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Both are the terrible version of their sex Avoid them both… they’re not hard to identify
/r/MensRights16/09/23 10:44 PM
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Keep in mind, they all hate each other too If they were all left to a figure it out without men, the same hierarchy they blame men for would also form since the “alphas” ( I hate that word, but all I can think of to describe them) would take the reigns, and put the weaker ones in their place. A woman-led world only seems like a utopia now because they have a common enemy and scapegoat in men… they would turn on each other if we weren’t present I’m speaking in generalities, of course. Not all wom…
/r/MensRights17/08/23 05:49 PM
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Wrong
/r/MensRights17/08/23 05:38 PM
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I don’t do it when I can avoid it. I’m 40, and happily married. I don’t mind working with women, but I don’t have direct contact, and certainly do not want to be their supervisor, mentor, etc. In my experience, it doesn’t turn out well. I work in a high pressure industry ( transportation sales) and it’s a hard learning curve for both young men and women Young men either figure it out, move on, or you put them in performance plans to expedite their future. Women will fight you, make excuses, and …
/r/MensRights17/08/23 12:48 PM
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I have a friend who is going through something similar, he even lawyered up. He’s an idiot though, and keeps getting lured back in by her… every time she burns him with his own weakness Lawyer up as you have been told, but also stop speaking to her, her friends, and her family If you have “friends” that are in touch with both of you, cut them out too until things are final
/r/MensRights17/08/23 03:49 AM
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I think future generations have more promise than you make it out to be, but I agree that we are getting comfortable as men telling people to fuck off versus “being men” about situations we don’t like The people you are talking about will either come closer to the center, or will be alone in their own echo chambers
/r/MensRights05/08/23 10:28 PM
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I feel there are a lot or reasons you could point to, but keep in mind that most women will back-bite and take each other out in a heart beat for what they see as an opportunity. This includes snatching up one of those "terrible white men" if it means he's rich, famous, or can drastically improve their lot in life. I am generalizing of course, since I know personally of examples where this is not the case, but know of and have heard of far more others where it is. I don't feel that is as much on…
/r/MensRights01/08/23 09:43 PM
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You’re wrong… the debate isn’t metaphors, it’s you being incorrect Coaches pick the brain of other coaches and players who have achieved what they are looking to achieve Military leaders interrogate prisoners of war to gain an inside advantage companies hire people from their competitors they are chasing all the time Keep doing it your way if you want… it sounds like it is going well!
/r/MensRights30/07/23 10:53 PM
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Not the same…
/r/MensRights30/07/23 09:25 PM
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The idiots will drowned that out, but it’s a great message Learning how to be a man, and how to stand on your own as your own person is incredibly difficult. The “alpha” culture incels are just that, but the weak, feminine guys aren’t much better. It’s hard for a man to find their balance in society
/r/MensRights30/07/23 09:09 PM
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The movie addressed impossible societal standards for both men and women. It also addressed that a world imbalance to either sex doesn’t work It wasn’t my favorite money, but it wasn’t terrible, and didn’t have an “agenda”
/r/MensRights30/07/23 09:06 PM
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I know a girl who is a former friend going through this right now. She married the good looking rich guy who she broke up his engagement She immediately quit working, became the rich SATM who drinks wine and only hangs out with other like her… giving up everything since he hit the lottery. All of her poor friends were out 10 years later, he tanked his law practice, has been in and out of rehab for Coke, booze, and gambling, and they are divorced She now lives at her parents with her two kids. It…
/r/MensRights19/07/23 03:40 AM
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That’s a lot, but I am with you about not buying women drinks I bought my now wife drinks when we went out… as a couple on a date When I was dating, If you wanted to talk to me, then you would… I shouldn’t have to get you buzzed up to do it
/r/MensRights19/07/23 03:33 AM
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“Don’t try to understand women. Women understand women, and they hate each other Al Bundy
/r/MensRights19/07/23 03:30 AM
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Yes
/r/MensRights16/07/23 06:26 PM
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$45k plus a year. There’s also other options if you live in a larger city where servers make $100k Even if you don’t get those jobs, I would take the cut before work as a slave to support an ex
/r/MensRights16/07/23 05:02 PM
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Cash or pay apps too Maybe a check from time to time as well, but if you have a bank account, you can cash a check without a paper trail I’ve always low key wanted a landscaping business. I’ve always liked mowing, and being outside
/r/MensRights16/07/23 04:58 PM
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20 years ago, I made about $900 a week at a Chilis in a college town while going to school I wasn’t even a great bartender, but people like to drink and party on the weekends I also used to take the 3pm to close shift, and would charge other servers $20 each to roll their silverware Another approach is to landscape or start a landscaping business. I grew up next to a gym teacher who took a teachers salary, but had his own mowing business 8 months out of the year Best of both worlds, and he made …
/r/MensRights16/07/23 12:58 AM
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I’m not a judge or attorney, but have seen this happen with relatives… what a person earns is what they earn, and from the cases I personally know of, these people had their amounts adjusted The beauty of this is that they made more, but in cash tips, so they could do for their kids without the ex seeing the money first I hope it works out for him
/r/MensRights16/07/23 12:50 AM
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I wholly support paying child support and taking care of your kids, but permanent alimony is garbage If you work a cash job, you can do as much as you want for your kids, but aren’t force to go through the ex for any of it
/r/MensRights16/07/23 12:47 AM
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That irrelevant to the point though I made plenty of money bartending as a guy, often with a pretty girl Most places tip share
/r/MensRights15/07/23 04:06 PM
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If your friend called me and asked what to do, I would say to quit… quit it all Go move to be close to your kids, but get a job as a bartender or anything else where most of your money is made via cash Go to court, report the new job, and let the judge go from there. Men do get alimony and child support decreased because of a change in income Bartenders and waiters in big cities make good enough money to survive… some do really well. He can spend what he wants on his kids, but it won’t go to or …
/r/MensRights15/07/23 07:36 AM
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I friend of mine went through, and I remember him sharing all the details and challenges before they would do the surgery Thankfully, he was committed, and it changed his life. He dropped over 200lbs, but I think he has to lose around 30 lbs on his own before they would do the surgery I’m glad this is an option, since people who get 100 lbs or more overweight often times can’t make the changes to lose the weight in a healthy manner. I think also going the surgery route loops in the mental health…
/r/MensRights13/07/23 08:43 PM
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Well yeah… you can’t expect her to have accountability Morbidly obese ( which is probably more mental than anything, and she can and should get help), mom who definitely has too much say so ( another mental health issue she has) It’s no one’s fault but hers, and this dude needs to get away now if he hasn’t already I know people who have had this surgery… it’s tough, but they got on a treadmill and stopped eating to get where they needed to be, and it changed their life This woman’s probably stil…
/r/MensRights13/07/23 07:11 PM
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I wouldn’t be surprised, but that makes it even more unattainable to me. There isn’t a look worth having if doing juice is the price
/r/MensRights11/07/23 12:41 AM
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Don't you get it? She wanted to date a rich, famous guy and live that life, but also do exactly what she wants without responsibility or accountability ( with his money) ​ If he had a problem with that, then he is an emotionally abusive control freak /s
/r/MensRights10/07/23 06:16 PM
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Or she has a friend who is too intolerable to find her own relationship, so will convince her that you are no good either. I experienced this with an ex a long time ago. Her friend was a nightmare of a person, but it was everyone else who was wrong
/r/MensRights10/07/23 06:08 PM
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If you watch Always Sunny in Philadelphia, there is a season where Mac gets in amazing shape. Rob mcCelhenney plays the character, and did a great release about how much time, money, and discipline that went into becoming that way Basically, it’s unrealistic, and he wanted everyone to know that
/r/MensRights10/07/23 03:21 PM
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It’s a buzzword… men and women both use it as a blanket term when anyone has issue with them acting how they want. I was called insecure in college because I didn’t like my girlfriend getting “still awake” texts… surprise, surprise….she was a cheating whore
/r/MensRights10/07/23 06:06 AM
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Women don’t want to do these jobs, they just want to tell men how to do them I had a female supervisor at a previous job who was so consumed with me “respecting” her - i.e. doing what she says without question. She had never done my line of work… she was an old woman that was the owners best friend… that her “qualifications”
/r/MensRights09/07/23 08:23 PM
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“we want equality!” Fine, do as the men have to do, or get out “Not like this!”
/r/MensRights06/07/23 02:15 AM
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Goes both ways… some people are garbage I had an organ transplant. Like others, I had to move to the area of the transplant center to do pre-hab before the surgery, and to be close for the call A woman having the same procedure came over with her husband. They were there for 2 days when he called her from the road one morning saying he couldn’t “do this” Not only were we on deaths door, but you must have a caregiver with you since will need a driver, extensive care after the surgery, and someone…
/r/MensRights21/06/23 04:33 AM
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I think it’s a lot to do with a precedent too The US cannot go around showing the negotiate or will “trade” for everyone. If opens a lot of citizen abroad to kidnapping for ransom, as well as terrorist attacks As an American, you have to stay out of nations that are not in good terms with the US
/r/MensRights20/06/23 11:51 PM
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Stay out of countries that are enemies of the United States… period The money or any other appeal is not worth getting locked up forever, or your life
/r/MensRights20/06/23 11:48 PM
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Deleted previous comment due to reading more on my end. Paul may or may not have been a spy, but a trade has not been possible for whatever reason with Russia for him... unfortunate. Regardless, Griner was not worth the trade we made... She made a very stupid mistake, and we turned over someone that is far more dangerous to increase popularity with the current president.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 03:23 PM
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Nah, if he is a spy for our enemies, they can keep him
/r/MensRights20/06/23 01:48 PM
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A little more to the Marine who is locked up… he’s probably a spy But also, we should have not negotiated for Griner… she made an incredibly dumb choice, got locked up, and we traded an arms dealer for her
/r/MensRights20/06/23 05:19 AM
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I can’t say I recommend religion to anyone, but if you were struggling, I am glad you’re in a better place now
/r/MensRights07/06/23 03:35 AM
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Young men… ignore these fucking tools and their opinions There are plenty of worthless crazy women out there, there are also plenty of men the same way Ignore them too… only give your attention to people that are worthy of it You are being used for money and internet clout. They don’t care if their advice is right, relevant or destructive of your mental health and future relationships
/r/MensRights06/06/23 03:15 AM
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Is still pretty common, and in a lot of places other than the south: https://www.childrenshospital.org/treatments/circumcision#:~:text=Circumcision%20is%20quite%20common.,and%20lowest%20in%20the%20West.
/r/MensRights18/05/23 02:25 AM
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So I have heard I had a couple buddies who weren’t chopped, and we teased them a little, but both dated, got married, and it didn’t end up affecting them in any way negatively
/r/MensRights17/05/23 01:22 PM
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Science says there is no reason to do this for his health It might be difficult later on when his dong doesn’t look like other boys ( if that even comes up) and it may come up when he becomes sexually active, but that’s it It’s a choice, but certainly not necessary. Best of luck and congratulations
/r/MensRights17/05/23 04:49 AM
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I mean, you do need to wrap it unless you are 100% certain that if a pregnancy results from the encounter, you’re cool with raising the kid and at least co-parenting That protects you more than anyone. Too many variables for men in this scenario to not play it as safe as possible
/r/MensRights14/05/23 05:24 PM
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You’re right about genetics 100%, and hard work too ‘Roids can fuck you up long term in so many ways. It’s also luck of the draw too on them to where 1 guy may be fine, and another may develop side effects from acne to cancers or blood disorders The gym is great. Eating right, working out, and maximizing your naturally ability is 100% a good thing, but no one should get on juice unless a doc has prescribed it, and is monitoring you
/r/MensRights13/05/23 02:34 PM
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Right? He can do what he wants with his body, but no one looks like that naturally. I don’t understand how he made it as far as he did
/r/MensRights13/05/23 02:30 PM
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Body builders too Can cause irreparable damage to your kidneys. Its what put Flex Wheeler on the transplant list
/r/MensRights13/05/23 02:28 PM
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I like cleaning my house and cooking. Both of these are seen as "traditional" women's role's but fuck that. I like my house clean since it helps me burn energy and relax, and I also enjoy eating good food. Anyone that has shit to say, come over and enjoy a meal!
/r/MensRights21/12/22 05:00 PM
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A woman should never put herself in that position. My wife would never be a stay at home, and got her education so she wouldn’t have to It’s one of the reasons we are married; I didn’t want a dependent, I wanted a partner
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 03:22 AM
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The only friend I have who has this arrangement made the choice together since they didn’t want to pay for help or childcare. What the wife did do, and the money she saved was significant, but it again was a joint decision to save both of them money and free time when not working It should also be noted in their case, she kept the house spotless, did all the domestic errands, and raised the children, which can be a lot if those jobs are actually performed
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/22 03:20 AM
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Some people always have drama for a reason Drama doesn’t randomly pick and sit on certain people, rather certain people attract it That plus what your friend said? Watch your step or move on entirely. It’s only a matter of time before you’re pulled into something you don’t want to be apart of
/r/MensRights17/12/22 11:03 PM
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They don't watch... They are instead mad at men because we don't watch or go to games. They suspend reality, or don't know how economics work. It all starts with the fans and eyeballs. If people watched their sub-par product, the salaries, endorsements, and TV Revenue would be there, but it is not... and there is a perfectly logical reason for it.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 04:11 PM
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Griners going to be much more wealthy from this Interviews, a book, maybe movie, and the sports channels will be forcing the WNBA on everyone even harder once she returns to the court
/r/MensRights09/12/22 07:24 AM
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She is very talented, but also lacks awareness.... Sigourney Weaver & Linda Hamilton... sit down Jennifer
/r/MensRights08/12/22 05:48 PM
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Good article. I love how the industry needs to adjust… not women need to make the decision up front to not take on a career that is not conducive to having kids
/r/MensRights02/12/22 03:59 PM
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You should probably let HR know this is happening. She’s obviously done at your company, and you need your time to focus, as well as be protected
/r/MensRights02/12/22 03:53 PM
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I will say, I jumped into sales since it was more cash, and advancement was faster. Now I am more back on the admin side since I am head of sales for a smaller company. My point is, Its my opinion men do this too, but jump from one harder / more stressful position or industry to another for opportunity, while women will take an easier path if given an option To be fair, I think it’s more of a draw for women to be more free due to kids, or leave work entirely if they have the option as a whole, b…
/r/MensRights02/12/22 09:45 AM
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What’s crazy is the women I graduated with in my major (Bus. Mgmt w/ minor in accounting and finance) I’ll see from time to time on LinkedIn or my college newsletter Most of them are out of the fields and into something like HR.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 09:32 AM
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Thanks man. It’s not been easy, but worth it!
/r/MensRights02/12/22 09:29 AM
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I think you could argue there are a lot of people in general that would quit jobs tomorrow if they had someone to support them, and didn’t have to work It’s just women can find this much easier than men, or at least speaking specifically to becoming a stay at home spouse who takes care of kids, most men would never want that, and least not compared to most women
/r/MensRights02/12/22 08:22 AM
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Women I don’t feel will pack up and leave a job for a promotion or raise like men will. Could be several legitimate reasons for this, but from what I have personally experienced, it’s accurate A man will jet if they think they can do better, or advance their career if another company or even profession has more promise
/r/MensRights02/12/22 08:07 AM
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Just an observation of mine. I have CF, and have had 2 organ transplants, as well as conditions deriving from the aforementioned I actually prefer women physicians because they are more diligent, will follow up, and will listen to me as the patient in general more than their male counterparts Met and seen a ton of nurses who literally know nothing on my conditions, will ask inappropriate questions, will self-diagnose, and bag on their colleagues and the docs I was hospitalized for 3 weeks after …
/r/MensRights02/12/22 06:38 AM
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An argument without reason or logic doesn’t win against most judges A courtroom is a lot different than the return counter @ Target
/r/MensRights02/12/22 06:17 AM
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Just ask Elizabeth Holmes!
/r/MensRights02/12/22 06:13 AM
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High pressure jobs that require high commitment have no choice but to leave you behind. I ran into that when I had to take FMLA due to illness Could someone be a public defender or in-house council? Probably, but working at a high level firm is just like this
/r/MensRights02/12/22 06:12 AM
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I said this to my wife… there’s been real, horrid things happen to women in the workplace from men in positions of power, but there’s been a ton of made-up scenarios too Last time I worked in an office, we had a woman who had filed multiple claims, and they simply weren’t true She ended up isolated since no one wanted their career tarnished, and eventually got fired for not making numbers
/r/MensRights02/12/22 06:09 AM
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Not the doctors, but nurses for sure ( unless you’re talking about the nurses who are crazy as shit, and more like hair dressers with degrees) I’ve had many female physicians for my many conditions who have been excellent Nurses, not so much… they are fishing for a man
/r/MensRights02/12/22 06:07 AM
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It’s not balanced from a gender point, but men typically are the ones in STEM and the business / math disciplines Women do the arts and soft sciences…
/r/MensRights02/12/22 06:05 AM
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I would argue women who make $200k per year don’t leave their careers generally Not all attorneys make that kind of money, especially the ones that will go to those lengths, then quit their professions The ones I know that did this got into law, saw the grind it takes, and either bounced around until they found a way to quit, and weren’t that committed to begin with Making good money is either 1) hard, 2) you’re a scammer, or 3) a little bit of both
/r/MensRights02/12/22 06:02 AM
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I lean left, and this is 100% true Just like all conservatives aren’t Trump Trash, all libs aren’t void of logic and reason
/r/MensRights02/12/22 05:58 AM
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My wife makes good money with what she does, but she picked her path in education because ( her words) “I wanted to do as little math as possible” It worked out for her, and I know this isn’t all women, but she’s not the first person I have heard say this
/r/MensRights02/12/22 05:56 AM
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No gender pay gap.. I used to believe in this, then you realize that it’s more about women not negotiating their salaries like most men do, or how jobs women tend to take more than men ( HR, doctors office admin, teaching, etc) simply pay less versus sales, management, or high end trades Both sexes have to be careful not to get screwed by a tight ass corporation, but I have interviewed and hired several men and women… men will discuss this and push back if they feel there’s more money to be had,…
/r/MensRights02/12/22 05:53 AM
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A lot of them get their degrees, get married, and stop working for various reason I know three women that did this. 2 are SAHMs, and the other works a government desk job due to the “stress”
/r/MensRights02/12/22 05:48 AM
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You don’t have to help anyone that’s doesn’t want help… man or woman. I would make a phone call for someone (not give them my phone) or call authorities if they were in danger, but that’s as far as I go If I offer like OP did, and got told no, that would be the end of it
/r/MensRights05/11/22 03:50 PM
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https://m.imdb.com/title/tt10680614/ Wife wanted to watch it. We normally agree on TV, but I refused to watch this one. Pedophiles belong in prison… man or woman. Even if this kid was 18, it’s an abuse of power and taking advantage of a “child” These are 73% rated on rotten tomatoes as a drama if it’s a man… it’s on the local news, and he is labeled (rightfully so) as a predator
/r/MensRights27/10/22 02:20 PM
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The teacher… it was on FX
/r/MensRights26/10/22 11:35 AM
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That’s it Did tender before I met my wife, and had significant luck ( I am average looking in a good day) It’s a game. You can’t fall in love with these women because that’s not what most of them are necessarily looking for. That takes time.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 05:15 AM
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This is like the “Bros” movie saga Billy Eichner has been going on about If you don’t like something just because of it including women or LGBTQ people, you’re an idiot, but people can have opinions, and chose what entertainment they want to consume Maybe they just aren’t good 🤷‍♂️
/r/MensRights06/10/22 08:49 PM
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He’s probably going to make more after football than he did in football???
/r/MensRights06/10/22 05:41 AM
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My wife and I were discussing this. With Brady to walk back to the NFL and risk his personal life, it’s like an addiction. Nothing else left to do, but he will never see that There could be more to the story, but assuming there isn’t, it’s the same insane drive that made him successful finally coming to collect
/r/MensRights06/10/22 05:40 AM
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Tom Brady also has a huge TV contract to walk into that was when he signed it, more than he has made in all his NFL contracts combined Money is not the motivator here
/r/MensRights06/10/22 05:32 AM
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You’re one of those people that stand outside and harass women going into abortion clinics, aren’t you?
/r/MensRights01/10/22 07:42 AM
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You don’t want to be a father, and if you’re not ready to be a father, you’re doing more harm than good. Super tough call, but you have forever to be a dad if you want to some day… even if it is with your current girl down the road
/r/MensRights01/10/22 07:41 AM
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But.. but… that’s not fair!!! /s
/r/MensRights01/10/22 07:38 AM
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She doesn’t take her birth control for 2 months, and did tell him she was taking it, and knows how important it is to him. You’re the favorite to win a gold medal at mental gymnastics right now
/r/MensRights29/09/22 06:43 PM
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**fetus You don’t consider the eggs in your refrigerator chickens, do you?
/r/MensRights29/09/22 06:14 PM
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So you know it was “unplanned” and an “accident”, but at the same time there is no way this could be labeled a mistake? Are you a religious nut, an irrational feminist, or just stupid? She didn’t make a mistake or mess up taking her pill… she didn’t take it, and lied about it. Nothing else you said is relevant compared to what OP said… you’re fishing for reasons to be correct and defend this woman… on a men’s rights subreddit. Again, he trusted what she said for weeks, and she lied… there’s zero…
/r/MensRights29/09/22 03:56 AM
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That’s fair, but she did lie to him about taking them for an extended period of time, and she also knew he chose not to protect himself for her since she didn’t like condoms. If she didn’t plan this and trap him as you claim, then it is certainly a mistake. If she trapped him ( and you’re right, I don’t know that 💯) she is a monster
/r/MensRights29/09/22 03:48 AM
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Wrong. Someone not ready to bring a child they want into the world, or someone that was lied to and trapped is a mistake on that persons part since he could have done more to protect himself. It doesn’t get re-worded because it’s a fetus. OP did not want a child, was clear about that, and unfortunately got trapped by what seems like an unstable person
/r/MensRights29/09/22 03:43 AM
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If he did not want to be a father, it is
/r/MensRights29/09/22 03:35 AM
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Almost 10 years ago, when Uber came to my hometown, I would drive on weekends since it was a big SEC football school college town Before and after the games, the rates would surge. I could make $1500 bucks during a whole day, and even take time off to watch the game since no one was going anywhere The amount of people that would order a ride from the app, get in, and insist on paying cash, trying to convince me that “ it was a better deal” was high. People are dumb
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/22 06:02 PM
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You do not get involved in others drama… period. White people, especially white women tend to do this, but regardless of sex or skin color, it’s incredibly dangerous. It’s 2022. There are legit insane people who are out and about in the world, and you may not know how crazy they are until it’s too late
/r/MensRights30/07/22 04:10 AM
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I tell my wife all the time that if I were ever to wake up, and just be bleeding out of my penis, and that didn’t stop for 5 days?!? The last way I would handle it is to casually go to the bathroom, address it, and then make sure I got to the grocery store for tampons in the next day or two
/r/MensRights16/07/22 05:03 PM
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6'1" here. Not super tall, but I sleep on my stomach with my arms over my head. This means I usually hang my feet off most mattresses... I told my wife we cant have a footboard for this reason.
/r/MensRights09/05/21 11:39 PM
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