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Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:22 PM
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Yikes. Well I'm sorry to hear you've been through that...hopefully though those experiences haven't made you sexist. Best of luck out there. Stay safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:41 AM
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a spectacle or eye candy. Wow...you must be beautiful if you're causing a spectacle. spoken to or approached Does that happen to you often? I can count on one hand how many times I've seen a guy talk to a girl he doesn't know at the gym, and I've been going to the gym for 20 years. I don't mean to be presumptuous, I'm just having difficulty believing that you're getting mobbed every time you go to the gym in athletic attire.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:56 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:15 PM
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Another "boo hoo women are victims" post. People of both genders look at things that are interesting and/or attractive. I should be allowed to wear a mohawk, a dress, and 8 inch platforms without people (including women 😮) staring at me...but guess what? They're probably going to stare at me. Of course no one should be harassed or should be made to feel unsafe...but people are allowed to look at whatever the hell the want. If I see an attractive girl rocking a sexy outfit, I'm going to look and …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:13 PM
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Hey, can't argue with that! Thanks for the civil exchange 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:48 PM
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It is, you're definitely right. I think OP's point is that the narrative is what's odd...the idea that women are disingenuously asserting that "the bar is low" when they're actually only referring to hot guys. Men are a lot more straightforward about it 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:27 PM
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Strange. Oh well!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:23 PM
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Agreed. Not sure why you downvoted me, but okay 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 03:33 PM
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I think oftentimes when the "disingenuous" aspect is overlooked it's because of a lack of awareness...it's not like women are out there admitting that when it comes to physically desirable men their standards for the rest of their personal attributes are lower. Lots of times dudes just don't realize it...hence OP's frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:58 PM
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OP said for men but I (and others) went on to point out that the bar was low for this unspoken subset of attractive men. And that's the whole point...that when women will remark about how low the bar is it's disingenuous because they're really talking about a subset of men. The rest of us are invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:08 PM
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Fair enough. In that case, apologies for being so aggressive. These days I have the shortest fuse that you could imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:45 AM
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Sounds like that's not a problem you have to worry about 😄 I was responding to OP's idea about the bar being low, and I was clarifying for someone else that the bar for personality/character traits is low as long as the guy is tall and attractive. Now, run along ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:22 AM
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I think you're responding to the wrong comment...I never said anything about "good men" or being "entitled to women." I said when a dude is hot, he only has to have a modicum of personal appeal to attract women. So you must be in the wrong place, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:19 AM
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First of all, wtf is this random ass question? Secondly, being a "good man" would help you fit in with your tribe and build solidarity. If you have a tribe who cares about you, they're going to have your back in the event that you're in physical danger. Still though...where did this come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:09 AM
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His point is that when a dude is hot, he just has to have a modicum of personal appeal to make it happen. Get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:33 AM
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Why care about anyone but yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:58 PM
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It just literally sounds stupid. Literally adding "literally" to sentences for literally no reason. It literally adds nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:37 PM
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Why is the word "literally" applicable in either sentence? That's like if I said "I literally don't understand."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:32 PM
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What does it mean to "literally" visit a brothel? Is that different than just visiting it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:21 PM
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Ah so you're only allowed to address one problem at a time. Got it. This one is one of the easier ones to solve...just requires people getting off of their asses. Bit less complex than war, genocide, viral pandemic, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:27 PM
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Discrimination I'm dating is perfectly legal, moral, and acceptable. It's never wrong to not fuck someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:16 PM
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Grow up, it's not about sex appeal. It's about the epidemic of obesity that has massive global ramifications.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:15 PM
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Yup a lot of people are thoughtless and cruel. Eat factory farmed meat. Pollute. Steal. Cheat. It's rough. Let's not make it a "men suck" thing though, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:48 PM
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Yeah there are lots of shallow stupid scumbags, male and female, in the world. How about women who think men are just good for money? Or who think short guys are subhuman? Conversely there are lots of real genuine people out there. Please don't let yourself become another bitter human who just lumps all men together.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:45 PM
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So you see some redditor men commenting on the PPD sub and apply that to all men everywhere? You're talking about a tiny minority of disgruntled men who are on here to vent their frustration. This subreddit is not the whole world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:52 PM
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If you don't believe men, all men, care about feelings then I truly pity you. What a sad and lonely world that must be to live in. Also, do you believe any similarly negative sweeping generalizations about women? Or just men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:32 PM
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Is it pathetic to talk about what married people should or shouldn't do when you've never been married or even lived with someone? Try some compassion. Let go of that judgement. You're really stuck on that word "hate." The vast majority of the time when people are venting frustration about their relationships they're not actually saying they "hate" their partners. OOP was just being hyperbolic. Like I said, relationships are complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:58 AM
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Not policing, but judging...you labeled it "pathetic," which shows you lack experience, compassion, or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:05 AM
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Like I said, feelings for your partner can change daily and even hourly. Relationships are complicated. People will go online to vent frustration because it is a safe place where they can speak anonymously. Often times venting is all a person needs, anyway. Then the partner comes home from work, there are some inside jokes, maybe even an apology and a discussion, and you don't feel that "hate" anymore, though I suspect the use of the word "hate" was hyperbolic in the first place. Also don't forg…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:02 PM
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No one ever starts dating someone that they hate. Relationships are journeys with ups and downs. Humans are not static creatures and hence neither are relationships. If you end up in a toxic relationship the toxicity has formed and grown without you even realizing it. You almost never purely hate your partner...they had qualities that you liked initially so it can be a confusing feeling that changes daily or even hourly. And pair bonding is very powerful. It sounds like you're a young woman who …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:41 PM
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Yeah no problem just get divorced! Piece of cake. Oh wait, you mean it's a massive process that includes having to divide assets, change your name, move out of your marital home, possibly divide custody of your children, and permanently change your legal status? Not to mention permanently removing someone from your life who has been your partner for years. Yeah bro no sweat just get divorced!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:23 PM
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The hate grows over time, bro. You act like everyone is out marrying people they hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:03 PM
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I'm sure it can. Just keep trying until you master the correct delivery.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:01 AM
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Solid milkers, you will feed your children well. (Not sexual)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:58 AM
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Ohh so you're just sexist. A lot of women are sexist these days! Bro how are you not getting this: if you make a claim, it is your responsibility to support that claim. I'm not going to go research everything that every internet stranger claims. It's real simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:23 PM
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Lol look at you all emotional! A med student responded above with the science and now I understand, so get off your dumb high horse acting like I don't want answers. What you believe to be an obvious "science" of the human body is not obvious...people spout incorrect shit on the internet every day claiming "science". Look at all the morons and their phony "facts" about vaccines. I'm not going to give every internet commenter the benefit of the doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:11 PM
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Sounds reputable to me 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:02 PM
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No bud. The burden of proof is on the accuser...if someone is going to claim a fact online they need to be prepared to support that claim. I'm not going to go do a bunch of research any time any Internet stranger claims something. If you want people to believe you you'd better be prepared to state facts and support them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:16 PM
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Why would you doubt it would make a difference? You provided a sensible explanation in response to a question I asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:21 PM
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Exactly, a stupid one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:20 PM
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A sensible explanation. What's your background? That is, what's your source for this information?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:20 PM
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Ah, so you're going to make a claim and then tell me to go consult an expert instead of explaining it yourself. Checks out 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:17 PM
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How do hormones make your breasts sag? And how does that explain childless women with saggy breasts?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:36 PM
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Uh what is the science behind that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:20 PM
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What does it mean to be "literally" active?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:20 PM
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All of my girlfriends have been younger except for one...2 year gap, 2 year gap, 9 year gap, 15 year gap, now a 6 year gap. If people thought you looked 40 in high school then you just have something wrong with your look...did you lose your hair young? Do you dress like an old man? You need to figure that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:33 AM
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Yup, women's double standards are worse than ever. Also, you really like the word "literally," huh? "Literally" a laundry list 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:20 PM
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I know, right? So much easier to just say "MEN ARE THE PROBLEM!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:29 PM
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It doesn't suck at all, I love my life! Why are you posting in "help me find a new job" sub reddits if you're so darn skilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:07 AM
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Bro with social science there are no absolutes, there are no hard rules, and there are always outliers and exceptions. I wouldn't expect you to understand that though since you clearly have no education. The more I learn about you the more transparent you become...all you do is post on angry women subs all day while you work a job you hate because you have no skills or education. I truly pity you and wish you the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:35 AM
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Hey bro, you know nothing about me. Being disappointed in women like you does not translate to me being angry all the time, bro. You're also really terrible at discourse...you don't listen, you don't engage thoughtfully, you don't help further the discussion, you jump to conclusions, you pick one word to misinterpret and respond to...you're frozen in your beliefs that women are oppressed and should be free like birds and that men are the problem. I'm genuinely curious...do you have a career?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:26 AM
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Golly, I'll just keep repeating myself over and over because you just don't bother to actually hear what I'm saying: living in a world where there is tons of anti-male energy is (gasp!) not a great thing when you're a male! It's not their "dating habits," it's the way they get out of relationships saying "boy men sure do suck!" instead of, y'know, taking some responsibility. You know what's petty? Telling internet strangers that they're going to die! How's your health? Because don't forget, you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:17 AM
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Oh good, we're back to you wildly misinterpreting things to support your pre-conceived beliefs...that didn't take long. Would you mind showing me where I said I wasn't getting dates? I'm pretty sure I said that once I started taking care of myself my dating life took off and has been fine ever since? But hey fiction is fun, too. I care for the reasons I've already stated, bro. There is a ton of anti-men sentiment out there and I think a lot of it comes from women deciding men suck after a few ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:00 AM
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You're right, it is up to her if she wants to live a humble life of steady improvement. But if she doesn't want to then why shouldn't she expect to have difficulty finding and maintaining relationships? You're not the first person who's responded to me that way when I suggest that women should work on improvement instead of just trying to find a man who will tolerate them...as though I'm advocating some legal obligation or something. What a weird thing to fight for. As for physical improvement, …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:03 AM
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Maybe the solution is to learn from mistakes without growing bitter? Be more realistic with expectations? Be more patient with people and relationships? Really examine your standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:26 AM
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They shouldn't. The problem is when people come out of the relationship without learning lessons and blaming the opposite sex. This happens much more often with women, as another poster pointed out, because women become bitter about men as they experience more men, while men become bitter about women as they fail to experience women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:25 AM
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Maybe she was a nightmare and pushed him away and misinterpreted his growing coldness for a red flag that developed over time. Hey let's just play the "maybe" game instead of admitting that anyone could stand to practice a little accountability. It's definitely easier!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:19 AM
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Well I guess you're right, she only said that "literally every single man [she] met" in his 30s was jaded. Great point, checkmate. Definitely no sign of her being jaded there. If I had to say she should have done anything, I would say she should have reflected more about why she was in a position where she felt she wasn't meeting anyone in the first place, what all the men she was meeting had in common (outside of age) and whether she had any qualities (physical, emotional) that she could improv…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:13 AM
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First of all, no...women are usually fearful and or bitter toward strange men. Get real. By accountability I mean maybe looking at her past relationships and asking herself in what ways might she have contributed to the failure of the relationship? Rather than just saying "ugh he was a toxic red flag."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:06 AM
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I always love when women wildly misinterpret statements by men in order to support their pre-conceived narratives. I didn't try to "argue anyone's lives experiences." Please show me where I did that. I did not suggest that she should have done anything differently, please show me where I did that. I simply pointed out that your point was "she learned from her experiences," and that the lesson was clearly "'literally' all men in their 30s are jaded." That doesn't seem like a valuable lesson, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:47 PM
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Yeah the lesson she learned was that "literally" (🙄) all men in their 30s are jaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:37 PM
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How does widespread bitterness toward men personally affect men? Golly what a question! It's not insulting women to ask women to be more mindful when it comes to writing off half the species. Bitterness toward men is at an all time high these days. Women loooove to cancel men while it seems that women can do no wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:35 PM
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"...and doesn't touch the topic at hand, which is why people have preferences." Huh, sure seems like it to me! It is relevant for precisely the reason I stated...that many women are totally hypocritical about preference when it comes to fat women vs short men (ie, it's fair to prefer a guy be tall but shallow to prefer a woman be lean). Ignore it anyway, though. We get it, you can't see past your own resentments.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:59 AM
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Yes, a small percentage of overweight people have medical conditions that make weight loss difficult...but 100% of short men are born with a condition that makes it impossible to grow taller. Anyway the question wasn't "why do people have preferences," it was "what's the deal with women and height preferences?" There are a lot of ways to answer that...one of the "deals" is that many women think it's cool to marginalize short men while demonizing men who marginalize fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:51 AM
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And honestly, a lot of men won't go out with a woman with small breasts. Objectively, demonstrably false.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:04 PM
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I would make it possibly akin to men saying "no fat chicks." While this is definitely true, it's not a fair comparison for obvious reasons. Short dudes are born into a situation where the majority of women won't even consider dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:02 PM
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The main problem with porn is that it desensitizes your dopaminergic reward system...there is a link between porn use and laziness, and it can be very addictive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:40 PM
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Dude.......no one is telling you to call anyone ugly. Did you just not read my reply at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:32 AM
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Anything is better than what this guy did. Definitely agree with that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:28 AM
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Uh why would you have to call anyone ugly? That's needlessly hurtful. Just say something assertive but polite or remove yourself from the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:53 PM
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You're not reacting with annoyance. You're reacting with the same simmering rage and acerbic bitterness that you react with any time you see a man step out of line. And my principal frustration at this point is with the fact that you don't listen and your mind is sealed like a bank vault. You're not here to explore ideas, you're here to unleash the flames of your rage against male chauvinist pigs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:16 AM
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That is obviously just lip service. You are very active in your anger and aggression toward men, go look at your comment and post history...it's all just anti-men this and anti-men that. Why aren't you posting in r/blatantmisandry? I'm sure you use words like "patriarchy," "misogyny," and "transphobic" regularly. Bro you are entirely transparent...men are the enemy, women are just women. I truly pity you for living in the world you live in, it must be a nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:12 AM
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Dude...you have yet to answer how he interfered with her paycheck. And I never defended him, he was obviously annoying. But that's all he was...annoying. You're making him into some big evil villain. This discussion is getting boring because you are pure emotion and zero reason. I have explained myself at length: he did nothing to come between her and her living (by all means show me how he did) and we ALL have to deal with annoying people at work. All you can see is BOO MEN, MEN BAD, GO AWAY ME…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:07 AM
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Oh okay, so you're going to ignore the first half of my response to go on a rant about how shitty most men are, illustrating my point that this is clearly a very emotional issue for you. PLENTY of women act without manners, act entitled, are assholes, and treat men like a means to an end. Humans have an enormous capacity for selfishness and thoughtlessness...there is no reason for you to make it all about men. What you're doing is called, wait for it, sexism. That's no different than people who …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:52 AM
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Ah, so I should have left the concert to avoid being pestered because I wasn't on the clock. Totally, great point. What you're trying to say I should be subject to unwanted advances any time I'm not working at my job? Yeah, no. It's not wishful thinking...I've been in two serious relationships with coworkers and have dated other girls I met while they were working. Granted my general rule is to leave women alone while they're working and this relaxed approach is what works (as opposed to this gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:45 AM
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Like I said...she was clearly sitting there doing nothing. Her responsibilities evidently are to sit and wait for customers to make purchases so she can ring them up. Was he a nuisance? Sure. Was that regretable? Obviously. Was he coming between her and her paycheck? Absolutely not. You are totally blowing it out of proportion...it's not a crime to be annoying. We all encounter annoying people and it's up to each of us to learn to navigate those situations gracefully. Again, you clearly have a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:34 AM
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No, you have to answer my question first...in what way was he interfering with her professional responsibilities?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:23 AM
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So you're going to ignore my point that lots of women end up in romantic affairs with men they meet while they're working? It sounds like in your perfect world men wouldn't talk to women at all. You're projecting a lot of sinister, disturbing intentions onto this guy. It never occurred to you that he's just awkward and neurodivergent? He must simply be willfully torturing his captive audience? I would be so sad if I had to go through life thinking men were this evil. I was at a concert the other…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:22 AM
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In what way was he preventing her from attending to her professional responsibilities? He was just talking to her, bro...she was clearly sitting and doing nothing. If she had a task she could have said "excuse me but I must attend to this task. Have a nice day."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:04 AM
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You're completely ignoring his point...there is no rule that says "women who are on the clock are never interested in sex or romance so leave them alone." I've dated multiple coworkers. I've gone on dates with girls I've met while they were working. This guy was shooting his shot and failing but lacked the social awareness (a common symptom of autism spectrum disorder) to see that she was not enjoying the attention. I'm sorry someone hurt you but you really need to open that mind up a bit, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:01 AM
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Women can survive pretty well on their own...but the truth is they need a lot and can't exist in a vacuum. They need excitement, emotional stimulation, emotional support, meaningful connections...and if a man can provide excitement and stimulation he can get away with a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:51 AM
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No, those women are just hypocrites. I guarantee they would never admit to "having no problem" with misogyny and sexism...they just don't mind if a guy is sexist as long as he is meeting their other needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:10 AM
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Why would a woman automatically assume that a guy who is approaching her is "dumpster diving?" That's a pretty weird excuse to be rude to someone..."I assume the only reason you're talking to me is because you're 'dumpster diving' so I'm going to be rude to you."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:00 PM
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The rudeness is the whole point. Everyone should be allowed to date, or reject, anyone they damn well please...but there is a sense of entitlement and superiority with the way a lot of girls will rudely reject some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:37 PM
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Frustrated reddit men on the purple pill sub do not represent the "manisphere."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:29 AM
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"Some of my best friends are..." LOL do you not hear what that sounds like? You are saying that "the manisphere" believes all of the nonsense you wrote about. So you clearly believe "the manisphere" is a bunch of misogynist assholes. Your "question" is rhetorical..."what is a woman allowed to be attracted to?" Your post is totally transparent...you clearly think "the patriarchy" does not think women should be allowed to choose what they're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:50 AM
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It's pretty clear you think straight men are a bunch of misogynist assholes...so are you really asking a question here or just venting frustration?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:14 PM
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This topic is exhausted. No one thinks 20 year old college girls are attracted to 35 year old men. However, a successful 35-40 year old man could easily attract a 27-35 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:07 PM
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Bro you posted in "how to be hot" three months ago 😄🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:32 PM
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I have never once seen someone make any these claims, nor have I ever heard anything like this in any of my many conversations regarding women with men. You are projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:56 PM
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So if I have a problem with vain little girls who surgically enhance themselves and sit around worrying about their looks all day I must be gay, right? Totally. No, you just came to ignore the topic at hand and shit on older guys to make yourself feel good because you're clearly very insecure. It's annoying when people do that. Very immature. Don't worry, the only reason older guys would be the slightest bit interested in you would be to penetrate you. Nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:42 AM
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Jesus christ you are thick. All you want to do is stick to your whole "women don't owe men sex!!!" thing even though no one has said that. I don't think it's sad at all that some men aren't worthy of sex. You're trying so, so hard to make your little narrative true and that is what is sad. This thread was simply about whether single mothers are the equivalent of older men as far as knee-jerk "red flag" labeling. WOMEN OWE MEN SEX. ALWAYS. BEND OVER AND SPREAD. Moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:55 AM
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Hey I'm with you. Tell that to all the bitter women in my last post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:52 AM
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I like that you ignored the "to be worthy of" definition. Some people are worthy of sex some aren't. Also, life isn't a fucking dictionary, but whatever. You're a boring broken record and I feel sorry for you... you're going to live a sad life walking around thinking women are victims and men are garbage. Enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:25 AM
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Yeah I said that, how the fuck does that equate to me saying "women owe men sex?" That's why your brain is smooth...you don't know how to read or to think analytically. If something doesn't fit your narrative (men want to control women) you just make shit up. If you look at the way women talk about hot men ("omg I would have his babies" etc) it's clear they think those men "deserve" sex. If you look at the way women talk about short men, older men, bald men, poor men, it's clear they think the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:12 AM
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You're not worth responding to. You misquote me and ramble unintelligibly with the same dumb point that women don't owe men sex...no one ever said women owe men sex. Many women act like most men should just disappear because they're gross and worthless. That's it. Leave it at that, I'm sick of you and your smooth brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:49 PM
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First of all you're terrible at quoting because neither of those quotes even uses the words "deserve," "sex," or "relationships." You're really, really bad at reading. My point was most women are so bitter toward men that it seems they think the world would be better if most men would either go live under a rock or just die outright. Is that clear enough for ya or should I go get some crayons and draw you a fucking picture? Seriously how could you fuck up these quotes this badly?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:12 PM
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Dude you are completely putting words in my mouth to suit your little narrative and it's incredibly annoying. Go show me where I said men deserve sex or relationships from women. Seriously go find it. And I didn't say women think men should go live alone or kill themselves because they said they don't want to date older women...I said go read the bitterness that women express toward men and you'll see that it's clear women think most men shouldn't exist because they're gross and pointless. Eithe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:34 PM
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When did I ever say men are owed sex? Jesus dude women like you loooove to act like every dude in the world is some gross patriarchal misogynist. Go back and read my previous comment and respond to that instead of responding to your made-up little narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:25 PM
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It really doesn't bother me in the slightest if someone wants to go be a stepdad. Other people's relationships are nobody else's business. As for why single moms aren't attractive: having kids is a HUGE life decision, and having kids with someone you don't stay with is a sign of bad character. Whether he sucks and you were foolish enough to get pregnant anyway or whether you were the toxic one who caused the breakup, it's bad. Plus kids and baby daddies are major baggage, and post-baby bodies ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:16 PM
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Granddaughters? Isn't that a bit of an exaggeration? Who's trying to say 70 year olds should be banging 20 year olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:49 PM
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Men think differently than women do. If you go read all the bitterness that women express about men you'll see that women think most should just go live in solitude in a cave somewhere, if not outright kill themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:49 PM
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Go read the responses on my last post...it's crystal clear that many women believe older men (and probably most men) don't deserve sex and that anyone who has sex with them is a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:38 PM
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Sure...but they definitely think that most men don't deserve sex. You can see it plain as day with the way they talk about old guys, short guys, bald guys...the way they talk about them it sounds like they think they should just die!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:45 PM
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Hey all I did was compare them to older men...so if you are interpreting that as "hate," that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:38 PM
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Right, but if anyone doesn't deserve sex/relationships (according to women) it's older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:37 PM
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Yes of course it's vague...but if you ask women about whether or not older men deserve sex/relationships it's not vague at all...the answer becomes an unequivocal "no." Go look at my last part and you'll see. That's why I created this post...to show how silly it is to discount an entire demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:35 PM
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Wow good point, thank you so much for your input ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:16 PM
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😄😄
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:34 PM
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Totally. That's why dating a single parent is less than ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:33 PM
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This is interesting!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:33 PM
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Interesting question
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:32 PM
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You just absolutely nailed it. I, too, was shocked to see how many women just wanted to shit on older men instead of engaging on the topic at hand. And also yes, how they don't seem to grasp that status and strength are what make men attractive. Also: so many of the commentors were little 21 year olds (that I would never be interested in dating) acting like I was suggesting that they would find 50 year olds attractive. I was referring more to men in their late 30s-late 40s dating women in their …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:51 AM
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True, for sure. I mean it sounds like OP is awakening to this sad reality and is venting about it online...so even if it comes across as redundant, this is where he is coming for support.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:47 AM
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Okay, so you're going completely off topic here but that's fine. When you say women of all ages have options, are you just talking about the option of letting dudes stick their dicks in them? Because sure that's true...dudes will stick their dicks in anything. But a 50 year old woman does not have any better chance having a meaningful relationship with an attractive young person than a 50 year old man does. And since old men are gross, wouldn't a single older woman rather be with an attractive y…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:12 AM
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Obviously most older men are garbage, just like most women over 40 are garbage. But men over 40 have a way better chance of marrying someone young than women over 40 do. That said, I totally agree with you that the guys who are sexual winners in their teens and 20s are the only ones who have a chance of staying sexually relevant in their 30s and 40s. Sexual losers tend to get worse with age, not better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 12:54 AM
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Single moms are red flags too, so why don't you guys freak out when single moms get into relationships? Y'all just hate men, and especially older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:00 PM
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No, I'm losing my shit because so many morons are ignoring the question just to rant about how gross old men are. I get it, old ladies (older than 40) are gross, too. So are moms. So I get it. If I've learned anything from this thread it's that women hate the idea of older men getting laid. How do you know it's a red flag? You know-it-alls don't actually know shit, you're just projecting your own trauma onto other people's relationships that happen to be none of your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:57 PM
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The best sex I've ever had has always been when I'm in love. Kissing for a long time, being there with each other...cuddling after with pillow talk. Spending the night. Getting breakfast. I'm sorry man I don't mean to rub it in but you are missing some important stuff. That said, if you've never experienced that type of connection, you don't know what you're missing so don't sweat. Go rock that pro tail and enjoy it for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:29 PM
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Single women in the market place decrease in value as they age. My love will be beautiful forever...because that's how love works.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:23 PM
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There is no argument here because you're ignoring my original point. Old men are gross, we agree! So why do women get so triggered about other people's age-gap relationships that are none of their business?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:21 PM
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Yeah OP's point is that hot guys get to experience what it's like when A. Most women are automatically attracted to you and B. The attraction is deeper and more intense. That's the whole point...average dudes have a tough time finding that attraction and when they do it's not as real.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:02 PM
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Also your post history 😄😄😄 The only women who have been responding with such venom and toxicity have women like you with eating disorders, mental health problems, intense bitterness toward men (how do I get over the belief that men are only interested in younger girls and are borderline pedophiles 😄😄). I should have known better...you've got plenty of problems of your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:59 PM
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Jesus you have just missed the point so much it's crazy. What I care about is why you people get so triggered by other people's relationships that are none of your business. I have no interest in the childish young morons who have been posting in this thread. I'm also in a happy with a relationship with a woman 6 years younger than me. So go ahead, keep going through life missing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:57 PM
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Hey brainless fucking moron: this was NEVER a question of "are old guys attractive." Old people are unattractive, everyone knows that. Old ladies are fuckin gross too, and I suspect you might be one already, otherwise you'll be one before you know it. IT WAS A QUESTION OF: WHY DO WOMEN GET SO TRIGGERED WHEN THEY SEE YOUNGER WOMEN IN RELATIONSHIPS WITH OLDER MEN. It's really not that fucking complicated...yet you all needed to come in here, ignore the original topic, and just rant about how unatt…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:43 PM
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But my view was never "old men are attractive, change my mind." You people are creating your own question that suits your own little narrative. My view was "older women get triggered by age-gap relationships because they are bitter that they're no longer attractive." However you all have indeed changed my view: women of all ages are just generally bitter toward men and for some reason hate seeing old men getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:41 PM
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And you "younger" women replying have missed the fucking point every time....... NO ONE is asking if you're interested in older men no one cares. Give it a few years and guys will stop approaching you entirely. The question is why do you get so triggered you see a younger woman in a relationship with an older man. A relationship that's none of your business. Christ you "younger women" have all shown that you can't read for shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:35 PM
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Absolutely agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:31 PM
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I'll explore your ass with my foot. Fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:31 PM
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You're a a lot of additional detail here...you're acting like we're talking about a 20 year old a 70 year old. Fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:31 PM
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Then you say I think all men are scumbags because I want all women to get the same courtesy as your daughter's friends? Where exactly did I say this. Younger women look good. Sorry not sorry. And who the fuck said I don't have tact with all women? The problem with people like you is you're so married to your little narrative that you'll just make shit up to support it. Whatever it takes to keep that narrative alive!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:32 AM
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No, I met a girl when I was an EMT and we fell in love. We traveled, ate tons of food, had fantastic conversations and great sex. But whatever, go read some more blatant misogyny and keep on hating men!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:28 AM
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Of course...I don't know everything, and the feedback I got showed that my initial theory was too simple and narrow. I appreciate you recognizing that. Now try telling that to all the triggered women who just came here to comment about how gross old men are 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:17 AM
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Yeah anything that doesn't fit your little narrative must be bullshit. Totally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:13 AM
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I'm not saying anything even close to that, stop trying to make shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:12 AM
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Why would you address a point that I already changed my mind about? What a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:12 AM
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When I was 33 and broke, still building my career, I had an amazing loving relationship with a 24 year old. And that's just one example. You can't see past your little "girl power all men are pigs" world view, so there's no point trying to have a discussion with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:05 AM
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Eh, you're one of those women who think all men are scumbags and who makes feminism and girl power!! your entire identity. One of those women who thinks every time a man breathes it's "blatant misogyny."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:04 AM
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Right, younger women never go out with older men 🙄 You are a moron x1000 and can't see past your own narrow little worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:00 AM
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You're adding to a conversation that no one else is having. Go start another post if you want to change the subject. Jesus you are an assumption making machine! Let's see some data showing that the vast majority of parents don't want their daughter with an older man. Also how much older? One year? Five years? And where the hell did drugs come from 😂😂 Bro you live in your own little fantasy world.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:59 AM
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So because you personally don't find older men attractive, therefore you get super triggered when someone else does. Yeah you do sound like a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:55 AM
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Objectively, yes. But there is a little thing called emotional maturity...an emotionally mature man, for example, won't see his daughter's friends as sex objects. Also, when I'm in love, no one is more attractive than my love. In sickness and in health and no matter her age. That's what a good man is all about. So are 21 year olds physically hotter than 41 year olds? All else being equal (assuming the 21 year old isn't fat or hideous) yes, absolutely. Does that mean that all men are just sex cra…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:54 AM
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Wtf does this have to do with anything? We're not talking about creepy old guys who want their daughters friends. And seeing how bitter you are no, you should not get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:49 AM
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Hey moron: for the 500th time this is not a post about how you feel about older men. No one cares. This is about why many women get super triggered when they see an older guy with a younger woman. Jesus the youth just gets dumber every generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:47 AM
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Hey do you remember at the top of the post where I added an edit that said I'd changed my mind about the envy thing? So why are you still talking about it? Also plenty of parents don't take issue with their daughters being with an older guy as long as he treats her well, so that's not even a great point anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:44 AM
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Yup, younger people are hotter than older people, men and women. That's an interesting theory...I can see how that makes sense. Because at the end of the day "disgust" is the right word for it. Many women are disgusted when they see an older man with a younger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:43 AM
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"Women of all ages are just generally bitter toward men, especially old men...and it doesn't necessarily have anything to do with envy." Yeah...that was my explanation for why women get so triggered when they see an older man with a younger woman. I know reading isn't easy so I get it...but if you tried a bit harder I bet you'd do great. I truly don't care how you feel about older men. I also find older women gross, so I understand completely. That's not what this post was about. It was about WH…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:29 AM
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Wow you really don't have reading comprehension skills. If you knew how to read you'd see that this thread isn't about why women like or don't like older men (btw you just described a dude who is like 60), it's about why women get so triggered when older men are in relationships with younger women. I mean look how triggered you just got and you didn't even understand the question!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:10 AM
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What's to accept? That the girls who have been posting here aren't into older guys? Okay great, I accept it. Now what? Also, who said women are a problem? I'm just baffled by how triggered y'all get by age-gap relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:14 AM
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You're 22 and based on your comment history you are suuuuper vain. You got fake tits and you're constantly posting in shit in subs like "how to be hot." So no, I don't care what a young shallow person with fake tits thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:11 AM
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I'm not interested in hearing the same irrelevant bitter comments repeated over and over again. This was meant to be a discussion about why some women get so triggered and angry about age-gap relationships...I really don't need 20 young women to just come here to comment "ew omg old guys are gross." Great, very helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:54 AM
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I've been completely transparent with this thread. At first I thought it was envy but now I can see it's bitterness. Women act like they're the relationship police who are in charge of everyone else's business...and it's clear that a lot of women really don't respect women in their early 20s if they think they can't decide for themselves who to date. Y'all act like all older men are just creepy manipulative groomers when the reality is most people are just normal and looking to date someone they…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:51 AM
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Right, because I said there are no single dads or jaded men, right? Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:47 AM
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English is for sure not your first language, yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:46 AM
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Are you a doctor or a developmental psychologist? Or are you just some dumbfuck who has no idea what you're talking about? If people are so underdeveloped at 20, why are they tried as adults, sent to war, and allowed to vote? How are people getting into college if they're cognitively so backwards at age 20?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:44 AM
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Read some of the comments in here...there is a ton of bitterness. Dozens of young women came rolling through just to say "omg ew gross creepy" adding nothing at all to the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:42 AM
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It's hilarious how many young women have come parading in here to just say "um omg gross" while missing the whole point of the post. Did you not read my edit saying that I now see that women of all ages are bitter about old men? Or did you just choose to ignore it? Did anyone ask whether you find older men attractive? No...because no one cares. Kids your age these days are tiktok retards who have never read a book. Thanks for adding nothing to the discussion!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:41 AM
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That is exactly right on point. You nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:32 PM
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First of all, where are you getting "the majority?" Because I don't agree with that assumption. Secondly 74.3% of fathers think that 86.12% of men aren't good enough for their daughters, regardless of age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:32 PM
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Btw how did you two meet? Because that is a pretty intense age gap, not that it's any of my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:07 PM
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This is exactly what I'm talking about...so many women jump straight to the conclusion that any dude who goes for a younger girl is a creepy groomer and any younger girl is half an infant with no ability to fend for herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:06 PM
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Look through these comments...there are a ton of females of all ages just spewing hate about older men. It's crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:00 PM
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If we're only talking about a minority of men who are guilty of this, why are we "warning" people? More importantly, I'm again not referring to women who say "hey girl be careful, sometimes older men can be manipulative." I'm talking about the rampant attitude of declaring that any man in an age gap relationships is "omg a creepy groomer who clearly can't get women his own age."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:50 PM
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I don't let someone know I think they're attractive until we're actually dating. I'm not interested in making anyone uncomfortable. Prior to that I just talk to them like a normal person and if things feel right I ask them out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:40 PM
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Wow you really give men a lot of credit! You think we're all out there with evil schemes to get that 18 year old pussy!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:33 PM
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This was basically gibberish. Yeah, some men are less than virtuous when it comes to dating. This is true at all ages...I don't know why y'all hate older men specifically so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:32 PM
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I see so many people saying that men "target" younger women. That might be true in some cases, but the majority of the time men just go after what looks good to them. We don't have some grand evil scheme.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:30 PM
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Right on. You didn't see at the top of my post that I changed my mind? Or did you just choose to ignore it? Why is it just older men who often don't have good intentions? I'd argue men of all ages are just as likely to have less than virtuous intentions...it's crazy how much prejudice there is against older dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:29 PM
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That's like saying why go for a guy who's 6'1 when you could go for a guy who's 6'2. If you're virile, you're virile...it's not like women are doing fuckin blood tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:47 PM
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I absolutely never said that. Having a solid living and a good career is all that matters. I'm not trying to buy anyone's love ya fuckin weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:45 PM
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What's impressive is that I love my job and my work is super low stress with lots of room for advancement..I also don't give a flying fuck what you think 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:13 PM
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Assuming he's taking great care of himself the difference is pretty small. But okay, if that's the battle you need to win 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:12 PM
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You don't have to hit on a girl to start a relationship...I've never "hit on" anyone. I'm talking about the kinda of guys who are always out scamming on young chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:12 PM
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How are you protecting anyone by just being angry and judgemental? You act like you're out there doing the lord's work for judging older men that date younger women 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:11 PM
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LOL bro you're just as mad as me. And you're also wrong...everyone uses reddit and the internet these days. I make a great living and I've always had a great dating life. But please, yell some more ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:09 PM
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Dude why are you assuming that every older man wants to fuck you? You're not that fuckin special, go literally scream that that from the rooftops. A couple older dudes hit on you and now you think every guy in the world wants you. Grow up, bro. Lots of us couldn't give less of a shit about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:38 PM
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Get real...you think all men suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:37 PM
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Yeah, men can be shitty. The problem is when people like you beging believing that therefore all men are shitty. That must be exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:32 PM
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All old men are creepy and delusional, eh? Well then I guess all young women are entitled, clueless leeches.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:31 PM
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You called the cops because a dude tried to talk to you? You're fucking nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:30 PM
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First of all, absolutely no one cares what you find "gross." You are not special just because you're 20. Secondly, no one ever said men get "oh so sexy" after 40-50. But men who consistently work on themselves can improve with age to a certain point. When you're 35 and still single I guarantee you'll feel differently about high quality 40-50 year old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:30 PM
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"I've never known..." "I have never known..." Well if you've never known it then it can't be true. Lord knows you have a big enough sample size to make your experience statistically significant 🙄 Give me a break, bro. You're just viewing the world through your bitter little lense. "They" just go for whatever girls look good to them and guess what? Younger girls look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:28 PM
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Yup it's definitely all bitterness and resentment for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:23 PM
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They get harassed by young men, too. I'd bet they're harassed more often by young men. So why do y'all hate old men so much? Why do young men get a pass to be shitty?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:23 PM
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Very interesting but what does this have to do with anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:22 PM
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Men absolutely tend to age better than women. But hey, believe what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:22 PM
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Okay, go ahead and call the police every time a man you're not attracted to approaches you. Let us know how that goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:21 PM
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I've attracted younger women many times, including times before I found my career and I was not making much money. It's all relative, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:20 PM
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You're right, being abused is different than being approached. I never said they did?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:19 PM
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We see the shit you're saying too, bud. It's all a big mess. The difference between you and me is I don't blame an entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:18 PM
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Go right ahead and call the police every time someone talks to you. Please let us know the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:17 PM
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No, but I've seen the way short and poor men get ignored and even abused by women. It's all just as toxic. Women and men have never been so divided.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:16 PM
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I will never assume that a woman who is dismissing all old men is operating reasonably. If you don't spell it out then I will take it at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:14 PM
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Yeah...you say that now, but you didn't say that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:07 PM
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I'm just as sick of the entitlement and height/money fetishism of young women...but I have no delusions that they will stop. We are a mess of a species, no matter what is between your legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:01 PM
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I'm absolutely bitter...I have never denied that. Stop acting like you've made some profound discovery about my character. If she loved him and he treated her well, why should I be bothered? Ageism is a real thing, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:00 PM
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I'm not changing the topic at all? I was pointing out that your original comment that all old men are seedy and disgusting was overly broad and prejudiced.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:58 PM
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Hahaha. "I disagree with you, therefore you must be gay!" Totally not toxic at all 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:56 PM
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Yeah you say that now, but that was not at all clear in your original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:55 PM
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Yes because everyone knows that as long as an opinion is common, it can't be bigoted or harmful 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:55 PM
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First of all, you're implying that there's something "inherently wrong" with old men? Wtf? I've known multiple tall dudes who act like they're entitled to sex because they're tall. Anyway your prejudice is crystal clear...pretty sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:53 PM
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No bro I'm not talking about warning your friends to be cautious (when dating anyone, really), I'm talking about the gut reaction so many women have to seeing age-gap relationships. It's always assumed that the dude is a creepy groomer. I'm sure people have had bad experiences with tall men or mexican men...are you going to warn your friends about them, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:04 PM
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Yeah, bitter morons make me mad. Is that all you came here to say? Okay, you're old!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:01 PM
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Yeah, you never said that. You were dismissing all older men. I had no idea how many women were so bitter toward older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:00 PM
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You directed a comment at me and said "your hypothetical relationship." Why in god's name would I assume that you were addressing "the majority of young men here" based on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:43 PM
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LOL you're a defense attorney and you don't understand how arguments work 😄😄😄 That is embarrassing for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:42 PM
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I would argue that people's decision making process does not change that much from 20 to 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:41 PM
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Unequivocally. Remember that? It wasn't conditional a few minutes ago, it was unequivocal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:37 PM
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Who cares who I'm arguing with? You clearly have no idea how argument works...arguments evolve. You don't just stick to the first point, you bob and weave in response to what is argued back. No one is disagreeing that most young men don't want old men. That's not what we're talking about. I was creating a forum to discuss why women judge men who are in age-gap relationships. I thought it was envy but now I see it's just plain bitterness. Women on the whole just don't seem to like men on the whol…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:36 PM
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I don't care what women of any age think...it's clear what you think: men fuckin suck. I was curious why women think that. But I'm pretty damn tired of talking about it. You all just keep saying the same thing over and over..."old men are creepy." Yeah, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:34 PM
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We'll be careful up there on your high horse...a fall that far might kill ya!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:32 PM
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You're going to absolutely make me lose my mind with the way you make shit up. You're basically just arguing with yourself 🙄 I never said young women don't have baggage, and I didn't say people without baggage "don't choose partners who do," I said I wouldn't expect someone without baggage to put up with someone who does. Baggage is often hidden until some time spent dating. You're also making a lot of assumptions about my baggage and about the people I date. Go ahead and believe that I'm exploi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:31 PM
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No I originally said it was old women because they were envious. Now I see that it's women of all ages and because of bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:25 PM
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Ah so it's conditional...old men are only pathetic and seedy if they attempt to flirt with or solicit women your age. So old men aren't necessarily pathetic and seedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:24 PM
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Yes and you countered by saying that it wasn't "jealousy," but was that you find it "repulsive and disgusting." So I countered that with my analogy saying that if we find something repulsive and disgusting, therefore other people shouldn't do it? That's how arguing works, do you understand? I make a point, then you make a point, back and forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:22 PM
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I've actually changed my mind since I posted this and read the comments...now I don't think it's about envy as much as it is that women of all ages are just bitter toward men in general, especially apparently old men. Also as to my analogy it still does apply, because your point was not that you were jealous but simply that you found it gross when old men date you get women, as though perceived "grossness" somehow justifies your belief that it's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:13 PM
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The typo yes but "watching and reading rage bait" is just a weird fuckin way to word that. Also you jumping to conclusions about me being unhappy in my "hypothetical" relationship, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:10 PM
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Yeah Brad Pitt is seedy. Is your father seedy? Your grandfather? It must be nice living in a world where everything is totally black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:08 PM
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No I have changed my mind...it's not just older women who hate age-gap relationships and it's not just envy that causes it. It seems that women of all ages hate age-gap relationships and it's more due to bitterness toward men than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:07 PM
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Right...and their older age means they're unattractive and seedy, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:05 PM
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It's not their bank accounts 😄 It's their good looks, good upkeep, career success, charm... So you don't want them. Congratulations. That must mean no one else does, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:02 PM
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Right...empathy allows you to shit all over men and exonerate the women who choose to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:01 PM
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"Folks like me" you don't know shit about me. I understand perfectly that men have plenty of baggage as they get older, but it's absolutely tit for tat...women get wrinkly, have plenty of health issues and menopause, get very bitter toward men, absolutely feel useless to society, often lack income, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:00 PM
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I'm frustrated because you keep making shit up that I never said. I never said, for example, that "young women are suitable life partners." You have made up bullshit in every single reply that you've sent. And yes, I have changed my view after this. I now see that women are bitter toward men at all ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:55 PM
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Most women are not gorgeous 😄😄😄 Most humans are not attractive. You're also describing a dude who's like 60...settle the fuck down. Men can be perfectly virile throughout their 30s and 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:53 PM
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I think two fat people having sex is repulsive and disgusting. Should I go throw a fuckin fit about it? Look how triggered you get about this topic! It really bothers you personally! When you say you've "been there," do you mean you've been in a relationship with an older man? Or you just received unwanted attention from men of all ages including older men? If it's the latter then as I specifically stated in my OP that's not what I'm talking about. No one wants to be hit on by someone they find …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:52 PM
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All older men? Full stop? George Clooney, Brad Pitt, Tom Brady? Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:49 PM
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You're not looking for Leonardo DiCaprio? Ryan Reynolds? George Clooney? All men are attracted to younger women...not just the creeps
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:48 PM
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I don't give a fuck what they think. At all. Kids these days are tiktok dumbfucks who have never read a book in their lives. Also, way to miss the point. It's also hilarious that those same young women will say "omg she's too young and immature to decide for herself whom she wants to date" yet they're somehow old and mature enough to pass judgement? Either they're young and dumb or they're fully grown...they don't get to be both.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:47 PM
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That's absolutely false, we can all think of stories of older, broke dudes still somehow locking down some young pretty girl. You really don't respect young women if you think they're that fuckin vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:44 PM
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Right, an older man has never gotten young pussy for free. You keep believing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:43 PM
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Why is he any more attractive when he has all the same shitty qualities? Youth is that valuable that it matters more to you than substance? Yet you're still bitter that men find young women hotter than old women? Are you hearing yourself with this shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:42 PM
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I make 75k a year, just started a new career. And why the fuck would I ever show you people my face 😄😄 I was pretty handsome in my youth but I've let myself go recently due to depression following the death of someone very close to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:40 PM
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I mean you kinda had me at the beginning but then you made it weird at the end lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:39 PM
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You said a 20 year old and a 35 year old together was "fucking gross," though you then went back and changed it to "a bit iffy." I want you to explain how it's different. Why is your aversion to an age gap any more valid than my aversion to a fat person? Keep in mind that 20 year olds are tried as adults when accused of crimes and sent to fight in times of war. So if they're old enough to do that, why are they not old enough to have agency when it comes to selecting sexual partners. Go ahead and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:38 PM
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LOL you changed your last post from "fucking gross" to "a bit iffy" 😄😄😄
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:36 PM
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I'm with you there. There are dudes who harass women though, and that is definitely not cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:35 PM
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You don't know shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:31 PM
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No I'm saying your previous comment was written so fucking badly I didn't know what the hell you were talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:30 PM
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So as a 20 year old they're not mature enough to decide who they date, but they are mature enough to be tried as an adult, vote, and join the army. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:30 PM
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Wow you're making a lot of big generalizations about men...it's pretty clear you think men are generally scumbags. Must suck to live in that world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:28 PM
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Another day, another woman totally missing the fuckin point. My guy, I don't care what you people think about whom I date. The point of this post was to explore why you people get so damn triggered about shit that is none of your business. But please, miss the point some more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:24 PM
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So since these 20 year olds brains aren't developed, why are we letting them vote and drive cars and work jobs? Shouldn't they stay home with their parents until their brains develop? If they're so young and vulnerable, they shouldn't be dating or having sex at all no matter how old the dude is. If she can't be trusted to make intelligent dating decisions with older men, how is it any different with younger men? You people love to talk about how young and vulnerable 20 year olds are, yet we're h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:22 PM
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Wow you're really reading every single comment, huh? Good for you! You can nitpick all you want but the fact is women apparently hate it when older men get younger pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:14 PM
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So a 20 year old balding, paunchy, out of touch guy would be attractive just because he's young?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:13 PM
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Oh no...once she's old enough she will indeed be invisible to all men. It might take 10 years, it might take 200 years. That's just scientific reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:11 PM
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If I'm not with the woman I want to be with then it's a combination of me not being desirable enough and simple bad luck. Women can date whomever they please, I truly don't give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:09 PM
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Who's coping? Women can judge all they want, it's not going to change my life. I posted this because it's just wild to see how bitter and judgemental women are about shit that is none of their business.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:06 PM
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Jesus Christ. I'm running out of patience with you. Older people don't necessarily have baggage anymore than they necessarily have a potbelly. I am only talking about QUALITY MEN here. Men who stay in shape, have careers, and work on themselves. A man who takes the trouble to work on himself is not going to have a bunch of baggage. If you're going to respond to this please read it thoroughly, and do your best not to make up a bunch of shit that I didn't say.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:05 PM
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God you like to rewrite my words...but that makes sense considering it's the only way to support your narrative. I never said women are stopping me from doing anything. Y'all can judge all you want, it won't change me. But it is a shame to see how bitter women are toward men in general. Look at you all spewing vitriol...if not about old men then about poor men, short men, fuckboys, white men... I have had a million relationships in my life. Been in love many times. And these days I have zero int…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:02 PM
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I didn't say "I know a lotta dudes." I said "I have been around men my whole life." Sports teams, fraternity, roommates, working as an EMT. I have a solid sample size AND I've engaged in tons of lewd conversations about women. I have never, not once, heard any dude in any of those contexts express a desire for a woman who is compliant or whatever other shit you said. Maybe it's because I haven't been hanging around with losers, but that's just fact...no one I know, including some real fuckboys, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:58 PM
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"Sugar baby money for the win." Yeah only an illiterate fool would mistakenly conclude from that statement that you're a prostitute. I love when people like you comment all this vitriol but then try to claim that they're happy and in love and successful...bro if you were all that shit you wouldn't be wasting time on reddit engaging with me, trying to attack me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:55 PM
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You're completely changing the subject. I don't give a flying fuck who women choose to date. Date whomever you want. My point is that when women choose to date older men those men are invariably demonized by other women. They're described as creepy groomers who are just trying to manipulate someone young and inexperienced. And that's bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:53 PM
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Those are some very sweeping and dehumanizing generalizations. Also why do you people always describe the same type of older guy...he's always balding, overweight and wrinkled. What about the george clooneys of the world? The guys who have taken care of themselves and look good?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:50 PM
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Dude this is so absolutely spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:48 PM
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What value is there in judgement? How does judging others help them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:47 PM
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So why are we letting these unintelligent, undeveloped baby adults out of the house? Shouldn't there be some sort of halfway house program with adults to take care of them until they're fully old enough to make decisions for themselves? This sounds like a much bigger problem than dating...these baby adults shouldn't be voting, driving, or working until they're complete adults, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:46 PM
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So because you have empathy, you pass judgement. Right that makes total sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:44 PM
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Am I wiser than I was? Yes. Do I know better than you because I'm older than you? No. As tempting as it is to feel like we know everything and we can save every young person, bro you have to just let people live. And if some woman gets involved with an older man but is too weak and/broke to leave, how is that the older man's fault? Why is everything the damn man's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:43 PM
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Seriously I don't care if you find a million young women who aren't interested in older men. Your preferences.are irrelevant. I'm talking about judging men who are in age-gap relationships. Do you pass judgement every time you see a woman dating a man you would never be interested in? Or are you only prejudiced against older men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:42 PM
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Yeah morons tend to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:39 PM
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Don't worry...it won't be too long until you are invisible to all men. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:39 PM
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Those just sound like shitty men. They're not shitty because they're old, they're shitty because they're lascivious and disrespectful. Stop making it an inherent age issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:38 PM
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Dude I'm fucking done with you..I said FROM THE BEGINNING that the euthanasia comment was hyper ole for the sake of rhetoric. You latched onto it and started acting like I was actually advocating for that course of action. Now kindly fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:37 PM
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Dude learn to fucking read...I specifically said I wouldn't expect anyone without baggage to put up with anyone with baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:36 PM
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What you just described (paunchy, out of touch) is not an inherent part of aging. You just described a shitty dude. A dude can be balding (not his fault, btw), paunchy, and out of touch at any age. What is wrong with those men isn't that they are old, it's that they are low quality. So yeah bud. Wrong again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:36 PM
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She's a prostitute because she admitted she was a sugar baby you fuckin dunce. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:32 PM
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What about a woman dating a fat guy? I think that's gross. So should I say something to them? "Hey it's really gross that you're fucking that fat guy." No because it's none of my fucking business what she likes. When I was 33 I was with a 24 year old for a year. Is that okay with you? We were totally in love and had a great time. If I had known you thought it was gross though I never would have done it! There is nothing inherently wrong with older men. Men and women can be toxic and shitty or vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:30 PM
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I love repeating myself...no one cares what you find gross. There are shitty men of all ages. Men can be gross and abusive at all ages. There is nothing inherently wrong with older men...if a relationship between an older man and a younger woman evolves organically, then let it fucking be. I think beef is fucking gross. So should I go around telling people "hey what you're doing is gross." No. Why? Because, say it with me, no one cares what I think is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:28 PM
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The problem with this thinking is that you're basically saying that you know better than these young women. You're saying that a 20 year old woman doesn't have the agency or intelligence to decide whether or not a relationship is a good idea. No one puts a gun to someone's head and says "date me." Dating is a mutual transaction and people are free to leave at any time. Why do older men make you "worry" for younger women more than any other type of man? Older men can be perfectly virtuous and you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:25 PM
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Who said young women don't think I'm hot? You really love jumping to conclusions!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:20 PM
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Thank you for your insight, you are truly wise. Also I enjoy that you made up that part about blaming society or women, I missed the part where I said any of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:20 PM
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Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:18 PM
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It's funny that a 20 year old woman thinks she's mature enough to tell other people who they should date, but thinks other 20 year old women are too immature to decide who they date. You don't see the hypocrisy there?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:18 PM
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Wow you're like martin luther king fighting injustice! He had his "I have a dream" speech and you'll have your "I will not idly stand by and condone" speech. When is your ted talk and when are you going to announce your presidential bid? You're going to save the world from men like me!! Oh wait, maybe you failed to notice I would never date a judgemental, self-righteous child like you so who cares? Get out there and change the world! Protect all the little girls your age who can't make decisions…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:16 PM
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"Watching a reading rage bait" English is hard. Also what hypothetical relationship are you referring to? You're pulling a lot of (nigh unintelligible) bullshit out of your ass here, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:13 PM
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It's all subjective, bud. A 34 year old with a 24 year old is perfectly natural (assuming it's a good relationship). An 85 year old with an 18 year old is fucking weird. So yeah I don't have some shallow little world view where AGE GAP AUTOMATICALLY = UNNATURAL. But hey, you're a 20 year old girl so you clearly know best.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:11 PM
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Okay...it sounds like you're agreeing with me but I can't tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:09 PM
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I used hyperbole for the sake of rhetoric. if you believe I was actually advocating for euthanasia of older single men, then you absolutely do lack understanding and are absolutely a moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:07 PM
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You're right about one thing, female bitterness transcends age. There used to be "social stigma" (and there still is in many places) for interracial relationships, too. Social stigma doesn't mean shit because people are morons and the herd mentality does not favor true wisdom. I didn't glaze over it, I'm sure it was just buried amongst your bullshit. If I had a daughter and she was with an older guy I'd reserve judgement until I knew him. I would be so shallow as to automatically dismiss him for…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:04 PM
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Sure, the low quality ones. But if you read my post you'd see that I specified high quality men who build careers and take care of themselves. Those dudes can last a good while.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:00 PM
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You're talking about predatory men who actively pursue teenagers and disrespect relationship boundaries. I'm talking about men who are in happy age-gap relationships. They are different and I don't understand why people see them as eauivalent. I understand how easy it is to make broad assumptions based on your own experience, but c'mon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:59 PM
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Well fuckin said!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:57 PM
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You're not too bright are ya 😄 I hope for your sake you're at least good looking. I specifically said no one cares what you find attractive. Did you not see that? You can go back and look if you need to. Also, no one cares what you find unnnatural. People do things naturally that others find unnatural (everything from age-gap relationships to skydiving to eating raw fish) every single day of the week. Fine you're not envious, you're just judgemental, self-centered and self-righteous. Pretty comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:55 PM
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Well before you graduate I really hope you learn some reading comprehension. My point that you failed to grasp is that it's hilarious that you think girls your age who engage in that type of relationship only do it because they're not mature enough to know better. Yet...somehow at your age, you're mature enough to pass judgement? So you're old and wise enough to judge others and to know what's best for them, but you're not old or wise enough to date someone older unless you're being taken advant…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:51 PM
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Why would you engage with such a redundant topic then? A normal person would just ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:47 PM
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Christ almighty you really don't grasp the concept of rhetoric, do you. Sure, what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:45 PM
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It's hilarious how pompous your posts are like you're so full of insight and wisdom...everything I'm saying is obvious because I'm an open book. I'm not some enigma, nor am I a parrot...everything that can be said has already been said. There is no original thought. So stop being so pretentious, it's immensely obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:44 PM
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"I'm definitely not going to despise it in 10 years" hahahaha....bro who do you think women in their 30s are?? They're just older versions of those same girls! Yeah you've "occasionally talked to" women in their 30s...that tells you nothing about who they really are. I assure you they are just as involved with bullshit, even if it's a more mature bullshit. I get it though, you're young so you haven't learned this yet. You will.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:41 PM
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Male baggage tends to be different than female baggage. Men tend to carry addictions and bad old habits while women tend to carry bitterness toward men, and children from past relationships. Anyone can do work and process their baggage...other than children, of course. But yes I wouldn't expect someone without baggage to put up with someone with baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:38 PM
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Tell me more about what I'm doing, please. If that person had said they were in a great relationship with someone that they'd met in their mid-30s I would have been genuinely interested to hear it. I would have also been genuinely interested to hear if her experience confirmed my assertion. You don't know me, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:36 PM
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It's so funny how many young women have responded to this post saying "ew I don't like old men!!" No one cares what you like, you're not special. This post is about the judgement men face when they participate in age-gap relationships. If you don't care what other people do then this discussion does not apply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:34 PM
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Well, it's possible that they actually get along and he drives that Mercedes forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:32 PM
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Right...because women your age lack the maturity to make healthy relationship choices for themselves, yet you're mature enough to make that judgement call oh and also to sell your body for money. We got another super genius over here, ladies and gentlemen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:31 PM
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It's just such a weird bill to die on, and it's hypocritical in a lot of ways. When young women disapprove, they're saying that women their age lack the experience to make healthy relationship choices...yet they have enough wisdom to make that judgment? Either young women have agency or they don't. They don't get to have the best of both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:29 PM
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Bro if you think that dating isn't a mostly shallow affair for BOTH genders then you're delusional, clueless, or both. I don't dislike female humans any more than I dislike other humans. We're an absolute mess of a species and it makes no difference what's between your legs. Though I do respect your super courageous and highly original approach of shouting "MISOGYNIST!!" You're a real hero paving the way for other feminists to shout the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:26 PM
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Yeah I asked the question to produce engagement...what's your point? You're acting like you've uncovered some aspect of my character that I'm woefully unaware of. Are you a normal person? Why are you engaging with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:24 PM
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First of all why are you acting like you're some detective who cracked the case? I freely admit that I am bitter...so wtf are you talking about. Also, I don't associate with any "pill," that shit is all stupid and meaningless. I don't care in the slightest what teenagers want, sexually or otherwise. Kids these days are tiktok morons who have never read a book...their opinions are absolutely immaterial to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:21 PM
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Because young women are hotter than old women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:19 PM
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Your son's were horrified at the thought of gross old men looking at them in that way? Sounds like your kids are awakening to the sick, sad world of sex in the 21st century. Don't know what else to tell ya, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:18 PM
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Are you talking to me? What is weird about telling someone that it's sad that they're judgemental?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:16 PM
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No one, I repeat no one, cares what you want, so I don't know why you're even bringing it up. I'm talking about the judgement men receive who are actually in these relationships. So you go ahead and keep prattling on about what you do or don't want to date, no one cares. If you judge people based on who they date (assuming it's consenting adults in an enjoyable relationship) then I truly feel sorry for you. I also feel sorry for you because you seem like you're barely literate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:15 PM
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Definitely. And I'm learning that the younger ones are bitter because they don't like the amount of male attention they receive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:11 PM
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Ah, so you've resorted to attacking me personally while ignoring my points about how you're hilariously hypocritical. That says it all, friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:09 PM
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To quote the office, "a philosopher once wrote you need three things to have a good life. One, a meaningful relationship. Two, a decent job of work. And three, to make a difference." By this measure, being old and single would not be a good life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:08 PM
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I have no interest in dating you and I never said you were supposed to be attracted to older men? So...wtf are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:06 PM
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I absolutely am. And?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:05 PM
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Absolutely, everyone is entitled to their dumb and pointless opinions. Yet here we are discussing mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:04 PM
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Absolutely damn true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:04 PM
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You're 20, bro. Talk to me after you've actually dated some 30-something women and tell me how great it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:03 PM
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Hi, thanks for answering a totally different fuckin question. We're not talking about predators who target young women... we're talking about age-gap relationships. Relationships that already exist. Also, no one cares who you prefer to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:03 PM
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I am indeed learning that women can be bitter and judgemental at any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:01 PM
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Sure you can have an opinion, no one cares. But once you start meddling in other people's affairs your opinion has now evolved into toxic behavior, and that's not cool. Let people live, bro. Focus on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:00 PM
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So being toxic toward strangers is a social service because you claim (without any actual data) that age-gap relationships are less common now than they were 20 years ago? That makes a ton of sense and I'm glad you're out there being the relationship police. The hilarious irony is that you think young women aren't developed enough to be in a healthy relationship with an older man...yet here you are, an undeveloped 23 year old, acting like you have any clue what the fuck you're doing. So women yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:58 PM
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Yeah because people are too chickenshit to behave in real life like they actually wish they could. The internet is where people show their true colors as they are protected by anonymity. People can be passively toxic in real life even if they don't have the balls to do anything real.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:54 PM
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That's really shallow and judgemental of you and I'm sorry to hear that you're so opinionated and self-righteous at a young age. Actually then again, those are the hallmarks of sophomorism which is very common at a young age so maybe you'll grow out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:53 PM
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Shaming someone is never a social service ya fuckin weirdo. You're serving nothing but your own sense of self-righteousness and sexual frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:51 PM
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...will want women for sex. I'm sure you have no trouble casually dating, but have you been able to find a high quality partner? I'm genuinely asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:50 PM
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No you're right...I'm learning from this post that young women can be just as bitter as old women 😄 23 is too young to be bitter and judgemental though...thoughts and prayers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:49 PM
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I never said anything about euthanizing anyone so why bring it up? I was using hyperbole for the sake of rhetoric. You seem to believe that older single men serve no purpose, so why not just do away with them? The world is overcrowded enough as it is. You seem to be pretty opinionated about what other people are doing with their romantic lives. Why do you think you know better than the person who is actually in the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:45 PM
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Except you're not talking about looking at an age-gap relationship and judging the man in that relationship...you're just talking about how you don't like sexual attention from older men. That's completely fine, understandable, and in this case totally irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:42 PM
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In the case of younger women who get attention, I'd say the reason for their judgement in this case is bitterness toward men in general. In fact that very attention has probably driven them to said bitterness...men can be pretty gross. If you're a young woman who looks at an age-gap relationship and automatically assumes that the dude is a creepy groomer, then I feel sorry for you because you became bitter way too soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:40 PM
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If an older man is in a relationship with a younger woman and everything is golden than cool. Great, then we agree. They wouldn't have any problems in the real world. I never came across stories of them struggling to gaining approval. This is sadly not true, as this comment section shows. Lots of people here assume that if the man is older and the woman is younger, he is automatically creepy and bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:37 PM
1

Yeah bro everyone is talking about how calm and rational you are, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:35 PM
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So it's impossible that they have an actual connection...older age automatically makes men into creepy groomers. Got it. So why aren't we euthanizing single men once they turn 40? Sounds like the only solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:34 PM
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Assuming he's trying to fuck you, of course. Because the only reason a man would talk to you is because he wants to fuck you, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:32 PM
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Ooo you're like a rattlesnake all riled up! You've stopped making any actual points and now you're just spitting venom! I love it, your husband is a lucky man!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:31 PM
1

Yes I am. Are you implying that I might not be aware that I'm bitter?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:30 PM
1

35 is fine if you take good care of yourself, and most men are naturally pretty wack looking anyway so aging does them no favors. Plenty of women are fine in their 30s. For me the biggest turnoff about women in their 30s has been how much baggage they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:24 PM
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How exactly does a 35+ year old man actively pursue 18 year olds? Is there a park where 18 year olds play where he can hang out? Does he set his age preference on tinder to just "18?" Does he wake up in the morning and say to himself, "oh boy another day of pursuing 18 year olds!" Men just go for what looks good to them, stop trying to make it into some big evil scheme.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:14 PM
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When did I call anyone a deceptive liar? And if you think that we don't all see each other as a product to some extent then you're just clueless. Also I really enjoyed the way you completely reworded my original statement to suit your narrative. Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:10 PM
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Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:08 PM
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It doesn't take a genius to see that I'm bitter. We're all bitter if we're sitting around on the internet slamming each other. Your guess is wrong. My biggest age gap was when I was 33 and was with a 24 year old for a year. She was great and I wish her well. I'm just sick of bitter women acting like it's a crime for men to date young hotties.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:04 PM
1

Sure. So are you saying that men in age-gap relationships are ugly and/or abusing their power?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:02 PM
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I mean it's a relationship not Alcatraz...you don't need to "escape." If she's really that young and the relationship is really that shallow then she can have a fling for awhile until she wises up, moves on, and finds someone more appropriate. No big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:01 PM
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Men AND women are equally shallow when it comes to dating preferences. If a girl only goes for tall guys and ends up with a 6'2" guy, is she a creep because she wouldn't date him if he was 5'6" even if he was otherwise identical? These are just the facts of life...younger women are sexually more attractive than older women. If you don't like the shallow elements of dating, then don't date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:58 PM
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No one "consents" to getting scammed, goddamn this comment is stupid and you must therefore be stupid. If someone sticks a gun in my face and asks for my wallet, and I hand it to them, I didn't just fucking consent to them taking my wallet. I was coerced and unduly influencd, just like in the case of a criminal scam. Also, theft is incomparable to dating so once again, this comment is real stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:56 PM
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You just said it all..."predatorial and objectifying male behavior." As though an older man who ends up with a younger woman must be some creepy predator. What are you, the relationship police? Out there protecting all the dainty young victims who can't protect themselves from all of the predators desperate to consume their flesh? "...looking out for each other." You GO, girl!! Give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:53 PM
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So older men are automatically losers, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:50 PM
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Yeah but all you've said is "your statement doesn't apply to me." Great, thanks for the input?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:50 PM
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I have some work to do on myself before I'm at the peak of my game, but once I'm there I would almost never be attracted to a 40 year old woman for a variety of reasons...most of all because she will undoubtedly have baggage but also because unfortunately time is not kind to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:48 PM
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It is wrong to say who should date whom, assuming all parties are consenting adults. Is it wrong to criticize other people? Only in that it's a waste of energy and creates negativity. Also who's getting roasted is absolutely relevant...that's the whole point of this discussion: older men who get with younger women are unjustly roasted by (typically) older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:45 PM
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"A lot of men..." can I see your data on this? I have been around men my whole life, talked about women my whole life, and I have never once heard a dude say "oh bro that girl looks so compliant and submissive." We always just say "she looks hot." So either give me some data supporting this serious accusation or strike it from the record because fiction is not helpful for this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:43 PM
6

Well said, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:41 PM
3

Okay, then this conversation isn't about you...so why are you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:40 PM
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You're talking about a different point. I'm not talking about creepy guys who hit on girls who aren't interested, and I don't care how much attention you get. I'm talking about women who look at age-gap relationships and judge the men involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:39 PM
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Oh great, so you're like the relationship police. Well go out there and bust some relationship criminals since you know best!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:38 PM
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Lower boundaries than standards? Wtf are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:37 PM
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Then you're talking about something entirely different. If you aren't the kind of person to look at an age-gap relationship and say "ew what a creepy old groomer taking advantage of that young girl," then this discussion isn't about you. I don't care about your dating preferences, they are irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:35 PM
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Because it suits their narrative...the only reason he's not going for the bitter 36 year old is because he isn't good enough for her. That's why he settles for the hot 23 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:33 PM
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We are talking about all men who date younger women. If I tell you a 40 year old man is dating a 21 year old woman, you automatically disapprove of that relationship without knowing anything else about the people involved. That means that all 40 year old men, should they end up in a sexual relationship with a younger woman, meet with your disapproval. "Adults can date each other all they want. People are allowed to disapprove..." The whole thing with disapproval is that people who disapprove of …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:32 PM
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Anyone who judges others is bitter no matter how old you are. So you're right, it's often about bitterness more than envy. Though I still argue that envy is often at the root of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:27 PM
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I bring it up because older men who end up with you get women are constantly accused of having these horrible intentions. Some men are burglars and murderers too. Some women are thieves and criminals. Should we judge the rest of us by the worst of us?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:26 PM
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Oh cool I didn't realize that you and your small social group spoke for all young women. Did you get elected to that position or was it appointed? You say you're not interested in dating 40 year old men. That is your preference. How is that relevant if someone your age ends up with a 40 year old man? Because it happens all the time. Do you judge the guy for being a creepy old groomer even though the woman is a consenting adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:24 PM
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Again do you not see the significance of your language? In both your example and my example who is getting roasted? The guy. So your example has zero bearing on this debate. We're talking about women who judge older men for being in relationships with younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:18 PM
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"Have you considered the possibility that everything you just said is wrong?" Great point! Women in their mid to late 30s will never have the sexual market value that women in their early 20s have. If a guy in his 30s can get a girl in her early 20s he clearly has some kind of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:16 PM
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Okay, good for you. So if someone your age ends up with someone "out of her age group," are you going to roast him as a creepy groomer? You're allowed to have whatever preferences you want but I draw the line at you judging others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:15 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:06 PM
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Yeah except I'm not talking about dirty old men who try to touch 20 year olds without consent. That is obviously fucked. I'm talking about actual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:06 PM
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It might not be a conscious thought, but it's a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:04 PM
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Okay? So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:04 PM
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A lot of men are gross, sure. But they are gross because they're gross, not because you're young.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:01 PM
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People represent themselves more authentically on the internet because they have the protection of anonymity. So if they're flying off the handle online, that's what they really feel inside. It's problematic because now all men in their 30s are just automatically labeled "creepy groomers" just for existing. It's problematic because you are telling me who I can and can't date and it's none of your business as long as I'm behaving ethically. Men aren't evil geniuses out seeking vulnerable kittens …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:00 PM
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Oh so you speak for all women your age? Huh then I wonder how this keeps happening often enough that this is a topic. Could it be that you only speak for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:58 AM
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I'm not talking about betabucks though, I'm talking about when a dude is a successful boss who has influence, power, money. That's a powerful package right there. That said I agree that most people don't become more attractive as they age...we're talking about high value men, here. The type of guys who can get a 20 something when they're 30s/40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:56 AM
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I absolutely believe that a dude in his 30s getting with a girl in her 20s is shooting above his league.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:54 AM
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Men can be creeps at any age. Period. So what about when a girl that age ends up with a guy in his 30s? What if they hit it off in an organic way? Why must we jump to the conclusion that he's a creepy groomer?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:53 AM
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There are some posts in r/texts going around about some 36 year old asshole who went out with a 19 year old. He definitely comes across like an undateable prick but soooo many comments fixate on the age gap and say the same two things over and over: "he's a creepy groomer and only went for this 19.year old because he can't get girls his own age." I've seen this exact dialogue happen many times. People aren't focusing on the fact that he is simply an asshole (to be fair...some people do) but make…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:51 AM
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Sometimes men are just creepy and gross, absolutely. But it's not creepy to think that 21 year olds look better than 41 year olds...men just go for what looks good to them. There's not some grand evil plan to find an impressionable puppet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:49 AM
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I don't think it's different, really. Every woman has a biological clock, even in her 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:48 AM
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One thing to keep in mind is it's not like men are necessarily out seeking 18 year olds looking for some malleable piece of metal...men will just approach what looks good to them. And like you said, we don't even know the difference if she's 18 or 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:47 AM
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That's interesting and not so far away from what I'm saying...bitterness that stems from perceived inequity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:38 AM
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Right but we've all "been through it." We all have wisdom and recommendations for younger folks. The phenomenon I'm describing is when women fly off the handle and say the same things over and over..."he's a creepy groomer and he's only going for younger women because he can't get women his age."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:34 AM
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See the difference is in the language you just used..."recommend." Older women aren't "recommending" that younger women avoid older men. They are getting triggered. It's always the same narrative..."he's a creepy groomer and he is only going for girls that age because he can't get women his age." That's not a "recommendation..." she is clearly triggered and is reacting emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:31 AM
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See we've all had bad relationships. We can all talk about certain stereotypical people to avoid in the dating world. But age gap relationships trigger older women emotionally. If my buddy gets with the town bicycle I'm not going to fly off the handle and say what a creepy slut she is and how dare she victimize him in that way. But when a young woman gets with an older guy and women come to the rescue, it's not just a "girl be careful!" vibe, it's a "omg he is a sick creepy groomer" vibe. My fav…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:27 AM
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Yeah that is not at all what we're talking about here. Pedophiles and sex offenders going for adolescent (and younger) girls have a mental problem. The phenomenon you're describing is sick and criminal and requires no debate so I don't know why you even brought it up. We're talking about adult women in their late teens and early 20s who get with men in their 30s and up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:22 AM
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Boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:19 AM
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Why are we making 19, 20, 21 year old women into dainty victims who can't protect themselves? We're all vulnerable to some extent no matter what age we are. We all have agency. We all have a sense for self-preservation. We also all have some shitty relationship(s) we had to go through to learn and grow...so why do age gap relationships trigger older women so much? Why are the men blamed for these relationships as though 19 year old women are brainless puppets who are at the mercy of 30+ year old…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:18 AM
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That's actually a great point, well done!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:04 AM
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"This is the internet, not the dictionary." It's always so funny when people say something like this. Oh, I guess because it's the internet you can be illiterate? C'mon, bro. Learn English. I've dated lots of women in their 30s and whether or not they were going through a divorce, ALL of them were fed up with men and were therefore super quick to get pissed off or run away. Women who are older have been in the dating market for awhile and are invariably burnt out. I've never once been with a 30+…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:19 PM
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*barely. "Barley" is a grain. Above all else, younger women have little to no baggage and aren't all jaded. When I was 33 I was with a 24 year old having after having just ended a relationship with a 34 year old going through a divorce. Guess which relationship had less drama and was more relaxed? Less life experience is also fun because you can have fun adventures together...travel, try different types of cuisine, check out different art forms etc. It's fun being with someone who is excitable a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:33 PM
1

I know this might sound crazy, but I look for different qualities in male friends than in female romantic prospects. It's really not that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:55 PM
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Because young women look better than old women, and men are drawn to looks more than to anything else. It's not some big mysterious puzzle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:53 PM
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Why do you even give a shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:52 PM
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Okay dude. Of course this is not a universal phenomenon, but it is not uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:44 AM
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It's because women act like men who don't meet their standards are sub-human...especially short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:53 PM
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Christina and Britney were contemporaries, even competitors. Christina was not a follower. When history discusses the late 90s and early 2000s, they might discuss the characters we've mentioned in the context of pop culture figures. But that is a dubious honor at best, and they will certainly not be discussed as artists who created groundbreaking works. Again, I strongly doubt in 100 years anyone will care about Jay z. Sounds like we might have to agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:21 PM
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Do you realize how little Britney had to do with the creative direction of her recordings? She was super hot with a cutesy baby voice and was in the right place at the right time. She had virtually nothing to do with the creative content of her records...max martin was the puppeteer and she was the puppet. Taylor Swift is mostly the real deal, even if she's not really my cup of tea. I can't much argue with that, though I will say once she got into her electronic pop phase max martin was a huge c…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:52 PM
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Actually it is relevant: History remembers innovators. Inventors. Mavens. Landmarks. In 100 years, people won't remember some fad pop girl or some generic rapper, but they will remember artists who changed the cultural zeitgeist like the Beatles or Jimi Hendrix. Artists of that nature changed the way musicians made music. Again, Britney is only 20 years past the height of her popularity and she has remained in the public eye due to her personal drama and scandals. In 100 years those things will …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:17 PM
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OP was saying they won't be remembered historically as artists, which is true. It's only been 20 years since the height of britney and n syncs popularity, compared to artists like Jimi and the Beatles who are still discussed (as both cultural icons and artistic innovators, mind you) more than 50 years later. We'll see if Britney is remembered for anything more than having an outrageous, tragic story in 30 years. Spoiler: she won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:44 PM
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They're remembered as cultural figures, not as timeless artists or musical innovators.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:13 PM
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Yeah they're remembered as cultural figures...not as artists/musical innovators.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:12 PM
1

This is actually...very smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:10 PM
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If you subscribe to a monthly service and only use said service once every few months, then yes you're an idiot and you're wasting money. Also that was fun how you went and tried to correct my syntax on that other post without reading the rest of the thread and thereby missing my sarcasm. You really are delightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:03 PM
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I've shared and repeated the facts multiple times. You go, girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:35 PM
1

Okay, waste your money. Just because you're dumb enough to do that doesn't mean everyone is 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:34 PM
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I mean all of you people arguing against these facts just need to believe the narrative that women are strong and independent and don't need know man. And that's fine, I guess. Live your life. No point arguing with someone who ignores facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:12 PM
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You're providing a very obscure example to try and disprove the very reasonable idea that this woman is, gasp, hoping to find a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:11 PM
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Ah so she's paying 50 bucks a month for something she checks once every few months. Totally. Man you are doing a lot of mental gymnastics to keep your little narrative alive. But hey, if that's what helps you sleep at night!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:01 PM
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"The reason is that it's a dating service." Yeah that's my point, super genius...she is clearly interested in finding a partner. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:55 PM
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So you would pay 50 bucks a month for a premium dating service for no reason? I simply don't buy that. I don't subscribe to anything for 50 bucks a month. I'm sure she frequently discusses her burning desire for children either overtly or inadvertently. People reveal their desires when you spend enough time with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:19 PM
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You said "women aren't as desperate as men seem to be." I'm telling you that is simply incorrect. Anyway you can change the facts to suit your narrative as much as you'd like. What do I care? It's your worldview ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:14 PM
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A premium dating site. That means she is paying a subscription fee. Yeah sounds like she's not bothered 🙄 You also failed to discuss the one who is desperate for kids, but that's probably because it doesn't support your little narrative. Women can be 100% desperate for love and relationships. You're ignoring the facts of this case just because you don't like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:01 PM
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First of all wtf does "first wave of attractive hit forty voluntarily single" mean? Is there a typo here or is English just not your thing? Maybe the hot one has been super focused on career. Maybe she has been hurt. Maybe she's just awkward and/or lacks rizz. As for the one who wants a hot 25 year old, it's not uncommon at all for women to be totally delusional about what their sexual market value is. The big one sounds like she has assets but is letting herself go. Who knows. Life is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:40 PM
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Bro he specifically said that one woman is on a premium dating site, another is desperate for kids, and the third has been in a series of relationships. Were you just not paying attention or what? These women are older, single, and actively looking. He is asking how this could have happened. Maybe it's time to stop screeching "MISOGYNY!!" every time a man says something about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:36 PM
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Bro he specifically said that one woman is on a premium dating site, another is desperate for kids, and the third has been in a series of relationships. Were you just not paying attention or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:33 PM
1

Literally?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:54 PM
1

You're jumping to a lot of conclusions. I've always done very well dating and I currently live with an amazing woman. Nice try though :) Simp culture has absolutely changed women's mindsets for the worse...endless DMs, flattering comments etc make women feel like they're more attractive than they are. Plus, simps are creepy and make the world more uncomfortable for women. If you don't understand that it's because you either don't get attention from simps, or you're just in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:38 PM
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Okay, now you're moving the goal posts. My original comment was describing how simps inflate women's stock prices. You said "blah blah confidence." I said, "confidence does come from simps attention." Now you're saying that simp attention and confidence are separate and you're going off on some tangent about a woman rejecting a guy and "egotistical nonsense?" What the hell are you talking about? You've gone completely off topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:27 PM
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You thank me for explaining the difference, then you ask who's the judge of when it's ego and when it's confidence, so you either weren't paying attention or reading comprehension is tough for you. First of all, confidence does not come from attention from simps. That's pretty obvious and straightforward. Confidence is inborn...it comes from a belief in one's value. Ego comes from a belief the one is superior. No one needs to "judge," it's very simple. Let me know if there is anything else I can…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:02 PM
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Every sentence you type is more bitter than the last 😄 But go ahead, stay in denial. The truth hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:59 PM
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It's a bubble, it will burst
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:56 PM
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Bro confidence comes from believing in yourself, your work product, your value. Ego comes from believing you are a superior being, and ego tends to be enhanced by flattery and attention. There is a huge and crucial difference between confidence and ego, and you're confusing the two. Confidence is good. Ego is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:50 PM
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Denial is a powerful thing. You might not consider yourself a bitter person, but even a quick glance at your comment history shows nothing but vitriol, anger, sarcasm, and...bitterness. I get that the world is a cold place but damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:47 PM
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This is adorably naive. Looks, muscles, money/success...these are all things that attract women so that you can determine if you're compatible. You might have great rapport with a man but if she's short, bald, poor, and ugly, there's no way you're having passionate sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:42 PM
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Bro...no one is saying that simps are competition, did you not read the post? Simps inflate stock prices and contribute to women's growing egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:38 PM
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Simps inflate stock prices, contribute to big egos
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:37 PM
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I would say more common (and potentially more harmful) simp behavior is commenting on random girls posts with pathetic fawnery. "Ur so beautiful 😍." That's the shit that really inflates stock prices.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:06 PM
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This is great. Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:03 PM
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This is exactly right. Simps inflate stock prices and, even worse, create a more uncomfortable world for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:59 PM
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Holy lord you are a bitter person. Your comment history is nothing but venom. Have you tried getting over it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:58 PM
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Ugh I wish we could
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:53 PM
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So funny how your profile says you "couldn't be happier!" but a quick scroll through your comment history shows that you are as bitter as bitter can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:19 AM
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This is the classic girl move: "I just got smoked, but instead of conceding in any meaningful way I'm going to say I'm an independent female and I do what I want." This entire exchange read like one person with thoughtful, insightful comments and another person who was triggered but unable to articulate anything beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:15 AM
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Literally?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:56 PM
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Where are you getting these statistics? Because it sounds like you're just talking out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:55 PM
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I think bitterness toward men also has a lot to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:54 PM
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This is one of the dumbest posts I've ever read. How do you not understand the concept that men and women are completely different? Men don't want to dress up and go out together then cuddle and braid each other's hair while watching maid in fucking manhattan. You can't be serious with this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:51 PM
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How is this an actual question. Why don't men take care of each other and spoil each other and show each other off and are very explicit with their love? Are you fucking kidding me?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:49 PM
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Goooood...I can feel your anger
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:38 PM
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But literally tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 08:57 PM
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Literally?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:14 PM
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We weren't talking about cheating? We were talking about single men and what they're looking for. As for cheating, that's a totally different psychological animal. Eeryone, men AND women, are capable of infidelity if given the motive and opportunity. Boredom, lack of attention, and lust make people do strange things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:07 AM
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*Her point And how do you know it's accurate? Where is your data? Enthusiastic sex, sure...but in the context of a loving partnership. Romance breeds passion, and passion breeds sexual enthusiasm. It's not something you can pay for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:14 AM
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Anonymous online chat rooms is not where life takes place. Lots of people, men AND women, value casual sex. But I hesitate to believe they'd choose casual sex over meaningful companionship if the opportunity arose. The fact is casual sex is just easier, emotionally safer, more convenient, more available. If you look deeper into people I bet you'll find most if not all want someone to cuddle and watch bullshit TV with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:12 AM
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Bro who hurt you? I can only speak for myself and the people I know but romantic, passionate companionship is what we want. Your point of view is tragically cynical and I hope you get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:39 AM
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Literally?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:48 PM
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Don't forget that the love interest is definitely a 6 footer, a real catch 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 02:41 PM
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Wait what is literally doing the same thing? Is that different than just "doing" the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:01 AM
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No bro...I'm not talking about "saying controversial things (ur so edgy and sick btw 🙄). I'm talking about creating posts and whiffing every single time. All the posts are dumb misogynist nonsense that connect with no one. Btw who the hell are you and why do you even care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:13 AM
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Again, if you've posted 20 things and every single one pulls negative votes, that says something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:23 PM
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I mean if you've posted 20 things and every single post pulls negative votes, that says something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:23 PM
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You sound super healthy and well adjusted 🙄 By the way your post history is hilarious...seems like you can't post anything with net positive upvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:17 PM
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Do you have an example of me not doing that? Someone posted a meme a while back about how when women post about male height it's fine, but when men do it it's insel language. In the discussion a dude sent a link to a post where you'd removed his comment for saying "ugly people will have a more difficult time, that's just universally true" (or something to that effect). You said that it wasn't a "discussion point" but that he was "proselytizing." Uglier people objectively have a more difficult ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:45 PM
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Not at all 💅 Isn't the whole point of being a mod to keep everything civil and balanced as opposed to using your (bizarre and sad) power to enforce your own personal agenda? Isn't the point to be a neutral source of order rather than an openly biased censor? I don't believe that. Life is certainly harder for some than others. This is the nature of life. This is banal lip service, and also dodges the original question by reframing it as gender neutral. Do you agree or disagree with the following …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:06 PM
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It's because women need to believe that men are shallow pigs while women are complex and delicate butterflies with diverse interests and preferences. Women refuse to admit that their sexual preferences are every bit as shallow as men's...they need to keep selling the illusion that if they reject a man, it's strictly due to the fact that that man has a bad attitude and/or is a bad person. It's the very reason "lookism" and "heightism" are forbidden in this sub...it's all about selling the illusio…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:46 PM
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Does it not bother you at all that your very obvious agenda (bitterness toward men and bias against comments that imply life is more difficult in some ways for men than for women) ruins the diversity of discussion in this sub? To put it another way: why is it so impossible for you to believe that life, in some ways, is more difficult for men than it is for women? And how are you able to so casually flex that bias in this sub? "Show me links to prove it!" Let's not play games. We all know this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:18 PM
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19 year olds don't have money wtf are you talking about.....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:40 PM
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I mean, I'm not into that. But someone is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:27 AM
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Yes, it is a deep shame that some people choose to be awful, and it is very sad that people have directed some of that misery toward you. It's also a shame when people swear off an entire gender, race, or ethnicity. And it's a shame when the world's shittiness makes people bitter. Best of luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:15 AM
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I'm complaining about the double standard. If you want to celebrate hate, then celebrate equal opportunity hatred. But you seem to enjoy your little bubble where you get to decide who is worthy of hatred and who is not. It's too bad you live in a world that oppresses you so much. Best of luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 12:32 AM
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Misandrist hate speech is just as rampant as misogynistic hate speech, if not more so. It is acceptable and even hip to hate men...and it is no longer acceptable to hate women. People blame men, especially white men, for all the world's problems. These conversations always just devolve into a pissing contest about who is the most oppressed, who suffers the most, who is targeted the most by society. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:47 PM
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Both exist, yet you choose to focus on the shitty hateful ones. Have you ever said "ugh I want to light this place on fire!" or "ugh I want to run [so and so] over with my car!" If so, then you have "discussed illegal acts." Everyone "discusses illegal acts." That means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:09 PM
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This was super confusing to read and I'm not even sure what we're talking about anymore. The end goal for me is not to denigrate women but to have compassion for incel men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:58 PM
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He's literally claiming? Not figuratively? Way to be part of the problem. "Incels want to commit crimes because women won't hold their hands." Some of those dudes are gentle, shy, and normal, but will be left untouched for the rest of their lives. You sound bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:00 PM
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Yes, seriously dating a single parent is off the table for me. I'm not interested in being a stepdad. Also, bro was all that backstory about your ex really necessary for your main question?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:00 PM
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Yes but A. Men can be very clever at appearing to want more than just sex B. Having a million matches still produces the same illusion of infinite variety, whatever the intention of the men is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:29 PM
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How tall are you though?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:10 PM
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My girlfriend's grandma is 87, smokes cigarettes, and has no major health problems. So she disproves that cigarettes cause health problems. This is your logic^ When it comes to sociology (or frankly anything, really) there are always exceptions to rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:59 AM
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Ugh. Wish I was normal sized.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:50 AM
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How tall are you that 5'8 is your minimum? I'm genuinely asking btw, not trying to antagonize.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:42 AM
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Subconscious thinking that manifests as dating behavior doesn't require "a spreadsheet." OP is explaining natural behavior the same way a nature documentary would explain animal behavior. Girls who aren't interested will make you wait, too...usually forever 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:52 PM
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I didn't say "good," I said "safe." And okay, so why would a likely narcissist enjoy adventurous sex acts with the adulterating partner but not the husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:54 PM
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Okay, so they were in an unhealthy marriage. The bottom line is as soon as someone sexier came along all of a sudden these adventurous sex acts she hadn't been interested in became interesting to her. Plus read through the responses to the post...lots of other men with similar experiences. The safe man does not get the hot sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:50 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/Infidelity/comments/12r35iz/adventurous_sexual_acts_with_lover/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:42 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/Infidelity/comments/12r35iz/adventurous_sexual_acts_with_lover/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:42 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/Infidelity/comments/12r35iz/adventurous_sexual_acts_with_lover/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:42 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/Infidelity/comments/12r35iz/adventurous_sexual_acts_with_lover/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:37 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/Infidelity/comments/12r35iz/adventurous_sexual_acts_with_lover/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:37 AM
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That's absolutely the spirit of what is being asked here. If you had a functional brain you would know this. I'm pissed because of, as OP edited to say, all the lame blue pill "durr respect boundaries" answers that completely missed the point of the post. OP is clearly asking why women enjoy certain sex acts with some men but not others. Why would anyone ask "why do women not want to do sex acts that they don't enjoy?" That would be completely stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:10 PM
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I mean okay, if it takes a while relationship for a woman to decide she doesn't like an act that seems far-fetched but possible I guess. What if she does like the act, though? What if it's not a matter of her simply deciding she doesn't like something?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:33 AM
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Those reasons were not valid (other than the "casual sex vs marriage" reason) because they did not answer the original question. Of course if a woman doesn't enjoy a sex act or was coerced etc she's not going to want to repeat it. There is no mystery there. The mystery is, why would a woman enjoy certain sex acts with one lover but not with another. And for the record, this has never happened to me but I find the topic interesting. In fact, I have been the lover that the woman was more sexually …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:32 AM
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I seriously don't get how you're this dumb. My replies have been completely straightforward and have provided examples with support for each argument. I've already explained multiple times how your "answers" are unhelpful non-answers or deflections. If you're too stupid to comprehend what I'm saying then I'm not going to waste anymore time on you. Your worldview is narrow, your brain is small, and if you're employed at all I'd bet my savings that it's some weak, nobody job. Enjoy being a rigid f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:52 AM
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"The woman doesn't want to do the thing because she doesn't want to." Wow, what a fantastic contribution to the discussion. As I've repeatedly pointed out, all of your "answers" (except for one about certain sex acts not making sense in the context of a marriage. That was interesting.) have been deflections, male-blaming, or self-evident and obvious. Your agenda is simply that women control sex and men are just passengers subject to women's desires and preferences. I'm not saying there is a cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:04 AM
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Bro you're not sharing any insight at all. You're just repeating the same obvious, self-evident non-answers. "Maybe she doesn't like it," "maybe that sex act is associated with past trauma" or "maybe you're just an asshole" as talking points are neither insightful nor helpful. If she doesn't like it or it's associated with past trauma, then only a monster would ask her to engage in the act. No one would ask an online forum why a woman with a history of sexual trauma would not want to engage in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:54 PM
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Hooking up in public is not a sex crime 😄😄 As long as you're not intentionally trying to make people uncomfortable you're not going to be registered as a sex offender. Also what if the relationship was a year or two ago? When I was in my early 30s I was with a woman two years older than me who would give me blowjobs in my car, in the closet, etc. But I know that she didn't do those things with her next bf (close mutual friends told me that she misses our sex life and that she doesn't do that cra…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:40 PM
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Lol of course your answer is "because the guy is an idiot." You're a turbo feminazi. Besides, why would an enlightened goddess woman be in a relationship with such a douchebag, anyway? That pokes a pretty big hole in your theory. Why don't you play along with the real question: what if her current partner is not a big piece of shit? Why then would she be less interested in him (them being in a relationship and all) sexually than her ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:49 PM
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Oh look, you did exactly what I predicted you would do. We KNOW consent is all that matters. That was never even a question. So stop already! We posed this question to seek insight, not to give your turbo feminist agenda a forum. Why is it so hard to step outside of yourself and provide some perspective instead of just trumpeting the same female-centric message all the time? Why can't you see that men have feelings too, and maybe the reason that a woman had a more exciting sex life with a former…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:45 PM
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No, everyone is saying deflective or obvious answers like "maybe she didn't like the act" or "maybe the act was coercive or associated with trauma." Those are obvious answers and not at all insightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:14 PM
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If a woman was more aexually attracted to her ex than to her current partner, and her current partner asked, do you really think she would say "because I liked him more than I liked you." Of course not. That's why these forums exist...so people can find insights about their current situations. Then everyone posts a bunch of deflective non-answers like "maybe she didnt enjoy it or it was associated with trauma." Those answers are completely obvious and go without saying. The more mysterious quest…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:07 PM
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Bro why would someone write a post saying "duhhh why wouldn't a woman want to do sex acts that she doesn't enjoy?" That would make no sense...the answer to that is completely obvious. This post is clearly asking why a woman would enjoy certain sex acts with one man but not with another.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:02 PM
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I ignored the answers that were clearly part of the "sex is female-centric and men are just lucky to be there" agenda that so many people have been pushing with this post. I will say that your suggestion that a woman was willing to try certain sex acts in the context of casual sex but not in the context of a marriage is viable. And no, a woman probably wouldn't say, "this guy is beta so I'm not going to do adventurous sexual things with him." It wouldn't be some conscious, calculated decision. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:53 PM
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Right...her feelings about it just spontaneously changed. C'mon bro...that's pretty far-fetched.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:12 PM
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Nope. She was just frisky and enjoyed the naughtiness and the danger. It's weird how you're so focused on deflecting from the real issue: that it's painful for a dude to know that he arouses less sexual interest from his partner than his ex did.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:11 PM
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So you're saying if a girl used to give her ex bf blowjobs in public places, but doesn't do that with her current bf, then she just stopped liking it or the current bf isn't performing correctly. Yeah that makes a lot of sense. Why are so many women commenting on this post and dodging the question or giving lame bullshit answers?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 07:41 PM
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Jesus Christ why are you refusing to answer the question? Why do you just have to sit there and say "fuck ur question, the question shouldnt exist!!!" Let's say the sex act isn't necessarily that important, so it wasn't a deal breaker. But then you find out that she used to do said sex act all the time with her ex. That would be a painful revelation! So, the QUESTION IS: why are women more sexually adventurous with some men than with others? Please just ANSWER THE QUESTION. Fucks sakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:52 PM
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Bro...no one is asking "omg what do I do." We're asking why women more sexually adventurous with some men than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:39 PM
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Dude......NO ONE is asking anyone to do something they don't enjoy, stop jumping to that conclusion and making it some feminist issue. The question is, why are women more sexually adventurous with some partners but not others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:31 PM
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The reason why doesn't matter in the sense that consent is consent, obviously. But you're not being helpful in the context of this post...because to the man being reject, the reason why DOES matter. We're not asking, "if you did a sex act and hated it, why don't you keep doing it." We're not stupid, we obviously get that case. But what about a sex act that she enjoyed with her previous partner but not with her current partner, outside of current partner's dick being too big.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:27 PM
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Once again, you fail to comprehend. The post isn't asking what to do in this case. It's asking why would this case occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:25 PM
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Dude...we're not fuckin stupid, and no one is asking someone to do something they don't enjoy. If you read the rest of the post the subtext is pretty clear, bud. Why do women do certain sex acts with some men that they date but not others. Clearly women enjoy certain adventurous sex acts with some men and not others, so why?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:23 PM
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Jesus did you just not read the post? The question is, if she enjoyed doing it with her ex but not with you, what does that mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:35 PM
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You really missed the point of this post. Let's say she loved sucking her ex's dick but doesn't do it with you. Assuming that you're clean and groomed, it's obvious she was more into him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:33 PM
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Oh absolutely obesity is gross looking...but it's the result of a lifestyle. There is nothing shallow about being turned off by a lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:24 PM
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Hey dumbass, just because a woman isn't up to your physical standards doesn't mean she's going to spread her legs and be your fleshlight. Even a woman who wants to have fun with casual sex wants to be courted, treated with respect, and made to feel attractive. What do you think, that she's going to look at you and say to herself "well he's above average looking and I'm wet garbage, I'll just submit to his dick and thank him for his time?" Get fucked. But not literally.
/r/AntiFeminists01/02/23 08:54 PM
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While I agree that most of OPs post reads like incel whining, you are wrong about a couple things. First when it comes to height and attraction "entitlement," no one is saying that we are entitled to attraction. But it is brutal that for dudes under 5'9, most women would never even consider going on a first date...no matter how accomplished (emotionally, professionally, physically) they are. Imagine being born with a quality that most women think is a dealbreaker no matter how good of a person y…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:33 PM
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"All men" did I ever insult you? No, but you had no problem reminding me that I am an inferior male for no reason. You don't see that your behavior is part of the problem? That there are millions of short men who will never get a chance and your spiteful reminders just contribute more negativity and bitterness to this world? You don't think it would be valuable to rise above and break the cycle of emotional violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:36 AM
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I mean does it give you pleasure to be cruel to a stranger for no reason? Does it make you feel more valuable to act like you're some exclusive catch kicking inferior men to the curb? I can only imagine the motivation you have to say things like this. I don't go around telling ugly women that they'll never be good enough for most men...what would be the purpose of doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:50 AM
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No, but most women and most/all tall men are attractive enough that they would at least have a chance to date someone they like. Short guys are dismissed instantly by many women no matter what our character is. Imagine how bad that would suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:55 PM
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Imagine finding out that no matter what you do, most women will never find you attractive. No matter how fit you are, how successful you are, how well-adjusted you are, most women would never even go out with you on a first date because you were simply born short. Imagine how brutal of a reality that is. It sucks being invisible no matter how hard you work. And even worse, many women who like tall guys looooove to advertise it and even love to make short men feel worthless. "If ur under 5'10 don…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:52 PM
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