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Or maybe she'll be smart and learn from the mistakes of the cat ladies on this sub. Who knows. It's a coin toss Also my little pony lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:54 PM
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We don't really lol.or atleast men with any common sense don't. It makes perfect sense from the woman's perspective ( most of the time ) we more so point it out for amusement
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:52 PM
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20 turning 21 soon
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 08:05 PM
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High standards are a double edge sword . On the one hand if they payoff does come it'll likely last longer and be sweeter, on the other hand there has to be unlucky people for others to be lucky by comparison so yeah it doesn't always pan out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 11:08 PM
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Ofcourse, having power is not equivalent to exerting it. But it usually isn't the case
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 02:39 PM
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Can't really say due to cultural variance. Where I live very few if any would be willing to be in an open harem so I'm gonna go with 2% harem 58 % would settle for a guy below what they want and 40% would remain single
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:47 AM
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It's still not pleasant tbh. I feel like I'm between a rock and a hard place. Either I go for something undery standards and feel unsatisfied and probably have a shitty relationship or I stay alone and feel lonely, I do admire people who handle being alone well
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:44 AM
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Nobody ever said they could choose who aroused them. Now that said if they don't practice any amount of self restraint and land themselves in a relationship with a n asshole just because he gave them the hots don't expect others to feel bad for them. I think that's fair enough no?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:35 AM
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Some would some wouldn't
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:32 AM
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What point are you trying to make here. Pretty sure everyone agrees with "you can't get pussy because bad genes oh well poor you better luck choosing parents next time"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:32 AM
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Ok bot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:31 PM
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TIL water is wet what else do you wanna teach me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 05:30 PM
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No. The fuck is the point in that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 10:19 AM
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where in any of my comments do i ever bring up success rates
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:52 AM
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4 . Find it Frankly repugnant hit to each their own
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:13 AM
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There has been billions of people on earth. Million is none but a drop in a bucket
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:55 PM
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dating yes but finding a permanent partner at 45 is more uncommon than at younger ages
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:30 PM
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youre married though you arent the audience this post was aimed towards
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 09:58 PM
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s not just the hoarding but the hoarding is part of a broader picture. Other than me, he doesn’t have anyone who cares for him and he doesn’t care for anybody. He had cats but the cats all died, which is sad but just as well, since he didn’t clean up after them either. just dont come over i doubt hes strong enough to drag you to wherever the fuck he lives
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 09:48 PM
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again you are the exception not the rule, i am not a proponent of settling but understand that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 09:45 PM
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exception not the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 09:43 PM
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I did state that it was off the top of my head. Its a massive issue with no real solution as of now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:16 PM
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like think about it if you have a kid just to reliably be able to keep them away from porn youd have to block: any access to the internet homeschool them because otherwise theyll get it from other kids and thats just off the top of my head, ofcourse if the effort was on an entire societal level it would be way more doable , as much as i hate the idea in some ways im starting to think that a sort of ID to be able to access adult content might not be a bad call, and then life in prison for anyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:13 PM
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porn accesibility is becoming a bigger issue by the day and also more unsolveable too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:02 PM
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I never really got to the point of considering what it would look like and whether it would be an overall positive because it's not gonna happen. And no in any case I wouldn't go that route , I don't particularly care about personal freedoms but forcing someone to marry and be with someone they don't like is a recipe for unhappy people which is not what I wish . To give any suggestions on cultural changes I'd have to know which parts of women and men's behaviours are biological , gene driven and…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 01:30 AM
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Lol. I wouldn't put that past some hypothetical future government as a way to foment fertility if it wasn't for the fact that by the time it was implemented it would be pointless for that purpose as lab grown babies would probably be perfectly doable. What I think will happen is sexlessness among men will increase dramatically in the coming decades and at some point as technology gets so incredibly advanced that you can achieve pretty much equal levels of sexual satisfaction without a real human…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 10:53 PM
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while i agree its an unsolveable issue without a major cultural overhaul
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 09:05 PM
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I don't see the appeal of being a fuckboy tbh. I would rather a more or less stable sexual experience in both quality and quantity with someone I actually care about
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:00 PM
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I'm surprised we agree on something, unless you're being ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:51 PM
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"it's just slut shaming " No, it is slut shaming (which is good eitherway ( fuck boys aswell) ) but it's also true. A whore is much less likely to make for a good loyal partner
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:45 PM
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You make a fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 11:02 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 10:57 AM
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Who's bap
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 10:56 AM
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They can very much hurt you just not directly.. just because unsatisfied men don't beat or sexually assault women usually these days doesn't mean it's not affecting the society you live in , granted it's not your problem to fix at all but saying it doesn't affect you is disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 10:44 AM
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Can you not maliciously twist what I say thank you very much. I clearly stated sometimes obviously on many occasions it's the man / woman losses fault but often it's because of questions outside of their control . For example looks . Eitherway I wouldn't mind dating a girl who was a "loser" TM so Im obviously not gonna equate it to being a whore
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 10:10 AM
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That's a very bad mentality. You wouldn't respect Genghis khan yet listening to him would've been a good way to learn about military strategy. Learn yo separate art from artist. It's another thing if you just flat out disagree with what tucker Carlson here says which is fine
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 09:59 AM
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I'm a grade A sucker for pointless arguments. It's my hobby if you will lol but yeah you're right
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 09:57 AM
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There's a difference. Being a nerdy loser doesn't indicate anything about ones suitability as a loyal partner. You don't always choose to be a loser but being a whore is a choice . I don't sleep around and therefore do not wish to associate with women who do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 09:38 AM
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I enjoy romance and very much appreciate femininity.. there's also the fact that I really really do not find the idea of being alone in my later years appealing in the slightest I might even go as far as to say that amount of loneliness would scare me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 12:41 AM
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This is gonna be a spicy one do we have popcorn boys ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 10:03 PM
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Strawmaning . When anybody says women like rap fantasies in surprisingly large numbers they are obviously referring to consensual fantasies where the woman gives away consent for some period of time to her partner at her disgression to feel dominated or whatever the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 09:55 PM
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On the subject of virgins how do women looking for low n count men vet. Like for men is relatively easier because n count 0 usually means a hymen ( although I'm fully aware that there is a large amount of virgin women who don't have them for different reasons ) but we men have no indicators that I can think of physically. Id guess the way they act?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 02:52 PM
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Yeah but what if they carried away and take a bite
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:57 PM
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"as often as you want" ehh this really depends on the couple
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:57 PM
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Tbf not everyone has a nice shapely skull
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 11:53 PM
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No. Well yes but no. There's probably someone out there for 99.99 % of people . Unfortunately we don't meet 7 billion humans in our lifetimes. So no
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 03:59 PM
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My answer covers that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:58 PM
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Depends how we define reasonable. If we tie it to probably / realistically obtainable on average then probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:48 PM
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You are conflating two things . A submissive existing and said submissive being used. Your arguement falls to pieces if both wife and husband are subs. You are also conflating agreeableness with not being good enough for a human. Have you considered some subs leave everything up to their partners simply because they don't give a shit or would rather outsource the effort of making some decisions not because they're too dumb to think
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:43 PM
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Why do we have these threads weekly. Anyone can expect / want anything Nobody has the obligation to give anyone anything It's gonna end up being a combination of luck and your value if you get the thing you want
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:35 PM
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The stereotype goes that stay at home wives are unempowered and stupid atleast where I live
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 12:14 AM
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It's always nice when someone who expects traditional gender roles reciprocates. That said I think a balance is nice. I rather admire my grandmother style of stay at home wife. She managed to become incredibly well educated ( more than most college folk in general matters ) by spending most of her free time reading. A stay at home wife you can hold a conversation with would be rather unappealing imo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 11:29 PM
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Large scale
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:52 PM
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I'd actually be happier with a pre sexual revolution but free to choose sort of dating meta. But pre internet would still be miles better than the current joke
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:30 PM
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Nobody wants forced arranged marriages back.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 05:27 PM
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So he can get his wrinkly dick wet
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:56 AM
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as someone else said us guys dont call it that but they do exist for both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:10 PM
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They just want someone easy to manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:02 PM
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They'd all be screaming bloody murder if it was their daughters, this is why I think a rigid 18 year old adulthood moment is fucking stupid when the mental difference between a 18 and 40 year old is comparable to that of a 12 and 19 year old. But I understand a scaling age gap system would be rather annoying to work with legally speaking
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:40 PM
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nah, why do i feel like this sub is sometimes full of borderline pedophilic 40 year old men tryna justify how they go for barely legal girls, sadly i cant make them hang for it but expecting me to not even dissaprove lmao ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 05:50 PM
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Tell me which culture tall isn't preferred you sweet summer child ? Oh wait. There's none that exist on a large scale . This is raw human instinct. Sure some girls deviate from the mean but not enough for there not to be a clear trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:38 AM
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Lmfao it's not 1% lol and it will be 30% when gen z ers hit 30 with rising sexlessness
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:33 AM
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we have fallen so low we have let the bottleneck to a large part of human reproduction and relationships in general upto a single corporation, this is sick
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:15 PM
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Some women being vague doesn't suddenly make the meaning of the word change to that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:13 PM
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Everyone has ego it's how you manage it and how good looking you are that make it good or bad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:12 PM
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Alright roll this one back this is fucking stupid settling never ends well I say let dumb ones among them continue to fuck only 9/10 men regardless of their personality. They'll make good laughing material in 20 years for me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:37 PM
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Sympathy is cheap. Especially when the issue has no obvious realistic solution so who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:35 PM
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Days like these make me want to believe parents iq isn't related to their children's. But even if it was the case having idiots for parents would screw up even the brightest of kids
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:29 PM
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Unfortunately idiots seem to breed more. Maybe because they don't think before fucking and are less likely to use condoms
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:26 PM
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Our dignity because we would look dumb as fuck. I don't even know why women wear them but I'm not about to copy stupid shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:50 PM
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10mm is nothing . It's 1 cm.thats barely over a third of an inch. Aka not worth lying about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:47 PM
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Id rather be caught dead than use a height extender. I'll keep my mediocre 5 foot 9-10ish
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:45 PM
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That was some rather low quality bait even by your standards might wanna work on that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:06 AM
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i second passepar2t, although im purple pill not RP but eitherway my perspective is very much "it is what it is" since any solution on a massive scale would require massive social change or incredibly stringent limitations on ones freedoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:25 PM
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....... I feel like I'm being trolled. You can't possibly be this obtuse. I'm saying that women can fucking delay sex as away to shittest men and see if they stick around. Obviously this ability only works in the realm of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:49 PM
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Don't strawmen or maliciously misenterpret to suit your interests Midwest . I specifically meant in the area of finding a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:43 PM
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Well women who are stupid as fuck and actually get fooled by these guys will probably end up alone and hopefully childless so their stupidity can't pass on to the next generation
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:41 PM
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Because women have an in built extremely effective bullshit detection test called "delaying sex" . Literally filters out most of the trash ..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:28 PM
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That's the thing . Lots of women are too fucking dumb as fuck to realize when they are in a soft harem . The ones who aren't will mostly stay single yeah .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:19 PM
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Some do but that aside. You could still reduce sexlessness without infringing on anybody's bodily autonomy. Like for example changing society in a way that makes more of the "would be sexless men" appealing and therefore making women gravitate towards them. That said I don't consider any amount of sexlessness an issue so I wouldn't bother doing even that if I were incharge
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 10:18 PM
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I second this lol. I'm not a monkey I have other things to do . If sex walks into my life then great. If not then oh well. Some fucking thirsty fucks act like it's some sort of human right lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 08:08 PM
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Likely to be low N count or preferably 0 so better relationship material. Plus the fact that I'm low libido so it's not a big issue . The relationship interest is more about the emotional part . The only issue would be if she doesn't want to have sex because she's not attracted to me. Aslong as that isn't the case then kdc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:43 PM
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def number 1
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:06 PM
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Not the same sort of love. And it's not love you win. It's a prize without the effort. It's nice that parents generally love their kids but it's a give for most of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:32 AM
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This lol. Very few of us are interested
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:28 AM
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Sure. But even discarding the massive difference between parental affection and partner / romantic affection it's how they are obtained that matters alot . For people with normal parent they didn't have to do anything to gain that love it was just there . It's the fact that a stranger was interested enough in you to want to form a romantic bond after a period that makes one feel validated
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:25 AM
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Doubt it . It's legal in lots of Europe and most "incels" don't engage
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:23 AM
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Apples to oranges
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:22 AM
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ill marry a taco bell girl with a brain not one without one, i want a girlfriend / wife who can hold her own in a conversation or im just going to get bored of them, also some degree of sub is nice but doormats are kinda eh. but i mostly agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:09 PM
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And I agree 4/10 and lower is just such a shitty place to be probably
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 12:08 PM
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Yup. My trouble isn't getting women's attention. It's retaining it. I'm very socially awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 12:06 PM
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Part of it yes . Others being just being healthier and happier overall from keeping myself in better condition
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:48 AM
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Wdym? It's a simple cost analysis . As in "am I going to put in X amount of effort to get Y " I don't see the issue..if you are saying men should keep in shape / improve themselves for their own good not for pussy then I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:46 AM
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Nope I never said that. It's just many men don't consider the prize worth the effort. That's all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:43 AM
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Because there is a hard cap . I know that I'll never really be more than a 7/10 which is what I was reportedly when I was in good shape. Like everything a big amount is self improvement the other part is genetic lottery
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:40 AM
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Well at that point I'd buy my own and just enjoy the companionship part of the relationship lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:27 AM
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If I sucked so much that the robot was better I'd be on my way to taking a leap of faith off a 7 th floor
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 01:03 AM
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Oh sure most men would prefer a real woman like no shit lol. It's just whether that preference offsets the additional risk and effort is the question at hand . The same reason I enjoy a lovely roast but still eat instant noodles. Humans are lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:34 PM
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If we're going as far as replacing a whole gender it might be easier to just gene edit the parts that lead to conducts we don't desire in society out from both genders. Since it's a pretty much permanent solution that gets automatically passed down to the next generation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:25 PM
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Why would the relationship searchers be pissed. As someone who's only interested in relationships I'd be estatic . A large chunk of the horny types would now self select out of competing with me .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:23 PM
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I think It largely depends on the type of chad and the quality of the sex robots. If the sex is better than your average real woman I can see alot of horny chads taking the easy way out if it doesn't have too bad of a stigma. The ones who are in it for relationships wouldnt be interested though obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:20 PM
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I can't discern the woman's looks through the blubber. The guy looks good . Above average for sure and probably quite handsome for some girls tastes . Idk I'm a straight dude not exactly qualified to judge here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:16 PM
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Well I guess that's a win win if it does happen? If they're busy fucking robots they won't be as noisy online . And irl itll make no difference to most women who already saw these men as little more than shitstains except now they'll be spending even more time shut in doors . I wonder if attractive guys would go for it. Because then it would affect women and the dynamics would be very different
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:14 PM
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Doubt. Incels aren't usually created through alternatives to real sex but due to them being unfuckable in the first place. So I don't see why it would increase the numbers meaningfully compared to other causes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:10 PM
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A stupid concept that would never work
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:12 PM
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It's not just bad relationships with dad it's often Nov actually even a dad at all it's mom's newest boyfriend because mom is a whore without an eye for good men and landed herself without a proper dad to raise her daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:28 PM
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never denied that, its what they do IN the game that seperates men and women, the game i currently play the most has a good chunk of female players but most of them are creating levels or community managers, etc... whilst the top 100 competitive players are 99 men and one woman. my point is that even if men and women enjoys games equally the way we interact with them and out interests still differ
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:35 PM
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Ofcourse they do but they often play them for different reasons and most importantly different genres whic indicate that there's still a split
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:26 PM
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This only half works. I agree that getting a good job is fundamental but even with money some men arent into prostitutes since the main interest in a partner for many is the intimate relationship side which jerking off and prostitutes will never give
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:24 PM
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They like to skip this little dilemma since it fucks up their comfortable little view of most of these men being self made losers and there was absolutely no social hierarchy outside that may have caused it because that would be preposterous
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:22 PM
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I never did blame others. And this was in general not just about me. I tried the girlfriend thing already. Too much effort
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:12 PM
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What if they don't want to try because they don't think the reward (being better regarded by others, getting a girlfriend etc...) Isn't worth it. I agree on the blaming others part though..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:10 PM
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I'll define what I consider winning for myself thank you very much and for me that's a stable income with enough to comfortably pay for hobbies and my needs. If you want to consider me a loser for not being out there woman hunting or trying to be an extrovert I frankly don't give much of a fuck lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:08 PM
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Eh. I think due to natural proclivities women will always form a lower percentage of gamers. ( And even inside of games the sort of games each gender stray towards generally are very different)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:05 PM
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Youre not totally wrong but you are wrong about how it usually happens it's not usually becoming unfuckable because of videogames, it's usually not being popular from an early age and resorting to videogames afterwards. Which is why you find a discrepancy in terms of looks and innate charisma between shut ins and popular people. It's a consequence not a cause
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:03 PM
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It already is for men my age ( 17-25 range )
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:58 AM
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How do you define loser out of curiosity? Is the differentiating factor how they feel or how they are perceived?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:58 AM
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No It really isn't..it's more like a vestigial organ. It had it's time and it's usefulness but now it just causes more trouble than it should
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:43 AM
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The more I read these autistic as shit "fuck ok the first date" posts the more I want to jump out of the fucking window. First, going after a girl who fucks on the first night is a great way to land yourself a slut . Which is great for casual but not good for an ltr Second, unless she's doing it selectively I don't see the fucking issue . Some people don't feel comfortable having sex with people until a whiles down the road. There's other ways to gauge if she's interested Like Jesus fuck the amo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:29 AM
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I never spoke for woman I gave my view as an outsider on what I perceive to be happening
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:47 PM
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Notice how it specifically says 20 years. I'm stating feminism has not bettered woman's position overall since the 2000s roughly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:46 PM
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Yes. According to a man. Men have ears and eyes. Im not a dog either so does that mean I can't know stuff relating to dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:41 PM
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I agree eugenics will happen but I think it's unavoidable and therefore if I were a countries leader I'd have a department with funding equal to the militaries specifically for it. If dirty games need to be played to win then so be it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:40 PM
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So now us less attractive men can be lonely for 150 years!! Yupppee ! Nah fuck that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:39 PM
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Bitch about shit without helping women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:37 PM
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And by don't need to offer anything I mean it should be them that take the initiative to solve most of their issues
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:37 PM
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Depends what you define as feminism. I encourage equal rights I agree that women have issues which men rarely have ( although I'm extremely pissed off by how women handle these in ways which are counter productive ) I don't encourage the whole sexual liberation shtick though. Do I think women should be able to go be whores ? Yes . Do I think it's counterproductive to being happy later in life? Double yes. But eitherway I don't need to offer women anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 06:36 PM
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not really, the pills are mostly in reference to straight people dating, which is why you see a lack of exclusively homosexual people here, the dynamics at play are so different that its irrelevant for them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:07 PM
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Maybe some average guys who think that these high end men are taking up the few women they would've had a chance with? Idk thats the only reason I can think of
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 09:12 PM
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tbf being in the kitchen nowadays is a much better deal than it was back then lol, you can do jack shit most of the time while appliances to do the heavy lifting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:39 PM
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yet woman vote for policies that bring these fine people over to western countries. sometimes i dont understand how people can be so obtuse
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:37 PM
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Not for a living no but whenever something needs moving and it's heavy I don't see the women around me volunteering in any capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:32 AM
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Thing is, socially stunted is a self perpetuating loop that's very hard to break free of. If you're not social as a kid you usually learn to live without socializing as much as possible, which in turn worsens the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 11:33 PM
4

Literally. And I say this as a straight virgin man. Do I wanna get laid / have a girlfriend ( granted my stringent standards are to blame I've had women be interested in me ) ? Yup . But I know it might not happen so it is what it is. Sex isn't some sort of human right lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 11:31 PM
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Problem kinda implies it has to be fixed. And I believe that's neither necessary nor gonna happen. Being prepared for a ( atleast relatively) womenless life is something all men ( especially those on the lower end of the attractiveness scale men should prepare for, we aren't monkeys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 11:28 PM
4

So the only men who exist either look like a dad or a femboy. Ok sure..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:50 AM
3

Wouldn't most of them be estatic that their man can land "top tier" women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:44 PM
4

Because metoo was focused mainly on Hollywood atleast initially which probably has the highest density of men who deserve to be hanged in the world ? It's almost as if powerful morally bankrupt superstar men are more like to be abusers who woulda thunk it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 06:40 PM
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Depends on how it comes about. If it's an illness that destroys one gender over 40 years. Then maybe yeah with enough planning. If all men or women are suddenly vanished tomorrow then no. Because most people have parents/ partners / children etc. Of the opposite sex and the amount of distress it would cause to most of the remaining people would destroy society in no time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 02:54 PM
1

thats all an option. the most likely outcome. i was just proposing a solution that doesnt end in mass murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:00 PM
2

Misread. I agree. In first world countries men who women have no interest dating or fucking (or family) are just perceived nuisances. But I think pretty much everyone agrees on this.its not a revelation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:27 PM
9

*most men have no value to woman nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:16 PM
1

I agree. But I wouldn't be against a Singapore type system.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 03:42 PM
45

some people just dont like fucking early on. who would have thought some humans dont act like rabbits in heat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:50 PM
1

Eh I agree but don't. I do think when automation is extensive enough that people are unemployable some sort of socialism will be necessary to avoid mass uprisings
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 11:48 PM
1

Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 03:17 PM
6

I should note.. the sort of woman who wouldn't like a guy for being a virgin is exactly the sort I don't wanna touch with a ten foot pole. so really it's just doing me a favour. Keep it up ladies :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:31 PM
8

Virgin here. Honestly don't give a shit. Have had women approach me at parties and such ( although I was like 15 at the time so it was most likely more to make out than sex) but I wasn't interested because of a romantic hangup I had. Either way even if it wasn't voluntary ( which who knows I don't care enough to try so whatever) deducing my whole value off my ability to get my dick wet seems shortsighted..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:29 PM
5

Nah she isn't. Well yes but no. Most women want low N count with the ability to have a stupidly N count.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:24 PM
1

my point was that would you be ok with him being physically weaker than you yes or no
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:10 PM
5

I'm happy for you. (And I tiny bit jealous NGL lmao) treat her well you've got yourself a rare specimen
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:43 AM
1

Say Narnia . And be honest. How would you feel if you could beat your husband up?. I bet you'd lose some amount of respect atleast.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:26 AM
2

Not the issue. The issue is the perception of them in many circles is sadly "dumbfucks who couldn't go to uni" even if they make twice as much as a uni graduate. And most girls don't want to have the boyfriend / husband who is considered a simpleton by her friends
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:24 AM
3

Not only is there nothing we can do but there's nothing we should do about a physical strength imbalance. The dating market is already fucked beyond belief now imagine the average Man had the structure of the average women. Shit wouldn't be 80/20 it would be 97/3
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:17 AM
0

Surely you mean "some of us men" with a name like timmy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:20 AM
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Tis what it is. If I'm still alive in 40 years I'll probably laugh at the epidemic of loneliness both genders ( millennials and under) will like be facing in our old age and laugh. It's the flip side of the coin of having the freedom to do whatever the fuck you want while you're young without an eye towards the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:18 AM
2

Male feminists are the most vomit worthy thing on the planet. They are usually sad emasculated excuses for men who think along the lines of " if I agree with her maybe she'll touch it" as bill burr once said Note that I'm talking specifically about self proclaimed doormat men who call themselves such. Not any man who believes in equality, which is normal and fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 01:07 PM
1

Except the two examples you listed as cope actually exist but whatever .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:18 PM
8

As much as this hypothetical world sounds extremely appealing yhis would require a coordinated effort on a massive scale from both genders to improve themselves for a long term benefit they might not even reap in their dating lives in the time it takes to start showing. Now remember how stupid and shortsighted they average person is and remember half of them are worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 10:51 PM
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And the ones where the girl goes for the boring nerdy type guy are usually aimed at men exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 10:04 PM
1

lol. ok
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:06 PM
1

well. this maybe a shocker to you but there exist plenty of adult cartoons. and im not talking only japanese hentai stuff but western magazines from the 80s and 90s , so go figure. its almost as if drawings of sexy women turn men on, who woulda thunk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 04:23 PM
2

"I don't find cartoons attractive because I'm not 8 years old or a pervert" Yikes...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 03:26 PM
1

Yeah while being a . manipulative sack of shit who's actively making society worse by existing. That said I doubt you actually do anything you claim . Seems like bullshit . But if you do you're vermin
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 03:24 PM
2

So you're a piece of shit who's attracted to pieces of shit. . Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 03:11 PM
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True. There would be alot more single people in the end bu that relationships would exist would probably be happier on average. And hey with nobody settling it's gives more time for people to find someone they're actually happy with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 10:36 PM
2

Oh cry me a River the American government was waiting for it's excise to join a war. You've always been a bunch of warmongering pigs. It's not like you stopped after the world wars . Or are we all to forget your little escapades in Vietnam and half the middle east. Fuck off outta here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 10:34 PM
1

exceot if dumbfuck america had never joined the "stupid euros" to squash germany in ww1 the defeat woudlnt have been so decisive and germans wouldnt have been plunged into a depression that led them to voting for hitler
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:29 PM
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"Don’t settle for being settled for" should be the sub banner. it would remove half of the stupid posts i see here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:25 PM
1

I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 08:01 PM
3

Those women are few and far between these days In the west at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 06:31 PM
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Men like that are rare and usually taken in ltrs when young. The good looks + self restraint types
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:29 PM
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Issue is they're also having kids if they have them 15 years later than they did a century ago. Nobody is having kids at 18 these days. So the window isn't much larger in practical terms than it ever was
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:14 PM
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Fucking Asians. I always rate them like 10 years younger than they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:12 PM
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This thread can be closed this is basically most women ever
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:57 PM
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You did misinterpret me but its fine i wasnt clear enough , eitherway pairing of spectrum boys with girls of the same nature is unfortunately not viable since there is 4.2 men with autism for every woman, whether this is down to poorer diagnosticating in women or different symptoms or simply biology i cant know. it also depends on how autistic they are. if its not severe then its fine but if it is then putting two of them together could be a disaster
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 08:37 AM
2

That's understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:48 AM
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I mean this is kinda unsolvable. I am socially awkward and I have close friends with Asperger's etc... The only way they're ever getting a gf is another apsergers girl or similar. It's sad because no one's really at fault. Dating someone with a mental disorder is hard work especially when there's plenty of single guys who don't have it. On the other hand being condemned to a probably shitty if at all existent dating life from the day of your conception doesn't sit well with me. Idk man. It's jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:47 AM
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I guess... I'd rather be caught dead than doing a cold approach anyways due to being an introvert. But I don't see exactly how the fuck women even want to be contacted thers days. Eh whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:40 AM
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Right but just because wanting to be here best worries a man it wouldn't equate to him just wanting her for sex. Take an N count 0 man and uhhh n5 woman . He is probably gonna be Hella nervous about his performance when the time comes and feel the need to be at an unreasonably high level . But how does that equate with him just wanting sex ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:38 AM
2

And many others ( basically all the non trp , black pillers .... ) have said it's not true. You're generalising either through being mistaken or wanting to argue in bad faith . Eitherway I can confirm it's not true. Whether you want to believe it or not is not my problem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:34 AM
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Lol. Because that's all women are to us . Walking talking fleshlights /s Jesus girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:28 AM
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I don't think the overlords care for my nerdy 5/10 ass lmao. I suggest they grab a seat because they're gonna be waiting a while if they expect anything from me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:26 AM
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"when they say no" ofcourse but that requires approaching them first . Which you seem to be against
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:24 AM
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Soooo? No cold approaches at all? I'm legit curious not trying to start shit .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:19 AM
2

Right, so you take measures to mitigate the risk if you're smart no? Well men are doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:16 AM
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Except unless you're committing a crime ( idk groping them ) the Concept of harrasment can vary from woman to woman. Some women even consider any cold approach harassment. So it's not worth the risk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:15 AM
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Yeah. plus the fact that there's way more distractions from not getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:13 AM
2

This really depends on the place. In the west I'd agree. But in Asia where living with various generations of your family until you marry / have enough money to buy a house is the norm I don't think it would turn women off
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:12 AM
0

Well no shit you can't fuck while plating computer games in your mom's basement 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:11 AM
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I'm taking real friends. Fucking an acquaintance and calling it a FWB to not seem loose ( mind you Fwb is already loose af just not as bad in my mind as normal casual ) is just a cheap tactic to avoid getting called a whore / fuckboy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 10:20 PM
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Idk if I'd consider long terms fwbs casual. It's non commited and non exclusive obviously but if its frequent then idk if I'd call it casual
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 05:11 PM
2

That depends on how you define fair no? I consider hypergamy "fair" because it's literally how women are programmed to work. But others say it's unfair because it unbalances dating dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:04 AM
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Just remember correlation isn't necessary causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:59 AM
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Good question. There's like 5 of you who are active in the whole sub probably so idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:58 AM
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it was a while ago lol. i was uh... 13 ish? 7 years ago or so, same for them (i dont hold it against them lol i did some shitty stuff at that age too) . Wont act like it was traumatic or something but i figured hiding them would be easier after that, what i hope you understand is that after a while you dont have to even try its just like the emotions lock themselves if you arent alone or with someone you really trust. eitherway i understand why mature women wouldnt like a guy who does it. its a …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:35 PM
1

hmmm, fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:44 PM
1

Well. I'm split on how this can be handled . On the one hand if a woman I'm not interested said "just so you know we're only gonna ever be friends " I'd be pretty pissed because I'd feel like she's just assuming I'm interested and being so crude about it and might not want to be friends because of it . On the other hand it might make for an effective vetting system
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 01:22 PM
2

Gays exist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 12:42 PM
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Lots of men do. just not Infront of women. Sharing our emotions with other guys we are close with feels safer. I atleast feel less judged than when I do it with women. And from the guys I've talked to about this isn't uncommon
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 12:39 PM
2

Literally lol people are way more interested in bitching bout murder , rape etc...than they are in solving them .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 12:25 PM
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Tbf the last time I did show any sign of weak emotions around girls my age the faces they gave me were rather unpleasant. If women didn't lose attraction tomen who show emotions there would be more of them. Alas it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 12:19 PM
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Let's break this down. Most people here state that average men barely get laid. Which is fine. But not all of us who state this are bitching about it. We simply point out that it's the case . Pretty sure most men here don't think women should settle for men they don't like. It's more of an "oh well it's a shame that women only like men "above them"" generally speaking. It's not the average man's problem that women can't tell a good chad (loyal one ) from one who sees you as just a hole. I've bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 12:17 PM
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Luckily for you homosexual men exist! You can have your desired male friendship without any risk of them growing romantically attached and wanting to pull out after rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 12:05 PM
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Lol reminded me of this http://images3.memedroid.com/images/UPLOADED331/5f519a8c67c4f.jpeg
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:12 PM
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yeah ngl he dropped the ball there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:43 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:42 PM
1

Half white Not American Middle class ig. . Dammit :(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:25 PM
1

biology
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:24 AM
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Lack of interest. Not very clingy ( although some girls just aren't eitherway ). Facial expressions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:37 AM
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This is really a regional thing stop generalising
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:56 PM
4

'magine that. Marrying for love. Weird eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:55 PM
7

Midwest do you ever take a seasonal break from hating us for existing?. Just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:54 PM
1

Sooooo what are straight women supposed to do otherwise ??? Magic themselves into lesbians? . Lots of women despise casual according to them ....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 11:52 PM
4

In my defense the last time I went shopping alone I got shit on by both my mother and grandmother so if they want me to wear stuff they consider appropriate then I don't see the issue with them helping me out. I know ill "What a manchild he lets others decide his clothes for him" but ehh.. if it were up to me it'd be jeans and a shirt all day everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:25 PM
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Because we aren't women. And we don't operate in the same frame of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:22 PM
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By the time its feasible to actually make an adult taller it will have long been easier to do it by genes so everyone's born 6 foot lo l
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:17 PM
4

Realistic?? What constitutes realistic. Because pretty much all the male models Ive seen are in the healthy BMI range. Or is average the average for overweight Americans
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:16 PM
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Nothing. But I don't pretend to care about shit I don't care about. Lmao. I'll be honest whatever is happening to men and women who aren't : my friends, family , partner or person I feel responsible kinda doesn't matter to me. When I do care about larger social issues it's only because I want to make s better world for my loved ones
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 11:07 PM
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issues like sex trafficking and woman’s rights in the Middle East is something we should 100% be attending to LMAO you think most of these faux moral liberal white women give a shit about that?. nah. they care much more about REAL issues like microagressions /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 08:49 PM
1

I'm surprised the topic lasted this long
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:43 PM
1

Yeah but like what's the issue. I mean I'm not into that but if they wanna be into that idrc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:43 PM
1

Huh. Fair enough. But that's exactly why I used biological over just woman. Because I meant specifically XX homo sapiens but I get your point in a way
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:42 PM
1

Fetishized porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:35 PM
0

Y'all are gonna get the "be civil treatment" lmao. So calm down because I'm enjoying this little arguement of yours too much to lose it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:34 PM
2

That's interesting I didn't know that could be done .but regardless what I'm more curious about is the cis Vs bio thing why did you point that out . Isn't it the same
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:33 PM
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Idk if all of them are faking it to or some actually believe they are women. Eitherway I think the issue of men potentially faking being to gain an advantage should be looked down upon. Like that's the lowest of the low. Idk if Id put it below being a hateful incel but it's close
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:29 PM
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What's the difference between cis and biological ? And I never said bleeding was the only aspect. I just denied transgenders can have periods at all. Which is just a fact. It should be as obvious as the fact that the earth is not flat
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:26 PM
1

You're not about to convince anybody trans women can actually have real periods like bio women/ girls can . Just no lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:19 PM
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This sub is 99.9% biological men and women who both know the idea of men having female bodily functions and vice versa is ridiculous. So idk if this post will do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:53 PM
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Or those jars. And the lawn
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:18 PM
2

That's all true but how much of that is the actual fucking and how of it is just the fact that you happen to be fucking with the person you love
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:17 PM
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You could argue it's lost peak efficiency recently. ( Last hundreds of years ) would've been better for the species if women had selected for intelligence followed by strength instead of strength and other indicators like that being primary. They were useful for cavemen not so much now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:04 PM
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No. We'd be mostly the sons of mentally handicapped and ugly as fuck men. I'll pass. Hypergamy ain't fun but it served a purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:01 PM
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'pparently
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:12 PM
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I mean if you are using dating apps to find an ltr you probably aren't the smartest ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:11 PM
1

Fair enough ig.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:49 PM
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"no, one is not future food for the other" got me . Thanks for the laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:37 PM
1

I'm sorry but how the fuck would you get to week 22 without knowing . Legit question
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:36 PM
1

Being a shut in with no female affection. They aren't the only ones but they're definitely at the forefront
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:58 PM
1

Yeah Ary autocorrect is so autistic it belongs on the spectrum. And we'll acknowledging you have a bias is better than having it and not acknowledging it ig
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 06:05 PM
1

Suit yourself. Men and women here arent representative of the general population though keep that in mind .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:47 PM
1

Well ain't that a shame. Hope you change someday . Or don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:16 PM
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I don't keep track of what each wage does strictly . All I meant is the most recent evolutions of feminism grind my gears. Since some of them spout the same stuff hateful shit incels do just in reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:53 PM
1

I have trouble keeping track ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:42 PM
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This is so true. And yeah the distinction between incels and hateful incels is unfortunately rarely understood. Ones are just people to feel sorry for. Not their fault they were born too unattractive. The others are gross entitled manchildren who think they should own women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:29 PM
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The balls to break up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:06 PM
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Just learn to break up lol. Unless the guy is abusive and forcing you to stay with him there's no reason to cheat. End of
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:04 PM
1

I will lol .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:00 PM
2

Being a dumb blonde 10/10 won't get you a good partner. Looks are very important but having a personality is also of the utmost importance regardless of what people on this sub say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:56 PM
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I'm not saying it's good I'm saying it's what I think will happen. Japan and Korea are pioneering it and others seem to be taking it in . And I think covid basically put a gun to lots of companies heads with a message reading "automate as much as you can and have people work from home "
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:52 PM
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Is that problem ? I believe in equal rights lol. I'm not some incel . What I don't believe in is third wave bullshit feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:50 PM
2

No. Not for those of us who don't like to be looking behind our back to see if we're gonna get stabbed all the time. Which believe it or not constitutes alot of us. Plus I don't only care about men lol. I have a mother and female friends and etc.. which I care about. I dunno if you are some troll imitating being a woman to try and convince us that women want this or you are legit deluded. Eitherway I'll pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:27 PM
0

Look at those two communities where violent crime is currently rampant and tell me copying them is a great solution
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:21 PM
3

This'll never happen on a large scale
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:09 PM
0

What ??? None of what I said had to do with race it was all about culture
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:07 PM
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I largely agree with you. Although I'm less optimistic about the path we will take. I personally think we'll end up having a society of shut ins . It's getting easier and easier to work from home, do your hobbies there, and get food delivered there. And with this and the ever increasing online distractions to keep lonely people close enough to happy I just don't see a bright path forwards.but then I was never known as the group optimist by my highschool friends for a reason lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:05 PM
1

Interesting take. But what do you define as fixing ? Like more guys getting laid ? (Don't see this happening tbh) Giving them some sort of distraction? People having better inter personal relationships? Im curious
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:25 PM
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No. But there is men whos taste vary from the norm enough that what they consider stunning would be average for others. Obviously no man is gonna prefer what he considers worse over what he considers better. And if he does it's not for the actual looks but it's cos he thinks ugly wont cheat or something
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:26 AM
1

Sounds fun
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:21 AM
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I didn't say it was hard to answer objectively I'm saying I don't know if I'd be able to do the supposed right thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:44 AM
1

That is the other side of the coin . Similar story for my grandfather. My grandmother watched him rot away to dementia over a whole decade which is akin to torture. But I don't think she regrets the life she lived
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 07:16 PM
5

I'll pass this just isn't for me. But you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 07:12 PM
2

Wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 05:22 PM
1

Yeah one provokes a deep seething anger which the other doesn't. Idk man. Biology is wack
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:50 PM
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I agree. But 50 years of happiness before dying alone is preferable wouldn't you say ? . For most people at least. I know it can sometimes take a bad turn but still
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 02:46 PM
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I was thinking about rape fantasies in general. And yes I can def remember my line of thinking around that age
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:48 PM
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Former would be just whether it was from casual or a relationship. I really don't like casual with strangers. As for widow. the emotional hangup is by far the biggest issue here. Being forced to part with someone you loved involuntary and often with no warning must be devastating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:30 PM
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It also depends on the circumstances. A widow N 1 is not the same as a normal n1 ( that said dating a widow would have it's on set of serious problems that I doubt low n count could ever outweigh). Not to mention after a certain age I'd start wondering "ok why exactly are they virgins" because past like 25 that's likely gonna be something religious , Weird sexual hangups or other stuff. But who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:15 PM
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I agree with that. Even if they are immoveable requirements they shouldn't be the only deciders. Because that'll end in disaster
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:54 PM
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Yeah it's an oxymoron
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:52 PM
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While they both maybe ridiculous hills in this day and age. I'd still argue them staying single is better than being in an unhappy relationship they tried to force where the standards aren't met
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:26 PM
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Both are entitled to do whatever the fuck aslong as it doesn't intrude on someone else's freedom. Wait for genetically modified cat girls for all I care. just don't cry when you die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:24 PM
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Tbh that's different . Rape fantasies are poorly named . They're most of the time "giving up consent for a limited period of time to my partner" fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:53 AM
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It's obviously a non sense hypothetical but what I meant is its way easier to say it than get rid of the subconscious bias
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:36 AM
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Even so it's partially involuntary . Like even though on a conceptual level they are equal if I was asked whether to save 3 women /girls from rape Vs 10 men /boys I still doubt I would save the men . But that's just me being selfish and knowing if feel more guilty over the former
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:31 AM
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You'd be in the disciplinary room and your parents would've been called most likely
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:13 AM
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I wholly agree with this. There is only one girl I've ever considered myself truly in love with and sex was the last thing on my mind. It was all her being happy, how beautiful she was and how much I loved just sitting and staring at her . Granted nothing ever came from it but it taught me when I was actually attracted and when I was just horny. A test I've found works well is when you're obsessing over a girl, jerk off. If she's still at the forefront of your mind post nut. Then there's almost …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 10:22 AM
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Their life expectancy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 10:18 AM
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Oh not me lol. Granted I'm not a looker myself (probs a 6/10 something like that) and 5 9" . But yeah I feel bad for the guy. Its probably not nice to have your whole life screwed the day you are born
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 09:06 AM
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Those things aren't always easy to ascertain
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 08:57 AM
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Yikes that was harsh. But hey at least you are honest
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 08:54 AM
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Neither are good
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 08:27 AM
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Yeah I'll take Japans shitty dating culture over acting like a bunch of uncivilised hairless monkeys
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 08:26 AM
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That's also a fair point I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 11:00 PM
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Well uh... Gypsies yeah I won't get into that. Suffice to say most of its warranted
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 11:00 PM
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I mean you'd think with a super majority they'd treat the minorities worse but it isn't the case
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 10:38 PM
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As i stated there is no "us" I'm a guy. And I guess we can agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 09:11 PM
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Define porn "collection"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 09:02 PM
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I just said "the dude who'll fuck anything " as an extreme example. But eitherway. I don't agree that it's entitlement depending on how you think of it "I want someone who's better than me but if I don't get that I understand that that's ok and I'm willing to stay single" is ok in my book "I am owed someone better than me it's my right " entitlement. Eitherway wouldn't you agree it's better to just not date than force yourself to lower standards and cause an unhappy and unfulfilling relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:33 PM
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Yes and no. I have higher standards than your average guy I think. But by themselves with nothing to offer on my side and without other options all my standards appear as are entitlement, gives the impression I think I deserve more than I actually do. I guess it's better than being the dude who'll fuck anything but it's not that helpful alone. Eitherway Ill stick to my standards. I feel like shooting lower will only land me in an unhappy relationship where she doesn't feel desired and I don't fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:21 PM
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*Old male sexuality not male sexuality in general Well. Some can. The ones who were good enough to keep the man around for other reasons then sex. I know an aunt of mine who started dating her now husband at uhhh 14 ish . Still happily married 43 years later . It's all about not being just a pair of nice tits. (Man btw I have nothing to gain from this I just don't see why y'all so ok with shit like 18-45 when it's like way creepier than 15-18 which the same people kick up a shitstorm over, is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:12 PM
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Not getting laid is preferable over being a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:58 PM
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Eh. Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:57 PM
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Cool. And I understand that. What annoys me is how everyone assumes America on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:38 PM
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They're like the ultimate losers lol. Not only do they pay for sex but they do it with women 29 years younger at times making them creeps
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:50 PM
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More importantly WHEN
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:50 PM
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I wonder if this happens for long enough natural selection will stop it . Or would it happen too fast for that too work
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:47 PM
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Well they can eat shit frankly. If women are entitled to their own bodily freedom so are we. And I personally don't plan on being an ATM for any washed up party sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:45 PM
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Tomboys are lit (except short hair sorry I have a long hair fetish and I'll die by it!!) Sensitivity is good too since I'm the opposite so having female friends / partners with it balances stuff out Assertiveness when called for (not being pushed around ) is nice . Assertiveness for the sake of trying to look like a "strong independent woman" if it doesn't come naturally to you is just cringey Independence is okay As for speaking their mind I think it's something everyone in the west in general …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:35 PM
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We definitely aren't Scott free that's true but we don't think about our daily lives through the lense of race. I'm black but Spain is like a white ethnostate in the part I live in ( 98+ white I think ) and we still don't regularly talk about race
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:29 PM
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Europe, Spain
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 02:44 PM
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( white guys, non white ) ah America- centrism at its finest. Never change
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:58 PM
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Whether they're put under a gun or just bullied into doing it indirect the result is the same
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:21 PM
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Just gonna note here that this is really bordering on bullshit. Most of the times it seems like it's the girls who are into the weird getting abused in bed roleplay shit don't dump this on men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:50 AM
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It isn't. You think Chinese people didn't have kids by accident and were forced to " take care" of them. Are you fucking retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:07 AM
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No. But even when they do 90% of the time it gets dismissed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:49 AM
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Lol. Governments like China's have mandated a 1 child policy this isn't that far off
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:13 AM
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Id hope they don't blab to their friends about their LTR sex seems rather disrespectful to the BF / husband unless he doesn't care
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:47 PM
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Lol yeah it's old. I kinda like the cell shaded anime from back then. The sharp colour contrast has its appeal. Also no shitty CGI. Honestly shoujo normally appeal more to me because the guy isn't some loser who magically gets tonnes of girls and they are rarely ever a harem and god knows how much I despise most of those
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:23 PM
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Well seeing as I'm a sucker for romance manga (shoujo specifically which my friends love to poke fun at seeing as I'm a guy): Horimiya Otoyomegatari Considering reading "Ao haru no ride" And as a bonus I'll list "marmalade boy" a 90s shoujo anime /manga with enough drama and relationship twists to confuse anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:16 PM
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Holy shit those are all wack and super irregular. In Spanish it's much more standard. I guess it's because modern English is a blend of so many languages/ dialects probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:41 PM
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I suck at it too NGl so I cant help you there. Just be extra uh lovey-dovey I guess ? Maybe that'll work
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:37 PM
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That sucks but at least he has a supportive wife which goes a long way
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:31 PM
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Been lazing around all day for the most part. Did some shopping and looked for some new manga to satiate my boredom with. Overall not too shabby
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:30 PM
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Ah I've seen one of those they're awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:21 PM
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Yeah. Not like they're gonna convince my hopeless romantic ass to do that stuff eitherway lmao. But I get ya
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:20 PM
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Lol gotta play flight SIM sometime. Dunno if my 1070ti is up to the task though. And yeah seems like a healthy routine NGL. I should hit the gym but with little interest in getting laid as I currently have I can't find a reason to( Would be good for my health tho regardless ).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:16 PM
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Actually now that I think back this kinda fits in with what I read on Reddit about how a wife described her husband "I like the fact that he could break my spine at any moment but treats me gently" women seem to want the guy who can do anything to them when he pleases but only does it when they want it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:12 PM
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true!!. But funnily enough from my own (e dating but still ) and some "chad" archetype friends I've asked ive found its usually the women who are into the freakier shit in bed. Like for me and these other guys we mostly want vanilla shit but girls are into a bunch of weird BDSM stuff which honestly I'm uncomfortable as fuck even thinking about doing. Why a girl likes having her hair pulled and being called a "dirty little slut" In bed is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 08:58 PM
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You'd be surprised by how many women are into that stuff. Then again I guess it's not that surprising. There was this guy who said something along the lines of "if you want to understand why men like lesbian porn think of women as chocolate. One bar of chocolate is gold right ? But two smooching and melting into eachother is infinitely better!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 08:45 PM
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That's cool. How long do they live? Only ever had cats and dogs. Also wtf muddle lmao where does that come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 08:42 PM
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How are you all enjoying your day fellow drama subreddit regulars?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 08:03 PM
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Hmm that makes sense. Which makes you wonder about automation. Lots of men (and women but mostly men due to the sort of jobs that'll fall first ) will be unnecessary. I wouldnt put it past some governments to mandate a certain number of female babies per male baby or something of the sort
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 06:52 PM
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I guess . But I still feel like 13 and 18 have no business together unless you add some laws specifically for relationships and others for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 06:37 PM
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Nothing really lol. I just tend to think of everything in absolutes. That's all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:59 PM
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More or less agree but can we agree on an increasing gap with age. So like maybe we start of with 2 year max gap at 13-15 and slowly increase to like 8 at 30 years plus. Because I feel like gaps should be relative to total life experience
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:47 PM
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I mean morally wrong doesn't always line up with legally wrong. I'm more willing to let 15-19 slide however illegal it maybe than 18-40
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:44 PM
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I was merely pointing out how ridiculously large the weaponry was. Calm down
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:31 PM
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Hmm. That maybe true. Honestly haven't men always been considered disposable at large? I don't think that would be new
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 04:03 PM
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+1 on this. Literally everyone wins of the lower end men manage to find happiness in something else. They win since they're happiness doesn't depends on pussy. Women win since they don't have to go through the oh so horrible experience of seeing these on dating apps or being approached by them .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:48 PM
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Lol. As if Europe doesnt have the weaponry to nuke / genocide the entire African continent tomorrow and avoid that. It's an issue of will power
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:46 PM
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Oh ofcourse it is and really it's probably not healthy for like 70% of humanity but what can be done. Social media isn't going to disappear women aren't gonna date horizontally and chad isn't going to settle down at 18
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:12 PM
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I mean in the past men more or less collectively agreed to limit women's sexuality for their benefit. Not saying it was good but it was done. This isn't that different. It's limiting it on the man's end instead of the woman's is all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:57 PM
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Eh.. basically what's happening in Japan lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:55 PM
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Well yeah but like issue or not it's not gonna change. So ideally a push towards not getting laid not being seen as such a horrible thing socially would help.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:54 PM
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Had no idea that was a thing. But wouldn't forever alone apply to volcels too?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:14 PM
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You missed my point. It originally meant just "involuntary/ incidental celibit" and there's no good word for that now .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:12 AM
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Find some gay male friends if what you want is a male friend with no strings
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:33 AM
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Sidenote the term Incel is so annoying because now I don't have a word to describe men who can't get laid but aren't salty about it . Couldn't you all have used another word instead of bastardised a useful term
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:32 AM
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Lmao this made my fucking day thanks bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:28 AM
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Because it must be amusing to watch the freak show from an ivory tower, nothing more to it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:25 AM
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It makes perfect sense though . Not saying none of them are lying but hey if I was a woman met chad at like 17 and got him to settle and had nothing really wrong In my relationship I might also come to PPD to watch the freak show
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:24 AM
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I guess yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:03 AM
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I mean tbf it would be rather weird if you thought it wasn't ok seeing as both you and your husband were n count 0 according to you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:31 AM
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Out of curiosity how old are both of you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:41 PM
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Isn't there more men tham women globally since wars , naturally shelter lifespans
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:24 PM
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You my be right but I doubt that'll change
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:23 PM
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Nah in most cases women hold both these days lol let's no delude ourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:22 PM
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For a decent chunk of men hookers have little appeal so this is in no way a solution. Just a bandaid
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:18 PM
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Tbh the biological part is a given on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:01 PM
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Ngl dude part of this makes you sound insecure as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 11:00 PM
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/"politically active" lmao death wish
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:59 PM
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True yeah I guess. Eitherway pretty sucky, but you know what they say, nature is a cruel mistress
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:00 PM
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Makes sense though. This is mainly a sub about salty straight people complaining bout the opposite gender
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:51 PM
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Yeah I agree. I'd say it's worse to get laid once or twice than never tho. Same with love. You can only miss what you never had to a certain degree. But idk that's just speculation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:47 PM
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Right but some countries are further down the line .like look how bad Japan fucked up. Basically the women largely kept their list of what they want in a man unchanged in the last half a century ( good wage to support family ) but then took actions that made men less able to achieve them (incorporating into the labour force which pushes salaries overall down) and now they've landed themselves in a tight spot . Add to that that many men see that and don't even try and you end up with like a 30% m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:59 PM
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Ah the daily male sexlessness post... Basically it's only gonna get worse from now on bar some ridiculously massive cultural shift and it's something we'll have to come to grips with I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:53 PM
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Heavy people in general. Normally speaks to an unhealthy mentality. Not just the fat that shows up on the outside
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:31 PM
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I did say most
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 08:25 PM
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Because as someone outside of America American women are unfuckable in large numbers. Most men don't want to date landwales ( granted most American men are also overweight so it kinda balances out )
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:23 PM
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Midwest does provide my daily comedic relief I'll give her that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 01:03 PM
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Good bot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:48 AM
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America isn't the whole world
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 10:21 AM
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We don't have married names here . Stupid idea really
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 07:54 PM
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You expect a bunch of Molly coddled manchildren and whatever the camel equivalent is to actually do something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 07:22 PM
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Idk if I fall under this. I think the markets busted I also think it can't be fixed . Am I worth dating ? Probably not rn I have rather let myself go. But I don't see it as an issue. The second I care enough to try and date women I'll hit the gym . For now I'm fine having to tense up to see my abdominal muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 07:20 PM
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We basically do have half our population on ubi already. We just call it pensions (from Spain we have dogshit birthrates and long lives) And yeah the job market is fucking cancer. I'd argue jobs like working on a farm were 100 years ago were probably mentally healthier if you owned the land. The issue is the power that be are too deeply ingrained . And since people these days are so placid and won't revolt they can be ruthless degenerate tirants with no risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:42 PM
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Well no shit lol a billionaire girl wouldn't so much as glance in my direction so that's irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:34 PM
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Im aware. and I think rich people will exploit it anyways. After all China is still developing the tech because they don't give a shit about any western agreements to not do ( which makes sense ) so it's gonna come along in some form. Also I doubt they will have a slave class. Simply put a robot will be able to do most of the stuff better than a slave gene human could by the time the gene editing tech is there. If anything they'd use it to make their offspring genetically flat out superior ( no …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:01 PM
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Right. But I do see the appeal to a taller dude from a woman's point of view (feeling more protected that sorta thing ..)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:57 PM
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Which would end up in a 4 inch average height gap still lmao. And even if it is hypergamous to like taller guys like it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:02 PM
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She wouldn't care. But if she doesnt shed gravitate towards the average male hight right? Aka on average4 inches taller than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:51 PM
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No. I want to sort out my finances before I even consider getting a gf anyways. In any case that would be more of a need than a want
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:37 PM
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The thing is gaming is common even among guys who look like shit they're out of a collection of Greek statues. It's no longer a nerd hobby really lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:35 PM
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So hypothetical non hypergamous women would date guys their same height ? Doesn't make sense. For a woman to date some her own height she has to date under the average for guys. Which would be dating down
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:32 PM
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Not indigent up until recently and even now a large subset of the male population wouldn't give a half a shit about how much money a woman has. I myself if I could afford to pay for two people to live comfortably wouldn't mind at assuming she's bringing something to the table that I like. Only reason I wouldn't do it is because id probably get a considerable amount of dirty looks for dating a women who I helped stop being poor. "He using her for sex " and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:26 PM
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You can't. What you can do is disengage monkey brain and see if that attraction is worth it overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:21 PM
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Which is why I added stay single as an option. If they wanna do that more power to them lol. That being said most humans like intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:19 PM
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No because it's the biological norm. It's the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:17 PM
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Well isn't that kinda digging their own graves idk.not saying they shouldn't educate themselves but if they do they should expect to either .learn how to date horizontally or down. Or be single
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:01 PM
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I mean I wouldt say that since across the board men are around 4 inches taller if a women stuck to men exactly 4 inches taller it should balance out fine. The issue stems from if 5 2" wants 6 foot on average .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:59 PM
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how the fuck does less criminals on the street not benefit you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:54 PM
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I agree with you but there's really no fix. Nobody is gonna roll womens right back a century ( not that they should eitherway) Maybe in the future we can gene edit well enough to make women less hypergamous, men less violent etc.. but let's be honest most people would say that's immoral so its not gonna happen either. Also hypergamy has served us ( as a species) decently well at times. We'd be have descended from weaker uglier men on average without it. So while it's unpleasant for us in the mom…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:36 PM
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Because it'll benefit you in the long run. Single mothers from line 5 shitty relationships are more like to raise the fucker that slashes your tires
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:56 PM
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Narnia and smurf as others have said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:52 PM
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" someone disagree with you over the most mundane bullshit" someone has PTSD
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:47 PM
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You are. . Equity is forcing equal outcome. Equality is giving Usain bolt and some random man the same running equipment and watching bolt win by a mile. Men and women are theoretically given the same opportunity to get mates. It's just that. Men are more happy to fuck anything and women like fucking / dating whatever upwards. The result is an imbalance. Equity would be idk.....forcing men and women to find partners at the same rate .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:46 PM
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Eh. Depends where. But true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:12 PM
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Hmm. fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:44 AM
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I agree mostly. It's all about thinking long term. Tax money well spent with a non corrupt government and proper handling can do wonders ( see Singapore ) unfortunately that's not likely
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:45 AM
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This is a hypothetical perfect girl. It technically can't go wrong. Because if it did then she's not perfect by definition
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:13 AM
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Well It depends how we define game. I think men ( anybody) should not have access to prostitution. Anything that's not that or rape is fair play ( not saying prostitute clients are as bad as rapists since unlike rape it's not really as clear cut a the time ) . There's many ways to seduce women. If you look in the right places you can get decently far with good intelligence and just average looks. Tinder ofcourse is not the place for that sorta searching
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:20 AM
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Yeah it is much healthier. Like women aren't gonna date horizontally so I'd encourage them to atleast date healthily
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:16 AM
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Massage parlors aren't a sexual activity. is there a massive massage parlor worker trafficking system.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 07:48 AM
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I'm not a liberal???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 07:47 AM
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Except with enough other I can vote for what I want to impose on people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 07:16 AM
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Mmm.. Faces are hard to explain.think my preferred features would depend on her ethnicity. On that note if she's white blue eyes and blonde ( yeah not breaking any molds here I know ) think traditional Nordic beauty. I also have thing for women from what was once persia . In that case silky black hair deep tan and green eyes. Oh and she has to come with traditional clothes from that area it's too cool to pass up. Average in terms of weight Medium boobs / butt My age +-2 Freckles. Unless her skin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:43 AM
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Well idfk then maybe they don't exist or whatever. Maybe you're looking in the wrong place
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:24 AM
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Where do you live. Or if youd rather not just what cultural background?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:22 AM
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I mean. I I doubt most sisters don't love their brothers unconditionally. But then again single child what would I know .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:21 AM
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Assuming his face is fine and he's not an asshole he can easily get himself a nice gf and potentially later wife and just not deal with all the troubles of causal sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:18 AM
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Lmao you can never go wrong with jeans and a shirt
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:12 AM
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Well good luck on that. Y'all have more freedom rn than basically any women ever on how sex happens when it happens and the prerequisites. More than enough to bag a good man if used correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:09 AM
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If true this'll self correct. I'm pretty sure the amount of women having kids in ltrs is way higher than the casual sex women. Ltr women will teach their daughters the same presumably .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:05 AM
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Well if we all suck this fucking much become a lesbian or something
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:53 AM
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What's bad about emotional mastery lol? The ability to control your emotions isn't bad it's keeping them in when you shouldnt that causes damage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:40 AM
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I wouldn't just say libido I'd say libido plus desire for intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:58 AM
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I'm sure your son would be especially thankful when he ends up 6 foot if you date a women of your height ( or something like that. Since women are shorter than men on average I'd assume a 5 foot 10 woman probably has 6 foot so genes when applied to males)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:52 AM
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I mean I'm 5 9 so 5 11 women wouldn't go for me eitherway but I do have to ask . Who the fuck says that they don't like tall women. Never heard guys say that lol. If anything I like tall girls. Height matched would be ideal I'll take 5 9 over 5 flat any day of the week
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:47 AM
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Don't care eitherway so if someone could show me solid data backing that that would be the likely outcome then sure .after all to stop prostitution I only need to block one side off. In this case the clients . The minimum age would probably be higher though. I don't see 18 years of age being old enough in this industry ( same with porn . I don't understand why everything needs to be 18. It bothers me . Probably goes somewhere in the mid 20s for both ) although since there effectively would be an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:37 AM
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I'm a man I don't believe anyone is entitled to sex or intimacy no . Male or female. "Most men arent suave players" maybe . Probably true. Most men since arranged marriages ended haven't been getting intimacy eitherway. my suggestion of banning prostitution is I consider the bad outweighs the good.. I don't think anybody deserves happiness inherently regardless of gender . I think it's nice for people to have it and I do my best to make people around me happy but it's not some god/ (whatever the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:20 AM
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That's where we differ I guess. I am willing to make sacrifices in certain areas of bodily autonomy of I think it'll overall help society. Ive never believed in people's individual right to freedom if it goes against a healthier society .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:44 AM
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As for problems maybe . Japan's ahead of the curve and so far they haven't really had a noteworthy amount of issues from male or female sexlessness ( it's still unbalanced but female sexlessness is an actual concern there. Albeit for different reasons ) Plenty of other groups to tax. Seeing as automation of blue collar jobs is a serious issue these days a massive tax hike in accordance to the automation a business has would bring on far more money. I'm not really a fan of forced wealth distribut…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:39 AM
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If Putin managed to get half the cronies in the government kicked out/ dealt with without being killed ( not saying he's good but he survived is my point) I don't see why this wouldn't be possible . And I'm assuming the police have much more in terms of numbers than them. Everytime you capture 5 of them and they'll try and retaliate you axe their associates in painful ways except for one which you send back heavily injured as a message. They'll run out of people long before most governments will…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:32 AM
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I see sex as something only those capable of fostering attraction ,whether it be just sexual attraction ( hooking up ) or preferably sexual attraction and romantic attraction , should get access to ? . Simple , most men are high libido having them actually have to better themselves to get laid benefits society most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 03:03 AM
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Note that this desire to clean up applies to the good looking men with no self restraint. The fray boy , date rapist etc.. unfortunately those are considerably harder to deal with since it's hard to tell them from any other good looking dude at a glance. But I'm sure they can be addressed.. And I'm not just talking harsher sentencing . I want preemptive measures . Ofcourse catching a would be rapist is much harder than catching a rapist. But with extensive sting operations ( basically stuff like…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:20 AM
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Such as? A rise in sexlessness? Not tryna be a dick just wondering if you're considering something I have overlooked
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:12 AM
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How is it a necessary evil .intact I'd argue that eliminating it and putting police resources towards making sure the underground prostitution is as small as possible is good. Why? Because I've started hearing stuff like " it's going to be necessary to keep some men who have no choice normally from assaulting women" which basically translates to "we need to keep potential rapists well fed " which is the opposite of what I want. I want the sort of man who would resort to rape over never getting l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 02:03 AM
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Unfortunately that seems to be the case. I guess I was being a bit too generous with how much I trust people to not act like animals
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:52 AM
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And you're saying I'm supposed to believe that it being legalized and therefore having more clients will help? Lmao.. " But but if it's legal the government will be able to keep track and make sure all the prostitutes are actually willing and not being used " . Just nah. Not convinced. I'd keep it illegal and then pay prostitutes enough to get out of the sector in exchange for money and slowly grow a list of the big names in the underground prostitution world. Then you do routine and brutal crac…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:50 AM
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It's always nice for people to assume you're in favour of an industry plagued with abuse and rape automatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:40 AM
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"you all" . Firstly I dont see why I'm being included I thought my previous comment made it pretty clear that I find it disgusting but since that seems to not be the case take this as confirmation of my distaste ( incase it matters I am not a man of religion ) And since I find It disgusting I have little reason to question why women would . I'm sure there is a small subset of women who actually are worried about losing power to prostitutes. But that doesn't seem very smart since most ( not all) …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:36 AM
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Man here. Ngl I have a vested interest in keeping prostitution illegal selfish as it maybe I don't wanna share the same air as the sort of person who would pay for sex with strangers . You'd be surprised to find this is the case for a large subset of men and an even bigger one of women I'd gamble. Whether it's a majority or a minority of the total I have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:27 AM
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I mean it's not exactly rocket science figuring out that (normal) men like to love and be loved
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:23 AM
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Well. See those men have no interest in that. Since if the women going their because of poverty or sex trafficking weren't there because that issue was solved somehow then the amount of prostitutes would shrink dramatically. It's like asking a lion if it approves of a fence between it and a zebra
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:20 AM
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Does it ?? Most of us never even consider it ngl even if it's legal. It's heavily frowned upon socially as it should be in most of Europe you'd never actually admit to going
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:18 AM
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There's reasons not to like it on Botha sides. Conservatives religious peeps will say morals and liberals will say it's too easy to exploit..both kinda have a point even if not for the right reasons imo Like I don't believe in God I just find the whole idea of exchanging money for sex disgusting In before " but that's basically what some relationships are but just less evident" Yeah well I hate those relationships too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 01:17 AM
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Although this would help everyone ( either they stay with the man they successfully teach leading to happiness for both or put more good at sex guys on the market ) it's about as likely as men getting together and deciding to not have sex with say..... Shallow and nasty women, yes it would help but it's never gonna happen especially in the self centred individualistic cultures most of us live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:09 AM
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Thanks. You too dude
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:06 AM
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Well I was wondering if you as a woman agree
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 12:02 AM
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Lmao I guess. Although I do spend an awful amount of time wondering what it would've been like if I had never met that girl who through no fault of her own twisted the concept of romance in my head so out of shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:32 PM
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I'll tell ya anyways. There isn't much to it. I basically had a severe case of unrequited love for most of my teens. Having a girl interested in me made me very happy so I ofcourse thinking I was over it jumped onboard. Needless to say it didn't work out, mainly due to my hangup. So I did what I considered best and cut everyone's losses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:16 PM
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How is it not fair ????? You get to fuck the sort of guy who you like and the men who are looking for different sorts of women than you don't like your lifestyle. Big deal where's the issue. Are these men screaming "slut" at you on the streets? I'd wager 99% of them aren't and the 1% who do are rightfully shunned by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:03 PM
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Right. The expected more or less. Defaulting to gentle was always the smartest choice eitherway .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:01 PM
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That was going to happen regardless. Because let's be honest the n count 50 women have probably had some stupidly good sex at some point so they wouldn't be going for men who care about low n count eitherway. Low n count wanting men are generally low n count themselves after all. Also "good". Sexually sure lol. But I hope that's all you ever want from n count 191828222 or whatever men. Because a sold relationship won't be an option . Tldr: you already weren't fucking these men eitherways this do…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:55 PM
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3/4 do I pass? Seriously though I hadn't like actively given thought to the top 1. Also bottom one is very dependant on the woman I assume .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:51 PM
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It's both sides problem. The issue lies in the imbalance between how easy it is to get a man of Vs a woman. All a woman has to do is pick ones of her holes to use and go up down for a bit. Mission achieved !!. Women however are rather more complicated it seems. Which isn't bad, after all I consider myself one for a challenge, but I still need the tools with which to proceed towards competing this arduous task. Those being either information before sex. Putting up with some bad sex so I can learn…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:48 PM
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"barely able to starfish" had me cracking up"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:41 PM
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Men and women are in their right to want an n count of X . Tradeoff is they limit the places they can "buy" from .dont see how anything needs to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:38 PM
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E dated a virgin girl who I learned lots with. I understand 1 girl isn't statistically relevant but it was indeed a very insightful and easy going experience. She wasn't unwilling to explain and even seemed to enjoy the fact that I cared enough
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:36 PM
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Yeah but that's not the point most of these femmes are making is that they prefer guy with experience. Not naturals . Just any guy with experience. And what the men are pointing out, which is only half true because magazines , videos and other ways of acquiring theoretical experience are easily accessible, is that if no one's gonna be the teacher then there are not gonna be many graduates lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:34 PM
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May I ask what you consider basic ? ( I mostly know but confirmation is always useful)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:31 PM
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As if you can't find out if a man is inexperienced without fucking him lol. Most virgins are awful liars . Also nobody is gonna know your n count unless it's going from 0 to 1 and even that sometimes isn't reliable ( some girls apparently tear their hymens from stuff like horse riding gymnastics etc .. I've heard ) so yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:29 PM
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Regardless he's partially right I do see a decent chunk of apparently happily married men and women who are here for shits and giggles and maybe some insight .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:26 PM
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Or he got verbal advice. Sure hands on wil be better but the theory would've still have given him a massive edge
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:19 PM
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What?? How is that redpill at all. Can't we all agree that there's no man born with the knowledge on how to fuck perfectly?? Because is he exists please introduce me I have some hand shaking to do and some tips to acquire!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:16 PM
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What?? The whole is that inexperienced men suck in bed right......literally experience is the fix here lol so yes. Communication. Don't even have to fuck the dude lol it would be in your own interest to explain it to guys you meet generally. Might not be hands on experience but it teaches them something and increases the amount of potential "men who know" to go around. But that would require forethought and other tedious things
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:12 PM
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I stick true to my view that all is fair in love and war, or in this case, choosing who to fuck but man these comments do not brighten up ones day do they. Then again. In some way it makes the women who put the brakes on their horny and think " right so I can either fuck the who knows but sees me as a sex object and will discard me or I can find a hot guy with little to no experience teach him and have a way bigger chance at finding a keeper" much more special
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:09 PM
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It's not that. I'm a man not a woman. and I don't wan a compete eitherway. If you can't be assed to find a partner well hey your a primate with a big brain go conjure up some naked women imagery
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:44 PM
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XD a concerted effort for from all us men to not get laid or get laid less to make the overall situation "better". Lol like that's ever gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:28 PM
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Then don't have sex as a teen if it's legit that risky mentally speaking
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:21 AM
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Yeah but apparently some people have the capacity to control their sexual impulses of your average monkey
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:02 AM
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I'd assume they go through redpill material and select the stuff they agree with I doubt they actually learn rp points and recite them word for word like the Bible. Atleast I'd hope not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 07:04 AM
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Lots of men are scared of accidentally walking behind a woman for three corners in a row so a cold approach probs ain't happening. And since workplace relationships are often frowned upon these days (especially if the guy is higher ranking ) and the medium sized irl friend groups everyone used to have until social media came along are much rarer now, it's much harder than it ever was
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:43 AM
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Depends on the country. 20-30 year old virgin women ( and men but that's another story ) are very common ( like 30% of the total female population around that age ) so I doubt a man from there would have any trouble finding a virgin woman in her 20s. It would be a struggle in other senses because Japan's dating world is beyond fucked but not in this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:32 AM
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"they didn't masturbate or anything" doubt. But eitherway whether it's for personal reasons or religious ones women who are n=0 with good libido do exist. Are they rare these days ? Yes especially in the west. Is he hurting anyone by going for that type ? No . So what's the issue here. Worst case scenario he never gets a girl. Which is probably the best case scenario in your view
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:30 AM
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Women aren't very feminine in the traditional sense either these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 02:38 AM
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Like are people so fucking horny they can't think about their well being before having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 02:19 AM
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Sorry I'm blind apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:44 PM
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"I like extroverted women so any man who doesn't is wack or traumatised" lmao ok Im an introvert. My values would like up better with an introverted woman generally although some people like to have opposites as a couple. Also lots of introverted women are very different around their partners and just in private in general introverts open up more. Not to the level of an extrovert but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 09:01 PM
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It's not 100% possible all the time but there's definitely telling traits that indicate that she'd be more or less likely to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 06:00 PM
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Right. Even if my ad hominem is wrong and you are actually that guy congrats... You aren't ugly ....still doesn't make you right
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:35 PM
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Yeah exactly which cultures prefer shorter guys and non symmetrical faces ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:34 PM
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In the "performing during sex " area yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:15 PM
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Right but it does mean it's more rare which was the main question .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:02 PM
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I also feel like some people fail to distinguish between arranged and forced. Like lots of cultures your parents could veto who you married but you were allowed to pick from suitors
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:59 PM
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I am asking men to sacrifice casual sex if they don't wanna be subject to these risks yes !!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:54 PM
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Yeah I agree that sometimes it would be better to keep it. Like if he half convinces himself that he can get over it and then gets into a relationship with a women with medium or high n count it's probably gonna end up worse for everyone if it resurfaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:50 PM
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You have three options really: Not dating. Trying to address that through therapy or something idk. I Hoping you find a girl who meets whatever sexual standards you have in that sense ( however likely that may be at your age )
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:49 PM
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Eh partially. A decent chunk of them see transgenders as men using feminism for their own gain
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:20 PM
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Idk if ppd is the place for this. But anyways I don't agree that's gender is a social construct since I believe that even if you isolated a bunch of newborn boys and girls and raised them in an isolated setting where they know nothing and interact with nobody from the Rest of the world, they'd still show lots of the differences we associate with gender . Eitherway I understand the concept of feeling like the other gender on a conceptual level but I don't agree that you can become it. Still peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 04:19 PM
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I for one have other reasons I won't be engaging in the market eitherway so I can't get screwed . But yes learning to handle thing if they go south is good
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:41 PM
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That too. Only solved half the issue but if the only thing you are worried about is the emotional part then this is a solution
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:26 PM
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Jesus dude not all women are out there waiting to screw you over the second you mess up in front of them in any way. In fact id say the majority aren't. And even among the ones who are most of them are covered in red flags so you can avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:25 PM
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I agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:23 PM
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Ofcourse there's still the chance that you'll get screwed but that's the case for anything in life where you invest yourself emotionally . There's really no other way to reduce the risk outside of not sleeping with women at all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:19 PM
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If you truly believe that's the case for all women then yes. Don't fuck women. I however don't
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:14 PM
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I think op either doesn't get layed or wasn't responsible about it and is now mad he dug his own grave. Like most ppd posts it's mostly whining
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:08 PM
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Which I'd say makes IUDs preferable since they require trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:05 PM
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Fine. Honestly my view is people at large are pretty fucking dreadful at picking who to sleep with. I agree with the responsibility part .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:00 PM
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Right. But condoms arent 100% effective so having a backup plan isn't a bad idea
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:57 PM
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Nobody is perfect but it seems like most men and women dont have even slightest foresight when considering who to fuck and that's just stupid. Or do you believe if for example men and women spent more time getting to know the people they sleep with before sleeping with them it wouldn't lead to less of this. You pick : Instant / fast sex Or waiting more but probably getting a better result. You can't have your cake and eat it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:56 PM
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Same advice that I gave OP. Lots of these can be mitigated by avoiding men you don't know well and trust
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:52 PM
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I know they usually don't and I think it's important that men also put in the effort all I'm saying is don't sleep with the few women who are the type of bitches who'll go tell half their friend group if you do mess up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:50 PM
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This is simple. Don't fuck women you don't trust to not humiliate you for your bed performance. And also don't fuck women you aren't comfortable having a kid with if you know that they won't be wiling to use the day after pill/ abortion or whatever . I know it's not very trendy for either gender to take responsibility when it comes to having sex but these are literally the easiest solutions. Ofcourse there is still the chance that you'll be tricked but just following those two steps properly wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:44 PM
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Maybe. Can't say I can bring myself to give a shit what happens in America eitherway tbh.and outside of thee we don't have shooter drills lol. Seems more like an American culture issue than specifically an incel issue since you also have school shootings for other reasons. Although I'm sure the incel thing worsens it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:31 PM
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First I'll list something's I found notable about what you wrote: Idk where you are referencing but especially in lots of East Asian cultures grandparents had more weight in family power than the man or the woman in 90% of circumstances ) so yeah will women definitely had less power and rights ( or had to be clever in how they exerted it unlike now) I don't by the "most men were aggressive wife beating rapists before feminism. But that's not relevant. I have no qualms with women being equal but …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:29 PM
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Seems like that. He probably wants to convince himself women would start liking 1/10s and considering them handsome if cultures change. I don't know for a fact but I feel like it's probably cos he's one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:10 PM
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As in . They aren't and never will be enough to cause any meaningful amount of damage to any country overall
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:07 PM
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Not a statistically significant number.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 01:15 PM
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I don't think anybody simultaneously says "women should marry " and "no man should marry " unless they mean "women should marry because it only benefits them and men on the other hand have nothing to gain" in which case wouldn't that be encouraging women to do something that'll hurt men, how would that benefit men ? It wouldn't and therefore why would they push it ? That's like way too much cognitive dissonance. Note : I am not trp tbp or whatever txp you can come up with
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 10:55 AM
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Across every single culture Taller people ( men especially ) Facial symmetry Wide hips (women ) Etc.. have been found to be preferred. So what you are asserting is that thousands of separate cultures just happened to prefer these traits and biology had no role at all? Like if you actually believe that I just can't say anything else. Like our disagreement is so fundamental that there's no room for discussion. Not to mention just the idea that there is no genetic factor in attraction is just so lu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 10:51 AM
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Yeah ofcourse skin tone, some amount of the facial structure and stuff like that is preference. Or more so than preference id say nurture. But either way the absolute denial op finds himself in is funny. Something tells me he didn't pick the right parents
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 10:44 AM
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Disprove it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 10:16 AM
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Is this what terminally ugly men and women like to tell themselves?, granted I'm not much of a looker but this shits just next level. No, things like symmetry , height , strength etc.. are all biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 07:44 AM
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its kinda worrying that only shitholes where murder, rape and torture are norm are having population growth
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 07:32 AM
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I also group that under invasion
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 09:23 PM
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nvm googled it. And why would an American security service have anything to do in this? Mind your own business . This is a European issue. I know it's hard for some Americans to grasp but you aren't needed as world police. Kindly fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 08:48 PM
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NSA?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 08:46 PM
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(i should note when i said we im only half european genetically speaking ) yes that is an issue, its kind of ironic too isnt it, if you dont have kids so they dont have to deal with it you are effectively losing the game right from the start . with current western culture nothing can really be done bout this honestly. if i had kids especially daughters id probs move to western europe unless that goes to shit too in which case east asia would probably be a good bet.. safe, nice people , and doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 07:33 PM
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right. but i dont mean a military deployment . i meant a social conquest
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 07:00 PM
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oh i agree it wont change. and i also agree everyone like to have their cake and eat it so nothing will change. rather sad really since a cleaning up of society would benefit both genders in the long run
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 06:46 PM
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disagree. forcing another traumatic experience is just wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 06:25 PM
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im sure they will all be very regretful when they are forced to marry abdul who doesnt care about feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 06:08 PM
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i do agree on some of these, they would be effective without being too extreme, few note: widows and rape victims should obviously be exempt from the single motherhood penalization. overall these seem like fine goals without limiting personal freedom anymore than many other laws already do. yet i think people would still have a fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:34 PM
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well if europeans are stupid enough to let it happen then we deserve it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:26 PM
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doubt it, if europe was weakened to the point where islam could fully invade it, china being like 300 times more powerful than any islamic country would jump on that chance
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:06 PM
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Interesting for sure. Although I don't think the game will have enough time to play out naturally before much larger factors in this take hold. Such as gene editing, sure it's extremely limited right now but say in what.....50 years ? You can edit genes to get features you want with 99% precision. Of course this would be expensive but wouldn't it be amusing if rich parents could be a major player in whether you end up a 10/10 or an average Joe. Maybe I'm being a bit too optimistic on the timelin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 04:23 PM
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It was a hypothetical about the far off future. So yeah. I don't see how this goes against classes on evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 04:07 PM
3

Ah I just read the quoted part.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:38 PM
9

I mean planning an executing are very different. Both should end up with them being thrown in jail regardless but still I don't think counting attempts is appropriate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:36 PM
2

Honestly I see alot of predictions of how bad this'll end up . Varying from bad to awful but I would like to hear what some people would suggest to ease the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:34 PM
7

Comparatively speaking it is . Even if the overall deaths are pretty much a neglible statistic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:04 PM
10

Money is irrelevant once you have enough for what you want to do. Which they do Status is only important if it gets you what you want And wdym exactly by self expression.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:01 PM
4

Ideally if only some men are gonna get laid can it be good looking smart men please...ladies make it happen !
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:00 PM
5

How are freeters losers ? They are doing enough to not cost society and keep themselves distracted . I mean I guess they are in the "continuing the bloodline" sense but other than that I think it's probably the healthiest way for men who struggle that badly with women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:50 PM
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Whether the last part is true or not ( I'm assuming you're talking iq or eq or whatever ) it's rather yikes to read and makes you come off like a grade A douche. And yes you are free to chase only 11/10 men if you so please lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:47 PM
2

I think it's true that the wide amount of factors dull down the effect but I still think it's noticeable enough that men in a society where female sexuality isn't repressed to a large degree will look "better" than the generation before them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:43 PM
5

Fair I guess. This looks rather bleak for not attractive guys. But oh well nature selection was never about fairness lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:41 PM
1

Alright so you're telling me there's absolutely no correlation between how good kids look and their parents right
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:37 PM
4

Do you not understand the concept of "average" . Sure two 10/10s can produce a 1/10 but I'm talking about averages. Holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:31 PM
3

Yeah but we aren't going back to the 50s so that's not gonna change.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:26 PM
3

Yes but variance when the average is higher will still lead to on average better looking men that's not a good point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:22 PM
6

"Making them not depressed" from what I've heard it's more like shoving the clothes under the bed when mom tells you to tidy your room. Aka a temporal fix
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:12 PM
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Outside of America incels shooting places up is fairly uncommon. So yeah just more suicide
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:06 PM
3

Yeah they are average. But these "top men are also going to go for the higher end women if they do decide to settle So traditionally a 5 woman and a 5 man would've had kids. Now it'll be more like a 6 women and an 8 man having kids on average
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:04 PM
6

You see. Until recently female sexuality was controlled . Which meant ugly men had kids more often. This doesn't apply to what I'm saying. Nurture is a part but most of what makes for good looks is genetic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:02 PM
4

I partially agree but with the fact that there is much more state vigilance around the world I doubt any would get far
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 01:59 PM
5

Even if some did they'd be stomped out by the other men. After all, even disregarding the fact that the military would definitely be mostly against them , these sort of men aren't exactly not getting laid for being the strongest and most resourceful fellows.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 01:58 PM
2

You have a point. Still that only applies to the attractiveness side really. I still think it'd go up a bit from there being more assertive men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 01:56 PM
3

How did I not ?. Attractive people on average will have more attractive kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 01:53 PM
17

Not really a good comparison lol. China is an authoritarian government and if this becomes an issue for them they'll make it not be
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 01:52 PM
4

To a degree. But not always. Lots of factors have changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 01:47 PM
4

Honestly I mostly agree but. Technically. With falling birthrates if the sort of men women dont like never get laid wouldn't that lead to the few men who women like and have kids with having more kids. Which would generally mean they would look like / act like the sort of guy women like because genes? Eventually leading to atleast a minor increase in the percentage of men getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 01:46 PM
4

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 01:43 PM
3

Right. but I wouldn't put it past leaders in the next 40 years to start using drugs to pacify men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 01:43 PM
13

Where does it say that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 01:41 PM
0

Is there alot more lesbians than gay men. If not then this is totally irrelevant Even if hypothetically 90% of women became lesbians if 90 of men are gay it won't affect male / female sexlessness amount straight people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 10:04 AM
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I mean I do agree some women are paranoid bout porn but this analogy doesn't work. After all I think most of the damage porn does is in the imagery rather than the actual jerking off. Jerking off to your imagination is honestly alot healthier
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 09:38 AM
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totally agree. plus when used appropriately masculinity can lead for better stuff for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 06:58 AM
3

Ok come on nobody would actually say that. Even most woman hating man on the planet would acknowledge the fact that women are human.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:15 PM
1

Simply put .it removes the incentive to better yourself to find an actual partner. Not to mention it's a sector ripe with abuse and manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:08 PM
1

I don't remember specifying any gender / whatever other things
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:07 PM
1

I did. Since it's technically legal the people involved can be more easily identified and tracked if they decide to go to an underground operation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:28 PM
4

As if a large part of that isn't caused by improper socialization as a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:12 PM
2

honestly i find people who use prostitutes disgusting, but this isnt an effective or appropriate counter, just pushes the market more underground, my preferred solution would honestly be making it fully legal but so social frowned upon that a person caught engaging in it would never find a job again .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:48 PM
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you arent adressing my main point. im suggesting women stop chasing deadbeat violent men which doesnt help. note that this does not mean I expect women to start dating incels and men they consider unnatractive. but more so being much more selective when it comes to men with no self control. even if that may end up in more being single its better for everyone. its either this or we continue playing rapist whack a mole (sitting back letting it happen and then jailing the vermin) . which doesnt sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:35 PM
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not that i am not blaming the women for these mens actions. these men are scum and solely responsible for their actions, all im saying is a problem thats never born cant be a problem to anyone. not to mention the sheer amount of single parent homes ( which produce on average more problematic men) where the boys have no father to show them how to appropriately treat women. being told "respect women" and seeing a male figure respect a woman actively everytime you are home will never hold the same …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:24 PM
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first. massive generalisation. Two. im not responsible for other mens actions. everyone is playing a losing game while women continue to have kids with these sort of violent deadbeats. because a large part of it is genes. yes i said that, some men are more prone genetically to end up rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:21 PM
2

How the fuck are they ALL abuse victims????
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 11:42 AM
8

I read this to myself in a national geographic wildlife narrator voice, made it ten times better
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:42 AM
1

"San Francisco" lol because thats totally not gonna bias the study .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 11:33 PM
2

Right. But she's not speaking for herself she's speaking for women in general which is my issue
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 10:12 PM
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I ain't blaming anyone. I'm just saying this doesn't bode well for anyone with the possible exception of gay men who'll probably get a good laugh or two out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 09:00 PM
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Women acting more like men... Men generally don't like men ( romantically) ..... Less partners for everybody. Oh boy is this an amusing development
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:32 PM
2

Doubt. Covid has made people in general poorer. That plus unlike in times past 99.99999% effective broth control means partners at home maybe having more sex but that doesn't lead to more children. So yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:31 PM
2

Right . And you want your kids living in a society full of incels ,FSD type women and other undesirables ....yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:28 PM
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This is a fucking stupid perspective and only applies to a portion of women. From the amount of women in my life ( aunts , my mother etc..) who I've heard say they regret not having more children it's clear this is a you thing not a woman thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:25 PM
2

Well if it makes your prefer them then they aren't flaws lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:07 PM
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Lol those idiots are about as capable of hatching a long term plan as the average incel is at getting female attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:54 PM
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The thing is. like up to a point lots of whats considered attractive is usually the same for most people ( symmettry, non receeding chin,etc.. ) but what really maxes the person out to be that 10/10 is usually personal preference territory. think hair/ eye color, race , build (within a certain range) ...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 05:29 PM
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I never said men couldn't be. I'm just saying that from observation women are both better at it and use itore frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 01:00 PM
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The general reasons I've heard is The child might be a brat but since you aren't the father you can't do shit about it If the child is nice and you develop a bond same thing you aren't the father so if she leaves you get screwed. Plus if she ended up as a single mother ( widows and abuse victims apart) she's probably not very clever or responsible. And if the relationship broke down through no fault of her own and the breakup was peaceful she might have shared custody of the kid with the other g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:56 PM
2

Eh I still don't fully agree but I see your point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:48 PM
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Why are you surprised men like being desired / intimacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:45 PM
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I don't agree on points 2 and 5 Why would I not want a woman to pursue me? Like I don't see the issue Women can be just as abusive but they usually go about it with mental abuse rather than physical
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 12:41 PM
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Sometimes the misleading is self inflicted. I wasted 5 or so years chasing a girl who never gave any sign of interest or tried to used me / lead me on . Believe it or not it's quite hard to escape that little fantasy of "maybe someday she'll be interested" even if deep down you know it won't happen the hope is overpowering. It doesn't help that even the slightest thing they do gets magnified. A thing like them just casually touching you (ex them tapping on your shoulder ) makes you feel happy. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:36 AM
2

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:32 AM
7

This does make me wonder if many of my issues with interacting with girls was down to the fact that I never had a father figure to learn from.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:31 AM
4

I'm kinda getting fed up of all the "get an escort" brain-dead idiots. Sex with someone who doesn't give a shit about me sounds rather unappealing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:24 AM
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Unintended pregnancy from consensual sexis the womans problem mainly lol. Take a risk assume the consequences . As for rapists and the likes I personally would just execute them or throw them in camps to work for the women they raped with horrible living conditions ( advantages are two fold. They aren't in a jail living on tax money and their miserable conditions deincentivize future rapist scum ) . But apparently actual solutions aren't a thing people are interested in
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:35 PM
3

​ they wouldnt lol. atleast not even close to as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 04:14 PM
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fair enough. im just going off what ive heard girls say
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 09:10 AM
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bigger boobs . nah medium is premium in this sense. too much boob can ruin a figure. plus id prefer a partner without back pains. ass. same, moderate size is preferred. as for wider hips i havent given that much thought and i agree on waist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:41 AM
2

Granted I know a few girls who were actually surprisingly similar to that romance anime archetype. But they are the exception not the norm yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 12:35 AM
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I legit hated how in high school dating a girl was more of an audition with her friends than with the actual girl
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 12:25 AM
3

That may be the case . But please answer the main part. How the fuck would you set the lines and police them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 02:07 PM
1

And even with these the relationship shouldn't exceed a certain gap
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 02:03 PM
5

I do agree that it's incredibly immoral and repugnant but I'm on the fence about it being illegal. First because it's unpoliceable. Second because it's such a blurry line. Like is it ok if it looks like them but doesn't have their name.how similar is too similar ? Etc etc ... Also it's still not as bad as rape
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:44 PM
5

It very much does matter that it's not actually them. Or should twins have image rights over eachother.. one twin becoming a pornstar could ruin the others reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:35 PM
1

Well it simply is. Barring a few cases : The younger party is the one pushing for the relationship The older party isn't manipulative and is actually interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:31 PM
1

Fair enough I was viewing it from a "it's not actual flirting If there's no actual interest" perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:27 PM
4

"Same sentence as rapists" alright calm the fuck down that's like 10 steps too far let's find a nice middle ground
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:18 PM
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While it'll proba end up illegal I doubt it'll be prosecuted in most cases. Because of how stupidly impractical it is to police. It's the same reason I can find 99.99999% of songs with a quick Google search pirated for free
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:17 PM
2

Funny you say that because I'd argue stuff like drawings and cgi Is a win since there's no chance of young wen being prostituted over it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:12 PM
2

While I think it's morally bankrupt I don't see why it should be banned . After all it's not ACTUALLY them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:11 PM
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lol reductum to racism and homophobia what a classic. yeah no 30 year olds who date 18 year olds are ( in most cases ) gross and it should be frowned upon
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 11:41 AM
1

Other than my .other occasionally mentioning she wants grandkids someday not really. I enjoy the idea of being the protector. Not that I've really had much of a chance to play the role but it's not something I dislike
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:09 AM
3

This is bull. Ive had girls I knew wouldn't date me even if it was just us two on the planet be very touchy. This is more of a cultural thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:05 AM
1

smp?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:20 PM
8

I don't use dating apps but I assume maybe they have an algorithm where men who are swiped no often progressively show up less and less so they leave . That's just my guess and would explain why you'd rarely see them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 12:45 PM
2

"no business"" they are perfectly in their right to waste their time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 12:43 PM
2

I understand my partner is not meant to be my therapist or doctor I'm just aware I'm not very well adjusted to dating so I stay out of it. If you think about it I'm the only one losing out here so I don't see the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:51 AM
1

sure. girls love it when theyve just met me ( and guys too but in a different way) its when they have to deal with me daily that it goes off a cliff
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:00 AM
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i have had a few girls approach me but you have to understand its not necesarily getting laid or starting a relationship that would be impossible for me its the keeping one afloat part thats really hard,
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:59 AM
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This isnt 1650 if those men back then had had videogames, porn and had been slowly eased into the sort of life that relationshiples/ sexless men have today 90% of them wouldnt have rebelled
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 10:57 AM
2

Yes ma'am
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 09:33 AM
1

The barrier for a womans social skills is lower than a mans. Men will put up with a lot and even the women I had with serious issues they were working throgh had no shortage of other suitors. I am improving myself in other ways, just not in this area
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 07:27 AM
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It's not so much that they care (mostly because I never get to the phase where I'd tell them ) about it in a literal sense but it's just the way it impacts my behaviour around other people is in general not what most girls look for, I don't know when to shut up, pay attention , pick up on social ques etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 11:00 PM
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As one of the men who is kinda in this situation of not really doing more than the bare minimum I need to lay for my stuff in the work force you have to understand. I have 0 reason to change. I used to want a wife and children when I was a teenager, and I still do in a sense but seeing as I'm not that much of a looker and have ADHD ( which is partially genetic and not something I'd want to burden a partner ( not that 99% of girls are interested in a guy with ADHD anyways lol) and a possible subs…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 10:53 PM
2

yes. assuming everything else in the relationship is fine
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 09:11 AM
1

most men understand that. the issue isnt "dont be creepy" its knowing where the creepy line is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:55 AM
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the issue is often creepyness depends on how good you look / the girls mood. which is why i myself will continue going out of my way to not be perceived as a creep. hell i know its pretty extreme but if i turn two corners at night and find i am still behind some girl ill take another route. it makes me feel uncomfortable to be perceived as a creep let alone being one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:45 AM
2

you are aware that hentai dictates nothing about the content it just means its japanese and drawn. some hentai is the most vanilla shit ever. far more vanilla than most regular porn infact as it often incorporates a romantic storyline
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:41 AM
5

I understand someone wanting low or even no n count. The issue is of they expect the person to break the reason why they have the low or nonexistent n count just for them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:13 AM
0

alright im just gonna say it here if at any point you are worried about violence from a man you are going on dates on you are legitimately mentally handicapped for going on a date with him in the first place. that said you arent at fault IF something happens at all. just saying like, idk i wouldnt go anywhere with someone i dont feel safe around
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:11 AM
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my thoughts exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:48 AM
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Holy shit what an omega brain move. Maybe they can only date twins or something. Sleep with one while the other waits for marriage and hope the libido genes carry over
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:34 AM
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i have never seen a single guy who wants both of these at the same time lol this sounds like bull. its either one or the other anything else is unreasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:08 AM
1

settling is the worst idea ever. it just leads to unhappiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:03 AM
2

What's ps outta curiosity?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:06 PM
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Many people think that most men would turn violent but I doubt it. I think in other times this would be the case but nowadays we have just about enough distractions from sadness ( video games porn etc ..) to sink into a lonely life without rebelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:38 PM
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lol nobody takes those movies seriously anymore. if anything its more common in anime, but even there its very split because female oriented anime (shoujo ) actually pretty accurately portrays what I have found most women want irl, whilst its the anime that's made for guys shows a loser getting 5 10/10 girls fawning over him, which seems rather pointless because its just giving guys unrealistic expectations and telling girls what girls already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:51 AM
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that is unfortunately probably correct. which i don't find a rather amusing proposition ( morrocans are fine because they share a large amount of culture with Spain and integrate pretty well) but subsaharan Africans are uhhhhhh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:47 AM
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Im aware, but in my country (spain) people often dont and the birth rate is 1.27 and people shrug like its not a looming disaster
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:24 AM
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id say it depends on the context of other stuff largely but eitherway its a very person to person matter
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 11:01 AM
1

best case scenario automation comes in clutch but i doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 09:24 AM
1

Not entirely wrong. but slightly off. i want to be succesful at getting a LTR not just sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 08:04 AM
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ok you make a couple of fair points and honestly if you were ok with your hypothetical guy jerking off without porn i could see that as a fair compromise but yeah idk this feels overblown ive never once met a guy who preffered porn to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:39 AM
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i have trouble believing men would rather watch porn then fuck . like it just seems so unintuitive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:27 AM
1

who will be old and kidless in 50 years. is delaying doom really a good way?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:21 AM
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not to mention the fact that its not a "what if " its a RIGHT NOW issue. look you cant force people to have kids but i expect the, to acknowledge the issues. spain and south korea are good examples with birthrates in the low 1 children per woman and thats still lagging behind the actual number for our generation (gen z ) which will probably be 0.7
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:14 AM
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i respect everyones right to not have kids. i also hope they shut the fuck up when there is no young people to pay for pensions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:00 AM
3

this wont happen. well it will but wont. this depends on having poor countries (which are the ones with good birthrates) to bring in people from. sure short term it might work. but 2nd generation mexicans / wherever also end up with the same low birth rate patterns . so what happens if you start running out of poor countries to leech people off
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:38 AM
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thats your choice / their choice but i hope they are willing to accept it when the pension money runs out if we havent managed to automate the majority of work before we start running out of young people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:35 AM
3

yeah but i was really proud of my eggplants. ah well
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:34 AM
1

I don't know why I expected a PPD moderator to be a miserable sob but I'm glad it's not the case :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:09 PM
1

Eh. Could be worse ..not happy at all though . I'm too caught up in the past whole at the same time constantly worried about the future
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:07 PM
3

Rope is cheap. I'm only being semi facetious. I think that's the path quite a few will take
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:05 PM
1

Thanks for this gave me a good laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:59 PM
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Idk what to say really (man here ). Not in a relationship ship and not planning to be in one so this doesn't really affect me I guess. Sure I'll be sad if some girl I care about is lonely because of this is but hey it's on them to find something to keep them happy not me. Although I hear alot from older women ( including my mother ) with one or no children that later in life they have serious regrets about not having had kids so I don't know if the genders just not interacting in large numbers i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:27 PM
3

:( gonna have to rethink my strategy goddamit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:11 PM
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This Is deluded. As a man I predict lots of lonely men and women ( more men tho) in ten years..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:20 AM
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a: that bring a whole load of problems with cultural and social integration B: it has been proven that after a few generations of they end up exactly the same This is no solution
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 08:02 PM
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I see where this is going . I'll translate it to what this person actually means . "I / most women am not interested in average men. Therefore I wish for them to give up on getting laid / finding a partner and hopefully they'll fuck off into a dark room and play videogames all day so I don't have to go through the awful experience of actually bothering to reject them" . Which you know fair enough you're not obliged to date average men or care for their well being. But please if you don't care ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 07:53 PM
2

Yes that maybe true but the fertility window for women hasn't shifted in the last 40000 years so if people mature later it impacts birth rates and it sets off a chain of unpleasant societal effects
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 07:45 PM
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i could think of many situations: ( all leading to wanting to use said girl for sex) Power dynamics ( being the boss and using potential raises to obtain "favours" ) Faking an interest as a sort of caring person or father figure just really any manipulative antics of this sort, note i am a guy so this is speculation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:54 PM
1

They don't
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 11:38 AM
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The thing is. The places for meetups are shrinking. Less people go out to places. Even post covid 90% of tech businesses will have most of their people working from home ( talking tech because I know it and it's a big sector) a trend that with automation will probably be followed by other sectors . If you are a 5/10 man in every sense then and the more equal play field that is real life dating is drying up it's understandable that you may feel desperate. That said I'm not saying we should force …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 09:21 AM
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i wonder if this dichotomy is a remnant of an age where woman had less rights and therefore had to scheme to get their way where as men could brute force what they wanted most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 07:12 AM
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what this guy said. many of us are willing to accept "tough luck" and just live without women in our lives. but some men are violent thugs and if you expect them to sit and watch you are deluded. now sure we could just jail / kill any man who did "rebel" . But realistically that isnt going to happen. so whats the game plan? note that i dont think women should lower their standards since that usually just ends up with a messy relationship where they dont feel like the partner is good enough. havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:58 AM
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honestly they usually dont, not to mention its gross lol. I dont understand why people are like "ew pedo" when they see 15-18 but dont bat an eye at 18-40 as if people are suddenly magically fully mature at 18
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:46 AM
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they are generally in my experience way better at comforting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:45 AM
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tbh ive always noticed the fight thing. me and other guys could punch eachother and be friends by tomorrow, but if you got caught in some vicious female groupy reputation ruining scheme they wouldnt just hate you theyd make half the people in the larger group hate you too. more like psychological violence
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:43 AM
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My my it's almost as if we desire affection from someone of the fairer sex. As to why we slump more into bad habits and depression, well see it this way. The longer we go without said female affection the more stuff we use to distract ourselves from the emptyness . These bad habits make us less attractive to women so it's a negative feedback loop. Note before the mgtow creep up and proclaim how they "need no woman" I'm simply talking about guys like me . Not all men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 01:24 PM
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id say yes. because i think most men see the current dating market as less desirable than it used to be so there's little motivation to do more than what they need to live comfortably by themselves and pay for whatever hobbies / hookups / whatever they enjoy doing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 07:37 AM
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harry potter is a lot of mens childhoods. its that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:52 AM
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The numbers given were merely an example. Plus I stated no genders. And yes I want traditional for people who it works well for. And any other arrangement that suits other couples. all I don't want is everything in the relationship to be broken down to raw percentage based contributions. Aslong as both sides feel they aren't carrying too much that should be enough
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:51 AM
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Jeez why does everything have to be 50 50 in relationships everybody is different some people might prefer a 70/30 split for chores and an 20/80 split for money. Relationships should be about making sure both sides are happy not some mathematical equality bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:15 AM
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I don't know. I have no idea of what FDS does overall. There's probably other parts I don't support but I do support this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 08:24 AM
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That's something that I honestly have very little knowledge on. I spent most of my teens ( when I'd consider guys are most likely to go for just sex ) fawning over a girl I had like since before puberty so my interest was purely romantic for the most part . And I think that may have skewed my vision and made me a bit too idealistic over the decency of the intentions of an average man . But who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 11:05 PM
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What if I substitute dumb with poorly informed. And honestly Im surprised that you're 35 and don't consider this obvious. Goes to show how much men and womens ideas of "obvious" vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 10:45 PM
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I'm not saying it's the most common knowledge women are given. In just saying being a man myself I know that I would stick around for a girl I actually liked even without sex. (Note : this DOES NOT mean I would allow myself to be friendzoned if I see no signs of any romantic interest I willl leave) Granted there's many reasons I would be a bad partner so take my point of view with a grain of salt. But I generally think the whole idea of delaying what men want whatever it maybe is something that …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 10:29 PM
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Sure. But say what X woman wants is a man who wants her for more than sex. Simple solution here. Delay sex and see if he stays around. Apply this principle to any undesirable traits she wishes to weed out .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 10:13 PM
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Alright smartass. If you have a solution that jail's all rapists and doesn't unjustly put any innocent people in jail I'd love to hear it. If not I suggest we continue working on a innocent until proven guilty basis. Not to mention that if the aim is to reduce cases of sexual assault/ harrasment there's way more effective ways than just believing all victims
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 10:03 PM
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I meant actual victims. Like ones with proof .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:40 PM
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As for the first 99% of us never blame victims And as for the second . Smart women know how to veto shit men . If some women are too stupid to not date men who only want them for sex I'm not going to feel bad for them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:09 PM
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Cool. ( And did you really downvote me for asking which sort of erotic material you were referencing specifically. Kinda lame but whatever lol) I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 08:13 PM
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Specify "pornography"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 09:35 PM
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It's sad because it wasn't always like this. Single motherhood and gang culture have wrecked the black community in the US. Or atleast that's how I see it but I'm like half black and live surrounded by whites in Europe so my assesment maybe erroneous
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 09:21 AM
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You do realize Stephen hawking was not yet a disabled mess when he met his wife right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 06:30 AM
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I understand the inner workings of supply and demand I'm simply saying in this case I think the bottleneck ( production) is easier to go for than the 100s of millions of men consuming. Granted I do think both should be addressed since even if porn was reduced to only "ethically" made porn it's still bad since it causes addiction and a while host of other issues. So yes I agree with you fully but I just think we should go about solving it with different priorities is all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 10:12 PM
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Be that as it may it should be cut off at the source not at the recipient. If all the vermin who coerced young women into porn were given the death penalty or something akin to that I'm sure it would go way further than looking down on men who watch the stuff. I get tired of the same idealistic mantra of "everyone should be moral" when it clearly doesn't work. Force on the other hand would
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 09:57 PM
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Weird question but how do you think that having participated rather little in the dating market ( you mention in another comment you were eachother's first so I'm assuming neither had much experience in the dating world as a whole ) affects your perspective of dating. Because I've spotted a trend that the "teenage sweetheart to married couple" types tend to be rather optimistic about the matter especially those who have been together for a long time. Like you guys seem to have hit the jackpot pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 06:47 PM
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that may be true. but then again with automation set to take over most repetitive blue collar work( and a lot of management type white collar work) you have to wonder what the under class is even gonna do . truly an interesting century for humanity as a concept. and knowing humans itll probably end in mass genocide or something of the sort. we are good at that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:59 AM
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i totally agree with you. i wonder what the future holds. now that we are bordering on the edge of understanding human dna well enough to start editing it at some point in the next 50 years. i know i sound crazy but i can see a future where people can pay to guarantee their kids are good looking / smart or whatever the fuck else they want. and i fear the social consequences that would bring. probs just me tho
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:40 AM
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that's an interesting theory. that said humans have twisted selection so much anyways that its hard to tell what is and what isn't. like welfare or advancements in medicine(not saying these are bad thing but they alter the natural order)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:22 AM
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im aware. my point is simply that natural selection isnt perfect from the point of view of advancing the species.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:17 AM
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thats true but i dont think being fit should be a sole requirement like : "he has to be hot and smart" in 90% of occasions is gonna lead to a better partner than "any hot guy will do"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:14 AM
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i agree in theory but seeing women dont exactly pick the highest iq men when deciding who to fuck you have to wonder if natural selection has fucked up somewhere along the way. that said im not gonna whine about it i just dont believe your conclusion is entirely valid
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:07 AM
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Nobody calls women "females" unless it's followed by a profession . Well except for like 3 incels .it's not a big issue
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 01:17 PM
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well girl it seems we are at an impass because i fundamentally disagree with you i dont think he had ill intent. but then again im the sort of person who you could walk upto randmonly call me the n word and i wouldnt mind so i understand im probably not very in tune with other peoples racial sensibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:42 AM
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yes it would be fine if you quoted black slurs aslong as the context made sense and the objective wasnt to offend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:34 AM
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honestly cant say my dude since i am not in that position. but id assume its probably not that bad. id say try it out. after all you aren't gonna be drunk so its not like you are gonna do anything stupid its a win win. if you go and don't enjoy it you know to avoid it . if you do then congrats you have a new pastime
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:31 AM
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what part of asia to be exact?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:23 AM
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hes clearly not trying to be offensive about it. plus he was quoting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:22 AM
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​ honestly the idea of paying for sex repels me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:19 AM
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some people forget how important C is. its kinda funny how taking a left or a right turn on intersection one day can change how your whole life ends up
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:13 AM
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Inevitable_Gain_7456 trust me you are better off not going. atleast in my experience you dont fit the mood at all even when you are with your friends since they act different with alcohol and if you are extra unlucky you get to babysit a friend who went overboard
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:12 AM
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nobody is entitled to any choice of partner this is obvious. doesn't make it less painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:08 AM
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Taking the C route after a less than pleasant half a decade long unrequited love LOL. shit is not pleasant. i may reevaluate at a later point. ​ To answer your question I think this division is a bit too crude. like there is more shades to it. some people settle for someone they kinda like but not really . which honestly is such an awful idea. imagine being with someone who thought "eh you'll do cause i cant find better" doesn't seem like a good way to go about thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:04 AM
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Damn a good take on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 07:56 AM
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Really depends honestly. One of my aunt's married her boyfriend in her early 20s and she's still happily with him uh 40 odd years later. Granted they had known eachother since they were teens so it wasn't exactly like they hadn't had time to know eachother like most 20 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 07:52 AM
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if you call a meteoric suicide rate "fine" then sure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 07:29 AM
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I mean its a serious issue in some way but in others it isn't. For me personally as long as we (ill include myself since i estimate that currently i am not very attractive in terms of status to the average woman mostly through my own fault ) one could argue that having a bunch of semi depressed porn addicted young men isn't healthy for society and they would largely be very correct in assuming that. another part of me thinks that its just natural selection doing its job. the issue then lies in w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 07:27 AM
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men have varying levels of libido. and even aside from that my sexual interest isn't uniformly applied to every women i meet. I will probably rate you in my head if i see you but i don't have the time to develop a sex scene in my head every time i see someone of the fairer sex. In lots of cases other things will come to mind first
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 07:17 AM
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afaik ( only considering europe since i know nothing about america ) women are entering science degrees at a higher rate than men except for a few areas like engineering which seems to appeal more to guys. and seeing as women are also more likely to finish careers im predicting it will soon flip
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 10:04 AM
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i sincerely dont understand what you meant here. mind rephrasing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 07:46 AM
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science hasnt been seen as a masculine thing for a LONG time now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 07:45 AM
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while i vehemently oppose any sort of rape (duh) including the ones based on manipulation instead of force the manipulation ones are so much harder to police. but yeah victims are never responsible. congrats you have an opinion 99,5% of the population hold
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 07:07 AM
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i dont think thats a totally fair evaluation. my grandmother and grandfather celeberated their 50th anniversity and its not about "yay look we havent gone to shit yet" as much as it is a sort of celebration where you remember all the good times in your marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 06:58 AM
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I mean i wouldn't know outright since i haven't gotten laid but i had a small e thing with sexting and assuming its the same for me irl then id say : ​ It would change my view of her. not negatively though unless its really weird. more so just surprised if it differs from what i expect based on her personality outside of bed. Although yeah i default to "vanilla-fag" ​ No wouldn't make them un-wifeable. As to whether it would make me like them more. well that really depends . if it helps me disco…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 08:50 AM
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(note : had no idea who that was until right now) yes. but if this is meant to be some gotcha cause she had plastic surgery then you missed my point. i dont think plastic surgery ruins faces. i just dont wanna be with someone who feels the need to do that to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:22 PM
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also fuck plastic surgery except for like burn victims. its the most vain shit ever. if the face needs plastic surgery to be pretty thats a major turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 10:24 AM
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even if they had the genetic potential to be what i would consider a 10/10 you have to wonder. if they are in such a state its probably an indicator that they dont love themselves. so yeah id stay away
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 10:23 AM
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gross
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 09:01 AM
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personally no not at all. in fact id be glad if all women had the foresight not to chase bottom of the barrel men with no money. that said while I am perfectly OK and encourage them to seek men who they can be financially stable with I draw the line at them ONLY dating men for this purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 08:33 AM
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Did i interpret this right? so women who uhhhh actually think things through before jukping into bed with someone are traumatised or have low self esteem. wtf. that makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 07:59 AM
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This isnt true. It just isnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 07:56 AM
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