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I mean, if you can dance then you’ve got reason to be confident. If you are good looking and well done up, nice clothes, a lil bling, AND you can dance, or better both, or you are well hung and in great shape. I don’t see any other reasons to have confidence at the club, so if you do then you are a fraud. Which is fine.
/r/seduction21/11/21 08:56 PM
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I’m a rare breed who doesn’t have any problem with women who are more educated than I am. Mostly because I prefer them to be already 🤑. No poors!
/r/seduction21/11/21 08:47 PM
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⬆️🥱
/r/seduction21/11/21 08:44 PM
15

There is nothing you are gonna find here to make very attractive girls come to you. There’s a reason they don’t, and nothing here is going to change that.
/r/seduction21/11/21 08:43 PM
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It’s fantastic advice. The easiest way to get into conversations with girls is don’t try. That sounds like a snarky remark, but it’s true. You just go and love your life and do your thing, and then when moments appear that you have interactions with them you turn on some charm, be friendly, smile, joke… you know, just be you? Idk, this sub does like to push the “method” a lot. Frankly I think 90% of that is bullshit. There’s some good advice from time to time but most is common sense. Your insti…
/r/seduction21/11/21 08:41 PM
4

Ok, story time.
/r/seduction20/11/21 10:48 AM
1

Oooh, isn’t hinge like the getting married app?
/r/seduction20/11/21 10:48 AM
2

This is a post I sure don’t see much. Good luck to you.
/r/seduction20/11/21 10:31 AM
1

Well, try a rally or a book store instead of a library. My point is just that there are women out there that like solo men. It’s definitely not impossible for ya.
/r/seduction18/11/21 08:38 PM
5

Nah, you just gotta find your spot. Obviously it’s not gonna work well in a club. Try a library!
/r/seduction18/11/21 08:32 PM
2

What? There’s plenty of women who like quiet loner types. Those are the ones I prefer.
/r/seduction18/11/21 08:24 PM
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I’d just expect nothing if it, Keep it brief to the point where you aren’t putting in any work you don’t want to put in. If they are interested let them reach out to you, but make them do the work. Don’t chase, don’t “work” for the conversation. You know? Then, you don’t feel like you wasted your time. Chicks like to talk, idk about you but I find that to be work. Feel free to ignore their messages a bit and get back to them like once a day or something, or even less if there is no indication of…
/r/seduction18/11/21 08:12 PM
1

Can you blame em? Imagine life as a female. I bet 50% of my thoughts would literally be, is this guy trying to kill me?
/r/seduction18/11/21 07:18 PM
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Honest.
/r/seduction16/11/21 05:39 AM
2

Do it!
/r/seduction13/11/21 06:34 AM
8

I met this girl who wanted to blow me all over NYC, hot Asian girl, Chinese. She would just grab my hand and stick it down her pants and use it like a dildo. She’d have me come over to her house and take me to her roof and forcefully face fuck her in the moonlight. Midnight at the park, she’s blowing me on a park bench, midday too. It turned her on knowing people might see. She blew me at six flags on a roller coaster. Sex was ok, but she was AMAZING at bj. It was over in 6 weeks. You know why? …
/r/seduction13/11/21 06:22 AM
7

She gon rob you blind. I have no idea. Seriously though why are you so down on yourself? If she likes you why can’t you?
/r/seduction13/11/21 05:50 AM
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Once you’ve had sex and can anytime it kinda ceases to matter, at least imo. It’s just a thing like any other.
/r/seduction10/11/21 10:38 PM
1

Great, keep doing it. Ask every day to anyone that catches your eye! It’s only uphill from here! Or, downhill? Idk, all good things man.
/r/seduction10/11/21 06:21 AM
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Less alcohol, more sex, more wealth More vacations with beaches. Idk about you, that’s just my version. I imagine everyone is different.
/r/seduction08/11/21 10:43 PM
1

Why in the world would you want to be friends with a girl? This is just wrong. I think you are lying to yourself. You fuck the girls and friend the guys. You need to go back to class.
/r/seduction08/11/21 05:40 PM
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That’s the worst man. That’s worse than being fat imo. Your belly is the focal point of you, if you’ve got that bod. You gotta get that gut under control and anyone can do it. Gonna have to diet my man, because imo (not all may agree) but skinny body / fat belly is literally the worst body shape out there. You are insecure for a reason. It is natural and your instinct is correct. That fat belly is no good. Do something about it!
/r/seduction08/11/21 05:21 PM
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How would one know? I get compliments, even from men, and it’s the strangest thing to me because I just don’t think that way. Sometimes I wonder if I come off as an asshole, but I really don’t mean to. I just have never thought to compliment anyone’s looks unless it’s a girl I am interested in. How does one know if they have an attractive face? That’s a tough one imo. When I look at myself, I get no reading at all. Other people, yes I know what I like. But when I see me, it’s blank. Idk what I a…
/r/seduction08/11/21 05:20 PM
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This is a very real thing, and if you don’t acquiesce to the groups opinion of you, you’re going to lose your friends. Either fall into the bucket or fuck off basically. They need to feel that they have some control over you. For myself, I don’t give control to anyone so I frequently have to get new friends (which is ok). There’s no one around me right now that I feel is worthy of giving me even a minute of shit. I won’t let anyone take from me what I’ve earned. It’s a chore but fuck it. Love my…
/r/seduction08/11/21 05:17 PM
3

In that, you are not alone. You’re just isolated
/r/seduction08/11/21 05:07 PM
2

Well in that case then you are 100% you!
/r/seduction08/11/21 05:07 PM
1

There’s nothing so common in friendships that I have seen as people refusing to be friends with those they think have more than them. There are a TON of people who will only befriend people who they think are lesser than them in some way. In short, jealousy be real my friend. It’s very, very real… and most people suck at hiding it
/r/seduction08/11/21 05:05 PM
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Great answer!
/r/seduction06/11/21 08:59 PM
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Of course you can. It’s very unlikely to work if you put like you have here, but go for it.
/r/seduction06/11/21 08:08 PM
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Why would you want that?
/r/seduction04/11/21 06:26 AM
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No.
/r/seduction01/11/21 04:37 PM
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That’s quite rude. I wouldn’t be very interested in someone who had such a lack of awareness of how her actions appear to others.
/r/seduction31/10/21 06:50 AM
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Well, idk about salvaging this, but I did go drinking with a girl once who had actually asked me out. Everyone in the office was jealous. She proceeded to drink me under the table, pouring jagger down my throat and I didn’t want to look like a pussy so I kept taking it. This girl was a bonafide alcoholic. I was out of my league. We stayed till closing time and I knew I was in deep shit. She knew everyone in that bar by the way. Was pretty fun until I was blind drunk. Got back to her apartment, l…
/r/seduction31/10/21 12:04 AM
2

Danger, danger Will Robinson. Bad news. This will not end well.
/r/seduction30/10/21 08:04 PM
6

Ugh Spiritual death.
/r/seduction30/10/21 07:11 PM
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But the mental anguish is not really worth it, unless you really don’t care about people. Idk, ymmv but I can’t not feel something for someone I had sex with. If that person is in a bad state, it hurts me too.
/r/seduction30/10/21 07:10 PM
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I know one guy who does. I don’t. It’s honestly way too much work. He is a big time successful guy, has two businesses and is constantly working, never sleeps. More power too him. I like sleep though. I really enjoy doing absolutely nothing at times. Women are work imo. That’s fine, and it’s great. But, one is plenty for me.
/r/seduction30/10/21 08:06 AM
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Lol. This isn’t really all that much It’s simply going out of your way to talk with 10 girls for a few moments. It’s really not all that much, and I daresay the world would be a much better place for it. Your moral indignation is misplaced. If people want to be creeps, they’ll be creeps. There’s nothing inherent about talking to other women that makes it creepy. It’s actually quite normal. In any given day I talk to at least ten random women through my travels. The point of trying to make a date…
/r/seduction30/10/21 07:10 AM
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Ten a day is not really a lot. And the idea is just to get you out of your shell and comfortable making approaches, learning from it. I think there’s value in that.
/r/seduction30/10/21 03:24 AM
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None. The best is to politely go away, and do nothing about it. Live life in other areas and be semi-available for her if she asks, but not as much as before. Don’t be rude or a jerk or show that you are hurt, just go back to baseline and treat her like anyone else. Give what you get. That’s the best medicine. Seen it enough times, don’t ever pursue. That’s the wrong move. If she drifts further and doesn’t come back it was not meant to be. Ymmv, but it’s been a consistent theme in my group of fr…
/r/seduction29/10/21 05:25 PM
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Does she smile at you? Does she talk to you? Does she ever ask you a question? If the answer is yes to any of these… ask her kindly and interested, You’re very pretty. You have beautiful eyes. who are you seeing, who’s your boyfriend? Do I know him? Personally, I like that question better than are you seeing someone, idk y but it feels better coming out of my mouth and I assume she is seeing someone. It just feels less straightforward, even though it’s really the same goal. You want to know if s…
/r/seduction28/10/21 05:13 AM
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Idk, I think you might be overshooting your ability in looks. There are matches for any grade of face. If you are constantly looking at 7’a and you evaluate yourself a 4… well? That’s all I can think of. Beyond that, money does cover up a lot. Go for material success. Sucks but it is what it is. Physicality as well.
/r/seduction27/10/21 01:17 PM
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Get a hobby. Find friends. Go to a bar. Can be literally anything. Book reading club. Literally anything. Motorcycles, tattoos, movies, books, musical instrument, skiing… get the idea? Find other people to do stuff with and then meeting girls is so much easier. The simply fact is, girls are looking for you also. You just have to not be a schmuck. Seriously, it’s kinda that easy unless you are missing limbs. Just be a decent human being, not overly nice or strangely formal. Just act like you’d wa…
/r/seduction26/10/21 10:18 PM
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Pay attention to your standards. If you are shooting too high your gonna fail every time. Not a knock against you, but it doesn’t hurt to talk to girls you might not be terribly interested in. You don’t have to sleep with them just because you talked with them or even flirted a little.
/r/seduction26/10/21 07:21 PM
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I don’t know this for sure, but I honestly think it’s as simple as doing as many push ups/pull ups as you can per day, and then just being funny and kind when you meet women. That’s literally all I’ve ever done and I can always get laid. Have you tried it?
/r/seduction26/10/21 04:18 AM
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Why is that hard? You just start speaking. I think looking in the mirror and telling yourself you love you is gonna be necessary for a lotta folks here. Talking to girls is not hard. Take control, stay ahead of them in the conversation by asking questions. Control the conversation so that you direct the flow, but ask them questions and give them time to answer. Better if you talk about something you already know a little about and like. If you just have some natural interest in what they are say…
/r/seduction26/10/21 03:18 AM
1

Just own it man. You pity yourself too much. That’s all there is here. I’m sorry it hurts your feelings, really. You seem very thin skinned and need to swallow this information whole. You are someone who is weak and needs to buck up. Get more comfortable with criticism and rejection WITHOUT anger. There’s no reason on Earth for you to be walking around with such a chip on your shoulder. You have your five senses, your health, I assume your youth. That’s worth more than you can imagine. Value it …
/r/seduction25/10/21 07:55 PM
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It’s not superiority. Holy shit now you’re doing it to me ha ha ha. Jesus you have a pity problem.
/r/seduction25/10/21 05:10 PM
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What do you want me to say? He says, I don’t wanna sound like an incel and then goes on to sound like one for 3 full paragraphs. Should I lie?
/r/seduction25/10/21 05:09 PM
3

Your anger is going to ruin you. I can tell you, it is not justified anger. It’s going to destroy your life. If you hate them so much, simply stay away from them. Stop accepting their friendships and stop requesting their fucks every 9 months and you’ll have no reason to pity yourself. I find you gross, it’s true, but I’m giving you honest advice as to how to be better and happier. You’ve stated you hate them. Ok, move on. Your hate is yours, but it’s dead weight. They owe you nothing. THEY OWE …
/r/seduction25/10/21 05:23 AM
1

You sound like a total incel.
/r/seduction25/10/21 05:21 AM
0

This is the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever read and would get you arrested in probably a good deal of locales.
/r/seduction24/10/21 10:09 PM
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Yea but the rules change substantially. It becomes a much more strategic and long term game. And the stakes are far higher.
/r/seduction24/10/21 09:59 PM
1

Go somewhere else?
/r/seduction24/10/21 09:38 PM
1

Pretty much the primary reason men work out imo. And it really does work. Women are like men in that regard, they appreciate a nice body. Nice to be in shape and have a healthy lifestyle, but that’s the first thing I think of whenever someone says they have trouble attracting the opposite sex. They are probably out of shape.
/r/seduction24/10/21 06:27 AM
0

Grab her by the pussy. Wait, no sorry that’s how you get elected President. Whoops.
/r/seduction24/10/21 06:25 AM
1

Not that I’ve seen!
/r/seduction24/10/21 06:22 AM
3

Ok, ask her out. Edit: nvmnd, read comments and see she’s cheating. Agree, don’t be a jerk. Move on.
/r/seduction23/10/21 02:58 PM
6

You mean London? lol, wtf the capital of the England.
/r/seduction25/09/21 07:55 AM
1

I’d say more likely than not likely if you are slumming it, or near a ghetto. Do not wade into foreign waters and you should be fine.
/r/seduction25/09/21 07:54 AM
1

I have never thought about this ever. Where do you live and is it common for men to be robbed, raped, organs harvested, killed? I don’t think your fathers advice is bad, however. Only good things can come from waiting, all good things.
/r/seduction25/09/21 07:47 AM
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whatever you like. I prefer to have friends, then go to bar. the OP asked if other's judge him, the simple answer is yes. Other people judge us all the time. Is there a stigma against sitting in a bar alone? Yes. The end
/r/seduction21/09/21 06:15 PM
2

I'm already married, for 25 years. but congratulations? I don't need to go to a bar alone. Have I? yes. Am I afraid to sit in a bar alone. No. Do I enjoy it? no. why would I go and sit in a bar alone when there are many better places to meet women if you are solo? Bar's are for hanging out with friends. If I am at a bar alone there is a problem, and that's exactly how I view other people who sit a bar alone, all night. I guess I'm just not man enough to be alone in a bar, drinking by myself. wha…
/r/seduction21/09/21 06:11 PM
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to be fair, if I see guy sitting alone at the bar... I'm thinking something. there's no way around it. same for a woman, I'm thinking "why?" It's just the way it is. My advice to OP is get a friend and go together. It's always easier that way. You gotta be able to find a friend somewhere to go to a bar with you from time to time. They aren't that rare lol.
/r/seduction20/09/21 11:32 PM
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I'm always asleep during the day. Up all night, sleep all day!
/r/seduction18/09/21 02:25 AM
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cool, but who the hell is awake during the day? When you gonna sleep?
/r/seduction18/09/21 01:41 AM
3

Is this a real ? Yes, you can and should ask girls out on a college campus. There is nothing wrong and everything right with this. Probably not while you are in the bathroom with her, but everywhere else is ok. If you are in the bathroom with her, re-evaluate.
/r/seduction14/09/21 10:36 PM
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it's generally frowned upon as being too close to stalking, she's there to workout and probably not appreciative of being hit upon in her lulumon because you know, venue. That's my opinion, but you do you.
/r/seduction14/09/21 10:35 PM
1

money
/r/seduction14/09/21 10:15 PM
1

No.
/r/seduction13/09/21 04:53 PM
0

I’m just responding to you. I’m sorry it causes you anger. If you don’t want people to respond to you, perhaps don’t reply.
/r/seduction13/09/21 04:47 PM
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It took 3 seconds. Sorry, I don’t wait or look for your replies. Your hatred is palpable. Better take it easy. You’ve got a long day of trying to think up angry snarky replies ahead of you, and it’s only Monday.
/r/seduction13/09/21 03:26 PM
0

And what are you, Cheetos and Mountain Dew?
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:05 PM
0

No, I just eat less. I eat whatever the fuck I want. I just eat less. Try it.
/r/seduction13/09/21 04:05 AM
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Sure you do. You just close your eyes mouth, and not eat. It’s that easy.
/r/seduction12/09/21 10:07 PM
0

Jesus Christ. That’s a horrible thing if true. Have you tried a church? Seriously. I promise you there is someone out there who can get by it. You’re almost breaking my heart. I wish I could help you. I’d say stop trying to find something. Give up on that, and just start trying to do things that make your heart grow. Donate your time at a shelter Volunteer, anywhere and everywhere. I don’t have a better answer. I wish you strength. Also, consider plastic surgery. If it is that bad, it may be wor…
/r/seduction12/09/21 09:06 PM
5

For only 19.95/mo!
/r/seduction12/09/21 08:22 PM
1

Not inside the gym, no. But parking lot, lobby, that should be fine. Agree, inside the gym… no, no.
/r/seduction12/09/21 08:21 PM
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Go to NYC. You’ll have more pussy than you can deal with. Go to Asia, you’ll literally die buried in pussy. Just the way it is.
/r/seduction12/09/21 08:18 PM
1

How bad are yours looks? Are you deformed, have had an accident, or something else that screws up the symmetry of your face? I find this hard to believe as I’ve seen so many women with ugly men. What do you think is wrong with your looks?
/r/seduction12/09/21 08:17 PM
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Everyone can be pretty desirable with the right body weight. I find comments like this really underestimate people and show how little people want to work toward their goals and desires. Everyone on earth could be fit and look good if they wanted it. All you have to do is stop eating. It’s that simple. And yes, it is simple. You just make up your mind to not eat and then it’s done. So, nearly everyone can be an Instagram model. They choose not to.
/r/seduction12/09/21 08:16 PM
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Have you tried simply talking? I don’t think it’s possible for a woman to not get laid if she desires it. Regardless of your looks/weight… there’s probably ten guys within 5 minutes of you who’d be happy to screw, especially if it is just no strings attached. If the problem is you want a relationship. All you have to do is open your mouth and speak to men. Simply being nice to men makes them think you want them. It’s so easy it should be illegal.
/r/seduction12/09/21 08:13 PM
1

You won’t be alone forever, if it’s really that bad go to Vegas and pay a hooker. Go to a brothel if you have to, go to Vietnam. There’s pussy everywhere. Honestly, there’s just pussy - everywhere. Girls are easy. They will accept many different forms of payment for sex. Cash, status, your looks, there’s so many different ways to get laid. I’m just being honest here.
/r/seduction12/09/21 08:10 PM
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Yea, there’s a reason most guys are not friends with women who are not single. Sure you can be friends with your buddies girl, but it’s rare to be friends with women who aren’t single. Just had this really weird thought that men were nuclei and women electrons, this entire planet was a molecule. Do women revolve around men as electrons do a nucleus? Is the current state of our culture nuclear decay? Is this what reality looks like in a totally different perspective, say that of a nucleus? If a f…
/r/seduction02/09/21 08:47 PM
1

Not sure why you were dv It is observably true.
/r/seduction02/09/21 06:53 AM
7

It’s polite and saves face. We have a winner.
/r/seduction02/09/21 06:51 AM
5

Pretty much this. I hate to say it, but it’s reverse racism working in your favor. It’s just the way it is.
/r/seduction02/09/21 06:34 AM
1

Hinge, wow… that survived! Cool.
/r/seduction30/06/21 02:58 AM
2

Oh please. White knight more. No one said it is the goal. You make me ill, over the internet. That’s a true skill.
/r/seduction10/06/21 11:54 PM
1

Finally some very good commentary and excellent observations. I’ve seen a lot of shit in this sub... it is what it is, OK whatever But, this is solid gold Just run the numbers, eventually it’ll click, get on with life. It really is that simple. People are way too fuckin sensitive to rejection. Which means they are full of fear. Rejection is healthy. Yes it’s great if you never have to face it, but the reality is almost all of us do. Very few are gifted with everything at birth. So, face up to it…
/r/seduction10/06/21 11:51 PM
1

FU, u work on yourself. (April fools)
/r/seduction02/04/21 06:22 AM
2

Turn around and say something.
/r/seduction02/04/21 01:32 AM
2

Be kind, give her space, and just try slowly adding some conversation her way over time. If you get a nibble try and build on that a little bit at a time. This could take awhile. Think of trying to get a scared kitty cat out of it’s hiding place. Try not to end up in the friend zone. You gotta put some intentions out there early, but gently. Delicate situation I’d say. Probably will come a time where she rebukes you and you need to back off and politely ignore. If she comes back... you are in go…
/r/seduction01/04/21 10:49 PM
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Height, looks, body, money... it’s been studied to death. It really does work like that, all the rest is icing on the cake. Think about yourself? How do you “grade” women?
/r/seduction01/04/21 10:41 PM
4

Malls can be tough, but if you are looking good and with your friends it’s a little less intimidating I think. A single guy looking for a single girl in a mall, that is tough imo unless you have something special happening, even then it’s a bit tough. I feel like malls are more about showing off than actually picking up there. It’s a display of goods, much like the mall itself (no one actually buys anything there ha ha. We look and see what we want and get it elsewhere.)
/r/seduction01/04/21 10:37 PM
1

Sub is called seduction, not toxic bros. I think you got lost. I treat everyone respectfully, except people who don’t deserve it.
/r/seduction31/03/21 10:50 PM
1

I bet you do great. 🤢
/r/seduction31/03/21 10:43 PM
1

Single moms deserve love too. More than you, most likely.
/r/seduction31/03/21 10:37 PM
1

Literally anywhere girls are sold.
/r/seduction31/03/21 10:36 PM
1

Then ignore her. That’s rude. She’s teasing you. No need to be mean, just ignore.
/r/seduction31/03/21 09:44 AM
1

Lmao. “I am not a financial advisor.” “Sir, this is a Wendy’s” “Try this at your own risk.”
/r/seduction31/03/21 07:43 AM
1

You can’t. You cannot escape a black hole either. Some things are irreversible. You can make a second impression though.
/r/seduction31/03/21 07:40 AM
3

Man those incels are everywhere. Almost like magic, they just appear when someone needs an excuse for something.
/r/seduction31/03/21 12:03 AM
1

I’d rather not spend anymore time here. You know what you are.
/r/seduction31/03/21 12:01 AM
0

HA HA HA! Oh poor you. Where’s that... I was just kidding guys Reddit meme.
/r/seduction30/03/21 11:51 PM
2

Wait for it... here comes the insult. Oh there it is! “Hey, I can’t figure out why I’m always getting dv? Must be the incels. Can’t be that I always insult everyone every time I open my mouth? Nah, that’s def not it. It’s the incels brah.”
/r/seduction30/03/21 08:53 PM
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Welcome to Earth. First time?
/r/seduction30/03/21 08:51 PM
1

Maybe you are getting dv by people who disagree with you.
/r/seduction30/03/21 08:51 PM
1

I don’t think that people dislike being complemented on their looks... but it is dead end conversation. There’s nowhere to go with it but, thanks. You can’t really talk about how great you are and yes you have a body to die for, this face is amazing isn’t it... I’m so glad my parents weren’t ugly. It’s a dead end. All you can do is say thank you and move on. You are correct, complimenting fashion complements the person’s mind and choices which encourages conversation. Get ready though, have some…
/r/seduction30/03/21 08:50 PM
1

Hmm... let’s go with A: bar B: “So, how’s menopause treating you?”
/r/seduction30/03/21 08:51 AM
2

I don’t understand the question
/r/seduction30/03/21 07:33 AM
2

Depends on the girl.
/r/seduction30/03/21 07:26 AM
1

Some don’t care at all. And some find that infuriating... especially when their status is higher.
/r/seduction30/03/21 06:42 AM
2

Well... not to put you down, but I see a few problems here other than white girls not wanting the black mamba. 😉
/r/seduction29/03/21 02:35 AM
2

Try moving. If it is as you say, it should improve... if it doesn’t, looks like the first reply was right.
/r/seduction29/03/21 01:01 AM
1

Cocaine! Sry, wrong sub.
/r/seduction28/03/21 08:28 PM
3

Meh
/r/seduction28/03/21 08:08 PM
8

Police station? 👍🏻
/r/seduction28/03/21 07:31 PM
1

wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:25 PM
1

Sarcastic you mean? Always. But the welcome is heartfelt
/r/seduction28/03/21 12:07 PM
1

Well, welcome. I doubt you know anything less than the rest of the world.
/r/seduction28/03/21 12:03 PM
2

Ha ha ha... ok. I’m just confused why give advice though lol. I understand, you want to contribute an opinion. That’s sensible. It’s good. I just found it funny. All the best to you.
/r/seduction28/03/21 11:56 AM
1

Body positivity is stupid. Where’s the intellect positivity. When did we start shaming people for DOING WELL. This country deserves it’s current state. Ya dumb? Ya fat? Own it!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 06:06 AM
1

C’mon though. You just said it. What you are asking, how do I trick this girl. She knows you. Forget it. You do yourself a disservice goin that road IMO Don’t you think she will see through that? And, then you can’t be real. Doesn’t sound great to me.
/r/seduction28/03/21 06:04 AM
1

That’s why I’m easaaaay. (Ahh, ahh, ahh, ahh) I’m easy like Sunday mornin.... ya ee ya! Yea I may never have thought about this song again if not for you. Thnx, I guess.
/r/seduction28/03/21 06:02 AM
1

What are you giving advice foe then? 14yr, and a virgin. The guy is askin how to get laid. I’m confused here. Honestly OP, walk away. Not worth it IMO. Friend zone is just that, friend zone. Let her decide to change that, if she does and come back to you, great. But... ime it is not worth the effort. There are many others. You can let her know your feelings and probably should, but trying a conversion is a lot of work for little gains most times.
/r/seduction28/03/21 05:56 AM
1

Not gonna lie, 4 hrs is a bit much.
/r/seduction28/03/21 05:54 AM
1

I would say let her message you when she is back. If she does not, then whatever man. She wasn’t into you, move on.
/r/seduction28/03/21 04:55 AM
2

This guy gets it.
/r/seduction28/03/21 01:22 AM
3

Maybe he’s just nice, but confused. Why not enjoy it for whatever it is worth.
/r/seduction27/03/21 09:48 AM
2

What are you talking about. There’s loads of crappy guitarists that play frequently. I think that describes the majority. Most people suck at most things or at best are, average.
/r/seduction27/03/21 09:38 AM
3

Couldn’t agree more. Success is not well tolerated by the average.
/r/seduction27/03/21 02:11 AM
2

Excuse me lil sister, I want to put my pee pee in your hidey hole. That outta do it. Oh wait, NOT creepy. Ok don’t say that.
/r/seduction26/03/21 08:16 AM
1

This is a joke I think.
/r/seduction26/03/21 08:01 AM
1

That’s fucked up.
/r/seduction26/03/21 08:01 AM
5

Yikes. You sound hurt man. Talk it out.
/r/seduction26/03/21 07:47 AM
1

I would call this normal.
/r/seduction26/03/21 06:21 AM
5

They are meaningless, until they aren’t. Put no weight on them until something more significant happens.
/r/seduction26/03/21 06:20 AM
2

Then you are weird. I think I’m done here. You seem to think an awful lot about this. I’ve never been, but I think it’s a safe bet there’s much more to the entire country than pedophiles. I would definitely rather move to Thailand myself than any the other shitholes you mentioned. France? Please leave me alone now. Thnx.
/r/seduction26/03/21 03:47 AM
2

I don’t really care. I don’t have even the slightest reason to think what you’re writing is what is happening. My friend gets the benefit of the doubt. It’s a big country and I bet plenty of bad things happen everywhere.
/r/seduction26/03/21 03:37 AM
2

I know the guy and have met his family. Have drank with him and hung out with the fam, never once ever did I get that vibe, ever. He IS a teacher lol, but no I don't think we should jump to THAT conclusion simply because it's Thailand. I'd be much more suspecting he's into some kink that he can't get at home, but I'd truly be shocked if it was pedo. really don't wanna go there tbh.
/r/seduction26/03/21 01:23 AM
1

Yea, that’s really the only issue. Ain’t it? And in come the Japanese with sex robots ha ha.
/r/seduction25/03/21 07:31 PM
1

That’s because you have a conscience. Shame on you.
/r/seduction25/03/21 07:30 PM
3

You pay one way or the other, and that’s a fact. Men who don’t appreciate sex workers are fucking dumb. They are so wonderful people who are doing a service to the community. Tell me that a guy who goes and pays a few hundred dollars once a week or whatever is not getting the better deal. My man, that is cheap as chips compared to the family man whose whole entire life is taken up. Now, if you WANT that family - that’s the way to go. If you just want sex, you are screwing everyone including your…
/r/seduction25/03/21 07:12 PM
1

Idk where you are looking but there’s tons of hot girls selling sex. That’s definitely not the problem. Lots of good looking escorts. Perhaps you cannot afford though, that’s a legit concern I suppose. In any event, take a trip to a place like Amsterdam. See the sights. I haven’t been there and that’s an awful long way to go for some pussy, but you could try it. That doesn’t work if money is an issue, of course. Go to Nevada, if you’re feeling like buying American. I knew a guy who went to Thail…
/r/seduction25/03/21 10:39 AM
3

Have you ever met her? Could be fake. Could be a setup. I’d be wary if all you have is texts and pics. Lotta shit on interwebs is not what it appears.
/r/seduction25/03/21 06:41 AM
2

Dude, an hour away for puss I’m excited about would not be out of the question. I’d fuckin walk. Especially if it was a dry spell. Idk man, get some motivation. “Meh, she’s an hour away.” Je-sus.
/r/seduction25/03/21 06:41 AM
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They ought to just visit whores. The stigma is real, but honestly... think about it. It’s perfect. Whores are the best value in life. Get what you really want and skip the BS. Relationships / marriage is for people who want kids. If you don’t want kids and just want sex, there’s a million different avenues to get that without subjecting yourself to the BS of relationships.
/r/seduction25/03/21 06:27 AM
1

Maybe!
/r/seduction21/03/21 07:25 PM
2

If you know these things and you are comfortable with being solo then game on. If you want a relationship with another human, then change. Do, or do not. It’s going to all be ok when we are all in the ground anyway. I don’t understand all the hand wringing. Everything is a trade off. I bet you have a lot of free time to fuck around and do what you want to do. There’s gonna be less of that in a relationship. Maybe you think it is what you should want... but your actions in life say you want somet…
/r/seduction21/03/21 11:12 AM
1

well, you know your problems. work on it. if you don't want to work on it then, you know... suffer.
/r/seduction20/03/21 10:44 PM
1

this is the way
/r/seduction20/03/21 09:57 PM
1

exactly, it doesn't matter what the conversation is about. it can be anything.
/r/seduction20/03/21 09:17 PM
1

Yea, a lil. You say you know she is kinda a whore, but you are upset with her for it. But... you stated that you know this beforehand. You can set boundaries, sure. And she can ignore those boundaries. Why get angry? I think you are trying to create something out of this girl that she is not. Why not just fuck her and look for a relationship somewhere else. I have met and been with girls like this and there is nothing you can do. Some women do not value themselves and do not value anyone who tre…
/r/seduction20/03/21 09:13 PM
1

100%
/r/seduction20/03/21 09:08 PM
1

talk about what interests you, movies, how there's a shortage of computer parts... it doesn't really matter as long as you are engaged and funny. The convo is just the lighter fluid for the fire. Then let her talk and be attentive. Not crazy interested, but just be attentive and add a little something from time to time to show you are listening. Then take her for food or you know, get some drinks whatever.
/r/seduction20/03/21 09:05 PM
1

OK, I have no experience in most of the other countries in the world. I have some experience in Asia and think it's even easier than America... but ymmv for the rest of the world. I mean, if all you want is to get laid. Try Thailand.
/r/seduction20/03/21 08:59 PM
1

Of course they do. Does money make a difference, does height, does having a great group of pals? On the flip side, (I'm going to be crass) does a woman having a great rack or ass or a very nice demeanor, beautiful hair, pretty face vs butter face... does this make a difference? Of course it does. In many ways relationships are like transactions. They know you want sex, so what are you bringing to the table?
/r/seduction20/03/21 08:57 PM
1

upvoted
/r/seduction20/03/21 08:49 PM
1

Idk if you are fucking with me or not, but giving you benefit of the doubt. Listen, as a human... you just kinda come off really mean in the OP. Now I see that’s maybe not the case so I feel for you more. Idk the inner workings of your relationship and if the girl was DTF then you did no wrong imo. Regrets are regrets and if she has them, that is her fault, but no need to hate her. I haven’t seen anywhere that she’s done anything to hurt you. I don’t think that you need to be offended that she h…
/r/seduction20/03/21 09:16 AM
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100%. I can’t give you enough upvotes. Learn from this man. Stop whining and strategizing and go get interested in life. Girls are literally everywhere. Girls have like a form of gaydar. It’s specifically tuned to weed out men who are only trying to get in their pants. If that’s all you are doing it will be so much harder than it needs to be. Running is great, but so is horseback riding, bicycling, mountain climbing, rock wall, literally anything you can think of. I’ve seen plenty of girls at sc…
/r/seduction20/03/21 09:05 AM
2

C’mon man, any major city in America you can have a date in 2 hours if you have a cellphone. Dating apps are real. In the country, it’s harder. I’ve lived in both. In NYC you can have a date in 2 hours or less, every night. Constant 6’s and 7’s who are DTF. Bring a rain coat, every time. I go back and forth, and in the country yes it takes actually getting out there and meeting people. Believe it or not, go to church. It takes time though unless you just have a lucky day and meet a cashier at a …
/r/seduction20/03/21 08:43 AM
2

Whatever you say. All I see is a child in front of me. You could be 70 and it wouldn’t change anything.
/r/seduction20/03/21 08:33 AM
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Sry, I’ve lost interest in communicating with you. I’m telling you the truth. Lose the formula BS. That shit is toxic. Goodbye.
/r/seduction20/03/21 07:05 AM
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This is getting boring... all people on earth are attracted to fit bodies, people who are kind to them, and people with money - that does not a formula make, and yes... it really is that easy. You don’t need any idiotic formula or long winded advice. I’m not contradicting anything. You are making up statements and providing your own circular logic without actually paying any attention to what I’ve written. It’s boring now, we can leave this here. You don’t get it. Ok. See, you come off like a Gr…
/r/seduction20/03/21 06:49 AM
0

Are you serious? You think being in shape and not being a dick is a formula for dating? I’ve never watched a single video on dating in my life, so ya got me there. That’s just life. That’s just not being a shitbag. Don’t be fat, don’t be an ass, and have a job. That’s literally all you need to do, which most people call - life. I’ve as much to say on dating as anyone whose dated a few dozen women, married, and generally had zero issues doing it. It ain’t fucking hard. If you feel you need a form…
/r/seduction20/03/21 06:29 AM
1

Fair enough.
/r/seduction20/03/21 05:42 AM
5

I see your point man. You don’t want to be the guy at the gym that hits on everyone. Hmm, well... you could always just politely interrupt a select few. If It doesn’t work the first few times I’d quit while I was ahead. Maybe that’s not the best place then, if there is no opportunity. What about outside the gym... do you see anyone there you know? If you go with someone, can you play some co-Ed racket ball or something. There must be something there with the opportunity to meet some girls, rock …
/r/seduction20/03/21 05:36 AM
0

You can be a constant, but there’s no formula for women. They are all different human beings. You yourself are going to have qualities which are consistent, they will be different people. I’m saying that you won’t find a formula for dating. Yes, there are strategic moves you can make to improve your odds, but most of those are stupidly simple. Don’t have a gut, work out. Don’t be a dick, be nice, try to have a little humor. You know what I mean? I don’t want to come off like I’m trying to put an…
/r/seduction20/03/21 05:28 AM
2

I’m confused as to what I read here. Can you elaborate more, guy/guy, guy/girl, also... where are you from that you say lady friends ha ha.
/r/seduction20/03/21 03:31 AM
1

You sound like a fuckin prick and she was right to dump your ass. Either that or maybe you’re 13 and don’t know better. One or the other.
/r/seduction20/03/21 02:39 AM
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Pro: You’ve already got the 🍆 Con: with the women you meet there, it’s probably just going to be cooked and eaten.
/r/seduction20/03/21 02:34 AM
1

You got washboard abs? Put that on your Insta. Play any instruments? Also that. Grab a maschine or MPC, play it. Put that on there. Shit you can even put v games on their now. Dye your hair, and get some dental jewelry. Somebody likes that.
/r/seduction20/03/21 02:21 AM
8

GameStop. I’m kidding. AMC.
/r/seduction20/03/21 02:19 AM
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I mean, kinda. OP sounds a lil nervous and wanted to put the story out there in case he ends up dead we know who to blame. Don worry OP we got ya back. If you end up dead from scary FB face guy we’ll hunt em down. probably.
/r/seduction20/03/21 02:08 AM
0

That’s ridiculous, women aren’t npc ha ha! Each girl is different. If you are kind hearted, add a little humor, smile... and if you work out. How can you be single? It’s literally the easiest thing in the world to find a woman. They are everywhere. Not to be a dick, but why overthink this? Work your ass out, get some muscles, get a job, and just relax. That’s pretty much all you have to do. If you smile and genuinely be excited to meet a girl in front of you (and if you are not ugly or fat) many…
/r/seduction20/03/21 02:01 AM
6

Get into the gym, great advice. You will probably even meet someone there.
/r/seduction20/03/21 01:56 AM
3

Come on man, that’s bs. We’ve all done stupid shot somewhere. You have NO stories, outside of staring at a computer screen?
/r/seduction20/03/21 01:53 AM
2

Eh, success beats it. You don’t HAVE to fail. It’s ok to fail, but you don’t have to fail.
/r/seduction20/03/21 01:53 AM
1

Plenty of people do what they don’t love. In fact, I’d say most of the world does that.
/r/seduction20/03/21 01:51 AM
0

This one made me smile. 😆 This guy seems like the kinda guy who might end up visiting Asian massage parlors, and ends up on the news next. 😢 Yea... you might end up alone.
/r/seduction20/03/21 01:42 AM
1

So angry. That’s a powerful statement on it’s own. I could reply with insults back, but what’s the point. You’re hurt. I don’t want to hurt you, Ronin. You’re clearly hurt enough. I do believe we should try to be responsible for all around us... otherwise we are at the mercy of others. I don’t like that because it’s a recipe for failure.
/r/seduction20/03/21 01:36 AM
2

just stay away from the jagger and cinnamon goldschlager. (wretch) It's been 15 years and the thought of it will still turn my stomach, never again.
/r/seduction19/03/21 10:30 PM
0

Gotta have the upper hand. It's all in good fun, of course but you got the right idea imo.
/r/seduction19/03/21 10:26 PM
2

there are varying degrees of fool, but yea... it's risky. If you fail, you can lose status... not a good idea imho. At the very least, do not try it within the workplace. You can simply ask her out for drinks somewhere. If she says yes, you have a chance. If she says no, you spared yourself the humiliation and the inevitable background laughter. If you just like the look of her and you never much talk to this girl... I'd be wary of doing anything. It's probably all in your head. If you've had go…
/r/seduction19/03/21 10:07 PM
1

literally anything. women are in everything.What do you enjoy doing? Girls like art, music, trucks, guns, sports they are involved in everything.Many are at churches and into religion, they go to bars, they are at schools... they are almost annoyingly everywhere!
/r/seduction19/03/21 10:03 PM
2

meh, you don't speak for all women. There are many different types, but I agree... most women are decent human beings who just want to be with someone that they can love, who treats them kind and fair, who doesn't abuse them, and who they find to have something valuable (be it money, or looks, or a great character whatever).
/r/seduction19/03/21 10:02 PM
2

this. I guess some people think it is confidence, but it is just enjoying your own time with your own damn self. If you do that... guaranteed you will attract others.
/r/seduction19/03/21 10:00 PM
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I'm going against the grain, but I don't think it's all that important beyond having a good relaxed smile and good posture. I don't try to read tea leaves or smoke signals. If you are smiling at a girl and she smiles back, if you are feeling something from her... you'll know. If she's giving you a non-interested but polite cold shoulder, it's not happening. No big deal, you can keep lines of communication open if you are interested or just move on. There are definitely some girls that are confus…
/r/seduction19/03/21 09:59 PM
1

get a job and talk to people. you learn by doing. get a hobby and get out of the house. Every single interaction is a chance to improve your SS.
/r/seduction19/03/21 09:53 PM
2

These are actually excellent, and you can break it down to - do not make girls your priority, women want what they see in you. If you are good at something, it's much easier. I've always thought of it as, it's a lot easier to get in through the back door. I never want to go through the main entrance. It's always crowded, security up the ass, and generally a negative experience. Women are people, just like you are looking at her thinking damn I want that ass... she's looking at you and hopefully …
/r/seduction19/03/21 09:52 PM
2

that's fair. if she won't get off her ass for a free drink, then gtfo here
/r/seduction19/03/21 09:44 PM
5

exactly, I'd be wary of ascribing too much to someone asking you for a cig or a drink one time. Could be a nice opening. Reject that tiny thing and you look petty. If it is a pattern then I agree with OP, one time... ok, let's see where this goes. But I like your style even better, it's an opportunity to play around with her and have some conversational fun.
/r/seduction19/03/21 09:43 PM
3

It’s already over. You’ve thought about this 10,000,000x more than she ever will. Practice in the mirror a couple times, maybe get a haircut or trim your nose hair or what the fuck ever, clip your fingernails and just go over there and make an idiot of yourself. If she’s into idiots you’ll be ok. If not, well you’re probably not planing on keeping this job forever anyway.
/r/seduction19/03/21 08:18 PM
1

Life isn’t very complicated
/r/seduction19/03/21 11:12 AM
1

Awesome man! Good for you.
/r/seduction19/03/21 04:41 AM
2

It’s never too late man. I just saw a 70 year old professor married to a 35yr old who just had a son. It is never too late, as a man. You got nothin to worry about, if you have a career you’re straight.
/r/seduction18/03/21 10:13 PM
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“During the time I was over there I stopped caring whether I was getting any or not...” Probably the strongest indicator of whether you will in fact, get any. It’s just like the Chinese finger trap - the harder you push, the more they resist.
/r/seduction18/03/21 10:12 PM
0

What is the big deal. You find girl who is pretty/receptive, penis in, penis out. It’s not rocket science. That’s 9/10 of dating. Then, you just do the same shit you were doing alone only now you have somewhere to park that penis other than your hand. Too much agonizing over nothing.
/r/seduction18/03/21 09:50 PM
1

It’s amazing that people think like this... I need to see these women that are going to rob you blind and leave you stranded by the side of the road. Sounds like you are looking in the wrong places if all the women you see are robbers and thieves in waiting. What a world view. You have any nose left, after all that spite?
/r/seduction18/03/21 09:48 PM
0

Not partly their fault, all their fault. Men have to be responsible for everything around them. You can like it or leave it, but that’s the way it is.
/r/seduction18/03/21 09:46 PM
1

Nah, I agree with him. The guy sounds like he was divorced and not pleasantly, and is bitter about that. There’s some truth to his statements, but he doesn’t appear to see any of the other side. So, I agree with the guy above. He does seem to need to find some happiness in life.
/r/seduction18/03/21 09:45 PM
2

Fair point. At a certain age, it can feel that way. Families are popular for a reason, they give life purpose.
/r/seduction18/03/21 09:43 PM
1

Your going to fit in well in the nwo.
/r/seduction18/03/21 09:42 PM
1

Yep
/r/seduction18/03/21 09:40 PM
2

Being nice is good, unless that’s all you are. Then it’s bad. Different women are wired differently though. The dumber they are the less niceness they generally seem to tolerate. Insight is huge into how a person reacts. Someone with no insight into themselves is just running patterns they can’t even see. Girls like that, they get abused and don’t even know it. It’s sad if you have a heart, but honestly you can’t fix it and it’s too easy to settle in and just play the role she expects you to be.…
/r/seduction18/03/21 09:37 PM
2

Ha ha ha, maybe I’ll never be the womanizer I set out to be. Lol.
/r/seduction18/03/21 09:34 PM
3

Indeed, if you value your job.
/r/seduction18/03/21 09:32 PM
1

I’m gonna start by saying... what were you doing waiting until 29?! Also, and this is my bias... but I don’t believe long distance dating is even a thing. It’s in your mind. You aren’t actually dating anyone if all you do is video chat with them. I don’t want to hurt your feelings, but you sound too much in your own mind. Maybe you have changed that already, as your story is kinda a recollection of events. I think most people are not thinking as much as you. Sometimes it’s the people who think t…
/r/seduction18/03/21 09:31 PM
1

Some jobs are harder than others, but yea it fuckin is work for sure.
/r/seduction17/03/21 07:13 PM
1

Yea I can see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 10:37 AM
1

It really depends on who you are and what you are looking for. Attractiveness plays a huge part, but not all. If you want super hot 10/10. You need to be a 10, or have major money, millions. 8/10 Either be a 7,8,9 yourself or have the assets to make up the difference. Anything less on the attractiveness scale, now you are dealing in the personalities trade and depending on your looks depends on how much of a personality you need to have. There ARE exceptions to the rule, but this is the generall…
/r/seduction17/03/21 06:12 AM
3

Problem?
/r/seduction17/03/21 02:19 AM
9

I mean, I’m probably capable of cutting of a limb if trapped under a rock and dying. I wouldn’t say it’s a preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 01:00 AM
3

Yea idk. It was weird. Was definitely not an insult. He meant it as a compliment but I was unprepared. Idk what he was thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 10:12 PM
8

Back and forth, give and take... the ying & yang.
/r/seduction16/03/21 09:46 PM
0

Ok, after reading through a lot of the comments here. I had thought pop into my head and here it is. If you like to fuck women in the ass, does that make you gay? Part of me thinks no, the other part thinks yes. I’m honestly not sure myself how I feel about it. Also, are there gay men who do NOT like/perform anal sex? I truly don’t know, never thought to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 09:45 PM
6

There ain’t really much stigma these days, my friend. If anything you get an award for your bravery!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 09:42 PM
1

I had a guy I had just met, him and his wife, and the husband complimented my looks. I literally dropped my whole face and looked at him sideways, like wtf? It threw me, bad, and I didn’t know if it was fear or anger. I was confused. I think at the time I was kinda pissed because it was very unexpected. He said something along the lines of well look at that handsome face. All I can say is I did not like it. I am much, much more comfortable with people insulting me. To me, that’s home. I guess th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 09:36 PM
8

They are prettier, generally have less hairy bodies, smell better, and are completely non threatening.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 09:34 PM
2

Agree. I don’t like being within roughly 3ft of another man, even when they have clothes on. It’s a physical repulsion and my mind naturally starts thinking of violence. Obviously my higher order brain kicks in and I regulate those thoughts, but it is what it is. Get too close into another man’s space and it’s very uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 09:33 PM
2

What do you mean you’ve been bi ever since you were little?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 09:30 PM
6

Gross. Fuckin gross. No offense meant, you do you. (Gags)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 09:24 PM
11

Agree. I currently have no one in my orbit who identifies as bi. I’d say it’s rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 09:23 PM
2

Keep Busy. People who are busy have no time to feel bad.
/r/seduction16/03/21 09:22 PM
0

Cool man, but don’t be offended or surprised if you find that she in fact thinks you are not good enough. 😆 I mean, go for it. Always go for it. Let’s not pretend it’s as easy as simply appearing in front of someone with an air of confidence. That is merely the key that unlocks the door. The rest is needed as well. You talk the talk, now can you walk the walk.
/r/seduction16/03/21 09:21 PM
2

Eh, definitely true. Hot girls like to be impressed imo. Not all, but many. There’s a lot of girls out there who neither have the brains or the morals to wait for the strong and reasonable man to impress their intellect... which they have little of. No offense ladies, but there’s a reason there’s someone for everyone out there. I’ve found this tends to correlate with their general relative attractiveness, and inversely their intelligence.
/r/seduction16/03/21 09:18 PM
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That’s humanity in general, not just females. If people meet no resistance. There is no respect. That should not be construed as, be an asshole for no reason. But, politely stand up for your beliefs and don’t follow the crowd on everything.
/r/seduction16/03/21 09:17 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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