| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 9 | Men make long term relationships unsustainableI highly recommend marrying a woman instead! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 04:26 AM |
| 13 | Younger women are just more attractive.If attraction were all about prospective partners being fertile, gay people wouldn’t exist. As a queer woman I find older women way more attractive than younger women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships: Most people against them are being disingenuousAs a young women who was in a couple of big age gap relationships in my early 20s… most of us that grow out of it never felt “ew” towards older men/women. I mean dating someone in their mid 40s is dating someone in their prime, let’s be real. The issue is the power imbalance, and lack of accountability for it. Someone twice your age has so much more life experience, and they usually have a lot more economic power, too. In my experience they often struggle to take critical feedback from someone h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 03:09 PM |
| 0 | It’s hypocritical to be against FGM but not care about circumcisionYou are right, the same argument for male circumcision is made for female circumcision in countries where it is prevalent. Cutting the foreskin on males literally reduces UTI risk and transmission if STIs when not using protection, and removing the labia minora and clitoral hood on females absolutely reduces UTI risk and STI transmission as well. People also say it is easier to keep clean and simply looks better, plus “girls should look like their mothers”etc. There would be less skin to cause f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 02:21 PM |
| -1 | Immature male sexuality: "Affirm my value by devaluing yourself"I know those of us who have multiple partners while also having long term partnerships are “sluts” or whatever, but ya’ll are missing out. I’ve been married for 7 years to my best friend and neither of us minds if the other one wants to date anyone else. We aren’t really “poly” but we have tried that. Now we are just chill, non-possessive, secure in our relationship, responsible and full grown adults. It’s great, it’s hot, it’s amazing for self esteem, and liberating. So body count definitely do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 03:02 AM |
| -1 | Women calling men “gay” is an insultWhat if it’s a gay woman that suggests a man might be gay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 05:53 AM |
| 3 | Straight women’s homophobia toward men gets excused way too easilyI guess I’m fortunate to live in an area (PNW) where feminine behavior in men is really attractive, and lots of women (especially bi women, who are really common here) prefer to date or will only date bi men. I’m curious to read a peer-reviewed study on the average American woman’s attitude toward bisexual men, as I have a hunch that we are statistically more likely to be accepting of them than our cis male counterparts are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 04:30 AM |
| – | You told men to not approach you, so we listened.Haha yeah we totally do have an unspoken pact, it’s great. But the pact isn’t to lie about how we secretly struggle to get attention from men, we definitely struggle to get attention from the kind of men we are interested in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 02:48 PM |
| – | You told men to not approach you, so we listened.Maybe it depends on your location, but in Portland, Oregon lots of us share our men with our spouses and our friends. You have to be experienced in non-monogamy though, we aren’t cheaters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Should couples moving in together split rent 50/50 or based on income?This is the answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Good men don't push boundariesWhere are all these women that are “turned off” by men asking directly if they want to kiss, have sex, etc? I don’t think that’s real. Verbal communication doesn’t ruin the mood if you are confident enough to do it right. And checking in during the exchange is a major turn on, “how is this feeling?” It’s not that hard to do. You aren’t mature enough to have sex if you can’t ask directly for things, or receive verbal requests without being “turned off”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 04:36 PM |
| 0 | It's okay to want virgin womenYour first sentence emphasizes the importance of informed consent, and yet “virgin” people have the least information about what they like and do not like to do sexually. They are the easiest to exploit, coerce and pressure into sex acts that they have no idea if they enjoy. They have exactly 0 experience saying no to a partner regarding sexual activities, so informed consent is not something anybody can give until they have experienced the activity they are “consenting” to. Notice how I said vi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 04:49 PM |
| – | Women don't owe men "sexual equality"I’m a woman married to a woman, different strokes for different folks ig | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 05:47 PM |
| – | Women don't owe men "sexual equality"“needs” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 05:44 PM |
| – | Women don't owe men "sexual equality"Expecting consistent sex and blowjobs is setting you up for loneliness, keep hunting that unicorn tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Men are just as picky as women. They just pretend their type of woman is the norm.Yes especially older men. People on this sub who say most women are desirable by default forget to consider that women over 50 really struggle to find male partners their age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 03:02 AM |
| -1 | The feminist narrative of 30+ men’s preference for younger (18-25) women being due to their inability to get women their age is one of the most laughable things I’ve ever heardIt’s a common myth that men have always been attracted to younger women, and that the reasons for this are biological. It’s obviously a cultural construct, otherwise it would be way more common for old dudes to date young women. But it’s not actually that common, especially when you look at non-western cultures. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12006887/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/26 07:26 AM |
| 0 | The hypocrisy and cognitive dissonance a lot of progressive women have make it super easy for red-pillers to slam dunk on them.You wish it were a fact that we don’t like bisexual men, but we LOVE them! Liberal matriarchs love marrying bi men, we love causally hooking up with bi men, and everything in between. At least in every major city on the west coast. And we are becoming the majority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 04:40 AM |
| – | Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related.This might be regional, but in Portland, Oregon men in dresses are highly desired. My former partner of 6 years was a cis het male car salesman who rocked a beard and looked gorgeous in a dress and matching purse. Sometimes had grease stains on his dresses, lol. He liked to look pretty and he was tall, muscular, well-endowed, dominant, shameless and confident as fuck. Not even very liberal, solid middle of the road guy. He’s been very successful in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Women make it very stressful for men to stay singleYes I hope you find the healing you deserve. Talk to your psych about a referral for SPT, the VA might even cover your cost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Women make it very stressful for men to stay singleIt’s true that a lot of people on dating sites have very shallow standards, and meeting people to date without using apps is really challenging. In my area (PNW) non-monogamy is pretty mainstream and lots of men have success dating in the sex positive community. Sex Positive World is an international organization that has local branches in many major cities in the US. It offers sex education and workshops, speed dating, socials, parties etc. for people of all genders, ages, and sexualities. It’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 04:57 PM |
| 0 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize them“Sex is an integral part of having a human body” does not mean human bodies are inherently sexual. “Human bodies” is a category that includes children, elderly, all genders, people who don’t want to have sex with you, etc. Those bodies are not inherently sexual, do you understand what the word inherently means? If you were to argue that many cultures treat bodies as inherently sexual, I’d agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 04:48 PM |
| 11 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themI walk around naked and don’t expect men to sexualize me. Seriously, we have a family friendly clothing optional public beach where I live (Portland) and tons of women take mile long walks up and down the beach naked. The men who leer are the few and are socially ostracized, as they should be. Bodies are not inherently sexual. Whether or not someone is accentuating their breasts is subjective… some would say wearing a tight push up bra is accentuating, some would say wearing no bra is accentuati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 03:41 PM |
| – | The reason why some people decry OF is the same reason why I'd never date I guy if I knew he watches OF.I think OF is way better than regular porn because it tends to be more ethical. By ethical I mean consent conversations and aftercare are included in each video, my intuition doesn’t tell me someone isn’t happy, actors are checking in with each other, you know hot shit like that. There is some really gross porn out there, and I don’t want my partner expecting those things of me. If I were so insecure that I’m threatened by an online personality who my partner will NEVER meet irl, then my relatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Apparently, men are more likely to hit on women they think are easy and not necessarily because they think they're attractiveHot take… many men don’t prefer women with tattoos because it’s harder to imagine them being young and innocent when they have a big ol tramp stamp or paisley garters. I wouldn’t say this is abhorrent behavior, just that it is a pattern. Fascinating. There are tons of biological reasons why men might go for young women on a primal level, and tattoos interrupt the fantasy. Just look at top porn searches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:53 AM |
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