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I also struggle with the concept of “femininity” in the traditional sense - I’ve been told by both men and women that I’m too direct, rational, and “assertive” for a woman. I was a math and physics whiz at school, and held a lot of contempt for the “girly girls”, always wondering why they were so passive with their lives and weren’t driven to want a purpose and meaning for themselves. But I’m still very traditional in the sense that I’m a firm believer of monogamy, waiting for marriage before ha…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/21 07:04 PM
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He married her for her youth, fertility, and his ability to control her, not for compatibility. She’s too young and naive to know what sort of man she’s truly compatible with. What if after the honeymoon phase is over, something happens and they end up leaving each other? She’s a young girl who hasn’t finished HS, no source of income, and soon to be mother. She barely knows who she is at 19. She will feel trapped in this marriage after a few years (like 95% of young women who marry older men wit…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/21 10:43 AM
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Can you “get” him? Understand him deeply? There are life experiences he’s had that you haven’t, your only life experience is what you’ve got out of school. He can’t truly, deeply connect and be emotionally vulnerable with you when you won’t understand his advanced perspective. Whatever he tells you, you’ll believe him because you don’t have the life wisdom or maturity to know better. Look, I’m also a young person who has little experience and who’s attracted to men that are much older than me. Y…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/21 09:59 PM
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Great input! I’m 22 and find it hard to find a man I can genuinely want to spend the rest of my life with, I’m very happy in my single life and relationships do seem like hard work. Almost like I have a fear of commitment - something that men normally have, funnily enough.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/21 10:20 AM
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No doubt, sounds like they are (were) co-dependent. How old are you if I may ask? Do you think it’s common to get into more than one serious relationship before finding the best one for you? Or do most women end up settling?
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/21 10:03 AM
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Oh no I’m talking about this one.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/21 09:26 AM
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Thanks for responding. I thought the purpose of this sub was to learn how to vet high value men and secure them, not fall prey to a sunk cost fallacy relationship with a man who is not masculine. Women should not be encouraged to submit blindly to a Captain that does not know how to lead, that goes against our sexual strategy.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/21 09:19 AM
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He’s a moma’s boy and she’s being compelled to mother him, he is indecisive and sees her as his “superior”, cancels plans last minute, doesn’t take charge, and downloads pictures of half naked women on his phone. This is a hard pass for any woman, is her first relationship, and she’s too young to vet quality men out properly. I find people were harsh on her for no reason.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/21 09:18 AM
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No woman can love and respect a man-child who doesn’t offer a steady stool for his girl to stand on. Being forced to be in your masculine and drag your own stool to stand on is a BIG NO to a lot of women. u/cheerioxoxo you are right to want to end things. You’re only 21 and jumped into something and it’s your first time being in love. Be kind when you break up with him, tell him WHY you are doing it, and also give him a list of positive qualities he does have as to not completely shatter his sel…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/21 11:57 AM
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How do you go about finding a man worthy of your submission? I sometimes feel like nobody can lead me better than I lead myself.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/21 04:20 PM
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I’m an INTJ too, and we tend to have too much of what people here might interpret as “masculine pride”. Check out r/INTJfemale A man biologically needs to feel “needed” to fall in love. My best friend is an INTJ too and is in a very happy relationship with an ENTJ - he’s her intellectual and social superior and leads her in their philosophical conversations, and they’re both madly in love. Find yourself an ENTJ, or an INTP who knows more than you do in the subjects that interest you.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/21 01:56 PM
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