say, "Hey, let's go grab a beer" to one or multiple people.
/r/seduction13/08/13 12:21 AM
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I put a lot of stock in the idea that you need to fundamentally change the way you think. "What do I say next?" That's a logical statement: you're saying when you start a conversation, one step logically follows the first step of introducing yourself. That's not how socializing works. People spend all week thinking about abstract shit that isn't happening right now. The economy, the TPS reports, whatever the fuck you do at work. People go out to engage the present moment and share positive emoti…
/r/seduction18/05/13 06:44 PM
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TofuTofu, I got into mASF in 2001 and I've been following the community since the MM days (So long ago, people still called it "The Community.) I started reading Seddit a week ago, and this is closer to the spirit of the original PUA scene than anything else currently in existence. I've been looking for this for a long time and I'm thrilled to hear you're writing a book. Great work and good luck, I look forward to supporting however I can.
/r/seduction16/05/13 09:46 PM
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I've begun bringing it up to ordinary girls at the bar. I say something about women and wait until they say, "I feel like it's actually GUYS that are overly emotional/attached/needy, though." They always do. I wait for it and say, "I only say this to you because you're a woman, so deep down I know you understand this, and you know it too. All women are equal, but there are two classes of men. 10% of men have all the sex, and 90% are losers. You want to have sex with the 10% and you want to date …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/13 10:05 AM
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I googled that and it has something to do with social justice. My contention is that the implementation of institutional "justice" by nature revives a biological system of social stratification wherein radical injustice exists on an interpersonal scale between humans of differing status. They don't want social justice; they just want things to be unfair in their favor, i.e. in a way that favors women and the men who play them. And come to think of it, that's what I want too, so you may have been…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/13 09:57 AM
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The one good thing you can categorically say about the matriarchy is that it embraces biological reality. Patriarchal societies are propped up by a value system rooted in mythology. I was blessed to be raised in a world where that myth was true. My father was a good man, my mother was a faithful woman, and we were raised to believe in the myth that this is the natural state of being. Our generation has the misfortune of confronting the fact that it is not, and the mixed blessing of deciding for …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/13 09:46 AM
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Society will not survive, alphas created civilization, and it is the revival of biological law, not the affluence created by economic progress, that built the playground. The most interesting thing about post-feminism's fundamental transvaluation is that it is NOT at odds with progress -- in fact, it facilitates the action of great men in a way that high patriarchy stifled. This world is already in free fall but the new world has already begun germinating, and this is what it looks like.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/13 08:45 AM
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You need to get past this way of thinking.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/13 08:32 AM
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Posted some verification texts on the blog. I am attractive only because behavioral, not physical cues, are what matter to women. I look okay. My social skills are exceptionally, uncommonly strong and they have gotten that way only through the pursuit of game. I am still ex-beta.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/13 11:55 PM
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Step 1: Rage because you're a nice guy. Step 2: Accept it. Step 3: Stop being a nice guy.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/13 10:06 PM
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Cuckoldry is the future and I am now specifically scouting out radical feminists to fuck while I train them to seduce asexual beta boyfriends. My expectation is that marriage rates will rise again when reproduction begins to occur entirely extramaritally. Marriage will exist only as a contract for the exchange of beta resources for female attention -- no more, no less.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/13 09:58 PM
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Any time. A male becoming a man is a bigger transformation than a child becoming an adult.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/13 08:50 PM
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Seems like it is, but please come out of it soon. A growing number of guys think getting mad about being male is what it means to be red pill. In fact, once you face it for long enough you stop giving a shit because you drop the myth that there was ever suppose to be equality, and learn to be one of the men who benefits from it.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/13 07:39 PM
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I still study this shit years after the novelty of free sex wore off. Why? Because women are the gateway to social power, and if you can work them, you can rule the world. I went through a phase like the one you're in now when I was your age (2 years ago) and I only came out of it when I discovered I could apply that same manipulation to maintaining good standing with the women around me, rather than playing them for the joy of playing. I now get with significantly hotter girls and do so without…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/13 07:15 PM
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Lol @ downvotes. This isn't open to interpretation y'all. There's only solid game and cold beta pain and rejection. And anyone with any recent experience interacting with real live women knows that accusing a girl of having shit manners and walking away is not solid game.
/r/askTRP25/01/13 08:27 AM
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If you actually read that as a rejection, you do not understand women.
/r/askTRP24/01/13 07:15 PM
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Not so sure. That sounds very butt hurt and promptly leaving after dropping some kind of "bomb" by definition means you are operating from a position of weakness. The OKCupid comment didn't seem remotely unusual or offensive to me and the girl obviously said it to weed out the type of guy insecure enough to get riled by it.
/r/askTRP24/01/13 04:28 PM
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I have a very different approach to game than most red pill guys, but when it comes to relationships they're all spot on. Heartiste's stuff on Dread is some of the best I've ever seen.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/13 03:55 PM
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Breathless, Juice, The original Alfie (can't stress this enough), Kids, A Streetcar Named Desire. I'll think of some more and throw them down later
/r/TheRedPill24/01/13 03:52 PM
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Dating every once in a while shows other women that you're capable of commitment and thus worth pursuing as a potential mate.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/13 01:40 AM
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Fair point. Take it for what it's worth, but that's partially the point. The blog has always revolved around the transition to a female-oriented society; now I am focusing most heavily on the fact that success will rely increasingly on assuming female modes of thought. Put simply, you can't think your way into status. It requires a different type of cognition. It is a shift in awareness and attention rather than a change in rational beliefs along any objective scale. It is a total engagement wit…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/13 09:44 PM
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Up vote. This is an incredibly relevant question.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/13 02:02 AM
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Positive response to Thoughts, January 16th as well: http://collapseofman.wordpress.com/2013/01/16/thoughts-january-16th/
/r/TheRedPill22/01/13 01:11 AM
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