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Get in the shower with the water off, close the door, take a deep breath, and count down 5... 4.... 3... 2.... 1... When you get to 1, without thinking, turn the handle. This is the same strategy I use for approaching in the field. The "counting down" element provides a blast of adrenaline and a brief moment of silence from the hectic world around me.
/r/seduction07/09/13 12:35 AM
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I understand that's RSD's thing. This is the first google image that comes up when I searched RSD Julien. I'm a straight dude, but you are very attractive. Do you understand why it seems a little fishy for an attractive person to be claiming looks don't matter? edit: found an old thread on this issue
/r/seduction05/04/13 04:14 AM
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Recently attended a hotseat in Miami. I was extremely impressed with your "bonus" day. Don't tell Tyler, but I thought it was way more useful than his day. Maybe I just like your style of game. As good as your game is, you have to admit you're an attractive man. Jeffy is a good looking guy too, and Tyler always says "I'm extremely white" but he is also pretty damn good looking. RSD is always huge on the "looks don't matter" thing, and while I agree in general with this principle, do you admit th…
/r/seduction05/04/13 03:55 AM
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I fucking found myself through solo travel.... literally became the person I am today. I've done 4 trips to Europe, all solo, and have had some seriously life changing moments, time after time.
/r/seduction17/02/13 04:11 AM
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It's an interesting balance between commanding respect, and being a cool, flexible guy. Would it actually bother me if a girl was 30 minutes late for coffee? Not really. If you overreact to what may not actually be a shit test, but in fact just a busy person, you might come across as a control freak. You certainly have to set boundaries about what you will and will not tolerate. But, you still gotta be cool. Not a pushover, though. It's a balance.
/r/seduction13/06/12 03:51 AM
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That's what keeps life fun for me. Specialization is for insects.
/r/seduction12/06/12 05:57 PM
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Without hesitation "what's his name?"
/r/seduction24/05/12 10:58 PM
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You had me 'til the lottery analogy. Don't play the lottery. Really, don't.
/r/seduction10/05/12 09:16 PM
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It's funny, I met a girl like this to a tee in SF and couldn't stand her. I later found out she's from Boston. She's still friends with my friends so I know I'll probably run into her again. Ugh.
/r/seduction04/04/12 08:19 PM
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Thank you for being brutally honest here. You're saying downplay it rather than own it.
/r/seduction23/03/12 06:14 AM
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Yes, I've used this to get laid in college a few times. Some girls love it, some girls hate it. But the ones that like it, really like it.
/r/seduction23/03/12 06:08 AM
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Dude. Thank you. I'm going to steal these for use in live combat.
/r/seduction23/03/12 06:05 AM
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I don't see this catching on in a mainstream way, ever. It's not in society's best interest. But yeah, XKCD neckbeard readers going "Pickup? BAD!" is a good thing.
/r/seduction10/03/12 03:38 PM
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I've come from a similar place in my life. I used to think "I'm nice, and in return, people take that niceness and are mean back to me." I realize now that's not how the world works. Anyway, I think the OP is talking more about coming from the mind frame of giving value.
/r/seduction10/03/12 06:42 AM
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Bravo. In SF we have a lot of hipsters, but they don't bother me at all. It's the fucking anti-hipsters that drive me nuts.
/r/seduction06/03/12 09:45 PM
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First off: I kinda hate daygame myself. It kind of sucks. The club is like a whole different world where anything goes. The real world... not so much. That said, I think you're taking the rejections too seriously. If I get rejected, which happens ALL THE TIME, I laugh. I've taken on a certain manifesto of "I don't care, and it doesn't matter". It's a very liberating thing. Hang in there bro. Think of it as developing a thicker skin. Rejection is good. And also: don't give up on day game. Instead…
/r/seduction04/03/12 07:32 AM
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Ctrl-F park ... nothing Wow, I can't believe no one else likes the park. In my city, hipster park is great for approaches. Just gotta sit down next to them quickly.
/r/seduction26/02/12 02:36 AM
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I think you're totally in the right. It seems like it was not really a pickup situation yet you approached people using the same set of skills. If you feel that you made their day (and you're own) better, I say you're in the right.
/r/seduction26/02/12 02:32 AM
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Also, I really recommend limiting the fapping. When you're standing there, in front of that hottie, with 5+ days of stored up semen, it's 10 times easier to make the move. Cause you WANT it. Mixed bag there. I do agree about wanting it more, but I think being overly horny reflects poorly on you. In my opinion you don't want to be dependent on someone else, or getting laid with randoms, for your sexual needs. It makes me too outcome-dependent.
/r/seduction11/02/12 11:15 AM
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I would totally listen. Do it to it.
/r/seduction31/01/12 12:43 AM
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Well, no. It's like 1/200. But still a crazy longshot.
/r/seduction05/01/12 11:37 PM
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Are you fluent in Swedish or do you just know a few phrases?
/r/seduction27/12/11 06:07 AM
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I don't know that that's the right take-away. I think "fap-in-moderation" is much better. It's funny, there's a subreddit /r/nofap/ which preaches this shit, and I tried it for a while. But in their own sidebar it gives a link to a study which says testosterone increases to max levels after 7 days of not fapping and then returns to normal levels. Everyone glosses over that last little caveat. To me, that says "fap once a week". Don't say that there, though... you'd probably get downvoted to obli…
/r/seduction16/11/11 08:41 PM
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Wanting girls has led me to me being a chode doormat most of life. Doing anything to get them. I see now why that doesn't work - I was going about it all wrong. But you must understand the paradox I'm getting at.
/r/seduction27/10/11 10:13 PM
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Counting parties, and counting going out by myself, 4 times. Mostly foreign girls. An American girl, a British girl, a Brazilian girl, and a German/Polish girl.
/r/seduction27/10/11 09:56 PM
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One thing I'm struggling with (as I'm just starting my journey into 'inner game') is the paradox I have to hold in my head. In order to attract girls, I can't want girls. I have to not give a fuck. I have to not want them. And I mean not just act like I don't want them, I have to actually convince myself I don't want them. I've seen this work time and time again. The problem is I actually do want girls. [Micro FR] Last weekend I went to a college football watching party at a sportsbar. It was an…
/r/seduction27/10/11 09:35 PM
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Good story; well played and well written. That missed kiss opportunity killed me. 20 seconds?! So what happened in bed?
/r/seduction24/10/11 08:19 PM
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I think the challenge for me comes after the brunette. You didn't give a fuck, and it lead to attracting a cute girl. But now, because something went well, I'd be in my head again, and not not giving a fuck. It's like if someone said to you "don't think about an elephant." What would you think about? An elephant!
/r/seduction23/10/11 09:26 PM
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a whole other "hunter killer" type mindset That's an interesting thought. If one of our tribal ancestors 50,000 years ago encountered a deer while hunting, they didn't think to themselves "gee golly here's a deer, should I try to kill it? what if it get's away? can I handle that?" The dude just went for it. I'm a "AFC" currently working my way out of that label. (I'm new to seddit and hate the lingo and acronyms to be honest.) I'll try to apply that mindset tonight.
/r/seduction18/10/11 07:50 PM
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Err, you stopped fapping? You must be having a high level of success getting laid then. For me, I'm struggling with that last bit, but I really don't want to appear overly horny - I think girls tend to see that a mile away. So the fapping continues, albeit at a less frequent rate.
/r/seduction18/10/11 07:38 PM
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I'm not really involved in seddit, but I have totally changed as a person in the since mid-2009 and loss of interest in video games has totally been one of many symptoms. I rarely watch TV for that matter either. I'd rather be doing something that yields some sort of good feeling about myself. As a matter of fact right now I'm in Poland travelling (been here in Eastern Europe the last month) and it's my second to last night here. I'm going go out solo in about 20 minutes and try to meet one of t…
/r/seduction18/10/11 07:35 PM
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Thank you for reposting this. I read it at 12:30am last night and it inspired me to go out solo here in Poland (where I'm visiting). Energy and friendliness lead to me dancing with a perfect 10 girl for 2 hours. I had an amazing time.
/r/seduction30/09/11 02:49 PM
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