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9

Ultimately it comes down to money. Every dollar spent on men is a dollar not being spent on women.
/r/MensRights08/09/20 02:12 AM
1

Lol not once does it mention male victims in this whole article. Included how?
/r/MensRights07/09/20 08:06 PM
18

Try to drop it and pick something else. If you can’t I suggest putting in a fake smile, telling them what they want to hear, and realizing that everything they “teach” you is absolute bullshit.
/r/MensRights07/09/20 07:12 PM
2

If you try hard enough you can probably find a shit hole somewhere in the world that’s basically lawless. That’s technically “fair”
/r/MensRights07/09/20 06:30 PM
12

Why are you taking gender studies in the first place? If it’s required you should really talk to someone about that. There’s a reason it’s nicknamed “grievance studies” Everyone who works in that field is like that.
/r/MensRights07/09/20 06:28 PM
15

Literally just click on the header of the picture
/r/MensRights07/09/20 02:22 AM
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It’s the top comment.
/r/MensRights06/09/20 08:47 PM
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Lol people tried to report it to get it removed and the mods were like wtf are you guys talking about.
/r/MensRights06/09/20 08:43 PM
3

I disagree. Going to a prostitute you presumably actually get something out of.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/20 03:32 PM
2

I don’t find it all thy impressive. It’s the same thing they’ve always been aging about condemning false accusers. It really shows they don’t care about men at all. There’s nothing new about it.
/r/MensRights05/09/20 03:26 PM
9

She wrote an entire book called “The War against Boys” does that count?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/20 09:06 PM
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Ultimately (like everything else) it comes down to money. Feminists need to continue getting government funding and money put towards women and women’s causes. Every dollar that goes to support men is one that isn’t going towards women
/r/MensRights02/09/20 07:21 PM
7

I think he was referring to how you know what is in the men’s restroom not why your in the sub. Thank you for the support though.
/r/MensRights31/08/20 11:41 PM
24

It seems reasonable to me. Men also have shorter lines because we have, and are able to use, urinals which take less time and space.
/r/MensRights31/08/20 11:40 PM
4

Sounds interesting. I’m sure it will be barred from theaters just like The Red Pill
/r/MensRights31/08/20 09:28 PM
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I understand the meme and everything but how is putting lemon in your water healthier? I thought it was just a preference.
/r/MensRights31/08/20 05:38 PM
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Higher than that. That assumes it only fails if you get a divorce. There are lots of failed marriages that don’t divorce for many reasons.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/20 05:11 AM
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CONSAD Report
/r/MensRights18/08/20 12:49 PM
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I’m in therapy right now and it’s going well for me though I have had bad therapists in the past. It takes a few tries to find a good match because every therapist is different. Definitely avoid feminist therapists though. Might want to ask before hand.
/r/MensRights18/08/20 12:44 PM
2

You should not be ashamed but your assessment of their reactions is probably correct. Feminists respond to pretty much any challenge with shame because they don’t know any other way.
/r/MensRights18/08/20 12:22 PM
5

In the story he specifically stated that if one of them had to die he thought it should be him.
/r/MensRights14/08/20 03:42 AM
5

You guys have other problems right?
/r/MensRights12/08/20 03:55 AM
1

I know that people aren’t a big fan of Joe Rohan on here bc of his wishy washy stances but I found the episode he did with James Lindsey very enlightening. Here’s the episode he did about the academic papers he wrote that were mentioned in the article: Joe Rogan 1191
/r/MensRights12/08/20 03:53 AM
2

Where are you so I can go there?
/r/MensRights12/08/20 03:48 AM
1

Is there any point in signing this if your not from the UK? I don’t know how impactful this can be if there are a bunch of Americans signing it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/20 08:57 PM
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I would say it’s more accurate that everyone is oppressed men and women included. Not that women are not oppressed. Generally I think when MRAs talk about women being oppressed in 3rd world counties they are contrasting it to first world countries. Basically all of the forms of oppression you mentioned for men with the exception of child labor still occur in the first world but the issues facing women in third world countries no longer exist/are very rare. This shows significant improvement in w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/08/20 08:28 PM
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True but then you, and any sane people, at least know the replies are just being asinine instead of thinking they have a point
/r/MensRights09/08/20 07:05 AM
2

Might want to add a /s
/r/MensRights09/08/20 05:52 AM
4

Feminism is the direct cause of many of the issues discussed on this sub including child custody, domestic violence laws, and the education gap. Other issues feminism actively makes worse or shuts down discussion on such as the gender empathy gap and male disposability. Your assertion is based in a fallacy: that feminism was ever interested in equality.
/r/MensRights07/08/20 12:08 PM
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Girls should take self defense classes. Guys should also take self defense classes. Defending yourself is an important skill. It also teaches a lot about restraint and discipline. Tldr: self defense classes are good and everyone should take them.
/r/MensRights06/08/20 02:46 PM
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My bad
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/20 12:06 PM
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Your suggestion seems to revolve around getting these women to take responsibility for something (anything). Good luck with that. Edit: these
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/20 03:01 AM
1

I agree but I doubt the feminists see it that way.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/20 12:36 AM
1

Ok yes that’s true. I shouldn’t have used the term unemployed. You will notice they did not use it either. It’s simply the share of women in the workforce. I do not believe they are counting housewives as “in the work force” otherwise almost every married woman would be employed right now as they are presumably at home if they don’t have a job.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/20 09:59 PM
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”This spring, the share of women in the workforce dropped below 50% for the first time in 40 years”So for the last 40 years, men have been less than 50%? I believe they were comparing it to the total population of women not the total population of employed people. They’re saying that female unemployment is above 50%.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/20 06:53 PM
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Thank you
/r/MensRights01/08/20 06:13 PM
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Do you have sources for the first 2 claims?
/r/MensRights01/08/20 10:54 AM
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But those are the only men that exist to them so it’s “society”
/r/MensRights31/07/20 08:37 AM
6

I don’t know what you expect when you ask people with a degree in grievance studies about economics instead of asking an economist.
/r/MensRights31/07/20 05:37 AM
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I’m not sure we’re quite at fds levels of bs yet
/r/MensRights31/07/20 04:45 AM
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Who are you and why do you think you know things about people you don’t know?
/r/MensRights30/07/20 01:14 PM
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I agree that there’s a lot of useless complaining that happens on this sub. I would disagree with your second statement though in cases like domestic violence and even regular violence. Women can usually freely do what a man would be charged with assault for.
/r/MensRights30/07/20 03:30 AM
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Are you advocating for change or just pointing out hypocrisy?
/r/MensRights30/07/20 03:24 AM
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What do you mean “anymore”?
/r/MensRights29/07/20 08:49 PM
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I think there was a video of that on here by the author of the book. If it wasn’t the same person it was very similar
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/20 06:09 PM
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Let’s put together a ship crew and go live on international waters
/r/MensRights28/07/20 03:39 AM
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Once again, not children. If a man doesn’t want to be a father and leaves while abortion is still an option then the responsibility for the child being born into a single parent house hold, and all of the above issues, fall on the mother who decided to have a child anyway knowing what she was going to be putting that child through.
/r/MensRights27/07/20 02:50 PM
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You might wanna mark this nsfw if you want to really hear stuff
/r/MensRights27/07/20 05:37 AM
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We aren’t talking about walking away from children were talking about walking away from fetuses. I do understand if you are pro life though.
/r/MensRights27/07/20 05:30 AM
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Why is this here? She waited for him to be done, it was a pillow fight, it was consensual. What’s wrong? Honestly I think the sweep was a bit harsh but she seemed ok after it and no one seemed particularly upset.
/r/MensRights27/07/20 02:24 AM
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Thank you
/r/MensRights26/07/20 03:30 PM
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Ok most of his work seems to be centered around the foster care system and not family court. Did he do anything that would be relevant to this sub?
/r/MensRights26/07/20 03:30 PM
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Can someone post a summary? I can’t get past the paywall
/r/MensRights26/07/20 04:28 AM
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Ok obviously the feminists are idiots and I’m sure the EU treaty contains mounds and mounds of bullshit. I’m not a fan of the Polish government either though. They seem extremely traditional conservative and the remarks about LGBTQ rights are terrible.
/r/MensRights26/07/20 04:06 AM
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Yep
/r/MensRights26/07/20 02:45 AM
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I think your missing the point here. Feminists obviously have no interest in helping men. As you have pretty much summed up their entire ideology is based around men not having issues in the first place as the tyrannical rulers of society. They made the lens that way for a reason.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/20 02:00 AM
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An interesting take. I personally know that I have issues expressing certain emotions, especially related to my depression. That certainly might not be true for most men though. I agree that anger and pride are not inherently toxic emotions and toxic masculinity is a stupid word. People need to be able to express their emotions freely regardless of what they are.
/r/MensRights26/07/20 12:39 AM
1

That seems excessive. Just don’t talk to them, interact with them, etc. just pretend they don’t exist
/r/MensRights25/07/20 03:31 AM
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The lesson here seems to be that if your going to post there you should pretend to be a woman
/r/MensRights24/07/20 08:34 PM
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You can still be close to people without engaging in sex or romantic relationships. Find some dudes near you that you share some interests with
/r/MensRights24/07/20 04:04 PM
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Same here. I’ve sworn off sex and relationships forever. Safest way to go both legally wise and sanity wise. It’s not like there’s some monumental reward for taking on all those risks either.
/r/MensRights24/07/20 03:37 PM
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Not to hijack your post- it’s very good that this is getting recognition- but I feel like people from this sub have posted about men’s mental health in r/unpopularopinion and it got taken down for “not being unpopular” (aka we don’t like it) but now that it’s a mother doing it...
/r/MensRights24/07/20 03:35 PM
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I’m sure one exists I’m sure people know about it (the consequences of divorce are pretty common knowledge) I’m sure most people don’t care I’m sure women think it’s justified
/r/MensRights24/07/20 03:33 PM
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Lol just look at what the consequences on each side for breaking that contract. There’s nothing equal about marriage.
/r/MensRights24/07/20 02:47 PM
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This story has been posted here already. I actually agree with the sentencing here. The molester was charged accordingly and the father was charged for firing on a fleeing unarmed man which is illegal for obvious reasons.
/r/MensRights24/07/20 02:01 PM
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No I think they just realized they weren’t going to be able to excuse this one without looking like a complete ass.
/r/MensRights24/07/20 01:57 PM
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I have more rights than most people in almost every country in the world. So does everyone else in the western world. What’s your point? And define “worthwhile.”
/r/MensRights24/07/20 01:46 PM
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Why do you think all of them are posting it online. I would say most are just quietly psycho
/r/MensRights24/07/20 01:28 PM
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No actually, it’s not legally binding for them. They’re actually incentivized and rewarded for breaking it. Edit: Apparently I forgot a comma that was worth sending a reply over
/r/MensRights24/07/20 01:26 PM
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You must be new here. This is pretty standard operating procedure for feminism. They want supremacy plain and simple.
/r/MensRights24/07/20 12:59 PM
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Men have 0 reproductive rights Condoms are not covered by health insurance at all So far you have listed 2 pieces of legislation that have been enacted at least partially for women but not at all for men and then claimed that attacks on those are evidence that men in power don’t legislate in favor of women.
/r/MensRights24/07/20 07:42 AM
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You must be new here. This is pretty much the way most feminists are unfortunately. The only 2% false statistic is false btw. Feminists literally pulled it out of their ass. There are no studies showing that it’s true, not even one. The lowest I’ve heard of a study putting that number is 10% (there are studies that put it much higher) and those are just the ones that actually have a police report filed. Never mind if some woman just decides to accuse a guy on social media. If a police report is …
/r/MensRights24/07/20 07:20 AM
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It kinda is taken seriously though
/r/MensRights24/07/20 07:08 AM
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Which is exactly why I don’t deal with women anymore unless I am absolutely sure I can trust them
/r/MensRights23/07/20 04:22 PM
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Whether or not it’s true and whether not most women agree with it are different things. Would you say Twitter is not a good measure of public opinion? If so why?
/r/MensRights23/07/20 04:16 PM
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You’ve started with a false premise: that feminism is interested in equality. All of these issues would logically be demeaning to women as special treatment I tantalizer’s people. But feminists don’t want to be equal they want to be powerful and they don’t care if they have to demean women to do so. These are all just excuses to throw men in prison at a whim, secure extra opportunities for women, attack media and words they don’t like, and keep the spotlight on women’s issues by whining like a s…
/r/MensRights23/07/20 04:15 PM
0

~#menaretrash~ trending on twitter seems to imply that most women agree with those women though
/r/MensRights23/07/20 04:07 PM
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How many of the custody battles that men “win” actually result in 50/50 custody? I feel like if a man got to see his child once a year feminists would consider him to have won the custody battle. Also I wouldn’t be surprised if their are lots of organizations willing to pay a poor woman’s legal fees for a custody battle
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/20 09:07 PM
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I love how it says it debunks pseudoscience when that’s the basis of like half of feminisms ideas
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/20 03:54 PM
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This title is misleading. The complaint about being controlling is related to the BFs preference for OP not to swear. Not sure how valid this complaint is if the BF never actually demanded OP to change her speech which OP didn’t clarify. Most of the complaints about misogyny were just feminists pulling it out of their ass and jumping to conclusions as usual. The OPs post had nothing about misogyny in it. The OP does seem to bring up what appears to be a fairly legitimate complaint about a double…
/r/MensRights22/07/20 04:14 AM
2

This is Chloe Sunderland. She’s been doing this for a while.
/r/MensRights22/07/20 12:51 AM
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It depends what you mean by diminishing the feminist agenda. People here believe in equality and largely believe feminism to be a female supremacy movement so in that respect yes, diminishing feminism would be a goal. Most people here believe in women’s rights. That does not mean we support feminism. Feminism is not equivalent to women’s rights and certainly not the only way to approach them. Feminism claims it fights for equality but regularly either ignores, exacerbates, or victim blames men’s…
/r/MensRights21/07/20 10:28 AM
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I feel history has shown us they would just form an echo chamber of validation
/r/MensRights21/07/20 10:19 AM
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It was good talking with you even if we may disagree in some places
/r/MensRights21/07/20 09:48 AM
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So far it seems like they’ve been relatively polite and open to discussion which is something we value here. Like I said, if you don’t feel like it’s worth engaging then don’t engage. I don’t see how shaming will help anyone
/r/MensRights21/07/20 08:39 AM
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I was referring to a feminist book title when I said women come from Venus men come from hell. Here’s the link to it: Amazon As for why I might not consider you a real feminist: Generally I would define the “real” views of an activist group, or frankly any other group, based on the views and beliefs carried by members of that group that are actually doing activism, changing legislation, etc. because those are the only people that actually matter. Regardless of what an individuals views or belief…
/r/MensRights21/07/20 08:27 AM
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Please don’t pull the “it’s not my job to educate you” stuff. It’s annoying enough when feminists do it. MRAs shouldn’t be doing it too. Just try to lay out facts and if you honestly feel it’s not worth engaging with someone just stop engaging with them.
/r/MensRights21/07/20 08:02 AM
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I understand why you wouldn’t want to make this post on that sub. Many MGTOW men do actually hate women. MGTOW and MRAs are entirely separate though. I would say most people on that sub would not even call themselves MRAs and at least most MRAs don’t support MGTOW though I suppose they are not technically mutually exclusive.
/r/MensRights21/07/20 07:53 AM
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What exactly makes you think I’m an extremist?
/r/MensRights21/07/20 07:41 AM
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Could you give me an example? There aren’t that many MRA subs on Reddit
/r/MensRights21/07/20 07:31 AM
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Feminism is not referred to as a cult due to its activism. Simply being involved in activism is not enough to make something a cult. Feminism is sometimes referred to as a cult due to its religious like dedication to an extremely simple and faulty worldview. To be clear I’m not talking about the egalitarian version of feminism that you seem to believe in (I don’t even think I would consider you a real feminist) I’m talking about the women come from Venus men come from hell kind of feminism. Comp…
/r/MensRights21/07/20 07:29 AM
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Which men’s rights activists are you referring too that hate women? This sub has rules against it. Most of the major MRA activists I know of certainly don’t. Many of them actually are women. I would make sure “the loudest men’s rights activists” aren’t just the men’s rights activists that feminists are showing you to justify their attacks on men’s rights groups.
/r/MensRights21/07/20 07:21 AM
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Do they know it’s wrong though?
/r/MensRights21/07/20 07:07 AM
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Please explain how reditt users are going to make the pseudo world government do anything
/r/MensRights20/07/20 05:57 AM
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The UN really doesn’t care about men. Somehow I don’t think there will be that many(any) consequences for discrimination against men.
/r/MensRights20/07/20 05:54 AM
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Not sure I understand what we’re supposed to be voting on. Mostly because the options aren’t mutually exclusive
/r/MensRights20/07/20 05:47 AM
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Maybe we can reach out to the celebs that are starting to get burned by this stuff?
/r/MensRights20/07/20 05:22 AM
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I have no idea how to start a charity but it sounds like a good idea
/r/MensRights20/07/20 02:32 AM
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That’s quite interesting. Do you have sources I could look at?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/20 12:30 AM
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I’ve had almost the exact same experience. A lot of my female friends I grew up with are now just misandrists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/20 06:41 AM
2

Did you just say she killed him to death?
/r/MensRights19/07/20 06:19 AM
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It’s tik tok this time
/r/MensRights18/07/20 09:51 PM
2

I wish advocacy for free speech was a given. It increasingly seems that nobody cares what the constitution says here anymore. Donald Trump recently suggested imprisoning people fro burning the flag. Advocacy for free speech is certainly not exclusive to liberals. There are plenty of conservatives who advocate for free speech. I simply meant that protecting civil liberties is generally very important to what would be traditionally defined as a liberal.
/r/MensRights18/07/20 08:58 PM
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As someone who generally considers himself an egalitarian I’d say a few things The question about removing traditional gender roles you actually answered yourself: traditional gender roles enable male disposability. I also don’t see how they don’t encourage it. The entire idea of traditional gender roles seems to be based around male disposability and utility (provide and protect) You claim that men don’t care about self expression and care more about virtue. I don’t see how those things are mut…
/r/MensRights18/07/20 07:55 PM
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Sometimes I’m and egalitarian and other times I’m a “radical masculinist” Depends on how much hope I have for change.
/r/MensRights18/07/20 04:55 AM
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Ok thank you for explaining
/r/MensRights18/07/20 01:48 AM
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How would one prove that something was unpopular? Would they need polling data?
/r/MensRights18/07/20 01:44 AM
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How do you decide if a fact is popular or not?
/r/MensRights18/07/20 01:25 AM
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You know if it was a woman they would be celebrating her
/r/MensRights18/07/20 01:23 AM
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Generally if I’m forced to engage with a feminist or I actually think they are reasonable and just ignorant I point to the Duluth model and the child custody laws as these are both men’s issues that are directly caused by feminists and continue to be perpetuated by them. But yes in general anyone who believes in patriarchy theory is not worth trying to convince as their entire world is based around men being sociopathic oppressors to helpless innocent women.
/r/MensRights18/07/20 01:20 AM
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What makes you think they won’t end up abused and depressed anyway?
/r/MensRights17/07/20 10:05 PM
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Don’t compare women to children. It’s insulting to women which is a bad look and they aren’t the same. Women can definitely pose a serious threat to a man, especially,but not necessarily, if the man is unwilling to fight back.
/r/MensRights17/07/20 02:17 PM
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It’s a common misconception that the red pill is some kind of collective group. It’s really just a term for seeing through what gynocentric society feeds people. There isn’t really a red pill stance on most things.
/r/MensRights15/07/20 11:36 PM
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Yeah that’s pretty much. And yes, of course she’s blaming it on will
/r/MensRights15/07/20 08:32 PM
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I wouldn’t say 2 means nothing, more of just a repeat of 1 Unless your specifically talking about physically, the claim that women are more vulnerable is not only baseless but insulting to women. Even physically the difference in vulnerability between men and women isn’t that high and doesn’t extend to a difference between all men and all women. Ex: If a mugger pulls a gun it’s not gonna matter much if your a woman or a man. Men who stay at home and don’t work are often called deadbeats/lazy/unm…
/r/MensRights15/07/20 07:40 PM
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You know she will and you know it will work
/r/MensRights15/07/20 05:18 PM
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So the OP post seems to be about job discrimination and false rape accusations. You asked why it doesn’t mention how babies get drowned in milk which doesn’t seem relevant at all. You then went on to talk about rape so I assume your rebuttal to the false rape allegations is that some people do get raped. While this is true it does not make false allegations alright and it does not mean that you can undermine due process or justify taking actions against accused perpetrators without evidence. You…
/r/MensRights15/07/20 04:14 PM
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Ask her how many men’s issues she knows about. If everyday was a day was actually to discuss men’s issues people might actually know about them. Kind of like how feminists have made every day a day to talk about women’s issues.
/r/MensRights15/07/20 03:44 PM
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Yes she is a tradcon.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/20 04:11 AM
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we’ve gotten a few people asking for advice about false accusations after incidents like this. Also I believe the idea that women have a lower sex drive than men has been debunked. In my experience women don’t approach men because they don’t want to put themselves out there and risk rejection as that is seen as the mans job.
/r/MensRights14/07/20 06:07 AM
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Don’t
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/20 09:57 PM
2

That’s a terrible position to take without any evidence. People here would throw a fit when feminists do that to MRAs. If you don’t want people to do it to you, don’t do It to other people.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/20 05:13 AM
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And this is why I’m done with intimate relationships with women.
/r/MensRights13/07/20 05:06 AM
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How about we take a look at the countries that have tried other economic systems and see how it elementals for them? In most communist countries from a legal perspective everyone had an equal amount of nothing to go around in terms of rights and provisions. This except for the military which was still mostly men and generally traditional gender roles were enforced in practice. Under feudalism there was a similar situation. Fascism seems to be the height of male disposability since it has traditi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/20 04:53 AM
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Article links pls?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/20 04:41 AM
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That has essentially already been tried. Warren Farrell for instance used to actually be a feminist but left after they refused to address men’s issues. Feminism at its very core is a hate movement. It has never ever been about equality. All of it’s main ideas revolve around men as an oppressor class. As long as feminism continues to be funded and supported there is no hope for equality.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/20 08:08 PM
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Not sure what this has to do with anything. The father was arrested after firing at an unarmed, fleeing, man which is against the law for obvious reasons, regardless of how screwed up what the man did was. Even the article and the police are sympathetic towards him. The other man is being rightfully charged with child molestation it seems. As far as I can tell justice was served correctly here. What exactly is your complaint?
/r/MensRights11/07/20 05:48 PM
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Not sure how many L’s we have but I’ve definitely seen G, B, and T posters on here. Anyone’s welcome as long as they are honest and civil.
/r/MensRights11/07/20 05:40 PM
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Quite simply because feminism has never once been about equality. It has always been a supremacy movement that pays lip service to equality in order to capitalize on the women are wonderful effect. It’s in the name for god’s sake. How could something called “feminism” ever be taken to care about men? They’re pretending less and less now. I believe the line is “The future is female”
/r/MensRights11/07/20 04:49 PM
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My lack of inclusion of the positive aspects of being a parent was simply because most of them are well known or self evident. I have no doubt that raising children can be the most full filling thing a man does in his life and I hope to one day experience it if I am allowed to. To be clear I fully plan to adopt if I am able to as a single man.
/r/MensRights11/07/20 04:39 PM
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Well here’s how I look at it and you can tell me where you disagree: The divorce rate in my country is about 50% and I can pretty safely assume that almost all of those were bad relationships as they ended. That number doesn’t include marriages that are simply toxic but still together such as staying for the kids or just threats of divorce rape. So it seems let/marriage relationships have a lower than 50% chance of success and if it fails it can literally ruin my life. On the off chance it does …
/r/MensRights11/07/20 08:37 AM
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This isn’t really a fair analysis since the driver himself said he didn’t want to press charges. It’s not like the state is refusing to prosecute or something.
/r/MensRights10/07/20 05:58 PM
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He didn’t hurt anyone. What exactly would you charge him with?
/r/MensRights10/07/20 05:58 PM
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I see you’ve made the classic mistake of expecting feminists to be even remotely consistent in their ideology instead of changing their ideas to whatever best suits them at the current moment. This is nothing new.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/20 05:13 PM
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Congratulations 🎉🎊 your an egalitarian, not a feminist.
/r/MensRights07/07/20 03:03 AM
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That is slightly different than “all accusations are false until proven true”
/r/MensRights07/07/20 02:46 AM
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From a legal perspective I agree with you. Our courts and laws are founded on the presumption of innocence and due process for a very good reason. From a public perspective less so. I would worry an automatic presumption of innocence in every case can lead to a denial of evidence and lazy investigations from an influenced court system. In the public sphere we have the luxury of reserving judgment until a legal verdict is presented. Plus you look kinda dumb if you keep saying someone’s innocent a…
/r/MensRights07/07/20 02:33 AM
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This is precisely why equality of outcome and equality of opportunity are mutually exclusive. But that’s really besides the point because feminists don’t really want either. If they did want equality of outcome they would be giving men preference in female dominated fields. “The future is female” is honestly a great tag line for feminism. Really shows that it’s all about female supremacy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/20 02:19 AM
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Generally the goal would be meritocracy. Judging people based on a combination of effort and competence. You should be making your hiring choices based on almost purely on the qualifications of the individual. Even in areas like sports where men have a factual and distinct advantage not every particular man is going to be better than every particular woman.
/r/MensRights05/07/20 05:52 PM
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First of all, thank you for your support. I wish there were many, many more like you than there are. There are prominent female MRAs who have had abusive relationships with men. Sydney Watson talks about men’s issues a lot though I’m not sure if she’s an MRA or a traditionalist. Chloe Sunderland as well.
/r/MensRights04/07/20 05:49 AM
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In general I would not say this sub has many discussions on specifically trans-rights as that is not the purpose of this sub. In general though MRAs are very supportive of trans rights and trans people are welcome on this sub.
/r/MensRights03/07/20 06:46 PM
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You provided a fantastic example of how feminism wants to “end gender norms” : child custody. Originally child custody automatically went to the father in a divorce. This was certainly not fair but the reasoning for it was that he was solely responsible for the financial well being of the child. (He still is) In the 19tg century a feminist by the name of Caroline Norton introduces the Tender Years Doctrine.Tender Years Doctrine and since then it’s been expanded to favor women in custody in most …
/r/MensRights01/07/20 04:16 AM
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In general feminists will skip over any nuance or investigation or possible alternative explanations and jump right to a conclusion that fits their narrative. Even if evidence is presented against their conclusion they will scream and deny it. This is the tactic they have used since their inception. If more men are succeeding in an area than women it must be sexism. If more women are succeeding than men it must mean women are smarter/more competent/ harder working etc. You can see this dynamic i…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/20 05:22 PM
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It’s just an extremely exaggerated form of white knighting. It’s “all men are evil scum except me (please have sex with me)”
/r/MensRights28/06/20 09:35 PM
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That’s just our gynocentric cultures feminist conditioning speaking. You feel that way because that’s how feminists react when people talk about men’s issues. My suggestion? Tell them to shove it if they think it’s sexist. It’s not wrong to care about men.
/r/MensRights28/06/20 09:23 PM
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That’s simply wrong. All feminist organizations (the feminists who are actually doing things- watch the hands not the mouth) range from either not caring about men’s issues to actively trying to make them worse. Most of the issues that men face with regards to domestic violence beyond it being a thing that exists, such as the lack of shelters, automatic male guilt even in cases when they are the victim or the lack of recognition that men can be victims, stem from the Duluth Model which was MADE,…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/20 01:51 PM
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I’m in the US. I don’t know how going to Uni in other countries works but I assume it’s possible.
/r/MensRights27/06/20 11:43 PM
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First of all feminist organizations generally embrace the Duluth model and do not fight against domestic violence against men. Second of all men do create associations to help other men but these organizations are almost always shut down, blocked from progress, or co-opted for women by - you guessed it- feminists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/20 10:49 PM
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All of the feminist organizations that I know embrace the Duluth model and say that domestic violence against men either doesn’t exist, isn’t a problem, or is men’s own fault.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/20 10:45 PM
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He ended it so it should be good
/r/MensRights19/06/20 02:28 AM
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If your in the US the new title IX laws allow you legal council for your hearing as well as that councils cross examination of the accuser. Lawyer up buddy. Even if they do kick you out there have been people who sue for damages so you might be able to.
/r/MensRights19/06/20 02:27 AM
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Yes. I would say most MRAs support the ERA I just finished a semester of poli sci and while I was doing research on it I saw some the states were suing the federal government to get it passed. No idea how that’s going. My only worry is that they will use the feminist definition of “equality” ie: whatever women want
/r/MensRights19/06/20 01:42 AM
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I’m not autistic so I can’t speak to any of that with any authority but if it sounds like a good idea to you than do it
/r/MensRights18/06/20 07:07 PM
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Being a man should not have to be something earned. The idea that it is is simply used to control men to do the bidding of society (mostly women) against their own interests. You can see this in the different definitions of what masculinity is on the progressive and conservative sides. What a man is changes depending on whatever is most convenient for them at the time in order to manipulate men into being or doing whatever they want. It’s simply a tool for manipulation and that’s all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/20 06:12 PM
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Your missing the term “rebuttable” there
/r/MensRights17/06/20 12:38 AM
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I respectfully disagree. It is true that I failed to mention that the effect people of color disproportionately but as this is a men’s rights sub I was more focused on the sex aspect of it. If this offended you I apologize. Men, of all races, are disproportionately affected by both police violence and the coronavirus compared to women of all races and between men, men of color are disproportionately affected by these things.
/r/MensRights16/06/20 06:54 PM
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I’m not a big reader myself but a book that often gets recommended is The Myth of Male Power by Warren Farrell. Not sure if it’s what your looking for though.
/r/MensRights16/06/20 05:24 PM
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Here’s a link to the CONSAD report: An Analysis of Reasons for the Disparity in Wages Between Men and Women It was done by the DOL in 2009 and pretty much thoroughly debunks the wage gap.
/r/MensRights16/06/20 05:01 PM
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I answered this question from you on a separate post but I’ll answer it again here so people can see. That statistic is based on a sexist definition of rape in which the victim is penetrated. It does not include men who are forced into sex with women.
/r/MensRights16/06/20 04:57 PM
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That would be from the DOJ. The CDC’s study was conducted by a feminist Mark Koss and is just bad science. It also had a very low response rate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/20 04:38 PM
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The study claimed that any woman who consumed alcohol, regardless of amount or level of intoxication, and had sex in the same night was raped. The study did include forced penetration but classified it as a different crime: made to penetrate. https://www.google.com/amp/s/time.com/3393442/cdc-rape-numbers/%3famp=true
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/20 04:24 PM
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The definition of rape those statistics use is sexist as it requires the victim to be penetrated. Using the colloquial definition of rape, non consensual sex, the lifetime stat for men is pretty much equal to that of women. The study that came from also had other issues that inflated the numbers. Edit: autocorrect hates me
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/20 04:16 PM
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Maybe you should actually watch the clip before you comment on it and no, its not very scientific but it is a good watch.
/r/MensRights15/06/20 08:26 PM
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Many men also don’t consent to inseminating women and yet are still held liable for it. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/talking-about-trauma/201902/when-male-rape-victims-are-accountable-child-support%3famp https://www.google.com/amp/s/kiddiemom.com/i-was-desperate-for-an-infant-so-i-spurgled-a-guy-and-hoodwinked-him-into-getting-me-pregnant/amp/ You claim that children “belong” (and the idea that a human being belongs to anyone is insulting) to women but if that wer…
/r/MensRights15/06/20 07:46 PM
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Well that’s why we create equality of opportunity instead of equality of outcome. Let everyone do what they excel at and then if there are women who excel in a normally male dominated area they can do so and vice versa.
/r/MensRights15/06/20 07:26 PM
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This is just simply incorrect. Originally sole custody of children was given to men in the event of a divorce. To be clear this was not fair but it was simply because they were solely responsible for the child financially. (They still are) In the 19th century a militant feminist named Caroline Norton introduces what’s called the Tender Years Doctrine changing the laws to exclusively favor women in giving them custody while still holding men to the responsibility. The effects of single motherhood…
/r/MensRights15/06/20 07:06 PM
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More than a few man. Why are you still speaking to this woman?
/r/MensRights15/06/20 01:39 AM
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“Those feminist “ are the ones running the feminist organizations, changing policies, and indoctrinating students in academia. I’ll admit there are a fare share of women hating MRAs but they don’t have the same reach. I would never assert that sexism against women doesn’t exist. That would be ridiculous. I would like an example of a systemic issue though (as well as an explanation of how it’s systemic). Most of the sexism against women that still exists I would say are social issues but I would …
/r/MensRights14/06/20 09:26 PM
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You are what we would call a “house hold feminist.” The problem is that the actual activists, organizations, lawyers, etc. don’t see things this way. For example the National Organization for Women (NOW) has been fighting against equal custody laws since the 1980’s.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 08:22 PM
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Unity for now
/r/MensRights13/06/20 08:09 AM
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Currently game Design
/r/MensRights11/06/20 07:22 AM
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