Artistic_Ad_9081 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
78	"A key that opens many locks is a master key, but a lock that opens to many keys is a shitty lock"		Artistic_Ad_9081	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/21 11:36 PM
45	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it?	Discussion	Artistic_Ad_9081	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 11:18 PM
23	Watch Kevin Samuels have a complete meltdown after a 22yo calls him out on his sh*t		Artistic_Ad_9081	/r/ExRedPill	15/08/21 04:44 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	The dating game- Worth it for average men or not? Best answer	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/21 03:12 PM
1	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? We're just going to have to agree to disagree, we clearly have different relationship views	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/21 11:49 AM
2	Someone being a "strong and independent woman" is a major red flag for most man Independence entails dominance, dominance calls for submission. What? Says who? This doesn't even make sense. Independence entails just that. Independence. Meaning you provide for yourself, and rely on yourself to fulfill all of your needs. It's probably true that dominant, successful "elitist" men look for submissive women, but average guys do go for interdependent women. Not submissive, but not dominant either. A partner. You're definitely insecure if you don't want a woman who can think of he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/21 08:35 PM
1	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Like men don't also lose control of their emotions and start punching holes in walls and break and throw things? Men and women have their faults, I'm not just going to put it on one gender. You've had poor experiences with women, and now you feel that a woman with you should do what you say. Sad. My way simply doesn't work? Being a mature adult and stepping down when necessary doesn't work? I don't know what kind of relationships you've been seen, but I know that that works majority of the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/21 08:19 PM
1	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Um no. Men can be very stubborn, and have egos so fragile that going with what a woman wants to do is kryptonite. I will say this once more: Both partners should be able to step back and go with what the other says	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/21 08:09 PM
1	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Clearly you missed the part in the second to last paragraph where I said "someones gotta give," and "that someone shouldn't automatically be the woman." Sometimes you do have to suck it up and not get your way for the sake of ending the argument. The way you understand this is by being mature and emotionally intelligent (both partners). So, when you're at a stalemate and no ones budging, one of you should have the heart to step back and do what your partner wants. That's just how it is. Once aga…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/21 08:05 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? What's so fucking wrong with doing what your man asks? Nothing. As long as it's reasonable, and he's respectful and appreciative about it. Now I'll ask you, would you do something your woman asks? Some women may say they want you making the final decision. That's fine since it's voluntary. The problem is when you make that a requirement before even getting to know her/hearing her opinion about you being in the dominant role.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 08:19 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Fair enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 07:32 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Okay, understood. But some people aren’t religious, so red pillers making it seem like all women need to be submissive because of religion is wrong	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 07:31 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? I didn’t know that you were also not listening to him. I guess since it’s his money and gift, that’s fair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 07:29 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Women also have to do all that plus give up household funds. Most households are dual economic, where both the man and woman work and provide.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 06:23 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? I don’t think something natural should be demanded. It should gradually and naturally happen. Under the right circumstances of course.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 06:21 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? I don’t get how it’s solely your responsibility, but if that’s something that you put on yourself, then so be it	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 06:19 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Like?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 06:17 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Non-combative doesn’t mean submissive. Combative people are obviously annoying to be around, but that doesn’t mean you should require submission to avoid them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 06:17 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Do you think this was an act of dominance or he just genuinely believed you wouldn’t have time? Or did he just really want to buy your parents a nice gift? Either way, it’s wrong of him to not listen to your opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 06:15 PM
2	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? If it happens naturally, that’s fine. I’m okay with that. The problem is when men list it as a requirement and force it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 05:29 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? You get the final answer no matter what. Why? And you said that you are the head, and at the end you said that she is the head. So which one is it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 05:26 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? “High agreeableness,” “being very easy going,” “not offended by anything you say that isn’t validation” Why can’t men be this too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 05:10 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Of course the woman made a choice to have sleep with him, but you have to understand what’s at stake. I imagine that she is an actress who worked her whole life to make it to the top, and has been working to get that specific role. Then when she is finally about to get it, the only obstacle is that she has to sleep with the director. It’s not a good thing, but she’s worked so hard and she wants it more than anything. Additionally, if she says that she won’t sleep with him, then she risks being d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 05:07 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? “Do what I ask” “I break the ties” (no matter what) “I have final say on major life decisions…” Tells me everything I need to know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 04:57 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? So women should take on the mindset of slaves and just go with the flow and accept that speaking their mind may result in getting beaten. Got it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 04:49 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? A woman who clearly does not measure up to her own standards will either stay single or be forced to lower them. Anyway, most women don’t actually have a laundry list of what they want in a man. Someone who is respectful, nice to talk to, and has a decent level of intelligence is enough. Men are allowed to have standards for women, but when those standards say that she must be “willing to conform to the authority” of her man, we will call that out. Masculinity isn’t shamed. If it is, then that’s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 04:47 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Biblical submission is equal to agreement Then why does it say that only women should submit	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 04:36 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Well if what you really want in a woman is a power dynamic in which she goes along with your leadership, maybe there's a reason you get scorned for saying it	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 04:08 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Who said I want a HVM? If they're requirement is making me be subserviant while they lead and make all the decisions, then I don't them at all. You people are so hung up on this high value stuff, it's insane.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 04:06 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? I should have made this clearer in my original post, but I need people to understand that sexual desires are completely different than romantic desires. Someone who wants to sub or dom in bed may not want to do that in day to day life. Sexual submission is probably the only healthy form of a submission in a relationship that I can think of that isn't fluid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 03:36 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Thinking that you're better and always right is different from asking questions to further understand. When you disagree, it's perfectly fine to ask your partner why they chose what they chose and if they considered all options. That doesn't mean you don't respect or trust them. You don't really need to collaborate on everything if you trust each other, but you should still consult each other on big decisions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 03:34 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? This was already said, but peoples sexual desires and relational desires can be two completely different things. A woman wanting to be submissive in the bedroom does not mean she wants to be led in the whole relationship; same for men being dominant. I was not implying that one partner submitting can make the relationship unhealthy, I'm implying that requiring submission definitely can, and usually does. If they both want it that way, so be it. To each their own. If the sub is stronger than the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 03:31 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Thank you for the example. After her failed attempt, you and your wife felt it was best that you manage the money because that is your strength and her weakness. Conversely, she now gets to focus on areas that suit her best. Nothing wrong with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 02:44 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Most can’t even tell you what a submissive woman is, without making her seem like a slave or a doormat. They’ll try desperately to change the definition of submissive to make it seem not that bad, but always comes down to wanting a doormat. Everything about this. What's funny is that whenever they change the definition of submission, they just describe an equal partnership, and in the next breath complain about how they don't want an equal partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 02:40 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? If it's natural then why do so many rp men insist on having it right from the get go? Submission is literally one of the words they use when describing their standards/expectations in a relationship with a woman, implying that they want to be the boss while she is subserviant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 02:34 PM
7	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Why? I’m fine taking the lead in areas where I’m adept and I’m fine following in areas where my partner is adept. I don't get why this is so hard for them to understand	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 02:23 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? That's not to say the man is always the leader or the woman is always the follower, but inevitably somebody is leading, and somebody is following. This is what I'm trying to get at. I think this makes a successful relationship. To me, Submission = Woman always follows, man always leads. Equal Partnership = Sometimes woman follows, sometimes woman leads. Sometimes man follows, sometimes man leads.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 02:22 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Honestly I advocate this only for myself. As a societal model I don’t think it’s right. This is what really matters. If that's who you are and what you want to do, so be it. The problem is when people start saying that the downfall of society is due to "women not being submissive enough" or some shit like that	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 02:19 PM
8	Watch Kevin Samuels have a complete meltdown after a 22yo calls him out on his sh*t The point is that he verbally abused and disrespected her for no other reason than he felt threatened. Man or woman, this is wrong.	/r/ExRedPill	16/08/21 02:08 PM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? I am a woman and no, I have never been with a submissive woman. From what you're saying, I know it would absolutely suck for me to be with a man who only ever wants what he wants, on his schedule, no matter what. But if that's what you're experiencing, and you're not terribly unhappy, I can't really argue with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 01:31 AM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Yeah but isn't the captain in that position because they are more experienced and have superior knowledge than their first mate? Yeah, the first mate is good and knows that they're doing, but ultimately, the captain is the superior. I don't think this is the same as man/woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 01:28 AM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Well if they both have 'duty' and 'responsibilities,' why is the husband still above his wife? There is no logical, non-biblical reason as far as I'm concerned.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 01:18 AM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Yup. See what they do? He just deliberately compared an adult to a child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 01:17 AM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? This is precisely what an equal partnership is. Thank you for this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 01:16 AM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? If he listens to you and you're allowed to chime in whenever you want, how is that submission? Does he always get to override your judgement? u/geyges already said it, but I don't think him planning a trip is you submitting. It's just you not wanting to take the burden of trip planning (which can be very stressful). If anything, he is submitting to you by planning and taking you on a trip.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 01:15 AM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Worded this perfectly. I'm tired of people doing that mental gymnastics bullshit to try and make submission seem like all flowers and rainbows when it's really not. I don't think that submission implies inferiority, I think it fucking screams it and I don't get how some people don't see that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 01:09 AM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? A child/parent relationship is completely different to a man/woman relationship. Children should submit to the authority of their parents because they are mentally, emotionally, and psychologically underdeveloped, making them (usually) unable to make rational decisions. Using your example, if you told kids that they could play with their online games all night, they would think that that is a great idea with very little downside. They think that because they are kids and, once again, not develop…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 01:04 AM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Yes, thank you! So many of these guys are like "I want to be the head of the household," "I want to be the leader," "I want to be in charge," and I'm just like "???" Don't they realize that single life automatically means that they're in charge of everything? When you're in a relationship you have to share, and they seem like they don't want to share.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 12:35 AM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? Exactly, and its perfectly normal to want a partner that is pleasurable to be around, but they need to keep in mind that disagreements are going to occur whether you want them to or not. The real question is, are they willing to actually listen to their partner and come to a mutual decision? Or do they just want to have the final say on everything?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 12:33 AM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? I totally get that, but what you stated is not gender-specific. I don't know a single person, man or woman, that wants to be with someone they do not get along with, or argue with all the time. Women want a partner they get along with, and men are perfectly capable of starting bullshit arguments. Arguments are going to happen in a relationship no matter what. Some of them may be bullshit that doesn't matter, but some may be shit that actually does matter. How you deal with them is what's really …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 12:27 AM
–	Female submission. What is it? How is it different from an equal partnership? Can you provide real-world examples of it? Do you want it? It's mostly said by red pill coaches with thousands of men who agree Online, of course. I too have never heard it in real life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/21 12:23 AM
4	Watch Kevin Samuels have a complete meltdown after a 22yo calls him out on his sh*t At that point I was literally just like "lmao what?" First of all, he talks about dress size and weight. Second of all, even if he only talked about dress size, what difference does it make? The point is that you are talking about the size of a woman. Dress size and weight aren't directly related all the time, but there's definitely a correlation.	/r/ExRedPill	15/08/21 10:52 PM
3	Watch Kevin Samuels have a complete meltdown after a 22yo calls him out on his sht Yeah I was definitely confused on some of what she said, but my point was more how a man in his fifties can so easily get riled up and offended by a 22 year old. Though she might have been incorrect or contradictory, at least* she was calm and respectful. Kevin was straight up attacking her, especially towards the end. But perhaps there is a longer video of their interview, cause I don't know where she said she didn't want an average earning man and I also don't get how the point of tax bracket…	/r/ExRedPill	15/08/21 10:50 PM
12	Watch Kevin Samuels have a complete meltdown after a 22yo calls him out on his sh*t Right! And him using his age against her so immature and such a cop out. Just because you’re older doesn’t mean that you are wiser or deserve respect. I hated the way that he started talking to her in a demeaning tone, as if she’s his child. She might be 30 years younger than him but it is apparent that she's much more mature.	/r/ExRedPill	15/08/21 06:10 PM
17	Watch Kevin Samuels have a complete meltdown after a 22yo calls him out on his sh*t The video made me so mad I could barely finish it. He always gets extremely pissed off when women interrupt him, but he was interrupting her the entire time. I think it's because he knows she has a point, but is afraid of being exposed. I honestly give major props to her because it is extremely difficult to debate someone who has the power to control the narrative through the use of mute buttons, sound effects, etc.	/r/ExRedPill	15/08/21 05:17 PM
10	Myron Gaines Exposed as a Sugar Daddy That bio is probably one of the cringiest things I've ever read. He says "Not to sound cocky..." then proceeds to list a bunch of stats that make him seemingly "better" than other men. "Beauty in women is common, but high value men are NOT. Be prepared to compete." Lmao he's so full of himself, any woman with an ounce of self respect would not put any energy into "competing" for this low quality man.	/r/ExRedPill	13/08/21 10:26 PM
5	"A key that opens many locks is a master key, but a lock that opens to many keys is a shitty lock" Lol I like this	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/21 07:40 PM
4	"A key that opens many locks is a master key, but a lock that opens to many keys is a shitty lock" You do you, but the point is not to judge people who live the exact same lifestyle that you do	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/21 06:09 PM
2	"A key that opens many locks is a master key, but a lock that opens to many keys is a shitty lock" I mean you're probably right, but I think that both men and women should be selective about who they have sex with. Yes, the woman is the one who will have to deal with pregnancy, breastfeeding, and all the other things having to do with a newborn, but it is the mans child too. The man too is risking the possibility of a child, even if he is not the one having it.	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/21 06:08 PM
3	"A key that opens many locks is a master key, but a lock that opens to many keys is a shitty lock" You make good points. I'd say this has a lot to do with insecurity but a biological imperative to reproduce also makes sense	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/21 06:04 PM
3	"A key that opens many locks is a master key, but a lock that opens to many keys is a shitty lock" I should have made this more clear in my comment, but I definitely understand the biological imperative behind the analogy. All of use are on this sub because we have been exposed to RP content in one way or another. This includes me, so I have heard the countless excuses/reasons behind male promiscuity/infidelity/polygamy: "Men are biologically hardwired to spread their seed" "Men aren't naturally monogamous" "Men want sexual variety (even within a monogamous relationship)" "Men produce hundred…	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/21 06:01 PM
5	"A key that opens many locks is a master key, but a lock that opens to many keys is a shitty lock" Exactly. Not all men are sex-obsessed freaks that will do anything to get it	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/21 05:52 PM
12	"A key that opens many locks is a master key, but a lock that opens to many keys is a shitty lock" They don't even realize their hypocrisy	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/21 05:52 PM
6	"A key that opens many locks is a master key, but a lock that opens to many keys is a shitty lock" in order for some men to be promiscuous... some women have to also be, otherwise who would the promiscuous men be sleeping with? This is why I will never understand promiscuous people judging other promiscuous people. Like, you guys literally need each other. It's like drug dealers judging drug addicts; you have no room to judge, at all.	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/21 05:48 PM