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| 10 | Getting Pussy is too hardAnd presidential | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Getting Pussy is too hardYou can’t get, you need to grab | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 01:51 PM |
| 5 | How do you charm bad bitches?I sometimes think it’s not worth it to chase a bad bitch. I have dealt with a lot of these girls in my dating years and I will tell you this: Getting them means you do stupid shit yourself. However, you have to be good looking and have money to keep playing the game. They will USE you. It’s not about you, it’s about what you enable for them. As long as you are bad, she can be worse because you give her permission; if all goes wrong you go to jail and she gets off free. She will just blame it on … | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Any sex stacks or sex routines?Deadlift, squats and kettlebell glute press. Functional training. Calisthenics. Run a mile weekly. All of these and caveman lifts will help you bang your woman into marry me or remarry me zone | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Bro, You're Not Gonna Change HerBingo :) | /r/seduction | 13/07/26 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Which is better: direct or non direct?Indirect wins- it allows you to open way more and enjoy the process of being a normal person who can raise attraction whenever he wants. If you go direct you reveal all your cards at once - even if you make her smile the mystery is now gone and you have to keep working harder if she isn’t ready to sleep with you yet; you become a dancing monkey faster and she becomes uncomfortable too - hence in both scenarios learning to be comfortable is key then raise the attraction | /r/seduction | 13/07/26 03:12 AM |
| 4 | Your cold approach success rate should be LOW!I hear what you are saying - basically just make it harder on yourself if it’s easy. I used to settle for average girls who weren’t really great personality wise, so I decided to just raise the bar one day and go after girls I felt were out of my league. I felt a lot of fear initially doing sets but it reset over time to a new baseline, then I no longer thought they were out of my league- in fact now most of the girls I know are pretty hot and yet I don’t care. It’s still rare to find a girl who… | /r/seduction | 13/07/26 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Do women want to get approached? If so, why do they flake?The answer is yes. They want to be approached. However, your approach has to be good. If it sucks, you are going to get rejected. Think of it like making a reel. That’s the hard part you need to build tons of confidence only gained from failing and learning massively. The learning is what makes you better. You eventually figure out what to do correct and then the approaches / views get better. Going back to her, if she experiences a good approach she now finds you the most interesting person bec… | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Bro, You're Not Gonna Change HerHere’s something to consider actually- I have two decades of experience so I can probably say something about this subject. Women pretty much are rotating through hormonal cycles month to month. Each day you don’t really know where she is mentally, and she WON’T tell you - at least easily. Some days this girl is going to be really sweet and caring and even ready to sleep with you and it will feel like easy mode. Other days she will be the biggest bitch in your life and might either yell at you t… | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 07:36 PM |
| 5 | Simp RehabilitationAnother easy way to handle shit tests is to just roll with it. Like make it absurd even. If someone says I’m a simp, I might act more chivalrous, pull out chairs, open doors all while calling her my queen of porn and me being her number 1 simp, please make some customs for me and then show her my obscene hentai fetishes on my phone - (all silly of course). The more you have fun and can’t be phased by shit, the more they realize you are the one that has mental strength and that is more powerful t… | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 03:56 PM |
| 13 | Simp RehabilitationIt’s a shit test. If she calls you a simp tell her you only simp for wholesome romance between guy and girl, this is clearly not happening so she’s never going to earn your dolla dolla. By the way you are only a simp if you believe it. Look up falling into frame control, you need to control your own frame better | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Simp RehabilitationLol | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 03:32 PM |
| 0 | Ditching marriage for gameYeah 100% agree - however society is still largely in favor of toxic feminism so it’s going to be hard to just “leave women behind after marriage”. It’ll be more like men just don’t get married. | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 09:06 PM |
| 7 | Ditching marriage for gameThe decline in sex over time is what is the real issue. People don’t talk about it enough so each generation of men discovers the same thing their ancestors went through- and then they understand why their fathers and grandfathers secretly visited whores, took to drinking or smoking, or even having side pieces. It’s only recently stuff is coming out on the internet that is documented about marriage and sex decline. Biologically it makes sense for men to want to procreate as often as possible sin… | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Ditching marriage for gameHappy for everyone else - as in putting on a show to please parents or family members | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 07:09 PM |
| 4 | How the fuck do I fuckIt’s cause you aren’t in love. I would actually say this is LMR that guys feel especially if they haven’t built true comfort with a woman for themselves. If you have nothing in common with these women or even just feel you are going through the motions, like almost needing to perform - your dick will say fuck you. You basically have to see this woman as possibly having your children; if you don’t feel it, your dick will not work. Hence being in love or having strong feelings for this woman and i… | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 03:26 AM |
| 5 | How long does it take a woman to decide that she wants to have sex with you?As someone who does seduction still, I can say that it’s not the myth people think- in 15 min or less she knows she wants to fuck you or you are friendzoned forever. I would say as long as you play the game, the “15 min” window opens and reopens a lot. You have a lot of chances, the most important thing is you keep trying and playing the game well. | /r/seduction | 06/05/26 08:47 PM |
| 4 | If you're a man you're always going to be perceived as a creep if you're a strangerHonestly I’ve had girls say I was creepy or scary or not their type in appearance initially and I still slept with them later anyway. Don’t take what a woman says at face value, half the time they could be saying something moronic lol. You don’t have to play the part they typecast you to. You can be yourself instead and surprise women pleasantly. Also if you look scary, women who sleep with you later will use it to their advantage. | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 04:18 PM |
| 1 | The dark side of this gameI agree - have children you want to bring into this world. Otherwise it's not fair to them. When you do, you will experience something truly beautiful for your soul. | /r/seduction | 08/12/25 12:52 AM |
| 2 | The dark side of this gameHaving a family fixes this feeling of loneliness and despair. Children especially will always love you unconditionally and that’s an amazing feeling for your inner soul you aren’t willing to share so easily with. | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 08:22 PM |
| 11 | What’s the sexiest hairstyle a girl can have?Hair down, long, pigtails. Second runner up for me is bangs / cute pixie look. | /r/seduction | 06/12/25 12:11 AM |
| 6 | How rejection changed my situation with womenI always remember Ross Jeffries saying something like “your dick is a key that unlocks women. some doors will never open because it’s not the right key, but other doors it unlocks the magic”. So just pretend the girls you got rejected by never wanted to exist in your reality. | /r/seduction | 03/12/25 08:58 PM |
| 2 | I feel like I don’t know how to pull a girlYou should always be talking to people. The more you talk, the more you feel good inside and then approaching becomes more fun, you will say the right stuff. If you just wait for the other side to smile, it will hold you back. You smile first, you talk first. Think of it as approaching NPCs in a game and pressing the “A” button to smile and open them with “how’s it going?” or another micro opener. | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 02:36 AM |
| 2 | I feel like I don’t know how to pull a girlYounger me would tell you - go in for the kiss every time. Then as you feel the attraction spikes, playfully tease her about anything more especially if she wants more kissing or even touchy feely. Continue to give her if she complies with small micro requests, like coming with you to another part of the bar or to your car, to another venue or even your home. You never want to give it all and chase her for more kissing or touchy feely, you want her to be doing the chase. Once she’s back at your … | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 09:19 PM |
| 4 | No wonder most dudes stay stuck - how are you supposed to get better at game without real time feedback?The feedback is there, it’s always in how you feel and how they feel. For how you feel, you should write it down and work on it- for example, if you feel you suck at kissing, that’s the feedback; write it down and improve. The second part is how they feel, for example if she hates your kiss, then you need to find a kiss she likes. Research and try again. More examples: You feel your approach sucked. Write it down and try to do a better approach she says your approach was creepy. Try it again wit… | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 07:46 AM |
| 6 | 35M virgin, quit my job to focus on game. Where do I start?Agree with others that quitting your job is going to hurt, but if you can freelance at least that’s helpful if your goal is to enjoy travel for a while overseas and use your savings. I actually did quit my job and moved to LA from a nice comfy job in a small town but it was a decade ago, when the economy was shit but less shit. I would say looking back- it was painful but I used freelancing to get back on my feet in time and make new money. I also studied a ton, so I always looked sharp if I did… | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Women at work think I have wh0resHere you go study material: https://youtu.be/5v1BrLTM4FM?si=razVMbdB0wT-qweW - I love this clip because this woman is especially bitchy but you gotta love Hanks persistence and how he is free from outcome either way. He’s shocked too actually and even says he has to use more of his seductive powers (aka game) given he’s already conventionally attractive. Note how he makes his conversations sexually charged but it’s never over the line just innuendos that are funny. That’s how you should communic… | /r/seduction | 21/11/25 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Women at work think I have wh0resI don’t have a ton of time to explain right now because going to work, but I’ll give some bullet points and if you have further questions I can write back later something else. It takes time, it took me 4 years to learn game practice every day don’t worry about outcome don’t worry if girls say you are a player, it means you are hot and own it. If they say you sleep around, always make it absurd - “yes, I love sleeping on couches day in day out”, you are a player - “yes I play video games my favo… | /r/seduction | 21/11/25 03:08 PM |
| 11 | Women at work think I have wh0resIt means you are attractive but don’t have the game to back it up. It’s actually good because you are very much like how I was in the beginning too- I always got complimented as handsome but always friendzoned. When I spent time in the trenches learning game especially flirting, qualifying, leading and escalating, I was finally able to get laid. Since I was friendzoned so much for a long time, I felt I’d only be able to get laid by 5s, 6s and occasionally 7s. However, my good friend who was a na… | /r/seduction | 21/11/25 02:53 PM |
| 6 | Is masturbation good for female mental healthIt depends - if she likes her toys more than having sex with you or if she uses drugs a lot to enhance her masturbation, she might use that as sort of the bar for comparison. Kinda like how guys use porn and masturbation as the bar for how a girl should be in bed. If you can play the part, you might be fine- but if she is satisfied with porn, then she may not really need you. I’m only saying this because you said “masturbating too much”. For a guy, if he spends all his time gooning and masturbat… | /r/seduction | 13/11/25 05:49 AM |
| 2 | Whats the sexiest/hottest costume a guy could wear? Need costume ideas for a college hw party. Im not jacked but fit. Should I go prisoner/construction worker or is that too basic?Any superhero honestly. Superman is a classic | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 01:46 PM |
| 17 | do girls prefer guys that barely text them?So if you are someone who texts all the time, it’s probably going to be a buzzkill in general. I would say the majority of people hate texting for more than a couple of minutes. A better approach might be just to text once or twice, and then ask if you can call instead. You would be surprised as to how much better phone works than text. If the girl is into you, she will definitely make time for a phone call. When you talk to the girl on the phone, it should be confident you- not needy or nerdy y… | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Guys need your help ( got rejected)I got you. Okay so there’s a girl I saw many, many times too and was worried a lot about what she thought because we would lock eyes so much. Finally I used the best trick in the book from Mystery himself. The smile. I made a resolution forever to smile every time I saw this girl. Eventually she started saying hi and then waving, to later on smiling back. We are really close now. I asked her about the initial days and what she used to think back then and it was way different than what I thought.… | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Guys need your help ( got rejected)Talk to her the next time you see her. Pretend like everything is fine and she never said she rejected you (which she didn’t anyway the lame cockblock friend did). Be fun and charming. Best A game. PS I actually think this is a really good experience for you. Women get mad all the time and if you have a relationship with one you will have to deal with LOTS of awkward and annoying conversation. The only way to have a good relationship is to not let the woman’s bullshit get to you and keep being p… | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Guys need your help ( got rejected)I’m actually going to say make the moves. Her friend could just be cockblocking. You never know until the person herself tells you to fuck off. In the pickup days the masters would make us reapproach girls we already tried and keep persisting even if the first time was awkward. Not saying be creepy and keep going after she clearly rejected you, rather you gotta try a little more in these gray areas as this is what develops your character as a strong man or a weak guy who gives up the first time.… | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Is it significantly harder to get to sex the first time with no alcohol?Honestly it’s way better if both of you are present and actually into each other. If you are both drunk, more regret likely and even can go downhill fast too | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Anyone still go out and use the Mystery Method?Me too killed PUA for a decade. Truly a sad dark time | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 01:04 AM |
| 1 | I feel frustratedYou could come for a visit probably | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 05:32 AM |
| 1 | I feel frustratedMove to LA or NYC. Hottest girls in the world. Hang out in one of those cities doing something comparable to what you do at home and you will get laid faster. Or if you were a smart guy in school then get a high end job or start your own business and life is way easier in these cities. You don’t have to make them your permanent locations, just hang out in these cities long enough to improve your skills and when you go back home it’ll be life on easy mode. You could even just continue traveling a… | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Pt.3 tinder-Hanging out with girl tomorrow and she has a boyfriend what to do?So I’m going to say if she doesn’t have a ring on her left ring finger she doesn’t care about her boyfriend, he may be just a placeholder. The famous saying is girls are willing to “swing from one monkey branch to another.” When I used to game a ton, it was common for me to meet women who had “boyfriends” but still slept with me or my buddies. You will often hear girls say, “we don’t count”. To the girl they are just having fun, the boyfriend is the one they are holding onto while they scope out… | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 03:49 AM |
| 3 | How do you keep yourself motivated?Man I needed to hear this - good message. The fun is in the process, the grind, the leveling up arc | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 06:55 PM |
| 5 | How to improve sexual performanceSexual performance improves with confidence. It’s basically the same as your first few workouts if you haven’t been to the gym in a while. In fact my experience is relevant here because I was out of shape for a while and my performance sucked about 2 years ago. I’ll return back to that in a bit. The first thing I want to say is it’s normal to feel nervous or anxious. Just like girls need a ton of comfort before they can sleep with you even if they are attracted, guys need comfort with the girl t… | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 06:12 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys start conversations at the gym with pretty women?“Nice form!”, “Hey what’s up”, “Good class eh?”, “I see the hard work yo”. “Hey is it good to foam roll before or after a workout?” Whatever comes to mind is best - then it sounds more natural. Think situational or opinion opener. But really don’t think after a certain point. Openers don’t really matter, it’s how you feel and how those feelings transfer over to the other side. Like Mystery said, smile - it’s easily the best item you have in your toolkit. Smiling itself is a micro opener and a da… | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 04:43 PM |
| 23 | How do you guys start conversations at the gym with pretty women?It’s not as hard as you think. You think it’s hard because you place special meaning on “the gym”. It’s just a venue. Treat it like every other venue you go to (eg bookstore, cafe, social gathering). Caveat: it’s not a place you can just approach set after set after set, you do need to be somewhat responsible about how you approach in social settings. Here’s what works for me all that said. If I see an attractive girl, I just talk to her. Immediately, no thinking, just say hello. Micro openers a… | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 03:50 AM |
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