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| 0 | Where to take a girl out? -Input Please? | ArtAboveAll | /r/seduction | 19/02/11 04:39 AM |
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| 1 | Girl starts to talk about another guy, what do I do in this type of situation?Could you explain the relevance of the videos/the point you're trying to make, as I'm a bit confused by them. Is it good or bad to have friends of the opposite gender? | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 02:31 AM |
| 1 | How Do YOU meet people? I'm 23/F with social anxiety. I have no friends, and I'm SO bored with my routine life. Advice?From what I've been reading so far, you're very eloquent when you speak and respond to the people here. Try and capture that, because I feel that if you were a bit more comfortable around people, you'd be very interesting to talk to. Also, I'd be aware of any guys (or girls) who start a conversation with you. If they start a conversation they obviously want to get to know you, so I'd suggest making a special effort to keep a conversation going with these people (And get their number). Simply get… | /r/seduction | 05/10/12 02:06 AM |
| 2 | What are some tricks/games that are easy to learn and use in the field?A "game" I like is "The Cube". It's basically cold reading, but some people find it interesting. Nim is another game I like, especially since if played right you can't lose. It makes making bets easy. I learned it from scamschool as well | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Noob needing some one to hear me outI'm not an expert but this is my take: Your sister is basically setting you two up. It's basically a good impression that's made before even meeting. Excellent IMO. As for openers? The football game would probably be a good start. I feel opening a conversation is trivial compared to holding a good one. A rocky start is forgotten if the conversation is engaging, but an awkward broken conversation is the worst. Here's an easy trick for how to keep conversations going. Also, good for you on reading… | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 03:38 AM |
| 3 | My shits all fucked from 16 years of heavy handed Christianity and some early on bad experience with women.How has being entertaining and charming kept the girls away? I can't help but feel that's the end goal of any good inner game, along with solid confidence. But if you're putting up your own barriers, just pay attention, and the next time you catch yourself distancing yourself - stop. You don't have to go any further, but you can't back out. If you just get past that anxiety/discomfort/guilt by pushing a bit further each time you'll be fine. And don't bother thinking you're crude or bothersome, t… | /r/seduction | 26/08/12 03:23 AM |
| 2 | My shits all fucked from 16 years of heavy handed Christianity and some early on bad experience with women."And the the worst part is that I am good at parties and at entertaining large groups of girls, but I always feel like I have to distance myself, and have never been able to bridge the gap." If you're good at parties and entertaining girls (large groups or otherwise) you have potential. Though, when you say bridge the gap, what specifically do you mean? | /r/seduction | 26/08/12 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Fun games to play with your wingman instead of boringly approaching?Those are my personal favorite as well. I have one called the "Sly Stephens". It starts off looking like that classic trick where you look at the card above the one the person picks, and then you shuffle the deck and look for the card again. But in my trick, as soon as they take the card you can just tell them what it is. | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 12:31 PM |
| 3 | Fun games to play with your wingman instead of boringly approaching?It's not so much a game, but you could turn it into a competition of sorts. - You get one night to learn and perfect a magic trick, and then you meet up the next day. When you meet on of you becomes the wingman for a bit, you ask your friend to show you the magic trick around some cute girls. One of two things happens: 1) They notice and come look OR 2) Your wingman (or you if you're the wingman) has to "grab" the person/merge with their group to "test" if the magic trick is real. After you leav… | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, what have you all found as the best advice for staying out of the friend zone?Could you explain outcome independent a bit more? And should the lifestyle be talked about, or should it be able to be noticed without talking about it? | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 01:41 AM |
| 1 | What is your best response to "friend zone"?"If she doesn't get it and keeps bitching at you about dudes, I dunno, man, truth be told this is a big question I have, too... " IMHO, if she keeps on bitching to you about other guys (and that's any more than 50% f what she talks to you about) then you're (less than) a friend. I've been friends with girls where the conversations were just about her dramas any time we talked, and after the drama was dealt with we couldn't hold a decent conversation to save our lives. So either way, you're proba… | /r/seduction | 28/06/12 02:41 AM |
| 2 | When do you kiss them?Also, you want to build up a bit with Kino before hand. I found this link to a Kino escalation ladder, and think it'll be useful to yopu as well. Here's the link: http://www.seductiontuition.com/vin-dicarlo/dicarlo-escalation-ladder.html | /r/seduction | 19/06/11 02:11 AM |
| 3 | When do you kiss them?Yeah. I like to quote Neil Strauss' "The Game", as it's what introduced me to the community. But this little gem is right from the book : "You asked how to tell if she's ready. The way to tell is the other three- second rule. It works 100 percent of the time. While sitting close, just let the conversation trail off Look her in the eye while you pause the conversation. If she looks back for a count of three seconds, she wants to kiss. The uncomfort- ableness you may experience is my favorite thin… | /r/seduction | 19/06/11 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Help? This situation sucks D:Like, cocky funny, and kino and all that. Be the "Alpha Male" in all simpleness. | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Trying to PUA, now i'm the local douchebag. What Do?I second this whole heartedly, but you can't please everyone as RobotGymnast has said. Though if it's her ex, then I wouldn't worry too much. his "Hissy-fits" are probably making him look like the douche, especially if the girls are enjoying it. Though if all the guys aren't ahpy then ease up a tad and see if that helps. | /r/seduction | 06/03/11 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Help? This situation sucks D:I also found this link. It'd be helpuful for you I'd think. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/fwu1o/girls_attracted_has_boyfriend_how_to_keep_that/ | /r/seduction | 05/03/11 03:43 AM |
| 18 | Thank you Seddit. And I bid you adieu."To win the game was to leave it." Words of Style himself. Good luck out there. Real life awaits you. :P | /r/seduction | 05/03/11 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Help? This situation sucks D:Hold your own. If she's flirting with you, then that's a good sign. Do what you're doing until an opportunity arises. Cause "stealing" her from her BF, I'd think that'd land you in the freind zone as well. | /r/seduction | 05/03/11 03:16 AM |
| 1 | seddit, help me throw a houseparty! [x-post from askreddit]If you're worried about the wrong crowd being at your house, then hang with the right crowd. :P But I think, that thursday might be better to send the invitations out with, that way anyone who actually wants to come, will. | /r/seduction | 05/03/11 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Where to take a girl out? -Input Please?Question. Should I delete this now that I've reposted it? | /r/seduction | 20/02/11 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Where to take a girl out? -Input Please?That's a really good one. Thumbs-up | /r/seduction | 19/02/11 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Where to take a girl out? -Input Please?Sure. Will do. | /r/seduction | 19/02/11 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Get to her to act a slut w/o feeling guiltyIs that a compliment or an insult? :P And I was always the kind of person to plan things out step by step, to every exact detail, so the only I can see plausible deniability is by sorting out some sort of alibi. Mind clarifying on plausible deniability for me? | /r/seduction | 19/02/11 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Get to her to act a slut w/o feeling guiltyI understand what you're saying, and completely agree. The one thing I don't get is how can you convince her that people aren't judging her. I have a philosophy that "Emotion trumps Logic", so you can't explain it to her without screwing things over. So my question is, "How do convince her that she's not being judged, while not ruining your chances?" | /r/seduction | 18/02/11 02:49 AM |
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