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| 3 | Getting number in Tinder and OKCupidThis is the dumbest shit ever | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 05:57 PM |
| 3 | If she keepsYOUR favorite soda always stocked... you’re daddy. If you see a well stocked soda in her fridge but she won’t drink it... you’re side piece.What the fuck did I just read.... | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 06:09 PM |
| 6 | Lesbian here: how to proceedOne of the main tenants of this community is always come from a position of strength in any romantic interaction. This means building up your value, cultivating a strong worldview, and above all else setting strong boundaries on what you're willing to accept based on a strong sense of self esteem. In your case I would say this means pursuing and exploring options but also creating a strong sense of what you are willing to accept in the relationship you desire. If this girl is someone you love bu… | /r/seduction | 11/01/19 08:33 PM |
| 3 | I guess I'm not allowed to speak to women anywhere unless they give a clear signal?Lol then your reality is really defeatist. You gripe about all these problems and how nothing works, and all the places you don't want to try, but you haven't stated what you're willing to offer to entice these women. DHV is essential in this, and if you can't convey it, or don't have it you need to find ways of bettering yourself until you get it. What are you doing to improve your life? Are you getting in shape, are you trying new exciting hobbies? Are you building a business or pursuing som… | /r/seduction | 27/12/18 11:33 PM |
| 7 | I guess I'm not allowed to speak to women anywhere unless they give a clear signal?You have a really defeatist mindset.... | /r/seduction | 27/12/18 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Simple, just skip the last oneAnnnnnnnd now the Monty Python Flying Circus theme is stuck in my head :D | /r/MGTOW | 22/01/18 12:15 AM |
| 2 | [Inner Game] 10 personal core beliefs I read everyday.Actually could you explain #4? I love the way it sounds but I don't really get the what you mean by concealing your character? | /r/seduction | 02/12/17 04:40 PM |
| 5 | The Reality of the "Pros": My experience hanging out with 3 of the top PUA guys in the business.Great post! Would love to hear more! | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 07:32 PM |
| 2 | How To Ask My Girlfriend Out Via Text.When you maintain the mantra "you should never stop pickup/dating when you're in a relationship" that doesn't mean that you need to maintain some sort of power play, it just means that you need to maintain your higher value. You're overthinking things | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 06:43 PM |
| 6 | Guys, I just got legally accused of sexual assault, and I'm in the worst state of my life. Please helpYou talked to the police voluntarily and now you have a reddit post out in public that could constitute various admissions. Fucking moron, get your shit together, get a lawyer and delete this post | /r/seduction | 20/10/15 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Men who have been able to drastically enhance the caliber of women they get with - how did you do it?I increased the caliber of my own life and held the women I got with to a higher standard once I got there. I ended a pretty bad relationship with a girl that I idolized but in reality was a pain in the ass and didn't really fit into the life that I wanted for myself. I was incredibly depressed and had a very poor self image so I decided that even if it took a year, I was going to create a life for myself and improve myself to the point where I loved who I was and had unshakable confidence becau… | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 08:29 PM |
| 1 | How to SIGNIFICANTLY reduce approach anxiety and that awkward feeling when talking to girls [Serious]Lol there you go again, please keep continuing to be unable to defend the merits of anything you've posted on here. You're either the best troll I've ever seen or the most useless waste of space ever. Can't wait to see more of your enlightening comments | /r/seduction | 01/09/15 10:34 PM |
| 2 | How to SIGNIFICANTLY reduce approach anxiety and that awkward feeling when talking to girls [Serious]So like all of your replies to comments criticizing your posts you just go for baseless personal attacks? Wow, you're just as worthless as your techniques | /r/seduction | 01/09/15 10:29 PM |
| 1 | How to SIGNIFICANTLY reduce approach anxiety and that awkward feeling when talking to girls [Serious]You know what another way to control awkwardness is? To just train yourself to be comfortable without creating needless awkwardness in the process... Keep at it! I'd love to keep hearing more useless posts that fail to advance my own understanding in no meaningful way while you make an ass of yourself. | /r/seduction | 01/09/15 10:23 PM |
| 2 | How to SIGNIFICANTLY reduce approach anxiety and that awkward feeling when talking to girls [Serious]Here here... This is the type of dumbshit circular logic posts that dilute other quality reports... the type of "if you think standing around awkwardly and creepy girls out is a bad idea then you obviously care what people think" is toxic to what otherwise can be a positive and enlightening community. The point is to not be a robot and practice one technique at a time but to become confident and well rounded to the point that each step in the game doesn't require analysis. This kid may have a fo… | /r/seduction | 01/09/15 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Lost my PUA wingman today, and could use a third perspective.The problem with a lot of people in this community community who take their skills (and ambitions) to the extreme is that they become fairly soulless along the way. I've reached a point where I can take a girl out, and if I'm into it, at least get a K-Close with an eventual F-Close and date a few people on the side. What's helped me the most though is trying to improve all areas of my life, going exploring, meeting new people, improving my business. This as a whole has not only improved my game … | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 11:43 PM |
| 7 | Seddit a tip on how to not give a fuck!This is the dumbest shit I've ever read and reminiscent of why I left /r/howtonotgiveafuck in the first place. By making en effort to not give a fuck you are by default giving a lot of fucks because you are still making yourself aware of other people's impressions by attempting to not care what they think. They BETTER exercise, and one that actually improves your confidence and life direction is to place your own judgments and impressions above all others. By default you stop caring what others … | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 11:56 PM |
| 1 | I have no friendsSo go get some friends you big dumb loser :) Seriously though, finding a social circle is just having the courage to step outside your comfort zone, and put yourself in situations where you meet new people. Eventually meet enough people and you start hanging with them on the reg. Bam friends. Don't over think it. Honestly pickup is so much easier when you have a core social scene that you can use to facilitate your social options, work on this first. | /r/seduction | 31/07/15 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Had a date setup today, girl called it off. Where do i stand?I guarantee that there' another girl out there that's more fun out there. I think you're investing too much attention into an interaction that you haven't received anything from and therefore have no need to. For example, I'm pretty sure the Tinder girl I had plans with tonight is going to flake, which is partially my fault because I probably could've put more effort into it, and partially fine because I value myself enough to not be involved with someone so flakey and aloof. I also fucked anoth… | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Had a date setup today, girl called it off. Where do i stand?This is totally innocuous, you've been hanging out with a girl you haven't escalated, and receive a neutral text that for all intents and purposes is genuine. If she was really interested though she would make moves to reschedule. The real way to handle this is start dating 2 other girls at the exact same time. You'll convey value since you won't be needy or singularly focused on the outcome with this girl anymore and if she continues to flake you're also dating 2 other girls. | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Few things to remember, in order to improve this subGood man! #SaveSeddit | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 07:57 PM |
| 0 | So I had my first Tinder date yesterdayThe issue I have isn't about the fact that its a beginner post, its the fact that there is literally a sidebar right there -> that covers the basics and giving anyone with a foundation to discuss. Posts like this are essentially lazy because the only question they present is "Guys how do I talk to gurlz" without putting in any effort, research or challenging themselves | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 06:06 PM |
| 1 | So I had my first Tinder date yesterdayThe only knowledgable post on this thread is downvoted, this subreddit is ridiculous | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 04:39 AM |
| -1 | So I had my first Tinder date yesterdayImagine a forum about people passionate about auto repair and rebuilding engines on old muscle cars. Its advanced and takes a certain level of prerequisite skill to discuss and learn more than you already do. Then imagine 9/10 posts on that forum are "Guys I just opened to hood for the first time, how do I check my oil?!?". Not only does it add nothing of value to people who legitimately want to improve upon beginning, intermediate, or advanced skills, it dilutes any valuable information in gene… | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 04:37 AM |
| -3 | So I had my first Tinder date yesterdayGod damn these beginner threads are becoming unbearable... | /r/seduction | 20/03/15 10:14 PM |
| 1 | The lessons I learned trying to help my female friend pickup a quality manI think the key here is that there are no specific hobbies or skills that are "interesting" per se. Its having both a wide range of interests and a set of passions that make you both unique and well rounded. Almost any hobby can be fascinating if you push the limits of that experience. The bottom line is go out and collect experiences, whatever they are. You like Canoeing? Talk about how you went on a portaging trip in Minnesota last Summer (even if it doesn't help you with pickup its an awesome… | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 12:49 AM |
| 3 | I recently read this quote. It basically changed the way I converse with people.Also, Constitutional Monarchy FTW! | /r/seduction | 12/12/14 10:10 PM |
| 2 | I recently read this quote. It basically changed the way I converse with people.Here here! | /r/seduction | 12/12/14 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Date brings friend along with her, has this happened to anyone else?Let me rephrase that, girls will have their guard up when meeting new people in almost any situation. It's OP's job to create enough rapport and comfort that she wouldn't feel the need to bring a friend. Here feeling insecure wasn't about her, it was OP not doing a good enough job at laying initial groundwork. What should OP have done? He should have built better comfort, and gotten to know the girl a little better (at MINIMUM created enough attraction initially to build off of) before he asked … | /r/seduction | 04/10/14 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Date brings friend along with her, has this happened to anyone else?Jesus Christ.... Its comments like this that make me distrust the advice of half the people on this sub. Have some basic understanding.... When girls are insecure and feel uncomfortable about a potential meeting they might bring a friend for security purposes. This means that (1) you haven't set up a situation where she feels comfortable enough that she can trust you on her own and (2) that you haven't created a strong enough frame that you're not interested in the ambiguous awkward 3 person sit… | /r/seduction | 04/10/14 07:10 AM |
| 8 | Date brings friend along with her, has this happened to anyone else?Spot on man... The majority of this thread and PUA as its become more mainstream is "I've read the game once, analyze my unverified theory on basic interaction with women". Shit like this makes me distrust the opinion of almost anyone but myself on this sub. The fundamentals of anything pickup related are this: (1) Form yourself into the best possible self you can be, (2) Meet girls with detactment, hope, and curiosity as what could turn out, (3) Have fun, enjoy yourself and stop listening to an… | /r/seduction | 04/10/14 07:03 AM |
| 1 | 23 year old virgin going to Zante tomorrow: Advice?Is there some X factor we're missing here? You've spent about $7 grand on pickup and you have only kissed 20 girls over 3 years? (Based on the numbers above, that's 20 kisses for approximately 624 days/nights of going out over 3 years) You claim to be confident, attractive, and successful and as such your lack of success must mean you're incel. I don't buy it though, its just a buzzword you use because you can't seem to identify the problem. Have you thought that maybe based on all of the wide r… | /r/seduction | 27/08/14 04:26 PM |
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