ArseOfValhalla Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Is sex better when you’re older? We met on a dating app but actually I am the one who asked him out for the first date so.... what's the point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 01:52 PM
1	Is sex better when you’re older? yes! There was only ONS that was pretty decent (not amazing) but the rest were crap. The best sex is with my guy now and I'm in my mid 30s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/23 03:11 PM
1	Do women care about the type of job you have? Personally I would go with who I enjoy hanging out with more, not the status of how much money he makes or what his job is. Sure, money is nice, but I also make my own money so that's whatever. I am more of a homebody and prefer nerds so I would love to play DND or board games/video games, binge an entire show over the weekend etc. I have nights and weekends free so I would prefer to date someone who also is like that. I don't think I could date someone who couldn't sit still and had to constant…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/22 07:19 PM
1	Sexless marriage is a form of abuse. You literally married someone who you had a lackluster sex life with to begin with. Why did you expect it to just change because you got married? Get divorced and stop blaming your wife for you inadequacies. Guaranteed she isn't turned on by you complaining of your small pee pee. there are guys how there with micro dicks who get their partners turned on and have amazing sex with. (a friend of mine is one of them). she loves having sex with him because its not all about him, which a lot of women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 04:42 PM
1	How many of y'all are actually in successful LTR? Well I was in a LTR but we divorced at year 15. I learned a lot because of that. I am in a new relationship and its lasted over 2 years. I bring a lot of baggage but also a lot of lessons and I feel like it really helps in this relationship. Takes a lot of work that I didnt really do in the first one. I let a lot of things slide (as I am sure he did as well). So my goal is to communicate more AND communicate better. It can be really hard though. It's definitely easier to give up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 09:10 PM
3	If "men are loyal" and women are opportunistic, how do you explain the concept of "starter girlfriends" and the phenomena of men leaving their SO when they achieve a certain level in life? Sure was. Read it and I get it. But I personally know multiple men who have left their wives once she got sick and I have yet to meet a wife who left when her husband got sick. but also, many couples stayed together. So while the study was retracted, I personally know men who have left and no women did. Not saying that is 100% the case, just in my personal life I know it to be true. My bestie got cancer 6 years ago and her husband couldn't handle it and once she was in remission and got better -…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/22 05:23 PM
8	If "men are loyal" and women are opportunistic, how do you explain the concept of "starter girlfriends" and the phenomena of men leaving their SO when they achieve a certain level in life? If men were loyal, they also wouldnt leave once women got sick. Unlike women who stay when the man gets sick. psh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/22 02:11 PM
1	The "female gaze" vs "male gaze" and why as a guy I get so annoyed at the explanations Also, Leonard from Big Bang theory sort of does it for me too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 04:09 PM
1	The "female gaze" vs "male gaze" and why as a guy I get so annoyed at the explanations Yeah to me... henry is all the male gaze, for sure. Is he good looking any time of the day - yes. He is obviously attractive. The female gaze to me, just speaking of my own preference, is someone like Aragorn from LOTR. I looooove him in that. Dirty, bloody, sweaty, can kick anyones a*** and also kind and loving and a great protector of the "weak". That is the ideal man I think about. But Viggo Mortenson in real life.... nah. Not my type in looks or really how he is. So the female gaze is a lot …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/22 04:08 PM
2	Women have more to offer than men If women felt safer around men - we would probably have those type of things available to us as well. Sex is just not as important to me as my life is. I would never go to a male prostitute because I don't a man that I do not know. And men are.... sort of creepy. Not gonna lie. I also think women are just sexier than men as well. Men think muscles are what every woman wants in a man and that is just not the case (in my opinion). A woman's body is much more pleasurable to look at. It's also so we…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 03:37 PM
1	Who else doesn't date people from broken homes and crappy families? I mean.... does anyone come from a truly unbroken home? Even parents that I have never seen fight or aren't divorced, cheatings on each other, absent, controlling etc. have other problems. So really, these just seem like your own issues with these sort of people. My ex-husband has technically great parents. Been together their whole lives, no fighting in front of kids or around kids or talk about their fights with their kids etc, actually love each other, dotes on each other, somewhat great pare…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 03:10 PM
2	How do we "choose better partners"? I think the main thing is to not ignore red flags you see. Obviously red flags are different for everyone so there is no proper way to answer that but when we see them, we should be more confident in just saying bye to that person. And obviously we should voice our boundaries more in the beginning and if they are ignored or whatever, then we shouldn't let them continue to push those boundaries. I think once we "found" someone willing to date us then as a whole we get too scared of being single a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 01:50 PM
1	I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date? I was definitely happier single than when I was married. I still dated though. Out of loneliness mainly. People are allowed to enjoy being single but also go out and that's ok! But once I was ok with being alone, dating was the last thing on my mind. It was a lot of fun going out to eat or hiking or going to concerts by myself. Didn't have to deal with anyone else and I could do whatever I wanted. Then when I was ready, dating also was easier because I didn't get the f*** boys, or put up with th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 04:10 PM
2	On Men claiming they need women, and women feel the need to prove how independent they are... Oh, definitely. I'm not saying women don't take those roles "because there harder," I was just pointing out women don't take those roles because of how they are treated when they do. There are plenty of women who do work in those jobs and plenty of men who work in "womens" jobs. I dont think men get treated in the same way that women get treated in those jobs designated for men. I have had friends leave their IT jobs because of men specifically. She now works for a woman in the same field and sa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 09:24 PM
5	On Men claiming they need women, and women feel the need to prove how independent they are... I actually agree with this. Thinking one gender couldn't do what the other gender does is baffling. Also why do you think there aren't more women who work into the fields that are run generally by men. and its BECAUSE of the men. If it was easier to work in those fields, women would do it but they dont as often because men are ruthless to women. I have heard it countless times. Women leaving STEM fields because of the men. Or not staying as a working mechanic because of Men. But if all the men w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 07:05 PM